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00:00Previously on open house. I'm really excited. I'm nervous. I'm scared.
00:08How's it going? Scared! I can feel him shaking. I have fantasized many times about seeing Johnny
00:17with a female. We've gone along to these swingers parties. When it actually comes to the crunch,
00:22we just sort of... You can't close the deal. Yes! We can help.
00:30It just wasn't what we talked about. No, it's not. But nothing goes to plan,
00:33is it? Let's be honest. Your relationship's at stake, to lose it,
00:37would be to lose everything. I haven't experienced anything with a girl,
00:40so I am a bit curious as well.
00:44I really want him to relax. I want him to enjoy it.
00:48I'm literally ready to go, like, oh, I'll fucking see you later.
00:52What do you think about the idea of a morsome?
00:55Okay. We come in for a girl. We never came here for this.
01:00I know of a lovely year to cross. So, imagine multiple people in the
01:04same room having sex. It's pretty scary, a bit daunting.
01:08Get on the clitoris couch. Clitoris couch.
01:13Right now, I'm feeling anxious. Far too many people in that room for me.
01:17Come on. We're going to have a lot to go.
01:20Just like, what? And it just hit me. It's just hit me.
01:23I am struggling with it.
01:33Tell me how you feel. I've got, like, 10 people in there, and I'm like,
01:3710 horny people in there. They're like, it's scaring me.
01:41Oh, yeah. There you go.
01:43Sarah and Johnny are attempting to open up by experiencing their first ever orgy.
01:48But Johnny is on the brink. It's all been amazing. Yeah.
01:52But it's overwhelming. I can't really enjoy myself.
01:54You don't want to pursue. Is that what you're saying?
01:56Right. It's not that I don't want to pursue a thing.
01:58If we don't do it now, then I don't think we're ever going to.
02:01He's naturally going to be a bit nervous, but we just need to crack on and get it done.
02:08It's a big, big thing for me. Baby, listen, don't, like, don't worry.
02:12I'm so happy that you've sped your mind to me. Yeah.
02:14You've not kept any of this to yourself.
02:16I think my goal, do you think, might be too much for them?
02:18I don't feel like you're getting bored.
02:21There's definitely too many people in that room for me.
02:24It's a scary scenario for a mum.
02:26So what are we going to do about that?
02:29It is intense. It is scary because there's loads of us and, like, you know, two of them.
02:38How are you guys doing? We're good. We just had a little chat.
02:44A little debrief. Yeah, debrief.
02:49You're all amazing.
02:54We had a talk and we'd rather, like, have a little bit more intimacy with a few less people.
03:00That's fair enough.
03:01We'd like to ask a couple of people to stay if that's okay with you.
03:07Hopefully they might want to take that step further.
03:10Yeah, we've definitely got a little bit of a keen eye on them, so hopefully it does go further.
03:16Don't want to offend any of you.
03:19We'd like to spend a bit of time with Jen and Mark and Gracie, if she would stay with us, you know.
03:24I think I'm available.
03:27No offence to any of you, it's just that I'm so overwhelmed with it all.
03:31It's like, wow, it's massive for me.
03:32The main thing is that you have fun.
03:35Cheers, guys!
03:37Cheers!
03:39Have the best time.
03:43Have a great time.
03:45Weird, isn't it?
03:46Fuckers!
03:47There you go.
03:48OK, then, well, do you guys want to start us off with the dice?
03:54Yeah.
04:01Breasts, my choice.
04:04This is lovely.
04:05Yeah? Thank you.
04:05We're both okay with that?
04:06Oh, yeah!
04:07Lovely little ball!
04:08Great!
04:14Nice.
04:15Oh, God, you smell so good.
04:16Do you all?
04:17Yeah.
04:18Ooh, that's hard.
04:19They really are.
04:20They're hot.
04:22They're very hot.
04:26Are you nervous?
04:27No, I haven't.
04:28It's just a little, it's just straight.
04:29Different for me, you know what I mean?
04:34It's my first time, you know, I'm trying to get myself into this and it's hard.
04:39Yeah, I don't understand why it is an issue, but it is.
04:43Are you going to perform?
04:44Is he going to show up?
04:48I was just thinking maybe we could just like take everything from the game that we just played
04:53and maybe just like implement it to each other on the pen.
