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00:00So you guys are saving your first kiss for your wedding?
00:03Yeah.
00:04How do you do that?
00:05I've never met a straight man who voluntarily gives up the opportunity to be intimate with a woman.
00:11Especially as a young man, I mean.
00:13I gotta ask you.
00:15Yeah.
00:16Are you gay?
00:18No.
00:20How did my family become your enemy so fast?
00:23Come on.
00:25You guys all call me a liar and I'm making up.
00:27I want things to work out between Veronica and I really bad.
00:32It's insanely good when it's good and then it flips the other way.
00:36I shouldn't have to tell you how to treat me.
00:39I shouldn't have to tell you how to love me.
00:41I think Ethan's here.
00:43That's lovely.
00:44I need a minute.
00:45I haven't met Ethan's girlfriend yet.
00:48We're both tall blondes who played volleyball.
00:50So we're either going to get along really well.
00:52Hi.
00:54Or a wormhole is going to develop and we're going to consume each other.
01:10We made it.
01:11We made it.
01:12Nowhere long distance.
01:14Zach and I just made a long road trip from Colorado to Georgia.
01:18I went to help pack up everything, but also just to be there to support him because I
01:23know he's leaving so much behind to come here.
01:25This will be your new home for a few days.
01:28Okay.
01:29Nice.
01:30This will be good.
01:31Yeah, this will be nice.
01:34I don't know why I'm holding my coffee cup.
01:38So yeah, there's not like many places for you to hang anything.
01:42Yeah, we'll figure it out.
01:44I've dealt with that problem for five years.
01:48With Mariah being gone, I took over her old room and Zach took my old room.
01:54So I cleaned it up a little bit.
01:56I think it is important to just have a clean space.
01:59I mean, if you can't keep that clean, what else in your life are you going to just ignore?
02:03Thanks for everything.
02:04Yeah, we know it's a huge sacrifice for you to have to give up this room.
02:07No, it's all good.
02:09Zach is going to be staying here at my dad's house pretty much up until the wedding.
02:12I'm going to be staying at the house I'm renting down in Tallahassee with Mariah.
02:16Probably until about a week before the wedding.
02:19Yeah, that's coming up really quick though.
02:21All right, so make yourself at home.
02:23I'm going to excuse myself and get back to work.
02:25I'm going to let you guys just get settled in.
02:28I hope Zach won't be too loud.
02:31I won't be having any parties jumping around, you know.
02:33Gotcha.
02:34So, it's great to have time just being in the same house as Isaac.
02:40I've never had a brother and so to gain three and gain the trust of three in a short period
02:47can be exhausting, but it is also their problem as much as it is mine.
02:51And so they got to show up just as much as I am.
02:54I'll catch up with you in a little while.
02:55All right, sounds good.
02:56I feel like Zach has kind of pushed his way in.
03:00If y'all need this, let me know.
03:01All right, thank you.
03:01Good to see you, man.
03:03Like with the engagement, I don't think he's putting Lydia first.
03:07He's just bossy.
03:08Like everything has to be his way or he's going to have a fit.
03:12It would be nice to get everything moved in and settled and then, yeah.
03:16Move it all out in a few weeks.
03:18Move it all out in a few weeks, yes.
03:20So, yeah, Isaac and Bear are here and it's going to be good to just have random time around them.
03:28I think it'll be good to just...
03:29And the girls at times.
03:34Thank you, Lydia.
03:36What was that look for?
03:38I just, yeah.
03:41Wait, what was that look for?
03:42I think it was his way of saying you're finishing all my sentences.
03:45You are finishing all my sentences.
03:47I have not finished a phrase in this whole time.
03:50I'm just excited.
03:51I'm excited too.
03:53But it is also like I do like to talk.
03:58Anyway, we definitely have had a lot of time together in the last three days.
04:04It was really fun.
04:06But, yes, we need some breathing to just settle and like get where we need to be.
04:13It feels like since I've met her, we haven't really had time to just breathe.
04:19But our schedules are pretty packed from now until the wedding.
04:23And we're heading to Boca to see Micah and Veronica tomorrow and travel more.
04:30All right, let's go.
04:30I'm back.
04:31Veronica and Micah, just like a lot of others, have voiced their own concerns about our relationship.
04:38So we just want to spend more time with her.
04:41If not now, when?
04:44I think you have enough tea.
04:45My life, this has to be paradise.
04:52Never look at any time.
04:54This is the night.
04:56Oh, oh.
04:58I found 14.
05:01Hello.
05:02Good morning.
05:03Good morning.
05:04How are you today?
05:05Doing well.
05:05How are you guys doing today?
05:06Good.
05:07Good to see you again.
05:07You as well.
05:08You as well.
05:09Veronica and I kind of just started therapy recently to work towards a healthier relationship
05:14because the way we've been going at it is not going well.
05:17Let's jump into it.
05:18First of all, do you guys have any questions, any comments, any concerns that have come up
05:23since we last spoke?
