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00:01This is insane.

00:02Previously...

00:04The experiment's three new couples...

00:07Wow!

00:08...set off on their first adventures.

00:10This is incredible.

00:11But for some...

00:13You visualize me and your future.

00:15...newlywed bliss was hard to come by.

00:17Don't need pressure here. It's so early.

00:19We haven't had a lot of time to actually sit down

00:22and ask personal questions.

00:23I disagree.

00:26And...

00:27Yay!

00:28As friends and family arrived...

00:30Are you in love?

00:31No, I am in love with you.

00:32Yeah.

00:33I can't imagine my life without him.

00:34I'm in love with David.

00:35Completely and utterly in every way.

00:37Uncomfortable truths...

00:38Mud on my breath.

00:39F***ing idiot.

00:41I'd said that I'd got a bit of the ick.

00:44Prompted damning critiques.

00:46What possessed you?

00:47Is that normal?

00:48You can't accept that.

00:49She needs to not be allowed to say s***

00:52and get away with it.

00:53Do I let go or do I stay and fight?

00:55Tonight...

00:58Hi!

00:59Oh, hello!

01:00...the dinner party's new arrivals steal the spotlight.

01:03They're hot.

01:04Blue eyes.

01:05Oh, of course you're f***ing like this.

01:06I like to meet somebody and there's, like, that flirty vibe.

01:09I'm pissed off.

01:10But Leisha's debut...

01:12Everybody else is holding hands.

01:13Stopped on them because you said,

01:14don't hold my f***ing hands.

01:16Somebody's like immature.

01:18...fails to impress.

01:19Do you think you should be sat on a plane talking to a boy?

01:22I've had past relationships.

01:23That's never been a problem.

01:25Er...

01:26No!

01:27Babe, you just had a honeymoon with this man.

01:29I felt disrespected.

01:31And candid questions...

01:33Do you feel like there's a spot?

01:34I know it's gonna be...

01:35No.

01:36What am I supposed to say?

01:38...cause a marital meltdown.

01:40I just can't keep doing it.

01:42I can't change my feelings.

01:45There you go, love.

01:55Hot.

01:56Ooh, that's so nice.

01:57This is your second baby massage.

01:59Yeah.

02:00How many have I had?

02:01Five.

02:03Yay!

02:04Happy birthday!

02:06It's the morning of the experiment's third dinner party.

02:10I love you.

02:11I love you.

02:15Me and Sarah, we're not in the best place.

02:20My best friend James coming down really kind of hit me.

02:23He was asking some questions that I've probably not answered to myself.

02:29Just remind me, I'm here for me, as well as Sarah.

02:32I can't be disrespected again.

02:34We have had a bit of a tricky couple of weeks, a tricky start.

02:38You know, a lot on my part, I was, you know, maybe behaving in ways that I'm not proud of.

02:44The last few weeks have been really difficult.

02:48I can't help the way I'm feeling.

02:50I can see Dean is a great guy, but I'm just struggling to get that spark.

02:54But I'm trying.

03:00How are you feeling?

03:01Last week was just, uh...

03:02Hellish.

03:03Yes.

03:04Yeah.

03:05It was good to see my brother and sister, to see how Steven and I are doing.

03:09But I think it just reiterated and reaffirmed that Steven and I weren't in a good place.

03:14Right now, um, with Steven, I just need his words back to my actions.

03:19We were clashing at that time.

03:21My sister and brother, they'll always try and see it from my side.

03:24So, you're gonna get called out, you're gonna get upset by it.

03:27They have to tell you off a little bit.

03:29Last week was a hellish week for the pair of us.

03:31I'd say Neil and I are small steps back to where we were.

03:33This week, we've been intimate with one another.

03:35But my only worry about Neil and I's relationship,

03:37she's putting on the affection a little bit too much,

03:40and it's like, come here, give me a kiss and give me a smooch.

03:42I'm like...

03:44It needs to be a calmer week for us.

03:47Deal with what happened, forget about it,

03:49and just kind of work on getting closer again.

03:52I'm hoping at the end of the party,

03:53Nelly's not too forward with things.

03:55I'll quite happily hold her hand and give her a kiss every now and then,

03:58but I think if she's one-on-one every two minutes, it's like,

04:00what do you need? Like, what do you want?

04:07You're excited to hear how it's gone for everyone else this week?

04:12I actually am, you know.

04:13Like, I want to know what everyone else's in-laws have thought

04:16about each other.

