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00:00A single mom thought she could walk into a man's life with sky-high standards,
00:04but things didn't go the way she planned. Instead of meeting her demands, he decided he'd had enough
00:10and kicked her out, giving her a reminder of how life works.
00:15I've been dealing with this for too long.
00:19She gotta go. Now before anybody got anything to say or try to judge me for what I'm doing,
00:26I'm gonna tell y'all what's really going on.
00:28Let's get straight to it.
00:31I can't do it no more.
00:34I done told this woman seven times to leave my house.
00:40Get out. It's over.
00:42I don't want to be with her no more.
00:44I can't be with you.
00:46You don't want to do nothing for yourself.
00:49She don't want to better herself.
00:51She belongs to the streets.
00:52I can't really blame him.
00:53He gave her too many chances and realized that only she can make the change
00:59and he's not responsible for her actions.
01:01She wants to sit around and play the victim and act like I'm the problem.
01:11I'm not the problem.
01:14This is all the stuff.
01:14She gotta go.
01:16I asked her seven times, get yourself together.
01:19I even tried to make it work.
01:23She living with me.
01:24Most people give you one or two chances, but seven are way too generous.
01:35More than anyone would, especially with a partner who has kids.
01:38I didn't even accept for their kids.
01:41I don't even got no kids.
01:43I didn't even accept that her kids.
01:46Treat them kids like mine.
01:48I love them kids.
01:50But I can't do this no more, Tasha.
01:52You gotta go.
01:53She come in all hours of the night, whenever she want to,
01:58always trying to play victim.
02:00God, please forgive me for doing this.
02:02I never meant to be this way.
02:04Like, you know, you know I'm a good man at heart.
02:06But sometimes you get fed up.
02:08I'd have asked her seven times to leave.
02:09And it's just like, I can't deal with this no more.
02:13I just want y'all to see.
02:15I got a stuff out here.
02:16And if you ever try to come over here and mess up my house or anything like that, man,
02:21I already got my police report filed.
02:23So they will come find you.
02:25Don't come over here on my property.
02:26This is my property.
02:26Sometimes hard actions are the only way to open someone's eyes
02:30and push them to change and better themselves.
02:33It's like, it don't make no sense.
02:36God, please forgive me, sir.
02:38God, please forgive me.
02:39Just forgive me, God.
02:41Please.
02:45Hey.
02:46Hey, open up.
02:50This is where I'm spending the night.
02:51I brought my pajamas.
02:52I got my pajamas right here.
02:54No big deal.
02:55I'm gonna, I'm gonna set up shop.
02:58You can't make me leave.
02:59I live here to...
03:00Giving her seven chances was more than she deserved.
03:06Too bad her kids got affected because of her mistakes.
03:10Never date someone with less to lose than you.
03:12Because you cannot predict their reaction when the relationship ends.
03:16I'm not even in your...
03:18Move.
03:21I want to leave.
03:22I get that.
03:23I want you to call someone and calm down.
03:24Goodbye.
03:25Goodbye.
03:26Xander, my...
03:27Goodbye.
03:28Please move.
03:29Please move.
03:29I want to leave.
03:31I want you to call someone and calm down.
03:31Please move.
03:32I want to leave.
03:32Please move.
03:33I want to leave.
03:34Please move.
03:34I want to leave.
03:35Please move.
03:36I want to leave.
03:37Please move.
03:38I want to leave.
03:39Get the **** all away.
03:42Why is it not?
03:44You cheated.
03:45Get out of the way.
03:47Have a good one.
03:48We're Ricky.
03:50You're out of my **** phase.
