Married at First Sight UK S10.E08

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00:00:01We're so cute!

00:00:03Previously...

00:00:06Our newlyweds took the next step into married life.

00:00:10But for some, domestic harmony...

00:00:12I won't be living in this apartment. I need some time out.

00:00:16...was short-lived.

00:00:20It was the first dinner party of the experiment.

00:00:23Here we are on this mad experiment, seeing things not in our element.

00:00:26Sarah shared her unfiltered opinions on Dean.

00:00:29He asked me if I'd ever slept with anyone.

00:00:31It's like a bear bear.

00:00:34Sarah's already entered the zone of being disrespectful.

00:00:37And that's something that needs to end.

00:00:38And for Julia, Ruth and Devani...

00:00:40Spark is definitely there.

00:00:42We're literally like yin-yang-yang.

00:00:44Conflicting accounts of the honeymoon...

00:00:46He said how amazing it was.

00:00:48On what planet?

00:00:49...left their marriage hanging by a thread.

00:00:52The honeymoon was not easy.

00:00:53They've heard a different story.

00:00:55It makes no sense.

00:00:57I'm so genuine.

00:01:03Tonight is the very first commitment ceremony.

00:01:05It's time for the couples to face the experts.

00:01:08Can't communicate with you, and you don't listen.

00:01:10You don't back down.

00:01:12It's been difficult.

00:01:13It's been proper difficult.

00:01:14This isn't gonna work.

00:01:15Tension builds as two couples clash.

00:01:18No emotional connection.

00:01:20No communication.

00:01:21I thought we could build from the wedding day.

00:01:24Just miles apart.

00:01:27And Sarah's bad-mouthing...

00:01:29Do you think that you were rude while talking about your partner?

00:01:33...catches up with her.

00:01:34This man is talking about how lovely his partner is, and you are on the other side of the room disrespecting him.

00:01:42It's not me.

00:01:43It's not who I am.

00:01:44It's not me.

00:01:45It's not who I am.

00:01:47That was good.

00:01:53Right, now get the other one in.

00:01:59Other one?

00:02:00Oh!

00:02:01Nah.

00:02:02Right, put them down there.

00:02:04So we're going to be f***ing orange juice.

00:02:09Can I have this piece of toast?

00:02:11That was a bit buttery.

00:02:13Cholesterol for breakfast.

00:02:21Yesterday, it was a lot, wasn't it?

00:02:23It was a lot, yeah. Fun, no?

00:02:24Yeah, we had a really good time.

00:02:26I felt really confident with you, even before we saw everybody else.

00:02:30But then when we did see everyone else and we saw where they were at,

00:02:32I was like, oh, actually, we are super strong.

00:02:34Yeah, it's a nice feeling, isn't it?

00:02:36I loved walking into the dinner party with Bec.

00:02:38I loved showing her off.

00:02:39And I walked in with a big smile on my face.

00:02:41Bailey and I are really good. We're happy.

00:02:43We have gone from strength to strength every day.

00:02:46We're very tactile. Intimity's great.

00:02:48The spark for us is flying.

00:02:50So we're going into the commitment ceremony in a really strong position.

00:02:57The vibe this morning is a little bit tense.

00:02:59After last night's dinner party, Giovanni and I spent the night separately.

00:03:03We had a argument.

00:03:06Compared to the other couples, I knew that we were struggling.

00:03:10It felt like, again, we were on different pages.

00:03:13He was trying to just paint a picture so no one could see what was going on.

00:03:16He's saying it's f***ing daisies.

00:03:18It wasn't the best feeling to know that my wife was upset.

00:03:23How I articulated our issues was a little bit sugar-coated.

00:03:28I can admit that.

00:03:29But that's what I chose to do because obviously we're a team.

00:03:40It's really well.

00:03:42Last night was intense, wasn't it?

00:03:44Mm.

00:03:44Yeah, I'm sorry about the crying.

00:03:46I wasn't planning on doing that.

00:03:49I got upset at the dinner party yesterday from the honesty box.

00:03:53I feel a little bit embarrassed.

00:03:55Nellie, can you see yourself falling for me?

00:03:58It's very hard for me to say.

00:04:00Yeah, that's fine.

00:04:03Why is it so hard for you to talk about falling for somebody?

00:04:08I think I'm so afraid of being so emotionally, like, open and vulnerable to someone.

00:04:15Like, thinking I know who I am and think, you know what, I'm not into her.

00:04:20And then they break my heart.

00:04:22I can't wear that anymore, it's too much.

00:04:27Just a lot for week one.

00:04:29Yeah, of course it is.

00:04:30It's like, when the honesty box comes out, we all know what that sort of entails.

00:04:34So, very courageous of you to show that emotion and say what you said.

00:04:39Stephen's doing all the right things, but I still keep getting into my own hair thinking,

00:04:43what does he like you?

00:04:44Are you sure about that?

00:04:45I don't want to scare him off or give him the ick.

00:04:47And I will convince myself, if he doesn't hold my hand for long enough, it's because he's

00:04:52not into me.

00:04:53Even though the poor guy probably just wants his arm back.

00:04:55He's clearly telling me he's being truthful.

00:04:57Why can't I believe it?

00:04:58Looking forward to seeing the experts today.

00:05:03Do you think you're going to get emotional?

00:05:05Me?

00:05:05I don't get emotional.

00:05:06What if they poke you in all the right places?

00:05:11It hasn't happened for a while, so.

00:05:12Grace and I, I feel, are in a really good place.

00:05:18We're quite stable at the moment, so I'm quite happy with where I am.

00:05:22Is there anything you're looking to talk to the experts about?

00:05:25I feel like they might, I don't think it could be confronting.

00:05:28I'm scared.

00:05:28I wasn't myself on honeymoon.

00:05:30It's all been so overwhelming and so hard.

00:05:35I don't want to do this, sorry.

00:05:37On their wedding day...

00:05:39What's upsetting you?

00:05:43I can't...

00:05:45Grace struggled to find a connection with Ashley.

00:05:49I was raised like men of the breadwinners.

00:05:52Like old school morals, basically.

00:05:54Yeah.

00:05:56And the honeymoon brought her walls up even higher.

00:05:59Okay, is that enough now?

00:06:02Yikes.

00:06:04I'm not really feeling it.

00:06:05I feel like everything I'm doing is wrong and I don't know why.

00:06:09In an effort to turn things around, Grace finally opened up to Ashley.

00:06:14I just want to explain the physical touch thing,

00:06:16because I feel like maybe I'm making it seem like it's you.

00:06:19I've been this way since I was a kid.

00:06:21It's a sensation that I don't like.

00:06:23It's like skin.

00:06:24Yeah.

00:06:24But it's especially bad when I'm a bit stressed

00:06:27and the people I don't know, they don't need to project it onto you.

00:06:31I'm just hoping I don't get upset.

00:06:32If you do feel emotional, what is it that I'm supposed to do?

00:06:35Because my natural reaction would be to give you a hug if you're emotional.

00:06:38But you obviously don't, you're not going to want that.

00:06:40So what is it I do?

00:06:41I might want that.

00:06:42I don't know.

00:06:43Let's just see.

00:06:44Let's just cross that bridge.

00:06:46I am nervous about seeing the experts.

00:06:49Obviously, they're going to shine a light on all the things that, you know,

00:06:52sometimes I avoid talking about.

00:06:54The touching, the PDA, all of that.

00:06:57I'm the problem.

00:06:59That's how I feel, actually.

00:07:00So that's maybe why I'm nervous.

00:07:06I'm so sorry you feel sick.

00:07:09David is feeling really unwell.

00:07:12He's so achy.

00:07:13That poor man has got no energy whatsoever.

00:07:16How are you feeling about seeing the experts to know by yourself?

00:07:19Overall, I'm terrified about going by myself and I don't want to go.

00:07:23I'm sure you're going to be fine.

00:07:25Yeah, I got us, Bobber.

00:07:26Don't worry.

00:07:26But drink the honey and lemon ginger tea when it's hot.

00:07:30It does nothing now.

00:07:31It's cold.

00:07:33A little bit worried about walking into my first ceremony without him,

00:07:35but I think we're really strong, so it should be fine.

00:07:42First commitment ceremony today.

00:07:44What do you think they're going to say to us?

00:07:45I don't really know.

00:07:46From here, shit gets deeper, doesn't it?

00:07:49I want the experts to tell us where we're going wrong.

00:07:51We're just not there yet in terms of the romantic connection.

00:07:54It's more than friends, but at the same time,

00:07:57she doesn't want to rip my clothes off.

00:07:59I said, you just need to let your wall down a little bit more.

00:08:01Like, I'm trying.

00:08:02I'm being way more open and vulnerable than I ever would in any situation.

00:08:06The thing is, mine's not by choice.

00:08:08That vulnerability or, like, moving to that next stage with you

00:08:11is just not coming naturally.

00:08:12Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:08:12And it's not, like, something that I'm choosing to do.

00:08:15And it sounds so shallow.

00:08:18I think this whole narrative of, like, oh, you're not my typical type.

00:08:21It's like I'm struggling to fill the romance.

00:08:23It's not just about, like, you don't have an undercut.

00:08:25Do you know what I mean?

00:08:26Me having my walls up isn't by choice.

00:08:27Like, it's not something I'm in control of.

00:08:29Like, I feel like I'm blocked off and I can't unblock.

00:08:33It's just, like, how do I let these walls down?

00:08:36But at the same time, I think I'm more willing to try and get the wall down.

00:08:42There's a big decision to make today.

00:08:44I'm trying to be open and vulnerable.

00:08:46But I've had my walls up for so long,

00:08:48it's going to be really hard to change and let my guard down.

00:08:50I'm trying to, like, give it my all and be completely open.

00:08:54And initially that attraction wasn't there.

00:08:56So I'm intrigued to see what the experts' advice is

00:09:00or what they think is beneficial for us to do moving forward.

00:09:06Are you still feeling shit?

00:09:08Yeah, I feel terrible, to be honest.

00:09:10I feel like crap.

00:09:12Joe's feeling proper poorly,

00:09:13so I don't know if he's going to be able to attend the commitment ceremony.

00:09:17I'm nervous, you know.

00:09:18It's obviously, like, it's a commitment ceremony.

00:09:21And I hate feelings.

00:09:22So I'm guessing we're going to be talking about how we feel about each other.

00:09:27Joe's expressing some feelings towards us at the dinner party.

00:09:31I feel exactly the same way.

00:09:32I'm just not very good at showing it.

00:09:34But I'm obviously going to tell the experts that I really like Joe

00:09:38because I can't stop smiling when I talk about him.

00:09:44Feeling a little bit disappointed.

00:09:46I came away from the dinner party feeling the same about Paul as I did going in.

00:09:51I agree with Rebecca,

00:09:53saying that Paul and I was one of the weakest couples.

00:09:56I'm struggling with the emotional connection.

00:10:00Whatever decision I make today is very important.

00:10:03I did this experiment to find love.

00:10:06So I'd be good to walk away without it.

00:10:08I'm 100% needy of the experts.

00:10:14I care very much about Anita.

00:10:17But opening up about my emotional feelings has always been a struggle for me.

00:10:21My coping mechanism is to put a barrier up.

00:10:24And I think that's something that Anita's found hard to break down.

00:10:27I'm not too empathetic towards her feelings, maybe.

00:10:33And it's something I need to improve on.

00:10:36Anita has compassion and patience.

00:10:38I'm hoping she stays around long enough and work together to build the marriage going forward.

00:10:44I've no idea where Anita stands.

00:10:45I've no idea if she's going to say stay or leave.

00:10:47What do you think about Sarah and Dean?

00:10:56He hasn't said much, but I know, obviously, she said bits to you.

00:10:59Oh, she did say she got the ick.

00:11:01Did she?

00:11:02Like, proper ick.

00:11:03That's a bit of a sad one, to be fair, because he's such a nice lad.

00:11:07She said there's no physical attraction there for her at all.

00:11:09Yeah.

00:11:09There's nothing sexual for her.

00:11:20Last night, it was harder than I thought it was going to be.

00:11:22Yeah, definitely.

00:11:23It's hard to see everyone as well, like, be lovey-dovey.

00:11:26Mm-hm.

00:11:27Because I'm the guy, like, oh, comparison's the thief of truth.

00:11:29I'm not going to compare.

00:11:30But, yeah, it's definitely a feeling, a lot of feelings yesterday.

00:11:34You can't help that, naturally.

00:11:35No, yeah, I won't, but, yeah.

00:11:37Um, I'd obviously said that I probably would compare.

00:11:41It obviously would be the attraction thing,

00:11:43which is, for me, the hardest bit.

