Heart & Hustle Houston Season 1 Episode 3

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00:00Previously, Houston is the Hollywood of the South

00:04and also home of strong black female entrepreneurs.

00:07I'm with the ladies.

00:08We can just be ourselves.

00:09These women have been the epitome of sisterhood.

00:15Hey, bro, don't cry.

00:17I feel like I never went to therapy

00:19just because I feel like I wouldn't have anybody

00:21to understand who I am and where I come from.

00:23But I'm starting to think that maybe I need to do it

00:25because I'm just on a different journey now.

00:27Do you ever feel like you are outgrowing Josh?

00:31Man, I don't think like that.

00:32Alaina, you a baddie.

00:34He's fine, too.

00:35Josh is not fine.

00:36You better not talk about my husband like that.

00:40She can never pull the caliber of men that I pull.

00:43Her and I had a conversation.

00:44I think she felt like, you know, you can't pull a man like Josh.

00:57Maybe I'll never know you're at night but incompletely all night.

01:01Maybe I'll never know you're at night?

01:04Letting you will fly.

01:07Maybe I'll never know you're at night?

01:11Look at this, Ro.

01:13Hey, girl.

01:15Hey, Chloe.

01:18What you doing?

01:19Girl, trying to recover from last night.

01:21You text my last night.

01:22I was like, what is up with Ro?

01:24Talking about you outside.

01:25No, I was in the bed asleep.

01:28Where did you go?

01:29I took my little NBA advice out last night.

01:31Oh, fun.

01:32Ro's my girl.

01:33Say hi to Romeo, girl.

01:34He look like an old man.

01:35He got to get a haircut.

01:37I feel like I can connect with her

01:38because she don't put on a show.

01:40She not putting on a facade.

01:41Like, Ro is Ro.

01:43And that's what makes me love her.

01:46At the rodeo, girl, Latoria told me at the bar,

01:49she said that apparently Elena said something like,

01:52basically, Joshua and me caught dead

01:54with someone like me.

01:56I was like, hi, I went from,

01:57because I said he wasn't fine, to this.

02:00Not attacking me.

02:02Ain't that crazy?

02:03Like, where did that come from?

02:05Yeah, I was speechless, too.

02:06No, she did not say that.

02:08She did.

02:09She really felt the way about that.

02:10That's taking it too far.

02:12Saying that Chloe isn't good enough for Josh,

02:17it's just a low blow to me,

02:18and I don't like it at all.

02:20But yeah, I was shocked.

02:20I was like, well, damn,

02:22where did my looks come into this?

02:24Like, me saying he wasn't fine went to,

02:26now I want him,

02:27or might want him,

02:28or he don't like a woman like me.

02:30To me, that feels like that's her insecurities.

02:33You know what I mean?

02:34Like, that's the insecurities of their relationship,

02:38and it's screaming.

02:39I don't even know if I'm gonna bring it up to her.

02:41Like, I just want her to see me with my man.

02:43You definitely shouldn't bring it up.

02:44Because why are you talking mess behind my back?

02:45She shouldn't have said it to your face.

02:47What I said was to her face.

02:48Like, he's not fine.

02:49I just don't get why everybody just can't say

02:51how they feel in the moment.

02:52Some people think that I'm a asshole

02:53because I say stuff when it comes to my brain,

02:56and maybe I am.

02:57Who cares?

02:58Well, at least I got it off my chest.

02:59I think if you don't nip it in the bud,

03:00it's gonna be more whispers,

03:02and you're gonna start hearing more stuff,

03:03it's just gonna get worse.

03:04You're right.

03:04So nip it in the bud.

03:05The night you might, you know,

03:07get extra angry the next time,

03:08and this time you're pulling it off.

03:09Yeah, I might spaz the next time.

03:30Hello.

03:31How can I see Steve?

03:32I'm here for Labrina.

03:34So today I shut down the spa.

03:35I invited some of the girls

03:37to get a very private and exclusive

03:40wellness experience with us at Xscape.

03:43Xscape Spa has come from

03:45a small, beat-down building

03:48in the inner city of Houston

03:50to now in the suburbs

03:52in Cypress, Texas,

03:54where we have 6,000 square foot space

03:57with all modalities of massage,

04:00corrective skin care,

04:01oxygen treatments,

04:03and contrast bathing.

04:05Today is a day for relaxation,

04:06so I did not include

04:08Alayna and Khloe

04:09because we don't want

04:10that kind of energy

04:11in a relaxing setting.

04:13You look cute.

04:14What all have you done today?

04:16I had a couple meetings,

04:17but luckily it was

04:18around the house,

04:19so that's what I was like.

04:20And then I knew I was coming

04:21to the spa,

04:21so I didn't want to get

04:22like super dressed up,

04:23still be cute, chic.

04:25Girl is giving cutesy.

04:26Okay?

04:27Not cutesy.

04:28I'm not five.

04:29Well, you look about 11.

04:32Not too much.

04:34That's a compliment.

04:35So, I do look young,

04:36but 11 is not a compliment.

04:38It's not?

04:38Okay, so let me see.

04:3911 plus 11.

04:4022.

04:42There you go.

04:42That's better.

04:43There you go.

04:44I know I look young.

04:45I get it.

04:46But I'm a grown woman.

04:48You get to escape from your-

04:48Well, hey, boo!

04:50I'm too good!

04:52Hey!

04:53How you doing?

04:54How are you?

04:55Girl, I'm so proud of you.

04:56This is gorgeous.

04:58We're gonna go this way.

04:59Come on, girls.

05:00Come on, come on, come on.

05:06Wow.

05:06Oh, wow.

05:07This is nice.

05:09Girl, we still in Houston.

05:10That's why it's called Escape Gate

05:12for a reason, honey.

05:13Make you feel like you're somewhere else.

05:1520 out of 10.