03:51the last thing he said was the ultimate way to end a relationship and make sure a cheater
04:05never forgets you hope you know that why is it not you cheated out of my face
04:10emotional damage is that a girl with kids um let's see let's see uh no definitely not bro
04:26definitely not you know no way bro no sloppy seconds no way no way why not
04:32nah dude there's just there's too many fish out there bro i'm looking for that virgin-esque
04:38you know wait until marriage type of chick nice yes right i feel you i feel you think you think
04:45that lowers their value like when they got kids in the dating market one thousand percent trash
04:51trash just like forky in toy story 4 that is trash he's not lying there are plenty of fish in the sea
05:02just be patient to get something good instead of getting something bad life is so funny because
05:08like one day you're living in a ten thousand dollar a month apartment and like getting to do whatever
05:15you want and eating at michelin star restaurants all the time and going on a vacation to the amman
05:19hotel in sri lanka and then extending the trip and going to singapore and staying at the ritz carlton
05:24and you're with this man you think you think you're gonna marry and he's made you financially
05:29dependent on him over the course of the relationship and then you get into a fight one night and
05:34he turns ice cold and um cuts you off financially completely and you have no cards because you've been
05:42using his card so you didn't you don't have any money on you and while you're sleeping um has his
05:47friend go over to the apartment that you guys have shared since like the lease began and moved
05:51in together and like it was our apartment and um has his friend pack up all of your stuff and
05:58then drop it outside of your friend's apartment in his hallway um says find your way back to new york
06:04and it's january so when i get back to new york i will have technically nowhere permanent to live
06:08um and there's absolutely nothing i can do because i wasn't on the lease and he was calculating in that
06:15um and obviously this is partially my fault for making the mistake of becoming financially
06:19dependent on someone when i really didn't need to like i had a career i had tons of friends i was happy
06:25this is what happens when ungratefulness meets kindness i don't care what nobody say i feel like
06:37men that ain't got no kids they be the problem because y'all be sitting up all day every day
06:42trying to talk down on single moms and trying to bash them and trying to make it seem like don't
06:48nobody want no single mom because y'all are frustrated about the fact that these chicks with
06:53no kids don't want y'all are you delusional do you suffer from a mental illness do you think you do
07:00you know i'm saying like if you can't pull your preference you cannot take out your frustration
07:05on all women it's not single moms fault that your preference don't want you if the chicks you want
07:10don't want you that's a personal issue you need to stop trying to take that out on everybody else
07:15and y'all be wanting single moms to be bitter and not to have nobody because y'all mad about the fact
07:20that they never chose you like your mindset is unhealed it's plenty of people out here that have
07:25kids that's a normal part of life just because you're not going to date a single mom or just
07:29because you know they didn't choose you first does not mean that they're going to be bitter
07:33and have a miserable life just because you're mad that they didn't choose you first that's weird like
07:39you just want these women to be miserable and not have nobody because you're mad because they never
07:42chose you we do not care it's the complete opposite we don't have time to waste we're the ones who
07:49choose to walk away for our own good the one who has five children yeah i have five kids why does
07:55everybody care why how what happened i got two babies actually the first three is with the one
08:05and then the two i have this with it's kind of complicated it's abusive kind of
08:12so uh you want a third baby daddy
08:18i'm trying to find out where are you from i'm in kentucky where are you from
08:32uh michigan maybe like four hours a day for me
08:37uh you worth that drive you tell me wait for it i'm gonna have to see previews
08:44previews
08:46how long bro cheating while her man is with her under the same roof is just insane
08:56and i'm glad she got caught so i had a full-blown affair on my husband
09:01he
09:03is still with me
09:05and
09:07we decided to start a podcast to like talk about it and
09:12all that and how we worked through it and and all of this right
09:16and i was like this is gonna be great it's gonna be easy
09:19it's not easy and it's not great rejected
09:26i didn't realize that my husband and i had never
09:32like
09:34gone in depth like he didn't even know like how it all started and
09:38i'm like
09:39the fact that he forgave her is more than she deserves
09:43but instead of being happy about a second chance
09:46she complains about why he didn't ask more details
09:50it's like opening pandora's box you know
09:54and
09:55i know that like it needs to be
09:58healed and we need to work through all of those things but it's just like
10:02it's a lot it's a lot
10:06i think i am made for just
10:11prancing around on the internet
10:13and lingerie and bathing suits because
10:16that's so much easier
10:19you don't want to be like this
10:22this is disgusting
10:24this is awful in every way
10:26they weren't lying when they said if you forgive a cheater