04:17We've been all right, do you know what I mean?

04:19Yeah, yeah, yeah.

04:20Me and Joe, like, I think the relationship's going pretty good,

04:23but obviously now we need to talk about, like,

04:25what's going to happen next.

04:27We've not actually thought about what we're going to do when we're out of here.

04:30You said that you were going to come to Newcastle.

04:32I said if things progress

04:36and we are together on the outside because you've got Archie,

04:39it would be me that would have to move.

04:42I mentioned that I might move,

04:46but it's a long way to get to that point.

04:49We're still really early into this experiment.

04:52We just need to see what happens with our relationship.

04:54How are you?

04:55I'm all right, I'm okay.

04:56Energy was a little bit low this morning.

04:57Last week, I felt like we went into our war zone.

04:58I don't agree with people that, like, shout to communicate.

05:00You yelled at me multiple times.

05:01Did I not take accountability for it?

05:02I think you do then.

05:04If I feel like I'm being attacked verbally,

05:06everybody will shut down.

05:07This isn't normal.

05:10Hopefully there will be less drama this week.

05:12I'm very passionate and trying to just progress forward

05:14and just have a strong relationship with Junior Ruth.

05:15I don't think it's perfect or smooth sailing.

05:17We've both got our little things to work on

05:19and that's what we're going to do.

05:20I'm very passionate and trying to just progress forward

05:22and just have a strong relationship with Junior Ruth.

05:25I don't think it's perfect or smooth sailing.

05:27We've both got our little things to work on in that

05:29and we'd both be patient with each other.

05:30we must just be patient with each other.

05:40I'm guessing this is all romance.

05:54Yeah.

05:55yeah as the existing couples get ready for tonight's dinner party oh wow they're unaware

06:02that six more newlyweds are moving into the apartments and will be joining them oh my gosh

06:08look at this oh my god that's cute oh my gosh that's our forehead photo that was the awkward photo

06:17it'll get to see what the other couples are doing how they're getting on yeah definitely

06:26i'm excited to hear about everyone's honeymoons and where they've been

06:32felt really good being back from the honeymoon with leo and the chemistry was there

06:35from the wedding day so that hasn't really been an issue for us i guess but there is definitely

06:42some concerns with the lack of leading a conversation or if i'm not talking is there

06:46going to be any talking so yeah i mean that's a continuous worry but i think it's just going

06:52to be nice now to get settled in back to a bit of normality yeah definitely definitely

07:06how are you feeling being here now

07:11i really like reese i feel like as the days are going on i'm getting to

07:16fall for him every single day but i haven't been getting the same response from reese

07:24do you feel like you're like falling for me though do you feel like you like me

07:30easy girl it's been like two days on their honeymoon leisha and reese found themselves

07:36moving at different speeds in their marriage i know what i want i need to get there frequently

07:41all you're going to do is like push me away i'm just trying to be vulnerable and let you know like

07:45my insecurity i'm not here to attack you i just need to know that you're on the same page

07:49that flight was there horrendous isn't it yeah someone had one too many didn't they

07:56my flight back from thailand was very eventful with leisha she decided to like

08:06knock a few of the wands back come up to me covered in sick i'm a bit of a lightweight

08:11am i that is grim sorry she got changed that was that and then i went to get up to go to the toilet

08:21and then realized that leisha was standing at the back of the plane i talking to some fella for about

08:26an hour so when we landed i just said to her do you really like that you speaking to a fella for

08:31like an hour and a bit whilst you're married coming back from your honeymoon

08:34you too many wands way too many reese is frosty with me after the journey i am slightly worried

08:44i can tell it's still maybe niggling at me

08:50how do you think the dinner went with nicole and paula i would never normally get angry in front of

08:58guests this is the last time i'll mention this but i am not speaking about rebecca

09:04i don't need to bring it up it doesn't need to be a thing i just want to move forward

09:10ahead of the dinner party leisha and reese have decided to pay a visit to one of their neighbors

09:16i'm so excited i'm so excited to meet everyone i want to see if they're happy and they're couples

09:25ah hello

09:26hi how are you how are you what's your name leisha i'm lee lee and you all right

09:35yeah when did you just get here just now yeah literally just arrived oh 12 hour flight oh really

09:41where have you been thailand is it good unreal yeah sick are you like well matched

09:46a couple of a couple of little barnes oh really are you each other's type yeah oh that's good

10:00first impressions of reese and alicia is fit and fit i can definitely see them being a few people's