05:28I kind of feel like I'm going to therapy to be basically a better version of Micah.
05:34And I feel like Veronica wants me to understand and be more like her instead of trying to change
05:39herself.
05:39Well, on the walk up here, he's like accusing me of lying about something.
05:48Hmm.
05:48Okay.
05:50So, is that an atmosphere that we're dealing with right now?
05:52It is.
05:53Yeah.
05:54I don't think it's normal to look up your brother's girlfriend's naked photos.
06:00I didn't find it.
06:02So, Veronica, tell me what happened on the walk up here.
06:07He's in his phone.
06:08Um, and I look over his shoulder and he's looking up his brother's girlfriend's naked
06:13photos on the internet.
06:15Hmm.
06:16Are you going to start at the beginning?
06:18Yeah.
06:18She's like a naked model on the internet.
06:20No, that's weird.
06:23Why?
06:26Micah, what's your perspective?
06:28Well, we're on our drive over here and Veronica sees a headline and she says, your brother's
06:33girlfriend has an OnlyFans.
06:35Oh my gosh.
06:35She's like, this is the tea of the day.
06:37I don't really say much at first.
06:38I'm like, really?
06:39Really?
06:39And I'm trying to get the facts.
06:41He wants to see it.
06:42Hold on.
06:43No, I don't really want to see it at all.
06:45Um, my brother called me and I wanted to talk to him about it.
06:49He's like, if you find anything, let, send it to me.
06:52But I don't think she does.
06:53Then I asked Veronica.
06:54I was like, can you show me what makes you think that?
06:57Uh, I think it was a headline that just for grabs and she's going around spreading rumors
07:03and I wanted to see if it's actually true.
07:05He wants to see naked, naked family members.
07:09Why, why would you say that?
07:11Why, if he's saying that-
07:12Because he looks up naked people on the regular.
07:13Now he's going to look up a naked woman that, like, somehow happens to be in the same cest
07:18pool we're in.
07:19Mm-hmm.
07:20Like, the f***?
07:22You're not seeing her ever again.
07:23Ever.
07:24However-
07:25Yes, never.
07:27Veronica-
07:28Veronica, I was not doing it for that.
07:30I don't trust you.
07:32You're not allowed around her now.
07:35Veronica, we've talked about trust.
07:39You have to believe him when he says that he was looking for the headline.
07:45No, he wanted to see it.
07:47And I said, go figure it out.
07:48It's on the internet.
07:48He wanted to find the proof of what you said.
07:51He's not the PI here.
07:53Neither one of you are.
07:53No, I brought it up, but he doesn't need to go digging into other people's s***.
07:57He'll end up in bed with her.
07:58You're not seeing her anymore.
08:00That is so not true.
08:02So true.
08:03You don't think my brother's girlfriend is someone I know that is 100% off limits,
08:09and I'm defending my brother in this scenario and looking with his best interest, because
08:14that is-
08:15Remember, I should be off limits to getting hurt.
08:19That you would sleep with anyone.
08:21Why are you going that far?
08:22Because he's not-
08:23Because he goes that far very quickly.
08:26But it's just like, it's not just this.
08:28It's so many things.
08:29When she finds out something that paints certain family members of mine in a bad light, she
08:35is so quick to not fact check them, but just spread them.
08:39Did the same thing not happen to me?
08:41I don't think so.
08:43I don't think so.
08:43I don't think so.
08:44I don't think so.
08:44I don't think so.
08:44I don't think so.
08:46So Micah said that it seems like any time there's an opportunity to kind of dig into the family
08:53and point out something maybe not so positive, right?
08:57You take that opportunity.
08:58Mm-hmm.
08:59You say, yes, I do that because it was done to me.
09:01Yes.
09:02Right.
09:03So how can you imagine that makes Micah feel for you to dig into his family, the people
09:09that he loves?
09:11Well, hopefully, sort of how I feel when they dig into me.
09:15And what is that?
09:18Frustration, disappointment.
09:20Mm-hmm.
09:20I'm very much eye for an eye.
09:22If they treat me like that, I'll match energy.
09:25When it comes to Veronica and how she feels about the way Micah's family perceives her,
09:32Veronica has the dynamic of approval addiction.
09:35She wants to be accepted.
09:37And so when the family is saying things or doing things that does not feel like acceptance,
09:42that may feel like rejection, it goes to heart.
09:45It's her fear.
09:47Fear of losing, fear of not being loved, fear of being by herself.
09:53Micah, tell Veronica how that feels for you when she takes those jabs and digs at your family.
10:01Well, it puts me on a little the defensive side over the people I grew up.
10:05My only friends growing up.
10:08So it's very hurtful.
10:10And I'm torn between the girl I love and the family I love.
10:15And I want nothing but unity and everyone to be able to get along.
10:20I follow the golden rule.
10:21Treat others the way you want to be treated.
10:23They're treating me this way.
10:24I'll do that and then some.
10:27I love a competition.