10:28they will lose respect for you
10:31he should have left instead
10:32once i told my boyfriend
10:34not the last one
10:36before the one i have now
10:38so please don't come and kill me
10:39not you okay the one before i told him i was working that day yeah in boots chemist
10:46yeah but i was not i took a day off
10:49he didn't know how to take a day off it was long distance as well
10:51he was in like sweden
10:53and what did i do i had a thing coming from miami
10:58okay you know that guy from miami
11:00so he came i planned a whole date night date date with him
11:04that wasn't anxiety
11:23it was guilt and fear of being caught
11:26and then he called me and then i'd be like
11:29hey babe i can't speak right now
11:30i'm at work i'm at work
11:32i like i'll call you on my break
11:34and then on my break i'd like go out
11:35and like anyway that guy knew i was lying to my boyfriend
11:38but he didn't care this is the thing about men
11:40men don't care
11:42if like they're chatting to a girl
11:44or seeing a girl that's like lying to their boyfriend
11:46yeah but like women most of the time
11:48like when you're the other woman
11:50usually the other woman is like
11:52bitter and wants the man
11:54and will try and jeopardize what the man has
11:56with his like main thing
11:57right
11:58but like with men
11:59they'll just sit back and relax
12:00while they'll be your side thing
12:02i don't think so
12:03do you think
12:04no because in the past
12:05when i've had things going on
12:06like maybe with two people
12:07like guys have a lot of pride as well
12:09they're like
12:10they don't share
12:11they don't want to share
12:13yes
12:14yes
12:15so
12:16talk a lot of s*** mandy
12:17men don't share
12:21like unless they don't give a f***
12:23i mean you're not i'm not
12:23i wasn't sleeping with that guy though
12:25right
12:26so that's sharing comes into like
12:28when you're sleeping with that
12:29right right right
12:29i was just having a like
12:30a flirt
12:31a day out a date
12:33kissing
12:33kissing yeah well
12:34i think that's at that point
12:36it's too soon to even care
12:38exactly
12:38because you'd not feel a relationship
12:39i'm trying to say yeah
12:40a whole full-on affair
12:41then maybe a guy would care
12:42congratulations
12:43you played yourself
12:45it's funny
12:46her reaction when she found out
12:48the other guy didn't care about her
12:49because he knew she was a cheater
12:52and he would have cared if she was loyal
12:54the one reality check you had once you turned into an adult
12:57all right so check it out bro
12:58like i got married at 23
13:00it felt good
13:02but like
13:02these
13:03these
13:03and they never will be
13:05um
13:07wait wait wait hold on
13:07why do you say that
13:08like i was with
13:09a girl for so long
13:10and she did me so dirty
13:12and it hurt my chest hella bad
13:14but at the end of the day
13:15i'm thankful for it
13:17because
13:17what i do now
13:19and what i'm into now
13:20is
13:21a whole
13:22180 spin
13:23other direction
13:24other direction
13:25and i feel great
13:26like it basically built character for you
13:27oh yeah dude
13:28it was character development
13:29i'm saying
13:30like losing people in your life
13:31you know
13:31and even though she's not dead
13:33she's still alive to this day
13:34but
13:35losing somebody like that
13:37on a
13:38like the same feeling
13:39as a sexual level
13:40relationship level
13:41like you're a girl for a long time
13:42this guy came to this realization
13:45at a very young age
13:46and it will carry him a long way in life
13:49it's just like somebody died
13:50yeah literally
13:51but the whole thing is
13:52is like
13:52keep moving forward with it
13:54don't
13:55stay complacent
13:56you're never comfortable
13:57and
13:58the best thing is
14:00like
14:00what unfolds after it
14:02it's just
14:02it's just
14:02it's insane
14:03it's definitely an eye-opening experience
14:04i don't know if you guys ever had love
14:06and what you think is love
14:07but
14:08once you figure it out
14:09and once you figure out
14:10how bad it hurts
14:11to lose somebody like that
14:12just keep it going
14:14that's what i'm talking about
14:16this is how sigma men move on in life
14:18choosing their own happiness
14:19but on the other hand
14:21i want to show you what to never do in this next clip
14:24yeah bros
14:27yeah i'm crying like a little
14:31i'm crying like a little
14:33i just broke up with my girl
14:36four years
14:38not a drain
14:40but i just can't do it to myself
14:43i'm so f***ing her for what she did to me
14:49and i just gotta move on
14:52that s***
14:53i'm breaking up with her
14:55because i was
14:57i've always loved her
14:58but i just can't go back
14:59with somebody who
15:01who cheated on me
15:02who f***ed somebody else
15:04all the s*** you said about
15:07i don't know bro
15:09i know it's a pass
15:10but i f***ing can't
15:12i can't do it
15:14i have to move on
15:15i can't
15:18the s***
15:19i would be a liar
15:24if i said no man felt this pain
15:25but publicly posting it
15:27will only boost her ego
15:29and bring him shame
15:30and regret in the future
15:31so keep it to yourself
15:33suffer in silence
15:34and come back to the public
15:36when you're back on your feet
15:37every guy i've ever found attractive
15:39that i've tried to pursue
15:41i've never been rejected
15:42so maybe it's my personality
15:44that gets them
15:45i don't know if that's what it is
15:46but i feel like you know
15:47wait you've
15:48hold on
15:49you've never been rejected
15:52from a guy?
