00:00How do you know if a relationship is worth saving?
00:05Shall I stay or shall I go?
00:07It's one of the fundamental questions.
00:11And here's the thing.
00:12Even if you decide to stay or even if they decide to go,
00:17you may do so while at the same time having a part of you
00:21that actually holds the other side.
00:25If you think that the decision is 100% perfect,
00:28no doubt, no hesitation, then it's a setup.
00:32If you leave, you need to be able to leave
00:34while experiencing the loss of some things that may have been good,
00:38even if it's just a dream of what was.
00:41If you stay, you have to be able to grieve the part of you
00:44that will never know what it would have been like if you actually left.
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