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00:01OK, now I'm getting bugs.
00:05En route to the unique retreat are Lauren and Tom from Exeter.
00:11It kind of feels like, you know when you go on a really, really scary roller coaster right before you're about to drop?
00:17Their relationship goes back to when they were teenagers.
00:20We've known each other for 16 years.
00:22Lauren's brother is one of my best mates and now I can't talk about women issues with him.
00:28Just three months ago, Tom's dreams came true when he proposed.
00:33Look at that rock on your finger.
00:35She just makes me basically. She keeps me on my feet, definitely.
00:40The couple's passion for one another extends to their sex lives.
00:45I'm a huge adrenaline junkie and when it comes to sex life, the same.
00:50Tom fully understands what I'm like and to be honest, joins me.
00:54Yeah, if I could, I'd have sex all the time. I love it.
00:59The frisky couple have already attempted to open up their relationship, but with disastrous consequences.
01:06I really, really wanted to be able to explore whether that's a couple swap or just get a woman.
01:11We kind of explored it a little bit, but Tom really struggled.
01:18Yeah.
01:20I feel like I'm chomping at the bit to be open because I don't want to be with just the one person for the rest of my life.
01:26With its non-monogamy coach and experienced residents, Lauren and Tom are hoping the retreat is the answer to their problems.
01:44How you guys doing, alright?
01:47We're a good-looking couple.
01:49Yeah.
01:50You look lovely.
01:51Very lovely.
01:52Hi guys, you alright?
01:53Hey!
01:54Come on, love your show, it almost matches.
01:59Yeah, these guys look fit.
02:00One girl, a bit of you.
02:02I'm excited but nervous.
02:09Oh, I'm nervous now, yeah.
02:10Definitely nervous now.
02:12I'm so excited to be here.
02:14I really am.
02:15I am like, come on.
02:17Yes, it's throwing Tom in at the deep end, but sometimes I think that's what people need, it's just a real big push.
02:25Guiding couples on their journey.
02:27Hello, come in.
02:28Is the retreat's non-monogamy coach, Effie Blue.
02:33Take a seat.
02:34I would love to know what brings you to this retreat.
02:37So, me and Tom had been together for about a year.
02:40I was terrified but brought up the conversation with him about going open.
02:45I've tried in my life to be with a woman, to be with a man, and always felt if I was with one or the other that I wasn't complete.
02:51We have tried opening up the relationship and had issues, which is obviously why we're here today.
03:02Do you want to tell me a little bit about that?
03:04I panic when it comes to actual performing.
03:07Mm-mm.
03:08I've basically got hard midway having sex, and then it has just gone soft.
03:16When your penis doesn't work, it doesn't work.
03:19If it's with another female, like, she thinks she's done something wrong, and it's not that at all, and then that's, for me, game over.
03:29I'm stuck in a rut on the fact that I can't, I can't get him up, I can't perform, and it's like, shit, again, I'm feeling a bit, I'm feeling like crap.
03:42I'm curious, does this impact sex with Lauren?
03:46There's been a couple of times, there's been in the past even with Lauren herself, but not multiple times.
03:51I'm more relaxed, I'm more chilled, and I can perform.
03:54When you've attempted to open up with other women, what is the story in your head?
04:00I can't take the top off. I absolutely hate looking at myself.
04:05I think what's really bad is I don't love myself.
04:09When I first met Tom, he was a really cheeky chappy.
04:13Then Tom got his heart diagnosis, and, yeah, it had a huge impact, mainly on Tom.
04:19It was terrifying.
04:20The doctors basically told me that I had sudden death syndrome, so that means I can drop down and die at any point.
04:28It was so, so scary.
04:30He got really down, he obviously put on a lot of weight, because he wasn't allowed to work out.
04:35Because of being such an energetic person, going to the gym all the time, looking after myself, and doing all of that, it's basically, well, it just went down the drain.
04:45You have a terrible relationship with your body.
04:46Yeah, definitely.
04:47Definitely.
04:48It's like you're not going to get a hard-on, because you might be mentally aroused, but you're not physically aroused.
