Explore the boundaries of relationships and intimacy in 'The Great Sex Experiment'. This episode, 'Open House', delves into new experiences as participants navigate complex emotional and physical challenges. Witness the journey of couples and individuals as they push their comfort zones in the pursuit of deeper understanding and connection.
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00:00The first couple travelling to open house this year are Tanith and Mark from West Yorkshire.
00:29We met in the most lovely little pub, the Red Lion.
00:34Yeah, like a typical old man's pub where you would not expect to meet anybody in there.
00:39An attractive looking lady I've ever seen in there to be honest.
00:42He took his chance, he got it, he got it.
00:46This is definitely the best relationship I've had.
00:49I like Tan's smile.
00:51Aw, stop leaving the bush.
00:53She's just a fun personality, she's always bubbly and...
00:56Aw, you're softy.
00:58They share a house, a chihuahua and big plans.
01:03Me and Mark, we are like family now and we are thinking about, you know, the future with kids and that kind of stuff too.
01:12Potentially a ring.
01:14But like all relationships, this one has its ups and downs.
01:19And some old habits are hard to shake.
01:22I tend to have a bit of one red eye.
01:25I've always wanted to just do what I want to do when I want to do it and sometimes when you find yourself in relationships you feel a bit trapped.
01:36I think I've always felt very much trapped.
01:39So today, Tanith and Mark are setting out to discover whether an open relationship could be right for them.
01:45Before this relationship I've never thought of non-monogamy.
01:48Yeah, there's always that stigma around that and, you know, it's quite taboo for someone to even think about it.
01:54Two friends, two lovers, but you're still kind of free.
02:01You ready?
02:02I'm ready.
02:03Here to help the guests on their journey are the open house residents who are experienced in the extraordinary world of non-monogamy.
02:26Actually being non-monogamous is more natural to our human nature than being monogamous.
02:37The open lifestyle for me is just about embracing your own sexuality and who you are as a person.
02:43It's a very empowering feeling.
02:47I like men.
02:49I like to have more than one, like three, five sometimes.
02:55To see the orgasm of the men really turn me on.
03:02We offer new couples some fun and a bit of experience.
03:06I'm cracking a pair of tits.
03:08Until we have.
03:09Hello, my name is Ellen.
03:10How are you?
03:11Are you here?
03:12Yeah.
03:13Where is she?
03:14Yeah.
03:15Why are you?
03:16Oh, he's so fit, anyone who looks like a drummer.
03:19He's got any I hear
03:29He's so fit anyone who looks like a drummer
03:33Mark and Tan is completely my type. I love a man with strong hair as you can tell by the facial hair
03:38I think fancy is too weak a word. I think we absolutely love their vibe. Oh
03:46Wow the energy I like her
03:49I
03:57Love a guy with long hair give me sir for vibes and she would just a little pocket of energy absolutely brilliant impression
04:07Very nice welcome
04:11So the worst case scenario would be that you would risk your relationship
04:16And yeah, of course it would be devastating
04:20Hi
04:22Welcome I'm Effie nice to meet you
04:24Hi Effie nice to meet you
04:25Guiding all new arrivals on their journey is non-monogamy coach Effie blue
04:33I think it's important to have a retreat like this
04:37Because it provides a space that you don't have anywhere else you can play
04:42You can connect you can explore you can experiment and you have a support network around you to take care of you to make sure that you experience
04:50Is the right one for you?
04:52I'm looking forward to challenging people to get out of their comfort zone and really explore non-monogamy
04:57And really explore non-monogamy
05:02So how long have you been together two and a half years two and a half years, okay, how is it going like we've had it we had a turbulent star?
05:11Okay, whether there were insecurities and trust issues at the very beginning and then I ended up cheating
05:17Okay
05:19Okay
05:20And done
05:21Caught in red on six
05:23Caught in red on six
05:24Caught in red on six
05:25We've been together I think a year
05:29Yeah, just like
05:30Torn my world apart
05:32It was really hard
05:33For feeling it feeling we were in a good place and it's all to be shattered I guess
05:37And we had that like I think took time for ourselves and I realized in that time like he was worth
05:45Worth it
05:47Dan, how are you feeling?
05:49It's like it's just a lot of emotion isn't it?
05:52Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
05:53It's all right
05:54Yeah, it's all right
05:55I'm good
05:56I'm good for me
05:57Okay
05:58And was there cheating in your previous relationships?
06:00So you have like a history of cheating?
06:02I've always had a tendency to be a bit unfairful in the past
06:07Okay
06:08And what were you getting out of those cheating experiences?
