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New stepmom wrote the show to ask how to handle terror from down the hall. Her stepkids aren't feeling her because she, at one time, was the other woman, and it's bad.
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00:00all right this morning's confession uh comes from a no-name says dear freak show okay my husband
00:08was previously married when we met unhappily but yes he was married and as it broke apart
00:16i was in a whole relationship with him as it got bad there were a lot of arguments that involved
00:24me because we started to be a little bit more reckless with our relationship i'm trying to
00:30figure out now how to deprogram his 10 year old and his 12 year old kids who are caught up
00:36regurgitating what they have heard their mom say about me the 10 year old called me a stupid bitch
00:43when i told him to get into the bathtub i lost it and ran into my bedroom i closed the door and i
00:52screamed into my pillow for a good 10 minutes i can't react or i'll never find peace and their dad
01:00won't react because he feels guilty for leaving i feel these kids i feel that having these kids
01:10half of the week and having this contention is going to be bad for a long time their dad is at work
01:18so while i'm supposed to be handling the household i'm basically being terrorized yeah what am i
01:25supposed to do your dad is supposed to step up and handle a lot of this i mean it sounds like
01:30how things started it's i mean you can't control that obviously you guys are together now so there
01:37needs to be some respect factor going on in the household that's still your step parent you know
01:41are they married are they just dating um this says my husband okay yeah so there's still at the
01:47end of the day has to be some respect there a 10 year old saying that is wild they're not of course
01:53they're not supposed to um and we don't know how new this is but it sounds pretty new um i don't think
02:00you can reprimand them to be honest that's a step parent i don't think you i don't i don't think you
02:06can i mean i you know me i'm all about respecting your parents but when you if if you and anthony
02:14break up and some lady now is there with anthony i could see the kids giving them some static
02:22yeah that shouldn't that shouldn't that's not strange in in the in the street book of uh insults
02:29stupid bitch next page you get slapped no matter by your parent not not just by your parent but not
02:37by the lady who stole your dad from your mama like i think i don't think anybody gonna touch
02:42you in that situation he was a part of that as well right you can blame her but i mean it was
02:46both of them together yeah that and she knew because she ran in the room it was like
02:50i can't put my hands on this kid because you i don't think you can you don't have to put hands
02:56on them but there has to be that's what you just said you said next page i think you can oh yeah i
03:00mean i think you i think you can but if you're not going to go down that route there needs to be
03:05some kind of consequence it's whether it be you taking away a phone you taking away video games
03:11whatever it is you're their stepmother you need to put forth that respect and put those
03:16rules into play she needs to be backed up by her husband as well and that is the other thing i mean
03:22listen i'm just saying if you stole you did it these kids don't have the mind state of like you
03:30know the mindset of all right it's a breakup things happen they're like what did she say 10 12 yeah they
03:36don't all they hear is their mama on the phone talking about and if that's stupid and so they
03:42are repeating it the dad's allowing this to happen at the end of the day because i don't know i haven't
03:47been around a man that would just allow this to happen and if they heard that they their asses
03:52would be right here in the house coming home from work making sure that it's handled those aren't your
03:57boyfriend's kids those are your step kids right the respect needs to still be there so if my step
04:03kids call me a stupid bitch stupid bitch somebody getting slapped i don't give a damn whose kids they
04:10are and then the mom's gonna find out and let that bitch come to me it's gonna be such a problem
04:16on the real you're still a parent right here i don't care who you are whose kids that's a shame
04:21all right my man depp brown just said uh he said they they need to have a united front the father
04:27needs to step up and tell his kids that they need to respect the other parent just as much
04:33as they respect their mom exactly i agree but they're hearing still yep because you know kids are
04:40soaking it up you can't control the mama's mama's over there like being foul you know what and even
04:45if this the other mother hates you i bet you if the other mother heard the news oh mommy he she hit
04:51me oh why should you i called her a stupid bitch she'd probably be like well you deserved it she might
04:56she might if she's trying to be right about raising these kids right because they need to have some
05:00respect because they're able to disrespect this parent co-parent they're going to be able to
05:05disrespect teachers coaches and other authority figures that are in their lives so i mean if how
05:12did you okay because i don't i don't want anybody thinking we attacking folks that's out here they
05:16have blended families for whatever reason but if you did have a situation where you have now replaced
05:22somebody in the love category how did you get the kids on your side did you just wait it out
05:30in this situation do you do what rich say put put a little chokehold on her you know i mean
05:37sometimes you got to put a hand put hands on hey get that bar of soap put it in their mouth real quick
05:43okay so have you done that what have you done to get the kids to understand that you
05:49are the authority in the house that their mama is not in no more freak show wild 94 one there's a lot
05:57of attention on this one um because the disrespect is real all right uh 888-429-0941 we got a bunch of
06:04calls julius is on the line julius hey man talk to me what we doing uh we're going to discuss this
06:10topic that y'all on today yeah i mean it's the disrespect is real like i mean but she don't feel
06:16she don't feel like she can really step in step in nah that's fake i mean once you come to the
06:23files all that people see people we got this pride thing we like to say things and certain things
06:29but we forgot about we don't have respect for others and that's the main thing so if a child ain't got
06:35no respect lurking from someone else the parent ain't do it yeah so if you got a marriage and y'all
06:41just not because i got the same thing right now with my wife okay i got my daughter and then her
06:47son which you know my daughter's not her daughter and her son's not my son but we're married but it
06:52also come with the thing you have to be like when y'all said a team a threat y'all have to be a team