04:56It's just completely natural to be nervous and, you know, I feel very privileged to be able to
05:05go up to them and just like hold their hand and be like, it's okay.
05:07So we were maybe just thinking like, um, maybe the girls.
05:14Yeah.
05:14Yeah, so I first have a little kissy, kissy, kissy, kissy, kissy.
05:17Yeah, kissy, kissy.
05:18Um, and yeah, and we'll just obviously like explore a little bit and then whenever you
05:20thought comfortable maybe join us.
05:22Yeah.
05:22With Sarah jumping straight in, it's riding on Johnny to make their longstanding dream of opening
05:37up a reality.
05:50Seeing Sarah with a woman just got me going.
05:52That, that, that was the main thing that got me going.
05:54I sat, I watched, I sat there and then, and yeah, we started working.
05:58This is what I needed. I needed this kick. I needed this push.
06:22I just relaxed into it.
06:28I just got really excited. I just didn't have any insecurities that I had just weren't there.
06:41I was just lost in the moment.
06:49Oh, my God.
06:58Wow, that was crazy.
07:04Um, I don't know what to say.
07:05Um, it's not like guns, I'm going to be honest.
07:08Like, was that good for you?
07:09Oh, well, uh, it's good for me.
07:12Was it good for you?
07:13Uh, it was, uh, it was all right, you know.
07:15We want more!
07:16We want more!
07:17Look, this is, this is just the first step.
07:20This is the first step and what we needed to do because this is what we want to do.
07:23We want to do. We want to enjoy each other. We want to share it.
07:26That's, that's just an amazing experience.
07:42We bloody did it.
07:46What a roller coaster it's been.
07:48We came here looking for a threesome with a girl.
07:50We've ended up coming out with an orgy.
07:52With a five-week bit of an orgy, what can I say?
07:54My room.
07:57Some amazing memories we've made today.
07:59You're going to miss it.
08:01I'm going to miss it too.
08:03I've learned so much about myself.
08:06I'm absolutely going to carry on exploring my bisexual side.
08:10I was so worried about what other people think about my actions.
08:13You know, all that's gone now.
08:15This is my life and I'm owning it.
08:16There it is.
08:18Yay.
08:19That's where the magic happened.
08:20It certainly did.
08:26For us, we want to open up our relationship.
08:28It's only going to improve what we've got already, which is amazing anyway.
08:33Yeah, I agree.
08:34I love you so much, babe.
08:39I love you.
08:39Also staying at the retreat...
08:50Father Amy!
08:50...are married parents of six, Claude and Amy.
08:53What brings you here today?
08:54I want multiple people in my life at all times.
08:58You're curious to find out if polyamory is right for you?
09:00The thought of it sounds amazing, but maybe in practical terms, it ain't as good as it sounds.
09:07Do you really want this?
09:10That's what we're here to find out, I guess.
09:13For me, if I connect with a couple, I want to know, okay, the connection is so real that
09:16they don't mind that I'm not willing to go or whatever.
09:18Jump into it.
09:19Yeah.
09:19She's definitely on my wavelength.
09:21Are you going to go back with me, aren't you?
09:22Why?
09:23No.
09:25Did you struggle?
09:26Yeah.
09:27Because I've been monogamous my whole life, doing something with another woman, even with consent,
09:33makes me feel like it's wrong.
09:35Oh, this is kind of annoying.
09:39It's definitely weird for me.
09:41For me, the ultimate goal would be to have a relationship with other people,
09:46actually inside of our relationship.
09:48If I couldn't achieve that with Claude, it would definitely be something that put a spanner in our relationship.
09:55It would just put a bit of a spanner in the same place to help them.
10:06Claude and Amy are in the hot tub with residents Georgie and Emily.
10:11While Amy gets stuck in, Claude stays very much on the sidelines.
10:24That was so, like, soft and gentle.
10:36Doing something with another woman, even with consent, makes me feel like it's wrong.
10:46I love kissing Carol.
10:53I think I would do pretty much anything for Amy.
10:57So, I just need to go with feeling guilty about doing it.
11:02Do you want to come here?
11:18Seeing Claude with another woman turns me on.
11:21I only want him to be happy.
