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race and relationships
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00:00Oh yeah, I've got some gains. Look at those gains. Off season and loving it. Oh, this is Marci Simmons.
00:10Welcome to my channel, Marci Madness. Today we are going to talk about black female bodybuilders
00:20and how it seems like they are only in relationships with white men or non-black men.
00:26Now this was brought to my attention by a black man about a year ago. And he said,
00:33Hey, I've been a supporter of this industry for about 30 years. And I've noticed that most of the
00:39black female athletes, they seem to be in interracial relationships. And I have a pretty
00:45good reason as why that is possibly the case. Have you noticed this? I'm like, yeah, I have noticed
00:51that most of the black female athletes are in relationships with either white men or non-black
00:56men. So what is your observation, sir? And he let me know that based on his experience dealing with
01:03everybody, the black people, the white people, everybody in between, it seems like most of the
01:09non-black people are more open-minded. They're open-minded and they really don't care how they
01:18would be received by others if they were in a relationship with somebody who has a physique
01:23that is considered offensive. It's like, Hey, I don't care what you think about me. I don't care
01:29what you think about her. I like what she has. She likes what she has. I want to grow that and nurture
01:35her passion. I love her work ethic. It turns me on and I'm going to support her 100% of the way.
01:42Whereas based on his observation, the black people, many of them would like it. They, they,
01:49they love the muscles. They love the work ethic, but in terms of co-signing on it, like, Hey,
01:55that's my girl. Yeah. I financed her dream. Many of them would just kind of keep that on the hush
02:00because they don't want to be viewed as a bad person or someone like a closet homosexual or
02:06some sort of weirdo or whatever these negative things are that people think. If you are interested
02:12in somebody who's muscular, many of the black people, from what he said, they are concerned over
02:18that. So they'll have these relationships and or desires in secrecy, or they simply will just
02:25completely avoid being in a relationship with a woman that they really would like to be in a
02:30relationship just simply because they're concerned about other people and what they would say.
02:36He asked me what I thought, what my experiences with that were. So again, just being who I am,
02:43being very diverse, dealing with all types of people, the black people, the white people,
02:47everybody in between, I can say overall, I agree with him. I do agree that non-black people tend to
02:56be more open-minded when it comes to those types of concepts. Being in a relationship with somebody
03:03who's a bodybuilder, you definitely have to be a particular type of person. You have to be very
03:07thick-skinned. You can't care what people say because people say nasty things about bodybuilders
03:13because they do. If you have anything that is just out there like that, where it's like, dang,
03:18look at those muscles, look at those gains. It's going to be perceived negatively or positively,
03:23but depending on what environment you're in, it can go either way. But again, just based on my own
03:31personal experiences, I have received overall more positive support from the non-black people.
03:39Does that mean I have not received positive support from black people? Of course not. I'm
03:43just saying just based on the sheer numbers, the sheer statistics, I have received more of a positive
03:50feedback from the non-black people. But on the flip side, the non-black people, I've heard terrible
03:56insults and all sorts of things that degraded me as a human being just simply because it happened.
04:02But we're just talking about correlations, correlations. Who does this more? Again,
04:09just based on my experience, it does seem that it does seem like the non-black people are just simply
04:16more open-minded that they don't care. So what does this mean? It doesn't mean anything. It just means
04:23that I feel that if a person is in a relationship with whoever they want to be in a relationship with,
04:31it's simply because that person benefits them the most. So it's not so much about their color,
04:38but it's like, hey, what do you have to offer me? I have to offer you this. Hey, we click.
04:44What we have together makes sense. This is what I do. I am a professional superhero. Look at my gains.
04:50The other guy's like, yeah, I love professional superheroes. I love your gains. I want to help you
04:55grow. No matter what color he is, white, black, whatever. If that person is vibing with you
05:02and they support what you do, you guys have a rapport. That's who you should be with. If it happens
05:09to be someone outside of your race, then so be it. Again, with these interracial relationships in the
05:16bodybuilding world with the black female bodybuilders, many of them, again, from what I have observed,
05:22are in interracial relationships. And that's perfectly fine. I'm pretty sure it's just simply
05:26because the people who they are with actually support them. They're not embarrassed to be in
05:32a relationship with them. And if anything, they're going to show it off. They're going to show it off.
05:37They're going to brag and they're going to be happy about it. And they're not going to care
05:40what anybody says. And if somebody does say anything, they're just going to chew them out.
05:45And then everything's going to be all good. They're going to keep on going about their business
05:48and living a happy life. So you guys, you let me know what you think about this topic.
05:55Black female bodybuilders and how it seems like many of them are in interracial relationships,
06:00just simply due to the fact that their own race, black men, just simply aren't as supportive as
06:08their non-black counterparts. Let me know what you think. Give me a thumbs up, like this video,
06:14subscribe to my channel, Marcy Madness. Go get those gains. Bye.

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