05:16Manira and Rose.

05:17Y'all are getting ready

05:18to get y'all experiences with us.

05:21Bye, y'all.

05:22Have fun.

05:23We will.

05:23I do have a lot going on

05:26in my household,

05:27so I'm ready to get a massage

05:28because your girl is tired.

05:30Labrini, you ain't doing that.

05:33Like, for real.

05:34I walked in and I was like,

05:36okay, my girl wasn't playing.

05:37Like, she owns a spa.

05:40Elegant, luxurious spa.

05:42Make an appointment.

05:43Period.

05:44Exclamation point.

05:46I appreciate that.

05:48But I want to talk about you.

05:50Aw.

05:51The rodeo.

05:52Okay.

05:52Who was that man

05:54that walked up?

05:56Latourian.

05:57What's going on, girl?

05:59Hey, how are you?

06:00How are you doing?

06:01Girl, let me tell you something.

06:02So here's the funny thing.

06:04Like, I have worked with him

06:05for years

06:06because he works in news.

06:08So a lot of my clients' stories,

06:10he's covered them.

06:11But I've never seen him

06:13without a suit-on.

06:14Like-minded industry.

06:16Sure.

06:16Please, please, please.

06:17Eeeh, eeeh, eeeh.

06:19You know?

06:20Have you followed up with him?

06:21What's been going on?

06:22We text a couple of times.

06:25My ultimate desire for a guy

06:27is more spiritual than anything, right?

06:29I want to have a guy

06:30that covers me in prayer

06:32when I need it.

06:33I'm single.

06:34I'm not desperate.

06:36Let me be very clear.

06:37It's two different things.

06:38I'm not letting you off the hook.

06:40Is it the jacuzzi got me a little...

06:42It's him.

06:43It's him.

06:44Girl, stay on.

06:45It's him.

06:46He's got you hot and bald-ed.

06:48All hot, nasty, and bald-ed up here.

06:51It's been three years.

06:53Girl, I know her cool guy called Wills.

06:57They just tangled and fighting one another.

07:00Let's dust that cat off and call him.

07:02Oh, God.

07:03Never dust the cat.

07:04Oh, child.

07:05Okay.

07:06Child, let me just call him.

07:09Let me turn my ear open on me.

07:10Okay.

07:10Yeah.

07:16Coming up,

07:17I heard something.

07:20Latoria, she's like stuck-up single.

07:22What's the next milestone for you?

07:24Like, 20 would be huge.

07:26What I've gone through

07:28and dealt with with Josh

07:29just wasn't enough.

07:31I know me after the third one,

07:44y'all hanged up.

07:46Yo?

07:47Hey.

07:49Hey, what's going on?

07:50Nothing.

07:50What are you up to?

07:52I'm at work.

07:53What's up with you?

07:54Uh, nothing much.

07:55I was with a girlfriend earlier today

07:57and I was like, you know what?

07:58I need to check in

08:00and see how did you enjoy the rodeo?

08:02I know you had a little bit of work to do.

08:04Those are good.

08:05Good.

08:05Good little day, you know,

08:06away from some of the usual news

08:08that I cover, so.

08:09Listen,

08:10and I know you cover a lot of heavy news,

08:13breaking news stories.

08:15I feel like you probably need a drink

08:17or a happy hour or something,

08:18so maybe we can meet up

08:20for a happy hour soon.

08:22Oh, yeah, for sure.

08:23What are you thinking?

08:25Um, maybe like this weekend.

08:27What does this weekend look like for you?

08:29This weekend I'm supposed to be going out of town.

08:33Oh.

08:34But next weekend,

08:36oh, my birthday's April 7th,

08:38so the weekend in between that,

08:39like the 20th, I should be around.

08:41Okay, well, yeah,

08:42let's definitely set up something.

08:44I'll text you and you just let me know

08:46what your vibe is,

08:47where you want to go,

08:48and some birthday drinks,

08:51you know, get the pregame started

08:53for your birthday.

08:54Oh, yeah.

08:55I'm always down for that.

08:56Okay, sounds good.

08:57All right, cool.

08:58All right, have a good time.

08:59It works.

09:00All right, Latoya, take care.

09:02All right, you too.

09:03Bye.

09:04Bye.

09:07Can we get a yee-haw

09:09up in here, okay?

09:11I feel like the call was decent.

09:14I don't really know what to expect.

09:15I'm interested in seeing

09:17what Devin's follow-up is going to be.

09:20I could probably be

09:21the breaking news story in his life.

09:23Come on, bartender.

09:25Can I get a refill?

09:27She'll do the wine.

09:28I'll just do the charcuterie board.

09:29You want a what type of board?

09:31Charcuterie board.

09:32You heard her.

09:33She heard her.

09:33A poochie broad.

09:34Okay, got you.

09:35Oh, you know we have cold-pressed juice, too, Moneer.

09:37Yeah, give her some apple juice.

09:40So cold-pressed juice.

09:41We talked about this last time.

09:42Charcuterie boards.

09:42Where you had one more time

09:44to mention something about some apple juice.

09:45Oh, we're going to do one of those.

09:46Before I start going in.

09:48We're going in.

09:49Let's go in.

09:50I'm here to have a good time

09:52and hear Latoya go again,

09:53making a comment about how I look young

09:55and calling me apple juice

09:57because of the fact that

09:58I don't really like drinking like that.

10:00Red, orange, green.

10:02Which one?

10:02Don't say apple.

10:04And it's starting to get on my nerves.

10:05Okay, I got a nice surprise

10:09for the Hungry Heroes.

10:11Oh, we appreciate you.

10:14We in Italy.

10:15I need a pickle.

10:17Oh, you need a what?

10:19Hold on, pause.

10:20You need a what?

10:22A pickle.

10:25To virginities.

10:28I truly, truly am happy

10:32that we all got a chance

10:33to do this together.

