00:00But can a boy and girl just be friends?
00:03Yes, they must be friends.
00:05Not just can be, they must be friends.
00:08Do not become one of those macho characters who hangs about in his guy circle and scoffs at women.
00:17Six hunks drinking all night and doing all boy stuff.
00:22That turns you into some kind of caricature.
00:25But as long as men and women will be treated as two separate universes that will amount to a lot of misery in the world.
00:38That will amount to a lot of over-sexualization.
00:42You keep a man very distant from women and he gets over-sexualized.
00:50You keep a woman far away from men and she gets hyper-sexualized.
00:58And that's what religions have traditionally done.
01:01That's what conservative cultures have done.
01:03You create such a chasm between the genders that they both start burning in illusion and in lust.
01:16And there can be no great lustfulness without illusion.
01:22You cannot become crazy after women if you really know women.
01:27If you start knowing women, your desperation will reduce because there is nothing very special in them.
01:34When you do not know women, then you go totally bonkers.
01:42Fancies, imaginations, stories, dreams.
01:45And then it is the mark of a liberal and an awakened society, a spiritual society that men and women will be freely mingling with each other.
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