10:29So I'm just in the mud slinging it with them.
10:31In pure Veronica fashion, I go put on the mud on my face and go to war.
10:39It's not the golden rule, though.
10:42You weren't raised with the golden rule.
10:44It was one of the Ten Commandments, obviously.
10:48It was love thy neighbor as thyself, which is basically the golden rule.
10:50Treat others how you want to be treated.
10:51The golden rule is the Ten Commandments.
10:53It's basically the same thing.
10:54So the thing is, if that behavior continues, it is detrimental to the relationship.
11:01Because going in the mud is doing nothing for you.
11:05It feels good.
11:08Veronica.
11:13Micah called me and said that Veronica was accusing Teagan of having an OnlyFans account.
11:18And when I got off the phone with Micah, I called Teagan right away and told her.
11:21It's really fan-like behavior, in my opinion, to be so obsessed with someone that you've met one single time.
11:29When I do try to talk, she shuts me down.
11:32I know I need to get better at talking over him.
11:35Growing, like, the tortoise and the hare.
11:37He's the tortoise and I'm the hare running and, like, doing laps.
11:41You know how that ended, right?
11:43Yeah.
11:43Uh-huh.
11:44The tortoise one.
11:44I know.
11:51I don't know.
11:53I've never really cooked with charcoals.
11:55I don't know how much to do.
11:56I just do the whole bag.
11:58Ooh.
11:59Bite-sized potatoes.
12:01Earlier today, me and Teagan and Isaac Kalen came out to get some work down the farm and help clean up and get it ready for Lydia's wedding.
12:09Hey, Isaac.
12:10Pull the boom all the way up.
12:12That's always fun, hanging out with Isaac.
12:14Oh, my God.
12:16Look at them.
12:20Me and Ethan at heart are country boys.
12:22You'd never find us living in the city.
12:24We're, like, at home here.
12:25Just, there's no place I'd rather be.
12:28It's a big chunk of dirt.
12:30The pants were like my dad's heart.
12:33Yeah.
12:33No, Ethan does the dad kind of look.
12:37I flew in a few weeks early before the wedding to come visit everyone before it gets K-L.
12:45We have a fun dinner set up, and then I have a fun activity for after.
12:50I got some matches.
12:53Well, I guess this stuff's not super flammable, I don't think.
12:56I don't think so.
12:57Yeah, me and Isaac are going to grill some steaks tonight.
13:00I do not know how they're going to turn out because I've never grilled on a charcoal grill before.
13:05Never in my life.
13:07Well, I'm going to step back when you let it sit.
13:12It's not flammable like you think.
13:14It's just like...
13:16My dad did have a propane grill, but pretty much everything we cooked was on the stove.
13:29Look at there.
13:30I think we're going to have some hot steaks.
13:35How does it feel being with a plath?
13:37Um, I really like it.
13:39I think they sort of get a bad rap sometimes, and I feel like every other family is dysfunctional.
13:45No one's perfect.
13:46I mean, I can attest to my own family.
13:48None of us are perfect, so...
13:50Yeah.
13:50Every family's got their ups and downs, and their crazies.
13:53Yeah.
13:54How far back are you being squirted in from?
13:56I don't know.
13:59You're near me.
14:00Have you spent a lot of time with, like, Micah and them, or...?
14:03No, so the only time I've ever met Micah was on the proposal day, and I really didn't
14:09get to spend any time with him.
14:11I mostly spent time with Veronica.
14:13Do you wish Micah and Veronica were here to have a triple date with you guys?
14:23I mean, yeah, I would like it if Micah was along.
14:25He'd be fifth-wheeling, though, but I think we can leave Veronica out of this one, and
14:29just so we can have a good time, you know?
14:34The first time I met Veronica was at the proposal, and she tried to get me to talk crap about
14:39the family, because she would sit there and say something about Amber and Miss Kim and
14:43everybody, and then she was like, well, how are they to you?
14:45And I said, everybody's been so welcoming and so nice.
14:48I said, I get along with everybody.
14:49I said, I don't have a problem with anybody.
14:51So, and that kind of shut her up real quick.
14:58Micah called me and said that Veronica was accusing Teagan of having an OnlyFans account,
15:03and I got off the phone with Micah and called Teagan right away and told her.
15:08Yeah, Ether was really upset.
15:10I thought it was really funny.
15:11I couldn't stop laughing.
15:12And obviously, it's not true, and I just felt really flattered that she felt like she
15:17could say that about me, because not everyone, I guess, could have an OnlyFans.
15:22I don't know.
15:23It's really fan-like behavior, in my opinion, to be so obsessed with someone that you've
15:28met one single time, so.
15:31This one is most well done, I believe.
15:34Okay.
15:34Veronica has done so much crap in the last few months that's completely unnecessary, including
15:41reaching out to Olivia.
15:43She enjoys the fighting.
15:44She enjoys the drama.
15:46She's more interested in digging up dirt on other people.