00:11:45And last night, it was emotional at points,

00:11:47so I think, yeah, today will be the same.

00:11:50Last night's dinner party has given me a little bit of a wake-up call.

00:11:53Mine and Dean's relationship is not where I would have imagined it to be.

00:11:57It is quite hard to see other couples being quite all over each other,

00:12:00and Dean and I aren't like that.

00:12:02And I think that's making me feel very emotional.

00:12:04I'm nervous about it as well,

00:12:07because it's kind of putting everything out there, isn't it?

00:12:09Mm-hm.

00:12:10And it is so intense.

00:12:11I think it's only going to get intenser.

00:12:12If we're honest, it can kind of only help.

00:12:16I like Sarah.

00:12:17I'm optimistic she'll say stay.

00:12:19There is reasons that we are matched.

00:12:21We're both here to kind of try and make it work.

00:12:23So, yeah, I'm confident that she'll stay.

00:12:25We're all wanting to get somewhere within this experiment.

00:12:30We're both where we are.

00:12:30We're like, yeah, we need help, and that's what they're there for.

00:12:32So, hopefully...

00:12:34I don't know what the experts could do to help get that spark.

00:12:40Looking at the other couples and feeling that, like, you know,

00:12:44sexual energy and sexual spark,

00:12:46I mean, that was, like, flying through the room at one point.

00:12:48I genuinely just don't know if we're going to get to it.

00:12:53MUSIC PLAYS

00:13:18Today is the very first commitment ceremony,

00:13:28and we are so excited to start your journeys with you.

00:13:33This is where the hard work begins.

00:13:37It's imperative that all of you commit to being honest and open.

00:13:43Honesty is the key to the success of your marriages.

00:13:48You're all here to make a very important decision,

00:13:52whether to stay or leave the experiment.

00:13:56A couple can only leave the experiment if both write leave.

00:14:01If just one person wants to stay,

00:14:04then the couple must stay in the experiment

00:14:05and continue to work on their marriage.

00:14:09Now, David and Joe cannot be here today due to illness.

00:14:14But for the rest of you, let's all get down to business.

00:14:18MUSIC CONTINUES

00:14:22Our first couple up to the couch tonight is Grace and Ashley.

00:14:30Hey!

00:14:31CHEERING

00:14:31Come and join us, you two.

00:14:37Hello.

00:14:38Hello.

00:14:39Why don't you take us back to the wedding day, Grace?

00:14:43How did you feel leading up to the ceremony?

00:14:46I don't really know what I was expecting.

00:14:49I certainly didn't expect it to hit me like the ton of bricks that it did.

00:14:53I think I just panicked.

00:14:55I was frustrated with myself and berating myself,

00:14:59and I took myself on a downward spiral.

00:15:01Later, there was talk of Ash's traditional values

00:15:05and being an old-school gentleman,

00:15:07and I didn't really know what that meant.

00:15:09I love being an independent woman,

00:15:10and I just thought,

00:15:12it's dead in the water before it even starts.

00:15:15How did that feel for you, Ashley?

00:15:16It was like a deer at headlights

00:15:18when sort of Grace was feeling the way she was.

00:15:20So that kind of made me spiral a little bit

00:15:22because I said from the very beginning

00:15:25I wanted to be unapologetically me.

00:15:26That's really hard to do

00:15:27when you're the reason she's feeling like she is.

00:15:32It's about terminology, isn't it?

00:15:34Grace, his old-school gent,

00:15:36and she thinks,

00:15:37I'm not a trad wife.

00:15:39Yeah.

00:15:39I had no idea it would even be taken that way,

00:15:42so it completely kind of wiped me off my feet

00:15:44because I just wasn't expecting it.

00:15:47It sounds like that was quite difficult for you.

00:15:51And then you went on honeymoon.

00:15:53On the honeymoon.

00:15:53OK, so for the first couple of days,

00:15:55I'm feeling upset.

00:15:57Everything made me on the brink of tears.

00:16:00I'm not the most touchy-feely person.

00:16:03And in this moment,

00:16:04when I was feeling so overwhelmed

00:16:06and so stressed and so anxious,

00:16:08so vulnerable,

00:16:08that not wanting to be touchy-feely,

00:16:12it became a huge deal.

00:16:15And Ash, in wanting to make me feel better,

00:16:18is like,

00:16:19you OK?

00:16:20You all right?

00:16:20And I was like,

00:16:22it was making me go more and more

00:16:24and more inside myself.

00:16:25I was struggling.

00:16:28Ash, how was that experience for you?

00:16:32If someone's feeling down,

00:16:33I try and make it better

00:16:34because the way I flirt,

00:16:36I was always like,

00:16:37if someone likes you,

00:16:38they're touching you more.

00:16:39So I always thought touch was good

00:16:40and let them know that you like them.

00:16:42But that wasn't what she wanted or needed

00:16:45and I was kind of making it worse.

00:16:48Grace,

00:16:49are you able to direct your own insight

00:16:52back to yourself here on this one

00:16:53and see where that lack of comfort

00:16:55with all the touching comes from?

00:16:57I don't know anyone else like me.

00:16:59I don't know anyone else

00:17:01that doesn't really like the feeling

00:17:01of, like, skin on skin.

00:17:03But I do function as an adult.

00:17:05Like, I'm a midwife.

00:17:06I rub people's backs.

00:17:07I hold people's hands.

00:17:08But this experiment...

00:17:12OK.

00:17:17You're doing great.

00:17:18You're doing really good.

00:17:20It is confronting

00:17:22because for me it's normal.

00:17:24I've always been this way.

00:17:26But then, like,

00:17:27looking at everyone else,

00:17:28finding it so easy,

00:17:29so natural,

00:17:30you do start to feel like

00:17:32they're the freak.

00:17:32You're like...

00:17:33And it's made me question,

00:17:35what was I thinking?

00:17:37Why did I think

00:17:38I could come into this?

00:17:41What was...

00:17:41Why did I...

00:17:42Like, it makes me think, like,

00:17:44what a bizarre thing to do.

00:17:45Or maybe it's a brave thing to do.

00:17:47Yeah.

00:17:48Yeah, OK, thanks, Paul.

00:17:49And also, yeah.

00:17:53You know, we all have

00:17:54different levels of comfort

00:17:55with touch.

00:17:56And I think what's important here

00:17:58is the two of you

00:17:59can start talking about

00:18:00what those boundaries are.

00:18:02On this point,

00:18:03when you both sat here on the couch,

00:18:05you, Grace,

00:18:06you were feeling emotional.

00:18:08Yeah.

00:18:08So, Ashley, literally,

00:18:10I just saw him

00:18:10put his hand out like this,

00:18:12and he went to touch you,

00:18:14and he was like,

00:18:14uh-oh, I better not do this.

00:18:16I better not do this here.

00:18:17And then he goes...

00:18:18It was one of those,

00:18:19oh, yeah, cool things.

00:18:21And I felt for you

00:18:22in that moment.

00:18:23Yeah.

00:18:24But I think it's also important

00:18:25for you, Ashley,

00:18:26to be able to say,

00:18:27you know,

00:18:28I'm here for you

00:18:28in this moment.

00:18:29Right?

00:18:30That's right.

00:18:30To do it verbally.

00:18:31To do it verbally.

00:18:32Yeah.

00:18:33I'm very verbal

00:18:34as a person anyway.

00:18:35If I feel a certain way

00:18:37or I'm upset with something,

00:18:38I just come straight out

00:18:39and say it.

00:18:40So hopefully we can

00:18:41sort of just keep going

00:18:43like that.

00:18:44So where would you say

00:18:46you guys ended up

00:18:47at the end of a honeymoon

00:18:48compared with

00:18:49where you started?

00:18:50Full 180.

00:18:52Tell us about that.

00:18:53We just agreed

00:18:54that we couldn't

00:18:55just be strangers

00:18:56and then husband and wife

00:18:56had to be friendship first.

00:18:59Then it was fun.

00:19:01I was cracking up.

00:19:02I was laughing so much.

00:19:03I made a conscious effort

00:19:04when I did feel

00:19:05in a good place

00:19:06to try and be

00:19:08more affectionate.

00:19:09And then I can see

00:19:10that she's making

00:19:11a big effort

00:19:11and I really appreciate it.

00:19:13And hopefully she sees

00:19:14the same with

00:19:14the way I'm saying things

00:19:16and sort of that.

00:19:17Yeah.

00:19:18It's quite remarkable,

00:19:20I think,

00:19:20how much progress

00:19:21the two of you have made.

00:19:23Ashley,

00:19:23you're showing such patience

00:19:24with this woman

00:19:26you've just met

00:19:26who's showing behaviours

00:19:27that you don't quite understand.

00:19:29And for you, Grace,

00:19:30you are showing

00:19:31incredible bravery

00:19:32because you're doing things

00:19:33so differently

00:19:34from how you've done them before.

00:19:35So I think it's brilliant

00:19:37that the two of you

00:19:38have come so far already.

00:19:41I think we're going to go

00:19:42to a decision.

00:19:44Let's start with you first, Ashley.

00:19:47So I honestly feel

00:19:50like we've come so, so far.

00:19:51And I can't wait to see

00:19:53how far we can take this.

00:19:54And I'm really excited

00:19:55to do the rest

00:19:56of this experiment

00:19:57and see where we go.

00:19:58So I voted to stay.

00:20:00Brilliant.

00:20:02Good job.

00:20:06And to you, Grace.

00:20:07I feel really lucky

00:20:09that I got partnered

00:20:10with someone so patient,

00:20:12so tolerant,

00:20:13so willing to learn,

00:20:14so open-minded.

00:20:16I'm happy to be here

00:20:17and I'm glad

00:20:18that it's with you.

00:20:19So yeah,

00:20:19I'm going to stay.

00:20:22Aww.

00:20:22Yay!

00:20:23Thank you so much.

00:20:28This is a really positive journey

00:20:30that you've taken so far.

00:20:32Keep doing what you're doing, guys.

00:20:33You're off to a good start.

00:20:34Thank you so much.

00:20:35Thanks, guys.

00:20:36Take a seat.

00:20:36All right, next up

00:20:46to the couch.

00:20:53If we can have

00:20:54Julia Ruth

00:20:55and Devani.

00:20:56Come on up.

00:20:57Welcome.

00:21:02Welcome.

00:21:03Hello.

00:21:04Welcome.

00:21:05How are we doing?

00:21:06Good.

00:21:07It is so good

00:21:08for you both to be here

00:21:10because I have so many questions.

00:21:13Can we start with the wedding?

00:21:15Oh, my God.

00:21:16Magical.

00:21:18It was wild.

00:21:19Best wedding ever.

00:21:21The vibes were up there.

00:21:22So much fun.

00:21:22It was just like,

00:21:24damn,

00:21:25this person actually exists.

00:21:26I was stupid excited.

00:21:28I'm so excited.

00:21:29Just the true beauty

00:21:30that I saw in her

00:21:31at the beginning

00:21:32threw me off.

00:21:33That's big.

00:21:34Yeah.

00:21:35And then I'm laughing

00:21:35and I'm snorting

00:21:36and I'm giggling.

00:21:37It was a lot of emotions.

00:21:38It was really great.

00:21:40The energy was so good.

00:21:40We were vibing.

00:21:41All right.

00:21:43Next day,

00:21:43we go on honeymoon.

00:21:44Yes.

00:21:45Honeymoon was?

00:21:47Started off great.

00:21:48Started off good.

00:21:50Yeah.

00:21:53I think that

00:21:54we arrived in Morocco

00:21:56and that was when it hit me.

00:21:57Okay, I'm married.

00:21:59So I did, like,

00:22:00kind of feel overwhelmed.

00:22:02And I'm trying to find

00:22:04some joyous moments

00:22:06for us to build

00:22:06some sort of, like,

00:22:08emotional connection.

00:22:09Can you explain that?

00:22:11The physical didn't come naturally,

00:22:12so I'm like,

00:22:13let's build the,

00:22:15we're having so much fun

00:22:16and we're laughing

00:22:16that maybe that comes that way.

00:22:19But everything is really

00:22:20heavy and deep.

00:22:22It's always intense.

00:22:24Can you give an example?

00:22:27Yeah.

00:22:27For us.

00:22:28So we were on the camels

00:22:29and I asked you,

00:22:32what is your, like,

00:22:33biggest fear?

00:22:34And then you spiraled

00:22:36into the deepest conversation

00:22:37I've ever had in my life,

00:22:38which was shocking.

00:22:39You went on and you were like,

00:22:43it's always just been me,

00:22:44always end up in these situations.

00:22:45No one's ever going to love me.

00:22:46It's always going to be me by myself.