10:36I did not invite Chloe and Elena

10:39because I wanted this to be a good vibe,

10:41but there does need to be a moment

10:43where we all get together.

10:44I truly think that we need to come together

10:47and just have a good time.

10:49Let's do swimsuits, pool, music, good energy.

10:54We can even invite the guys.

10:56Norm, he coming.

10:57You think he'll come?

10:58Yeah, he should be available.

10:59I'll check and see.

11:00I also want Elena and Josh to come.

11:04Okay.

11:04Chloe and Jordan better still,

11:07and they better come on point.

11:08Is Jordan coming?

11:09If it's a guy's thing,

11:10that's the only person we know

11:11that she'll bring.

11:12I heard something.

11:14Me and Chloe had a conversation

11:15on the phone the other day, right?

11:16And she told me that

11:19one of the ladies told her

11:20that Elena was kind of talking

11:22a little mess about her.

11:24And one of the ladies is here right now.

11:27Notoria.

11:28Me?

11:28I don't consider it a mess.

11:33When Elena was at my house,

11:35she legit said that

11:37Chloe talked about Josh not being fine,

11:40and she said Chloe can't get a man like mine.

11:43And that's just what we're saying,

11:47so it's not a mess.

11:48This is a plot twist, baby.

11:50I was trying to go to Kumbaya,

11:52and we have just went to Sin City.

11:54I think we all need to acknowledge

11:55there's a defense wall up with Elena

12:00that probably has nothing to do with us.

12:02I'm a no-drama type of girl,

12:04and I really just want Chloe and Elena

12:07to figure it out.

12:08Maybe they could go to friendship therapy.

12:11So if we was to shift gears from them,

12:15let's talk about Latouria's call.

12:18Well, LaBrina didn't tell you,

12:20but while we was in the jacuzzi,

12:22she kind of challenged me to call.

12:24The rodeo guy.

12:25We're going to happy hour soon for his birthday.

12:29When last time you had sex?

12:30It's been three years.

12:32Well, she said she a child of God.

12:34Manara, you started to be wanting

12:36a child of God for me.

12:37You knew me saying that.

12:38I said it once.

12:39You said it a couple times before.

12:41I said it once.

12:41Okay, twice.

12:43We have this amazing dinner at Hudson House.

12:46It's me, Ro, Chloe, LaBrina, and Manara.

12:49Out of nowhere, Ro starts talking about sex.

12:52Ro asked me, like, what am I doing?

12:55Like, am I dating?

12:57Do I got a man?

12:58And she digs deeper.

13:01Do you have toys?

13:02Do you do this?

13:02And I'm like, girl, I don't do toys.

13:05I just be out here, dried up, like nothing, celibate.

13:14So I tried to deviate and say, hey, girl, I'm a woman of God.

13:20I don't really talk about that stuff.

13:22Not here.

13:23Not over this raw sushi.

13:25Ro is an open book.

13:26But sometimes you have to close the book and leave the library.

13:30Like, this is me.

13:31I'm a woman of God, and, you know, I don't do those type of things.

13:34And I'm like, girl, you done.

13:36You done did something in your day.

13:38You said it to what you make me feel uncomfortable.

13:40Okay, how I make you feel uncomfortable.

13:42Because I feel like I can't be myself.

13:44Like, I have to kind of, like, watch what I say around you.

13:45Because, like, are you going to judge me?

13:46That's crazy.

13:47Because when you stand ten toes down on who you are,

13:49you can be yourself wherever you go.

13:51No, no, no.

13:51It's not about that.

13:52It's not about that.

13:52It's about me making people feel uncomfortable about how I talk.

13:56No, you know, you can never make me feel uncomfortable with how you talk.

13:59I just don't normally talk about sex.

14:01That's just not my thing.

14:03You know, with the Southern Belle and me,

14:08don't really talk about sex a whole bunch with a whole bunch of people.

14:14Like, I don't know.

14:14That's kind of sacred for me.

14:16We got to talk about sex.

14:17I ain't having this, so what is there to talk about?

14:20Yeah.

14:23Coming up, you have that dressing, you know what, face.

14:27All right, well, I get it.

14:29It came off as bully.

14:30It's been a lot going on.

14:31Right.

14:32Do I need to remove myself from the friend group?

14:43Romeo, I can't believe it's your birthday.

14:46Romeo don't have no friends, y'all.

14:48So I'm inviting Latouriel, but I feel like she would understand because she's a dog mom.

14:53So we're going to celebrate this birthday.

14:54You look cute.

14:56Where you going?

14:57Where you coming from?

14:58I'm going to meet up with some friends afterwards.

15:01Oh, nice.

15:02Yes.

15:02Where y'all going?

15:03To the spa again?

15:04Girl, don't do that.

15:05Let me take my shoes off.

15:08I'm taking it personally that I wasn't invited to the spa because I'm like, wait a minute.

15:12I've been dying to go to the escape spa and y'all went without me because of the issue between me and Elena.

15:18Oh, we need some wine.

15:23Please.

15:23Is red okay?

15:24I know that's red.

15:25You know that's what I drink.

15:26Come on, red.

15:28Labrina, you owe me a spa day.

15:30So what happened to the old boy from the rodeo?

15:33Well, when I was at the spa, I talked to him on the phone and Labrina was like, flirt, girl, flirt.

15:38What did he say?

15:39I was like, well, you know, when are we going to grab a drink or something?

15:42And he was like, well, you know, next week I'll be out of town, but the week after that's my birthday.

15:47So that's like two weeks away.

15:50I feel like, where's the urgency?

15:51Baby, I'm talking like tomorrow.

15:53Like, what we doing this week?

15:55What we doing?

15:56Girl, I'm going to stick to my little young man because it's too much going on.

16:02So let me tell you something.

16:05We're at the spa.

