00:00Dude, you're 24.
00:01Yeah.
00:02How the potential f*** did you end up in so much debt already?
00:06I turned 18 and I found out I already had collections.
00:10So my dad had taken me to get dental work done and then didn't pay for it.
00:16And my dad, on a fairly regular basis, I'd wake up in the middle of the night to him going through my purse.
00:22Because he would take my car.
00:24Oh, that's gross.
00:26Right.
00:26Because the lights would get turned off.
00:29And then my mom would be understandably upset because it's like, you're only in charge of the light bulb.
00:33Like, what the hell?
00:35And then he didn't have money for it because I don't know what he spent his money on.
00:39And, you know, when I'd wake up and I'd catch him and be like, what are you doing?
00:43He's like, well, you don't want mom to be angry with you, do you?
00:46And I'm like, oh, you know, that's abusive, right?
00:49That is a form of abuse.
00:51It's financial abuse and emotional as well.
00:54Yeah, that's that's that's where the PTSD comes in.
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