06:13I guess it's the feeling of feeling like you wanted or somebody is attracted to you
06:18It's probably like not feeling good within yourself
06:20So you're looking at getting that through other people
06:23Maybe it was just that stem from childhood or there was some insecurities within myself
06:28Maybe I didn't feel like I was good enough and I was seeking attention elsewhere
06:31Yeah, there's lots of different reasons why people do what they do
06:35So how much of your history of infidelity has impacted your decision to potentially open up your relationship?
06:44So I think I was the one that brought it up
06:47Okay
06:48Yeah
06:49I knew I wanted to be with Mark and I thought maybe this is the right path that we should go down and explore
06:55I think it was just, I think for me it was just monogamy and how we're just failing at relationships
07:00I couldn't wish to make a better person than Tan
07:03You know, she's just a great human, you know, nothing negative about her
07:08You know, really good energy and I don't want to lose that person
07:12Yeah
07:13So do you have something in mind that you want to explore?
07:16So we thought about just bringing like a woman in and then going separately
07:25Okay
07:26We have thought about opening up our relationship separately
07:30Obviously we've had trust issues in the past
07:32And I think playing separate would build that extra level of trust in our relationship
07:39If we do this separately I think it could build our trust
07:44Because you've gone through accepting that someone's gone off somewhere
07:50You're aware that it's consensual and you're both consented to it
07:54And there's no dishonesty or deceit
07:56Okay, so this is about trust, right?
07:59Yeah
08:00You're going to lean into that a lot
08:01Yeah
08:02So how about we create two separate socials for you
08:06Where you get to socialize, connect with people
08:09If you want to escalate things we have beautiful spaces for you
08:12To go and do whatever you want to do
08:14With a little bit of separation, a little bit of independence from one another
08:18To have your own experiences with other people
08:21You're going to come back here tomorrow
08:23And we're going to unpack it together
08:25We're normally joined at the hip-hop, aren't we?
08:27Yeah
08:28Okay
08:29Okay
08:30Well we're here to challenge you
08:31And help you understand
08:32Yeah, that's what we're here for, you know
08:34We're here to try new things
08:36I'm excited for you
08:37Have a great time
08:38Thank you
08:39Don't forget to have fun
08:40And I'll see you tomorrow
08:41Yeah, see you tomorrow
08:42Beautiful
08:43Thank you
08:44Yeah, yeah, let yourselves out
08:45Thank you
08:48Trust is key to the success of their exercise tonight
08:51They will be going apart separately
08:53And socializing
08:54And potentially connecting and escalating things with somebody
08:57Oh my god, that's cool
08:58Wow
08:59And in those moments
09:00They're going to have to lean back on trust to have a good time
09:03Are you nervous about anything?
09:05I'm nervous about it
09:06Yeah
09:07It's about a friend in the deep end, isn't it?
09:08You know what I mean?
09:09That's what I mean
09:10You boost me up
09:11Single scenarios about each other
09:13It's completely new to me and Mark
09:15So I guess it's a big step
09:16And something that would be difficult for me in this
09:19Is definitely
09:20If one of us did something and the other didn't
09:24You know, I think
09:25That would be the hardest thing
09:32Next to arrive at this unique retreat
09:35Are Chloe and Paul from Liverpool
09:37Where are we getting led to?
09:39It's like the start of a scary movie
09:40Where everything's all well
09:41So me and Chloe are the same
09:43I mean, we belong here
09:45We do go like bread and butter, yeah
09:48We met at 6-1 College, didn't we?
09:51Yeah
09:52We've been together for nearly 10 years now
09:54Married for free
09:56We're like two best mates going on holiday
09:58Do you know what I mean?
09:59That's what it's like
10:04Soulmates from the start
10:06Chloe and Paul have always been each other's one and only
10:11Paul was actually my first relationship
10:13I hadn't been with anyone else before Paul
10:16Like he was literally my first everything
10:18Yeah, we've only slept with each other, yeah
10:20So it is a fact that we have missed out on some experiences
10:24I just feel like there's this like part of me
10:28That I kind of haven't unlocked yet
10:30Now the curious couple are looking to expand their horizons
10:35By having sex with other people
10:39When it comes to monogamy
10:40Why can't we have fun with multiple people?
10:42And still have one partner?
10:44I think we'll find out if we're good kisses or not
10:47Yeah
10:48We'll end up like clashing teeth with everyone
10:49I go
10:50Is this not how you do it?