15:48I guess maybe she just wanted it to be true.
15:53Veronica must be very insecure about something at the end of the day.
15:57I don't know if it's her relationship with Micah, her relationship with the family, in relation
16:01to just herself, even.
16:04It's just sad.
16:04That's all.
16:05I actually think the steak is very flavorful.
16:08Tastes like charcoal and lighter fluid.
16:11Does it really?
16:14Yeah.
16:15It does.
16:26Going in the mud is doing nothing for you.
16:30It feels good.
16:32You get it off your chest.
16:34But then you bring it into your relationship, and that's not healthy.
16:39You've got to decide what really feels good.
16:43To slowly destroy him?
16:46He's already destroyed me.
16:48Why are you here?
16:50Because I love him.
16:52But if you love him, you have to decide also to forgive.
16:58And communication is going to be how you get there.
17:00Yeah, it is very, very discouraging, because when I do try to talk, she shuts me down really
17:08quick and talks over me.
17:10I find it hard, and I know I need to get better at talking over him.
17:16There's a lot of awkward silence, and I'm, like, going, like, the tortoise and the hare.
17:21He's the tortoise, and I'm the hare running and, like, doing laps.
17:25You know how that ended, right?
17:27Yeah.
17:27Uh-huh, the tortoise one.
17:29I know.
17:31So just because you run the laps don't mean it's okay.
17:34But I'm not going to hide how I feel.
17:37I'm just very direct and straightforward.
17:40I grew up bullied.
17:44I wasn't skinny enough.
17:45I wasn't bright enough.
17:46I wasn't beautiful enough.
17:48There's trauma from that.
17:50But some of it re-triggers when I feel not enough in my relationship.
17:55I always want to go above and beyond for my people.
17:58And I worry about others more than myself.
18:01It's okay to be frustrated, irritated.
18:03It's okay to have all the feelings.
18:04But knowing that you've said some things that in the moment you meant them, but then later you didn't mean it like that, right?
18:15So is it possible for you to say, hey, you know what?
18:18I want to do something different.
18:20I need to work on that.
18:21She's attracted to it, though.
18:23She likes...
18:24Chaos.
18:25Yeah.
18:25She likes chaos.
18:30Maybe that's why I like you.
18:32Veronica.
18:33So are you saying that Micah is chaos?
18:36Yeah, sometimes.
18:38Is he really?
18:39Or is it the things that are associated with him that are connected to him?
18:43It's the outside influences with him.
18:46Micah's a great person.
18:47I know that.
18:47He's got a good heart.
18:49He's got a good soul.
18:51He's a good guy.
18:52But the outside forces greatly inhibit everything.
18:58Yeah.
18:58He's one for peer pressure, and I'm wanting to listen to nobody.
19:01Mm-hmm.
19:02Mm-hmm.
19:03And so, what do you need from him?
19:08I need him to be a good, loyal, honest man, not looking for naked pictures of a woman we know.
19:12Okay.
19:14Let's just say dogs will be dogs.
19:18Veronica, you can't keep going in the mud.
19:20I see you at the pit right now.
19:22Can you hear me?
19:22I'm going to cut my losses, to be honest with you.
19:24Hey, hey, hey.
19:24Can you hear me?
19:26Yeah.
19:26You're talking out of hurt and pain right now and fear.
19:29When it comes to healing in a relationship, there is a great need for individual accountability.
19:35However, when it comes to the session today, I don't really see any accountability.
19:41It's going to take some work to get through this.
19:51Yeah, but I'm tired of being hurt.
19:55I get it.
19:56And I'm tired of you being hurt, too.
19:59But I'm also tired of you hurting others.
20:02Micah.
20:03I'm tired of you hurting yourself.
20:05He's made some choices that were not wise choices, but he is someone that you love.
20:10And you don't want another person that you love to hurt you.
20:13You don't want another person that you love to let you down.
20:18But you guys need to give each other grace to grow.
20:25All right?
20:35Okay.
20:36I appreciate you guys for your time today.
20:42You're welcome.
20:43Thank you, Micah.
20:46It's so insane.
20:48But it goes to show the dynamic of Veronica and I when we're struggling.
20:52I know it's going to be insanely hard, but I feel like I'm ready to do absolutely anything
20:57to work on our relationship.
21:01But when new things continually blow up out of nowhere, it's becoming more and more difficult
21:08to, like, be able to reconcile and work through all of this.
21:14How do you...
21:15If Tegan goes to the wedding, I'm not going.
21:20That's it.
21:21I'm not scot-free and clean from the situation.
21:24I have jumped to conclusions.
21:26I've called Micah names.
21:28But come on.
21:29I can't forget about the track record of the past.
21:32It's shaped where we are today.
21:34I just can't trust them with women, though.
21:36It's hard.
21:37Are y'all ready to start painting?
21:47Let's give it a shot.
21:49I thought it'd be fun tonight on our double date to do a trend I saw on social media where
21:53you paint your significant other in a timed setting.