04:58Hey, you're okay?
04:59Yeah, I'm good.
05:00I wasn't expecting that.
05:01Do you want to tell me what's going through your mind right now?
05:14The fact that I'm just, I've stopped in my path, and just let myself go.
05:19So, it feels like there's a lot riding on this, right? Because I feel like your anxiety is getting in the way of you potentially opening up.
05:32Which is kind of what Lauren wants, and I imagine you feel the pressure of that.
05:40It's what I want as well.
05:43Lauren, what do you want to achieve? What would be your ideal situation?
05:47I would love to be able to, obviously, couple swap.
05:50And also, I've never had more than two men at once, and it's always been a fantasy of mine.
05:57Mm-hmm.
05:58And the same for women as well.
05:59Yeah.
06:00But obviously, we need to get to the bottom of whatever this is.
06:04Sure, yeah, no, exactly.
06:05Hopefully, here is the place we can help you get over those things.
06:09Starting with a good old party.
06:11Tonight is about taking the lead.
06:13Why don't you kind of let your hair down and relaxed, right?
06:16I would love, Tom, for you to pick some people and invite them to somewhere cozy for a sensual group experience.
06:26This is about sensuality.
06:28That's about cuddles and touches.
06:32I want you to focus on one person.
06:35And I want you to focus on how the person that you're touching, how you're giving them pleasure through touch and through caressing.
06:42Because I want you to ease into that sexual space without it feeling like it's all about your dick getting hard.
06:51And then, be open to things escalating.
06:57That's the part that I get a bit, wow.
06:59When we say escalating, we don't always mean straight to sex.
07:03Yeah.
07:04Right.
07:05Right, okay.
07:06It sounds really exciting.
07:07Beautiful.
07:08Yeah.
07:09If you want to make something better.
07:11A little bit on my line.
07:12Okay.
07:15To identify with your inaudible 00320,000,000,000,000,000-a-large fit, he's fine.
07:16Tom has a bit of work to do because his issues are mostly on his head.
07:21So the exercise today is to get him into the present feeling what pleasure looks like and to be more embodied.
07:27If you could just think about that he doesn't need a hard penis, it's amazing how quickly one will appear.
07:35I do worry for me and Lauren because if I can't if I can't do the whole open
07:46relationship I feel like we go our separate ways I'm hoping it won't get to
07:51that stage previously on open house ultimately why we're here is
08:04to bring in another couple but I've got to be okay with Alex being with another
08:11woman what's at stake is Alana's like feelings and emotions I've been cheated
08:18on quite a lot I've seen women is more of a threat so we kind of want you to face
08:24that threats would you be open to finding a woman for a little sexy threesome that
08:32scenario wasn't in my head don't want to do it like I want to live if this is
08:38gonna work it has to be the right person who Alex is sitting with now is Georgie
08:44he's gorgeous would you like to come and spend some time in what's up with us if
08:51it does go wrong is it something I'd be able to get over I did not think this is
09:05where we're gonna be on like our first night and here you are this would have
09:08literally been my worst nightmare really if someone was like how would you feel
09:12about doing this I'll be like no you we didn't think that we would be in a hot tub
09:16with me how would you feel if I gave Alex a little kiss
09:27how do you feel I'm okay yeah in that moment watching Alex and Georgie kiss I
09:44thought I thought oh no how did that make you feel like fine I was like yeah look almost a bit turned on by it
10:11I really want you on me can I like can you on me I can't believe this are you proud of me
10:21are you proud of me yeah like what the hell yeah I've never seen Alana kiss another woman I knew it's part of her life like long long ago but to see that like
10:29reopen that door was such a huge turn on for me to see that it was like really hot
10:35oh my god I'm obsessed stop it can I just take you home with us
10:39well it all flowed very naturally
10:57I honestly don't know what's happening right now I feel like this is normal
11:15I think like if things are feeling good do you maybe want to come back to our room
11:25I would love that yeah just explore things a little bit more
11:29take the next step we'll do baby steps
11:32let's do it
11:33I didn't think that was going to be a thing at all to bring in like a single female I thought that would be way too intimidating
11:41I was really glad I was below water because I was really turned up
11:45yeah
11:49yeah like this has been insane
11:51honestly I can't believe what like it's such a change
11:53you wouldn't can do anything and now we're inviting
11:57we have to come back to our room
11:59to our room
12:01oh my god that's short short
12:15oh no I did say my ass like eats them
12:19new arrivals Lauren and Tom are preparing for a big night
12:23they'll be attending a sexy barn dance
12:29where they hope to meet residents who could help Tom overcome his physical stumbling block
12:35when it comes to opening up
12:37whenever we've dipped our toes into being open
12:43Tom felt he just couldn't perform felt really uncomfortable
12:47they've been tasked with finding residents interested in joining them for a group experience
12:55where the focus is only on foreplay
12:57hey
12:59what
13:01with no pressure to perform
13:03the hope is Tom will relax and rise to the occasion
13:07I do foresee hurdles
13:09the residents are all very beautiful
13:11the problem with that is obviously Tom being body conscious
13:15if I went there on my own I think I'd probably walk straight back out
13:29how are you guys feeling?