10:06types including myself we needed some to spice it up because of my past i'm a little bit hypersensitive

10:22to flirty behavior there's been a lot of emotions and a lot of things going on that have been getting

10:25to my head a little bit me and leah have been through the situation with rebecca and me feeling

10:30like leah has been too flirty with rebecca and now she's doing it again

10:44i'm so excited about the party how are you feeling safe i'm looking forward to showing

10:50everyone my wife hello and my husband so what do you think of the new couple i think they look

11:06gorgeous together she's definitely a girl's girl i like it when someone's tactile straight away it

11:11means that they're quite friendly well here we are almost at the midpoint in the experiment and

11:31this is where things start to get real now of course we have three new couples very exciting and

11:37coming off the back of in-laws a week the couples are forced to really rehash and relive every bit

11:44of their experience

11:51first here happy days more drinks for you i can't wait just us maeve and joe looking like a united

12:00couple on the back of both of them saying that they love each other it's obviously helped them to grow

12:04closer together and i think that's what we're seeing here very quiet while no one else is yelling

12:08ain't you look great thanks darling so do you again i know machi-machi

12:24he's davani and julia ruth last time we saw julia ruth and davani there was quite a bit of friction going

12:29on there so hoping there's been some progress all sit tones together yeah yeah what's been happening

12:36so we had tia who's davani's cousin come yeah and then i have my two best friends jj and drew come as

12:42well it was just really intense because they were both trying to defend and protect us like yeah why was

12:49it heated we just went over the stuff that we went through already in our honeymoon literally opening up a

12:55wound that was already closed and then it was just raw emotions bringing it back you know what i mean

12:59right i think davani is indirectly saying that he doesn't see any benefit in bringing up old wounds

13:06not every bit of conflict needs to be resolved but if you can't go back and address it it means

13:12that it still is an issue that's right yeah

13:14yeah

13:22sarah and dean last time we saw sarah we had to give her some home truths around the

13:26disrespect that she gave dean so hopefully they've had a better week

13:34all good no my best mate came threw me off a bit he's like i know you protect everyone it's in your

13:40nature's like but are you making sure you're okay and i was like yeah and i was like well maybe i

13:43need to take it on board to hear it from your best mate from home okay after that i kind of left

13:47a little bit deflated to be fair so i think for dean hearing his best friend question are you looking

13:53after yourself in this relationship is going to have a really strong impact on him but i wonder if

13:58dean's friends are actually saying what he knows deep down it doesn't sound like he's shocked by this

14:04feedback at all i think he knows this yeah how was your in-laws week um it was just good to sort of

14:12hear both of their you know like advice and yeah so yeah onwards and upwards um yeah and what about

14:23you miss me um sarah's completely dodged that question deflect

14:37hello bubba's hi nelly and stephen hello how are you last time we saw stephen and nelly they were not

14:47in a good place and it looks like they're at least signaling that they are a united front

14:54how's your week please well obviously last week was hell we've had in-laws week it was really nice

14:59seeing my brother and sister i feel like the start of last week i felt like there was this big massive

15:03dark cloud over nelly and steven and i was such a 180 from the honeymoon that i was like what's happened

15:10because i'm fully the same do you know what i mean yeah i think it just reiterated to me that we

15:14were in such an awful place and that made me sad but this week has been better this week i've been

15:20more present which has been good there's been no dramas i don't think unless she said otherwise

15:26i was in last week they gave me a brilliant for saying the fucking idiot to her which i expected

15:31yeah of course they're a bit like let's make sure that don't happen again oh fair it's just

15:36here in the moment people say things out of turn they don't actually mean

15:38i think for steven you call your partner something like that then it needs to be addressed and i'm

15:45not seeing any remorse here at all nor any regard for how it made nelly feel

15:55hello hey welcome here's our gorgeous girls lee and leah a bit grunge a little bit grunge

16:04one last time we met lee and leah leah's comments about rebecca were making me feel jealous and so

16:11the two of them were navigating their way through this we've got a secret to tell everyone

16:21oh what we met a new couple today what where yeah they came to our apartment so we've got

16:30reese and leisha oh exciting she's brunette yeah yeah of course you notice oh that's interesting

16:38i think we need to kind of establish what this jealousy or insecurity is about

16:42is it an ego thing or is there something there you know this is my partner and actually i feel quite

16:48uncomfortable about this but you're like definite girl's girl tactile nice huggy leah's type basically

16:54yeah she's my type the hop straight away it's comments about leisha and the way she looks and i

