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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé.
00:00:04Ladies and gentlemen, Mrs. Rosie Cheeks.
00:00:07You know, drinking, having fun,
00:00:09it reminds me of the good old days when I was on the boat.
00:00:12Did you have a good night?
00:00:14Let me have a great night.
00:00:15Boat.
00:00:16But?
00:00:17But, there's both.
00:00:19A couple days ago, I had a call from the cruise line.
00:00:24Love your job or love your family.
00:00:26Don't waste my time.
00:00:27Don't do it.
00:00:28It's up to you.
00:00:31Getting married in two weeks,
00:00:33and I can't guarantee you that our marriage would survive
00:00:36if you had gender reassignment surgery.
00:00:41Just thinking about the end,
00:00:43and we have not even started our journey.
00:00:46Now it's something that I'm not thinking about,
00:00:49but I cannot tell you that I will think like that forever.
00:00:56I am excited to meet him,
00:00:58but how would that play out if me and him didn't necessarily get along?
00:01:03I would definitely choose my daughter over love.
00:01:05So, if Sophie doesn't give her blessing, then I wouldn't marry him.
00:01:09What did Vic say about the dowry?
00:01:12I don't know how he's really going to pay for the dowry,
00:01:15because he's not financially stable.
00:01:18The dowry had told you about 15 cows.
00:01:22Realistically, though, how does somebody afford 15 cows?
00:01:24People do afford it.
00:01:25It's just you who can't afford it.
00:01:30Put your hands together for the one, the only, the gorgeous,
00:01:32Ms. Juno!
00:01:33I don't know why Stevie would put me in this situation.
00:01:43It's just so against my upbringing.
00:01:46You still have 60 days, so maybe take some time.
00:01:49I definitely don't feel like I'm rushing anything.
00:01:52He needs to know the truth.
00:01:53That maybe she's actually bisexual.
00:01:56And I'm going to talk to her.
00:01:59Could have just told us, hey, my real name is this,
00:02:01but I'd like to be called Ani.
00:02:02I tell you, I don't want to fight more.
00:02:07Here we are trying to get divorced for you,
00:02:08and bring you to our family.
00:02:10You've lied about all this for a year.
00:02:12Betrayal is honestly an understatement.
00:02:16What a show.
00:02:19I feel bad.
00:02:20I want to be honest, but I need my time.
00:02:39You're 100% sure about doing this?
00:02:41Yeah, are you?
00:02:42Yeah, for sure.
00:02:43I have no hesitation.
00:02:48And I want it in red ink, which is not removable, by the way.
00:02:57You are brave, you know?
00:02:58But I know it.
00:02:59I mean, women are more brave than men.
00:03:01Baby, it's not about being brave.
00:03:02It's about being sure about you.
00:03:04Like, I'm sure about you.
00:03:05That's good.
00:03:07I always wanted a tattoo on my neck,
00:03:09and it started with me wanting his name on my neck.
00:03:11First you said on my face.
00:03:13Yeah, I wanted it right here on my face.
00:03:15I said no.
00:03:16I mean, it's...
00:03:17Are you crazy?
00:03:18Are you mental?
00:03:19Writing someone's name, I mean, even it's me?
00:03:22Yeah, that's like the ultimate commitment.
00:03:25I mean, it's more than wearing a ring.
00:03:27I can't take a tattoo off, especially if it's in red ink.
00:03:30Oh, my God.
00:03:31Okay, do it.
00:03:34Are you excited to get my lips on your neck?
00:03:36Yeah.
00:03:37Yeah?
00:03:38Mm-hmm.
00:03:39I mean, the most visible thing when I first saw you
00:03:42was your lips.
00:03:47I remember my mother first asked when she saw you
00:03:51about your lips.
00:03:52Wait, you didn't tell me about this.
00:03:53Yeah, I didn't.
00:03:54What did she ask you?
00:03:55I mean, what are those lips?
00:03:57What are those lips?
00:03:58Yeah.
00:03:59Wait, your mom went and got lip filler, though,
00:04:00after I met her.
00:04:01Yeah, after you.
00:04:02Oh, my God.
00:04:03I mean, you all chemistry of our family.
00:04:05You like what these lips do.
00:04:07So you deserve to have my neck to be filled
00:04:10with your lips, babe.
00:04:22Hey, how's it going?
00:04:23Hi, Rachel.
00:04:24Hey, welcome back.
00:04:25Good to see you.
00:04:26Doing great.
00:04:27Nice to meet you, sir.
00:04:28Yeah, pleasure.
00:04:29Nice to meet you.
00:04:30Good to see you as well.
00:04:31Why don't you two come on back?
00:04:32We can get going.
00:04:33Sure.
00:04:34I heard you wanted some lips.
00:04:37Yeah.
00:04:38Yeah?
00:04:39Yeah.
00:04:40We are planning to first start with her.
00:04:41OK.
00:04:42And then my name.
00:04:43With my name on her neck.
00:04:44Yeah.
00:04:45As a reward, I want her lips on my neck.
00:04:47OK.
00:04:48And I think we both want the red ink.
00:04:50OK.
00:04:51Yeah.
00:04:52You can't remove red ink, right?
00:04:53Yeah, it's more difficult, so.
00:04:54Very serious.
00:04:55Are you sure?
00:04:56Yeah.
00:04:57Yeah, we'll still even talk about getting rid of it yet.
00:04:58Right, yeah.
00:04:59We haven't even gotten them.
00:05:00Sounds good.
00:05:01I can grab us some paper.
00:05:03OK.
00:05:04You need to kiss a sheet, right?
00:05:05Yes.
00:05:06And we'll get going, right?
00:05:07Sounds good.
00:05:08There you go.
00:05:09We'll have you try with some signatures.
00:05:10Yeah, try to do a good job.
00:05:12I feel like a student that you are.
00:05:14OK, I will watch.
00:05:15You try to.
00:05:16OK.
00:05:17Just give options, though.
00:05:20That's cute.
00:05:21Yeah, that's good.
00:05:23OK.
00:05:24I'm going to have you lay down.
00:05:25OK.
00:05:26And then we're going to stretch your neck over.
00:05:27So my neck.
00:05:28Yep.
00:05:29Perfect.
00:05:30Doing good, yeah.
00:05:31Perfect.
00:05:32I'm going to start with one of the smaller letters first, OK?
00:05:35OK.
00:05:38So how did this idea come about today?
00:05:43Mm-hmm.
00:05:44About us and our marriage.
00:05:46Mm-hmm.
00:05:47So I just wanted to talk to you a little bit,
00:05:49because I told you that I wouldn't marry Sarper
00:05:53unless you were OK with it and you liked him.
00:05:57Mm-hmm.
00:05:58And so I just wanted to check in with you.
00:06:00Are you feeling good about me going into a marriage with him?
00:06:04Well, I'm going to college, too.
00:06:08So this is really just you living your life.
00:06:10I just feel like, you know, like you're doing what you think is right.
00:06:14So, like, if you feel confident about it,
00:06:17then that makes me feel more reassured.
00:06:23Are you crying?
00:06:24A little.
00:06:27It just means so much to me,
00:06:28because we've been through a lot together,
00:06:31and Sophie's approval is the most important thing to me,
00:06:35because, you know, that's my daughter,
00:06:37and I love her more than anyone,
00:06:39and I just really care about what she thinks.
00:06:44So the fact that she's OK with me,
00:06:46marrying Sarper just means so much.
00:06:49And I'm glad that she's saying that.
00:06:50I've been wanting to hear that.
00:06:51So I'm really happy.
00:06:57So she was positive.
00:06:59So it's kind of a commitment for our wedding and relationship.
00:07:05So it's a good timing, I think.
00:07:08Symbol for the love, huh?
00:07:09Kind of.
00:07:10Yeah, something symbolic.
00:07:11Yeah.
00:07:14OK.
00:07:16You have my name.
00:07:17Yay!
00:07:18Take your time sitting up, OK?
00:07:19As long as you feel OK.
00:07:20Where's the mirror at?
00:07:21There it is.
00:07:26Wow.
00:07:30You're a crazy guy.
00:07:31You're a crazy guy.
00:07:32You are too.
00:07:33You are more crazier than me.
00:07:34We're a crazy couple.
00:07:35When we are fighting every day,
00:07:37I mean, what kind of risk that we are taking?
00:07:43Your turn, Ben.
00:07:44OK.
00:07:47When I lay down on you?
00:07:48Yeah, just on your back, I think.
00:07:49Yeah.
00:07:50OK.
00:07:51Give me your phone.
00:07:52Let me see your neck real quick.
00:07:53Let's see.
00:07:54Like a picnic blanket.
