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00:00I'm in Essex and I'm on my way to meet the self-styled king of surrogacy.

00:11My name's Barry and this is my partner Tony and together we're going to tell you about how we

00:16became parents. Barry Drewit Barlow was Dubbriton's first gay dad in 1999 after he and his ex-husband

00:23Tony became the first same-sex couple in the world to be named on the birth certificate of a

00:29surrogate child. I feel like surrogacy as a topic has really split the camp. I do genuinely have

00:38a real interest in the topic as a whole. I'm going to be 40 in two years and inevitably you start

00:46thinking about you know if it doesn't happen biologically what other roads would we look

00:52out or go down. Barry's used surrogacy to bring seven children into the world and has profited

00:58from it too. He's a self-made millionaire who owns multiple successful businesses including a

01:03clinical trials company and he's set up his own international commercial surrogacy agency.

01:10This has made him a lightning rod for the criticism around the practice and he's been accused of

01:14creating babies made to order. I don't see that there's any reason we've taken their dead son's sperm

01:23and creating a grandchild from it. Barry's unapologetic approach to creating the perfect

01:29baby for himself and his clients is seen by some as playing God. I think commercial surrogacy I could you

01:37know I can understand there needs to be legislation and I just think are you in a position to be able to

01:46really make a decision if someone's waving 100 grand at you. Barry's business practices which take

01:56advantage of the less restrictive US laws as well as his rumoured treatment of staff have also made him

02:02a very controversial figure. I'm going to be staying with Barry and his current partner Scott who is 23

02:08years his junior and they have two young surrogate children of their own. Barry's loaded, loaded, quite

02:16outrageous, quite outlandish. I think they might have a swimming pool. Have I brought my bikini? No.

02:24Stop. Is this their drive? Please be warned we have protection dogs at this house. If you enter

02:39these premises illegally we'll take no responsibility for injury. Hello? Hello it's Stacey. Hey Stacey come in.

02:50Thanks love. Thank you. Oh my god. Wow. You're not Barry? No. My name is Richard. Richard. Barry's ballet.

03:02Oh it's nice to meet you. Nice to meet you. His ballet? What does that involve? Just looking after his day-to-day needs.

03:08Oh wow. Okay. Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you. Barry's assistant. You're Barry's assistant.

03:14Do you want to go inside? Yes please. I'm very excited. I feel like I'm in some kind of super club in Marbella.

03:19Thank you. Thank you. That's really kind. Thank you. Hi. How are you? Good. How are you?

03:29Hello mate. Nice to meet you. This is bonkers. Barry who made this chair? An artist called Jimmy Martin.

03:37He was the guy who did Madonna's chair. So if it's good enough for Madonna? I thought do you know what?

03:42It's good enough for you Barry. If the queen of pop can have it so can the king of the gay soreness of the world.

03:48Wow. And I mean this art is beautiful. I'm assuming that's you is it Barry? On the end.

03:54On the far right. Yeah. Next one. They're your kids? Yeah. Aspenis Afro. Is that an Amex?

03:59Yeah. Platinum card? Of course. Of course. Yeah. It's actually Scott.

04:03Is this you? Aspenis Slimmer yeah. Scott. Well I feel honoured to see you in all your glory.

04:09The night's still young. Lucky Barry. Yeah.

04:14I felt very lucky in those days. Very lucky. Now that I've got a port with 13 years later.

04:1913 years in. Yeah yeah yeah. But you're still very much in love?

04:26I'd say so. Yeah. Come on. Is that a goldfish floor? Can I stand on it? Yeah come on.

04:33This is the biggest indoor non-commercial aquarium in Europe. Wow. What an entrance.

04:42So I've obviously met Harry and Richard. Yes. Do you have multiple staff? Yeah. How many?

04:51That work here about 15 in total. Wow. Are you shocked? I'm I'm floored. Do you want

04:59to have a quick tour of the house while it's a bit quiet? I would love that. Come on.

05:02Will I take my shoes off? No no no leave them off. No no no okay.

05:05Okay. This is the bathroom. If you're easily offended now would be a good time to fuck off.

05:13Perfect mantra. Perfect. Hello. How are you? You're the chef? This is David the chef.

05:22It's really nice to meet you David. What's for dinner later? Yeah what is for dinner?

05:26I'm in courses. First step with who makes you? Wow. Great. That will do. I've just had a bag of

05:32crisps in the car so this sounds completely wonderful. Have you just got the one dog?

05:38No. Got loads? 50. 50. 5-0? 5-0.

05:45Are you big into football? We actually own a football club so yeah. That was his Christmas present.

05:51So you gifted Scott the club? Fine. And what a gift. Finally I get to meet the two children Barry

06:00has had with Scott. Four-year-old Valentina and two-year-old Romeo. Hi baby. Valentina say hi.

06:07How old are you? Say hello. Tom? Oh my baby.