10:55I feel a bit nervous
10:56Be sad, we'll be alright
10:57There's just that little bit of nervousness
10:59That's what makes it all worth it
11:00Yeah
11:01Imagine you were numb to it
11:02You'd be like
11:03Yeah
11:04Like what's the point?
11:05I think Chloe might be a little bit more nervous than me
11:08But I'm self-confident
11:09I've always felt secure
11:11I'm not gonna lie
11:12I'm excited
11:13So we're opening up our relationship
11:15And he's like my best friend
11:16It's not just my husband
11:18I think that's what makes me nervous
11:19A lot of things could go wrong
11:23Oh my God
11:24Oh my God
11:33Tanith and Mark are preparing for a big night
11:36You look beautiful
11:38Tonight they'll be going to different socials
11:43Mark will be having fireside drinks with the retreat's female residents
11:47Cheers
11:48Cheers
11:49Cheers
11:52And Tanith will attend a cocktail party
11:54Where she will get to meet some of the residents' men
12:02It's a bit weird you're not being there
12:03Yeah, I think that's the big thing for me
12:05Is you not actually being there
12:10It's a big thing doing it apart
12:12So I guess you never know until you're in there
12:14Yeah, beautiful
12:17My game plan tonight is to relax
12:19And just go and enjoy it
12:21I just want to go out there and have fun
12:25Here to collect Mark for his soiree
12:28Is resident Marie
12:31I do this sexy lifestyle since, yeah, seven years now
12:38Sex is healthy
12:40So I do a lot of healthy stuff
12:47Hello, how are you guys?
12:49How are you?
12:50I am here to collect for Mark
12:51Is that okay?
12:53Take good care of everything
12:55Yes, we will
12:57See you later
12:58It's going to be fun
12:59Have fun too
13:00Yeah, enjoy yourself
13:02See you soon
13:03Bye, love you
13:04Bye
13:10Having only ever been intimate with one another
13:26Childhood sweethearts Chloe and Paul
13:29Are arriving at the retreat
13:30To explore opening up their relationship
13:32Look at me with my backpack
13:33It's like my first day in school or something
13:34What's that accent?
13:35Are you okay?
13:36Hi
13:37Hi
13:38Oh, okay
13:39This is Chloe
13:40Nice to meet you
13:41Lovely to meet you
13:42I think they've got a good energy
13:43Are you alright?
13:44Are you okay?
13:45Yeah, I'm so good
13:46Yeah, I'm so good
13:47Yeah, I'm so good
13:48Yeah, I'm so good
13:49Yeah, I'm so good
13:50I would spend some more time with them
13:51She's very cute
13:52She's got this beautiful kind of innocent, cute smile and I like that a lot
14:05Whenever I hear this girl's accent, I'm like, right, party for you
14:08We know who's there
14:09Yeah
14:10It was lovely, aren't it?
14:11Yeah?
14:12It all smells so nice, hasn't it?
14:15I think worst case scenario for me
14:17She either runs off into the sunset with someone else
14:19That's kind of a worst case scenario for me too
14:22And you prefer it with other women
14:30Hello, guys
14:31Hi, you're okay?
14:32Hi, I'm Effie
14:33So I want to hear from you, what brings you here today?
14:36Like, over the last two years during sex we've opened up a lot more
14:39And obviously our sex life improved and then it come to a point where we're like
14:43Chloe started opening up about her, like, being, like, curious
14:47How long this idea of bi-curiosity has been with you?
14:52It's been quite a few years
14:55I did, like, have the thoughts when I was younger
14:58I think about it all the time
15:01Growing up it was said all the time, like, oh, girls who are bisexual are greedy
15:06Some family members I've spoke to, they're really supportive
15:09But a few of them I've tried speaking to
15:12And they just, like, blow it off
15:15I think if I ever met Paul
15:17I might not have been as open about it
15:19Like, obviously, now
15:21Like, I just need to try it
15:26And then I'll know who I am as a person
15:29OK, so, I want to hear from you what normal agony might look like
15:36Like, for me, like, I'm excited, like, to explore a woman's body
15:41But, like, for Paul to also be exploring the same person as me
15:47Like, my amazing reaction was, like, oh, that's cool, that, like, I've hit the jackpot here
15:55And my wife, like, wants to, like, experiment
15:57It's like digging for treasure together
15:59And clearly, did you ever consider exploring women on your own?
16:04I think it'd be more, like, bisexual than, say, like, lesbian tendencies
16:08Like, you might enjoy it with me and the girl
16:11But not on your own with the girl
16:14You guys are a wonderful couple
16:16Clearly love each other
16:17You're very close
16:18Um, one of the dynamics I notice
16:21Is that sometimes you talk for Chloe
16:24I apologise
16:25It's OK, there's nothing to apologise
16:27I just want to explore it
16:28I'm confident, you know what I mean?