00:07:55Huh?
00:07:56Table cloth.
00:07:57Let's see like this.
00:07:59Some girls like bubble baths with candles
00:08:02and, like, all these, like, little romantic things.
00:08:04Rose petals, all that stuff.
00:08:06But this is romantic to me.
00:08:09You chose a great shape.
00:08:10The lips look really nice.
00:08:11This is kind of like a promise that no matter how much we fight,
00:08:14we're always going to get through it
00:08:16and we're always going to stay together.
00:08:17You say that?
00:08:19Yeah.
00:08:20Oh, my God.
00:08:21Well, if we have tattoos of each other,
00:08:23we have to make it work.
00:08:25Whatever happens, I will keep that lipstick.
00:08:28I promise you.
00:08:30Unless you cheat on me.
00:08:34Don't worry.
00:08:35Say something.
00:08:36I won't.
00:08:37Don't worry.
00:08:38I won't.
00:08:39All right, bud.
00:08:41Nice.
00:08:42You're okay to sit up and take a look.
00:08:45Yeah.
00:08:46Yep.
00:08:47Wow.
00:08:51Oh, my God.
00:08:52Yeah, yeah.
00:08:55Babe, those are really big lips.
00:08:57I feel like having lips on your neck is like the ultimate bad boy.
00:09:00It's like the tramp stamp for bad boys.
00:09:02Really?
00:09:03Yeah.
00:09:04The retired one?
00:09:05Well, you are.
00:09:06Am I?
00:09:07Are you?
00:09:08Resigned.
00:09:09Not retired.
00:09:10Resigned.
00:09:11Okay, good.
00:09:12I like that.
00:09:13Love you.
00:09:14I made you coffee this morning, but you didn't drink it.
00:09:19It's there if you decide you want it later.
00:09:21Oh, my God.
00:09:22I wonder if you don't drink it.
00:09:31I made you coffee this morning, but you didn't drink it.
00:09:36It's there if you decide you want it later.
00:09:38I'm going to be a little bit later.
00:09:52How'd you feel last night?
00:09:54It was fine.
00:09:58Hmm.
00:10:00Maddie has been extremely quiet since the bachelor
00:10:02bachelorette party.
00:10:04And I am a little bit worried as to where his head is.
00:10:07I don't know if it's from exhaustion
00:10:09or if he's still, like, trying to process everything
00:10:11that we've been through.
00:10:13But our wedding is tomorrow.
00:10:16So I'm really needing him to communicate with me right now.
00:10:21It was just too much.
00:10:23I needed something.
00:10:23You didn't tell me.
00:10:25But you were enjoying it.
00:10:27I wasn't.
00:10:29Hmm.
00:10:31I just didn't want to just, like, you think about, like.
00:10:35You don't want me to think about what?
00:10:37I don't know.
00:10:39Tell me.
00:10:42I've been trying really hard to push all the thoughts
00:10:45about Stevie being bisexual in the back of my mind
00:10:49and not think about them.
00:10:50But the fact that Stevie was enjoying the show so much,
00:10:55that is totally a red flag to me.
00:10:57And I've always told her that we don't have any secrets.
00:11:02Not only am I totally against about these kind of things,
00:11:05I'm also against not telling the truth.
00:11:11He knew that I wasn't comfortable.
00:11:17We were not expecting anyone to be, like, fully exposed.
00:11:21Yeah.
00:11:22You were enjoying it.
00:11:24Maddie.
00:11:25You were.
00:11:27You were enjoying it.
00:11:30Yeah.
00:11:30But I'm OK.
00:11:35I guess Saeed is waiting for me in the lobby.
00:11:37I need to go and thank him for, like,
00:11:41coming to the party last night and.
00:11:44How do you think Saeed feels about me, though?
00:11:48Saeed is just super worried about me.
00:11:50But what changed?
00:11:51Because I felt like he was super excited to, like,
00:11:54fly in and see you and go to the wedding.
00:11:56And then when he got here, I felt like he was, like,
00:11:58a little apprehensive about it.
00:11:59I guess it was my problem, not you.
00:12:03I just told him too much.
00:12:08What did you tell him?
00:12:12I told him about the painting.
00:12:15Uh-huh.
00:12:16Why?
00:12:17I was just feeling too comfortable.
00:12:20So I'm assuming now that I know that, whenever he saw Claire
00:12:23from the very beginning, it was awkward.
00:12:26Do you see what I'm saying?
00:12:28You guys have made up this whole scenario of who I am.
00:12:33Cringe.
00:12:34I just want you to understand.
00:12:40I just wanted someone to be super honest,
00:12:44without feeling I'm being judged.
00:12:47That's not fair.
00:12:48I have been very honest with you, and you've said things
00:12:51that hurt my feelings.
00:12:52And now, because of that, you're not telling me things?
00:12:54Because I don't want to make you mad.
00:12:57How are we supposed to get married if you can't tell me things?
00:13:00You can't just be completely shut off.
00:13:04Tomorrow is our wedding.
00:13:06And I think I really regret rushing everything.
00:13:11I'm just thinking about every single person that told me that 90 days is not enough to get
00:13:18to know a person, from my parents, to the officer in the embassy of the US,
00:13:25to say to everyone.
00:13:28Because right now, I'm just, like, seeing something that I did not expect.
00:13:33What is that?
00:13:40I need you to sign that so I can move forward with this.
00:13:46So, a prenup, do you think I want to stay off your money?
00:13:52I've been pretty supportive through all your changes,
00:13:55but I need to protect myself in case, you know, the changes get too much.
00:14:01Hello?
00:14:05We can talk.
00:14:08I want to slay about last night.
00:14:11Anya has a different legal name.
00:14:13Apparently, it's Brenda.
00:14:14So, I don't even know what to call her anymore.
00:14:16She's probably still legally married.
00:14:18She's here.
00:14:21Like, I'm thinking, like, that this is where we walk away.
00:14:23Like, this cannot be saved.
00:14:25Hola.
00:14:31Hey, honey.
00:14:44Morning.
00:14:47Morning.
00:14:49Morning.
00:14:50I woke up feeling so heavy.
00:15:04Yeah, to be honest, the more and more I think about it,
00:15:08the more and more I don't know what last night was.
00:15:16Last night was crazy.
00:15:18It, I can, I didn't even know how to describe it.
00:15:21It was an emotional rollercoaster.
00:15:23How did Dre know more than we did?
00:15:25And they only dated for like half the amount of time we dated.
00:15:29Anya has a different legal name.
00:15:31Apparently it's Brenda.
00:15:32So I don't even know what to call her anymore.
00:15:34She is probably still legally married,
00:15:37which means that's going to affect, well, the K-1 visa.
00:15:41I don't know why I'm saying it's going to affect the K-1 visa.
00:15:43I don't even know who I'm marrying.
00:15:44And also she refuses to give any explanation
00:15:48to everything we just heard.
00:15:52Our babies at home are seeing their parents
00:15:54and we're dealing with this, like.
00:15:58You go home?
00:16:00I'm close, not going to lie.
00:16:04Come on, I don't want to be in bed all day.
00:16:06I, like, I'm thinking, like, that this is where we walk away,
00:16:11like, that this cannot be saved.
00:16:15Here we are trying to get divorced for you
00:16:17and trying to bring you to our family
00:16:18and she's taking it for granted.
00:16:22She's taking it lightly.
00:16:24You want to just lounge by this heart, though?
00:16:27Yeah.
00:16:27Oh, yeah, that feels good, actually.
00:16:34Ooh.
00:16:36Ah.
00:16:40What do you think we should do from here?
00:16:43I don't want the sob stories.
00:16:44I don't want the bulls**t.
00:16:45I just want an explanation.
00:16:47And I don't want the lost in translation, either.
00:16:49Yeah, at least, like,
00:16:51seeing that vulnerability from her for the first time ever.
00:16:53Oh, should I have to go?
00:16:58Yeah.
00:17:00Hello?
00:17:02Hello, good morning.
00:17:04What's up?
00:17:05We can talk.
00:17:07Yeah?
00:17:08I want to play about last night.
00:17:13I have one friend.
00:17:15He speaks very well English.
00:17:18I'm very good at well Spanish.
00:17:20She's very in Spanish.
00:17:20We can use for Translate.
00:17:22Do you want to come to our rental?
00:17:30We're by the pool.
00:17:32Okay.
00:17:33See you, I.
00:17:37Interesting.
00:17:38It is.
00:17:39The word that I love is, like,
00:17:41I want to explain,
00:17:42because I'm, like,
00:17:43I need that.
00:17:45If this is just a more proper explanation
00:17:47of what's already said,
00:17:48that's not what we need.