06:12What's your name? Romeo. Romeo. Is it Romeo?

06:21Have you been in the swimming pool? Is it cold? Are you a dream? No it's not cold it's warm in there.

06:26It's heated. Have some decorum Stacey. It's heated. Yeah it's heated.

06:31Well come on let me show you your room. Thank you. Thank you very much.

06:35Oh this is stunning. Thank you so much.

06:39Would it do for you? This will do. Good. This will do. My own balcony. Got your own balcony?

06:47I am absolutely gobsmacked. This is my viewing area. There's two TVs in here.

06:58Because I can't be expected to stay in a bedroom with only one television.

07:02You know I'm not daft. I was expecting like over the top glam.

07:06But this is like off the chart. It's so far away from my world.

07:16I mean what did we do last night at my house? It was me, Kev, the baby. My folks were there.

07:22And there was like three sweet potatoes and we were fighting over who was gonna have the sweet potato.

07:27And a chicken in the bag.

07:35Hi. Hey.

07:37Do I need to help with the table or whatever?

07:41Yeah, no. No. I'll just sit and wait. Yeah.

07:45The first guest to arrive for dinner is Saffron, one of the five surrogate kids Barry had with his ex-husband Tony.

07:51Do you like a drink though? Are you waiting?

07:53Yes, please.

07:53I need to test her bar skills out because she's never actually done a proper day's work in her life.

07:58So I'm making her work on the bar on Monday at the football club.

08:02Is that legit or...? I worked as a project manager actually for their product testing company.

08:07There's a difference between her kind of work and what a normal person would work.

08:11Like hard grafts? Yeah.

08:15How you were brought into the world, what are your thoughts on that?

08:19I just think it's normal, yeah. Like, because I've not known any different. To me, it's just what I am used to.

08:28Yeah.

08:30Is this Versace tableware?

08:31Yeah, Versace.

08:33Yeah, okay.

08:35It's always this formal, yeah.

08:38Valentina, you come sit here. Hello, hello.

08:41Also joining me for my first meal with the Druitt Barlows is Scott's mum, Mandy.

08:46Your dads were showing me your playground.

08:49Is it dad and dads?

08:51Dad and daddy.

08:51Dad and daddy. Who's who?

08:53I'm dad.

08:54Your dad.

08:55He's the daddy.

08:59Cheers, everyone.

09:00Cheers.

09:01Cheers, nice to meet you.

09:05You always wanted to be a dad.

09:07Yeah, but I was always told I could never be a dad because I was gay.

09:11Because remember it was the 90s and everybody was against everything and it was hard.

09:16Essex County Council ran a couple of adverts for foster carers and adoptive parents.

09:21So now I thought if I'm qualified as a social worker and as a social worker I can remove somebody's

09:26kids from them and put them into local foster care or whatever, why can't I?

09:31Be one of those foster parents.

09:32So Tony and I made the very first application to social services as a couple and ultimately after

09:40about two and a half years we got a resounding absolutely no way.

09:45And I'm standing there thinking, well you know what, fuck you because you think I'm good enough to go and qualify somebody else to be a parent but you don't think I'm good enough to have a family and raise it on my own, well fuck you, I'll find another way.

10:03And then I just got on a plane to Los Angeles and I found a woman who would give me her ex and another woman who would carry the baby for me.

10:11And the rest is history.

10:12Yeah, kind of.

10:14And then we hit the news, like why are these gay men wanting to have a kid, they must be pervs or they must be something, do you know what I mean?

10:22Now there's over 200,000 same-sex families in the UK.

10:26Is that right?

10:27It's a lot.

10:28And you were the first?

10:29You were the first.

10:30Legally?

10:31Yeah.

10:32You've changed history really.

10:33Wow.

10:35So who's in charge of like domestic duties?

10:41What do I actually do?

10:42Yeah.

10:43I do.

10:44Richard!

10:49Fine, understood.

10:50OK, thanks mate.

10:51What do you tend to do, Scott?

10:54I run a house.

10:55So when anything needs to be done, I'll obviously tell Richard.

11:03Right, I'll leave you to it.

11:06Thank you so much for today.

11:07You're very welcome.

11:08So grateful.

11:09Are you going to bed now?

11:10Yeah.

11:11It's half past eight.

11:12Yeah.

11:13Are you having a laugh?

11:14I'm totally serious.

11:15On a Friday night?

11:16What time will you be going to bed?

11:18Probably about one, half one.

11:20You go to bed about 1am?

11:21Yeah.

11:22Are you working?

11:23Yeah.

11:24You're a hard working man, Barry.

11:25I love it.

11:26Have fun.

11:27Don't forget we've got a party tomorrow afternoon.

11:29Alright, I'll make sure I look the part.

11:31Alright, there you go.

11:32See you later.

11:33Have a nice one.

11:34See you later.

11:35Bye.

11:36Bye.

11:37Today has been so interesting.