21:56I think it's a good opportunity for all of us to have some fun and be goofy together, because
22:01I feel like that's when everyone's at their best.
22:03So, do we all paint at the same time, or do you...
22:05Yeah.
22:06I wish I had, like, a pencil to, like, draw it out first.
22:11How are you feeling about your creative skills, Jalen?
22:16I have OCD about some stuff.
22:19I will say that.
22:21I feel like I need my colors picked out.
22:24Are you perfectionist?
22:26No.
22:27I just try to make myself look a little bit nice.
22:30I don't know why you want a picture when I'm literally right here.
22:33Because it's easier to just, like, like this.
22:36Okay, ready, everyone?
22:37I'll just start the 10-minute timer.
22:38Okay.
22:39Okay.
22:40Oh, gosh, this is stressing me out.
22:44And Isaac's just, like, in his little own world.
22:47I definitely did the wrong shape of the head, which is gonna just screw me up, because that's
22:51the beginning.
22:52Yeah, we never did any art classes.
22:54That wasn't one of the things your mom taught you?
22:56No.
22:57I've never done any painting in my life.
23:00I'm just worried I'm gonna, like, damage her confidence and, like, you know, is that
23:06what I look like?
23:08Have you done taking art classes, Jalen?
23:11Yeah, in school.
23:12You have to.
23:13Really?
23:14Yeah.
23:14You weren't forced to make clay things or paper mache or paint or color and shade.
23:21Oh, I made stuff out of clay.
23:23Yeah.
23:23All the time.
23:24I would go dig a hole and get down to where the clay is.
23:26Yeah.
23:27And I'd mix it with water and I'd make, like, rocks.
23:32And I'd make them to, they were, like, cannonballs in my mind.
23:35Oh.
23:36Would you throw them?
23:37Uh-huh.
23:38Naturally.
23:38Okay.
23:42I haven't even started painting yet.
23:43Okay, well, you got seven minutes.
23:46Seven?
23:47Yeah.
23:47I'm so scared.
23:49The skin color looks really good, though.
23:52Okay.
23:55Okay, we're down to three minutes.
24:00I'm so scared to see what he's got.
24:03Okay, we have less than a minute.
24:05Okay.
24:06You know what?
24:06We're just gonna...
24:07It's fine.
24:08It'll be fine.
24:09Okay, everyone, put your pencils down.
24:11Oh, not pencils.
24:12Okay.
24:13I'm scared.
24:15I can go first, I guess.
24:16Okay, ready, Ethan?
24:21Tegan is a wonderful painter, but she did the beard, and then she tried to do the blonde hair,
24:26and it just looks like a turban.
24:29All right, you guys want to see Tegan?
24:31Yeah.
24:34What?
24:34Ethan, we were drawing, like, just a face.
24:42Why am I naked?
24:44Because I like it that way.
24:46Okay.
24:48Okay, well.
24:49Since Veronica's saying that Tegan has a OnlyFans account, I decided to paint Tegan just, like, a full-body figure nude, you know?
25:00My humor definitely is rated R.
25:03All right, do you guys want to see Kaelin?
25:08I'm so scared.
25:11Well, this is you.
25:14That is bad.
25:16It kind of looks like a cross between Kaelin and a pig.
25:20I mean, it kind of does.
25:22Like, it kind of...
25:23The hair resembles you, but the face resembles a pig, so it's like a pig if you had your hair.
25:28You just keep digging the whole team.
25:29I'm not saying you look like a pig.
25:31I'm saying the painting looks like a pig.
25:33Which is shaming me, not you, right?
25:37It's better than being naked.
25:38That's all I know.
25:40Okay, Kaelin.
25:40All right, do you want to see?
25:41How's it?
25:42Yeah.
25:44Look at his shoulders.
25:47Wait, let me see.
25:50Yo, okay.
25:51Today was a good day.
25:54It's a blessing Tegan and Kaelin get along.
25:57I always get homesick when I get back to Minnesota or miss my siblings.
26:01I think about moving down.
26:02I really would love to, but we'll see.
26:06If I had a hat on it, it would look better.
26:09That looks like a 50-year-old woman.
26:11It's where I draw it a lot.
26:13Oh, man.
26:17Tell me how do you get back home when you're spinning out of control.
26:24Shortly after our therapy, when I came home and sort of put my guard down, I realized a lot of times I say things I don't mean in anger.
26:38So I'm trying to leave heated topics, arguments behind and just move forward.
26:46It's a calming mist.
26:48Another one that says mood happy.
26:50I've not been using it, obviously.
26:53But I think it'll be better.
26:57Lydia and Zach are coming here today, and Micah and I know we have to put aside any struggles we have right now and just get to know them better.
27:04But we're good at faking it.
27:06Mike and I have fully moved into the house at this point.
27:10I mean, sort of.
27:12Our pipes are really broken, like, really bad.
27:15So it's a show literally over here.