00:17:49That's not what we're looking for now.
00:17:50This is, like, the last chance.
00:17:52It really is.
00:17:55Last night was hard.
00:17:57It was chaos.
00:17:59I was ready to walk away,
00:18:00and that was the first time ever
00:18:02I felt that way.
00:18:03I feel this morning
00:18:05that the only thing we're doing
00:18:07is looking in the rearview mirror,
00:18:08and she's there.
00:18:10So I think that she needs
00:18:12to explain herself.
00:18:19I'm here.
00:18:22Oh.
00:18:26I am not nervous.
00:18:27I'm sad.
00:18:28I don't know.
00:18:29Maybe this relation is broke,
00:18:32but
00:18:33I want to try
00:18:35talk.
00:18:38I want to explain
00:18:40all of them.
00:18:44Hola.
00:18:51He's my friend.
00:18:55He speaks very well
00:18:56about language,
00:18:58so I want to use
00:19:02him for translate, okay?
00:19:04Yeah.
00:19:04I think that would be best.
00:19:05I think that would be
00:19:06easier to communicate.
00:19:09Um.
00:19:13Well, um,
00:19:16I can explain
00:19:17all about
00:19:20last night.
00:19:23Ray talked with you.
00:19:26He told many things
00:19:27liars.
00:19:28My old name
00:19:29is Brenda Anaí.
00:19:31So,
00:19:32yo quería decirles
00:19:33mi nombre completo,
00:19:34pero...
00:19:35I didn't tell you
00:19:35my full name.
00:19:37No lo vi
00:19:37al principio importante.
00:19:39But I didn't think
00:19:40it was important
00:19:40at the beginning.
00:19:44Eh...
00:19:45Cuando yo me casé,
00:19:46tuve muchos problemas,
00:19:48porque yo fui
00:19:49víctima de golpes.
00:19:50When I got married,
00:19:51I had a lot of issues
00:19:52because I was
00:19:52victim of abuse.
00:19:55Abuse?
00:19:55Abuse.
00:19:56Um...
00:20:00Yo tuve que poner
00:20:01una orden de restricción.
00:20:03She had to ask
00:20:04for a restraining order.
00:20:06Is your divorce
00:20:07finalized?
00:20:08Yes, definitely.
00:20:09I have my paper.
00:20:12Cuando otra persona
00:20:13quiere divorciarse
00:20:14y él no quiere
00:20:16son muchas investigaciones.
00:20:19Getting a divorce
00:20:20when one party's
00:20:20not willing,
00:20:21there's a lot
00:20:21of investigation
00:20:23going on.
00:20:23Me costó mucho trabajo
00:20:25conseguir ese papel.
00:20:27Muchos años.
00:20:28Muchas lágrimas.
00:20:29It was very tough
00:20:30and it took her,
00:20:31like,
00:20:31it was blood,
00:20:32sweat,
00:20:32tears
00:20:32to get
00:20:32that paperwork
00:20:33in order.
00:20:34A lot of work.
00:20:35Porque yo no podía
00:20:36poner nada a mi nombre
00:20:38porque él
00:20:40estaba casado conmigo.
00:20:44So she couldn't
00:20:45have anything
00:20:46under her name
00:20:46because she was
00:20:47still married
00:20:48to him.
00:20:50Just...
00:20:51Oh.
00:20:51Without even a struggle.
00:20:52So she started
00:20:53going with the other name
00:20:55and put stuff
00:20:56under that name?
00:20:57Anything in her name
00:20:58at all.
00:20:58Yeah,
00:20:58not keeping
00:20:59anything in her name.
00:21:04I honestly feel
00:21:06bad or ashamed
00:21:07for, like,
00:21:08thinking the worst.
00:21:09Like,
00:21:10she's just
00:21:11a swindler
00:21:11or something
00:21:12but there's
00:21:14a valid reason
00:21:14why actually
00:21:15someone could
00:21:15lie about their name.
00:21:16It makes so much sense.
00:21:18When it came down
00:21:19to it,
00:21:20she did something
00:21:21she was very
00:21:21uncomfortable with
00:21:22just for us
00:21:24to not pass
00:21:25judgment on her.
00:21:27I'm so sorry
00:21:30for not talking
00:21:31about my
00:21:32bad past.
00:21:37This is honestly
00:21:38the most vulnerable
00:21:39and open
00:21:40I've ever seen you.
00:21:41And I appreciate
00:21:42you coming here
00:21:44to say that.
00:21:45I can tell
00:21:45it was very hard
00:21:46for you to say
00:21:47all these things.
00:21:57So don't believe
00:21:59a fourth party
00:22:00that comes
00:22:01and making accusations
00:22:02that the relationship
00:22:03is three people
00:22:04and not four people.
00:22:06Yeah.
00:22:08Would you be able
00:22:10to make a promise
00:22:10that from now on
00:22:12you will continue
00:22:13being this open
00:22:14and vulnerable
00:22:14with us?
00:22:22No more secrets.
00:22:24Yeah, I think
00:22:24this gave a lot
00:22:25of clarity.
00:22:26I don't think
00:22:27this is any kind
00:22:27of detriment
00:22:28to our relationship.
00:22:29And I've been
00:22:30looking forward,
00:22:30Guadalajara.
00:22:31I've been wanting
00:22:31to learn so much
00:22:32about you
00:22:33and your family.
00:22:35Yeah, my family
00:22:36will do more
00:22:38things about me
00:22:39if you want.
00:22:40I'm going to be
00:22:41the girlfriend, right?
00:22:44Okay.
00:22:45All right.
00:22:47Come, come.
00:22:51I'm coming around.
00:22:55I worry that
00:22:56we'll go in
00:22:57and she'll tell
00:22:58her family,
00:22:59like,
00:22:59here's my boyfriend
00:23:00and here's my friend.
00:23:01And that is
00:23:03absolutely a deal
00:23:04breaker for me.
00:23:05And maybe she
00:23:07introduces her
00:23:08to her family
00:23:09and they don't like us
00:23:10and that's a deal
00:23:10breaker for her.
00:23:11Right.
00:23:14I don't want
00:23:15five, Mom.
00:23:25I don't want
00:23:27five, Mom.
00:23:31I should tell you
00:23:32that I never met
00:23:34a part I didn't
00:23:35want to break.
00:23:39You just can't
00:23:41resist.
00:23:43Careful
00:23:44what you wish for.
00:23:46I'll be your
00:23:46favorite
00:23:47and the doll.
00:23:53Hey.
00:23:54Hey.
00:23:55So you're doing
00:23:56your new
00:23:57laser hair removal
00:23:58toilet I bought you?
00:23:59How's it working?
00:24:03It's a little
00:24:04painful,
00:24:04but it's okay.
00:24:06Well, you look
00:24:06like a rock star
00:24:07while you're doing it
00:24:07with those glasses.
00:24:09Oh.
00:24:10Yeah, it's
00:24:11for protection.
00:24:13With all the things
00:24:14that are going on
00:24:15and, you know,
00:24:17the fact that
00:24:18everything with us
00:24:18seems too uncertain
00:24:19and too ever-changing,
00:24:22I've decided
00:24:22that what I really
00:24:23need to do
00:24:24is have a
00:24:25prenup sign.
00:24:25Preparing for
00:24:30every possibility
00:24:32will make me
00:24:33feel more at ease
00:24:34about moving forward.
00:24:38Do you think
00:24:39you can take a break
00:24:40from that
00:24:40for a minute?
00:24:44I need you
00:24:44to look at this.
00:24:48What is that?
00:24:50This is
00:24:50a prenup.
00:24:51So,
00:24:55for my sake,
00:24:56I need you
00:24:57for me
00:24:58to sign that
00:25:00so I can move forward
00:25:01with this
00:25:02wedding
00:25:03because it's
00:25:04my biggest hang-up
00:25:05more than anything.
00:25:09So,
00:25:09I prenup.
00:25:11I'm just trying
00:25:12to be practical.
00:25:13I'm not trying
00:25:13to put some
00:25:14damper on our wedding
00:25:16or some feeling
00:25:17that we're not
00:25:17going to make it.
00:25:20It's like a contract.
00:25:21at the end
00:25:25of the day,
00:25:25I think,
00:25:26you know,
00:25:26you realize,
00:25:27like,
00:25:27I've been pretty
00:25:28supportive
00:25:28through you
00:25:29and all your
00:25:30changes
00:25:31and what we've
00:25:33been going through
00:25:34and the transitioning
00:25:35and all.
00:25:37So,
00:25:38this is just
00:25:38something I feel
00:25:39like I need
00:25:40to protect
00:25:42myself with
00:25:42in case,
00:25:43you know,
00:25:44the changes
00:25:44get too much
00:25:45or things
00:25:46get too far.
