00:00Anand, we had a common friend, Anand is a person who is far away from the film industry and is a friend of the film industry, Andy Balraj.
00:28Anand Balraj was Anand's very good friend, and in those days, I was shooting with Andy, in the week of the film, Jackie Shroff, Andy, me, we were shooting.
00:42So, we were shooting in the film industry, and then they had dinner with Anand.
00:52So, he had just gone to Singapore, Anand, before meeting Andy, that dinner, he had just come back from Singapore.
01:06And in Singapore, there was a film that they watched in the theater.
01:10And I believe he thought, he says to me, I don't know if I want to believe him or not, but Anand tells me that he didn't see Roja.
01:20He hadn't seen Roja because he didn't see Roja.
01:24He was an Indian who didn't see Roja, and he liked me.
01:32And then when he came and had dinner with Andy, that very day, I was shooting with Andy, in the day.
01:40So, he must have talked, and Anand said, Universe conspired.
01:44Anand said, shoot me for my company, Madhu.
01:48So, Andy came with a business proposal.
01:51He said, my friend, he is a company, and he wants to engage you for the company.
01:57And then I said, talk to my father.
02:00Add campaign.
02:01Add campaign.
02:02Add campaign.
02:03I haven't seen the photos of those today.
02:05That's why it was all locked, sealed, packed, gone.
02:11That's how we met.
02:12How wonderful.
02:13So, Anand was the chance that you will leave the family?
02:18If I have to be honest, I know that that's what he and the family would have wanted.
02:24He was wanting, maybe.
02:27But to the credit, to the credit, only Anand, or their parents, mommy, papa,
02:34never said that I don't want to work.
02:37In fact, mommy still works, my mother-in-law still works.
02:40Every day.
02:41So, she understood, every girl must work.
02:45Except, I'm not sure, that as an actress, they wanted me to work or not.
02:50But, I was already at that point emotionally.
02:54I told myself that I won't work.
02:57I took my family 2 years of time.
03:00We were engaged on the 97 October.
03:03I got on the 97 April, Anand.
03:07I went to the shooting for June or July, for that campaign.
03:12We decided that I think we will be together.
03:16And, October, Navaratri, Diwali, we were engaged.
03:22And then, I asked my family to give me 2 years of time.
03:25So, I will settle down and never go back.
03:31So, I said that.
03:33They never said that.
03:34But, Anand's family, Juhi Chawla is also there.
03:40Anand's cousin is married to Juhi.
03:43Juhi, Juhi.
03:44Juhi, Juhi, Juhi.
03:45So, Juhi never left her job.
03:48And, in her home, the girls work on their own.
03:51So, did you have any influence on her?
03:54Or Juhi never left her job?
03:56No.
03:57I was working on my own experience.
04:00I was working on my own experience.
04:02I was working on my mother.
04:05And, in that moment, I was working on my family.
04:08And, I always had a vision, that I was expanding.
04:13Instead, I made a small family.
04:15And, in fact, I always had a small family.
04:18In fact, they would be a small family.
04:23I will have a small family.
04:25I will have my children.
04:26I will take them to school.
04:27This was all my dream.
04:29So, I came from my experience.
04:31I didn't want anything.
04:32I don't want anything.
04:34I am asking a question.
04:35Is it anything to do with your mother,
04:40You couldn't have that fulfilling life with your mother
04:47At that time, it was not a language
04:53Psychotherapy
04:59Psychotherapy, psychology, I didn't think about it
05:06Psychoanalysis
05:08Why am I like that?
05:10Today, I am trying to understand you
05:13I am trying to backtrack
05:16Why am I like that?
05:19Actually, I am scared of this child
05:23But I am showing the world that I am sharing
05:27I am not scared of this child
05:30I am not scared of this child
05:32I am not scared of this child
05:34I am not scared of this child
05:37I am feeling weak
05:39I am feeling vulnerable
05:41I don't
05:44To answer you, I don't know what I have felt
05:48But as I got the opportunity
05:51I got a stable home
05:53I got a stable home
05:55I got a stable family
05:57In fact, my mother-in-law
05:59I had a house before
06:01My mother-in-law
06:02I thought
06:04My mother-in-law
06:06They have two sons
06:08When they are married
06:10They will not bring their daughter to their home
06:13They will leave their home
06:15Only then I will have a good relationship with my daughters-in-law
06:22They had to think about it
06:24And their planning
06:26They also showed me
06:27I said
06:28You will stay in this house
06:29After marriage
06:30I said
06:31No
06:32I will stay in your house
06:34I will stay in your bedroom
06:36I will stay in the house
06:38And I will stay in that house
06:39I still live in a joint family
06:41Wow
06:42All the other apartments are there
06:44But I still live
06:46Because I wanted a mother and a father
06:48And you are happy with your choice
06:50I am so happy
06:51Because what a support I got with my daughters
06:54I would go outside
06:55But I would leave with my dad
06:57I am so secure
06:59And I would have desired
07:01And I would have desired
07:03That someone would ask me
07:05How many hours are you going to home?