00:22:47It's all this dark stuff

00:22:48and I'm sitting there

00:22:49and I'm like,

00:22:50bro, like...

00:22:51Can I ask you a question, though?

00:22:52Yeah.

00:22:53You've just asked

00:22:54about his deepest fear.

00:22:56Mm-hmm.

00:22:57Fears are dark.

00:22:59I know that fear is a big word,

00:23:01but I'm feeling overwhelmed

00:23:02by the amount of information

00:23:04that is being dumped

00:23:05onto me continuously.

00:23:07It feels like trauma dumping.

00:23:11We talk about deep stuff so much.

00:23:14There's inappropriate times

00:23:15where I just feel like

00:23:16I want to have fun with you.

00:23:19Devani, in that moment,

00:23:20how did you interpret

00:23:21what was happening?

00:23:23Answering that question

00:23:24was very personal to me, for sure.

00:23:26But it was just me

00:23:27opening up at that moment

00:23:28and I just expressed myself

00:23:30the way I needed to express myself.

00:23:33Devani, do you feel clear

00:23:35when the right time is

00:23:38to talk in a deep way

00:23:40and when to kind of

00:23:41have a bit of fun?

00:23:42Do you feel clear

00:23:43in terms of what Julia Roof

00:23:44wants from you?

00:23:46Sometimes when I communicate,

00:23:48it can go on and on

00:23:49and on and on.

00:23:50It's just finding that balance

00:23:51of just choosing

00:23:52a part of information

00:23:53and then maybe I can pick it up

00:23:55and then feed it another time.

00:23:56Right.

00:23:57Right.

00:23:57All right.

00:23:58Vital information missed.

00:24:00Obviously, I had the argument

00:24:02after the camels

00:24:03and it erupted.

00:24:05Devani's heightened

00:24:06and jittery

00:24:07and upset.

00:24:09And I don't like

00:24:09how you handled that situation.

00:24:11You don't back down.

00:24:13You get

00:24:13more intense.

00:24:15And you're going at me.

00:24:17And you did that last night

00:24:18after the dinner party, too.

00:24:19And I'm like,

00:24:21whoa, like, okay,

00:24:22this isn't going to work.

00:24:24I needed to get things

00:24:25off my chest.

00:24:26But you agree, though,

00:24:27it was explosive.

00:24:28It was a bit explosive, yeah.

00:24:29Okay.

00:24:30So that is a major detail.

00:24:33So we have two issues

00:24:35of poor communication

00:24:37that happens

00:24:38on the honeymoon.

00:24:39And Julia Roof,

00:24:40what you're telling me

00:24:40is that there's many of these.

00:24:42So honeymoon,

00:24:44not so good.

00:24:46You come back,

00:24:47you move in to the apartment.

00:24:49How did you feel

00:24:50about your marriage

00:24:51when you walked

00:24:52into the dinner party?

00:24:54We sat down

00:24:55and had a conversation

00:24:56and we said,

00:24:57we're going to be

00:24:57on the same page

00:24:58at the dinner party.

00:24:59So, like,

00:25:00if we're getting asked

00:25:01the questions by people,

00:25:02how has your time been?

00:25:04The wedding was great.

00:25:05It's been good

00:25:06and it's been really bad.

00:25:07For sure.

00:25:09But I sit down

00:25:10and talk to people

00:25:10and then I tell them

00:25:11how the relationship's going.

00:25:12They were like,

00:25:13oh, like,

00:25:14that's not what I've heard.

00:25:15And I'm like,

00:25:16what do you mean

00:25:16that's not what you've heard?

00:25:18It's been,

00:25:18you've been really good,

00:25:19like, smooth sailing.

00:25:21That's why I was very confused

00:25:22because I go around

00:25:23looking like a dickhead

00:25:24saying that our relationship's

00:25:26being turbulent

00:25:27and he's saying

00:25:28it's been a hiccup flying.

00:25:30Okay.

00:25:32That's not even remotely close

00:25:33to what's been going on

00:25:35in our relationship.

00:25:37I know that, obviously,

00:25:38we went through our shit,

00:25:40but I was going into

00:25:41the dinner party hopeful.

00:25:44You know, I'm curious,

00:25:45you mentioned

00:25:45there was an argument

00:25:46last night.

00:25:47What happened

00:25:48after the dinner party?

00:25:49Coming back

00:25:50to the apartment,

00:25:51I did confront that

00:25:52and I was just

00:25:52getting things off my chest.

00:25:53You always say

00:25:54you're getting things

00:25:54off your chest

00:25:55and it's not fun

00:25:56because you attack me.

00:25:57I want us to have the space

00:25:59so we don't yell

00:26:00at each other

00:26:01and that's why I say

00:26:03go and breathe

00:26:03and come back to me

00:26:04when you can talk to me

00:26:05like a person.

00:26:06You don't talk to me

00:26:07like a person,

00:26:08you go at me.

00:26:08You don't listen to me.

00:26:11I'm like,

00:26:12should I go to another room?

00:26:13And you're going at me.

00:26:15Okay, well then

00:26:16I'm going to go

00:26:16to another room.

00:26:18And you get more intense

00:26:19and more intense

00:26:20and more intense.

00:26:22You get so heightened

00:26:23and I can't communicate

00:26:24with you.

00:26:25I don't like that.

00:26:26You get more intense

00:26:42and more intense

00:26:43and more intense.

00:26:44You get so heightened

00:26:46and I can't communicate

00:26:47with you.

00:26:48I don't like that.

00:26:54You know what's so interesting

00:26:55about you two?

00:26:57You're the most hot

00:26:59and cold couple

00:27:00in this experiment.

00:27:02Wedding?

00:27:02Oh my gosh.

00:27:0310, 10 wedding.

00:27:04I can't believe it.

00:27:05By the next day

00:27:06it's like,

00:27:07I don't even know

00:27:08if I want to be

00:27:08with this person, right?

00:27:12So what do you want

00:27:14from this relationship?

00:27:16So what I want

00:27:17is a companion,

00:27:19someone that's

00:27:19very supportive,

00:27:20someone that understands

00:27:21me in the whole entirety.

00:27:22Obviously having fun.

00:27:23That's what I'm looking for.

00:27:25Okay.

00:27:25And you still want that

00:27:27in Julia Ruth?

00:27:28Yes.

00:27:29Okay.

00:27:29Julia Ruth.

00:27:30What do you want?

00:27:31I want someone

00:27:32who's gonna go

00:27:3450-50

00:27:35or 60-40

00:27:36at different times

00:27:37with me

00:27:38in terms of energy.

00:27:39I don't mind

00:27:40being there for you.

00:27:41I don't mind you

00:27:41unloading to me.

00:27:43If anyone,

00:27:44I feel like

00:27:45I've got you.

00:27:46Let's also enjoy

00:27:47each other.

00:27:48I want to have

00:27:49that feeling of like

00:27:49we're laughing so hard

00:27:50that the physical intimacy

00:27:52kicks off.

00:27:53We don't have that.

00:27:54And that's what I said

00:27:55like coming back

00:27:56to the apartments.

00:27:57I'm very excited

00:27:58because then I can

00:27:59take you out on dates

00:27:59and actually have

00:28:00those memorable moments

00:28:02of actually having fun.

00:28:04That's why coming

00:28:04and moving into

00:28:05the apartments

00:28:05was a thrill.

00:28:06The other thing,

00:28:08Giovanni, too,

00:28:09is I think

00:28:09what's very important

00:28:10and I hear Julia Ruth

00:28:12wanting as well

00:28:13is for you to listen.

00:28:15Sometimes listening means

00:28:16I'm going to take

00:28:17a cool-off period.

00:28:18Yeah.

00:28:18And then during that period,

00:28:20reflecting upon

00:28:21what your partner said,

00:28:23what your partner feels,

00:28:24what their emotion is.

00:28:25So therefore,

00:28:27you're coming back

00:28:27in a position

00:28:28where you can actually

00:28:29resolve the conflict.

00:28:31You know,

00:28:34I have hope.

00:28:35Ultimately,

00:28:36you know what you both said?

00:28:37You want to have someone

00:28:38who will support you.

00:28:39And I think that's the place

00:28:41to remain focused on.

00:28:43Be each other's support.

00:28:44Okay?

00:28:47Can we go to a decision?

00:28:49Giovanni,

00:28:49why don't you take us away?

00:28:52Julia Ruth,

00:28:52it's been difficult.

00:28:53It's been difficult.

00:28:54It's been proper difficult

00:28:55throughout this honeymoon.

00:28:59But obviously,

00:29:00I'm here for a reason

00:29:01and I do believe in us.

00:29:03So my actual decision

00:29:05is for me to stay.

00:29:17Um,

00:29:18for me,

00:29:21it's tricky.

00:29:24The vibes on the wedding day

00:29:26were unreal.

00:29:29I just haven't seen you

00:29:31let your hair loose

00:29:33and just have a fun,

00:29:34lighthearted conversation

00:29:35and just have giggles with me

00:29:36and create fun memories.

00:29:38I don't need everything

00:29:39to be picked apart

00:29:40and to be deep.

00:29:45We do have some good moments

00:29:47and I don't like

00:29:48spending time away from you

00:29:49because I miss you.

00:29:50so I think

00:29:55I have chosen to stay.

00:30:03Alright,

00:30:04done.

00:30:04Done.

00:30:06Thank you, guys.

00:30:11I think it's going to take

00:30:12a lot of work

00:30:13for Devon and I

00:30:14to fix

00:30:14and restart

00:30:16or mend our relationship.

00:30:18I hold on to so dearly

00:30:19the moments from the wedding.

00:30:21I want to stay

00:30:22because I'm fighting

00:30:23for those moments.

00:30:24I've shared how I felt

00:30:25and I think it's now

00:30:27up to him

00:30:27how he processes

00:30:28the information.

00:30:29next up to the couch

00:30:34Rebecca and Bailey.

00:30:44Hello.

00:30:45Hello.

00:30:46Good to see the two of you.

00:30:49Looking extremely

00:30:51comfortable with one another.

00:30:52I'm absolutely loving this.

00:30:54OK,

00:30:55so I'm super keen

00:30:56to hear about

00:30:57your wedding.

00:30:59Kind of a rollercoaster.

00:31:00OK.

00:31:01Initial reaction

00:31:02turning around,

00:31:03stunning,

00:31:03absolutely gorgeous.

00:31:05I feel like

00:31:05the only thing,

00:31:06I just couldn't catch

00:31:07a vibe,

00:31:07I feel like.

00:31:08I was a bit thrown

00:31:09by it.

00:31:10Yeah.

00:31:11And then throughout

00:31:11the day,

00:31:12he kind of just followed

00:31:12on that path for me,

00:31:13just up and down

00:31:14like a yo-yo.

00:31:15So it sounds like

00:31:16you were trying

00:31:17to work out

00:31:18what is she feeling?

00:31:19Yeah.

00:31:20And Rebecca,

00:31:21what was the experience

00:31:22it's like for you?

00:31:23I think I had in my mind

00:31:26I would get to

00:31:26the end of the aisle

00:31:27and there would be

00:31:28massive sparks flying

00:31:30because that's what

00:31:31I'm used to,

00:31:32like that initial

00:31:32big attraction

00:31:34and we didn't have that.

00:31:38I know that for you

00:31:39it's really important

00:31:39to have someone

00:31:40that is very much

00:31:41an alpha male

00:31:42and that was something

00:31:44that was quite

00:31:44difficult for you.

00:31:46On the wedding day

00:31:47I struggled with that

00:31:47because I couldn't see

00:31:48like the real Bailey

00:31:49and I was like,

00:31:50oh my God,

00:31:51is he, you know,

00:31:51am I going to

00:31:52eat him alive?

00:31:53And that made me

00:31:55go into my shell.

00:31:57I was crying

00:31:57through the vows

00:31:58I was very overwhelmed.

00:32:01Take me to the honeymoon.

00:32:03Did that get any better?

00:32:04It changed everything.

00:32:06We really, really got on.

00:32:08Yeah, I started talking,

00:32:09laughing,

00:32:10tables started turning.

00:32:11I saw him for who he was

00:32:13and I thought,

00:32:13wow, like I can really

00:32:14connect with this person.

00:32:16You call me a golden retriever.

00:32:18Yeah, he's got golden retriever energy,

00:32:20I've got black cat energy.

00:32:21Yeah, we matched so well

00:32:22in that way.

00:32:23So we started to have

00:32:23a little bit of a giggle,

00:32:24like, yeah,

00:32:25a little bit of laugh

00:32:25which, like, I like,

00:32:26I can connect over.

00:32:28Bailey is who he is

00:32:29through and through.