17:03don't feel she's taking my feelings into consideration when she's making comments

17:08those comments about leisha yeah i've sat on a couch and i've told you

17:15i've been through these similar situations before i've been humiliated in the past i find it

17:20disrespectful new girls come in again your type first thing you've done yeah she's fit lovely eyes

17:28it's all about her physical appearance yeah okay so this is starting to become a little clearer she's

17:33being triggered based on her past relationships and and she's feeling fearful this is the second time

17:38that leah has crossed lee's boundaries and lee's made it clear that she wants a level of respect when

17:44it comes to their communication leah's not able to deliver on it or she's intentionally provoking her

17:50i'm just gonna keep my eyes peeled yeah as to what happens from now we will see when she comes in yeah

17:56hello hello hello hello oh our first new couple reese and leisha

18:16a new couple i'm so excited

18:20oh

18:25only

18:38hello hello hello

18:40oh thank you

18:46only

18:46yes

19:01thank you so much

19:06i honestly need to bother that i know

19:08should we take a seat do you want to sit down yeah let's come sit down here tell me tell me tell me tell me what is going on

19:19i've used that the snog oh yeah yeah oh yeah yeah

19:22no qualms in that department

19:26ask the question do you think you're falling from and he's like oh in a week

19:30oh hell oh my goodness i said three days why did you ask him i was just for

19:36are you not like that is it it's a lot is it a lot oh

19:40oh shit after three days honey i can't say that if i got asked after three days i would have been like

19:44i'm pushing you in the pool and i'm swimming off

19:47i think this is quite a good reality check felicia because i think in her world

19:52she does move very quickly i wonder if maybe she's not getting what she needs from reese right now

19:57for her to feel secure enough so she doesn't need to ask that question so early on

20:02so how are you two getting along she's quite fast moving you know like the second day she was

20:07like are you falling for me and i was just i thought she was joking at first i don't normally

20:11move that quick i don't know what kind of speed she likes to move but it's obviously a lot

20:15faster than myself we had a bit of a row about my development of the relationship okay so this

20:21issue of pacing comes up a lot it doesn't have to be a problem you know as long as there's good

20:25communication around this is where i'm at and what i need this is where i'm at and what i need

20:29let's find the compromise and the common ground but i think what we're observing here is the two of

20:34them are not talking to each other about that on a plane on our own she was banged back a load of wine

20:41and then she's come walking up to me like sickle down her nah what oh she's like kneeled down like she's

20:50just like looking at me like shaking her head like oh my and then she just walked off and got changed

20:55she's gone for ages i'm watching the film so i know like an hour's past and she still ain't come back

21:01so i've got up like she's chatting to some geezer outside the toilet for like a straight hour wow

21:05oh jesus i'm thinking i mean we just come back from the honeymoon that you've been there it's

21:10like well disrespectful i wouldn't do that to you yeah yeah so that calls a riff no i think you're

21:15fair enough there though lads you know what i mean of course it's still such early days felicia

21:20and reese they're just starting to get to know each other but getting drunk and then spending a

21:25significant amount of time talking to another man isn't exactly ideal behavior to display in front

21:31of your new husband absolutely it's understandable that reese would be upset and left questioning

21:36what's really going on how are you where are you at she's in her little love bubble that's so lovely

21:45no but how are you actually feeling i am happy but yesterday when i had a chat with sophia she was

21:55like what are you gonna do after this because she was like you are so on your bubble now what's gonna

22:01happen when you actually get out of here and i was like i've not actually thought about this this is

22:07the power of in-laws week where those big questions about the real world start to come up and quite

22:12often our couples haven't considered that yet last week i was going to say something he was like

22:18don't get involved but like i felt like i had to say something oh what when i was on the sofa yeah

22:22i thought that's not who i am but then i didn't want to make him feel uncomfortable do you know what

22:26i mean not saying that i'm being a different person but if that is who you are and you do want to give

22:31your opinion you should have to dim yourself down or not speak on that because it's not something he would do

22:35mm-hmm you can really see the conflict in may she's not quite sure who she should be yeah should

22:43she be the maid that she knows or should she be the maid that joe wants her to be and you can see

22:48that she's kind of going backwards and forwards how are you doing how have you been getting on

22:54it's coming there slowly there's no pressure on it sometimes when you're on that couch i want to

22:58fucking shake ya sometimes i feel like you just support her every time it always plays on my mind

