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Grab the tissues—these romances will break your heart. Join us as we revisit history’s most unforgettable star-crossed couples, from royal unions torn apart to artists and activists separated by law, fate, or tragedy. We’re spotlighting Cleopatra and Mark Antony, Héloïse and Abélard, Mildred and Richard Loving, Shah Jahan and Mumtaz Mahal, Lili Elbe and Gerda Wegener, and more. Which love story still haunts you? Tell us in the comments.
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00:00Someone ask me what I want, to live with you in peace and love.
00:05Welcome to Ms. Mojo, and today we're looking at some of the most famous and heartbreaking
00:10star-crossed couplings across history.
00:13I sing your restless longing for the statue, your fear of the feelings that await you in the street.
00:21Lily Elbe and Gerda Wigner.
00:23It's been said that it's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.
00:26This quote is encapsulated perfectly in the ill-fated yet genuine connection between
00:31Lily Elbe and Gerda Wigner.
00:33During the former's transition, the latter was incredibly supportive.
00:37I believe that I'm a woman.
00:40Inside.
00:43And I believe her too.
00:45Lily was the muse behind some of Wigner's famous paintings, a permanent reminder of their bond.
00:50Unfortunately, Danish law decreed that marriage between two women couldn't be recognized.
00:54Thus, their 25-year union was officially annulled in 1930.
00:59You took care of me, but now I have to take care of myself.
01:02I have to have a life of my own.
01:06And you need to do the same.
01:08Though this meant the end of their relationship, the sacrifice allowed Elbe to truly come into herself.
01:13Tragically, she died less than a year later, and Gerda remarried.
01:17But their previous attachment still lives on today in her work.
01:20You made me beautiful.
01:24And now you're making me strong.
01:30Such power in you.
01:32Charles V and Isabela of Portugal.
01:34It was a love so powerful that its end nearly drove a man to the brink of insanity.
01:39If it were for me, I would never be apart from you.
01:42Not one day, not one hour.
01:44Despite being arranged, the relationship between Charles V and Isabela of Portugal was genuine.
01:50His romantic gestures even led to the carnation becoming Spain's national flower,
01:54and a permanent reminder of their affections.
01:56Unfortunately, their union was short-lived.
01:59After 13 years, Isabela passed away in 1539 after childbirth.
02:04Charles was understandably devastated, and became a shell of the man he once was.
02:21He isolated himself for months to mourn, wore black every day, and never remarried.
02:26When he met his own end in 1558, he was reportedly holding the same cross Isabela held on her own deathbed.
02:32Queen Victoria and Prince Albert of Saxe-Coburg and Gotha.
02:49Charles V wasn't the only royal to be affected by the loss of his soulmate.
02:53Queen Victoria's affection for Prince Albert of Saxe-Coburg and Gotha was clear from the beginning.
02:58She waxed poetic both about his looks and the happiness he gave her.
03:02She proposed to him in 1839, making her own choice of spouse in a move that was rare for royal women throughout history.
03:09I'm sure you're aware why I wished you to come here.
03:14Because it would make me happier than anything.
03:19Too happy, really, if you would agree to what I wish.
03:23And stay with you.
03:25And stay with me.
03:26And marry you.
03:29And marry me.
03:30Their wedding in 1840 was reportedly the happiest day of her life.
03:34Just over 20 years later, Albert contracted typhoid and died.
03:38And Victoria was never the same.
03:39The moment when he died, she went out.
03:43And this shriek was heard through the castle.
03:47Shriek of horror.
03:49But when she realized what had happened,
03:51that she'd lost her angel, as she always told him.
03:54She withdrew from the public eye and wore black to signify her permanent mourning.
03:58When she passed away in 1901, she had a cast of his hand placed in her own, before being buried next to him.
04:05He was the light in our home.
04:09The best father who ever lived.
04:11Clark Gable and Carol Lombard.
04:24It may seem like star-crossed couples are a classical phenomenon, but there have been more recent prominent pairings.
04:30Despite being known as a playboy, Hollywood giant Clark Gable found true love in his past co-star Carol Lombard.
04:36She brought a ham to the set and put it in his seat, because he was such a ham, because she thought he was such a ham actor.
04:46And a joke may have been lost to him, but it definitely didn't have a romantic connection whatsoever.
04:51At that time, he liked her a lot, but she was not interested. She was married.
04:57The two reconnected in 1936 and quickly fell for each other.
05:01By 1939, they were married.
05:03The period soon became known as one of the best in Gable's life.
05:06There's all these photos circulating of her with their chickens and all the animals that they had on the ranch
05:12and sitting on their jalopy truck that they bought for their fishing and camping and hunting trips.
05:17Throughout World War II, Lombard became involved in the war effort, which led to her own demise in a plane crash in 1942.
05:24Gable was devastated by the loss.
05:26He lost 20 pounds and even joined the Air Force, fulfilling one of Lombard's wishes, even though she wouldn't be there to see it.
05:33It was a mourning, a way to expound his grief.
05:36But some, I think he was quoted as saying to close friends, like, I'm going over there and I don't care if I come back.
05:42Shah Jahan and Mumtaz Mahal.
05:44This may be one of the most prominent displays of devotion in the world.
05:49Emperor Shah Jahan I and Mumtaz Mahal married in 1612 and were a powerful couple.
05:54Shah Jahan calls her the Chosen One of the Palace.
06:01From the Chronicles, we know this royal couple were especially close for those times.
06:06The two ruled side by side until 1631, when Mahal passed away during childbirth.
06:12Her loss had an immediate impact on her children and husband, with the latter having regular bouts of sobbing and even reportedly isolating himself for a year.
06:19His hair and beard had turned gray.
06:25He looked older.
06:28Much, much older than what he looked when he went into confinement or statutory mourning.