11:42I could easily be seduced by this kind of life.

11:46That's the thing though, isn't it, with all these situations, you know?

11:51First glance, it all feels very enticing and, you know, oh my God, this is amazing.

11:58But I'm sure there's a lot that goes on behind the scenes that we're not privy to.

12:01Good morning, Richard.

12:02How are you doing?

12:03How are you?

12:04How are you?

12:05Well, thanks.

12:06You sleep okay?

12:07I did, thank you.

12:08I slept like a baby, actually.

12:09It's my first morning staying over at the Druitt Barlow's £6 million Essex compound.

12:14Would you like a coffee or some breakfast?

12:15Do you know what?

12:16I'd actually love a cup of tea.

12:17Am I allowed to come through?

12:18Of course, yeah.

12:19So sorry, I know you've just done the floors.

12:20And I'm easing my way into the family's luxurious lifestyle.

12:26I get the impression that, for Richard, it's whatever is asked of him, he will feel he has

12:27to deliver.

12:28It's like, don't bore me with the details.

12:29It's my first morning staying over at the Druitt Barlow's £6 million Essex compound.

12:32Would you like a coffee or some breakfast?

12:33Do you know what?

12:34I'd actually love a cup of tea.

12:35A cup of tea?

12:36Am I allowed to come through?

12:37Of course, yeah.

12:38So sorry, I know you've just done the floors.

12:39And I'm easing my way into the family's luxurious lifestyle.

12:43I get the impression that, for Richard, it's whatever is asked of him, he will feel he

12:52has to deliver.

12:53It's like, don't bore me with the details, just get it done.

12:58Barry's vast wealth from various businesses, including a medical research company, gave

13:03him the opportunity of having his seven surrogate children in the United States, where the practice

13:08of commercial surrogacy is legal.

13:10You look beautiful, Valentina.

13:13But this approach has been heavily criticised in the media, as Barry has been accused of

13:18genetic engineering.

13:20The headlines have been, you've designed your babies, you know, you were specific about

13:26what you wanted your kids to look like.

13:28Well, we chose the sex of our kids.

13:30Some people have an issue with that, don't they?

13:32Oh, a lot of people have an issue with it.

13:34The thought of going into an agency and looking through a catalogue and going, oh yeah, I

13:38like that one, I like that one, let's meet and bring them in, I want to talk to them,

13:41see what they like, what's their personality like.

13:43However, in the UK, when you go for egg donation, it's all blind.

13:49You don't get to see a picture of the woman who's given these eggs.

13:53Why the hell would I do that?

13:56Look at it this way.

13:57If he would have been a girl, we'd have met in a bar, we'd have had a fancied her and

14:02we'd have gone home, we'd have got it together and we'd have had a baby.

14:05It would have been our like by like.

14:08Not some strange woman who I've never met or seen a picture of that could look like

14:12the elephant woman.

14:14I'm sorry.

14:15I'm just not about that at all.

14:17Some people think that's a step closer to selective breeding.

14:22That's a step closer to eugenics.

14:24If I really would have agreed with that, I'd have asked for my money back months ago or

14:28years ago because the ones that I got are definitely not those designer kids that are

14:33all, you know, who, who, who.

14:34They're just normal kids.

14:36Do you know what I mean?

14:37Barry's very public investment in his kids must have had an effect on how they're perceived.

14:44Saffron, we need to tell your dad to invest in a masseuse.

14:49I know, yeah.

14:50That would be lovely.

14:52I'm wondering how his first daughter, Saffron, deals with the inevitable scrutiny.

15:01What was it like growing up?

15:03Well, we've always been called, like, spoiled, but I think I got it worse than everyone.

15:08But, I mean, I know I'm spoiled, but I'm appreciative of everything I've ever been even.

15:14But obviously people always have something to say about it, don't they?

15:17I suppose when you're younger, it's difficult to not get upset.

15:21Yeah.

15:22I used to read all the comments, even on, like, my dad's post, but now I don't care

15:26because I don't really care what anyone thinks anymore.

15:29Whereas back then, I did care.

15:30Sure.

15:31Were there any negatives?

15:34Is there anything that you struggled with?

15:36No, I don't think so, because we never were short of love or anything, do you know what I mean?

15:40Yeah.

15:41Like, we always had everything, not even just, like, materialistic.

15:45If we ever needed help with anything, we always had the help, the love, everything.

15:48Yeah.

15:49So I don't think, really, there was any negative within what other people had to say.

15:54And do you work now?

15:56No, I don't work now.

15:57Like, my dad still pays me, like, on a salary.

16:01How much is that?

16:03It's never, like, below, like, 5,000.

16:06Really?

16:07Yeah.

16:08So your dad will give you 5,000 a month?

16:11Yeah.

16:12Just living expenses?

16:13Yeah.

16:14What a relief, financially.

16:15Yeah.