23:05what you said at the stack i want to be the prize and you always put the other person on the pedestal

23:09and i'm watching that play out in real life you need to have your feelings out there as well

23:15so here what we've got is leah essentially reinforcing what dean's friend said to him he's

23:21telling himself that he's in this great relationship with this beautiful woman who he really likes

23:26and i think because his self-esteem is underdeveloped he doesn't believe that he deserves more

23:42kia and david yes happy as ever and we can always trust them to raise the energy yes

23:51held each other's hands all the way through until they greeted a couple

23:55yeah and their smiles yes hello hello nice to meet you lovely to meet you where did you go on

24:01honeymoon uh thailand oh my god amazing yeah i got back yesterday and do you like your husband yes

24:08it's important to check you know

24:15hi rebecca and bailey a golden couple hello

24:21how are you doing good to see you hello nice to meet you nice to meet you i'm reese

24:28reese

24:29hi darling are you okay what are you looking at me isn't

24:32how you getting on mate you are all right bro cheers bro yeah cheers cheers cheers bro what i love

24:36about rebecca and bailey is they always put on this united front how are you how's your week been

24:42are we because been quiet i mean like we're like mom and dad in the crew you are mom and dad

24:46hi abigail and john our second new couple

24:57what's your name i'm john nice to meet you what's your name i'm abby

25:00abby lovely to meet you hi hi nice to meet you how's like everything going i feel like i've missed so

25:07much hey tell me about you first what's going on so yeah seriously we just come back from the seychelles

25:14i was really nice like we're going on like really well he's literally the kind of everything

25:17that i asked for oh yeah it's been really yeah it's really really sweet yes so far so good oh well

25:24done us yeah pat on the back nice nice work so how's everything going honestly mate like brilliant

25:31really yeah yeah yeah the wedding fantastic like the vows she said about i could have written them

25:38like honestly they said the same things we've been flying to be fair yeah oh that's good mate you can

25:44see dean's trying to put on that positive exterior but he's really feeling it it's clear that dean

25:49would love to be in john's position yeah

25:57oh oh hi why don't you cry oh no oh no grace is alone what's happened where's ash oh no oh my what

26:17oh i like that well they've come in high energy having a bit of a laugh so hopefully they're in a

26:23really good place it's a good sign yeah why would you do that sorry it's so easy um ashley and grace

26:32sorry what was your name again john john yes i want to know what in-laws speak with you with me yeah with

26:37you um it was good we saw two of my bridesmaids and then we saw ashes mum maxine and sister jess it's

26:45really helped us no we're all right we're in a really good place to be fair i feel like she's

26:49really working at it so yeah i couldn't have gone any better as well that's good yeah grace and ashley

26:54have so many shared values and it's important for them to remember that and it appears as if they

26:59have and that's the core of the success of the relationship they've had so far

27:05how are you doing you guys are getting on okay yeah everything seems perfect um are you actually happy

27:10with your partner um initially for me the attraction and that sort of spark wasn't there okay um he

27:18makes me laugh he was got the same values the only thing for me was just that attraction like okay

27:24do the attraction grow though or is it at all i don't it's hard we're taking it sort of step by step

27:29and have you had intimacy no with like held hands and like cuddled and things but no we're just taking it

27:34slow it's interesting the way sarah says we're just taking it slow as though it's a joint decision

27:42between the two of them and it's clearly not there really isn't any evidence of them moving beyond

27:46friendship at this point hey guys oh here's our third new couple april and leo

28:05nice to meet you hello steven nice to meet you steven and leo

28:09how's it been like since the video on the honeymoon we have got a lot in common i can really see why

28:13they paired us together there is some like niggles and stuff but at the end of the it's still so

28:17early on like what kind of things are you guys not really gelling on i was just concerned that i'm

28:22very much to leave the conversation i feel like if i wasn't talking there would be a lot of silence

28:25okay i have addressed that with him advice yeah i know i said you know i do feel like i'm leaving

28:30the conversation a lot it's a bit of a worry for me and he just sort of you know explains that he's

28:34not been in a relationship a long time and sort of said his side of things so did you ever try and

28:38just leave it just let the silence just see what happened i find it really really difficult right yeah but

28:43i did i tried what happened there was silence literally they could not have picked a better

28:48match for me really it's like the female version of me but better looking the main concern around

28:55is emotional connection has built a conversation emotional connection is built off very much getting

28:59deep and that's what's more concerning me i mean i'm worried that that won't build

