Cosa fare se lei non ti scrive più

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00:00Here we are. How many times have you found yourself in this situation? It almost seems like a scene.

00:08already seen, a script that repeats itself. You are there, immersed in your thoughts, maybe in a

00:15It's an ordinary day, and everything seems calm. But inside you, something is moving, a little

00:21a worm that's starting to make itself felt. There's a girl you like, you've written to each other

00:27days. Everything seemed to be going great. Each message was a little burst of

00:32Happiness. Every answer was a reason to smile. It almost felt like you'd found a connection.

00:38special, something that finally broke the monotony of the usual conversations. Then,

00:45Suddenly, nothing. Silence. No notifications, no signals. As if everything was

00:54It was turned off in an instant. Leaving you alone with your expectations. You stare at the empty chat,

01:01updating every 30 seconds. While your mind races with questions and doubts. You wonder

01:07if you said something wrong, if you exaggerated, if perhaps it would have been better not to send

01:12That last message. It's a tragic comedy we all know. First panic, then anxiety.

01:18You feel almost ridiculous, but you can't stop thinking about it. Every minute that passes,

01:25It seems like an eternity. You reread the messages, looking for errors. You wonder if you messed up something.

01:32You analyze every word, every emoji, as if you could find the answer hidden between the lines. But the

01:38The truth is that her silence often has more to do with her than with you. Maybe she's having a bad day.

01:45difficult, maybe she's just distracted, or maybe she's reflecting on her priorities.

01:51His life doesn't revolve around your chats. He has his own commitments, his own thoughts. And you can't.

01:58control everything that happens on the other side of the screen. Accepting this is the first step to

02:05Stop acting like a child whose toy has been stolen. It's an act of maturity,

02:11of respect towards yourself and towards the other person. In this video we will dismantle this

02:18mental block. We'll analyze the reasons for silence and I'll give you a practical strategy to

02:24handle the situation with dignity. You will learn not to be overwhelmed by anxiety and to maintain

02:30Control your emotions. Because ultimately, the most important person in this story is you.

02:37And the true silence that makes noise is the one that teaches you to know yourself better, to grow and not

02:44depend on the attention of others to feel good about yourself. Before you get caught up in the

02:52Panic, stop and use logic. Why does someone stop writing? The reasons are often

03:00banal. Maybe she's just busy with work, school, friends, personal problems. You're not her priority.

03:0824-7, especially at the beginning. Sometimes he's testing the waters, he wants to see if you're

03:16independent or clingy. If you react with anxiety, you lose points. If you live your life, you gain value.

03:24his eyes. Or he's meeting other people. It's normal, not a tragedy. And yes, he may also have

03:32lost interest. It happens for no apparent reason. Understanding these dynamics helps you avoid it.

03:40On a personal level. Let's face our biggest fear, and what if she doesn't care anymore? It hurts, but it doesn't diminish.

03:51Your worth. Attraction isn't an exact science. Sometimes the spark just doesn't fly.

03:59And that's okay. Think about how many times it's happened to you? It's nobody's fault. Often it's not a mistake.

04:07specific, but a series of small things. Or the conversation dying out. Never ask her, you

04:14I'm still interested. It's pathetic and counterproductive. If his silence is due to disinterest, respond with yours.

04:22Silence. Your dignity is worth more than a forced response. Often the explanation is simple. His life

04:34Real has gotten in the way. She has commitments, responsibilities, priorities that don't include you yet. Maybe it's

04:41You're overwhelmed by work, exams, and personal problems. You too have days when you don't answer.

04:47Right away to the messages, right? Silence is not always a message for you, but the symptom of a period

04:55intense. Don't interpret everything through the filter of your ego. If you were enthusiastic before and now

05:02She disappears, she's probably just busy. In these cases, patience is your best weapon.

05:11What to do when she disappears? The golden rule: Do nothing. It's not passivity, but active silence.

05:20Spend time on yourself, not staring at your phone. Go out, exercise, work, pursue your passions.

05:27Distract yourself. This helps you stay calm and shows that you have a full life. This makes you more

05:35attractive and gives her space. How long should it last? At least 3-5 days. If she was just distracted, she'll do it.

05:43alive. If not, you can make a move, but intelligently. Don't ignore her to punish her, but to

05:52Preserve your dignity. Silence, used well, communicates security. And security is the foundation.

06:00of every healthy relationship. After a few days of active silence, when you feel it's time

06:08Right, you can write first. There's no rush. Take the time you need to find your way again.