06:58you have to at first because then kids see that these kids ain't stupid no more they're smart as heck
07:03so if they see they got a little leave weight to go between y'all oh they're gonna put it in them
07:10yeah yeah they'll try how long did it take you because you you said like her son is not yours uh i mean
07:17well he is yours of course but i mean but you know what i mean the origin story so how long how
07:22long did it take him to to warm up to you it was my approach you know we when i came in i didn't come
07:31in like i'm his friend and none of that i just came in paid attention listen try to see where i could
07:38step in and help but as soon as his mother because it's kind of different when you got a boy and then it's
07:45also depend on the situation if the other parent is not involved yeah then it's okay if the other
07:51parent is then you have to have that talk with the other pair but like i like my dog say he's from the
07:58street so am i so when i have that don't come with that tough guy jump because it ain't gonna work
08:07and my money come out my pocket there's two ways we're gonna do this respectful
08:12and i'm an ex-marine so at the end of the day the disrespect ain't gonna win your weight so
08:17there you go you're gonna call like well man our main topic is the child not our pride i don't care
08:23nothing about what's going on i thought junk is i'm not gonna let this child disrespect me uh-huh
08:29any adult because that's not how i was raised no that's part of what they are
08:33nobody's gonna do you already know this because you were you were raised like me
08:39you went in there when your parents were talking they told you one thing they told you straight
08:45over the hey listen you better get up out of here and sometimes you get to talk because you already
08:50know all right well listen i i i respect you and uh definitely salute you for your service and uh
09:01keep doing what you're doing because it sound like you're on point pimping i appreciate it let's see
09:04we got des from clearwater des what's going on yes i totally agree with the person before me y'all
09:11because marriage is a foundation and i feel like if y'all can't come to a common ground because these
09:16kids nowadays are very disrespectful no matter how you raise them they are disrespectful
09:23and i'm whooping ass i'm sorry wait wait like i mean we were we're whipping ass off rip
09:30like like immediately i'm gonna talk listen you got one time i'm gonna talk to you that one time you
09:37disrespect me that second time bta i'm old school listen i'm old school my grandma still break switches
09:45off for my kids oh yeah so just imagine i ain't playing like that not not cursing me yeah i mean
09:52for real can you imagine because she's like i went in the bedroom and screamed in a pillow i'm like oh
09:57baby listen it would have been more than me screaming in that bed
10:03i love it thank you that's how you do it i appreciate it
10:07see people are yoking these kids up yeah i mean but you have to but you also have i like the way
10:13she said you got to have a conversation with that other parent because i can't just yoke you up yet
10:18i got to get the clearance from the other parent they got to know that they want their kid to not
10:24be disrespectful they don't want they don't want to have that kind of kid so they're going to talk to
10:27you and say listen when you because they i'm gonna protect your kid when they with me you want that
10:33so i have to protect your kids i'm gonna love that for the bar i'm gonna love that phone call
10:38when i call the other parent they're gonna be like oh what happened oh just know i'm about to whoop
10:43your kid's ass because they call me a stupid bitch no you have to say i what
10:47i'm about to oh no i'm gonna give them the warning i'm about to it went down all right uh let's see is
10:52this uh eve eve what's up evie evie hello oh the buttons are sticking hey evie what's up
11:01hey hey you got turned down the radio because we don't want to hear us we want to hear you now
11:08what have you been in this situation how'd you fix it i've been in the situation um i'm a stepmom
11:17and first of all i would never put my hands on anyone's child that's not mine um i just feel like
11:24it's a respect thing i wouldn't want anybody putting their hands on my child but as far as
11:28a disrespect my child's not going to call any adult out of their name so i would set the record
11:34straight that's something that i would take care of and then as far as uh the dad if the dad sat there
11:41and he allowed that to happen to the other woman if i was the other woman the relationship would have
11:48to end because if you don't if you can't manage your kids in the beginning of this relationship and
11:54we're married at this point then how's it going to be later down the line when they're older that
11:59the that's the disrespect is just going to get worse and worse and worse yeah and i wouldn't want to be
12:04in a relationship like that let me ask you one question say you hate the other mom right and your
12:10kid says that to them so you would be not asking i'm not at least i'm not going to jail i'm not going to
12:19jail because me in a situation you put your hands on my child without my permission i'm going to call
12:24the police and you're going to jail so i wouldn't put my hands on nobody else's child even if i hated
12:29her and that would make it worse because if i hated her i'm going to actually probably beat that child
12:34more than what i actually should have so i wouldn't put my hands on that child just because of that
12:39reason she's being responsible so i'm not putting belt to air i'm not putting the bpa i'm not doing
12:44that yeah i know i understand i understand it it makes a lot of sense i mean i know nobody out here
12:50is promoting wait no a lot of y'all are you know and i understand it because we was all raised at a
12:56different time and it's a different much different time right now but just imagine hearing that because
13:02you're not kids cuss or talk trash under their voice yep and you know you heard them and you've done it
13:08where your mom is like you know like get in the room clean you know i ain't cleaning uh-huh you
13:12know what you say nothing i said that these clothes yeah in my way i feel like the cops will understand
13:21if they came to my house and they're like oh so why'd you call oh uh i went through the kids ass
13:25why he called me a little bitch all right we're gonna leave
13:31i don't know if they can i don't know if they got that liberty no more they got that they got that
13:35camera though they're like no you say i whooped them they're like oh it's on camera no they'll
13:40probably look at the camera all right you heard what they said right she called you a what you
13:45need to use my baton here you go come back in there orlando and the freak show thank you for
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