29:06do you feel like he's the man for you i hope so like i don't know the certain things i'm doing

29:12with reese and i'm like i'm too much i'm too much really yeah they're like leisha like

29:16no i don't mind you won't be too much he's like you've got about three cups of coffee and i've

29:21literally just woke up i'm like i'm like i'm like that i'm like i like the outdoors don't like to be

29:29stuck on my couch yeah i hate that as well i like to get up in the morning seize the day crack on with

29:34it that's like me where i live it's like on the beach oh nice so i like getting all yeah having

29:41a coffee outside getting the night like would you say when you normally get in a relationship you're

29:47like instant connection fireworks passion i like i like to meet somebody and there's like that flirty

29:54vibe straight away do you know what i mean for me i much prefer it when i meet somebody and there's like

29:58that flirty connection yeah that's important for me especially something like this that you want to

30:03have that i'm pissed off i can see leah's been flirting with leisha it's not that i don't trust the other

30:11girl it's more on leah's behaviour where are you going oh i like the colours where are we

30:25everybody's holding hands apart from us right hold my hands

30:32we're walking at the dinner party everybody else is holding hands and i'm just looking over at reese

30:36going what are you doing where's my husband why are you not holding my hand like give me some support

30:41please please no you off now please no there seems to be a real disconnect here with leisha talking

30:52about how symbolic and meaningful a handhold is to her yes maybe it's not terese

31:07everybody else is holding hands he doesn't grab my hand

31:11i feel like that means quite a lot to me as well it means so much to me it's the little things like

31:15that like for sake why not hold my hand yeah

31:23all right no it's just like everybody else is like holding hands now and you're just

31:27fucking walking off and leaving it i was holding the end i'll stop down now for two seconds that would

31:32do you have to fucking hold my hands she's very pissed off at me right now for not holding her

31:42hand she needs quite a bit of reinsurance from me there's only two minutes i didn't hold it i can't

31:46constantly be holding her hand it's just frustrating like the way you handle shit it's like to me it's

31:52that in my jaw like i don't know my fucking hands storm off like oh three darling i'm chasing after

31:57you like no no no you should want to like do that with me like i shouldn't have to ask well there's

32:05a job to be done here for both reese and leisha leisha needs to communicate that handholding is

32:10important to her but he also needs to start reading her so i think work needs to be done on both sides

32:15you feel like you're region would you expect just coming to the first dinner wife you said don't hold

32:21my fucking hands you've got another one of your time opposite us this week yes she's brunette and

32:38goes to gym hey you do what you want to do i'm doing anything you think i fancy her

32:44there's not i think it's a liverpool thing i think the word fit means the same thing as hot

33:00across the uk what's most concerning for me is how is it landing with lee right yeah and it's clear

33:07she's hurt she's pained by it everyone's so complimentary up north londoners aren't like that

33:14did she really just say to me that she's more flirty because she's from liverpool

33:19biggest fucking cop-out i've ever heard so the reason that you flirt with other girls

33:25who do i flirt with i don't flirt with rebecca and i certainly am flirting with her

33:31marriage definitely can't work without trust a relationship can't work without trust it's pathetic

33:36i've expressed my feelings about other girls and being flirty or

33:41just pushing boundaries that i've set what i won't do is allow someone to disrespect me

33:47again and again and again

34:03all right you got this you got this

34:05so i hate public speaking um but as it's his birthday i guess i'll do it i have fallen in love with this man

34:17yes look at that fallen in love with oh gorgeous he is the kindest most honest human

34:29being i've ever met in my life i do not know what on earth i did to deserve this man

34:36but i'm so glad that he is here and here with me

34:39it's really hard to see sarah and dean here such sad face expressions when they heard kia say that

35:06and i think it's a reflection of what they don't have in their relationship unfortunately he's sad

35:12so how are you two doing yeah good really good

35:17we know dean is the eternal optimist sometimes at the expense of reality and so he was always going

35:22to say yeah great everything's going great but looking at sarah's non-verbal communication

35:27she's really saying i don't think things are going too well at all

35:36it's really hard to see the other couples progressing

35:44physically you can see that they're all all over each other

35:48i just don't know how much more i've got left within me to be completely honest

35:55how about you guys how was the in-laws and the rest of the week

35:59steve and i are in a really not great place ultimately we want to try and get back to how we

36:04felt about each other i guess on the honeymoon you're never going to get truly back to the

36:08honeymoon thing because what's happened has changed the dynamic side but you can get back