00:32:30He doesn't put on a show

00:32:31or anything like that.

00:32:33Is there a definition

00:32:34of an alpha man?

00:32:35A hundred percent.

00:32:37He knows how to look after me

00:32:39whilst allowing me

00:32:40to just completely be myself.

00:32:42I go to the gym,

00:32:43I can carry my bags,

00:32:44can do things for myself.

00:32:45Bailey takes away

00:32:46anything that he can do

00:32:49while still making me feel

00:32:51that I'm capable.

00:32:52I do like to do

00:32:53the little things

00:32:54like going at the bar,

00:32:55getting your drink,

00:32:56carrying your bags,

00:32:57little, just little things.

00:32:58They're only small

00:32:58but because she was, like,

00:33:00super independent,

00:33:01I could do everything

00:33:02on my own,

00:33:02it kind of felt better

00:33:03when she'd put that trust

00:33:04into me and kind of relinquishing

00:33:06a little bit of that independence

00:33:07that she has was nice.

00:33:08Well, you say that

00:33:09they're small things

00:33:10but it sounds like

00:33:10they're small things

00:33:11with a big meaning.

00:33:13Yeah, and it's not just, like,

00:33:15little acts of service like that,

00:33:16it's, like,

00:33:17the little glance across the room

00:33:18or, like, the,

00:33:19are you OK?

00:33:20And the I do it back to him,

00:33:22like, there is

00:33:22a real connection there.

00:33:24Yeah.

00:33:25Well, I think that helps me

00:33:26to kind of neatly go

00:33:27on to the next question

00:33:28around intimacy.

00:33:29So how are things going

00:33:30in the intimacy department?

00:33:32Really?

00:33:33What?

00:33:33Like a Cheshire cat.

00:33:35Um, yeah.

00:33:36All good, yeah, really good, yeah.

00:33:38Very well matched

00:33:39in that department.

00:33:40Um, so, no complaints.

00:33:43I can't stop, yeah.

00:33:44Rebecca, do you want

00:33:45to help him here?

00:33:46No.

00:33:47I'm sweating here, am I?

00:33:49No, everything's good

00:33:50on that front.

00:33:51Yeah, great.

00:33:52Well, I am so excited

00:33:54with this union

00:33:55and it's just so nice

00:33:56to see the physical affection

00:33:58between the two of you,

00:33:59the way you have

00:34:00each other's back.

00:34:01Yeah, we're constantly

00:34:02laughing and joking at home.

00:34:03Loads of fun.

00:34:04I mean, I ask for, like,

00:34:05a little bestie

00:34:06and that's just what I've got.

00:34:08Yeah, it's a good feeling.

00:34:09It feels secure.

00:34:11So, let's go

00:34:13to the decisions.

00:34:14If we can start

00:34:15with you, Rebecca.

00:34:16Yeah.

00:34:17From our wedding day,

00:34:19this is,

00:34:19I never, ever expected

00:34:20to be in this position now.

00:34:23I think more than anything,

00:34:24I just love

00:34:24how you make me feel.

00:34:26Yeah.

00:34:26So, it's an easy one for me.

00:34:29It's a stay.

00:34:32Thank you, Rebecca.

00:34:33And Bailey,

00:34:34what's your decision?

00:34:35I'm really enjoying

00:34:36just getting to know you.

00:34:38I love just spending time

00:34:39with you at home

00:34:39and I'm looking forward

00:34:40to that carrying on.

00:34:42So, I've decided to.

00:34:44I'm upside down,

00:34:44but stay.

00:34:45So, Rebecca and Bailey,

00:34:52the couple to watch.

00:34:54I'm excited.

00:34:55Look forward to seeing you

00:34:56next week.

00:34:57Cheers.

00:34:57Really appreciate it.

00:34:58Next up to the couch.

00:35:10Sarah and Dean.

00:35:18Hello.

00:35:19There.

00:35:20There.

00:35:20So, how are we both?

00:35:23Yeah, nervous.

00:35:24Nervous.

00:35:25I'm nervous.

00:35:25Yeah, I'm good.

00:35:26Oh, you're good?

00:35:27Oh, that's good.

00:35:27Yeah, you're all good.

00:35:28Okay.

00:35:28So, can we go

00:35:30to the wedding?

00:35:32Mm-hmm.

00:35:32So, the moment

00:35:33you saw Sarah,

00:35:36what did you think?

00:35:37Seeing that,

00:35:37I thought,

00:35:38the energy's here

00:35:39and I was like,

00:35:39she's a beautiful girl as well.

00:35:41I was like,

00:35:42yeah, this is good.

00:35:43You would say

00:35:44physically attractive, check?

00:35:46Yeah, yeah, definitely.

00:35:47Sexually attractive?

00:35:48Yeah, I guess I thought

00:35:49I could have sex with her.

00:35:52Okay.

00:35:54But it's important to know

00:35:55because there is a distinction

00:35:57between

00:35:58between the two.

00:35:58Yeah, yeah.

00:35:59So, okay.

00:36:00Sarah,

00:36:00how did you feel

00:36:01going in

00:36:02to the wedding?

00:36:04I was very nervous

00:36:05and I think

00:36:06I had envisioned

00:36:07in my head

00:36:07of who was going

00:36:08to be at the end

00:36:09of the aisle.

00:36:10And what was that vision?

00:36:11Okay, so,

00:36:14I'll be honest.

00:36:15Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:36:16Yeah.

00:36:18Tall.

00:36:20I love tattoos.

00:36:21So, covered in tattoos.

00:36:23Probably look like

00:36:23they've just come out of jail.

00:36:25I'm not going to lie.

00:36:26Because that was

00:36:27your quote-unquote type.

00:36:31Okay.

00:36:32What else?

00:36:33I mean,

00:36:33I do also like

00:36:34a guy that's, like,

00:36:36into fitness and gym.

00:36:38So, yeah,

00:36:39I mean,

00:36:40maybe

00:36:40physical as well.

00:36:45It wasn't what I thought

00:36:47it was going to be.

00:36:48Okay.

00:36:51I don't want to hurt your feelings.

00:36:52Yeah, it's got to be honest.

00:36:53I promise you're not

00:36:54going to hurt my feelings.

00:36:55Dean, are you okay?

00:36:56You're literally fine.

00:36:57It's so good.

00:36:58It's so good.

00:37:00Okay.

00:37:01It was an honest start.

00:37:02We appreciate that.

00:37:04So, let's move

00:37:05to the honeymoon.

00:37:08Yeah, it was hard.

00:37:09I had, like, a wobble

00:37:10because I sing a lot

00:37:12and, um,

00:37:14it can get a little bit

00:37:15grating, isn't it?

00:37:15It was like, yeah,

00:37:16it's a bit...

00:37:16Yeah, it was just

00:37:18a lot of random

00:37:18outbursts of singing.

00:37:20It was getting

00:37:21just a little bit

00:37:22I was like,

00:37:22I'm getting...

00:37:23I'm getting irritated

00:37:24by this.

00:37:24Okay.

00:37:26Because I don't really

00:37:26like sharing my emotions

00:37:28too much.

00:37:29But if you listen

00:37:29to the song I'm singing,

00:37:30that's how I'm feeling.

00:37:31So, I'll be singing,

00:37:32like, a sad song.

00:37:33And if you listen

00:37:34to the words,

00:37:34I'm like,

00:37:34that's how I'm feeling.

00:37:35So, are you saying

00:37:36that you were sad

00:37:37during the honeymoon?

00:37:38Uh, yeah.

00:37:39Well, I was at a point.

00:37:41We had a meal

00:37:42and we was talking

00:37:43and I reverted back

00:37:44to, like,

00:37:45the little fat kid

00:37:46at school

00:37:46who's trying to fit in,

00:37:47you know?

00:37:49I've not been that

00:37:50so long

00:37:50because I've built myself

00:37:51up so much.

00:37:52I guess doubts,

00:37:53you know,

00:37:53started coming

00:37:54and then I was like,

00:37:54oh, man,

00:37:55I don't like this.

00:37:58And that was a real low

00:37:59and that's when

00:38:00I spoke to Sarah

00:38:01about it.

00:38:02That's when I was like,

00:38:03let's just enjoy

00:38:04getting to know each other.

00:38:05You know what's interesting?

00:38:06I think when

00:38:07there are painful moments,

00:38:08we try to

00:38:09go past them quickly.

00:38:11Yeah, probably not.

00:38:13You just said something

00:38:14that touches upon

00:38:15a moment in childhood.

00:38:17Yeah, yeah.

00:38:18Let's give that respect.

00:38:20I felt like what?

00:38:21The fat kid,

00:38:21like, back at school.

00:38:24And what made you feel

00:38:25that way?

00:38:27Probably feeling like,

00:38:28you know,

00:38:28honestly,

00:38:28like a bit of rejection.

00:38:31You know,

00:38:31and not feeling like

00:38:32I was enough.

00:38:34And what was it

00:38:35that made you feel

00:38:36like you were rejected

00:38:38and not enough?

00:38:40The physical attraction thing

00:38:42is something that kind of,

00:38:43I guess,

00:38:43hits me more

00:38:44than I think it does.

00:38:44Yeah,

00:38:46it put my defenses up.

00:38:48You know,

00:38:48like,

00:38:49that,

00:38:50I didn't like it.

00:38:51Yeah.

00:38:54So when you both

00:38:55leave the honeymoon,

00:38:56are you

00:38:57at all optimistic

00:38:58about your marriage?

00:39:01I was super,

00:39:02because, like,

00:39:02we get on so well,

00:39:03we're always having

00:39:04a great time,

00:39:05and there's no one else

00:39:06I'd rather be with

00:39:06in this.

00:39:08For me,

00:39:08I was like,

00:39:09yeah,

00:39:09this could be, like,

00:39:10this could be something.

00:39:11Yeah, yeah,

00:39:11100%.

00:39:12So were you optimistic

00:39:13at all, Sarah?

00:39:20I was optimistic.

00:39:21We have been matched

00:39:22for a reason,

00:39:22and I can see why.

00:39:24I think my problem is

00:39:26people I've dated

00:39:26or been with,

00:39:27I've always had

00:39:28that initial attraction.

00:39:29I've always wanted

00:39:29to rip their clothes off

00:39:31and just eat them.

00:39:33Just, you know,

00:39:34that feeling,

00:39:35and I'm really struggling

00:39:36because I don't have

00:39:37that with Dean,

00:39:38but then I've got

00:39:39everything else.

00:39:40You wanted someone

00:39:41who was going to be funny.

00:39:42You wanted someone

00:39:43who could be

00:39:43a support system for you.

00:39:46So, Sarah,

00:39:46you feel as if Dean

00:39:47is everything that you need.

00:39:50Oh, that's what I said.

00:39:51I said,

00:39:51I'm the husband you need,

00:39:52not the one you want.

00:39:53And I don't want him

00:39:54to change the start.

00:39:54Like, I, you know,

00:39:55the singing and the rapping,

00:39:57it did irritate me.

00:39:58It did.

00:39:59I mean, the raps

00:39:59and the songs

00:40:00sort of stopped.

00:40:01So he's receptive

00:40:03to modifying his behavior.

00:40:05Yeah.

00:40:05So what behavior

00:40:07are you modifying?

00:40:10Is there any modification

00:40:13that you think

00:40:14that you need?

00:40:16I don't know.

00:40:18You feel like you're good.

00:40:19You're doing everything appropriately.

00:40:21I feel like I'm,

00:40:21I feel like I'm doing

00:40:22everything okay.

00:40:24I think the communication's great.

00:40:25I think the honesty's great as well.

00:40:27You're giving it everything

00:40:27and that's all I wanted.

00:40:29Dean, what we've seen here

00:40:30is you kind of rescuing

00:40:32Sarah in this.

00:40:33That says a lot about you

00:40:34in terms of the kind-hearted

00:40:36person that you are.

00:40:37But I think at the moment

00:40:38it feels a little bit like,

00:40:40Dean, you're willing

00:40:41to modify behavior.

00:40:43Yeah.

00:40:43You're willing to reel in

00:40:44the singing a little bit

00:40:45and the rapping.

00:40:47But what we're asking, Sarah,

00:40:48is what are you willing to do?

00:40:50What are you willing to change?

00:40:53I don't know.

00:40:55So I've got something for you.

00:40:56Oh God, okay.

00:41:00You could begin by stopping

00:41:03the disrespect of your husband.

00:41:08Let me take you

00:41:09to the dinner party.

00:41:10Okay.

00:41:11Someone disrespects you.

00:41:14What are they doing?

00:41:15Well, they're being rude.

00:41:17They're being rude.

00:41:18What else?

00:41:19They're being mean.