16:06We all chatting and Ro goes, I kind of feel like I can't be myself around you.

16:11Ro said that?

16:12Yes, and I said.

16:14As open as you are with her?

16:16Chloe, when I tell you, I just, I'm like, okay.

16:20I said, well, why?

16:21She was like, because that night we all went to dinner.

16:24The conversation was sex, right?

16:26I just don't openly talk about sex.

16:28That's just not me.

16:29So my way of deviating, I was like, grandma, what would have got?

16:32And I just started laughing and then we went on to the next conversation.

16:36Ro tells me that because I said I'm a woman of God.

16:40Like you were judging her or something?

16:42Yeah.

16:43Like, these are some sensitive women, baby.

16:44Chloe.

16:45I ain't never been no women more sensitive than these.

16:48Baby, more sensitive than my eczema.

16:50Do you hear me?

16:51Yes.

16:51Like, what is going on?

16:54Ro and I are two of a kind.

16:55We don't care about what other people think.

16:57So I am very shocked that she feels like she can't be herself around Latoria.

17:01Latoria is the most easygoing person to get along with.

17:04Wow.

17:05Okay.

17:05If you want to talk about your sex life, I'm all ears.

17:08First up, I told you I hadn't had sex in three years.

17:11Yeah.

17:12That was big of me.

17:13I'm sorry.

17:13I know, child.

17:14Help me, Lord.

17:18Baby.

17:19You know?

17:20So that was that.

17:21And I was like, no, like, be yourself.

17:23This is what our friend group is supposed to be about.

17:26So I thought, for me, it really took me back to, like, my childhood where when I was in school,

17:33I couldn't hardly say anything because anything I would say, whether it was funny, whether it was true or whatever, it came off as bully.

17:39You know why?

17:40Because I was the big girl in the class.

17:41And that looked aggressive.

17:43And it's like, whoa.

17:45You know, growing up, being dark-skinned, being a bigger person than most that's in the room, you have to kind of fine-tune your words.

17:54But as I've gotten older, I've healed.

17:57And I don't want to step on eggshells around people.

17:59I want to just be myself and be understood.

18:02To be amongst friends and to not be received and to be misunderstood, that also makes me feel some type of way.

18:10Because it's like, ooh, okay.

18:13There's been a lot going on.

18:14Right.

18:14Do I need to remove myself from the friend group?

18:16No, you're not going nowhere.

18:18You can't please everybody.

18:19Oh, and I won't.

18:21For real.

18:22And you mean well every time.

18:24Oh, you know I mean well.

18:24Like, it's...

18:25Ain't no shade in your...

18:26Now, you can be a little funny.

18:28You know, it's funny, but it's like nobody wants to see me turn it up a notch.

18:32I thought LaToria was a woman.

18:34I thought she was classy and cutesy.

18:37Surprise, surprise, bitch.

18:39I gotcha.

18:55Hello.

18:56Hey, girl.

18:56Now, you been doing everything good?

18:59Yeah.

19:00You want some juice?

19:00You want something else?

19:01Some apple juice?

19:02Some apple juice.

19:03You crazy.

19:04When she come over here, I'm going to have some apple juice.

19:06Girl, that's going to be too funny.

19:08And be like, here you go.

19:10Like, I promise, I'm so fun.

19:12Like, I don't really take a lot of stuff.

19:13I know you are.

19:14I don't take a lot of stuff personal, but when we were at the spa, the little comments kept

19:19coming out about the way I look.

19:21I get it.

19:21I do look young.

19:22It's the fact that every single time I see you, you're talking about, ooh, girl, you look

19:2711 today.

19:28You look 12 today.

19:30Or get her some apple juice.

19:31And it's like, okay, the joke is done.

19:33Like, move on to something else.

19:35Right.

19:36I'm a bigger girl, right?

19:37I've been taller, and my butt's been big my whole life since I was probably like 12.

19:41You know?

19:41So I've always had to deal with people saying, oh, oh my God, your butt is so big.

19:45Or, oh my God, you're so tall.

19:46And it's like, okay, like, what else?

19:48Right.

19:48Like, I get it.

19:49My butt's big.

19:50My breasts are big.

19:51I'm tall.

19:51Whatever, right?

19:52The opposite of that is someone telling you all the time that you're small or that you

19:55look young, right?

19:57It's like, it could be a trigger that might, maybe not even like a trigger, but something

19:59that makes you be like, all right, well, I get it.

20:02And what else?

20:03Right.

20:03But subconsciously, I don't know.

20:06Maybe I'm irritated because when I was working in a workforce, I have to keep proving myself

20:10because the fact I look so young, and I have authority over a lot of people, and they can't

20:15get past that age that I look like.

20:18And a lot of times, they end up talking to me like I'm a child, even though I'm a grown-ass

20:21woman.

20:22So, Kieran Latoya referred to me as a child, and it was just something I just had to let

20:26her know, okay, girl, that's enough.

20:28That smile you just had, you probably did that smile when you told her that, too.

20:31Y'all be saying I be making faces, and I just be looking like,

20:33what are y'all talking about?

20:34How you don't know the faces you make?

20:35I don't know.

20:36And yes, ma'am, you make facial expressions.

20:38Just like you have that face that we all told you, that resting you-know-what face.

20:43RBS?

20:44Yeah.

20:44Is it bad?

20:45Sometimes.

20:46You just have this face that you're like...

20:48What's the face look like?

20:49Show it to me.

20:49Let me see.

20:53Right?

20:55Coming up...

20:56This is your first time coming to therapy, right?

20:58Yeah, this is my first time.

20:59The thing is, with you being the way you are, it is going to move away those people that

21:05are being inauthentic.

21:06You never know when the chips gon' fall.

21:21It's why you gotta roll, why you gotta roll to the wheels for love.

21:26I realized after talking to Munira that, I mean, all of us have triggers, right?