16:30And Chloe, if she, like, isn't confident in a situation
16:33Then I'll help her out to find the words
16:35But I don't necessarily mean to, like, if she's got something to say
16:38I don't mean to get in first
16:39So, you are here to explore non-monogamy
16:42You have no experience and you're like, we want to do this thing
16:44Let's explore
16:45I'm going to start you off lightly
16:47Tonight, there's a social
16:50If you can, at some point
16:53For a short period of time
16:55Separate
16:56Go the opposite way
16:58Yeah
16:59Chat, chat, chat
17:00Yeah
17:01You know, look for connections, right?
17:02Yeah
17:03Get back together
17:04And maybe invite somebody
17:05And just have that, that sort of first experience
17:08Do you think you can do that?
17:10Yeah
17:11Yeah
17:12Sounds like a plan
17:13So, this is really about you just feeling your way around
17:16Yeah, it's exciting, can't we?
17:17It's going to be mad, can't we?
17:19Yeah
17:20Does that feel good?
17:21Yeah
17:22Just ready to get out there and have fun, yeah
17:23Beautiful, beautiful
17:24Okay, go out there, have fun
17:25And I'll look forward to speaking to you guys tomorrow
17:27Awesome
17:28Thanks very much
17:29You're very welcome
17:30Thank you
17:31Let's go
17:33Let's go
17:36Paul and Chloe's relationship is almost old fashioned
17:39They've met really young
17:40And they really haven't had any chance to sow their wild oats
17:45This is it now, like, what we came for
17:47Yeah
17:48The encouragement today is for her to socialise separately
17:51Without Paul being there talking for her
17:53It'll be interesting to see how well she does
17:55Oh my god
17:57I'm excited but I'm nervous
18:00Because I've only ever been with Paul, like
18:02But I just feel like there's this, like, part of me
18:06That I kind of haven't unlocked you
18:08But a lot of things could go wrong
18:10Ladies first
18:11I know they're sad
18:12Of course I'm excited to see Chloe with another woman
18:16I'll be there to support her
18:17But really, I'm going to have fun too, do you know what I mean?
18:20Some confidence
18:21But every boxer has a plan until they get in the ring
18:23And get punched in the face
18:33Can't wait to see what's in store
18:34Yeah
18:35At the retreat's camping area
18:37Mark joins the ladies
18:39Who are eager to make his acquaintance
18:41It's all right by the fire, isn't it?
18:43Yeah
18:44Got a bit weird at first, you know
18:47It's just all a little bit nerve-wracking
18:49Mark, I can't remember your girlfriend, wife
18:52Are you married?
18:53It's my girlfriend
18:54Your girlfriend
18:55What's her name?
18:56She's called Tanith
18:57How are you feeling not having her with you?
19:00Is that a bit weird?
19:01We'll look after you
19:03Oh yeah, I can show you well
19:04I will
19:05Escorting Tanith to her social is Aaron, one of the retreat's single males
19:14I think I've always been the more sexual person in a relationship
19:18I love sex, I've always loved sex
19:21Hello
19:22Hello
19:26Hello
19:27Hey, are you okay?
19:28Are you ready?
19:29Yeah, I think so
19:30We're going to go and have a really fun party
19:35Tanith is attending a cocktail party
19:38Laid on just for her
19:40I'm feeling nervous
19:41I guess it's going to be a bit like, well, there's a lot of people to talk to
19:44Oh yeah, I'm just going to take it as it comes really
19:47And go in there with an open mind
19:54Hey everyone, are you alright guys?
19:56Hey guys
19:57Hi, how are you?
19:58This is the first time me and Mark have done anything socially without each other
20:02So obviously it feels a bit weird and strange without him
20:05Yeah, cheers everyone
20:06Cheers everybody
20:07Cheers
20:12So how long have you been together?
20:13Yeah
20:14Two and a half years now
20:15This is the first time being apart
20:17There is no like a little wingman more than I think
20:19But we are each other's person
20:20Yeah
20:21We're best mates like
20:22You know, just like soul mates and stuff
20:24Obviously this is a personal
20:26Tread in the waters with everything
20:28And then
20:29Yeah
20:34A second please
20:35Thank you
20:36This is a good service
20:38Isn't it?
20:39Efficient, efficient service
20:40Yeah
20:41How old are you now Mark?
20:42Don't mind me asking
20:43Er...
20:4434
20:45I'm 40
20:46Are you?