15:53no
15:53so that was a f***ing lie
15:54guess who got stood up for a date?
15:59yeah
16:00that's um
16:01awesome
16:01i love this
16:03i love uh
16:04online dating
16:05this is great
16:06i waited for 20 minutes
16:08he isn't here
16:09he hasn't said anything
16:10i look cute
16:12some men just feel the danger
16:18and choose to avoid it
16:19if that's the case here
16:21then good for him
16:22get it
16:23there's men that
16:24prefer not to be
16:25with women with kids
16:26like
16:26we get it
16:27we hear you guys
16:28we hear you loud and clear
16:30okay
16:30nah
16:31man don't want any
16:32woman with kids you know
16:33don't want no woman
16:34with kids you know
16:35like any man
16:36that is so vocal
16:37about
16:38i don't want a woman
16:39with the kids
16:40on earth would anyone
16:41want to be with someone
16:42like that
16:43why
16:43because it's just a horrible
16:46trait to have
16:47like yes have your preferences
16:48but don't go and shout down
16:50a whole group of people
16:52in society
16:53and make them feel
16:55worthless about themselves
16:56just because
16:57you
16:57don't want to date one
16:59make it make sense
17:00we don't give a f***
17:02I consider myself to be a boss chick
17:04I'm 26
17:05okay
17:06currently single
17:07so I mean you were explaining to women
17:09that they are wasting their years
17:12being a boss chick
17:13just watch
17:14and you'll realize why she's single
17:16why
17:17why can't I build my life
17:19the way I want it without
17:21potentially just being a side chick
17:23what
17:23what
17:26what do you want
17:28a husband eventually
17:30eventually when
17:31definitely before I hit 30
17:32so in three years
17:34eight months or so
17:35you want to have a husband
17:36yes
17:37how many children
17:38do you want to have
17:39I want two children
17:40right
17:41and after you're pregnant
17:42and married with your first child
17:43do you want to have to work
17:44to pay significant bills
17:46I do not
17:47I would prefer to be
17:50that thing for my kids
17:52okay
17:52so by your calculations
17:54what the f***
17:55do you need to be a boss for
17:56if you're going to be
17:57a stay-at-home wife
17:58after marriage
17:59you don't want to hit a lick
18:00you want to stay at home
18:02and raise your kids
18:03that means he has to pay the bills
18:04then what are you the boss for
18:06what is it doing for the bottom line
18:08for the family
18:09gotcha
18:10the craziest thing
18:12is working on a career
18:13only to drop it in the end
18:14it makes no sense
18:16if you think about it
18:17you can't catch two birds
18:19with one stone
18:20it's either this or that
18:21am I the f***
18:22for kicking out my girlfriend
18:24and her son
18:24after she invited her ex
18:26into our home
18:27me, 35 male
18:28and my girlfriend
18:29Sarah, 35 female
18:30have been together
18:31for four years
18:32she has a son
18:33Nathan, 9 male
18:34with her ex
18:35Mark, 36 male
18:37Sarah has full custody
18:38of Nathan
18:39with her ex
18:40having scheduled visitations
18:41one weekend
18:42out of every month
18:43Sarah and Nathan
18:44moved in with me
18:45a little over a year
18:46and a half ago
18:47and in my perspective
18:48it was a little rocky
18:49at first
18:49I've always been
18:50pretty protective
18:51of my space
18:52so making room
18:53for two other people
18:53was difficult for me
18:55oh hell no
18:57so despite him
18:59sacrificing his comfort
19:00to accept her
19:01and her son
19:01look what she did next
19:03when Sarah moved in
19:05with me
19:05we agreed that
19:06the visitations for Mark
19:07would be held
19:08in our apartment
19:08as long as I'm home
19:10the main reason
19:11I wanted to do this
19:12is because I don't
19:13know Mark that well
19:14and I didn't want him
19:14wandering around
19:15our apartment
19:15without me there
19:16when we proposed
19:17this idea to Mark
19:18he was fine with it
19:19now moving on
19:20to the real issue
19:20three weeks ago
19:21marked four months
19:23since Mark's last visit