21:32And I have never been to therapy in my life, but a lot of the ladies have recommended therapy

21:36for me, so yeah, I'm like, well, maybe they telling me something.

21:40Maybe this is God talking to me.

21:41God trying to tell you something.

21:42So I asked Elena about her therapist, and I just went ahead and booked.

21:46Hello.

21:47Nice to meet you.

21:49Come on in.

21:50Take a seat right here.

21:51I still was apprehensive about it, but, you know, I'm just on a different journey now.

21:54You know, I just want to actually, like, step outside my own box and do something different

21:57to help myself.

21:58So this is your first time coming to therapy, right?

22:00Yeah, this is my first time.

22:01How are you feeling today?

22:03You know, a little uncomfortable, but I'm here, you know.

22:06All right.

22:07Well, just know that everything we talk about is up to you.

22:10I'm not going to force you to talk about anything you don't want to talk about.

22:13If you do feel uncomfortable or you feel like, hey, I'm not ready to talk about that,

22:17just make sure you let me know.

22:19So this is for you, this is tailored to you, and I want you to be comfortable as much as

22:24you can, okay?

22:25Okay.

22:26What is it that you hope to gain from this experience?

22:31Like, the type of stuff I go through, I feel like, it's like, who do I talk to about it?

22:36In my regular life, in my business life, in my, like, even my mentors, like, it's just,

22:40I think it's certain things I go through that I just don't have nobody to talk to it about

22:44because, like, you're always so busy, you always put everybody before you, just who do you talk to?

22:47But you just said you put a lot of people before you.

22:51People see what you're doing.

22:52People see that you are sacrificing yourself all the time.

22:55Do you understand why you do that?

22:56Do you know where that comes from?

22:57I just put everything before me all the time, and I never really known that I did that until

23:04I was sitting in therapy.

23:06I just, I always take everything on the chin and just keep moving because, I mean, it's

23:16like, I'm not able to have feelings, you know?

23:18So, when it comes to work, my career has been before everything.

23:23I can feel it right now.

23:24I can feel that your energy is like, I compartmentalize my life, like, over here.

23:28This is work, this is, you know, motherhood, this is being a family, and you keep them very

23:35separate.

23:35I do, yeah.

23:36But they all mesh, and when they're meshing together, it sounds like it probably makes

23:40you very uncomfortable.

23:42My relationship with Sophia was in a bad space because me sacrificing time with my child for

23:47my career.

23:48Even times I come home and I'm stressed out, and Sophia says, I'm like, Sophia, get out of

23:52my face, leave me alone, like, I just need some time.

23:54And then I think to myself, damn, she ain't saw me all day.

23:56I go, and I'm like, baby, come here, I'm sorry.

23:58Like, me's telling my child sorry.

23:59See, but you telling her you're sorry, yeah.

24:01Yeah, it's like big, because I can't even remember a time anybody ever told me sorry

24:05in my house, you know what I'm saying, growing up.

24:07Realizing, like, the love and the forgiveness, and even the fact that you're telling her sorry

24:11at this young age is something that's going to be permanent for her and for the rest

24:15of your life, so you're inserting these things in her that you never had.

24:18You are trying to break what has happened to you as best as you can.

24:22I've been through a lot in my life, and I don't like to trauma dump on people, because

24:28I feel like I go through more than anybody else around me, right?

24:31And I don't want my life to affect the people around me.

24:34I don't want anybody to get hurt from being around me.

24:36I just try to just keep everything to myself.

24:39And in this moment, I'm thinking to myself, like, wow, I'm burying myself and all my problems

24:45when I could just talk about them.

24:47In therapy, you want to live your authentic self, you got to practice that in every single

24:52space, especially with your daughter, because you are the first picture of a woman for her.

24:59Right.

24:59And she's learning from you.

25:01So if you are constantly taking on and putting on different hats for different groups, she's

25:06going to learn to do that.

25:07She's going to learn to mask.

25:09So this feeling authentic, it probably feels like you shouldn't be doing that.

25:13Like uncomfortable?

25:14Yeah.

25:15Yeah, sometimes.

25:16Like, even with the group of ladies that we have, like, I had a conversation that day.

25:18I was like, I feel like I'm the eyeball out of everybody, right?

25:20Like, I don't have anything to hide.

25:22My life has been on Front Street for years now, right?

25:26So, like, I can't even hide if I want to see, honestly.

25:28Because of that, I'm more comfortable with being who I am truly and not trying to hide

25:32and, like, have this mask.

25:33And when I have conversations with the ladies sometimes, I feel somewhat uncomfortable

25:38because I feel like I'm being myself and this is who I am.

25:41And you're like, well, this is just how I am.

25:45Like, I just, you know, like, it's like a thing.

25:47And, like, that's what made me feel uncomfortable with the girls.

25:49Like, not all of them, but there's Latoya.

25:52She's a publicist and she's single as well.

25:55But she's, like, stuck-up single to me.

25:58What do you mean by that?

25:59Like, we were talking about sex one day.

26:00She was like, oh, I don't do that.

26:01I go to church and I'm a woman of God and I felt like she was judgmental.

26:05That's a moment.

26:06See, because the thing is what I'm trying to help you see is you being yourself is, like,

26:10a gift to other people.

26:12But the thing is, with you being the way you are, it is going to move away those people

26:17that are being inauthentic.

26:19You'll make inauthentic people uncomfortable.

26:21Right.

26:22I do feel like everything I say is, like, I have to, like, watch what I say because I'm

26:27being super real and everybody else is being, you know, they have their mask on.

26:33People try to live up to what people want them to be and, like, what they think they should

26:38be.

26:38But you got to take that mask off sometime and, like, just be yourself.

26:41I want to have you challenge yourself in the next couple weeks.