06:36When he returned, he had a mausoleum built in Mumtaz's honor.
06:3922 years later, the result was a breathtakingly beautiful structure made of ivory and marble, known as the Taj Mahal.
06:46To this day, it's the ultimate symbol of their love, as well as their shared final resting place.
06:51Shah Jahan is reunited with his Chosen One of the Palace.
06:57Their legacy will make them immortal.
07:00Salvador Dali and Federico Garcia Lorca.
07:03He's so known for his eclectic art that it's hard to imagine him in a romantic relationship at all.
07:08Yet, throughout the 1920s, Salvador Dali and Federico Garcia Lorca found themselves drawn to each other.
07:13You know what you said in your letter about everything that you are being split apart?
07:25As young creatives, they formed a strong bond that many felt was stronger than friendship.
07:30Lorca, in particular, felt an extreme passion for the painter, which opened his eyes to his own sexuality.
07:36The poet even penned Ode to Dali in the mid-1920s.
07:39I've seen the small sea siren who sings to you, riding her bicycle of corals and conches.
07:47But about what?
07:48I've seen a common thought that joins us in the dark and golden hours.
07:54However, the surrealist artist claimed that the relationship was platonic, and ended up marrying a woman.
07:59Despite that, Dali and Lorca maintained their emotionally intense connection up until the latter's assassination in 1936.
08:06The speculation around their feelings still lives on today.
08:09I hurt your pride, I know.
08:11I know.
08:13But I'll make it up to you.
08:16You'll teach me how.
08:18Kais ibn al-Malua and Layla al-Amariyah.
08:21To have a love so beautifully tragic that it becomes the topic of its own legend is truly special.
08:26In the 7th century, Kais was a poet for the Banu Amr tribe.
08:30He met his soulmate, Layla, when they were children.
08:33As an adult, his feelings never faded, and he began to write hauntingly beautiful poetry about her.
08:38It's love through verse.
08:39He is completely infatuated by her.
08:42The fact that he's uninhibited, he's going overboard, let's say, in wooing her, and he's mentioning her by name, scandalizes her family.
08:52Layla's father separated the young couple before a relationship could fully blossom.
08:56What happened next isn't known by historians.
08:59Kais is completely, he loses it.
09:03He's completely lost.
09:05He takes to the desert.
09:07He's seen reciting his poetry alone in the desert.
09:11And his family starts to leave him food out in the wilderness so he can get something to eat.
09:17And he's completely lost to society.
09:19Apparently, Kais was eventually found by Layla's grave and engraved a poem into it.
09:24While that hasn't been verified, the poem itself is.
09:27And it's so heartfelt that it could make even the most cynical individual believe in love again.
09:31Indeed, you have returned to her, my heart.
09:35And lo, tears are shed profusely pouring forth.
09:40Foretelling that passion is a fire ignited.
09:44And beneath fire's embers, the heart melts.
09:47Mildred and Richard Loving
09:49White and colored went to school different.
09:55Things like that, you know.
09:57They couldn't go in the same restaurants.
10:00I knew that.
10:03But I didn't realize how bad it was until we got married.
10:06The government should have no place in a loving union between two consenting adults.
10:11Unfortunately, the laws preventing groups from marrying prove they don't agree.
10:14One such decree was the Racial Integrity Act of 1924, which barred interracial marriages in Virginia.
10:21Mildred and Richard Loving defied the rule and were wed in 1958, with disastrous consequences.
10:26What you doing in bed with that woman?
10:31I'm his wife.
10:38That's no good here.
10:40They were arrested in the middle of the night and tried, before having to choose between prison or leaving the state.
10:45They chose the latter, but that didn't stop them from fighting for their rights.
10:49Their case made its way up to the Supreme Court, where they finally won.
10:53Unfortunately, Richard perished in a car accident less than a decade later.
10:57You tell the judge...
10:59You tell the judge I know my wife.
11:04Eloise and Peter Abelard.
11:05It wouldn't be a list about star-crossed lovers without them.
11:08Ill-fated from the very beginning, the complex story between Eloise and Peter Abelard has mystified historians for centuries.
11:15Why?
11:17Why did it happen?
11:18I hear your voice every minute of the day.
11:23I see your face in the firelight.
11:25They first fell for each other as student and tutor, a pairing that was frowned upon for good reason.
11:30The forbidden couple secretly got married following the joining of the church.
11:34Unfortunately, it wasn't long before things went awry.
11:37Our lord was betrayed by Achis.
11:39That was preordained.
11:43Is this?
11:43From the beginning of time.
11:47Peter had sent Eloise to a nunnery, and in response, her uncle arranged for him to be attacked and castrated in the dead of night.
11:54While they couldn't be together physically, their affection was defined by a series of romantic letters, some of which have become the foundation of French literature.
12:01Join me in thanksgiving.
12:03You were made my partner, both in guilt and grace.
12:08I want to be free of you.
12:38Of wanting you.
12:41Of being afraid.
12:42The two started a highly controversial relationship, even coming together to overtake their rivals.
12:48Unfortunately, their high wouldn't last.
12:50In 31 BC, the tide suddenly turned during the Battle of Actium.
12:54No, I cannot run.
12:56I will be guided by you, naturally, if you think there is some other path available to us.
13:02In a fit of panic, Antony attempted to take his own life, assuming Cleopatra had done the same.
13:07He ended up dying in her arms, leaving her alone to face the Romans.
13:11She joined him in death weeks later.
13:13To this day, Antony and Cleopatra remain one of the most tragic examples of doomed romance.
13:19Fortune knows we score the most, when most she offers blows.
13:24Which star-crossed relationship do you think was doomed from the start?
13:32Let us know in the comments below.
13:34What do you do with all the heart you break?
13:36Huh?
13:37Hmm?
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