13:31yeah great
13:33shit scared
13:35this is out of my comfort zone
13:49the heart palpitations I've got right now are through the room
13:57so what we're gonna do is we're gonna go around and we're gonna talk to them
14:01I feel sick inside I don't think I can
14:03okay so listen there's no pressure that's what we're saying
14:05like let's just give it a really good go
14:07this is what we're here for
14:09first to meet them are married couple Jem and Daz
14:13what are you looking for then?
14:15that's the question
14:17so for me you need I need that conversation
14:19yeah
14:21and for you it's obviously just about feeling body confident around
14:23yeah I'm a bit yeah
14:25just lacking in confidence a little bit
14:27that's understandable
14:29you know it's really nerve-cracking
14:31if there's any environment where personality matters more than looks
14:35it's this environment
14:37we'd love to chat to them and try and help them with their journey
14:39hello you alright? I'm Tom
14:41how you doing me? alright?
14:43I'm Gaze, this is my wife Olivia
14:45what's your dynamic?
14:47so we, when we find it
14:49it's a big word that is
14:51dynamic
14:53we've dabbled in it before
14:55we're really good at reading people's body language
14:57and kind of like how they're feeling
14:59you know when someone's nervous
15:01and you know when someone's a little bit scared
15:03but when you have that you know responsibility to kind of
15:05give them that first good impression of the lifestyle
15:07you want to make it the best
15:09I used to be like really like
15:11outgoing, going gym seven days
15:13I used to have like the abs
15:15and I'd basically comfort eat and drink
15:17and of course I put on the weight now so
15:19you can just like kiss and you can like
15:21you can go down on them
15:23and you can touch them
15:25and you don't necessarily just have the build up
15:27but I think it is the power mentality
15:29you think you've got to go through that natural process
15:31Olivia and Gage, they made me feel so
15:33like, it just felt, it just felt natural
15:35just talking to her
15:37After a confidence boost from Gage
15:39Tom moves on to single resident Aaron
15:41who's no stranger to open conversation
15:45Do you have an idea of kind of
15:47what you want from the experience?
15:49Basically, have fun, relax
15:51and try and let my hair down
15:53To a couple that's coming into the retreat
15:55that are looking to open up
15:57I think the best thing they can do
15:59is talk to us
16:01you know, you've come here for the sex
16:03but don't forget that the sex comes from
16:05a person
16:07I've literally just come out of
16:09a relationship with two women
16:11at the same time for two years
16:13That's crazy!
