00:00Jennifer's come to apologise to Holly. If we could have a little chat with her, please.
00:07Now then, what are you going to say?
00:10I'm sorry.
00:12And?
00:14I'm sorry, and what?
00:16What are we talking about? Are you bullying? Are your friends bullying?
00:19I ain't bullying her.
00:20Let's not go over that again. What are you going to say? Are you going to say I'm sorry? Go on.
00:24I'm sorry, um...
00:25But I acted?
00:27I acted...
00:30wrong.
00:31Yeah.
00:32Did you mean it?
00:34I didn't do it.
00:35Okay, but you were with the friends that did. And what are you going to say to her about your friends?
00:38I'm sorry.
00:39What do you mean you're sorry? How are you going to phrase it? What are you actually going to say?
00:42I'm sorry.
00:43That's not good enough. Come on, sorry for what?
00:46I didn't bully her though. They were lying.
00:49Stop that. You were with people that were bullying her. You didn't say to them stop bullying her.
00:55Therefore, you're just as guilty of bullying as they are. Do you get that?
00:58No, I'm sorry. I hope you're okay.
01:00Sit up straight. Don't lean against them like that. That's stupid.
01:03I'm sorry and I hope you're okay.
01:05Can you say it with some sort of, you know, feeling?
01:07I'm sorry and I hope you're okay.
01:12What else are you going to tell her?
01:13I'm not friends with them anymore.
01:15Yeah, but what are you going to tell her? What are you going to do for her? What do we discuss? Come on.
01:18I'm going to buy her a gift.
01:20Yeah, what are you going to ask her what she wants?
01:21Yeah.
01:22Yeah? How are you going to say that?
01:25Because I'm sorry. I want to buy you a gift. What do you want?
01:28No, that sounds ridiculous. Say it with some feelings. Stop being so bloody stupid.
01:32Alright? Don't smile.
01:33I'm sorry.
01:34Take the smoke off your face. Okay? Let's do that now.
01:37Take the smoke off your face and be honest about it. Be honest.
01:40Okay.
01:41Imagine if it was you that was crying your eyes out because people have bullied you and you were scared to go to school.
01:45Imagine if it was you. If I went like that to you. How would you like it?
01:49If I went like that to you and said, don't you come near me you stupid little gal. How would you like that?
01:54I didn't say that.
01:55Would you like that?
01:56I didn't say that.
01:57Yeah, but did it feel good?
01:58No.
01:59It didn't feel good, did it?
02:00No.
02:01It felt horrible, didn't it?
02:02Yeah.
02:03Now do you understand how she feels?
02:04Yeah.
02:05Yeah, so now say it again. What are you going to say to her?
02:06Because I'm sorry. I'm going to buy you a gift. What do you want?
02:09And that's how you're going to say it, is it?
02:10Yeah.
02:11I'm really sorry. I hope you're okay. Can I buy you a gift to make you feel better?
02:18That's better. That's better. Yes.
02:21And what are you going to say to those stupid friends of yours?
02:24That they're sorry and I'm not friends with them anymore.
02:27And you're sorry for not doing what?
02:29For telling them to stop.
02:31You didn't intervene, did you?
02:33No.
02:34No?
02:35No.
02:36Okay, let's do this now, alright?
02:37Yeah.
02:38And give it some feeling that you actually mean it, because you should mean it.
02:41I hope I haven't brought you up to be so, I don't know, uncaring.
02:46Yeah.
02:47You're not an uncaring person, are you?
02:48Yeah.
02:49You do care, don't you?
02:50Of course you do.
02:51And I know this is difficult for you, but you have to learn.
02:54Yeah?
02:55Because in the big world, when you get out there, if you do that to someone,
02:58the consequences could be really painful.
03:01Do you understand that?
03:02Yeah.
03:03Yeah, sacked from a job, ridiculed on social media.
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