36:11to a place of the honeymoon again i'm just thinking like is there anything else i can do

36:15for my end really please don't be needy with me

36:22what do you define as needy though needy for me is just being ultra possessive i'm not massive on

36:28public display of affection anyways the constant always put my arm around you and i think when the

36:32needliness comes in that's when i've started going the way i am genuinely really really sorry about

36:37it it's just hard to navigate i think what would be more healthy from steven is him saying okay this

36:47is what you need from me let me see if i can make a little bit more effort and give you a little bit

36:51more encouragement and support so you don't feel the need to want so much more from me but he's putting

36:57all the blame on nelly well you said it early doors what you think about the other girl

37:02i was like why are you asking that was a poorly landed joke on my behalf that was me my insecurity

37:06coming out of the joke and it landed really badly it was like what do you think the other girls are

37:10do i need to be worried and i'm like no i'm so sorry if it offended you but just remember at that

37:15point i knew you'd pulled away and i hadn't had a reason why it's very natural for a person to feel

37:20that way if i'd randomly pulled away from you didn't tell you'd be what the hell's going on in her head

37:23that's exactly what i was thinking in that moment i thought i have no idea what's going on

37:33i feel like you guys need to focus on being

37:36good and growing and progressing and you'll be happy once you get there and stop looking back at the

37:41parts nelly needs certain things but maybe vocalizing that to him so then steven knows and

37:48steven can learn from it as well i think with that though i just worry that if i do vocalize too much

37:53i'll just push him away even more you're not asking too much to tell your partner what you

37:57need in a relationship and if steven were to turn around and say i'm gonna walk because it's too much

38:02for me then he's not right for you i think lee has made a really valid point there nelly has every

38:08right to say to steven what she needs from this relationship and if there are worries about doing

38:14that then you have to ask yourself is this the right relationship for you what were your highlights from

38:21the honeymoon my toilet was actually spending it with you like not this generally i know that sounds

38:27really cheesy but it's it's just because you have like such a good connection and i've not felt like

38:32you know this before like with anyone he makes me feel like it's okay to be me and it's just like

38:36seeing the progression from like the start to the end of the honeymoon more and more each day

38:39i became more like myself it just highlighted like how much like i generally wanted to find someone and

38:45that like i found my own person john is besotted look at how he locks his eyes in as abby just

38:54talks yes no one else in the room no one else in the room

39:01you guys seem so solid and so like lovely together yeah we're doing so well like yeah so good i said the

39:07l word at the commitment ceremony last week oh my god how did you feel when he said it like when

39:13anyone tells you they love you like i feel so strongly for him so like when someone like you feel for

39:18says that they love you it's a big thing isn't it that's when i just said it you're blushing you

39:23haven't said about i'm just so much more reserved than him with like expressing my feelings that way i'm

39:30much more of a slow burn but you are very much yeah i'm very much in yeah i feel so strongly for

39:36it and for me like love is like an end goal and i think i probably think about those things much more

39:42than bailey does let me be king i think this is a really beautiful example of a couple where

39:49one partner is moving towards the emotional connection more quickly than the other their

39:53pace is not quite matched but they're talking about it

39:56and then you have alicia and reese who are unable to communicate how they feel

40:06how are you feeling

40:10i know when you're raging you know that

40:14yeah all right cool

40:18you know i can't deal with stuff like this when you start going like this and you just shut down

40:26we'll just put it behind us yeah you just you just i can just tell like i'm i'm getting all nervous

40:36i'm just feeling like now

40:40my worries with reese are me pushing reese away i think i do certain stuff like the way i did on the

40:45plane and then we get into an argument and he just ignores me and he just gets himself in his head

40:50and he doesn't communicate with me guys i have the honesty box good evening and welcome to our new

41:01arrival

41:07tonight's honesty box is a little bit different as we'll be asking you all to hold a mirror up to each

41:13other and provide frank and objective opinions one person from each couple must read out their

41:19question to the group and once a group have finished responding the couple must also reflect and answer

41:24the question so the questions from this honesty box will be answered by the group rather than the

41:31couples themselves he is such a great opportunity getting an outside perspective it's going to be very

41:37interesting to see how things go tonight you've all heard about the journey home from the honeymoon

41:44are you team lee sharp or team reese what happened bro

41:53all right so basically what it was leash has come up to me like a sick downer i was just drunk then she

41:59just got changed and then a little time later i went to go to the toilet and lee she was just like talking