16:15There'll be days and weeks and months
16:17where I don't feel like I have the confidence
16:19and I'll go and play
16:21and I won't even get half
16:23but that's okay because
16:25if you're around people you're comfortable around
16:27This is what we're trying to get through to talk
16:29Speaking to Aaron, he made it easy for me
16:33to basically say
16:35I don't need my penis basically
16:37I've got my hands and I've got my tongue
16:39and I think Lauren really likes them as well
16:43Aaron has given me fanny flowers
16:47So I've never had more than two men at once
16:49so my ideal situation would obviously be more men
16:55Fresh from meeting Aaron
16:57Lauren feels it's time for Tom to start deciding
17:01who to invite to their sensual soiree
17:03Aaron
17:05because he was on the same page as you
17:07and even he doesn't get hard
17:09because I feel like he would understand you
17:11as well
17:13Yeah
17:15Aaron made me feel really at ease
17:17yeah, he was absolutely brilliant
17:21I'm so scared of the rejection
17:23mainly for Tom rather than for me
17:25who knows is he then going to be really nervous
17:27going forward
17:29that little bit inside that if they say no
17:31it'll feel like shit yeah but
17:33you know
17:35you just have to wait and see and see what happens
17:37we just want to know if you want to come back
17:39to him basically just
17:41maybe some gains, some teasing, some fuddling
17:43if it escalates, escalates
17:45if it doesn't
17:47it doesn't and that doesn't run
17:49okay guys
17:51I'm
17:53I'm not going to say that I'm going to play
17:55it's
17:57for me at the moment
17:59I take a lot more to get to that point
18:01I
18:03was surprised by Aaron
18:05because he said he didn't want to play
18:07Aaron without being rude
18:09obviously we have to move along
18:11no
18:13not everyone is everyone's cup of tea
18:15but for me I don't obviously want to put Tom off
18:17even more with this process
18:19it's like rejection
18:21I'm just yeah I'm shocked
18:23right move all the things of the bed
18:31put them all on the
18:33here
18:34in their bedroom
18:35Alana and Alex are preparing
18:37to be joined by resident Georgie
18:39are we going to be weird and going
18:41are you okay if we get protection
18:43just in case
18:45or just have it on the side
18:47they're hoping that tonight
18:49they can take their first steps
18:51towards their ultimate dream
18:53of a couple swap
18:55by having a threesome
18:57I don't know how this is going to go
18:59seeing Alex being with
19:01another woman
19:03with where we are now
19:05look I'm definitely
19:07open to
19:09just seeing how it goes
19:11but as much as
19:13this is a really big step for me
19:15it's also a really big step for him
19:17because he's going to potentially be
19:19with another woman
19:20this is all new and it's starting to feel
19:22very real
19:24so my worries going into this
19:26is me being with another woman
19:28and how that might make Alana feel
19:30I hope that it's the most amazing experience
19:32that we could have but equally it could not be
19:34it would be it would be devastating if anything went wrong here for sure
19:50for sure
19:52so much better okay cool
19:54this is a bit more chill
19:56yeah don't mind
19:58I'm just going to pick up the momentum
20:00no I like that let's just pick up when we're left though
20:02the sexual chemistry was insane
20:14the fact that I could like
20:16just let go of everything
20:18and just really enjoy it
20:20enjoy it like
20:24I never thought
20:26that would have happened
20:27in this experience
20:28oh
20:34oh
20:38oh
20:40oh
20:42oh
20:44oh
20:46oh
20:48oh
20:50oh
20:52But as play between Alana and Georgie intensifies,
20:57Alex retreats to the sideline.
21:06I think like I was overwhelmed.
21:11It was like from zero to a hundred
21:13and it caught me off guard really.
21:17Although I was like turned on an idea,
21:19I wasn't like turned on.
21:22I can't quite match that right now.
21:37I can't quite match that right now.
21:39I can't quite match that right now.
21:44Oh my God, yeah.
21:52I've had like the best evening.
21:55Yay.
21:56Give me a little kiss.
21:57Bye.
22:04I'll see you soon as well.
22:06Yeah, we'll see you soon.
22:07Bye.
22:08Bye.
22:13I love you so much.
22:15I loved it.
22:16I genuinely loved every minute of that.
22:18There wasn't any part where I thought I feel uncomfortable
22:22or like, oh, I don't know how I feel about this.
22:24Like I literally loved every single second of that.
22:28Did you enjoy it?
22:29I loved seeing you like enjoy it.
22:32I loved seeing you like enjoy it.
22:34Yeah.
22:36I loved it.
22:41Oh, it's why I always seem to get the wet patch.