00:25:49It's almost
00:25:49like one week
00:25:50for the wedding.
00:25:52So,
00:25:53this is some
00:25:53sort of guarantee,
00:25:55something you
00:25:55can do for me
00:25:56that makes
00:25:56my mind
00:25:57at ease
00:25:58with all of it.
00:26:02When I was
00:26:03at the beach
00:26:03with Sean,
00:26:04he was talking
00:26:05about my
00:26:06possible surgeries
00:26:07and he was
00:26:08having difficult
00:26:09thoughts about
00:26:10everything that
00:26:11I attend
00:26:11and now he's
00:26:13just giving
00:26:14me a prenup.
00:26:16Just one more
00:26:17thing that shows
00:26:18me Sean's
00:26:19continuous
00:26:20feeling insecure
00:26:21about the
00:26:22future.
00:26:24Do you think
00:26:25I want to have
00:26:26like all your
00:26:27things and stay
00:26:28off your money?
00:26:31No,
00:26:32but I think
00:26:33that people
00:26:33with the best
00:26:34of intentions
00:26:35going into a
00:26:35marriage,
00:26:36when things
00:26:36get bad
00:26:38or they decide
00:26:38to end,
00:26:39then all sorts
00:26:41of things happen,
00:26:42right?
00:26:42People get
00:26:43their feelings
00:26:43hurt,
00:26:44they decide
00:26:44to take it
00:26:45out on somebody
00:26:45in the only way
00:26:46they can,
00:26:46so maybe
00:26:47that looks
00:26:47like,
00:26:48oh,
00:26:48I'll hurt
00:26:48you financially
00:26:49because that's
00:26:49my only way
00:26:50of getting
00:26:50back at you,
00:26:51but this kind
00:26:52of spells
00:26:53out everything
00:26:54because,
00:26:54of course,
00:26:55I've spent
00:26:55many years,
00:26:58decades,
00:26:59you know,
00:26:59building up
00:27:00my lifestyle.
00:27:04He knows me
00:27:05and he knows
00:27:06why I'm with
00:27:07him.
00:27:08I made
00:27:09all this big
00:27:09move to be
00:27:10here and to
00:27:11finally be by
00:27:12his side
00:27:13and get
00:27:14married
00:27:14because I
00:27:14love him,
00:27:15but I was
00:27:16not expecting
00:27:17a print-up.
00:27:19There's things
00:27:20in there
00:27:20that benefit
00:27:21you and it's
00:27:22not just about
00:27:23me in there
00:27:23and I think
00:27:25it's fair.
00:27:27This is
00:27:28important to me.
00:27:28This needs
00:27:29to happen.
00:27:31It's hard
00:27:32to focus
00:27:33on the wedding
00:27:33and it's
00:27:34hard to be
00:27:34happy if
00:27:36Sean is
00:27:37thinking
00:27:37about the
00:27:38end.
00:27:43I think
00:27:44I will
00:27:45finish
00:27:45the laser
00:27:46later.
00:27:47It's just
00:27:48a lot.
00:27:59How does it work?
00:28:01Deb,
00:28:01where are you?
00:28:02Is the blindfold
00:28:03on?
00:28:04Yeah.
00:28:05Okay.
00:28:06You know,
00:28:06Jonah's been asking
00:28:07me a lot lately
00:28:07if I paid the dowry.
00:28:09It's 15 cows
00:28:10at $200 a pop.
00:28:11What's going on?
00:28:12All right,
00:28:13take the barn
00:28:13and we'll go.
00:28:14Oh my God.
00:28:16Why are you
00:28:17dressed like a
00:28:17big cow?
00:28:18Some significance
00:28:19to it.
00:28:20What does he mean
00:28:21he's going to
00:28:22go back to the
00:28:22cruise?
00:28:23The cruise is
00:28:23ready for him
00:28:24whenever he's
00:28:25ready.
00:28:26I mean,
00:28:26he's got to
00:28:26learn to let
00:28:27that go.
00:28:28If he wants
00:28:29to go back
00:28:29to the cruise,
00:28:30then I'm done.
00:28:31What was
00:28:32that last
00:28:32train?
00:28:33There is
00:28:34an opportunity.
00:28:36There's a lot
00:28:36of parents
00:28:37working on those
00:28:37boats and they
00:28:39have to be
00:28:39away for their
00:28:40families too.
00:28:41She might not
00:28:41like it,
00:28:42but it
00:28:43is what
00:28:43it is.
00:28:59You're on
00:28:59the right.
00:29:01What a
00:29:01magnificent
00:29:02day.
00:29:06Great.
00:29:06So I want
00:29:15to surprise her
00:29:15with a little
00:29:16bit of costume
00:29:16here.
00:29:17I paid the
00:29:18dowry so we
00:29:18can actually get
00:29:19married now.
00:29:20So I'm going to
00:29:21just show up in a
00:29:22cow costume and
00:29:23surprise the hell
00:29:24out of her.
00:29:25You know,
00:29:26Joan has been
00:29:26asking me a lot
00:29:27lately.
00:29:27It's getting
00:29:28closer and closer
00:29:28to the wedding.
00:29:29If I paid the
00:29:30dowry, it's 15 cows
00:29:32at $200 a pop.
00:29:33That's $3,000.
00:29:35Fortunately, my
00:29:35mom and dad have
00:29:36paid for the
00:29:37wedding venue, so
00:29:38it's freed up some
00:29:38money in my
00:29:39savings.
00:29:40To transfer the
00:29:41money felt a
00:29:41little like the
00:29:42weight has been
00:29:42lifted off my
00:29:44shoulder, you
00:29:44know?
00:29:45The weight has
00:29:46been lifted off
00:29:46my hooves, you
00:29:47know?
00:29:49Now we can
00:29:50really have the
00:29:51family's blessing,
00:29:52truly begin our
00:29:53marriage.
00:29:57Let me just
00:29:57give her this
00:29:57blindfold real
00:29:58quick.
00:30:00Babe, throw
00:30:01this on.
00:30:04I do what?
00:30:06You've got to
00:30:06wrap it around
00:30:07your eyes.
00:30:07It's a blindfold.
00:30:10So,
00:30:11how does this work?
00:30:16Babe, where are
00:30:17you?
00:30:18Is the blindfold
00:30:19on?
00:30:20Yeah.
00:30:21I'll cry.
00:30:28What's going on?
00:30:30All right, take
00:30:31the blindfold off.
00:30:34Oh, my God.
00:30:39How's that?
00:30:40Oh, baby.
00:30:41What do you think?
00:30:42I look crazy or what?
00:30:43Yeah, very crazy.
00:30:47Why are you dressed
00:30:48like a big cow?
00:30:50Some significance
00:30:51to it.
00:30:52I paid the dowry.
00:30:56Wow.
00:30:56You know?
00:30:58Oh, that's good.
00:31:02Love you.
00:31:03I love you, baby.
00:31:05So, we can finally
00:31:06get married, baby.
00:31:07Yeah.
00:31:11I love you.
00:31:14In my culture,
00:31:15fathers usually
00:31:16set dowries
00:31:17for their daughters.
00:31:19So, my father
00:31:19decided my dowry
00:31:20before he died.
00:31:22I'm proud of you.
00:31:23Greg has finally
00:31:26paid the dowry.
00:31:27So, he has really
00:31:29respected my culture,
00:31:30my family,
00:31:31and my father's
00:31:32last wishes.
00:31:33So, I really love him
00:31:34and I'm thankful
00:31:35that he has done this.
00:31:38I'm proud of you
00:31:39that you've paid
00:31:39the dowry.
00:31:41Thank you, baby.
00:31:44I love you.
00:31:46I love you, baby.
00:31:48God damn.
00:31:49I love you.
00:32:08Hi, Gabi.
00:32:10Buenos dias.
00:32:11Buenos dias.
00:32:13Actually, buenos tardes.
00:32:14Yeah.
00:32:15Yeah.
00:32:25Nah.
00:32:26No, I know.
00:32:27Nah, nothing, no.
00:32:28So, I'm with the guayaw, I'm still fine.
00:32:30Yeah.
00:32:45I don't know if it was a good idea or if it wasn't a good idea to tell her last night
00:32:52about the call.
00:32:53But, I mean, I thought she was happy, you know, she just had a lot of fun.
00:32:58Maybe I was a little bit too drunk.
00:33:00Then I was like, you think this is the right time?
00:33:02And it seems like it wasn't the right time.
00:33:06No, no.
00:33:17She's a person who used to be working all the time.