27:20I'm literally trenching under the house to fix a problem.
27:24I've got to go deep.
27:26I feel like that's kind of what we're doing with our relationship, too.
27:30I just understand plumbing a lot better than girls.
27:36Hey, Micah.
27:37We made it.
27:39Hello, guys.
27:39I see someone's working hard.
27:42And Barefoot, too.
27:43Love it.
27:45How's it going?
27:46Good.
27:46How are you?
27:47So Lydia and Zach came down to South Florida to visit us.
27:50I just want to make sure he's cool with the way things were handled and the questions that were asked up in Georgia after the proposal.
27:58How's it going, Zach?
27:59Good.
27:59Good to see you, bro.
28:01Part of me is a little concerned that Veronica is going to blow up with Lydia and Zach.
28:05Because she's done that to other family members before.
28:07But I really hope that we can have a decent time with Lydia and Zach while they're here.
28:13Looks like you're digging up the dirt.
28:16It's good.
28:17It should become our disaster area.
28:19Last time I saw Micah and Ethan was with him, right after I proposed, you know, them asking me if I was gay, I feel it's a bit disrespectful just because I just proposed to Lydia.
28:32I'm not a person of grudges.
28:34And if people are eager to know us, then it won't take long for them to see the man that Zach is.
28:40But if they don't give them that opportunity, they're missing out.
28:45See all this dirt right here?
28:46Mm-hmm.
28:47Guess where that came from?
28:49Underneath the house.
28:50Underneath?
28:51Underneath the house?
28:51Underneath.
28:52Oh, no.
28:53It's a cave.
28:54Last time I saw Lydia and Zach was at the proposal and I was very stressed out.
28:58Feeling unwelcome, unwanted, and just out of place and sort of angry.
29:03I don't think Lydia noticed, but the boys and I were very defensive.
29:08Zach came in and was very strong at first with us and were like, who are you?
29:13Very mean girls.
29:14You can't sit with us.
29:15When I came home, I realized Zach might put up walls just the same way I do when we're
29:21with that family because it's stressful.
29:23There's a lot of them.
29:24I think it was his first time at a massive gathering.
29:28So I want to give him some grace there.
29:29Hey, Lydia, I'll help you out.
29:33All right, don't grab the shovel.
29:35What do you think?
29:36I see the drip, yeah.
29:38Oh, my gosh.
29:39Oh, gosh.
29:40I'm not too worried about Micah trying to give Zach a hard time, but even if he does,
29:46I know it'll be nothing Zach can't handle.
29:48You're going to ask me if I'm game-game?
29:50Are you?
29:50Hey, Lydia, I'll help you out.
30:00Warren, don't grab the shovel.
30:01What do you think?
30:02I see the drip, yeah.
30:05Oh, my gosh.
30:06Oh, gosh.
30:06Micah!
30:07Veronica!
30:10Okay, okay.
30:12Lydia stopped me.
30:13Yeah, in the last few months, Mike and Veronica have moved to a new house, and there's a lot of work to do here.
30:20So Zach and I hope to help out with as much of that.
30:23Hey, Veronica.
30:23Hello.
30:24Oh, my gosh.
30:24Watch your step.
30:25How are you?
30:26Good to see you.
30:27Good to see you.
30:28Do you like that?
30:29Zach's already in the house.
30:30He's under the house.
30:32You've been under it before you've gotten in it.
30:35The dogs are welcoming you as well.
30:38Do you want to go see the inside of the house?
30:39Yeah.
30:40You know, the wedding's coming up in just a few weeks.
30:41Not to mention Zach and I have a lot to do ourselves right now, but also there's no better time for Micah to get to know Zach than before he's my husband.
30:51Well, welcome to our house.
30:52Little house tour.
30:53This is the living room.
30:54This used to be three or four different rooms.
30:56Yeah.
30:57We put the tile in.
30:58People love and hate the tile.
30:59We've been working on the kitchen.
31:01We opened it up, and we're basically, the kitchen's going from there all the way to that wall.
31:05I've got to go outside.
31:06You finish the house tour.
31:07I'll be back in a bit.
31:08If you need help, just let us know.
31:09I would love to help anyway.
31:10This is nice back here.
31:16Yeah, watch your step.
31:18That should be the name of the house.
31:20Watch your step.
31:22Lydia's the sweetest person ever.
31:24Like, she's just a breath of fresh air.
31:26I wouldn't count her in the group of plots.
31:28I think she's very different than the rest.
31:30She's non-judgmental.
31:32Unless I'm a Satanist, I don't think there's another way that she won't accept me.
31:35Compared to everybody else, they don't accept me because of Mariah's word.
31:40Thankfully, Zach's here to help Micah, because normally it's me helping Micah and running around panicking.
31:45I'm sorry for you.
31:46You've got to laugh at it.
31:49Yeah.
31:50I guess, like, the house is a fresh slate for both of us.
31:54We're doing therapy.
31:55Nice.
31:56We're communicating with each other.