16:16But do you think it's slightly bizarre that you'll never know what it feels like to have

16:21to save up for something?

16:22Yeah, definitely.

16:23I know that not many people would get, like, their house paid for or, like, their car paid

16:29for and then their bills paid for and stuff.

16:32Hugely fortunate.

16:33Yeah.

16:34Do you think people judge you immediately?

16:37Yeah.

16:38Just from hearing, like, what they hear or seeing what they see.

16:41I think you're quite shy, a bit more reserved than your dad.

16:44Yeah.

16:45The only one who I'd say he'd splash, to be fair, is my dad.

16:47Really?

16:48Yeah.

16:49Saffron's work ethic may not mirror her father's, but it's clear she's still very much the apple

16:56of his eye.

16:57We're going to party hard.

16:59Some of their pals are coming round.

17:02To have a barbecue.

17:05And I'm told there's karaoke.

17:08I actually love karaoke.

17:10I really love karaoke.

17:12One night in the Philippines, I sang karaoke for about 14 hours straight.

17:18It's a true story.

17:20We'll all sort of congregate outside, have some food, and see where the night takes us.

17:26As last-minute preparations for the barbecue keep the staff milling away.

17:31Hello.

17:32Can I come in?

17:33Yeah, come in, dear.

17:34Hi, Harry.

17:35Hi.

17:36Hi.

17:37So you're just getting ready for the pool party?

17:44I want to find out what the 23-year age gap has meant for Barry and Scott's relationship.

17:50Wow.

17:51I wonder whose closet this is.

17:53What I pulled Scott out of.

17:55Do you share each other's clothes?

17:58No.

17:59You've got a slightly different style, I would say.

18:01Really?

18:02I suppose you're a bit louder.

18:04Me?

18:05Yeah.

18:06How much have you been there?

18:07You're a bit louder.

18:08I mean, in your sartorial choices.

18:10And Scott, I think you're a bit more...

18:13More what?

18:14Straight?

18:15No.

18:16I don't get straight energy from you, no.

18:17Really?

18:18No.

18:19No?

18:20No.

18:21No.

18:22The minute I saw Scott, I thought, cocky little Essex boy.

18:27I only met him the once, and he stalked me on Instagram and found me, and then started

18:34messaging me, and then we ended up meeting for a drink and what have you.

18:39I thought, it's not bad, him.

18:41Did you fancy Barry straight away?

18:43Pretty much, yeah.

18:44Did you?

18:45Yeah.

18:46So you want the Rolls Royce then?

18:48It's not that.

18:49It isn't that.

18:50Whatever it was that put a spell on Scott, Barry still seems to have a way of convincing

18:55people around him to do whatever he wants.

18:58He's going to do a fashion show for us.

19:00Come on.

19:01Oh, brilliant!

19:02Yes!

19:03I love this!

19:04Let me see the pink shots on you.

19:07We're here.

19:08You've got an audience.

19:09He loves an audience.

19:11You do.

19:12Just get Richard to model them, then we'll pick which one.

19:17He can be your model.

19:18Where are they?

19:19What's the point in having a manservant when the manservant's elsewhere?

19:23Richard, we need you to model something for us, and then if they look nice on you, Scott's

19:29going to wear them.

19:30Don't feel obliged.

19:31As quick as you can.

19:32I feel bad.

19:33Why?

19:34In case they feel embarrassed.

19:35Why would they be embarrassed?

19:36Yeah, maybe.

19:37Turn around.

19:38Perfect.

19:39If you could stay like that now all day, Richard, Miss Stacy would like her drinks served just

19:49like that, apparently.

19:50You look fantastic, Richard.

19:51Really great.

19:52Oh, my God.

19:53This is not how I envisioned today playing out, but here we are.

20:03I think Barry's definitely the one who rules the roost.

20:08Yeah, trying on the boxers was, I did feel slightly like, oh, God.

20:13And I kept saying, please don't feel obliged, please don't feel obliged.

20:17I was a bit, I don't want anyone to feel like they have to perform.

20:26Barry's millions have afforded him the opportunity to have very compliant stuff.

20:31And I'm wondering what the story is with his romantic relationship.

20:38I'm eager to hear from Scott and his mum, Mandy.

20:42You two have always been close.

20:43You've always had a close relationship.

20:45Oh, yeah.

20:46Always.

20:47And he's your youngest.

20:48Yeah.

20:49Can you remember when Scott told you, look, I've met this guy?

20:53Yeah.

20:54Well, yeah, he was in the garden, I was in the lounge.

20:59He texted me saying, I'm gay, and I just said, and.

21:05Nobody was surprised.

21:07How did you feel?

21:08Were you surprised?

21:09No.

21:10Not to be honest, no.

21:11And was it a relief to sort of tell your mum what was going on?

21:15Yeah, because I didn't know how anyone was going to take it,

21:18because obviously I met an older guy.

21:20Because he's much older.