00:33:21Now he's not working.
00:33:22It's like the thing, like, the macho man is coming out.
00:33:25Like, why are you supporting me?
00:33:27I'm not used to it.
00:33:29But Jessica needs to be in Juan's shoes
00:33:32to understand what he feel and what he thinks about it.
00:33:36How do you feel last night went?
00:33:39Wanting to go under a little argument.
00:33:42His daddy was frustrating mommy.
00:33:44Uh-oh.
00:33:45What'd you guys get in an argument with?
00:33:47About him wanting to maybe go back to the cruise
00:33:50if he can't find a job, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:33:53What does he mean he's going to go back to the cruise?
00:33:56Basically, like, the cruise is ready for him
00:33:59whenever he's ready.
00:34:00I mean, he's got to learn to let that go.
00:34:02I mean, he has to learn to find opportunities
00:34:06here.
00:34:06Right.
00:34:08Hi.
00:34:08Hi, guys.
00:34:09Morning.
00:34:10Are you out of here?
00:34:11Yeah, good morning.
00:34:12Baby.
00:34:12Good morning.
00:34:14Two contracts ago was supposed to be his last contract,
00:34:16but our visa wasn't done.
00:34:18And so his last contract is supposed
00:34:19to be his last contract.
00:34:21And so, like, that was our game plan.
00:34:23And now he's here, and the game plan's like,
00:34:25I'm not sure.
00:34:26And I'm like, you're frustrating me.
00:34:29You're wasting my time.
00:34:30And it's not fair to me, and it's not fair to David.
00:34:36OK.
00:34:36It's so nice he could come.
00:34:40All right, guys.
00:34:41Just get safe.
00:34:42Absolutely love that.
00:34:43Bye.
00:34:44Drive safe.
00:34:45Fly safe.
00:34:45Bye.
00:34:47Bye.
00:34:47There I go to the guy.
00:34:51Oh, baby.
00:34:53How are you?
00:34:54Good.
00:34:54How about you?
00:34:55Do you hangover?
00:34:56Um, not really.
00:34:57Not too bad.
00:34:58Yeah, I'm feeling fine.
00:35:00You're feeling fine?
00:35:01Yeah.
00:35:02Oh, what was that last night?
00:35:06I'm sorry, baby.
00:35:08What to do is just, there is an opportunity.
00:35:11I get that, but I want you to try to find a job
00:35:16and be happy here.
00:35:18I'm not saying I'm not.
00:35:22This affects a lot.
00:35:23It affects me.
00:35:24It affects that guy mainly.
00:35:27Yeah.
00:35:27And I mean, you hate being away from him for a day.
00:35:32Now imagine being away from him for eight months.
00:35:35I know.
00:35:36That'll be hard.
00:35:38I don't want to be away from Jessica and my baby,
00:35:42because it's going to be really hard on me.
00:35:43But I mean, if I have to go in order to make good money,
00:35:47but then I have to.
00:35:48And that's life sometimes.
00:35:49And there's a lot of parents, mothers, and fathers
00:35:52working on those boats.
00:35:54And they have to be away for their families, too.
00:35:56And she might not like it, but it is what it is.
00:36:01Whatever we talk about last night doesn't mean I don't love you.
00:36:04So I guess we're together.
00:36:07We're in this.
00:36:07We're going to make it work out.
00:36:10The wedding is just a few weeks away.
00:36:12So Juan really needs to decide what he wants,
00:36:15because I didn't sign up to be a cruise wife.
00:36:17We had talked about this a lot.
00:36:19And if he wants to go back to the cruise, then I'm done.
00:36:22How do you feel about going to meet with everyone?
00:36:24I'm sure they're going to be really curious
00:36:26why they haven't gotten a wedding invitation.
00:36:28I'm sure they're expecting for us
00:36:29to invite them to the wedding tonight.
00:36:31That's probably what they think we're going to tell them.
00:36:34So what's going on with the wedding?
00:36:35We will have no wedding.
00:36:37What?
00:36:38What?
00:36:39What?
00:36:45What?
00:37:09What?
00:37:10Dad!
00:37:11My shirt's still not ironed.
00:37:13Will you?
00:37:14Yes, I will.
00:37:15My princess.
00:37:16You look gorge.
00:37:17You look gorge.
00:37:21A girl kissed me, huh?
00:37:23Oh my God, you scared me.
00:37:25I was like, what?
00:37:27A girl kissed my man?
00:37:30How do you feel about going to meet with everyone?
00:37:33Friends gatherings.
00:37:34And explaining our plan.
00:37:36I'm sure they're going to be really curious
00:37:37why they haven't gotten a wedding invitation.
00:37:42We're going to meet up with friends.
00:37:44I'm sure they're expecting for us to invite them
00:37:46to the wedding tonight.
00:37:48That's probably what they think we're going to tell them.
00:37:50I can say that to Dan, that he's not invited.
00:37:54Oh, wouldn't you love that?
00:37:58Wow, it looks good.
00:38:00You look good.
00:38:01You should just go with that shirt.
00:38:06Will you?
00:38:06Yes.
00:38:07We're not going to present it like, you're not invited.
00:38:10We're going to say, we decided to do something intimate,
00:38:12just the two of us.
00:38:15And then they'll, of course, know, like,
00:38:17they're not invited.
00:38:18Sex?
00:38:19No.
00:38:20Are we going to start with, like, the bottom button?
00:38:22Yeah, just that's easy enough.
00:38:23Just these two?
00:38:24Yeah.
00:38:25Why am I like this?
00:38:26I like it.
00:38:27I see you standing there trying to look away.
00:38:31I see you standing there.
00:38:33Oh.
00:38:34Oh, this is a nice shine.
00:38:35Baby, I'm here to stay.
00:38:39Oh.
00:38:40It looks cozy.
00:38:41So pretty.
00:38:42I like it.
00:38:43Pretty in pink
00:39:02There's those hands oh
00:39:05My god, Dan Dan Dan everywhere. I cannot pretend I'm and I'm not a guy like this. I cannot
00:39:13How are you? I'm not that kind of I mean if I don't like someone I don't like someone that's all
00:39:19But I want to his castle. We agreed on something and he's better to respect my relationship from now
00:39:29Nice to see you guys
00:39:35I think the last time we were all together in one place is when sarper first arrived and I was introducing him to you guys
00:39:41Yeah, I'm coming to end of the day
00:39:43Three months. Yeah, and we're at the end of the 90 days almost. Clock is ticking
00:39:49tick-tock
00:39:51So what's going on with the wedding when you guys gonna get married? Oh
00:39:57I mean
00:40:01We will have no wedding what
00:40:05What do you mean no wedding hello, we will have a bedding
00:40:09What we're having a bedding
00:40:15A bedding
00:40:17A bedding
00:40:18What does that even mean? What does that?
00:40:20We decided to do it in bed
00:40:23What like a wedding in your bed exactly
00:40:26We were in bed one night just brainstorming what should we do and I said well, we should just get married in bed
00:40:32And I was kind of joking but then he said yeah, I like that idea and I was like, oh
00:40:40Actually, that's a good idea. Yeah, it's not a bedding. It's a bedding
00:40:45It's where we're most comfortable. It's where we spend the most time so I can get married in bed
00:40:50Do you want to invite all of us in your bed? No one's invited. It's just for us
00:40:58I'm completely shocked. They're getting married in bed
00:41:03All right
00:41:05She kind of lives in the moment and we love that about her and she's spontaneous and heartfelt
00:41:09But I just want them to think everything through and just have a little bit of a plan
00:41:16I have a question
00:41:19Don't hate me, but what about a prenup?
00:41:24I never thought of a babe. I don't know
00:41:26Does he knows what's a prenup is?
00:41:28Of course
00:41:29In my culture, prenup is a very routine to ask, especially a woman to ask a man
00:41:34Okay
00:41:34Listen, Sarper, myself and nobody here would ever want to offend you in any way
00:41:43We can't control the US government and neither can you about when you're able to work and contribute
00:41:49That could be two months that could be two years who knows and so all this is is something that would be
00:41:57Put in a drawer in case the worst scenario happens
00:42:03Doesn't mean it's gonna be a failure
00:42:05It's a safety net for both of you works with Wes
00:42:07My friend alexandra brings up the word prenup she asks if we're gonna have one and I see
00:42:15My friend wendy just take the reins with it and go full throttle
00:42:19I can see it in her eyes. She's actually getting emotional
00:42:24She's very afraid for me and I understand her point of view. She is my business manager
00:42:29She's worked really hard to get me the deals that I have with different companies
00:42:34And to build up my finances and then to see me risk it all for a marriage with someone
00:42:40I can see why she's concerned
00:42:43Babe, you know, I trust you, but it might be a good idea for me to
00:42:47Just get that just
00:42:50Yes for both of us. I agree. I mean, what's it hurt to to get it? I mean, you only get hurt if you don't so
00:42:58What the f**k?