31:57Mm-hmm.
31:57It's just showing up for your partner.
31:59And, like, I could tell Zach does that, which is nice.
32:02Yeah.
32:03Micah and I are learning that.
32:06You would think that seeing Micah and Veronica having their first house together and all that
32:14would, like, make me excited for Zach and I's first house together, but I guess our relationships
32:18are so different.
32:19Like, Zach and I are waiting to live together until after we're married, and I've never really
32:25heard Micah talk about marriage in general much.
32:29Maybe that's just because I'm his little sister.
32:32How are you and, uh, Micah doing?
32:33Uh, we're doing, doing pretty good.
32:38Yeah.
32:38Have our ups and downs, of course.
32:41I mean, commitment of, you're not married, but you bought a house together is always something.
32:48I mean, it's been great, but I would just hate for some little thing to blow up, you know?
32:55Yeah.
32:56It's a good challenge to go through, I'm sure, if you guys get through this, that it's, like,
32:59you guys can do anything, kind of pushing each other forward.
33:04That's good.
33:05So.
33:07The last time I saw you was the proposal, so we were all-
33:10Yeah, which I barely saw you then.
33:11I know.
33:11I like hugged you, but that's about all.
33:13We were both in, like, our own chaotic worlds.
33:16And, like, I definitely didn't want to be by everybody at that time.
33:19It was stressful.
33:20Yeah.
33:21I think anybody else's engagement, I don't know if I would have showed up.
33:25Hmm.
33:26I would have been like, have fun, makeup.
33:30It's really sweet for Veronica to say, but it's also, like, when you have a grudge with
33:36pretty much the rest of the family, then I don't know if it's necessarily that I'm the
33:41special one or because there's a grudge with everyone else.
33:43I love and appreciate you as a person, as a pseudo-sister, we're going to call it.
33:49So I was like, I have to show up for that, even when I was, like, fighting my biggest
33:54battles being there.
33:56Yeah.
33:56I'm hoping for the wedding.
33:58Alive.
33:58Yeah.
33:59For the wedding, there's going to be different things going on in everyone's lives, but just
34:03for the day, enjoy the wedding.
34:05Yeah.
34:06I don't know if I can go to the wedding.
34:07Like, all those people, all those unresolved feelings in one room slash grass field, I
34:16can remain silent, but my face is going to speak for itself.
34:20I've got Botox, but not that much.
34:23I think it'll be good.
34:24Yeah.
34:25I'm excited, and it's amazing how everything's coming together.
34:30I guess I kind of just trust that even when there's drama between other family members
34:36that people just have enough respect for a wedding to not bring it to that, but, yeah,
34:42we'll see.
34:43No lighting things on fire for the boys.
34:47I heard about that.
34:49They were being so disrespectful.
34:50I was like, boys, no.
34:52It was sort of funny, though.
34:53I hope so.
34:54I know Zach handled that well, but, yeah.
34:58I'm not too worried about Micah trying to give Zach a hard time, but even if he does,
35:01I know it'll be nothing Zach can't handle.
35:03At least Micah invited us and opened up his house to us and was making an effort to get
35:10to know Zach.
35:11You don't have any hard feelings against the way Ethan and I asked you questions, do you?
35:15No.
35:16I know you guys have your ways.
35:17I'm a brother of two sisters, and I totally would do the same thing.
35:20I would want to know a guy who's trying to marry my sister.
35:24Yeah.
35:24I understand that there were some very interesting questions Ethan and I asked Zach, like, if
35:30he was straight or gay.
35:32There's a lot of guys who would, you know, be super, super upset, but Zach says he's not
35:39hurt over that, so I guess that's good.
35:41If he is going to be Lydia's significant other, I want to see what Lydia sees in him.
35:48You're going to ask me if I'm game game?
35:54Are you?
35:55No, God, no.
35:55Why are you gay?
35:57You are gay.
35:58No, bro.
36:09Shall we make a drink?
36:10You guys want to try Veronica's famous espresso martinis?
36:13I would love that, since you like coffee and you're turning 21.
36:18So it was just Lydia's 21st birthday.
36:21It's nice to be able to share that with her, have her our first drink together.
36:25When she needs her coffee, she needs her coffee.
36:27I don't drink coffee every day, but the days I do drink coffee, I drink it.
36:30And then why?
36:32Yeah.
36:33You want to help me, Micah?
36:35The days Veronica tells me what to do, and then why.
36:39That's true.
36:40Fair enough.
36:41As it should.
36:43I'm aware that there is some, I don't know, tension, I don't know what, something going
36:47on between Micah and Veronica.
36:49I want Micah to be able to share what we share in a sense of mutual respect and seeking to
36:57serve the other, and I just, I haven't seen that.
37:01Cheers.
37:02Okay, well, I'm just going to watch Lydia.
37:04There we go.
37:07That's good.
37:09Yeah?
37:10Yeah.
37:10All right, so are we playing games?
37:12I am down.