21:21I've always been with women.

21:23To be honest, I was concerned.

21:25I was concerned.

21:26I said, like, as long as you're happy and you both know what you're doing,

21:31then.

21:32And the kids accepted him because he got small children at the time.

21:36Of course, yeah.

21:37And suddenly you become a stepdad, essentially.

21:39Yeah.

21:40Yeah.

21:41So you would have been how old when you and Barry got together?

21:43Just turned 19.

21:44That's young.

21:45Literally.

21:46Yeah.

21:47And so you said, of course, I have concerns about the age gap initially.

21:49Yeah, in the beginning.

21:50I mean, like, anyone would.

21:51Yeah.

21:52And what were your concerns?

21:53Like, the power imbalance or?

21:55I think it's because he was so young and inexperienced, if you know what I mean.

22:00But they're both completely different.

22:03He loves doing, like, physical and, like, building things.

22:07Barry's, like, got the brain and, like, the business.

22:11Well, we've both got the brain.

22:12We've both got the brain, but, yeah.

22:14Me and Barry's more headstrong, nose, and then I'm the good at that.

22:19Yeah, business-like.

22:20You have different strengths.

22:21Yeah.

22:22And you play to your strengths.

22:23Yeah.

22:24Yeah, absolutely.

22:25So we were good as a team.

22:26It's just really nice.

22:27And you can see how much Valentina and Romeo absolutely adore them, so.

22:31Yeah.

22:32Yeah?

22:33Yeah.

22:34There's a lot of judgment on people.

22:35Oh, there's so much judgment, yeah.

22:36It's, yeah.

22:37You're the parent universe.

22:39Scop!

22:40Scop!

22:41Scop!

22:42Scop!

22:43Scop!

22:44Scop!

22:45Scop!

22:54Scop!

22:55Scop!

22:56Scop!

22:57Scop!

22:58Scop!

22:59Scop!

23:00Tequila!

23:01Tequila!

23:08Tequila!

23:12Barry and Scott are very different people, at different stages in their lives, but they've

23:16found a way to make their relationship work and bring two loved children into the world.

23:21Tequila!

23:22Tequila!

23:23Hey, welcome!

23:24Thank you Bobby.

23:25Thank you Bobby.

23:26I'm keen to find out from other guests what their thoughts are on the man that seems to

23:30get whatever he wants.

23:32So, how do you two know Barry?

23:35We both work for him.

23:37Currently?

23:38Yes.

23:39What company, because I know he's got loads of companies, what one do you work for?

23:42We work for the cosmetic research company.

23:45Okay.

23:46It's really interesting actually, you know, we get to sample lots of products before they

23:51go on the market.

23:52Yeah.

23:53Deodorants, how to spray sprints.

23:54Because when I ask him, you know, what's your, what do you do for a living?

23:57He says I sniff armpits.

23:58Oh yes, that would be a deodorant study, yeah.

24:00And we have a lot of them studies.

24:02Men or women are not allowed to wash their armpits.

24:05He's then got to smell their armpits and then give them a grade of how bad they are.

24:09Wow.

24:10What deodorant is.

24:11And then we have to wash them and then apply product and then he will then smell them

24:14again to see if that product that we've been testing works.

24:17And it's a lucrative business.

24:18Yeah.

24:19Yeah.

24:20We're talking millions and millions and millions.

24:21Oh yeah, definitely.

24:22He's down to having a nose for it, so to speak.

24:25What kind of a guy is Barry?

24:27How would you describe Barry?

24:29Because I think there are conflicting ideas in the media.

24:33Some people say he's hot-headed, he's bad-tempered, some people say he's extravagant.

24:37I'd tick all of them boxes.

24:39Depends what mood he's in.

24:41All of the above.

24:42I would definitely say all of the above.

24:44Yeah, definitely.

24:45I mean, he just wants perfection the whole time.

24:48You could get emails from him at like one o'clock in the morning.

24:51Yeah, definitely.

24:52Saying what?

24:53Just seeing if something's been done.

24:55He'd be doing his work.

24:56So I would wake up the next day, but I'd be like,

24:58Corey's been doing emails at one o'clock in the morning.

25:00Actually.

25:01So it's constant.

25:02The hustle is constant.

25:11They didn't.

25:12Barry's grip over his staff appears to overstep the mark at times.

25:32I get the impression that, you know, Barry, Barry's in charge, right?

25:37Barry's the boss.

25:38He's very strict and he's a perfectionist.

25:41He said that himself.

25:42And I think at times he can be maybe a bit hot-headed.

25:45I wonder if anyone would stand up to him, even if they wanted to.

25:48I'm sleeping over in the home of multi-millionaire Barry Drewitt Barlow, who created his family

26:06a seven by using surrogates.

26:10It's the morning after a raucous house party.

26:13Hi, David.

26:14Morning.

26:15Good morning.

26:16Your hair still looks amazing.