26:44You tell me about this group of ladies that you're around and when you're with them or

26:49when you're talking with them.

26:50Find yourself in them and connect with that part of them.

26:54Find yourself in them and it's going to make each relationship authentic but really tailored

27:01to you.

27:01Coming up.

27:05Oh, this is Jordan.

27:06Y'all never met Jordan.

27:07I forgot.

27:08Jordan walked in.

27:09All the ladies, jaws dropped to the floor.

27:11Merry ones and all.

27:12You have a tendency that I've noticed every single time I come around is, oh, you look 11.

27:18Oh, you drinking apple juice.

27:19And you start saying it consistently over and over again.

27:22I said it twice.

27:22You said it way more than that.

27:23No, no, no, no.

27:24It was every, no.

27:26Am I tripping?

27:41So who all you have coming?

27:43All the girls.

27:44Ro, Chloe, Elena, Manira, Latoria.

27:48I'm inviting the ladies over for just kind of hanging, kicking our feet up, bringing our

27:53spouses together.

27:54It'll ease tension.

27:56And baby in Houston, we love crawfish.

28:03How's it coming?

28:05How long we got?

28:06It smell good.

28:08Hey, girl.

28:10Oh, she looking fine.

28:12Hey, y'all.

28:13Girl.

28:14She's out so country.

28:17How's it going?

28:19Look at you.

28:21She pretty.

28:22Hi.

28:22Hey.

28:27Where's your drink?

28:28We a couple today, so we are plus one right here.

28:30Not for long.

28:31It's okay.

28:32It's actually nothing wrong with being solo.

28:35Uh-uh.

28:35No.

28:36One husband, two husbands, three husbands.

28:37Y'all got three friends somewhere.

28:40Hey.

28:41How y'all doing, Chloe?

28:42Hi.

28:44Y'all look bored.

28:45The party's here.

28:46We can turn up.

28:47Now we look bored.

28:49Uh-uh, girl.

28:49You late.

28:50At least you married gifts.

28:52So I'm like, oh, okay.

28:55This is her take on what's fine to her.

28:59Hmm.

29:01Okay.

29:02I guess.

29:03What did I miss y'all?

29:04What y'all been doing?

29:05So we just was waiting to see if Jordan was fine tonight.

29:07What y'all think?

29:09Yes or no?

29:10The verdict is in?

29:12What is it?

29:13Oh, we already know he's fine.

29:15Flip them down.

29:15Chloe arrives with her boo.

29:17And I will say, I had nothing bad to say about him.

29:20I love a little vanilla chocolate moment.

29:22Okay, Chloe.

29:23I see you.

29:24I see you.

29:25Chloe, you did good.

29:27I did good.

29:28You did good.

29:28Thank you, LaSoria.

29:29You did good.

29:30You are a publicist, baby.

29:30You have been around the best of the best.

29:32Child.

29:32I know you know.

29:34Okay, Chloe, I get it.

29:35I see why you acting the way you do.

29:37He's looking like a Nubian prince.

29:39Tall, dark, handsome chocolate.

29:41Girl, he look good.

29:42Y'all eat yet?

29:43Not yet.

29:44We was waiting on you.

29:45What a problem.

29:46They over there, baby.

29:46They done cooking.

29:47You so late.

29:48When Jordan walked in, all the ladies' jaws dropped to the floor, baby.

29:53Merry ones and all.

29:54Elena, y'all look like a photo shoot.

29:56You're glowing.

29:57Am I?

29:57You're glowing.

29:59It's her son.

30:00I'm sitting towards her son.

30:00No, no, no.

30:01It's you.

30:01You're glowing.

30:02I hadn't seen you smile like this, and it warms my heart.

30:05So let me ask y'all this, because I know y'all been together for a while.

30:09Mm-hmm.

30:09Chloe does weddings, which I ever think about, like, renewing y'all vows.

30:13What do y'all think?

30:15This is super awkward.

30:17Elena don't want to engage in this type of activity.

30:21We know what she's going through.

30:23We cannot put them on display like that in this very moment.

30:27Like, do better, guys.

30:30We got to do better.

30:31The next huge milestone.

30:32Yeah.

30:33I thought you was about to say next week.

30:35Damn.

30:35Leave it alone.

30:36Latoya, you over here talking about, you know, you're a woman of God, and you like, you

30:41got a little devil in you.

30:42Girl, mind your business.

30:44Come on.

30:45What will be the occasion for next week?

30:47This is a milestone for you.

30:49Um, I mean, to be honest with you, like, 20 would be huge.

30:53For you.

30:53I hope.

30:55I get a big vow renewal at a major milestone, but what I've gone through and dealt with,

31:00I think I would want my spouse saying immediately just wasn't enough.

31:08I got some good news, y'all.

31:16The conference are ready.

31:17They ain't got to tell me, Bryce.

31:20I see y'all over here.

31:21Oh, my gosh.

31:25That looks so good.

31:26I'm looking at you.

31:27I'm looking at you, baby boy.

31:28You know, he was a baby boy.

31:28I'm looking at you.

31:29I'm looking at you.

31:29Mmm, my gosh.

31:33This food is top notch.

31:35I didn't get this one number.

31:37Yeah.

31:38You so fancy.

31:40You sport on the table?

31:41How y'all found him?

31:41I'm a brainer.

31:43He do all of our crawfish balls.

31:45Oh, my God.

31:46Thank you for having us out here, too.

31:48Y'all so welcome.

31:50So, not to be off topic, but I want to go back to what we were talking about initially.

31:55And Josh mentioned, like, at the 20-year mark.

31:57Why not at the 15?

31:59Because for the 10-year, we were supposed to go to, like, South Africa, and it was COVID.

32:0420 years ain't guaranteed.

32:06You know what I'm saying?

32:07And your 20-year renewal, the stuff I done been through, I feel like, don't put anything off

32:11for tomorrow and do today.