22:43Maybe I could have done more, but I think I was a little bit like overwhelmed by how quickly it all went.
23:01At this moment, I don't know if I can open up the relationship.
23:05It's the morning after Alana and Alex's first threesome with a female resident, Georgie.
23:31You're so quiet.
23:32I got up this morning feeling really good about what happened.
23:38But I could feel there was something a little bit off.
23:50What are you thinking about?
23:55I'm just thinking.
23:56Processing.
23:57Are you sure you're okay?
23:58Yeah.
23:59When we first came in here, obviously our aim and our kind of end goal was to be able to do a full couple swap.
24:12I knew Alex was in his head a little bit, even at home, like he can go a bit quiet sometimes, but today I just knew there was something kind of underlying.
24:25Hello.
24:30Hello.
24:31Come in.
24:32Hello.
24:33Take a seat.
24:34Take a seat.
24:35Take a seat.
24:36Get comfy.
24:37How was last night?
24:39Like, I'm really happy.
24:40Yeah.
24:41It just, it felt right.
24:43Beautiful breakthrough.
24:44Absolutely.
24:46I think what I liked is it was actually Georgie that said, like, would you be okay if I kissed Alex?
24:54She kind of like led it a little bit, which was nice.
24:57Like, I actually enjoyed watching it, which I never thought those words were going to come out of my mouth.
25:04What are you thinking, Alex?
25:07I don't, I don't know.
25:09I don't want to take away because I loved last night.
25:11Sure.
25:12It was incredible.
25:13But I was a little bit, like, overwhelmed by the whole situation.
25:18Okay.
25:19Yeah.
25:20Tell me about that.
25:21I don't know, like, I don't think I was, I wasn't like turned on physically.
25:25Like, so that's what I'm confused at the moment about.
25:27Okay.
25:28Okay.
25:29Okay.
25:30The couple thing I definitely want to do, but again, I don't know if I go all the way.
25:34So, that's where, I think that's why I've been quiet this morning because I wasn't sure.
25:38For me, there's like, like something missing and I don't know what it was.
25:41I feel like maybe I'm more of a connection based, like when it comes to sex.
25:45Like deep, deeper emotions.
25:47Sure.
25:49Intimacy?
25:50Is that what you're seeking?
25:51Like intimacy to go with your sexual experience?
25:54I do find it better if there's a connection.
25:58And that's where I am right now.
25:59Like I'm trying to figure that out.
26:02The thing that I want to understand is how do you feel about that?
26:10Um, I don't feel comfortable with that.
26:15Sure.
26:16Now, like, I do see that as threatening.
26:19Like, what if you build like this really great connection with someone else that you then feel is, like, better?
26:29That's never ever going to be the thing.
26:35You okay?
26:36Yeah.
26:38It's okay.
26:41You're really challenging some of the things that you're the most afraid of and stuff is coming up.
26:45Like that's all about that.
26:46So that's scary to you right now.
26:49So let's just look at it in the face.
26:51Tell me, what do you mean by connection?
26:54Let's just like...
26:55I think it's definitely not like deep connection with what I have with you.
26:59It's a lot less than that.
27:01Okay.
27:02It's more familiarization.
27:03Like you almost want to be friends with that person before it okay?
27:06Yeah.
27:07I've never been like a one night guy.
27:10You know what I mean?
27:11To be fair, like, yeah, even we didn't sleep together like straight away.
27:15So I get that.
27:16I know that's not necessarily like how you work.
27:21So what would that look for you in terms of you guys dating couples?
27:25Like do you want to have like one couple friend that you date and play with?
27:32Or do you sort of meet a bunch of couples?
27:35Like what does that look like for you?
27:37We did say like it would be nice to have like one couple that we're like best friends with
27:42and we get on really well with them and like play together as well.
27:46So what I have in mind is I want you to have a taste of the couple experience that you want.
27:54But I feel like the next challenge for you is to navigate the connection piece.
27:58For you to actually go there and start making a connection.
28:01And for you to feel like, to figure out what it feels like when it's happening.
28:05And spend a bit of time connecting with the couple.