42:04to a boy and like the conversation lasted about an hour like some random boy on the flight who's out in

42:13his 20s team reese so how did that make you feel wait how does it make you feel obviously pissed off

42:24like i felt disrespected i hear you because i would feel exactly the same you're off the back of your

42:30honeymoon regardless if it's funny or not do you think you should be sat on a plane talking to a boy

42:36similar age to you probably not what's your view of the story in that perspective it was very valid

42:41and obviously i apologize as soon as he said it i was like oh i knew i knew i'd fucked up that's his

42:47boundary and i respect that from now on hang on a minute there's one little part that's just not

42:55sitting right with me you've been telling us about like what you need from each other and what

42:59you're uncomfortable with and how he shuts down but if somebody's shutting down off the back of

43:04your action you can't really complain about his behavior afterwards because it was fueled by what

43:09you did i'm not stupid like i obviously realized that that wasn't something that he liked that's a

43:15boundary for him i'm a very friendly person i'll chat to everyone the main thing is that you don't know

43:21each other so maybe just like a little bit more respect honestly brother i would have been absolutely

43:29fuming do you feel like you did wrong i didn't think i did anything wrong if you've just gone and

43:37married to this man you've just had a honeymoon with this man he doesn't know you it doesn't know

43:41your character it's like babe do you know what i mean for for sake i'm getting it from every angle

43:49possible they don't know me i've had past relationships that's never been a problem

43:57but the other side of it is if you spent time with her maybe she wouldn't have got that drunk

44:00with strangers and you could have absolutely got it i'm not gonna lie

44:14for fuck's sake i'm getting it from every angle possible

44:21they don't know me i've had past relationships that's never been a problem but the other side of

44:26it is if you spent time with her maybe she wouldn't have got that drunk with strangers

44:30no absolutely not this is right at the beginning give leisha some slack

44:39this is a intense process you were thrown into a relationship instantly without knowing anybody

44:45reese i'm not taking away from you that must have been a bit of but like give us some slack

44:51it must be really uncomfortable for leisha to come into this new group and to have probably one of the

44:56most embarrassing things of her experience so far being aired so publicly like this

45:03what one thing do you think each of us need to do differently to help our marriage

45:08i think that sometimes just sitting back and not taking it as an attack if ashley wants to look after

45:13you don't question it and just let him do those nice things for you it comes from kindness in a really

45:18good place okay that's really good yeah i think it starts with trust if you can trust that ash has

45:26your best interests at heart that trust is just building now and it is there and i'm always going

45:31to have your back that's me look at that kiss fabulous this is a really big move for grace we

45:49know she's uncomfortable with pda so to be able to engage in such a big public kiss with ash it's a

45:55really big deal do you really think we have a future together and if not why not

46:07you've had a rocky period you have

46:11dean make sure you're here for yourself in your own journey as well because

46:15there's nothing worse than like you're feeling like you're pushing pushing pushing and you're not

46:19getting nothing back do you feel like there's a spot off between you after this week no

46:31romantically i'm not sure i am doing everything i can so we'll see

46:37that would be hard for dean hearing in no uncertain terms no

46:49it knocks me back to here sarah doesn't have a spark i thought we were progressing

46:53i don't know what more i can do i'm doing everything i can

46:56that wasn't awkward for you was it yeah no it's okay

47:06what am i supposed to say no i know

47:09what i mean i just feel really bad like i want it to be there like

47:14well don't rush it if it comes it comes if it doesn't it doesn't yeah i know i know i know

47:18i just don't want to hurt you

47:19i don't fancy him

47:29i can't keep doing it

47:33and i do see something like lovely between us but i just don't know if it's in that romantic

47:37setting and i've just told him that and i haven't i just i haven't let him on i haven't like but then

47:43i'm like why can't you see that because he is such a lovely guy it just fucks with your head

47:49oh

47:55is it going

48:03next time for me i've kept that on my head hard-hitting honesty from the couples what more

48:08can actually do you've done something to piss me off and the experts why weren't my feelings

48:14considered in this that is a masterful deflection we are talking about your wife right now makes for

48:19an emotional make or break commitment ceremony i'm worried that if i give up that i'm gonna be like

48:24oh i wish i'd tried and sarah i think you're clutching at straws here you know how you feel

48:42if you might be like

48:43why don't you i'll be like

48:45oh

48:46oh

48:47but i don't have to think i don't have to i don't know what you're thinking about

48:50i don't know what i can't make or i don't know what i do

48:52so

48:54oh

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