00:41:21Do you think that you were rude

00:41:23while talking about your partner

00:41:25at the dinner party

00:41:26Oh, I was going to get him this.

00:41:31I mean, I maybe said

00:41:32you'd given me the ick

00:41:33with some things

00:41:34that you'd said.

00:41:38So in other words,

00:41:39you disrespected your husband.

00:41:44I get the challenge

00:41:45around physical attraction.

00:41:47But where you absolutely lost me

00:41:49is when you went around

00:41:50gossiping about your husband

00:41:52to other people

00:41:53and you were laughing at it.

00:41:56Oh, was I?

00:41:57It was a joke.

00:41:57I didn't mean to laugh.

00:41:58Well, you were.

00:41:59Okay.

00:42:00And I thought,

00:42:00this man is talking about

00:42:02how lovely his partner is

00:42:04and you are on the other side

00:42:07of the room

00:42:07disrespecting him.

00:42:10I don't think I did it that much,

00:42:11did I?

00:42:13You know what?

00:42:14Disrespect.

00:42:14I know, I know, I know.

00:42:15One iota of disrespect is too much.

00:42:28You are on the other side

00:42:29of the room

00:42:30disrespecting him.

00:42:33I don't think I did it that much,

00:42:34did I?

00:42:36You know what?

00:42:37Disrespect.

00:42:37I know, I know, I know.

00:42:38One iota of disrespect

00:42:40is too much.

00:42:40I'm so sorry.

00:42:50I'm sorry.

00:42:52These relationships

00:42:53are a two-way street

00:42:54and really what I want you

00:42:56to think about is

00:42:56how can I be considerate

00:42:58to my partner?

00:43:00Yeah.

00:43:01There's no excuse

00:43:02for saying what I suggest

00:43:03to you

00:43:04and I really apologize.

00:43:06Dean?

00:43:07Are you okay?

00:43:09It kind of caught me off that.

00:43:10Yeah, I know.

00:43:11Yeah, that caught me off.

00:43:12Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:43:16I found yesterday

00:43:17really hard as well.

00:43:18I'm sorry.

00:43:19This couch

00:43:20is a very difficult place,

00:43:22but it is a place

00:43:24where relationships are broken

00:43:25or where they grow.

00:43:29Now, the physical

00:43:30and sexual attraction,

00:43:31it's significant,

00:43:32but the best antidote

00:43:34is just to say,

00:43:36how can I every day

00:43:38work on strengthening

00:43:40my relationship?

00:43:42And as long as you are

00:43:43continuing to make progress

00:43:45week after week after week,

00:43:47think of where you'll be

00:43:48at the end.

00:43:51On that note,

00:43:52I would like to go

00:43:53to a decision.

00:43:55Okay.

00:43:55And I would love

00:43:56to start with Dean first.

00:43:58It's obviously been

00:44:06a proper, like,

00:44:07emotional time,

00:44:08like, together,

00:44:09like, hard,

00:44:10and like,

00:44:10how do we get

00:44:11to that next stage?

00:44:13Because how can I

00:44:14make someone

00:44:16fancy me

00:44:17if they don't?

00:44:17But I do think

00:44:20we have got a good base

00:44:21and I'm hoping

00:44:23it will come now.

00:44:23I'm still optimistic.

00:44:25I think this could be

00:44:26something special,

00:44:27you know,

00:44:27something different.

00:44:28So it is

00:44:29a state.

00:44:36Thank you so much,

00:44:38Sarah.

00:44:38This journey

00:44:46has just been

00:44:47so up and down.

00:44:48I can see all of the

00:44:49reasons why we've been

00:44:50matched.

00:44:52And I really wanted

00:44:53the nice guy

00:44:54and I've got him

00:44:55and I just really

00:44:56want it to work

00:44:57because you're

00:44:57such a nice guy.

00:45:02So I have

00:45:04decided to stay.

00:45:06Stay.

00:45:07Okay.

00:45:08Woo!

00:45:08We applaud

00:45:14that you're staying

00:45:16and what I would

00:45:16encourage you to do

00:45:17is think about

00:45:19how every day

00:45:20you can develop

00:45:22something that is

00:45:22strengthening

00:45:23your relationship.

00:45:25Thank you, guys.

00:45:26I'm okay.

00:45:44I'm okay.

00:45:45I'm okay.

00:45:46We're going to be okay.

00:45:46It was really hard to hear

00:45:49what Paul had to say

00:45:49and I apologize

00:45:50and, yeah,

00:45:51I'm sorry.

00:45:52It's not me.

00:45:52It's not who I am.

00:45:54And maybe if I did

00:45:55have that spark,

00:45:56I wouldn't have

00:45:57said anything like that

00:45:59because I wouldn't have.

00:46:00But there's not

00:46:01the spark there

00:46:01so that was the only

00:46:02reason why I said it.

00:46:04I haven't meant it

00:46:05maliciously at all.

00:46:07I don't want to hurt anyone.

00:46:09I'm being true to myself,

00:46:10but then it's coming

00:46:11across really badly.

00:46:12So,

00:46:13yeah,

00:46:17it's been a really hard week.

00:46:18Hearing that Sarah

00:46:22has been disrespecting me,

00:46:24has caught me off guard,

00:46:25that is my probably

00:46:26biggest red flag.

00:46:28It does hurt me

00:46:29and I can also feel myself

00:46:30like dwindling my shine

00:46:31and I don't want to lose me.

00:46:34Okay.

00:46:35From here,

00:46:36I think we're at a low,

00:46:38but I think that's

00:46:39when you bounce back.

00:46:40There is so much there,

00:46:41like I'm still willing

00:46:42to trust and build,

00:46:44but it can never happen again.

00:46:45Are you joking me?

00:46:46It can never,

00:46:47ever happen again.

00:46:48I don't want everyone

00:46:51to hate me.

00:46:52No.

00:46:52That's not what I do.

00:46:53So all these things are wrong.

00:46:55Sarah, are you okay?

00:46:56Yeah, I just, yeah.

00:46:58I just feel bad.

00:46:59We want everyone to grow, right?

00:47:01And so anytime we see something,

00:47:03we'll call it out.

00:47:04But if you ever disagree,

00:47:05if there's a disagreement,

00:47:06hold us accountable

00:47:07to the disagreement as well.

00:47:09Okay?

00:47:10All right.

00:47:14Next up to the couch,

00:47:16we have Kia.

00:47:18Hi, Kia.

00:47:24Hello.

00:47:25Good to see you.

00:47:26Good to see you.

00:47:26Sad to see that Daveed's not here.

00:47:29Me too.

00:47:30So, how was your wedding?

00:47:33The wedding was amazing.

00:47:34I was incredibly nervous,

00:47:37but then Daveed grabbed both my hands

00:47:39and said that he got us.

00:47:40It kind of calmed me down

00:47:42and made me feel really grounded and safe.

00:47:44Lovely.

00:47:45And in terms of attraction,

00:47:46would you say there was a real attraction there?

00:47:48Oh, 100%.

00:47:49Have you seen Daveed?

00:47:51We've all seen Daveed.

00:47:53He's got the most beautiful brown eyes

00:47:55with these little orange flecks.

00:47:57Like, his smile lights up an entire room.

00:48:00He's just fantastic.

00:48:01It sounds like you guys got off

00:48:04to a really brilliant start.

00:48:06Yeah.

00:48:07So, let's move on to my favourite question.

00:48:11How's the intimacy in your relationship?

00:48:13It's wonderful, thank you.

00:48:15It's great.

00:48:17I love that response.

00:48:18It's great.

00:48:19It feels like you practised that.

00:48:20The intimacy or the response?

00:48:26The two of you sounds like

00:48:28you're in a really, really good place.

00:48:30And it's so lovely to see

00:48:32the progress of this relationship.

00:48:34So, we know that Daveed is a man of many words

00:48:38and he has very kindly written a letter for you.

00:48:46You're welcome.

00:48:50Great.

00:48:52Hey there, you beautiful human.

00:48:54I have no words to explain how amazing you are

00:48:56and how much I adore you.

00:49:00This last week, I have seen us go

00:49:02from strength to strength

00:49:03and I could not be more proud

00:49:05to have you as my husband.

00:49:07My care that I'm falling for.

00:49:10I'm sorry that I'm not there

00:49:12to let you know in person

00:49:13how much you mean to me.

00:49:15So, for sure, I'll stay

00:49:17as long as you want me to, Daveed.

00:49:25Powerful words.

00:49:26Yeah, it means a lot.

00:49:27It means everything.

00:49:28Yeah.

00:49:29We know what Daveed's response is to you.

00:49:33What's your decision?

00:49:36Daveed is finding ways to make me smile

00:49:38every single day.

00:49:39I'm honestly loving absolutely every second

00:49:41and can safely say I'm falling for him too.

00:49:44Which no one tell him before I get a chance to.

00:49:46So, I will, of course, stay.

00:49:54Nice.

00:49:55Nice.

00:49:56Thank you so much, Kia.

00:49:58We love love.

00:49:59So, it's so amazing to see

00:50:00how well the two of you are matched.

00:50:03Fabulous.

00:50:03Thank you so much.

00:50:04Thank you, thank you, thank you.

00:50:10That's so amazing to see you.

00:50:11I am framing that.

00:50:13Next on the couch,

00:50:15if we could have...

00:50:18Lee and Leah.

00:50:22Come on up.

00:50:28Yeah.

00:50:32How are you both?

00:50:33Good.

00:50:34Phenomenal.

00:50:35All right.

00:50:36Can we start with the wedding?

00:50:38It was just a mad experience.

00:50:40Yeah.

00:50:41It was surreal.

00:50:42So, what did you think

00:50:43when you saw Lee?

00:50:44I thought she was really cute.

00:50:46And obviously, she's beautiful.

00:50:47I think straight away,

00:50:48I just had this, like,

00:50:49thing in my head.

00:50:50I was like,

00:50:50she's going to be

00:50:51an annoying little princess.

00:50:53I think because I've seen, like,

00:50:54princess dress,

00:50:55and then I've seen

00:50:56she had a little bit of attitude,

00:50:57and I thought,

00:50:58nah, she's all right.

00:51:00All right.

00:51:00So, Lee,

00:51:02what did you think?

00:51:02I think it was just

00:51:06a bit of a shock

00:51:07because it's, like,

00:51:08so far from what

00:51:09I would normally go for

00:51:10in a romantic sense.

00:51:12I'd never go for

00:51:14more feminine women.

00:51:16It's not just about

00:51:18physical type,

00:51:19like hair colour

00:51:19or eye colour

00:51:20or things like that.

00:51:21I've never felt

00:51:22physically attracted

00:51:23to a girly woman.

00:51:26I can appreciate

00:51:26their beauty.

00:51:27I can say

00:51:28that they look stunning,

00:51:28which Leah absolutely is,

00:51:30but there's, like,

00:51:31a persona

00:51:32of a person

00:51:33in the gay community

00:51:34that I'm usually

00:51:35attracted to,

00:51:36and Leah is not

00:51:37that person.

00:51:39Fair enough.

00:51:40And that's a great explanation.

00:51:43But I've realised

00:51:44since being

00:51:44in this experiment

00:51:45with Leah

00:51:46that I've spent

00:51:48the last year

00:51:49and a bit

00:51:49since I became single

00:51:51building myself up

00:51:52from being really

00:51:53let down by someone.

00:51:54And I've realised

00:51:56I've shut myself off

00:51:58so much

00:52:00from when I was hurt

00:52:02that I'm now struggling

00:52:03to turn it back on.

00:52:05And I'm like,

00:52:06I don't know how

00:52:06to get it going again.

00:52:08Leah, what you're telling us

00:52:09is that, hey,

00:52:10I've had the door shut

00:52:12and it was bolted shut

00:52:13and I'm now just taking

00:52:15the locks off of the door.

00:52:17So challenging to start

00:52:18a marriage like this.

00:52:20Mm-hmm.

00:52:20All right.

00:52:21But now,

00:52:22the work that you need to do

00:52:24is how do you

00:52:26establish a stronger

00:52:27emotional connection?

00:52:30Mm-hmm.

00:52:30And I think the beauty

00:52:31is that the result

00:52:32is going to be positive

00:52:33no matter what.

00:52:34Mm-hmm.

00:52:34Like, it's going to lead

00:52:35to a better understanding

00:52:36of self.

00:52:37Yeah.

00:52:37And maybe it just leads to,

00:52:38you know what,

00:52:39I'm now willing

00:52:40to open the door

00:52:41all the way, right?

00:52:42Mm-hmm.

00:52:42But no matter what,

00:52:43it's going to be a win.

00:52:45Yeah.