28:07And then once you feel like you have a connection in place,
28:11then you can escalate things in your own time.
28:14And take it from there and you see how it goes for you.
28:16How does that sound?
28:17No, that sounds good.
28:19You happy?
28:20Good.
28:21I'm fine.
28:22Are you definitely fine?
28:23Yeah, I feel relaxed.
28:24Okay.
28:25I think that the biggest thing off my chest was what we've spoken about now.
28:28That was like just something I needed to understand.
28:35You're welcome.
28:36You're welcome. Enjoy.
28:38I'm excited to meet some couples today.
28:45But this moment, I don't know if I can go all the way.
28:51We'll have to see.
28:57We love each other, right?
28:58Yeah, we do.
29:09At the sexy barn dance, Lauren and Tom are coming to terms with being rejected by resident Aaron.
29:21Let your hair down.
29:22Let my hair down.
29:23I'm going to make you line dancing.
29:24I am not line dancing.
29:25That is not happening.
29:26That is not happening.
29:38Oh my God.
29:43I used to do quite a lot of dancing with Lauren.
29:45This is what I used to really enjoy.
29:46So I feel a lot more comfortable, yeah.
29:55When I was around Tom, we had a little mini dance battle.
29:58Yeah.
29:59And like the fact that he was just busting out the robot and like just having so much fun with it.
30:02And I was like, let's do this, let's do that.
30:04And he was just like, yeah, let's do it.
30:05It's the last.
30:12I'm buzzing.
30:13I'm literally buzzing from how happy he is.
30:20He's so relaxed now.
30:24Rejection behind them, thoughts return to their objective.
30:28Finding residents for a sensual after party.
30:31I feel a lot more comfortable, yeah.
30:33So I think it's a lot more easier to invite people and to see if they say yes or no.
30:38You lead the way.
30:43Hello, welcome to my friend.
30:44Hello.
30:45I'm your shirt for tonight.
30:46Have you guys been enjoying yourself?
30:47Yeah, come on.
30:48But it was basically, we're just wondering if you'd like to be, to like come back with us and just basically cuddle, kiss, touch.
31:05Well, I'm ready whenever you guys are.
31:06I'll be at the bar.
31:07I wasn't expecting that.
31:08I wasn't expecting the fact that I was actually waiting for a no.
31:12As Tom's confidence grows.
31:13And I was just wondering if you guys want to come back.
31:14Yeah.
31:15Yeah.
31:16Yeah.
31:17Yeah.
31:18Oh, wow.
31:19Yeah.
31:20Yeah.
31:21So does the after party.
31:22Wondering if you want to come.
31:23Yes.
31:24I love that.
31:25That's quick.
31:26That's so easy.
31:28And the guest list swells to five.
31:29We were pleasantly surprised.
31:30And it actually feels kind of like nice.
31:31Like feeling.
31:32I know it sounds weird, but wanted.
31:34I would say I'm definitely attracted to him.
31:35For sure.
31:36They're a vibe.
31:37A hundred percent.
31:38I'm just really excited just to get to know them a bit more.
31:40Lauren and Tom's next challenge will be the best.
31:42It's the best.
31:43It's the best.
31:44It's the best.
31:45It's the best.
31:46It's the best.
31:47It's the best.
31:48It's the best.
31:49It's the best.
31:50It's the best.
31:51It's the best.
31:52It's the best.
31:53It's the best.
31:54It's the best.
31:55It's the best.
31:56Lauren and Tom's next challenge will be their biggest yet, as the five residents will
32:02be joining them to attempt to help Tom overcome his performance anxiety and successfully
32:08open up.
32:09We're basically, we'll go back to the bedroom and basically see what happens.
32:16I'm not promising anything.
32:18I've still got them hurdles.
32:19I've still got them body confidence and all that.
32:22The worst thing that can happen is going into shock and walking out.
32:39Having been in two minds as to whether he's ready to open up, Alex has agreed to try
32:44to make connections with couples.
32:49Oh, this looks so cute.
32:51We're just looking for, like, good vibes.