20:47I'm a secret
20:48Okay, you look great
20:4940, thank you
20:50What's your secret?
20:51My secret?
20:52I'm a moisturizer
20:53Moisturizer
20:54LAUGHTER
20:56But you look incredible for 40, man
20:58Oh, thanks
20:59You look great
21:01He was really easy going and down to earth
21:03And I think that's what I found really attractive about him as well
21:05He just seemed like such a genuine person
21:09With Mark
21:10With Mark proving to be a hit
21:11With Mark proving to be a hit
21:12The ladies are keen to move things on
21:16We dare you to
21:19LAUGHTER
21:20Can I have please?
21:22Two little lap turns for Mark
21:24Oh, yeah
21:25Oh, yeah
21:26Oh, yeah
21:29Oh, wow
21:30Yeah
21:31I feel like he's just one of them guys that you think, yeah, you're good looking
21:36And then the more you spend time with him, you're like, you're sexy as fuck
21:45I'm having a great time tonight
21:47Yeah, I'm excited
21:48I like meeting new people
21:50Ultimately, all I want out of this experience is for us both to just have fun and enjoy it
22:06Chloe and Paul are preparing for their social
22:20Tonight, they'll be attending an 80s-themed party
22:24With the aim of potentially meeting a female resident for their very first threesome
22:30Just thinking of it
22:32Makes me, like
22:34Nervous
22:35I think the nerves are starting to settle in a bit
22:38If I'm not comfortable, then it's just going to be anxiety for me
22:42And a lot of pressure that I don't want
22:45Are you not nervous about anything?
22:47No
22:49Chloe's more nervous than me
22:52I honestly think it's all going to be fine and it's going to be fun
23:00Give us a kiss
23:02Let's rock and roll
23:03Yeah
23:04Let's do it
23:05Let's do it
23:06Let's do it
23:07I do rely on Paul a lot when it comes to, like, group situations
23:10Like, he'll talk the back legs off a donkey
23:12Whereas me, I do get anxious
23:15I think I'm prepared to close your hands
23:17If I can form up my comfort zone and, like, challenge myself, because that's what we're here for
23:25But, to be honest, I don't know if I can
23:28As instructed by Effie, for a short time, Chloe and Paul will separate, so the less socially confident Chloe can try making connections of her own
23:44I think it's weird because I feel a bit too relaxed about the situation
23:52Paul can work any room, they make friends so quick
23:54Hi, you all right? You all right, strangers?
23:57There are times where I don't really need a conversation and that's just my anxiety, that's what I need to work on
24:05So is it the girls' side that you're looking to explain?
24:07Yeah
24:08It's just the girls and stuff, I think you have a lot of the same body parts
24:11Yeah, yeah
24:13You know your way around a bit and it's not as alien
24:15Yeah
24:16Yeah
24:17It should be, um, yeah, fairly easy to put things on
24:20Yeah
24:22I've never really had any experience flirting with girls
24:25It's just a lot of pressure
24:27It's kind of like imposter syndrome
24:34You're still dancing, I love it
24:35I'm just feeling the vibe, do you know what I mean?
24:38Just bouncing around the room
24:40So are you in here for her experience?
24:42What are you for there?
24:43But it'd be nice for me to just, like, enjoy the situation too
24:46Yeah
24:47But I'm just looking for, like, another girl to, like, bring her out of the shell
24:50Yeah
24:51She is, like, a wild card once you get to know her
24:53Yeah
24:54But it's getting her out of her
24:56What's the situation with you?
24:57So I've got a partner as well, he's also a Scouse
25:00Must be a Scouse magnet then
25:01Yeah, maybe
25:03High five with that
25:05Yeah, it's going great
25:06Yeah, it's going better than expected
25:07But I'm also like
25:08I wonder what she's
25:09How she's getting on
25:14What's the crack?
25:16We're here now, this is it
25:17It's fun, innit?
25:18I am having a good time
25:19I think it's just over here
25:20I'm, like, talking to so many people
25:23It's still brand new
25:24Like, how long have we, like, been doing this?
25:25An hour?
25:26Not even, like...
25:27I know
25:28A lot of these people have been doing this for, like, two years, five years, ten years
25:32For us, we've been doing it an hour
25:33So I think even if we do this for a year, it'll still feel new
25:37Yeah
25:38You overthink it and then it passes
25:39You're like, all right, I'll do it, take that opportunity again
25:41Yeah
25:42You need to strike whilst the iron's hot
25:45As a man and as a husband, it's my duty to look after Chloe and to push Chloe and to help her, like, explore anything she needs
25:54And give her what she needs
25:55And if this is something that she needs, then I'm only going to support her
26:00I'm nervous, but...