11:23And if someone else can bring a bit of happiness that I don't even have anything to do with,
11:27that's something I love.
11:34Where do you visualise the night progressing?
11:37We're happy to, like, go somewhere else.
11:40No internet.
11:42Sorry, I'm going to drop a bombshell now.
11:44No, no, no.
11:45I would rather take this slow for me.
11:49Just because when I'm looking for, like, emotional, romantic connection, I take it a lot slower.
11:55Yeah, yeah.
11:56Is that OK?
11:57Yeah, yeah.
11:58OK, should we exit?
12:03Even though we're a bunch of sexually liberated people, like, we also still sometimes like to take it really slow.
12:10I think when it comes to polyamory especially, there is that sort of need to get to know each other to make it more of a special connection.
12:19We shall see you tomorrow.
12:20I'd like to try.
12:21It was so lovely to meet you guys.
12:23I think my advice to them would be, like, if you do want to build, like, a really emotional connection, like, maybe take things a little bit slower.
12:32Oh, have an amazing night, guys.
12:34Yeah, you too.
12:35Have a good sleep.
12:36You genuinely have the best time.
12:37Bye.
12:44It's actually a red ring.
12:45Yeah.
12:46Love that.
12:48So, going into this, I feel like it's an adventure that I should have had a million times.
12:56Water?
12:57Yeah, 100%.
12:58Yeah.
12:59I'm just going to set the lighting a little bit.
13:02Amy definitely knows what she wants more than I do.
13:04Like, I'm still a bit, like, in the air.
13:07I don't know if I can do it or not.
13:11Oh.
13:12No.
13:13There we go.
13:16The worst case scenario for us is that that guilt doesn't go away for Claude and he's just like, this isn't going to be for me.
13:32These are nice.
13:33Amy is desperate to invite multiple partners into their relationship.
13:46Yeah.
13:47Are you going to come train us?
13:48I know.
13:49I'm just hungry.
13:50Just processing.
13:51But as things ramp up, Claude faces the ultimate decision.
13:55Are you okay?
13:56I'm going to kiss you now.
13:57Okay.
13:58Oh no.
13:59Okay.
14:00Okay.
14:01I'm going to kiss you now.
14:02Okay.
14:03Okay.
14:04Okay.
14:05Okay.
14:06Okay.
14:07Okay.
14:08Bye.
14:09Okay.
14:10Bye-bye.
14:11Bye-bye.
14:12Bye-bye.
14:14Bye-bye.
14:15Bye-bye.
14:16We'll do it.
14:18Bye-bye.
14:20Bye-bye.
14:21Bye-bye.
14:29Bye-bye.
14:31Jamie definitely wants another girl in a relationship.
14:35and I'm going to have to spend time alone with these people,
14:37so I have to get rid of that feeling of guilt.
14:42I think the only thing that is holding him back
14:44is how much he loves me
14:46and that society tells us that this is just not the normal.
15:05Breathe. Breathe.
15:12Wow.
15:26Oh, my God.
15:28I'm coming! I'm coming!
15:30Oh!
15:35I'm coming!
15:42That's not how you expected it.
15:44It's definitely different to what I expected.
15:47Yeah, yeah, yeah.
15:51Do you want to go back to our room?
16:06You all right, little lady?
16:11Don't really know.
16:22Do you feel we're going to get what we need from this experience?
16:27I don't really know how I think I'll feel right now.
16:32I don't know how long.
16:33Do you feel like you should have done something different?
16:35Yeah.
16:36Do you feel like this maybe wasn't for me?
16:37Yeah, well, yeah.
16:38If this ain't for you, then...
16:39Do you feel like this maybe wasn't for me?
16:40Yeah, well, yeah.
16:41If this ain't for you, then...
16:42Yeah, I know, but you should carry on like you're...
16:43No, I'm not...
16:44Like, I'm here with us.
16:45Not for me.
16:46Yeah, well, yeah.
16:47If this ain't for you, then...
16:48Yeah, I know, but you should carry on like you're...
16:49No, I'm not...
16:50Like, I'm here with us.
16:51Not for me.
16:52Yeah, well, yeah.
16:53If this ain't for you, then...
16:54Yeah, I know, but you should carry on like you're...