26:19You've got that kind of vush to it.

26:21Saffron's upstairs struggling, I think, Loverot.

26:23Oh, I bet she is.

26:24Saffron's upstairs struggling.

26:26Oh, she was knocking those shots back and all.

26:29Barry's wealth clearly affords those closest to him a lavish lifestyle and a band of staff,

26:35including a dog grooming team, that look after his prized poodles.

26:39Are you ready to shave a puppy?

26:40Yes.

26:41I am.

26:42I've never groomed a dog before.

26:44It's only like shaving your private bits.

26:47Yeah.

26:48Well, I've done that.

26:49Yeah.

26:52I'm finding the constant shadow slightly unnerving.

26:57Wherever you are, the dog is, Harry is, and Richard is.

27:01Yes.

27:02That's how you like it?

27:03It is.

27:04Why?

27:05Well, because Richard's my valet and he's my security.

27:09And then Harry's my assistant, so our job never ends, so his job never ends.

27:14You know, if I'm working, he's working.

27:16You know, and that's the same for most of the staff.

27:18They know that.

27:19If I have to work, they're working with me.

27:21It's not a one-man show and it's not faulty towers.

27:24I rely on people.

27:25You know, I'm not running from the desks to this to that.

27:28I need the people around me to help.

27:30According to reports, Barry earns around tens of millions a year from his cosmetic research company,

27:36his surrogacy agency, and other investments.

27:39How does someone that wealthy manage his fortune?

27:42So it literally is.

27:43Oh, literally like you would shave your legs?

27:46Shave your legs.

27:47And how often do you have to do this?

27:49Really about every other week.

27:51But I've probably got about ten groomers that work for me full time.

27:55You've got ten groomers, Barry?

27:57Yeah.

27:58Yeah.

27:59How many members of staff in total do you think you have?

28:02Just over 500 members of staff between all of our businesses.

28:07Does that weigh heavy?

28:08Yeah, it does.

28:09Sometimes I wake up in a cold sweat when I think I've got payroll that week.

28:14And what do your outgoings look like?

28:17Oh, you don't even want to go there, love.

28:19I mean, obscene.

28:21Obscene.

28:22Small, poor countries, deficit, mate.

28:26You don't know me well enough, but if you'd have been able to spend like a month with me

28:31or something, you would see how much I work non-stop.

28:35Yeah.

28:36All my kids have got that, apart from Saffron,

28:39I've got that total workaholic kind of thing.

28:43So why do you think Saffron hasn't inherited that work ethic?

28:49I think it's totally my fault.

28:51It's too late for her now.

28:53Really what she needed was one of those very wealthy husbands.

28:58What's the most outrageous thing you've bought little Valentina?

29:01Me and Scott bought Valentina an apartment in Miami, Miami Beach.

29:08And so do you intend on raising Valentina differently to Saffron?

29:14Yeah.

29:15100%.

29:16She's definitely going to work.

29:18I'm going to train her to be my little mini-me.

29:22Barry's money enabled him to create his own family by design in America.

29:27And this afternoon, he's having a catch-up with Heidi, who lives in California,

29:32the surrogate of their youngest child, Romeo.

29:35Hi.

29:36Hello.

29:37Hello.

29:38Hi.

29:39Hi.

29:40How are you?

29:42I'm good.

29:43Very nice to meet you.

29:45The laws in the States allow surrogates to be paid handsomely.

29:49How does turning childbirth into a lucrative transaction affect the carrier of the child?

29:54You carried Romeo.

29:55Please may you talk me through how that all played out.

30:00So I had been a surrogate two times before I met Barry and Scott.

30:05And then I saw on Facebook that there was a famous couple looking for a surrogate.

30:12And so I was intrigued and we got to meet each other and we talked and I couldn't say no.

30:19Like Barry and Scott, they're just so lovely.

30:21So you have carried three children for two families.

30:26Correct.

30:27How does it feel carrying a baby that you know isn't yours?

30:31For me, it's not making that connection.

30:35It's fun having those moments like when you're feeling the baby kick and stuff like that.

30:40But the most special part for me is being able to share that with the parents

30:45and them being able to kind of experience that with you since they can experience that process.

30:52Why do you do it?

30:54Yeah, even when I was younger, I would hear people say that they've struggled with infertility.

31:01And it was just like a natural reaction to be like, oh, I'll carry your baby.

31:05You know, everybody watching this will be thinking, did you do it for financial purposes?

31:11Did you do it for financial gain?

31:14It's a perk.

31:16Is it a lot of money?

31:18At the beginning, no.

31:20Barry and Scott, they did pay heavily and that was very nice of them.

31:26The extra that they gave as well.

31:30But financially, no.

31:32When I'm at Barry and Scott, I already own two homes.

31:36We have four cars.

31:38You know, we don't live paycheck to paycheck.

31:41So, no, I didn't do it for the money.