32:13Like, you ain't got to do nothing fancy.

32:15Girl, I got married at the courthouse in a Fashion Nova dress.

32:17I ain't mad at it.

32:19It was about love.

32:20That's it.

32:20I'm happy that Josh has decided to go to individual therapy, but I hope that Josh understands

32:26the level of effort that I need in order to move forward.

32:29But I honestly feel like I've been in the same space for a very long time.

32:32I want to beat you at this time.

32:33We got married in Jamaica.

32:34Girl, they went and went viral before viral was viral.

32:36It did before viral was a thing.

32:38You had destination, right?

32:40Our wedding was beautiful.

32:41We got married in Napa.

32:42Y'all had a lot of people there.

32:44The Negroes and Negates was in Napa, baby.

32:47It was crazy.

32:48Y'all look like money out there.

32:49I love it.

32:49But that was the thing.

32:51They knew how to steal.

32:52It was a standard.

32:52Your standard.

32:53My girl got a standard.

32:54The standard is the standard.

32:56You know what I'm saying?

32:57The standard is always the standard.

33:00If I marry Jordan, it's going to be the same thing.

33:04Chloe, would you be ready to marry him?

33:06I'm ready to be married again tomorrow, if I could be.

33:14I love being married.

33:15Slow down.

33:16I care about Chloe.

33:18Man, that man's so intentional about me, child.

33:20Yeah.

33:21Let's see.

33:22Let's see.

33:23Considering everything that's going on, you know, Chloe has been through a tremendous amount

33:29of grief.

33:29Losing a husband is crazy.

33:31Raising your kids by yourself.

33:33Intense.

33:34I need to make sure that Jordan's ammo is in the right place.

33:40Like, what's your intentions?

33:42We got married when we were 23, 24.

33:44So we understand that there could be maturity there.

33:48But where I am right now, I can't imagine dating someone younger.

33:54Right.

33:55Just simply because...

33:57Don't knock it till you try it.

33:58But I'm saying, I've always dated older.

34:01Since I started dating, everybody I've dated has been older than me.

34:05So dating younger was never my thing.

34:07I'd be like, a young dude can't do nothing.

34:08I think me personally, I'm just not...

34:09I'm serious, so...

34:10Me too.

34:11I mean, I don't know.

34:15Just the thought of it.

34:16But everybody's in their own phase at different times.

34:19But talking to me, would you think I was 28?

34:22I would have.

34:23I would say like 25.

34:24You know, because I was 25?

34:26You thought he was 25?

34:27That's a compliment.

34:27I mean, but...

34:28Damn.

34:29Girl, I looked at him, I was like, this boy,

34:31I've never been a 33.

34:32You definitely get mature.

34:34This is weird.

34:34Yeah, it's a mature vibe, but it ain't a bad vibe.

34:37Yeah.

34:38Yeah.

34:39You thought 25?

34:40There's guys like that in high school.

34:43That look like that.

34:45Elena, we are not in high school.

34:48That's a grown-ass man.

34:50We don't play games.

34:56Y'all, it's time to turn up.

34:58We're only right.

34:59We shake it, then we throw it, then we throw it.

35:00Yeah!

35:01Cheers.

35:02You want a soda?

35:02I mean, are you going to drink today?

35:04Are you chilling?

35:04Nah, I'm going to chill.

35:06Come on.

35:06Jordan, let's talk.

35:08Let me see if this guy is good for Chloe,

35:11just to make sure it's not all just six and games.

35:14Chloe speaks so, so, so highly of you.

35:17And I'm just basically trying to see

35:20if you, like, feel that same way about her, too.

35:23For sure.

35:24Without a doubt, yeah.

35:24And you can see yourself with her, like, in the future.

35:26Yeah, I didn't cut out everything for her.

35:30Yeah.

35:31Mm, it's tasty.

35:32Where's Jordan?

35:34Like, I mean, I'd be crazy to, like,

35:35just sit up here and try to waste her time,

35:36waste my time.

35:37I mean, she didn't bring her kid into my life.

35:39I didn't bring my kid into her life, you know what I mean?

35:40So it's like, it's like, I feel like we're on a different level.

35:44Oh, I was looking for Jordan.

35:45Y'all good?

35:46Yeah, I'm just trying to make sure he value you

35:49like you value him.

35:50That's right.

35:51Take care of it for me, LaBrina.

35:53Yeah.

35:53Okay.

35:55LaBrina's kind of tough.

35:57So, in the back of my mind, I'm a little worried,

35:59but I'm not worried, if you will,

36:01because I know LaBrina has my best interest.

36:03So she gonna make sure that Jordan is ready for this ride.

36:06This is not like a play toy, just a girl.

36:08Like, you can see family.

36:11She wanna have more kids.

36:11I know she do, yeah.

36:12It's just the age thing.

36:13That's the main thing.

36:14We had that conversation, so.

36:16Well, I mean, judge, the judge is finished.

36:20I think Jordan has good intentions for Khloe.

36:23Do I think he will be able to execute those good intentions?

36:28Probably not, because he's 17 years younger.

36:31He hasn't lived enough life.

36:33I don't know.

36:34We will see what happens.

36:36So, I started therapy.

36:49Oh, good.

36:50Because all y'all told me I needed therapy.

36:51Right.

36:52Girl, we gotta fix some stuff.

36:53Do you feel better after you went?

36:56Yeah, it was cool.

36:57She, she...

36:58You like her?

36:59I do like her.

37:00Like, baby?

37:00Y'all wanna know what my homework is?

37:02It's about y'all.

37:03Okay.

37:06What?

37:07Do I wanna tell what happened in my session?

37:09Yeah.

37:09This is the same thing.

37:11No judgment.

37:12I'm feeling like how hard it is for me to have female relationships.

37:15Then I said stuff I felt like I was kinda weird about y'all, too.