00:52:46I think the worry is,

00:52:48like, how do we get

00:52:49to the next step?

00:52:49This is a popular question.

00:52:52How do you get out

00:52:52of the friend zone?

00:52:54I find one of the most

00:52:55productive strategies

00:52:56is to think about

00:52:58how you would behave

00:53:00outside of the friend zone

00:53:02and just behave like that.

00:53:03See, that's what I have

00:53:04actually been trying to do.

00:53:05Like, I'm a little bit more,

00:53:07okay, I need to be vulnerable.

00:53:08I need to be open.

00:53:09I don't even feel like

00:53:10you're necessarily, like,

00:53:11going through these paces, though,

00:53:12because you are just being

00:53:14open and vulnerable.

00:53:15Yeah.

00:53:16Do you know what I mean?

00:53:16I'm still trying.

00:53:17Like, I'm trying to be like that.

00:53:19If I'm honest,

00:53:20I feel like who's more willing

00:53:21to make this work?

00:53:22100% me, yeah.

00:53:23In my opinion.

00:53:26You are making more of an effort.

00:53:28You are being tactile.

00:53:29You are doing all of these things

00:53:30and I'm not able to get there.

00:53:33Leah, if you were not

00:53:34in the friend zone,

00:53:36what would your relationship

00:53:38look like?

00:53:38I think being more tactile

00:53:40with one another,

00:53:41maybe more flirty

00:53:42with one another,

00:53:43having a snog now and again.

00:53:45Okay.

00:53:47Everything that you've said

00:53:48that you would need

00:53:49is what I would be

00:53:50if those natural feelings

00:53:51were there.

00:53:53But I've just had a block there.

00:53:56It's stopping me from doing it

00:53:57because I've never wanted

00:53:58to feel like I'm leading Leah on.

00:53:59I just don't see it that deep.

00:54:01I can have a flirty

00:54:02and have a snog now and again,

00:54:03I don't see it that deep.

00:54:05Like, and it's never

00:54:06going to lead me on.

00:54:07I overthink it a bit.

00:54:08She overthinks.

00:54:08I'm not an overthinker.

00:54:10At the end of the day,

00:54:12I would encourage you

00:54:13to experiment

00:54:14with what the behavior is

00:54:16to be out of the friend zone.

00:54:19Whatever that is,

00:54:20practice that.

00:54:22So, let's go to the decision.

00:54:25Leah, you'll go first.

00:54:28I feel like it has been

00:54:29a tough week for me this week.

00:54:32But I'm optimistic

00:54:33and I'm very hopeful.

00:54:34I see why we've been matched

00:54:38in so many different ways

00:54:39and I'm happy and grateful

00:54:41of being matched with us.

00:54:42So, I vote stay.

00:54:51I know that I've been

00:54:52a little bit difficult to deal with

00:54:54because my head's been a little bit

00:54:55all over the place.

00:54:56You've been so patient

00:55:01and still thrown yourself

00:55:03into it 100%

00:55:04and been completely

00:55:05vulnerable with me

00:55:06even when I haven't been able

00:55:07to give that back to you

00:55:08and so that I'm really

00:55:10grateful for.

00:55:10Yeah, and I am hopeful

00:55:16to see where it goes.

00:55:17So, for that reason,

00:55:18I vote stay.

00:55:26Well done to both of you.

00:55:28Stop overthinking everything.

00:55:30I'm going to try.

00:55:31Right, just be in the moment.

00:55:32Thank you so much.

00:55:34Next up to the couch,

00:55:47if we can have Anita and Paul.

00:55:57Hey, guys.

00:55:58Hi.

00:55:59Hi.

00:55:59How are you both?

00:56:01Okay.

00:56:02Yeah, yeah.

00:56:02Okay, all right.

00:56:03Yeah.

00:56:03Let's go to the wedding.

00:56:05Anita, what were your thoughts?

00:56:08There was a fun element

00:56:09straight away.

00:56:09We kind of laughed

00:56:10nearly all day, didn't we?

00:56:12Yeah.

00:56:13It was a good day.

00:56:15All right.

00:56:15Paul, how was the day for you?

00:56:17A bit of excitement,

00:56:19then laughter.

00:56:20Conversation was very easy.

00:56:22After talking for a while,

00:56:24I thought there was

00:56:25potential to build.

00:56:27I thought, okay,

00:56:28now it begins.

00:56:30Now it begins.

00:56:31All right.

00:56:31So you're looking forward

00:56:33to the honeymoon?

00:56:34Yeah.

00:56:35I thought we could build

00:56:36from the wedding day.

00:56:38Anita,

00:56:39are you looking forward

00:56:40to the honeymoon?

00:56:41Yeah, because he is

00:56:42a fun guy to be around.

00:56:44He did make me laugh

00:56:45nearly all day.

00:56:46So yeah,

00:56:47going forward,

00:56:48I knew we could have

00:56:49a good time.

00:56:50So as we go into the honeymoon,

00:56:52you begin to investigate

00:56:53shared values,

00:56:55shared outlook on life.

00:56:57What did you notice

00:56:58that the two of you shared?

00:57:00So much.

00:57:01Okay, like what?

00:57:02Got the same values.

00:57:04Same values?

00:57:04Yeah, family orientated.

00:57:06Okay.

00:57:07Same morals.

00:57:08All right.

00:57:09It feels like things are good.

00:57:10The outside stuff

00:57:12matched us perfectly.

00:57:14But when it comes

00:57:15to the inner deep stuff,

00:57:17the emotional

00:57:17and the attraction,

00:57:19we couldn't be so far apart

00:57:21on the scale.

00:57:23Paul's a good talker,

00:57:25but when you pin him down

00:57:27to talk,

00:57:28he deviates around

00:57:29the relationship side.

00:57:31So are you really saying

00:57:33Paul wasn't

00:57:35emotionally

00:57:36connecting with you?

00:57:38No connection,

00:57:39no emotional connection,

00:57:41no communication.

00:57:42Yeah, just miles apart.

00:57:45Okay.

00:57:46Okay.

00:57:47To be fair,

00:57:48I didn't really give Anita

00:57:49anything emotional

00:57:50to grip onto.

00:57:51All my other barriers

00:57:52are down.

00:57:53Right.

00:57:53All my cards

00:57:54are on the table,

00:57:55and I think Anita knows

00:57:56that she saw them.

00:57:57I struggle to open up

00:57:58emotionally.

00:57:59It's hard for me.

00:58:01Paul, when you and I met

00:58:03on a one-to-one,

00:58:04I felt like you were

00:58:05quite open.

00:58:06So I'm wondering,

00:58:07was there something

00:58:08that you needed

00:58:09in this interaction

00:58:11to have made you feel

00:58:13a little bit more

00:58:14able to open up?

00:58:16I can interact all day.

00:58:18I can talk to you all day.

00:58:19When it comes to

00:58:20affairs of the heart

00:58:21with the opposite sex

00:58:22in our relationship,

00:58:23I'm a different beast.

00:58:25That's when it feels

00:58:25a bit difficult to do.

00:58:27It feels extremely awkward

00:58:28and difficult, yeah.

00:58:30It sounds like

00:58:31on the honeymoon,

00:58:33Anita,

00:58:33you were observing Paul

00:58:35in terms of his

00:58:36emotional availability.

00:58:37You have placed him

00:58:39in this box,

00:58:40but it sounds like

00:58:41you've permanently

00:58:42placed him in the box

00:58:43because everyone

00:58:46can become emotionally

00:58:47available.

00:58:49Did you feel like,

00:58:50because he's not bringing

00:58:52that to the table now,

00:58:54I want nothing

00:58:55to do with him?

00:58:56No.

00:58:58I put him in that box

00:58:59because he said

00:59:00he wasn't in that

00:59:01head space

00:59:01to be available.

00:59:04He's on a self-discovery

00:59:06journey,

00:59:06and I'm on a love journey.

00:59:08So until he's

00:59:09discovered himself

00:59:10and found out

00:59:11what he actually

00:59:11really needs

00:59:12in his life...

00:59:13Are those two

00:59:13mutually exclusive?

00:59:15They're on different

00:59:16paths.

00:59:16Are they Anita?

00:59:20I have no idea.

00:59:22What we're saying

00:59:23is that the two

00:59:24can exist together,

00:59:25so you can

00:59:26be on a journey

00:59:27to find love,

00:59:28and you can also

00:59:29find yourself

00:59:30on that journey

00:59:31as well.

00:59:32Yeah.

00:59:33Okay.

00:59:33All right.

00:59:34Honeymoon is done.

00:59:35Yep.

00:59:36You move into

00:59:36the apartments.

00:59:38Ish.

00:59:39Ish.

00:59:40For about 10 minutes.

00:59:42What happened?

00:59:42Went into the apartments,

00:59:45and I just thought,

00:59:46I just don't know

00:59:47if I can do this.

00:59:49The thing that

00:59:49tipped me over the edge,

00:59:51it was like a make-or-break

00:59:52thing in my head.

00:59:53It was just like,

00:59:53Paul, what's the name

00:59:54of my two children?

00:59:55And he just went.

00:59:58That was the

00:59:59communication thing,

01:00:00and the lack of interest

01:00:02in me was kind of like,

01:00:03well...

01:00:05And was that because

01:00:07Paul hadn't asked you

01:00:08the names of your children?

01:00:10I've spoke about

01:00:11my children.

01:00:11I've actually said

01:00:12the names.

01:00:13Right.

01:00:13The grandchildren as well

01:00:15have spoke about them.

01:00:16So you felt like Paul

01:00:16just wasn't listening to you,

01:00:18and because he wasn't

01:00:19listening, he wasn't

01:00:21truly interested in you?

01:00:22Yeah.

01:00:22Okay.

01:00:24In my brain,

01:00:25there's no real point

01:00:26of pursuing it.

01:00:28Okay.

01:00:29It's interesting.

01:00:30So, Paul, what's your take?

01:00:31I have my children's

01:00:32tattoos, names,

01:00:33and dates of birth

01:00:33on my arm for a reason,

01:00:35so I can't remember

01:00:35nothing.

01:00:36I talk constantly,

01:00:38and I put all my cards

01:00:39on the table,

01:00:40because that's how

01:00:40I operate.

01:00:41I volunteer

01:00:42the information.

01:00:44How Anita operates

01:00:45is she likes to be

01:00:46asked the information.

01:00:51So,

01:00:51at the end of the day,

01:00:54why are you here?

01:00:55To find love.

01:00:57Well, what does that

01:00:58mean to you?

01:00:59A partner in crime.

01:01:02Somebody to walk

01:01:03alongside us,

01:01:04still be holding hands

01:01:05when we're 80,

01:01:06somebody who's there

01:01:07for you.

01:01:10Now, Paul,

01:01:11what do you want?

01:01:17You've really,

01:01:18I want to find a partner.

01:01:19I want to find love.

01:01:20I want to cry with somebody,

01:01:22laugh with someone.

01:01:22So how is what you just said,

01:01:26Paul,

01:01:27and what you just said,

01:01:28Anita,

01:01:28different

01:01:29in terms of what

01:01:31you're looking for?

01:01:31Or is it the same?

01:01:34I want love.

01:01:36Is what you described

01:01:37what Paul just described?

01:01:39Yeah.

01:01:40Okay,

01:01:40so what's the problem?

01:01:43Ultimately,

01:01:44you both said

01:01:45you want to have someone

01:01:46who will support you.

01:01:48And I think that's the place

01:01:49to remain focused on,

01:01:50is be each other's support.

01:01:55Can we go to a decision?

01:02:00Anita?

01:02:04Paul is a lovely man.

01:02:07He's the gentleman

01:02:08I asked for.

01:02:09He really is attentive.

01:02:12I'm totally saying why

01:02:13you matched us up.

01:02:17But I still feel that

01:02:18I'm missing something.

01:02:25So,

01:02:26for that reason,

01:02:29I won't leave.

01:02:39I'm missing something.

01:02:52So,

01:02:53for that reason,

01:02:54I won't leave.

01:02:56So,

01:03:06Paul?

01:03:08Um...

01:03:08For me,

01:03:12it's about

01:03:12building that trust

01:03:13and respect.

01:03:16Building that emotional bond.

01:03:19I'm sorry it wasn't

01:03:20happening at the start.

01:03:21I do apologise for that.

01:03:22I feel a little bit

01:03:23inadequate that I didn't

01:03:24provide that.

01:03:27Fine.

01:03:34But it's the start

01:03:35of the journey.

01:03:35I'm going to stay.

01:03:36Woo!

01:03:37Yes, Paul!

01:03:42So,

01:03:43if one person

01:03:45writes

01:03:45stay,

01:03:47then the couple

01:03:48must stay

01:03:49and continue

01:03:50to work

01:03:51on their relationship.