31:44It's nice to have it because it is a lot that you're putting your body through.

31:49What are we talking, sort of ballpark figure?

31:52It was 25,000 for the first pregnancy.

31:57Then the second time around when we did it, we cut out the agency

32:02because obviously we knew each other, we were comfortable.

32:05And I had only asked for 35.

32:11So we're going to let you go, but thank you so much for talking to us.

32:15Thanks, Heidi.

32:16Heidi's perspective on carrying children that will never be her own is fascinating.

32:20And she's not the only participant in the process.

32:23And how did you find your egg donor?

32:25The egg donor we found on a catwalk.

32:29A model?

32:31In Miami.

32:32What drew you to her? Initially her looks?

32:34It was her looks, completely.

32:35And you're honest about that?

32:36Oh, am I absolutely honest about it? Why the hell not?

32:39When I saw her on the catwalk, I looked at Scott and I went,

32:42Oh fuck, she is stunning.

32:46I tell you her legs were six feet in the air.

32:48We've got hundreds of those models on our books right now.

32:51That reasoning, from your point of view, will infuriate some people.

32:57Absolutely. Just buying a baby, that's what people say.

33:00A beautiful baby.

33:01A beautiful baby.

33:02Most people could do a lot worse than spend one month of their life on drugs to give some embryos for 50 grand.

33:13Do you worry it's a slippery slope if we just start saying, oh, we just want beautiful kids?

33:18No.

33:19Really?

33:20That's so interesting.

33:21Well, what do you want me to say?

33:22No, we need to be honest.

33:23No, we need ugly ones as well.

33:25I'm sorry, I just can't lie.

33:26No, but which, listen, I would much prefer to have-

33:28Nobody wants an ugly kid.

33:30Sometimes we get them, but we don't always want them.

33:32And we deal with it and carry it on.

33:34I just don't think that would be a priority for me.

33:37If I were to go down that route, the idea that it's got to be stunning, I think that's what gives people-

33:42That's what rubs them up the wrong way.

33:44Well, I really couldn't give a flying fuck about rubbing anybody up the wrong way.

33:48That's not what I'm about, I couldn't care less.

33:51But, in an honest world, you want your kids to have a chance.

34:01Barry's extreme obsession with looks is not something I subscribe to.

34:05But having constant conversations about childbirth, as if it's such a straightforward process,

34:12strikes a chord with me.

34:14You know, I've experienced what it's like to struggle to have a child.

34:27We obviously wanted to expand our family, and then last year I fell pregnant, and then actually it was-

34:34You know, it didn't go brilliantly.

34:38It was ectopic.

34:40I'm so sorry because this is so predictable.

34:49Like, sat here crying on a bed.

34:52It was ectopic and, you know, it was really fucking difficult.

34:56It was like, there was an internal rupture, and there had to be, like, emergency surgery.

35:03And, you know, of course when you go through something like that you're forced to think about alternatives.

35:13Well, you know, shit happens, and then if you want to, you know, if you want a bigger family, you have to think about how you're going to do that.

35:28It's my final day with the Druitt Barlow family in Essex.

35:40Hello!

35:41How are you going?

35:42It's so nice to meet you.

35:44Four of Barry's children from his relationship with his first husband have flown in from Florida, where they split their time with their other dad.

35:51So, this is Aspen Stacey, and Aspen is Saffron's twin.

35:57This is Orlando.

35:59He was actually created at the same time as Aspen and Saffron, only he was put on ice and then born three years later.

36:08Wow!

36:09I know.

36:10That's so cool.

36:11This is Jasper, and this one is Dallas, and they're twins too.

36:16Great.

36:17Yeah.

36:18Incredible.

36:19You're all tight, you're all sort of, you know.

36:22Group hug!

36:23Group hug!

36:24Come on, come on.

36:25They're like Dad.

36:26Come on, come on, come on!

36:28Yay!

36:29Over the weekends, I've learnt how Barry's fortune has allowed him to spoil his blended family with huge gifts.

36:36And before I leave, I'll get the chance to experience the most recent extravagant acquisition he's bought for his long-term partner, Scott.

36:44Moulden and Tiptree have their biggest game of the season, and it's another chance for Barry to take centre stage.

36:50So does everybody know what they're doing?

36:53Everyone knows.

36:54So we've got a hospitality...

36:56Will you stop talking, you fucking rabbit?

36:59Although the club was bought for Scott, it's quite clear who's in charge.

37:02Where's David?

37:03No, not you.

37:04Chef David.

37:06Mr Woo?

37:08Woo's there.

37:09Yes.

37:10I need David and Mr Woo to put on a brilliant spread.

37:13Then we've got a new barmaid who's going to help out on the bar, and you're going to look after her, aren't you?

37:19Show her how to pull the pints and how to take the money and all that kind of stuff.

37:23Any questions from anybody else?

37:25All right, we're going to finish there.