26:01It's good
26:04So, let's go, let's crack on
26:07It's good
26:08It's exciting
26:09Yeah
26:15How old are you guys, by the way? I didn't even ask
26:1727
26:18Same age
26:19Yeah
26:20I'll just...
26:21So I'll just go
26:22So I think too old
26:25Then you've got, like, a gentle Scouts accent, though
26:27Like, some of my friends in Liverpool, they'll be like...
26:30Yeah, being around so many Norfolk
26:31It's actually picking up different twang
26:32Yeah
26:33I love it
26:34Yeah
26:35I love it, baby
26:36I love it
26:37You have such a cute face
26:38Really?
26:39Yeah
26:40You're black and white
26:41That's what we're here to do
26:43Once I started talking to Emily and Holly
26:47Anxiety was, like, lowered and I got more into the vibes
26:50So, I'm very bicure
26:53Okay
26:54Say, like, my type of, like, punky tattoos
26:56I don't know
26:57I don't know what a question
26:59She's lovely
27:00She's so sweet
27:01So cute
27:02So cute
27:03Yeah, very attractive
27:04Really good vibes, yeah
27:05Like, considering she came into it so nervous
27:07Like
27:08Really good energy
27:09Just so you know
27:10We're down
27:11So just
27:12It's got that reservation
27:13Yeah
27:14Yeah
27:15Yeah
27:16I think
27:17With me it's a lot about, like, vibes
27:19So if you make me feel comfortable
27:21I'm, like
27:22It's just gonna feel natural to me
27:24Like, I'll to bed
27:25When I come by
27:26We'll, like, with you
27:27Hey, that's fun
27:28That's fun
27:29I'm totally down
27:30Yeah
27:31Okay, close your hands
27:33Yeah
27:34I'm ready
27:49How's that?
27:50Nice
27:51Nice
27:52You can say you've snobbed a girl
27:53I know
27:54I've never kissed a girl before now
27:56That was my first time
27:57I got, like
27:58A butter
27:59Like, I got a feeling
28:00So
28:01I'm hoping
28:02It leads to good things
28:03So we'll see
28:12How's that making you feel?
28:14It's weird, isn't it?
28:17I've only ever saw her
28:19Well, like, kiss me
28:21Yeah, I'm not gonna lie
28:26Like, this is weird
28:29I don't know how I would feel
28:44Earlier, Chloe surprised herself
28:46And husband Paul
28:48By kissing a girl for the very first time
28:51Yeah
28:54And since she started
28:58She can't stop
29:00Millie and Ames
29:01Started necking on
29:04And Emily
29:05It's going on, Ian
29:15Okay, okay, okay
29:17With things moving so fast
29:20Paul takes Chloe aside
29:22What's going on, Ian?
29:23I know
29:24You're beating me
29:25I know
29:26Makes a change, but...
29:27Yeah
29:28Isn't it mad how, like, all of a sudden
29:29It's went from nothing to, like, all of a sudden
29:31It's went from nothing to, like, full on this
29:32Because I know we spoke about doing it as a pre-some, but...
29:33Yeah, I know
29:34I feel like I kind of want to go on my journey
29:35I mean, not on my...
29:36Like, not on my afternoon, but...
29:37Even though, like, I'm obviously exploring this side of myself, you can explore... too
29:41Just literally don't even overthink it
29:42Yeah
29:43I can't even like to experience it all before, but...