16:55No, I'm not, like, I'm here with us.
16:56Not for me.
16:57Hi, guys.
16:58Hi.
16:59With last night's events troubling Ami...
17:00Get comfy on my side.
17:05Do you feel the same thing?
17:06Do you feel the same thing?
17:07Do you feel the same thing?
17:09Do you feel the same thing?
17:11Do you feel the same thing?
17:13Yeah, I know, but you should carry on like you're...
17:16No, I'm not, like, I'm here with...
17:17For us, not for me.
17:22Hi, guys.
17:23Come in.
17:24With last night's events troubling Ami...
17:26Get comfy on my couch, thank you.
17:28They're meeting up with non-monogamy coach Effie.
17:32How are you feeling?
17:35I feel like...
17:39I don't know.
17:41I feel like I made a mistake last night, going too far.
17:47Tell me. Tell me about last night.
17:49Me, you and Georgie, we went to the Red Room together.
17:52How was that?
17:53I think it's the reason that I feel not good today.
17:57And at the time, it was everything I wanted to do.
18:00This is a lifestyle that I crave, but...
18:10It's okay.
18:12There's some tissues right in front of you.
18:14For me, it's not about sex and stuff.
18:16It is about building relationships.
18:18Yeah, yeah, yeah, I understand.
18:20God, how are you feeling?
18:22Like, last night, I was feeling fine.
18:25But obviously...
18:26Yeah, I ruined it.
18:28No, I see it and be like this.
18:29I never want to see her upset or sad about anything.
18:35What do you think would help you on your journey to get the polyamorous
18:42relationship that you want for yourselves?
18:44Do you want to go on a date with Georgie?
18:46Do you want to go on a date with Georgie?
18:48Do you want to go on a date with Georgie?
18:51Yeah, I'll go and have a chat with Georgie.
18:53Do you want to go on a date with Georgie?
18:57Do you want to go on a date with Georgie?
18:59Yeah, I'll go and have a date with Georgie.
19:02Yeah, I'll go and have a date with Georgie.
19:04Yeah.
19:05naomi and have like a nice date yeah um so would you want to go on a date with with georgie
19:13yeah yeah like if amy's gonna go and talk to naomi i'll go and have a chat with georgie yeah
19:19because it is about making those connections and see if we can hold them in a meaningful way
19:24because that will that will make the polyamorous family that you guys want does that feel good
19:31yeah perfect thank you okay thank you very much i really appreciate it thank you take care
19:42polyamorous journey is a long one claude and amy's time here is short the best that we can do here
19:47is give them the tools and the skills and help them overcome some of the hurdles and build the
19:51relationship they want i am really looking forward to seeing naomi again to see if there's a much
19:59bigger connection there and i feel like the best outcome for claude is that he comes back and he's
20:04like i really just enjoyed talking to another girl without me i feel like i'm getting more scared
20:24on their way to join the others at the retreat are alex and alana from plymouth our first date alana
20:33said she did the best mash in devon and it turns out she doesn't she couldn't even no i do you don't
20:40you can't even cook a sausage in a microwave luckily the couple are to one another's taste and they've
20:47now settled down as a blended family with a child each from previous relationships we're constantly
20:54like re-fall in love with each other all the time i don't know why i'm getting emotional i've just never
21:02had um such a safe space with somebody and the committed couple are just as passionate about one
21:11another in the bedroom sex is definitely like our number one hobby we've got our normal sex and
21:19beautiful sex but then we've got the one where we're like should we try something new today yeah we're
21:24very experimental what's the weirdest thing that you've ever done i don't know if i want to say
21:30pegan you wear a strap on and we get to reverse roles i know what i'm doing surprisingly yeah you can
21:36fuck now they want to spice things up further by exploring non-monogamy ultimately why we're here
21:45is to bring in another couple i think because we're boundary pushers something we both wants to be in
21:50like open relationships i think it's actually like sex is can be shared it doesn't have to be for just
21:56two people we don't want this to just be a one-off experience we really want to see ourselves like
22:01diving into the lifestyle although they're heading to the perfect place to open up alana will need
22:11to overcome her biggest barrier my previous relationships with men haven't been great a lot
22:18of cheating um on their part it definitely made me more like cautious of women i've got vok with alex
22:27being with another woman that makes me feel physically sick oh my god
22:38i'm so scared
22:43he's so fit oh yeah you're right hello everyone hello hello
22:48i love that dress thank you so much how are you doing i like him he's my type but yeah we have