37:27All of you find your jobs and what you're doing and all of that kind of stuff.

37:30If you need any help, look for Stacey Dooley, she's our supervisor today.

37:35She is.

37:36OK, good luck everyone, and if you've got any questions, just ask.

37:40Yeah?

37:41Come on!

37:47Before he puts me to work, I'm eager to learn how the outside criticism of Barry affects those closest to him.

37:54I think with Barry, some people are so sort of starry-eyed in terms of what he's achieved historically.

37:59And with anyone who's public-facing, other people don't echo those praises.

38:05How do you feel, boys? Because that's your dad.

38:07I think we've had it for so long, he's always been criticised by people.

38:10I think a lot of people like to think they know my dad when they don't, because they just see what's on the television.

38:15And that's obviously a bit more dramatised and he's going to be a bit more flamboyant and things like that.

38:20But in reality, he's a really caring dad.

38:22And he likes to take care of people that mean important to him, who are important to him, so, yeah.

38:27To me, my dads are my heroes. I know it sounds a bit cringy to say, but I look up to my dads.

38:32So anything they say to them, I don't really mean anything to me.

38:35They can say anything they want about my parents, but I know who they are and what they mean to me, so.

38:39So your dad's your hero?

38:41Yeah, sounds a bit, when you say it like that it sounds a bit, but yeah.

38:46I look up to both my parents a lot, yeah.

38:48That's right, because Tony's your other father?

38:50Yeah.

38:51Yeah, yeah, yeah.

38:52Both my dads mean the world to me, yeah.

38:53They've done so much for me and they've done so much for all of us.

38:55And what do you reckon, Jasper? How would you describe your father?

38:57I'd say the same thing, probably. He's very fair, but, you know, you just have to act in the proper way and he'll treat you fair.

39:07Saffron, are you going to work at the club?

39:09Yeah.

39:10What are you going to do?

39:11Whatever he wants me to do, anything to keep him happy and make him happy, I'll do it.

39:17Here is she!

39:20She actually got out of bed to put her face on and came out to work!

39:26She's just been saying how she can't wait for you to put her to work.

39:29Oh my God.

39:30Oh my God.

39:37A Bud and Estella.

39:39Look at that!

39:45That's my one talent.

39:46After making sure everyone's got their pre-match pint, it's finally kick-off.

39:56And it seems I've given Barry and Scott some competition when it comes to popularity on the terraces.

40:02Belly is the chama.

40:03Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha.

40:04Ha, ha, ha, ha!

40:07Come here, let's shoot!

40:08Yeah!

40:21Yes!

40:23Yeah!

40:24Over 1...

40:25Moulden have taken an early lead and spirits are high in the stands.

40:28I'm interested to hear how supporters have taken to their new boss.

40:32What are your thoughts on Barry as an owner?

40:35He's a legend.

40:36What have you made of what he has brought to your club?

40:40There's a lot of sceptics about Barry.

40:42Obviously, people read about things, read stories,

40:45but it's give and take, you know, he's got a heart of gold

40:48and he's proven it as well.

40:49Barry bought our club, but we adopted Barry at the same time,

40:51so he's going to love him in a short space of time.

40:54Not just because he's completely loaded?

40:56No.

40:56That helps, that helps.

40:59He's got a heart of gold and he shows it to all of us.

41:02He's a nice guy.

41:03Since the moment he's come here, he's cared about the community.

41:05It's amazing.

41:06You've got to make me cry, you fuckers, I'm gay.

41:10He's proved us all wrong.

41:11Proved a lot of people wrong.

41:12David!

41:14Yeah!

41:14Barry's extreme wealth has allowed him to control so many aspects of his life,

41:43how his family was created, the staff around him, and now a legion of football fans.

41:49His unapologetic views and dominant personality may be offensive to some,

41:54but it feels like those close to him are happy to be taken along for the ride.

41:59What a way to end the weekend.

42:04You just must be on cloud nine.

42:06I am.

42:07I'm on cloud nine, I'm way above that.

42:09But listen, I'll leave you to it.

42:10Thank you so much for this weekend.

42:12I really appreciate it.

42:14All the best.

42:15All the best.

42:15Thank you, Barry.

42:16Oh, you're welcome.

42:17Thank you for your time.

42:18Come back again.

42:18I will, yeah.

42:20Up the jammers.

42:21Up the jammers.

42:22Have a lovely evening celebrating.

42:23See you later.

42:24Up the jammers!

42:28I think for sure, like, it's totally fair to say that, like, Barry is a divisive character.

42:33You know, some people really love him.

42:35Some people think his ambition and, you know, his can-do, sort of no-shit approach is brilliant.

42:41And other people don't.

42:44So it's been, yeah, it's been hugely enlightening.

42:48An amazing end to a fascinating weekend.

42:52I'm off to go and have a bath because I stink of beer.

43:05I'm off to go and have a bath.

43:33Amen.

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