29:44I kind of felt like... it was kind of shifting
29:45From experiencing something together to, like, take a look at it
30:13together to like take like our own like separate journeys like there was a shift
30:26having made the decision to go their separate ways chloe wastes no time
30:31hi hi hello good i wanted to know if you wanted to go to the youth yes absolutely love to yeah
30:41let's do it let's go let's go
30:46and i feel like the way it's been tonight yeah i don't think anyone expected like i don't know where
30:51chloe is now where's my girl oh right here we go where's emily can you find her emily's gone too
31:02so i don't know what that she's gone with the two girls she's gone with both she's she looked so
31:08happy like i'm not gonna lie i'm shocked like i thought it'd be baby step baby step baby step
31:16and for it to happen so quick caught me like off guard
31:24let's all just get cozy let's have a let's have a slumber party guy cheers
31:33it's weird it's like the tables are flipped and i wasn't i wasn't expecting that has she ever had
31:38like a girl experience at all oh really just me like yeah yeah
31:42women's lips just feel so much better yeah yeah yeah yeah oh cozy cozy oh
31:57i'm gonna have to step on my game now not to be outdone you just want to go on the outdoor jacuzzi paul
32:03arranges his own after party then he's off for that yeah a little chat and a little laugh and see
32:09where it goes yeah yeah that'd be nice yeah i'd like that sounds awesome right let's have it let's go
32:13do it let's have it
32:19we got essential massage oil would you like a little massage from me and emily to be honest i'm so nervous
32:25on the inside but i'm pushing i know if i don't like i want it but i know if like i shy away like i'll
32:33shut myself off to it two women instead of one i know i don't know if it's too much like more than
32:40what a bargain for
32:49at the festival area mark is enjoying his dating experience away from partner tanith
32:54and as the fireside games heat up give a french kiss to lily for me i'm a hundred percent
33:11that's hot
33:15kissing without my partner felt a little bit um strange at first but i think i loosened up a little bit
33:24it was quite fun yeah
33:31mark is definitely my type yeah such a vibe and just
33:34fucking attractive you're a great kisser by the way oh my god oh thank you
33:38i want to try now there's a lot of names i'll get there i'll get there meanwhile at the cocktail
33:45party open couple lou and ellie have taken tanis under their wing well we've both been in the lifestyle
33:53before we've been different leadership yeah yeah over 10 years but together four years
34:01yeah so um have you got like any like what like i was looking at your legs and everything when you
34:06oh i know like a little little pocket rocket but she's still thinking about mark yeah that's not
34:13obviously good me and mark we're quite good at the gym we go to the gym together yeah yeah he's my uh
34:19inspiration because i wouldn't go for him i don't think it's a bit like oh my partner's gone now like
34:26it's a bit weird but i'm sure he's in good hands
34:36yeah yeah it's going going good i think for me the next step would be to obviously get to know
34:45the girls a little bit more i'm gonna go back to the yard now and if you ladies want to follow me
34:51then you're welcome to yeah we all want to follow you yeah get warm come on let's go let's do this
35:01take us to your yard didn't expect it'd be going like this
35:11what about tanis are you thinking about tan for talk do you think she's having a good time i'm not
35:15really thinking too much about tennis otherwise that would distract me from what i'm doing here
35:18you think it was thinking about tennis no yeah he didn't seem too worried but he's the one coming
35:27into this experience and this is him pushing his own boundaries yeah i'm eager to get out there and
35:32have a good night just looking forward to having fun and seeing what happens welcome to my place
35:38since wife chloe went it alone paul's found himself in the hands of grace and naomi
35:53both eager to become his non-monogamy guides
35:58i think here we've just been raised haven't we with one idea of what a relationship looks like yeah
36:02you know there's a million ways to navigate a relationship and you're in control of how you
36:07want to do that it's it's just like it's exciting yeah
36:16yeah it's good how do you think she's feeling probably on top of the world yeah
36:23we'll take our clothes off make you feel more comfortable yeah let's do it
36:26your body's phenomenal
36:38going into it i was really nervous because i'd never done anything like that before
36:42but the girls like really like they make me feel so comfortable and they loan me anxiety straight away
36:49and you think it's ever too much just tell us yeah if you want to stop just say
37:00i surprised myself because like i pushed myself way out of my comfort zone
37:06my very first like opening up like exploring me by curiosity it felt really good such a nice putsy
37:25oh
37:41have you got kids together no no you plan on having children yeah yeah so so like here's the thing
37:46like here's the thing is like um we went through it we've we've struggled to have kids like we had
37:53a house we were like like this is the next step now i'll have a kid yeah like you're trying trying
37:58trying no one hasn't happened yeah trying again trying again trying again still hasn't happened like
38:02this is like nine months oh wow she just got investigating the life and we've got endometeosis
38:07this year she's getting a surgery so we could have kids possibly next year
38:11you've obviously had a lot of like experience in this life and this lifestyle so yeah compared to
38:20vanilla still very new to it vanilla's fine
38:25i could definitely sense paul's nerves i think it was extra daunting because then there wasn't just