22:59plenty time to discover each other hi guys welcome i'm rochelle nice to meet you how you doing you
23:04all right what's your name tom he's alex alex alex strong handshake alex yeah i like the look of alex
23:10he was tall and gorgeous very good looking that was insane like that was so insane walking in
23:19i didn't expect there to be so many people when we first came certainly other women being around
23:25my partner it's like a massive thing for me i don't want to like bring up alana's hurt again like it
23:31might reignite that like fear in her i'd like to think i'll surprise myself and be like really okay
23:42that's how i want it to go we've got a lot to lose everything is at stake really here this is the
23:51person that i want to spend the rest of my life with
24:12i love you i love you so much
24:16newcomers alex and alana are visiting the retreat
24:20in search of couples to open up with despite alana's fear of seeing alex with another woman
24:26i need a nervous way yeah i need to go as well
24:30hey guys hi welcome come in i'm effie
24:33come in hello how you doing you all right yeah good
24:37this is gonna be so far nice isn't it i want to know what brings you here what brings you did retreat
24:43tell me um we're like boundary pushers i think like from from like when we very first met like we were
24:49very like into like sex and like pushing boundaries and bringing new things and ideas in and we're at
24:56the stage now where we want to be part of like a couple sorts but we don't know how that looks but
25:02equally it's probably me that's been like holding us back okay i would class myself as bisexual okay so
25:09i've been with women in the past i've had relationships with women um but yeah just
25:14through like past experiences with men i've been cheated on quite a lot so it's i guess like damaged
25:25i feel emotional well that's okay
25:30from the moment we met like we would go around town if there was like a girl in small shorts or anything
25:35like that she would have like panic and freeze and she'd want me to like get on another street
25:38so what's at stake is alana's like feelings and emotions
25:43where are you with that stuff now obviously with talking about things being more intimate
25:49and stuff that's obviously quite a big step up from where i was like say a year ago if you just
25:55said to me you're going to be here i would have been like absolutely not okay so so given that
26:01is so potent for you why do you want to open up your relationship to put yourself
26:05really test those those parts of you that that are tender obviously we're doing this
26:11like for us as a couple but there's also like a little bit of selfishness in it for me where i'm
26:16like just want to be able to get past that and that would benefit us so much more as a couple if i
26:23could really let go of those feelings and be like i'm good what are you thinking alex no i absolutely
26:30agree like i think if you can like overcome that like that's a beautiful place to be but
26:35it's a delicate situation now because with i wouldn't want to like take steps back and i know
26:39that you desperately want to get over this and and hopefully this is the safe space that you get to
26:45find out if you can do it or not right and for you attractive woman is the threat right understandable
26:52reasons so we kind of want you to face that threat in this controlling environment where we're
26:58going to take care of you would you be open to maybe find a single woman that you're both attracted
27:05to and then invite them for your little sexy threesome i feel like i'd be more comfortable if it
27:12was with like to invite a couple to spend time with us i just feel like that's going to be
27:19too intense i know that you ultimately want the couple swap and that that is something that
27:25i'm not taking that away from you we just need to work on those insecurities what has happened to
27:31you sucks it's terrible you've put all the charge onto women so if we can just take that charge away
27:39you're going to have much smoother experiences i just like there's obviously that little bit of
27:44worry that like say if we go to like do something and things happen and then i'm like i'm not okay with
27:53it i can't unsee those things yeah what are your thoughts with what you're saying i absolutely
28:00agree with what you're saying i guess the root cause is the female and we can go absolutely slow i'm not
28:06good anywhere like i'm with you like we can go as little steps and see where we go we can do it yeah okay
28:14i understand like why you're doing that and where my head needs to be i still feel really nervous but
28:24i feel less sick now so good good i love that okay i'm excited for you i'm going to be here to meet
28:31you tomorrow so i can't wait to hear how it goes you're glad yeah thank you very much thank you so
28:44for alana and alex jumping straight into a couple swap would be a difficult thing to navigate doing
28:50something like this is definitely going to challenge her alana needs to find a connection with other