32:54Obviously, going into the couple scenario is slightly different because it's both of
32:59us have got to have an attraction to two different people then.
33:03We'll see, you know, if it's the right people then it'll be there.
33:12Hello.
33:13Hello.
33:14I'm Joe.
33:15Joe, lovely to meet you.
33:16How are you doing?
33:17How's it going?
33:18Literally on the walk.
33:19Both Alex and Alana really want to get to know them, don't we?
33:23Yeah, they're definitely good looking.
33:24They're super hot.
33:25Who was the one who instigated sort of coming here and stuff then?
33:28I think coming here might have been more me.
33:31Did you guys come in initially looking to bring in a single lady?
33:36What were you initially looking for?
33:38Connections with couples.
33:39Yeah.
33:40Is where we were looking at.
33:41The hardest part was obviously for me to kind of get over, like, insecurities with
33:46having another female, like, being physical and, like, smash that on the first note.
33:52So we're like, yay!
33:53Yay!
33:54One thing I'd say is, oh, I'll do threesomes as easiest.
33:59You guys have actually done probably one of the harder things.
34:01Like, threesomes are sort of easier because everyone's got something to do.
34:07Hi, I'm Alana.
34:08Hi, Alana.
34:09Lovely to meet you.
34:11So, tonight?
34:13Today?
34:14Tonight?
34:15You're looking for a couple swap?
34:16Yeah.
34:17Just trying to, like, find our way into it now.
34:19We're definitely looking at a space that's just finding our, like, place.
34:22Big thing letting someone else into your relationship.
34:25It's nice because, like you say, everyone's, like, scenarios are different.
34:30Well, it's about you guys.
34:31That's the thing.
34:32It's like, you're not here to please someone else.
34:34Yeah.
34:35It's what's best for you.
34:36I didn't know how I was going to feel about it.
34:39Yeah.
34:40But actually, like, I shocked everyone.
34:43Ended up being absolutely fine with it.
34:45Alex and Alana were quite attractive, actually.
34:49There was definitely a vibe there.
34:51I think we'd definitely be into them if they wanted to kind of spend a bit more time with us.
35:00Can I go for a chat?
35:02Well done.
35:05Hi.
35:07Good to you.
35:09Ooh, thank you.
35:14How have you found it?
35:16Um...
35:17Like, it's been nice to speak to couples today.
35:21Like, obviously, that was what we wanted to do.
35:24For me, I feel like, um, Jem and Daz.
35:27I just feel like they would be, like, a really great couple to get to know.
35:30I feel like they've got a similar vibe to us.
35:35How are you feeling?
35:36Is there anyone that you've felt, like, might have had a connection with?
35:44I've, like, um...
35:46Honestly, at the moment...
35:49I just don't know, right now...
35:51If I can...
35:55Go any further.
36:01Okay.
36:03How do you... How are you feeling about that?
36:06Um...
36:08Yeah, like, I'm a little bit surprised.
36:11Um...
36:14What is it that's making you feel that way?
36:16Is it that you don't feel like you want to go any further at all?
36:20Or do you feel like it's just maybe been a little bit...
36:23Too much too soon?
36:24Like, it's just got a bit overwhelming?
36:27Uh...
36:29Me...
36:30I don't know, like...
36:33It's more of a me thing, this now.
36:38Like, for now.
36:40But...
36:41That's as far as I can go.
36:42You've hit, like, a bit of a wall with it.
36:44Yeah.
36:45Okay.
36:49I do want to redo this.
36:50Okay.
36:53Okay.
36:54That makes me happy.
36:55I'm so happy.
37:06With Alex unable to continue, the couple's stay at the retreat has come to an end.
37:12Going forward, I do think opening up the relationship is for me and Alana, but it's going to take time.
37:24It will take more time for me.
37:25Um, I don't know, I feel, like, emotional now.
37:44What just happened then?
37:45I don't know.
37:46I don't know.
37:47It's just the whole thing's, like, just very overwhelming, isn't it?
37:48Like...
37:49What's that?
37:50I don't know.
37:51I don't know.
37:52I don't know what to say.
37:53It's just, like, a very emotional few days, isn't it?