38:30one girl there there was two so it was probably difficult for him to make that first move
38:35you were born to be a lesbian
38:45should we try to do a little triangle gas yeah yeah yeah it was like kind of a triangle
38:54learning mafia where we each like
38:58like yeah it was really good
39:08like i pushed myself way out of my comfort zone
39:17i've had my hands under water so i am actually a prone yeah same
39:22i was just out of my death right shall we go yeah ma'am it's like you've got a face full of bump
39:38it didn't feel right tonight to just jump straight in like that because it's a marathon not a sprint wow
39:44that was really hot honestly just natural at it definitely bisexual i think so
39:54big night yeah a lot of fists i enjoyed it so i feel like i wouldn't have enjoyed it as much as
39:59i did if only bisexual
40:05you did pretty good i mean there was definitely fireworks for chloe yeah yeah yeah we were all very
40:11having a good time we had great chemistry yeah it's like completely different to being with one
40:16it's like oh god yeah yeah it is a lot more like central yeah yeah a little cuddles yeah
40:27i think it was the yeah right decision for chloe to take that step and what she felt she needed
40:33from us and for that to be separate from paul
40:36you just made me feel so comfortable to be honest so i felt like something has been missing i feel
40:42like i've unlocked that part of myself that i feel like it's been missing type thing so yeah it's just
40:48like i can learn about who i am now my relationship with chloe is is everything to me i think worst case
40:56scenario for me chloe can meet a woman and a woman could fulfill her needs more and she could leave me
41:03and i'll just have to deal with that we are broken
41:25paul hasn't seen wife chloe since her surprise disappearance with residents holly and emily
41:31over four hours ago
41:38hello hello hi yeah you okay yeah you come and tell me about what did you do then they went down on me
41:50oh god yeah yeah and then i went down on emily
41:57and then we did like kind of like a triangle
42:06what a triangle yeah what does that even look what's that even look like it's like holly
42:12last time i was eating emily out and then emily last time was eating meals
42:17it's like now
42:21look at hell
42:23what i know
42:28felt felt right yeah
42:32do you think you're all bisexual then yeah definitely do yeah that's like impressive but it's
42:37so it's like what that's like mental sorry i'm just trying to deal with the stuff you just told me
42:43like what yeah that is mental i know what about you i went to the hot tub with em naomi and grace and
42:51we were just like to be honest we were just talking but then literally like that was it and
42:56really we were just thinking about you and talking about you you know what i mean like
42:59metal what you got off to it was nice it is different being with a man than me like to be with a woman more like sensual
43:11does that mean that
43:13like you're still like attracted to me and you still have sex with me and stuff yeah
43:22wow that is metal no
43:26ironically i was the one out my comfort zone tonight
43:31well i can't this is this is information overload
43:39that is i'm just like in shock
43:43but that was not the plan and like it weren't even something we'd like give thought to
43:51when you're doing it and now all of a sudden it's like
43:56it's on me but i don't know if i can like have sex with me
44:03it's hard now
44:13it's a very nerve-wracking but everyone's so lovely
44:29no i know it's just overwhelming but yeah it's just us it's just so free and happy and
44:46yeah just excited to be here and be involved kind of got a good vibe from all the people but i don't
44:52think there's that kind of romantic sparkly yeah it's just being quite you know getting to know everyone
44:58i think that one's yours oh thank you sorry what do you what do you do for work
45:04i have got my own business i do like dog walking really do you not ever just get pulled over
45:09i'm quite strong i think tanith is great she's got loads of energy bubbly
45:16i would look to explore it further so my strength is giving i normally just give okay so that's
45:24that's kind of my thing and if that was something that would interest you
45:29did you want to like continue this maybe somewhere a bit more private or
45:37i guess our vibes are like the same but like i think you're like top bad honestly you'd be like
45:42like it really is learning to talk to you like yeah yeah no worries
45:52do you think you can handle all of us
45:58what about what do you girls think do you go all you think you can handle me yeah
46:06didn't expect it'd be going like this but i'm just kind of going with flow and uh you know if
46:10everybody's comfortable and happy then you know what will be will be i have a proposition i think we
46:16can all kiss to make you a little bit relaxed yeah
46:26oh she's going in
46:29frenchie
46:30as mark's night intensifies bye bye guys tanith's has come to an end i'm gonna head up but it's been
46:41lovely i'm sad to see you all go but i'll see i'll see you i'll see you all hopefully i just decided to
46:48call it a night really because i didn't feel that sexual chemistry that connection with anyone to like
46:53go any further
46:58you're so cute
47:02oh it smells so good what's that
47:09i don't know what mark's been up to i think if i thought about that it would be yeah but yeah no
47:23i think the unknown is
47:51i think the unknown is hard
48:12having fun
48:21next time on open house
48:26and you get it do you think there were any boundaries crossed
48:36it's massively important that we can invite another woman into the relationship now i need to help me
48:43call for the tone i think if we don't do it now then i don't think we have a gunna oh i'm gonna
48:48burn myself it's absolute bonkers literally like what are we doing if you are a curious couple or
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