00:43:00Sarper, it also protects you though. That's the greatest advantage
00:43:03Oh my god, I am shocked. We have never talked with Shikaina about prenup before
00:43:09If you are married you are committing
00:43:12To be together. I mean in bad day in good day something like that in my culture
00:43:18But if you want it, I have one clause
00:43:21We will add to the prenup. Are you okay with that? What is the clause?
00:43:26You know
00:43:28You're getting really excited here. Calm down. Put your finger down first of all
00:43:32I have a weight target for you, right? 128 pounds
00:43:37I will weigh you in every
00:43:39First week of every month and for every pound you over I will find you for a thousand dollars
00:43:46Are you okay with that? You're just upset right now
00:43:50No, are you okay with that?
00:43:52Oh my gosh
00:43:59Tonight we're giving joe her bachelorette party
00:44:01I've never been to a strip club
00:44:08Like two water balloons
00:44:11Going to a strip club with my future mother, you know, it's a bit awkward
00:44:15She's been keeping secrets from you
00:44:23Maybe you want to just take some more time to think about it
00:44:28I didn't expect to have so many questions problems a day before our bedding
00:44:32The problems that we have I think I can fix it after the bedding
00:44:36You want to wait until after the marriage to resolve your your problems? That doesn't make sense to me
00:44:44I don't know
00:44:46Rock my mother, tell her where I've been Go call my sister, tell her what you've seen
00:44:56I fell down to darkness, let her rain down, rain down over me
00:45:03Hey, how's it going?
00:45:13What happened last time? Wasn't it crazy?
00:45:28Yeah, I've been here for about 10 years and it was new to me, let alone you, you've been
00:45:36here only about a month
00:45:37Before coming to the US, I was like, I'm not a narrow-minded person
00:45:42I can get adjusted to so many things, but last night I realized that there are some things
00:45:50I'm not gonna be okay with, like for a long time at least
00:45:54It's just a day before your marriage
00:45:57Yeah, I just want her, like there's the problems that we have
00:46:01I think I can fix it after the wedding
00:46:04I'm just being so hopeful about that
00:46:08But right now, honestly, we do not have time to talk about this stuff
00:46:12You want to wait until after the marriage to resolve your problems?
00:46:19That doesn't make sense to me
00:46:21I don't want to look like I'm insisting or I'm trying to break up this marriage
00:46:26I just want him to know that if there are issues that are bothering him
00:46:30He'd better want to get them sorted out before the wedding
00:46:34I know after you found out about the drawings
00:46:37You suspected that Stevie might be bisexual
00:46:40So is that resolved or is that something you're okay with?
00:46:45Right now, if I ask her, she's gonna be like, I have told you multiple times
00:46:50Now you're not respecting me, so I'm just trying to respect her
00:46:54You're compromising
00:46:57Mahdi, do you want to live with someone who you can't be honest with for the rest of your life?
00:47:03I've been married for 15 years and my wife and I, we're on the same page
00:47:09But you and Stevie, you guys don't seem to be on the same page
00:47:14How long do you think you can keep doing this?
00:47:18Like, I'm one of those people that I will sacrifice myself for love
00:47:26When I love someone, I always try to keep everything smoothly and peacefully
00:47:32I learned it from my father
00:47:35My father has been always doing that for my family, even me
00:47:41Like, if he knew that something's gonna make me upset, he would just keep it for himself
00:47:46And I think I'm kind of like showing my love by sacrificing the things that I really need in my life
00:47:55What I'm concerned with is that she's been keeping secrets from you
00:48:02Something I didn't tell you is that I hadn't told dad anything about you yet before you got here
00:48:08Like nothing?
00:48:09I hadn't told him anything, like he didn't even know I was in a relationship
00:48:16Why do you have boobs everywhere?
00:48:19Just around paintings
00:48:21Oh
00:48:22So I told you I'd do, like, nude portraits
00:48:28Did you paint her?
00:48:29Yeah
00:48:30I didn't clear nude
00:48:32Why haven't you told me that?
00:48:33I didn't think it was a big deal
00:48:35Maybe you want to take a few more weeks
00:48:41Just take some more time to think about it
00:48:44And not rush to it
00:48:47I think Saeed has a point
00:48:49This is so important to me that I know everything about her before the wedding
00:48:54Because after the wedding, I have these thoughts that I'm stuck here
00:48:59And I can't do anything about it
00:49:01And those thoughts are so strong in my brain
00:49:05I think I need to talk to her more before the wedding
00:49:09I agree
00:49:10If I can't get a solid answer from Stevie, we can't get married
00:49:15You don't want to live the rest of your life compromising for the sake of making her happy
00:49:21Yeah, I just don't want to feel trapped after the wedding, that's it
00:49:27That's it
00:49:45I love your hair like that, baby
00:49:47Yeah
00:49:48Wow, that thing is really blowing out, huh?
00:49:49No, I don't want it to be that straight
00:49:51I freaking love it
00:49:52You look so beautiful
00:49:54Cow, make some noise for me
00:49:56Party on the block
00:49:57Pump, pump it up
00:50:01Where are you going tonight?
00:50:03Laura organized my bachelor's party
00:50:06I've never been to one, so everything is new to me
00:50:09So I can't wait to just see what happens there
00:50:15In Uganda, a bridal shower would be like
00:50:17Where are your friends, your girlfriends
00:50:20They take you to a nice place
00:50:22You have cake, food
00:50:24They'll give you marriage advice
00:50:26Greg's friend, Laura
00:50:27She's throwing a bachelorette party for me
00:50:30Since I have no family here, so what can I say?
00:50:33When you are on Long Island, you have to act like Long Islanders
00:50:37So I can't wait to see what really happens there
00:50:40So where are you going?
00:50:42Strip clubs
00:50:43Yeah
00:50:44You're going to have like schlongs swinging in your face
00:50:47What are schlongs?
00:50:49What's that?
00:50:51It's a slang word for penis
00:50:53Yeah, exactly
00:50:54Greg is worried that there are going to be schlanks, schlanks in my face
00:51:00But we are going to a ladies' strip club
00:51:03So they're going to be ladies
00:51:04I think it's more the boobs and the ass, so
00:51:08It's not written in the Bible that you're not supposed to go to a strip club
00:51:11So I'm good to go, I'm enjoying my life
00:51:14You sure I can come?
00:51:26Tonight we're going out with Joan
00:51:28We're giving her her bachelorette party
00:51:30It's exciting
00:51:32I wasn't invited to the fitting for the dress
00:51:35Woo
00:51:36Woo
00:51:37Woo
00:51:38But I can get over that
00:51:40Let's just have a good time and rock and roll
00:51:42Woo
00:51:43Woo
00:51:44Woo
00:51:45So I can rest in
00:51:46Get on it
00:51:48Come on, Joanie
00:51:49Am I moving over?
00:51:51All righty
00:51:52Like we said you gotta have fun before you went
00:51:55Like we said you gotta have fun before you went
00:51:58To Joanie
00:51:59To Joanie
00:52:00To Joanie
00:52:01Yay!
00:52:05Myself, I've never been to a strip club
00:52:08So I don't know what to expect
00:52:10How much they take off or anything, I don't know
00:52:13All right, so I would like to play the never have I ever game
00:52:18The rules of the game are
00:52:20If you've done it, take a drink
00:52:21If you've never done it, you don't take a drink
00:52:23Okay, never have I ever had sex in a public place
00:52:27No
00:52:28Me have never
00:52:29Nope
00:52:30I haven't
00:52:31Unfortunately
00:52:32No
00:52:33I know
00:52:34I know
00:52:35I know
00:52:36I know
00:52:37I know
00:52:38I know
00:52:39I know
00:52:40I know
00:52:41It wasn't that good
00:52:42I got another good one
00:52:43Never have I ever peed in the shower
00:52:45Now my question is to Joan
00:52:46How many times have you peed in Lucille's shower?
00:52:48Always
00:52:49Always
00:52:50I like that
00:52:52Yeah
00:52:53She cleans a lot, so
00:52:55Yeah
00:52:57Right
00:52:58Yay
00:52:59Yay
00:53:00So much fun
00:53:01Yay
00:53:02Ready to go, Joan?
00:53:03Yeah
00:53:04Wow
00:53:06Yeah, big stepping with my shoes on
00:53:09I just go and get the money then I move on
00:53:11Promise you won't fall in love cause I'll be too gone
00:53:14Me walking in a strip club I'm seeing ladies with the big bus being out so I'm like what's this?