28:55women and feel safe in their presence so that she can actually have group sessions or threesome sessions
29:02oh my god look that birth check the birth out
29:10come here i don't want to cry again don't cry it's okay if we could come out of this situation
29:17and say we're in an open relationship i think that would be an amazing thing i literally don't know what
29:22to do with myself like have you seen your place i oh god it's like let's just go in with like don't
29:31know until we do it and we are branch pushers like open mind yeah i'm not even joking when she first said
29:37it i thought that that scenario wasn't in my head i'm not doing it i don't want to do it like i want to
29:43leave me and alex absolutely love each other more than anything it would be devastating if anything went
29:50wrong here for sure
29:59i hope you have an amazing time i'm excited for you to get to know someone more on effie's advice
30:06this afternoon both claude and amy will have separate dates
30:09if they're truly to embrace polyamory they need to be confident that they can explore
30:21meaningful loving connections with other people i said like the end goal is to feel the way you feel
30:28about me with multiple people and you can't get to it unless you do push yourself to try and make
30:34friends with other people bye i love you bye miss miss
30:44amy is meeting up with resident naomi who she met at last night's social
30:50so the best outcome for me is that me and naomi really like hit off i want something this long term
30:57eventually hi hi how are you good how are you so nice to see you there's a million and one ways to
31:07navigate a polyamorous relationship but the importance of developing a bond independently as
31:14well as together is it's essential get comfy yeah it's so nice it's so yeah cheers yeah cheers thank
31:23you i mean it's not a bad first date setting is it no it's beautiful after having sex together last
31:29night claude and georgie are meeting for a date to establish whether the attraction is more than just
31:36physical hello i think i'd like to get to know her personality a bit more i should explore it to see
31:47if there would be more of a connection there because there could be how are you um i don't know i don't
31:54really know like yeah i've not been in a situation like this before i'm not i'm not sure what we're
32:01going to talk about on the date me and georgie but i guess being away from amy makes me feel a bit
32:06uneasy do you feel you got what you wanted coming in for me i think maybe i should have like cut the
32:15night when i'd finished the social okay i woke up thinking i wish i had just said something to naomi
32:22like let's go and do something different then let's go sit around the corner where it's quiet aaron
32:31i'm very touchy amy's not so much like even like if we sleep like we won't cuddle for me i would
32:37cuddle every single night if you wanted to like i would love to i'd love to cuddle and snuggle yeah
32:42yeah i'm a snuggler i can't express to you how much i yearn for it every day like when i'm with
32:47someone like i just i just want that like i'm a physical touch person i want to be touched
32:53when we um started cuddling and that i was a bit more apprehensive it's quite an intimate thing
32:59like even though we've had sex with her but after cuddling for a while i was around i think we'll
33:05become really good friends and maybe more
33:07go on
33:17can i kiss you
33:18Yeah.
33:24It confirmed everything for me, like, it is a deeper connection I'm looking for.
33:41It was a lovely kiss. I think it's exactly what both her and I want.
33:54I would say that we're more than friends and I hope that Claude has made that connection as well.
34:01I think Georgie is an amazing girl and I feel like there's definitely more of a connection now after spending more time with her.
34:13Like, coming out of this, that connection will definitely build with me, her and Amy and she's definitely our type of person.
34:23This has been a beautiful stage.
34:31Yeah, it has. It's been amazing.
34:33The fact that I've met somebody is kind of like they are out there.
34:39The next step for me would be to see her again in, like, a more organic setting and then get her to meet Claude.
34:49I think it's been fantastic. We've got what we come here for and more, I think. Yeah.
35:18Yeah. Yeah, sadly. Yeah.
35:21I don't feel any of the guilt that I've felt before and I've got the best women, so I'm lucky.
35:26Polyamory is rare because you have to find like-minded people who are interested in being a part of a bigger structure.
35:33Hey, beautiful people. Hi.
35:35Hi.
35:36I think now that they have clarity that there are other people out there that want the same thing, they will go ahead and put that polyamorous construct together.
35:44Meeting people with the same mind as us was definitely a highlight. Like, safe journey.
35:50Thank you for such a great time.