19:24so I asked Sarah
19:25when he was planning
19:26on coming to visit Nathan
19:27my girlfriend replied
19:28by shrugging her shoulders
19:29and telling me
19:30that she'd ask
19:31she never followed up
19:33with it
19:33so a few days later
19:34I asked when Mark's
19:35next visit was
19:36and Sarah said
19:36that she'd tell me
19:37when she knew
19:38Nathan was in the living room
19:39but he apparently
19:40overheard us
19:41and shouted something
19:41along the lines of
19:42dad was here
19:43last weekend
19:44remember
19:45oh hell no
19:47Sarah's face
19:48immediately dropped
19:49and when I asked
19:50what Nathan meant
19:51she wouldn't give me
19:52a direct answer
19:53eventually she
19:54ended up telling me
19:55that for the past
19:56two visits
19:56Mark has been coming
19:57to our apartment
19:58when I was working
19:59when I accused her
20:00of going back
20:01on our agreement
20:01she kept telling me
20:02this was her home too
20:03and she could invite
20:05whomever she wanted
20:05and that was fine
20:07because she was here
20:08and watching
20:09I told her
20:10that was besides the point
20:11and she violated my trust
20:12it blew up
20:13with a huge argument
20:14which ended in me
20:15telling her
20:16to get out of my apartment
20:17she packed up
20:18and left with Nathan
20:19last I heard
20:20she was staying
20:21with her parents
20:21it's funny how
20:23her own kid
20:23revealed the truth
20:24proving once again
20:26that cheaters
20:26are always caught
20:27in the end
20:28I've gotten several
20:29messages from both
20:30Sarah and her parents
20:31calling me an asshole
20:32for kicking Sarah
20:32and Nathan
20:33out of their home
20:34for something so small
20:35I beg your pardon
20:36she's even been
20:38blaming me
20:39on Instagram
20:39and Facebook
20:40about how horrible
20:41I am to do this
20:42to her
20:42it got me thinking
20:43I might be the asshole
20:44but I'm not entirely sure
20:46and then there's
20:47an extra one
20:48I can see why
20:49it's important
20:50but the court order
20:51was instructed
20:52because of Mark
20:52having a criminal record
20:54I'm not sure
20:55what it is for Sarah
20:56as he's never
20:57directly told me
20:57and I didn't want
20:58to push her
20:59to tell me
20:59am I the asshole
21:00she belongs
21:01to the street
21:02this guy is in the clear
21:03she clearly violated
21:05his trust
21:05and he chose
21:07to no longer
21:07have them in his life
21:09end of the story
21:10found out last night
21:11that my wife
21:12my partner
21:1315 years
21:14has been cheating
21:14on me
21:15with a co-worker
21:16a co-worker
21:16I used to work with
21:17well since December
21:19since about December
21:21November
21:21we've been having
21:22a problem
21:22and I told her
21:23from day one
21:24because she's done
21:25this before
21:25it was just talking
21:27but we're married
21:28with children
21:29she works nights
21:30and she would always
21:31get home around 1130
21:32started to get home
21:33about 2-3 o'clock
21:34and I knew
21:35something was going on
21:36and I told her
21:37you're going to find
21:38somebody that's going
21:38to tell you
21:39what you want to hear
21:39while we're having
21:40problems
21:40and you're going
21:41to go to that person
21:42and you're going
21:42to make a mistake
21:43I didn't think
21:44it would be her
21:44admitting that he's
21:45been in his bed
21:46over a dozen times
21:47naked
21:48she has no remorse
21:49all she can say
21:51is now that
21:51I'm abusive
21:52you get caught cheating
21:53now I'm abusive
21:55this guy made the mistake
21:57of thinking
21:57the cheater would change
21:59and gave her
22:00a second chance
22:01only for her
22:02to repeat the same thing
22:03so instead
22:04kick them out
22:05of your life
22:06with no second chances
22:07to protect your own
22:09dignity
22:09and peace of mind
22:10well guys
22:12that was all for today
22:13we'll be back soon
22:15I'll see you next time
22:17I'll see you next time
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