00:53:29VIP, yeah
00:53:31Oh my god
00:53:32Cheers to Joan
00:53:34Welcome to a US strip club girl
00:53:37Woo!
00:53:38Woo!
00:53:39Like two water balloons
00:53:40Yeah
00:53:41Like water
00:53:42You're getting a couple of dollars
00:53:43Yeah
00:53:44That sounds like a
00:53:45Make it rain, make it rain, you know
00:53:46Oh
00:53:49If you don't mind I'm gonna get you a lap dance
00:53:52So that you see how we doing here in the US
00:53:55Okay?
00:53:56Alright?
00:53:57You want I can put her bums on me?
00:53:59She's going to put her bum on you, yes
00:54:01No
00:54:02Oh yes
00:54:03Oh yeah
00:54:04Come on now
00:54:05Why not?
00:54:06Look at her, she's beautiful
00:54:08Why wouldn't you want that in front of your face?
00:54:10Oh
00:54:11Come on now
00:54:12Woo!
00:54:14That's a nice hat
00:54:15Going to a strip club with my future mother-in-law is a bit awkward
00:54:20My future mother-in-law is just besides me so I'm scared to just say like oh I need the lap dance
00:54:26But looking at Mrs. Lucille she's really enjoying this so I'm just going with the floor
00:54:32Go Jodi, go Jodi, go Jodi
00:54:34Not many girls got a booty like that
00:54:37It's mystery
00:54:39Woo!
00:54:40Don't be kidding ideas Joan
00:54:42I don't want to hear you doing that booty dance upstairs
00:54:45Just hold off on that for a little bit, okay?
00:54:48Alright
00:54:49Give me that hug
00:54:51Woo!
00:54:52Shake it
00:54:54You're kidding me
00:54:56You're kidding me
00:54:58Go Jodi
00:54:59No
00:55:00No
00:55:01Oh no
00:55:02With all the last minute planning, what have you guys been doing?
00:55:07He did a prenup and he gave to me, I'm still thinking about everything
00:55:12So you have not signed?
00:55:14Not yet
00:55:15No!
00:55:16I thought that Pavisa was the hard part, but this is the hard part
00:55:23You're okay with just going back to Brazil?
00:55:25Come on
00:55:26You ready for a long car ride?
00:55:40You're gonna have enough energy?
00:55:41Are you?
00:55:42Go see Wookie and Grandma?
00:55:43Hmm?
00:55:44Ah yeah
00:55:45Today we head to Sonoma County, then we have a day to organize and get all of our stuff together and get ready for the actual big event
00:55:59Everything seems to be going pretty well as far as getting the wedding ready. But the biggest loose end happens to still be that the prenup is still not signed and in my hands.
00:56:24And I don't want to put a lot of extra pressure on her. But in order for us to get married, I really need to have that paper signed. I think that's the big impending, most important piece of the puzzle.
00:56:45The last couple of days has been like a little odd for me because like this paper became the most important thing of the relationship. I had a lawyer who speaks Portuguese and he explained everything that was in the prenup. But it's still something, it's like a lot for me.
00:57:12Something that I still need to think about.
00:57:15I can understand that Sean is trying to protect the things that he has been meeting all these years like work, house and everything. But Sean is thinking about like a divorce. And I want the wedding to be about love and about our future together.
00:57:34Getting married, it's like a dream for me. And I was waiting for this moment. And for now, I just want to think about how beautiful it is, how beautiful is our love and my dress, my accessories and all these kind of things like to bring the magic and happen to our special day.
00:57:59Bye-bye monkeys. Miss you never. Here we go.
00:58:06I'm tired. I know. Or Maxwell.
00:58:21Or Maxwell.
00:58:22Okay. Here. We're here. Finally.
00:58:31Hey, Mom.
00:58:33Oh, my goodness. Sean. Aaliyah.
00:58:37Wow.
00:58:38You finally made it. Happy Fourth of July.
00:58:41Oh, my. Love.
00:58:42You need to see this. Happy Fourth of July. This is our Fourth of July party.
00:58:48It looks like somebody got out of the loony bin early.
00:58:51I did all this for Aaliyah. This is her first Fourth of July.
00:58:56I'm surprised. Oh.
00:58:59Independence Day in Brazil, they like walk in the streets, wait for the flags and we have all that, so.
00:59:05And I get the American version.
00:59:07People get excited, but I wasn't, I did not know that here in America also people are making like a big thing.
00:59:14That's funny. Are you going to try?
00:59:18Oh, that looks great on you.
00:59:20Really?
00:59:21Everything looks good on you.
00:59:22Oh, that's wonderful.
00:59:24Can I open?
00:59:25Oh, yes, please.
00:59:26War for the July.
00:59:31Oh, so good to see you.
00:59:34Oh, my goodness, long trips.
00:59:35Funny.
00:59:36Very long.
00:59:37I'll be the star.
00:59:38Seems appropriate.
00:59:39With all the last minute planning, what have you guys been doing?
00:59:44I had to find a hair braider for Aaliyah. I had her ring resized, but it seems like we might only be having a party because some things haven't happened to make it more than a party.
01:00:01He did a prenup and he gave it to me.
01:00:05Everything was okay?
01:00:06Yeah.
01:00:07I understand everything that says that, but it's like I'm still thinking about everything.
01:00:14Oh, so you have not signed the prenup?
01:00:17Not yet.
01:00:18No.
01:00:19No.
01:00:20Okay.
01:00:26And what happens if you decide that you're not going to sign it?
01:00:32Great question.
01:00:33We'll have a party, but just a party, yeah?
01:00:37You're not going to get married.
01:00:38And then I can leave and whatever.
01:00:41Oh!
01:00:42She'll have to be deported or whatever, go back within four days or something.
01:00:47No!
01:00:48And you're okay with just going back to Brazil?
01:00:51No, that's not something that I want, but it's...
01:00:54He just put that, he throw that to me and I'm just taking my time.
01:01:02These 19 days has been difficult.
01:01:05I'm supposed to be feeling wonderful, happy and love it, but I'm just feeling anxious because, like, all these worries of Sean about our future.
01:01:15I think I will just start unpacking my things and everything, organize everything for the next days, okay?
01:01:23Okay.
01:01:24I thought that the visa process was the hard part, but now I'm here and I think I was wrong because this is the hard part.
01:01:35Do you really think that she's not going to sign the prenup?
01:01:48I mean, she hasn't signed it yet and times are ticking, but she knows what's going to happen.
01:01:53Oh, Sean.
01:01:54My goodness.
01:01:56Do you think I'm being too cautious by asking for her to sign a prenup?
01:02:02No.
01:02:04Because I know you.
01:02:06I know how hard you've worked.
01:02:08It's your life.
01:02:09You have just put so much into where you're at, Sean.
01:02:15I was all excited about this marriage and now I'm not feeling that way any longer.
01:02:25I know what I need.
01:02:27I know how it has to happen for me, so she's just going to have to decide how it happens for her.
01:02:31And we'll take it from there.
01:02:34So, Juan, like the morning after Deadwood, why'd you bring the cruise up?
01:02:49I know you want to make money and provide, but I don't want to be a cruise wife.
01:02:56So, is your the cruise?
01:02:57Is that what you're saying?
01:02:58Yeah.
01:02:59Hey, y'all.
01:03:00Hey, mama.
01:03:01Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma.
01:03:02Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma.
01:03:04Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma.
01:03:05Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma.
01:03:06Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma.
01:03:11Megan and Herbie are going to be stopping by soon to bring some decorations.
01:03:19Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma
01:03:49I'm good.
01:03:49I brought all the stuff that you asked for,
01:03:51so we can make paper flowers.
01:03:53Let's see, Mike.
01:03:54How are you doing, man?
01:03:55Good, good, good, good.
01:03:56What you guys bringing?
01:03:57You've been complaining that you don't have enough Colombian
01:04:00stuff in the wedding.
01:04:01And we get to make paper flowers.
01:04:06Paper flowers.
01:04:09It's not I asked for paper.
01:04:11You asked for Colombia.
01:04:12And I'm bringing you Colombia.
01:04:14With the paper flowers and one?
01:04:15Like, yeah.
01:04:16All right, let's do it.
01:04:17Yes, you do paper flowers in Colombia.
01:04:21I have never seen paper flowers in Colombia
01:04:24ever in my life.
01:04:25Internet search said paper flowers.
01:04:27And luckily, Megan has said that she knows how.
01:04:30So she is going to be our paper flower tutor.
01:04:34What colors do you want the flowers, Juan?