35:52It's not just a dream anymore, like a vision. Now it's becoming more reality now. It's real.
35:57Hello, you two. Hello.
35:59Hello.
36:04I hope you all have a good time.
36:05Yeah, I do.
36:06I wish we could stay longer and get to know you even more, but yeah, once you get home.
36:11Take care.
36:12See you later.
36:14This has definitely been a breakthrough for us now knowing that it is achievable to bring other people in.
36:19And I hope the future for us looks like what we dream of, which is a community household.
36:25Yeah.
36:26And hopefully with the people that we've met.
36:29We'll see them when they get home.
36:31Yeah.
36:40In the bar, a girls only night is in full flow in preparation for new arrivals, Alex and Alana.
36:47Who knows, babe? We might come out of this like absolute animals.
36:54But first, let's see if we can talk to a girl.
36:56Let's see if we can talk to a girl.
36:59Could you imagine if like you, you're the one that's like, can't, can't do it.
37:05I don't think you will, but that would be funny.
37:08The pair want to open up their relationship with couple swaps, but Effie has tasked them with first having a threesome with just a woman.
37:17So as to tackle Alana's major insecurities around other females.
37:23Right, let's breathe, breathe, breathe.
37:26I'm holding my breath again.
37:27Just hold your breath.
37:31Alana at the moment's feeling really overwhelmed with like the curve ball that we had with Effie saying that we need to, it'd be best to introduce a female to start off with.
37:40I definitely have those little feelings in my belly of like, oh God, am I going to be okay?
37:46Am I going to feel threatened in this scenario?
37:49Are you ready?
37:50Yeah.
37:51We're fine.
37:52Okay.
37:53All right.
37:54Love you.
37:55Let's go.
37:56Oh my God.
37:58You ready?
37:59Oh my goodness.
38:07I'm just imagining walking into a room and it just all being absolutely stunning women.
38:10And I'm like, ah.
38:15You could say it was my biggest nightmare about what to come true.
38:19At a girls only social, Alex and Alana have been instructed by Effie to find a girl to open up with.
38:39Alex will take the lead whilst Alana watches on.
38:43Oh my God.
38:44So as to help her confront her feelings of insecurity around women.
38:50It's going to be hard.
38:51It's going to be triggering.
39:00Potentially being with a woman is massive for Alana, but it's a big deal for me as well.
39:04If this is going to work, it has to be the right person.
39:09Bonjour.
39:10I said bonjour, but now it's bonjour.
39:12So like, how have you been?
39:13What are you up to?
39:14What do you do for work?
39:15And I am a lingerie model.
39:17Amazing.
39:18So basically, I love my job so much because it's sexy.
39:23I will describe my sexuality actually high.
39:27I wake up and I want sex.
39:30She's stunning, isn't she?
39:31I'm just trying to like brave.
39:33What things are you into?
39:35What's your thing?
39:37I love to be pleasuring in any way.
39:41I'm just trying to, just trying to breathe for it.
39:45I have like that feeling in my belly.
39:48How are you doing?
39:49Good to remember.
39:50Great handshake.
39:51I remember that.
39:52Oh, yeah.
39:53You doing okay?
39:54Yeah, sure.
39:55You all right?
39:56You all right?
39:57Hello?
39:59You all right?
40:00Hello?
40:02You all right?
40:03What's your name?
40:04What's your name?
40:05It's Alex.
40:06Emily.
40:07Thanks for having me.
40:08Emily.
40:09I'm Grace.
40:10I think right now she's really nervous.
40:12I can see it in her face.
40:14Like, I hope that I'm not being too, like, pushy at the moment.
40:20She's maybe feeling a little bit overwhelmed, but I'm going to have a chat with her in a minute and see how she feels.
40:26Obviously, I'm feeling, like, those feelings in there, like, I feel nervous about it.
40:36It's obviously, like, weird territory for me, but, like, I want you to feel comfortable.
40:42I'm aware that you're probably being very conscious of how you're being because you don't want to upset me.
40:47If there was any, like, physical contact or anything like that or, like, a hand on a leg, I feel like that's kind of something that I need to see to be, like, okay, I'm okay with it.
40:58That's a real surprise for me.
41:00This is an absolutely huge step for us.