37:14Lydia and Zach seem to have a good dynamic together.
37:17I wish Veronica and I could pick up a little on that.
37:19But Lydia and Zach are also in their honeymoon phase, so Veronica and I were like that one
37:23time, too.
37:23Okay, let's do one round of truth or dare.
37:28Lydia goes first.
37:30Zach, truth or dare?
37:32I feel like I have to do dare.
37:33I feel like I've shared every truth with me.
37:36Yeah, that is true.
37:38You guys have talked about everything.
37:40Most everything?
37:40I can't think of anything that I don't know about.
37:43Then do something that would be uncomfortable for us to hear.
37:46Okay.
37:47That's the point of this game.
37:48Sure.
37:49To see if he would tell the truth in front of you guys?
37:51I'll do it.
37:52Open book.
37:53So you said truth?
37:54Mm-hmm.
37:54Have you ever gotten drunk?
37:59Nope.
37:59See, I knew that answer.
38:03Lame.
38:05Well, there we are.
38:06Happy and lame.
38:06How about that?
38:07Oh, and dirty hands.
38:10Okay, Veronica, it's your turn.
38:13Truth or dare, Lydia?
38:18So Zach and Lydia are saving their first kiss for marriage.
38:21So Micah and I are, like, whispering to each other, like, ooh, let's get them to kiss.
38:25Maybe they'll do it.
38:26Just shoot.
38:27So I'll give you two alternate dares.
38:30Kiss or take a shot?
38:35That's a loophole.
38:38You didn't specify enough, so I guess...
38:41You didn't specify.
38:42They played us.
38:43They found a loophole.
38:45She, like, kissed them on the cheek, and I was like, I kissed strangers on the cheek.
38:49I thought you were going to tell them.
38:51Tell them what?
38:52How to actually kiss.
38:55Yeah, you go like this.
38:58That was awkward.
38:59And then, yes.
39:01They knew that we wouldn't kiss on the lips, so they thought a shot would be the other option.
39:09Alternative.
39:10Alternative.
39:10And I was like, oh, but you didn't specify, and I'm quicker than you.
39:14I'm like, bet.
39:16I'm going to do it again.
39:16I have a dare.
39:20Do the worm.
39:22Oh, my God.
39:22It's last time I did that.
39:23Micah, do the worm.
39:24Last time I did that, I think I broke my chin.
39:26Do the worm.
39:26That's why it's split like that.
39:30No.
39:31That was eventful.
39:32Oh, what do you say?
39:34I can't.
39:35I don't want to do it on these floors.
39:38Good work.
39:39Good work.
39:40Honestly, compressive.
39:42You know, having this time with Micah, I feel like there's been more growth and understanding
39:46for one another.
39:47I think Micah and I have connected well.
39:49I love the effort.
39:50Oh, I hurt my back.
39:52Good work, Micah.
39:53Good work.
39:53And the dog hair on your shirt.
39:53My neck, my back.
39:55This is a rough floor to do that on.
39:57I'll give you that.
39:57I know.
39:58It hurt many parts of my body.
40:01I'm having a good, genuine time, but I don't know if I can go to the wedding.
40:05There's so much baggage and trauma with this family.
40:10And if I see Tegan, I'm afraid something bad's going to happen.
40:14I don't trust Micah.
40:15It's simple as that.
40:17I can't trust a cheater.
40:19And if he goes to the wedding by himself, we're done.
40:24All right, guys.
40:25Hang on.
40:27Right to B. Here we go.
40:28Sorry, my wedding day is four days away, and there's a million people to coordinate with.
40:31I'm not sleeping tonight until everything is done.
40:34I got some drip going on.
40:36I feel like Barry wants to be the fun, approving dad.
40:40I can hug him.
40:41I think that's why he signed off on the marriage so quickly.
40:45Hi, Bobas.
40:46I decided to come.
40:47Micah and I agreed.
40:48I agreed with a pact to not leave each other's side.
40:53We're not even here an hour, and he already left me by myself.
40:57Motherf***er.
40:58When we see a bunch of red flags that somebody's getting ready to make a lifelong commitment,
41:04I feel like we owe it to them to say, this is what we see.
41:08I agree.
41:09I'm ready to get married.
41:12Got a lot of pent-up emotions and stuff that hasn't been expressed.
41:16I agree with a lot of pent-up emotions and stuff that we see a lot of things that we see a lot of things that we see a lot of things that we see a lot of things that we see a lot of things that we see a lot of things that we see a lot of things that we see a lot of things that we see a lot of things that we see a lot of things that we see a lot of things that we see a lot of things that we see a lot of things that we see a lot of things that we see a lot of things that we see a lot of things that we see a lot of things that we see a lot of things that we see a lot of things that we see a lot of things that we see a lot of things that we see a lot of things that we see a lot of things that we see a lot of things that we see a lot of things that we see a lot of things that we see a lot of things that we see a lot of things that we see a lot of things that we see a lot of
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