01:03:52Now,

01:03:55let me give you

01:03:55my opinion.

01:03:56The miscommunication

01:03:58is in

01:03:58the listening

01:04:00and the asking

01:04:01of the questions.

01:04:02If those are done,

01:04:04this relationship

01:04:05becomes stronger.

01:04:08So,

01:04:08are you prepared

01:04:09to give this a go?

01:04:18Yep.

01:04:18Woo!

01:04:19Hey!

01:04:21Woo!

01:04:22Woo!

01:04:23Paul,

01:04:24are you prepared

01:04:25to give this a go?

01:04:26Yes!

01:04:26Woo!

01:04:30Paul,

01:04:31clearly,

01:04:32you have homework

01:04:32to do here.

01:04:33Yep.

01:04:34And Anita,

01:04:35you think about

01:04:35what can you be doing

01:04:36to strengthen

01:04:37the relationship?

01:04:39Thank you both.

01:04:40Thanks very much.

01:04:41Thank you, guys.

01:04:44I wrote leave

01:04:45because

01:04:46it was a potent

01:04:47wasting time.

01:04:48I'm hoping

01:04:49that Paul

01:04:50takes the expert's

01:04:51advice,

01:04:52and he has

01:04:52listened this time.

01:04:54Doesn't listen much

01:04:55to me,

01:04:55so hopefully

01:04:56he has a light bulb

01:04:57moment and thinks,

01:04:58yeah, I've got to

01:04:58try opening up.

01:05:01Rejection's a very

01:05:02difficult thing

01:05:03to cope with.

01:05:04A little bit

01:05:04disappointed that she

01:05:05doesn't want to try.

01:05:06It's only been eight days.

01:05:09Really?

01:05:10I'm hoping you need to

01:05:11can look at the

01:05:12differences we've got

01:05:13and work together

01:05:14to build the marriage

01:05:15going forward.

01:05:15next up to the couch.

01:05:24We have Maeve.

01:05:26Hey!

01:05:27Hiya.

01:05:30Hi, Maeve.

01:05:31Is it all right?

01:05:31Yeah.

01:05:32Lovely to see you.

01:05:34Of course,

01:05:34Jo's not feeling

01:05:35very well,

01:05:36so we're just

01:05:37really keen to know

01:05:38how the whole process

01:05:39has been for you.

01:05:40So, take me back

01:05:41to the wedding.

01:05:43What were your

01:05:43first impressions

01:05:44of Jo?

01:05:46I was a little bit

01:05:47intimidated.

01:05:48Like, I couldn't

01:05:49make eye contact

01:05:49with him.

01:05:50He was looking at me

01:05:51and I was just like,

01:05:53like, I couldn't

01:05:53look at him.

01:05:54What do you think

01:05:55was going on there

01:05:56for you?

01:05:57He's very good looking

01:05:58and I just think,

01:05:59like, oh my God.

01:06:00He's not going to find

01:06:01me attractive whatsoever.

01:06:05It feels quite sad

01:06:06to hear you say that.

01:06:08Because I've always

01:06:09got that self-doubt

01:06:10about us,

01:06:10do you know what I mean?

01:06:11Because I always go on

01:06:11like I'm loud and confident

01:06:12but yet I am quite,

01:06:14like, shy inside.

01:06:16And when I saw him,

01:06:16I thought, nah,

01:06:17like, he's not

01:06:18going to like us.

01:06:22Sounded like you felt

01:06:23a bit intimidated

01:06:24when you saw Jo.

01:06:26Yeah.

01:06:28And then you went

01:06:29on honeymoon?

01:06:30Yeah.

01:06:31What happened?

01:06:34I argued with him

01:06:35and he said something

01:06:37and I took it

01:06:37out of context

01:06:38completely.

01:06:40I could feel

01:06:40myself getting

01:06:41angry with him

01:06:42and I had to

01:06:43take myself

01:06:44out of the situation

01:06:44because I thought,

01:06:45I don't want

01:06:45to be angry at you.

01:06:47Do you think

01:06:48because you felt

01:06:49quite intimidated

01:06:50that's made you think,

01:06:52okay, let me kind of

01:06:53ruffle feathers here?

01:06:55Yeah.

01:06:56I could feel

01:06:56myself bubbling up

01:06:57thinking,

01:06:57I'm going to kick off,

01:06:58I'm going to kick off.

01:06:58So you felt quite

01:06:59triggered in that moment?

01:07:01Okay.

01:07:01I could feel

01:07:02myself liking him

01:07:03and I was thinking,

01:07:04I don't want to go

01:07:05through the heartache

01:07:06again,

01:07:06I don't want to go

01:07:07through the shit times

01:07:08again.

01:07:08I can't do it.

01:07:09I can't,

01:07:10I can't,

01:07:10like,

01:07:10I'm trying to be

01:07:11vulnerable but I

01:07:12really struggle doing

01:07:13that.

01:07:15I don't want people

01:07:15to say that side.

01:07:17And how did you

01:07:18resolve the argument

01:07:20with Joe?

01:07:21You know,

01:07:21when I said,

01:07:22I want someone

01:07:22to speak to her softly,

01:07:23like,

01:07:23when I'm having

01:07:24bad moments,

01:07:24like,

01:07:24that's exactly

01:07:25what he did.

01:07:26I,

01:07:26like,

01:07:27I'm just so grateful

01:07:31that that's what he did

01:07:32because I know

01:07:33I'm not an easy person

01:07:34to be around

01:07:35when I'm like that.

01:07:36It's, like,

01:07:37so nice,

01:07:37there's so much more

01:07:38to him than,

01:07:39like,

01:07:39what he looks like.

01:07:40He's absolutely

01:07:41incredible.

01:07:42Yeah.

01:07:43I was getting in my head

01:07:44and I was thinking,

01:07:44oh my God,

01:07:45I like him,

01:07:45like,

01:07:46what am I going

01:07:46to do here?

01:07:47I don't want

01:07:48to be nasty to him.

01:07:50I'm feeling

01:07:50too much in me head

01:07:51because I struggle

01:07:52liking people.

01:07:53Because you feel

01:07:55that what?

01:07:55I don't know,

01:07:56I just feel like

01:07:56it's always going

01:07:57to end bad.

01:07:59I think he's

01:08:00too good for me.

01:08:03I mean,

01:08:04it's quite heartbreaking

01:08:04to hear you say that.

01:08:06Yeah.

01:08:06That you feel

01:08:07he's too good for you.

01:08:09Well, he is.

01:08:10No.

01:08:10No, he's not.

01:08:11No, he's not.

01:08:13And he adores her

01:08:14so much.

01:08:16Maybe there might

01:08:17be things that Joe

01:08:17could do differently

01:08:18to help you

01:08:19to feel more secure.

01:08:21He doesn't do

01:08:21anything wrong.

01:08:22Do you know

01:08:22what I mean?

01:08:23So Joe's perfect.

01:08:24I'm not saying,

01:08:25no one's perfect.

01:08:26If you do nothing

01:08:27wrong, you're perfect.

01:08:28Well, he's not.

01:08:30I don't,

01:08:30well, he's perfect

01:08:31to me so far.

01:08:33Okay.

01:08:34But now,

01:08:35let's talk about

01:08:36your part in this.

01:08:37Because you,

01:08:38Maeve,

01:08:38are the classic

01:08:39self-sabotager.

01:08:41But that comes

01:08:44from having

01:08:44low self-worth.

01:08:47Low self-worth

01:08:48comes from

01:08:50lots of places,

01:08:51but in particular

01:08:51from horrible

01:08:52relationships

01:08:53where we have

01:08:54been trounced on

01:08:55time and time

01:08:56again.

01:08:58And then,

01:08:59you look at yourself

01:09:00and you say,

01:09:00you know what,

01:09:01I'm not worthy

01:09:01to have a great

01:09:02relationship.

01:09:03And we also

01:09:03place people

01:09:04on pedestals.

01:09:06And that's

01:09:07what you're doing.

01:09:07you're saying,

01:09:08I'm not worthy

01:09:09to be with

01:09:10someone that

01:09:10perfect.

01:09:13You need to

01:09:15love on yourself

01:09:15more.

01:09:17You do.

01:09:24What do you

01:09:25do to love

01:09:28on yourself?

01:09:29I don't know.

01:09:31Nothing.

01:09:33Everyone's

01:09:33on a path

01:09:34here.

01:09:34And so

01:09:36what I hope

01:09:37for you

01:09:37in this path

01:09:38is that

01:09:38you find

01:09:39your self-worth.

01:09:41This

01:09:42is more

01:09:43important

01:09:44than your

01:09:45relationship

01:09:45with Joe.

01:09:46You understand

01:09:47this?

01:09:47Yeah.

01:09:48Okay.

01:09:53Let's go

01:09:53to the decisions,

01:09:54May.

01:09:56I've had a bit

01:09:57of a rollercoaster

01:09:58of emotions

01:09:58with this journey

01:10:00and

01:10:01I've been

01:10:02vulnerable

01:10:03as much

01:10:04as I can

01:10:04be,

01:10:04but obviously

01:10:05I want

01:10:05to be

01:10:05a bit

01:10:05more

01:10:05vulnerable

01:10:06and

01:10:07I want

01:10:09to give

01:10:09myself

01:10:10a little

01:10:10bit more

01:10:10self-love.

01:10:12That's the

01:10:12main one.

01:10:13So what

01:10:14I have

01:10:14decided

01:10:14is that

01:10:15I'm

01:10:16going to

01:10:16stay.

01:10:22So hold

01:10:23on,

01:10:24hold on,

01:10:24wait.

01:10:25Joe

01:10:25obviously

01:10:26can't be

01:10:27here,

01:10:28but he

01:10:28has let

01:10:29us know

01:10:29his decision

01:10:30and I

01:10:31can tell

01:10:32you

01:10:32he has

01:10:33decided

01:10:33to stay.

01:10:37That's

01:10:37good.

01:10:39Well,

01:10:40Maeve,

01:10:40I hope

01:10:41you grow

01:10:41to love

01:10:42yourself

01:10:42as much

01:10:43as we

01:10:43all love

01:10:44you.

01:10:44Right,

01:10:45can I

01:10:45go on

01:10:45now?

01:10:45You can

01:10:46now.

01:10:47Thanks,

01:10:47Maeve.

01:10:47Imagine if

01:10:56the fucker

01:10:56said leave.

01:10:59Next on

01:11:00the couch,

01:11:01Nelly and

01:11:01Stephen.

01:11:09Hi.

01:11:09Hello.

01:11:10Hello,

01:11:10you all?

01:11:11Welcome.

01:11:11Lovely to see

01:11:12the two of

01:11:13you.

01:11:13Lovely to see

01:11:14you.

01:11:14So let's

01:11:15start from

01:11:16the beginning.

01:11:17How was

01:11:18your wedding?

01:11:19Wedding was

01:11:19amazing.

01:11:20Yeah.

01:11:20Couldn't have

01:11:21asked for a

01:11:21better day,

01:11:21to be honest.

01:11:23I was a

01:11:23little bit

01:11:23concerned when

01:11:24I turned

01:11:24around and

01:11:24saw six

01:11:25guys walking

01:11:25towards me.

01:11:27I thought,

01:11:27hang on,

01:11:28where's the

01:11:28wife?

01:11:29But yeah,

01:11:30once I saw

01:11:30her being

01:11:31carried in

01:11:31on a

01:11:31dolly and

01:11:32saw her

01:11:33face,

01:11:33my first

01:11:34word was

01:11:34just wow.

01:11:36Yeah,

01:11:36that's nice.

01:11:36And it was

01:11:37like a portrait.

01:11:39Oh my God,

01:11:39like this is

01:11:39going to be

01:11:40my wife.

01:11:41This person

01:11:41I'm going

01:11:41to say I

01:11:42do to

01:11:42and give

01:11:42my all

01:11:43to.

01:11:43So yeah,

01:11:44it was

01:11:44really in

01:11:45that moment

01:11:45then.

01:11:46That's when

01:11:46I was like,

01:11:46okay,

01:11:46I'm ready.

01:11:49And Nelly,

01:11:50what was

01:11:50your experience?

01:11:52As soon

01:11:52as I

01:11:53saw

01:11:54Stephen,

01:11:55I just

01:11:55felt really

01:11:55calm.

01:11:57I just

01:11:57got a

01:11:57really nice

01:11:58vibe from

01:11:58him.

01:11:58For me,

01:11:59it was

01:11:59really

01:11:59important

01:12:00that my

01:12:00partner

01:12:01would value

01:12:01family a

01:12:01lot because

01:12:02I'm really

01:12:02close to

01:12:03mine.