41:02This is what we're here for, right?
41:03Yeah, 100% like, this is why we're here.
41:06So...
41:11And it makes me feel like I can push those boundaries more.
41:15Like, I've definitely, like, seen another girl that I'm interested in.
41:27I love your look, by the way. I love your tattoos.
41:29Thank you. Thank you.
41:31Monogamy is outdated.
41:32You know, you're not going to have the same ice cream for the rest of your life or drive the same car.
41:36There's so many different flavours of models out there.
41:40I get to play with them all.
41:41Like, as you can say, another tattoo.
41:44I'm a mermaid.
41:45Oh, that's amazing.
41:46Yeah.
41:47That's amazing.
41:48That's a real picture.
41:49Is it?
41:50That's a photo of me.
41:51Really, really good.
41:52I love that you've got photos of, like, tattoos of you.
41:54Georgie is an incredible person.
41:58Like, she's got an amazing vibe.
42:00She's really attractive.
42:01So, at the moment, everything is looking really good.
42:03I'm really excited to push the boundary even more.
42:05Um, are you okay?
42:06Like, I want to, like, push the boundaries with Alana at the moment.
42:10Are you okay if I, like, put my hand on you, like?
42:14If Alana's not okay with it, she was like, no, no, I can't do this.
42:27It'd be the worst thing.
42:29Okay.
42:30Hello, beautiful.
42:31Hello.
42:32Um, can we go and sit and have a chat, like, all three of us?
42:33100%.
42:34Is that okay?
42:35100%.
42:36Cool.
42:37Let's go.
42:39Obviously, seeing, like, a little bit of physical contact, which I didn't know how I was going to feel with that.
42:46But I'm actually, like, okay.
42:47Yeah?
42:48No, like, I think you're absolutely stunning that you would absolutely be my type.
42:53So, yeah.
42:54Yeah.
42:55Yeah.
42:56Yeah.
42:57Yeah.
42:58Yeah.
42:59Yeah.
43:00Yeah.
43:01Yeah.
43:02Yeah.
43:03Yeah.
43:04Yeah.
43:05Yeah.
43:06Yeah.
43:07Yeah.
43:08Yeah.
43:09So, yeah.
43:10Appreciate that.
43:11Like, I said to your man, like, my type.
43:14I kind of want to keep the momentum going whilst I feel like things are okay.
43:19Yeah.
43:20Yeah.
43:21So, if you would like to come and spend some time in what's up with us.
43:24Yeah.
43:25Would that be okay?
43:26100%.
43:27Okay.
43:28Yay.
43:29Yeah.
43:30Okay.
43:31Go.
43:32Let's do it.
43:33I'm so surprised at myself.
43:36I can't believe, like, this is such a turn.
43:38Three hours ago, you were crying.
43:40I was crying going, I don't know if I can do this.
43:42You.
43:43So, I might want to leave.
43:44I'm so shocked to myself though.
43:46Like, I genuinely don't know where this has come from.
43:51I'm scared.
43:52Don't be scared.
43:53You're not too excited.
43:54I know.
43:55Oh!
43:56Oh!
43:57That's why I'm scared.
43:58I got you, I got you.
43:59Jesus Christ.
44:00Toasty.
44:01I did not think this is where we were going to be on, like, our first night.
44:04Oh, you were.
44:05I suppose.
44:06This would have literally been my worst nightmare.
44:07Really?
44:08If someone was like, how would you feel about doing this?
44:10I'd be like, no.
44:11You, we didn't think that we would have been in a hot tub if we were.
44:14Neither were.
44:15I never thought I would be in this situation ever to say, like, oh, potentially I'm going
44:22to watch my boyfriend kiss someone else.
44:32If this all goes right, I really think it would be an incredible thing for us.
44:37But if it does go wrong, is it something I'd be able to get over?
44:45Next time on Open House.
44:50I loved last night.
44:51It was incredible.
44:52Sure.
44:53I do see that as threatening.
45:00We've had issues in the past opening up the relationship.
45:03Tom really struggled.
45:04My dick doesn't grow, basically.
45:05My dick literally does not grow.
45:07I don't want to pressure him.
45:08However, I don't want to be with just the one person for the rest of my life.
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