37:17Not everybody, but some people.

37:19My homework is to figure out what each one of y'all have that I, uh, I guess, like...

37:25Can connect with?

37:26Can help me connect with you.

37:27Aw, it's beautiful.

37:28I like that.

37:29Yeah.

37:29Let me just say, I feel like you're opening up more.

37:31And even, you know, the other day at the spa where you was like, so I just, I just gotta

37:35let you know I feel like you holier than thou or whatever the case.

37:38That's obviously some, a part of you opening up.

37:40It made me feel like, like, I can't be myself.

37:43Like, if I say this and she gonna be like, well, girl, the Lord.

37:45I'm like, I love the Lord.

37:46Well, too.

37:46Had I ever said that?

37:48I never said the Lord said anything to you.

37:50No, no.

37:50You, you opening, right.

37:52No, but you said, you made a comment one day, like, I'm, I'm a woman.

37:55What you said?

37:55I said I'm a child of God.

37:57A child of God, that's what it was.

37:58No, I said I'm a woman of God.

37:59And so the reason I say it was, it was a joking thing.

38:02Like, I ain't know, because, you know, we getting to learn each other.

38:03Right.

38:04So I was like, should I not say this ever?

38:05But I laughed.

38:06I don't remember you laughing.

38:08I remember you being like, girl, I'm a child of God.

38:09Girl, no.

38:10I'm a woman of God, stop it.

38:11No, never that.

38:12I don't want to make nobody feel uncomfortable.

38:13No, I'm not.

38:13That's my thing.

38:14If I was uncomfortable, I would tell you.

38:16Oh, okay.

38:16Like, like how I told Chloe, like, I think you made Elena uncomfortable.

38:21Oh, yeah, yeah.

38:22I did, yeah.

38:22Speaking of uncomfortable, just how you corrected her when she said a child of God,

38:27and you was like, no, I'm a woman of God.

38:29But you have a tendency that I've noticed every single time I come around is,

38:34oh, you look 11.

38:35Oh, you look 12.

38:36Oh, you drinking apple juice.

38:38And it's like, the first couple times, it was okay.

38:40Like, key, key, key.

38:41We both laughing about it.

38:42But when you start saying it consistently over and over again.

38:45I said it twice.

38:46You said it way more than that.

38:47No, no, no, no.

38:48It was every, no, you said it multiple times.

38:50At the end of the day, I'm not 11.

38:52It's okay that I don't drink alcohol.

38:54It's okay that I choose to drink juice.

38:56It's definitely fine.

38:56But what I'm saying is, when you consistently have a comment to say,

39:00oh, you drinking juice today.

39:01Oh, Manera gonna get the apple juice.

39:03After a while, it's like, can you come up with another joke?

39:06You get what I'm saying?

39:07I won't come up with no jokes with you.

39:09This is not to say that you can't joke.

39:11What I'm saying is, you didn't stop after it was said, though.

39:14That's all I'm trying to bring to your attention.

39:16You said, I don't look 11.

39:18And I said, okay, double 11, 22.

39:20That was still a compliment to you.

39:22We don't have to go back and forth about the details.

39:25But what I'm saying is, you're saying it's a compliment.

39:27But the tone that you spoke, that's coming across the shade.

39:31Am I tripping?

39:32When, if somebody gonna tell you, oh, you 11 today.

39:34We can agree to disagree, because I'm kind of done with it.

39:41It gets tiring having the same conversations with her over and over again.

39:44And no matter what I say, I feel like she just doesn't get that.

39:48Y'all go to the bar.

39:50We're gonna go to the bar real quick.

39:50Right.

39:51Let's go to the horses.

39:54Girl, bye.

39:54I'm not with the attack Latouria.

39:58So can I, let me tell you my opinion of my thought.

40:00She's a smaller woman.

40:02Right.

40:02She does look younger than she used to, you know, then.

40:04She doesn't look like she's close to 40.

40:06No, she doesn't.

40:07But you don't know what she went through as her being a small woman.

40:10Like, people saying maybe she looks, she probably lived with her whole life some more.

40:13Right.

40:13You know, she looked, now that she's older, it's a compliment.

40:15Maybe as her growing up, they want to compliment.

40:17Yeah.

40:17You know what I'm saying?

40:18So you don't know what it triggered in her to make her feel like that.

40:21You know what I'm saying?

40:22I get you.

40:22Girl.

40:22I hear everything you're saying.

40:23I get you.

40:24That's all I'm saying.

40:25That's the point y'all was trying to make up.

40:26So if it's a, I just want to do it no more.

40:29No, Tori, I don't want you to shut down.

40:31No.

40:31You've drunk two those, right?

40:33Yep.

40:33Let's do a shot first.

40:34Let's do that.

40:35I don't want you.

40:36No, that's enough.

40:37No, you're saying you want to do this.

40:39I'll take a shot with you.

40:40But you know what I'm saying?

40:41I want y'all to actually, like, get an understanding of it.

40:44Because I feel like I go through this too.

40:45Me and Manira was on a good page.

40:46I feel like Manira saw a target and she went for it.

40:50Next time.

40:55How I feel about you now is going to be the same in 15.

40:58You sure about that?

40:59I wouldn't make us feel new with me.

41:00You can't keep providing for him.

41:03You do not like being called cute.

41:05It's not the word.

41:06It's that word.

41:07I'm being for real right now.

41:08No, you don't like the word.

41:09Okay.

41:09I know I look young.

41:11You don't.

41:11She's just like, ugh.

41:14If you want to bring a new friend and we want to ask her questions, we can ask her questions.

41:16And I'm here for all the questions because I have the receipts.

41:19This right here, this is crazy.

41:20You printed this out.

41:21Bitch, it's no weird.

41:22Bitch?

41:22Yeah.

41:22Bitch?

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