37:57The future will, at some point, be a full-open relationship, but at the moment, it's baby steps still.
38:18Right house.
38:19It's just been a very overwhelming process, but, um, I don't want to keep crying, but, like, I'm actually really proud of myself.
38:38Opening up our relationship is a lot harder than I first thought.
38:42Like, I really thought it was going to be a straight line, but it's curves and angles and everything that goes with it.
38:47It's not easy, but, like, we've absolutely got the ability to do it.
38:56I absolutely love you to pieces, and I'm happy and glad, and I love you so much.
39:00I love you so much.
39:12Just goes to show that you're saying that you haven't got it.
39:14However, if you hadn't, then why is everyone saying yes?
39:19Lauren and Tom have invited a small group back for an intimate party in the residence playroom.
39:25Ooh!
39:27Even though they've said yes and all that kind of stuff, it doesn't mean, like, you know, they see me and go,
39:32actually, no, what the fuck is that? It's what goes to my head.
39:35I know.
39:37So that's why we're going to go take it one step at a time.
39:41OK?
39:42Yeah.
39:44No pressure.
39:45They hope that by focusing on touch and foreplay, Tom will manage to get an erection.
39:52A stumbling block that's stopping the couple from opening up.
39:55I'm hoping to leave here knowing the fact that I don't have to worry about, um, for my dick not to hurt.
40:05It looks like it's a fucking luck.
40:06Oh, wow!
40:07Look at me!
40:12Oh, I'm just there!
40:13Isn't it?
40:15Yeah, I don't quite know how I'm feeling right now.
40:18Uh, I'm feeling shocked, to be fair.
40:20Yeah, I don't quite know how I'm feeling right now.
40:30I'm feeling shocked to be fair.
40:33My biggest concern is obviously making sure Tom is comfortable because I will get naked
40:38and run around like I am the opposite of Tom.
40:46I know I want to be open and I'm not planning on changing that.
40:49I'm not the person that struggles with this lifestyle and it's Tom that is.
40:54Should we make the lighting a little bit more sexy, guys?
40:57Oh, yeah, let's do it.
40:59Yeah.
41:00Put a blindfold on my end.
41:04Nice, nice, nice.
41:05Is there any areas that you genuinely want us to avoid?
41:08It's basically just taking a top of half.
41:10It feels weird that I can't see you, but...
41:15I definitely want to make Lauren happy.
41:19We'll try anything, like jump this hurdle basically.
41:23But once it's in my head, I can't afford, I freeze.
41:27Once I'm in that rut, I can't get out of the rut.
41:30How are you feeling, mate?
41:32It's weird, but...
41:34You're getting worshipped.
41:35You're getting all the attention.
41:37This is my favourite thing.
41:41Despite Effie's advice to actively engage in foreplay, Tom lets the ladies lead.
41:47Just out of step, but it gets a bit too overwhelming.
42:04It was putting shivers down my spine.
42:06I could feel everything.
42:16I feel absolutely petrified and sick.
42:24Next time on Open House...
42:26Are you ready for the next level?
42:30I feel absolutely petrified.
42:33Is it okay to kiss?
42:38It's two guys!
42:40Back in the rut!
42:42I have identified as gay.
42:45Today, I don't know.
42:47I've been feeling very nutty.
42:50Never had any experience with gay men before.
42:54The worst case now would be reacting in a way which I'm not expecting.
42:59This is out of my comfort area for sure.
43:02Your thinking is the best thing in my life.
43:03It is truly not true.
43:04I don't know what I did.
43:05It is very true.
43:06holy crap.
43:07It is not a food machine.
43:08And I know I am not expecting.
43:09To be honest with you.
43:10But it's not quite a human,
43:11the most female.
43:12You are not sure.
43:13It is for...
43:14It is for you.
43:15Oh man.
43:16The only thing is a father-son.
43:17The only thing is a child-son.
43:18The only thing is a child-son pair.
43:19The only thing is a child-son-son.
43:20So with temperament,
43:21It's a child-son.
43:22It is a child-son-son.
43:23The only thing is a child-son-son.
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