06:16Serenity and clarity. Remember, active silence is not a punishment, but a space for reflection.

06:24and put yourself back at the center. When you decide to write, do it with intention and awareness,

06:31but do it lightly, without anxiety or reproaches. The tone of the message must be calm, almost like

06:39If you're writing to a friend you haven't heard from in a while, avoid conveying pressure or expectations.

06:47The key is naturalness. Nothing, hey, are you okay? Or, did I do something to you? These messages risk

06:57appear unsure or put the other person on the defensive. Avoid questions that sound like a check.

07:04or a request for explanations. Send a light message, perhaps referring to something you have in

07:11common, like an inside joke, a shared memory, or a passion that binds you. This

07:17This type of message creates complicity and makes the other person feel at ease. Example: I saw

07:24That director you like has released a new film. I thought of you. A message like that shows.

07:31attention and interest, without being intrusive. Or, I was listening to that song you were talking about

07:38You, I hope you're not burning dinner. A touch of irony and lightheartedness can make the difference and

07:45Break the ice. After sending the message, return to your active silence. Don't wait anxiously.

07:53the answer. Don't stay glued to the screen. Show that your life goes on, regardless.

08:00What happens? If he responds enthusiastically, that's great. It means there's still interest and openness.

08:09You can continue the conversation calmly, without rushing things. If he responds coldly,

08:16detached or even not responding at all, you have your answer. There's no need to insist or try.

08:23Explanations. Sometimes silence speaks louder than words. Accept it with dignity and move on.

08:31Don't let a lack of response affect your mood or your self-esteem. Your serenity comes

08:38First of all, don't check your phone every five minutes. Avoid falling into the trap.

08:45of digital obsession. Your life doesn't stop waiting for a message. You've done your

08:51move. Now it's her turn. Dedicate your time to what makes you feel good. Cultivate your passions and

08:59Let things take their natural course. If nothing comes, delete the chat and think about yourself.

09:06same. Start again with yourself, because the real control is the one you exercise over your happiness and your

09:13Well-being. Here's what you shouldn't do. First, don't double-message. If he doesn't respond, don't bother.

09:24No questions like, "Why aren't you answering?" Or, if you don't want to hear from me anymore, just tell me. Don't play the victim.

09:32Don't use guilt. You don't owe her anything. And she doesn't owe you anything. Don't involve yourself on social media.

09:39No likes on his old photos. No suggestive comments. No melancholy statuses.

09:46This behavior is stalker-like, not adult-like. If she walks away, you respect her.

09:53Your choice, even online. Show that your life goes on, peaceful and fulfilling. Dignity comes first.

09:59Text bombing is the worst mistake. Flooding her with messages only communicates anxiety, insecurity and

10:10need. Every notification becomes a nuisance to her, not a pleasure. So you push her away,

10:17Even if she was just busy before. One message at a time. Send, wait, don't insist. If you sell out

10:25Your attention loses value. Control your impulses. Put down the phone. Breathe. Your dignity is gone.

10:33she will thank you and you will increase your chances, with her or with the next one.

10:41We've reached the end of this journey together. Take a moment to breathe.

10:47Deeply reflect on what you have learned. The most important lesson you can

10:53Taking it with you is about yourself, not her or anyone else. It's an inner journey,

11:01not a competition with others. If his silence sends you into a crisis, it means that you are entrusting

11:07Your peace of mind and your worth in someone else's hands. Remember, your happiness is not

11:14It should never depend on a response or a message. You are worth it regardless of his

11:20messages. Cultivate your interests, your passions, and dedicate time to what makes you feel good.

11:26Alive and fulfilled. Become the best version of yourself for yourself, not to impress anyone.

11:34Grow, learn, improve every day, just for the pleasure of doing so. The more your life is filled with

11:41experiences, authentic relationships and moments of joy, the less time and energy you will have to waste

11:48in obsessive thoughts and useless worries. People are naturally attracted to those who are

11:55happy, confident and passionate about their life, not someone anxiously waiting for a message

12:02or lives in uncertainty. If he comes back, it will be because he has seen your value. If he doesn't come back, all the better.

12:10You will have space and time for those who truly appreciate you and want you in their life without reservations. Stop

12:16Torment yourself with useless thoughts and let go of what you can't control. Get out,

12:23Live, meet new people, enjoy every moment and rediscover the beauty in the little things.

12:30Remember, the right person will come along when you're too busy trying to be happy to

12:36desperately seeking it. Your peace of mind is the greatest gift you can give yourself.

12:46Thank you.

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