07:07The girls are all rebellious
07:09Why do you ask?
07:10Why do you ask?
07:11But they want that caring
07:13My mother-in-law
07:14When I came to party
07:16At night
07:17At 1-2-3
07:18My mother-in-law
07:20I was sitting there
07:21She is a girl
07:23But she is a girl
07:25She is a girl
07:26I am waiting up for you
07:27And because my mother is awake
07:29I change my timings
07:31I am coming in soon
07:33Because I know my mother is awake
07:34Because my mother is awake
07:36And I felt lovely about it
07:40How is it that you have maintained yourself so well?
07:43Because you have grown up daughters now
07:46What are you doing?
07:48One is engaged to be married
07:51You will become married
07:54What is your name?
07:55What is your name?
07:56Amaya
07:57And my second daughter is Kea
07:59And she wants to be an actor
08:01She is doing his career
08:05And is 28 years old
08:06Like me
08:07I am living together
08:08Right, you can find out
08:09What is your name?
08:10Amaya
08:11And my second daughter is Kea
08:12And she wants to be an actor
08:14and she wants to be an actor okay graduate okay Joven a Papa never secatha
08:20graduate or job with Joker and you can don't only be up knee training Jari
08:25Rocky Lakata addiction in Hindi dance we're gonna cut the area and now she's
08:30back and God willing we will but your other daughter may doesn't want to be
08:39an actor she wants to get married and not have a career no as of now not a
08:43film career for sure and she's an intellectual highly most clever person
08:49in the family okay but right now she is in that euphoria
08:54are very different from the films you have done or Hema ji have done
09:00very different films are scenes are very intimate etc are you ready for your daughter to do those is she ready
09:09yes
09:13I have no idea
09:16I have no idea
09:18No I have no idea
09:19I have no idea
09:20I have no idea
09:20you know I have never heard of it
09:22I have no idea
09:23you know I have ever said it
09:24I have never chosen any film.
09:28The film would choose me.
09:30And the hit from them was hit.
09:33And if it happened, it didn't happen.
09:36But I had never chosen because I wanted to stay busy.
09:39But one criteria was that explicit scenes and explicit clothing
09:45If it is a requirement in your film, I will not do it.
09:49That's the only thing I followed that rule.
09:52So it was also explicit kissing.
09:55Even though kissing is a very sweet romantic gesture.
09:59But for me, it was something that my father will not be able to watch it.
10:04And my makers respected that.
10:08My producers respected that.
10:10Everybody knew that.
10:11And nobody even came with that.
10:13Now we are in today's generation.
10:15It is something every girl is doing it.
10:21Because that's the way they communicate love.
10:24Yes.
10:25Now, as parents, we have to accept it.
10:30If my daughter is coming in this line.
10:33If she is doing all of her contemporary things.
10:36Then how would my daughter say that I will not do it?
10:39You have done it.
10:40I asked my daughter.
10:42Baby.
10:43Are you ready?
10:44Are you ready?
10:45Can you do that?
10:46I don't think she is giving it a full.
10:49I don't think she is understanding it.
10:51As of now, she is thinking dialogue, diction, acting, dancing.
10:55Dancing.
10:56Is what it is.
10:57Do it.
10:58It is her choice.
10:59If she can't bear it, she won't do it.
11:00You will cross the bridge when you come to it.
11:01Yeses and noes are up to her.
11:02Correct.
11:03My children tell me, Mama, you think you are a very cool mother.
11:15You are very cool.
11:16But you are the most non-cool person.
11:17very cool mother, you are very cool but you are the most non-cool person and I think
11:22I am very non-cool when my children are concerned, I am the one who was my mother, I am the one
11:28who was my mother, I am the one who was my mother and my husband and I am a little liberal
11:35and understanding because I am from the industry so I am a little bit of understanding, my
11:39husband and my mother, my father, my in-laws, how will they tolerate and see, I don't know
11:48we will cross the bridge when we come to it, but I have seen the reaction before, so I
11:56understood it, I am very honest, this is my truth, Bharti.
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