01:12:03So that

01:12:04was amazing

01:12:04to see.

01:12:05Yeah.

01:12:06It was

01:12:06just really,

01:12:06really special.

01:12:07It was

01:12:07really nice.

01:12:09Sounding

01:12:09absolutely

01:12:10amazing.

01:12:11I'm very

01:12:11hopeful that

01:12:12you're going

01:12:12to say the

01:12:13same thing

01:12:13about the

01:12:13honeymoon.

01:12:14Was

01:12:14sparks still

01:12:15flying?

01:12:16Yeah.

01:12:17We had

01:12:17such an

01:12:18amazing

01:12:18time.

01:12:18Yeah.

01:12:19Where did

01:12:19you go?

01:12:20To Jamaica.

01:12:21We just

01:12:22literally just

01:12:23felt that

01:12:24whole Jamaican

01:12:24aura.

01:12:26We didn't

01:12:26bicker and

01:12:27it just

01:12:28got on so

01:12:28well.

01:12:29We laughed

01:12:30a lot.

01:12:30Yeah,

01:12:31we just had

01:12:31a really,

01:12:31really good

01:12:32time.

01:12:33We get

01:12:33on,

01:12:33we have

01:12:34a similar

01:12:34sense of

01:12:34humour.

01:12:35We are

01:12:36really playful

01:12:36with each

01:12:37other.

01:12:38It's

01:12:39exactly what

01:12:39I wanted.

01:12:39But I

01:12:42always just

01:12:42think like,

01:12:43well,

01:12:43when's

01:12:43something

01:12:44going to

01:12:44go wrong?

01:12:47It sounds

01:12:47like there's

01:12:48a part of

01:12:49you that's

01:12:49thinking this

01:12:50is too good

01:12:50to be true.

01:12:51Yeah,

01:12:51exactly that.

01:12:53I'm like kind

01:12:53of waiting for

01:12:54something to

01:12:54happen and it

01:12:55freaks me out a

01:12:55little bit that

01:12:56it hasn't.

01:12:58Why aren't we

01:12:59arguing?

01:12:59Why haven't you

01:13:00irritated me?

01:13:00Why haven't I

01:13:01irritated you?

01:13:02I end up

01:13:04trying to look

01:13:05for something.

01:13:06So, for

01:13:07example, I

01:13:08love how

01:13:09affectionate you

01:13:10were on our

01:13:11honeymoon.

01:13:12And then I'd

01:13:13come back to

01:13:14the apartment

01:13:14and I would

01:13:15kind of think,

01:13:16he's not giving

01:13:16me a kiss this

01:13:17morning.

01:13:18And then I get

01:13:19in my head and

01:13:19think, yeah,

01:13:20it's because he

01:13:20doesn't like you.

01:13:23And then he

01:13:24will give me a

01:13:24kiss and I think,

01:13:25oh, that was

01:13:25nice, he does

01:13:26like me.

01:13:26And it's just

01:13:27constant.

01:13:29And I even

01:13:29feel saying this

01:13:30now, I'm

01:13:30thinking, oh my

01:13:31God, this is

01:13:31going to give

01:13:32him the ick and

01:13:32it's going to

01:13:32push him

01:13:33away.

01:13:48It's just

01:13:49constant.

01:13:50And I even

01:13:51feel saying this

01:13:51now, I'm

01:13:52thinking, oh my

01:13:52God, this is

01:13:53going to give

01:13:53him the ick and

01:13:54it's going to

01:13:54push him

01:13:54away.

01:13:55Do you know

01:14:02why you do

01:14:02that?

01:14:03No.

01:14:03Your last

01:14:04three relationships,

01:14:06how did those

01:14:07end?

01:14:08They all

01:14:09cheat on me.

01:14:10Right.

01:14:12So they

01:14:13betrayed your

01:14:14trust.

01:14:17Whenever our

01:14:18trust is

01:14:19betrayed over

01:14:20and over

01:14:20again, we

01:14:21develop what's

01:14:22called a

01:14:22hypervigilance

01:14:23for red

01:14:25flags because

01:14:26you have to

01:14:27learn to

01:14:27protect yourself.

01:14:28Okay.

01:14:28So you

01:14:29now are in

01:14:30this mode of

01:14:31self-protection.

01:14:33But you

01:14:34know what the

01:14:34problem is when

01:14:35you're just

01:14:35looking for red

01:14:36flags?

01:14:36I don't see the

01:14:37green ones.

01:14:37You miss all

01:14:38the beautiful

01:14:38green ones.

01:14:39Yeah.

01:14:41And so the

01:14:42best advice I

01:14:43can give on

01:14:43this is become

01:14:45hypervigilant about

01:14:46green flags.

01:14:48Okay.

01:14:49Retrain your

01:14:50brain.

01:14:51And that's how

01:14:51you do it.

01:14:53Obviously on the

01:14:53reassurance piece

01:14:54it comes out a

01:14:54little bit harder

01:14:55for me.

01:14:55I get frustrated

01:14:56myself because I

01:14:57know I should

01:14:57give a lot more.

01:14:58Exactly.

01:14:59Yeah.

01:14:59I was going to

01:14:59say this.

01:15:00You have to

01:15:01actually say it.

01:15:03And it's very

01:15:03important for you

01:15:04to be consistent.

01:15:05And what you

01:15:06know is that you

01:15:07do have to

01:15:07reassure and you

01:15:08have to do that

01:15:08consistently.

01:15:11Nelly, at the

01:15:12dinner party

01:15:13yesterday, we

01:15:14saw you get

01:15:16quite emotional

01:15:17when it came to

01:15:19the honesty box

01:15:20and you worrying

01:15:21about being too

01:15:22much.

01:15:24I just kind of

01:15:24worry that if I

01:15:26show too much

01:15:26emotion, like in

01:15:28my last relationship

01:15:28I would be too

01:15:29emotional sometimes

01:15:30or if I get

01:15:31tearful it was

01:15:31for God's sake

01:15:32you're crying again.

01:15:33Sometimes I think

01:15:34I shouldn't give

01:15:34those emotions

01:15:35because what if

01:15:35that happens again?

01:15:37And then yeah,

01:15:38the tears kept

01:15:38leaking from my

01:15:39face.

01:15:40I really applaud

01:15:41the fact that you

01:15:42did that and I

01:15:43could see that that

01:15:44wasn't an

01:15:44easy thing for

01:15:45you to do.

01:15:46I would like to

01:15:47also say though

01:15:48that it is really

01:15:49important for you

01:15:50to be kinder to

01:15:51yourself and I

01:15:52would encourage

01:15:53you to acknowledge

01:15:54that actually it's

01:15:55alright to show

01:15:56emotion if there's

01:15:58a lot more about

01:15:58your ex-partners

01:16:00that they weren't

01:16:00able to hold

01:16:02that.

01:16:03What I'm seeing

01:16:04here is that

01:16:05Stephen can.

01:16:07He can be there

01:16:07for you and we're

01:16:08seeing that right

01:16:09now.

01:16:09Yeah.

01:16:10I feel it.

01:16:13Stephen, how's it

01:16:22for you to hear

01:16:23Nelly be so

01:16:24vulnerable yesterday?

01:16:25In a weird sense,

01:16:27it's pleasing.

01:16:28Obviously, I never

01:16:28want to see the

01:16:30person I'm with

01:16:30that cry.

01:16:31It shows that she

01:16:32cares.

01:16:32It shows that she's

01:16:33willing to be

01:16:33vulnerable.

01:16:34But I've kept

01:16:35little memories

01:16:36and little moments

01:16:36to then on those

01:16:38random days where

01:16:38maybe she's feeling

01:16:39a little bit too

01:16:40much in her head

01:16:40to be like,

01:16:42look, here's what

01:16:43this week's meant

01:16:44to me.

01:16:45Here's our week

01:16:46in a small little

01:16:47bag.

01:16:47The reassurance I'll

01:16:48give, I like to do

01:16:49it through action

01:16:49and not purely

01:16:50through words all

01:16:51the time.

01:16:52She walked in the

01:16:53other day in her

01:16:53head a little bit

01:16:54and I was picked

01:16:55up, gave her a kiss

01:16:56the other one

01:16:56and sort of not

01:16:57wrestling to the ground.

01:16:58But I loved it.

01:16:58That's what I want.

01:16:59It's fun.

01:17:00It's playful.

01:17:00I want stuff

01:17:01like that.

01:17:02You two sound

01:17:02like you're

01:17:03falling for each

01:17:03other.

01:17:04You can definitely

01:17:05say you're on the

01:17:05path for that

01:17:06because there's

01:17:06been nothing wrong.

01:17:07So you're on the

01:17:08path?

01:17:09Yeah, you're on the

01:17:09path, yeah,

01:17:10100%.

01:17:10I am.

01:17:11I'm just going

01:17:11to have to say

01:17:11it.

01:17:12I probably would

01:17:13say I feel like

01:17:14I'm a little bit

01:17:14more ahead of

01:17:15Stephen.

01:17:15And I'll agree

01:17:16to that because

01:17:16she's allowed

01:17:17herself to be

01:17:17vulnerable.

01:17:18So she's taken

01:17:19those extra

01:17:19couple of steps.

01:17:20I haven't yet.

01:17:21So until I make

01:17:22that step and jump

01:17:23ahead, then we can

01:17:24start walking like

01:17:25hand in hand again.

01:17:28Can we go to a

01:17:29decision?

01:17:30Well, I am

01:17:32really grateful to

01:17:34have been matched

01:17:35with you in this

01:17:35process and I love

01:17:37being around you.

01:17:38I am looking

01:17:39forward to doing

01:17:40this journey with

01:17:40you and I really

01:17:42want to know a

01:17:43little bit more

01:17:44about you.

01:17:45So I'll put

01:17:46stay.

01:17:47Stay.

01:17:51And Stephen,

01:17:52what's your

01:17:53decision?

01:17:54It's leading in

01:17:55the right direction

01:17:55for me and I'm

01:17:56saying I'm fully

01:17:56committed to opening

01:17:58up a little bit

01:17:58more.

01:17:59But, yeah, I'm

01:18:00fully in.

01:18:01I've been fully in

01:18:01since I see you

01:18:02in that dolly.

01:18:03So, yeah, for me,

01:18:04it's 100% stay with

01:18:06a little smiley face.

01:18:07I'll put smiley as

01:18:08well.

01:18:09See?

01:18:14I think the two of

01:18:14you just made for

01:18:15each other.

01:18:16I'm so excited to see

01:18:17where this goes and we

01:18:18wish you all the best

01:18:19for the rest of the

01:18:19week.

01:18:20I appreciate that.

01:18:21Yeah, thank you so

01:18:21much.

01:18:22I'm really glad that

01:18:28actually Paul highlighted

01:18:29what I'm doing because

01:18:31I knew I was doing it

01:18:32but I didn't know how

01:18:33to stop it.

01:18:35That's fine.

01:18:36100% I'm going to be

01:18:38focusing on the green

01:18:38flags more.

01:18:39I feel better.

01:18:40Yeah, I feel more

01:18:40reassured already.

01:18:41Next time.

01:18:47Hello.

01:18:48It's Experts Week.

01:18:50Do I have permission

01:18:50to remove your robe?

01:18:52While some couples

01:18:53lean into physical

01:18:54intimacy.

01:18:54Oh, I hope you know

01:18:56where the key is to

01:18:56that.

01:18:57Anita's patience with

01:18:58Paul wears even

01:18:59thinner.

01:19:00Surely you should know

01:19:00what you want by now.

01:19:01Are you expecting me

01:19:02to be fully committed

01:19:03after two weeks?

01:19:04I need to know

01:19:05where this relationship

01:19:06is going.

01:19:07No, I'm not hanging

01:19:08around.

01:19:09And an unwanted

01:19:10interference in one

01:19:11couple's marriage.

01:19:13Other people don't

01:19:13need to know my shit

01:19:14because you'll see

01:19:15a side of me which

01:19:16probably you won't

01:19:17like.

01:19:18I'm not having you

01:19:19told that I was

01:19:20trying to come to

01:19:20a relationship.

01:19:21I'm not.

01:19:21Couldn't give a

01:19:22flying fuck if I'm

01:19:22completely honest.

01:19:23I'm here for my

01:19:23relationship.

01:19:24Causes two husbands

01:19:25to collide.

01:19:26People just basically

01:19:28just fuck off.

01:19:30You're not part of

01:19:31this relationship so

01:19:32see yourself out.

01:19:41That's what you need

01:19:45right.

01:19:45You're not

01:19:47at all.

01:20:00You're not

01:20:00at all.

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