01:04:36I mean, the Colombian flag.
01:04:37OK, Colombian flag.
01:04:38Yellow, blue, and red, yeah.
01:04:39Yellow, blue, and red, OK.
01:04:41So we want the red, yellow, and blue to be stacked together.
01:04:45And then we're going to accordion style this, like,
01:04:48about an inch each.
01:04:51So accordion it.
01:04:52OK.
01:04:53And you're going to cut a triangle out of the middle.
01:04:58And then you tie a string around the middle.
01:05:00Oh!
01:05:01Oh, oh.
01:05:02Megan.
01:05:03He's slick.
01:05:04No!
01:05:05No, you're OK!
01:05:06I'm so sorry.
01:05:12Like this?
01:05:12Looks good.
01:05:13It looks great.
01:05:14It takes a lot of work just the main one, you know?
01:05:17You wanted Colombia at the wedding.
01:05:18I got you Colombia.
01:05:20Oh, David, you're being a great helper.
01:05:24So, Juan, like, the morning after Deadwood,
01:05:29I am just a little confused.
01:05:35Why'd you bring the cruise up?
01:05:37Like, why are you wanting to go back on the cruise?
01:05:39That makes no sense to me.
01:05:43My career has been always out there in the ocean.
01:05:47That's my career.
01:05:48I know I didn't study anything in school to come here,
01:05:50and, you know, I'm going to go find a job out there
01:05:52that I can get paid good money, you know?
01:05:54Just makes me worried, because cruise life
01:05:56isn't the life for your family.
01:05:58Oh, my God, I'm going to go find a job out there.
01:06:00I know.
01:06:01The cruise life isn't for him anymore.
01:06:04You can always come back to the money.
01:06:06Right now, your family needs you.
01:06:07I'm really hoping he decides against the cruise life,
01:06:11because I think it will be really detrimental
01:06:12to their relationship.
01:06:16Juan, will you give me a big trash bag?
01:06:21Oh, I mean, thanks, guys.
01:06:23I'm going to go try to get him laid down,
01:06:25because he's, like, super tired.
01:06:28We have to get married within 90 days,
01:06:31and I feel like he hasn't completely made up his mind,
01:06:34and there's always, like, a easy, I can go back.
01:06:39And I feel like he thinks it's something that we could manage,
01:06:43and we could be flexible in, and I disagree.
01:06:46Are you ready for night night?
01:06:49He really needs to decide what he wants,
01:06:51if he wants to go back to the cruise or not,
01:06:53and I feel like it's time that we talk.
01:06:56Bye.
01:06:57Bye, guys.
01:06:58See you, bud. Bye.
01:06:59Bye.
01:07:00See you.
01:07:08Is he asleep?
01:07:09Yep, he's asleep.
01:07:10Another win from Mama.
01:07:12Good.
01:07:14I was successful.
01:07:16Thank you for including my culture in the wedding.
01:07:19That makes me feel better about the wedding venue, too.
01:07:22Yeah, I'm happy about it, too.
01:07:24I mean, I know you were wanting that, so...
01:07:26Yeah, it's well appreciated.
01:07:28Yeah.
01:07:29Thanks a lot.
01:07:30You're welcome.
01:07:31So, they didn't want to bring it up while Megan and her were here,
01:07:38but I know it's been a big change,
01:07:42and this isn't the ideal situation,
01:07:45and you want to make money and provide, and...
01:07:49But it's like, I don't want to be a cruise wife.
01:07:53That's not what I want.
01:07:54That's not what I signed up for.
01:07:56And because it's, like, a choice you can make,
01:08:01but you will lose me.
01:08:07So, it's you or the cruise?
01:08:08Is that what you're saying?
01:08:10Yeah.
01:08:15And I just want to make that clear to you.
01:08:19I don't know what to say.
01:08:22I never thought you would ask me to make a choice
01:08:24between the cruise or you, though, I mean...
01:08:27This stuff never happened with Jessica.
01:08:30Like, she telling me what to do.
01:08:33It feels like I'm being controlled a little bit.
01:08:35You just can't do this, and you have to do something else,
01:08:38otherwise you lose me.
01:08:40I think that's a little bit unfair.
01:08:42I don't know what to say.
01:08:44I never thought you would ask me to make a choice
01:08:46but I think that's a little bit unfair.
01:08:49I love my job.
01:08:57You being away for eight months is not fair to us.
01:09:01Well, if you want me to make a choice
01:09:14in between my family and the cruise ship or a job,
01:09:17I would take my family first.
01:09:20The baby's my priority and you too.
01:09:23Okay, I'm not going back on the cruise ship.
01:09:26I'm gonna stay.
01:09:27I promise.
01:09:32I promise.
01:09:35I promise.
01:09:36I promise.
01:09:37I love you.
01:09:38You better.
01:09:39The first time I did this cruise job,
01:09:43I didn't know what to expect.
01:09:45But when I got there, everything was just so amazing to me
01:09:50that I kind of developed like a huge passion for it.
01:09:55Like, that was something I wanted to do.
01:09:58It is going to be hard to leave cruise life behind,
01:10:03especially with the type of jobs I can get in this area.
01:10:07So, yeah, that's going to be tough on me.
01:10:10But that's what it is, I guess.
01:10:13You love me?
01:10:15I love you.
01:10:17I love you.
01:10:22If you put agreements to a marriage, it's business.
01:10:25So, she comes with me, offer,
01:10:27and I go with her with a counter offer.
01:10:29This is beyond, like, my brain is on the floor right now.
01:10:34Sarper's suggestion about adding a clause in the prenup,
01:10:38it's just a way of him getting back at me
01:10:40for asking for a prenup.
01:10:42This is not fair to ask her this.
01:10:47If you put agreements to a marriage, it's business.
01:10:55So, she comes with me, offer,
01:10:57and I go with her with a counter offer.
01:10:59That's a clause I'm adding to you.
01:11:01We have a meet in Turkey.
01:11:15He's just joking.
01:11:16When a woman gets married,
01:11:17he doesn't look after herself.
01:11:19That's not my fear.
01:11:20I know you, but let's do it.
01:11:22If you want a prenup from me.
01:11:23Sure. Okay.
01:11:24Sure, I'll do that, because I care more about it probably than you do.
01:11:27Wait, Shekina.
01:11:28Wait, wait, wait.
01:11:29Hold on, hold on, Shekina.
01:11:31Just because I literally said I don't care.
01:11:32No, you should care.
01:11:33Listen, he's just upset.
01:11:34You're just acting out because you're upset.
01:11:36No, but you're going to make it as a term of your contract.
01:11:39It's like he said it's offensive.
01:11:40$1,000?
01:11:41Yes, she wants a contract from me, and I've been...
01:11:42Are you giving...
01:11:43But she's not asking anything for you.
01:11:44Yeah, but this is not fair to ask her this.
01:11:47Like, come on.
01:11:48Sarper's suggestion about adding a clause in the prenup,
01:11:53about my weight is not a shock.
01:11:56Of course he's saying that.
01:11:57He's the same guy that was trying to weigh me from day one.
01:12:00Come on.
01:12:01Let's see.
01:12:02Wait.
01:12:03Ooh.
01:12:04132.
01:12:05132?
01:12:06Four pounds.
01:12:07I think also it's just a little way of him getting back at me
01:12:11for doing something like asking for a prenup,
01:12:14which to him was offensive.
01:12:16Maybe he's trying to offend me a little.
01:12:18I'm asking her.
01:12:19What if she gains five pounds?
01:12:21Yeah.
01:12:22What, you're going to divorce?
01:12:23$5,000.
01:12:24So you're going to divorce?
01:12:25Babe, you're acting wild right now.
01:12:26No, I'm not divorcing her.
01:12:27Are you serious?
01:12:28Yeah?
01:12:29It's just ridiculous, man.
01:12:34Like, seriously.
01:12:35Like, I'm trying to respect this relationship,
01:12:38but I also try as a friend to kind of tell Shekinah,
01:12:42hey, wake up.
01:12:43Like, you cannot accept those type of things.
01:12:46So that's what makes me wonder how deep she's getting manipulated
01:12:53by him in that relationship.
01:12:56The fact that he's setting that standard for you,
01:12:59that is a sense of a change.
01:13:00It's literally, like, me doing the dishes
01:13:02and him coming up and telling me to do the dishes.
01:13:04I'm already doing it.
01:13:05No, but Shekinah, you cannot, like, add this as a term of your contract.
01:13:09Come on.
01:13:10Like, let's be serious one minute.
01:13:12So I'm sorry.
01:13:13You lose your mind.
01:13:14You're losing your mind.
01:13:15I'm not going to gain weight.
01:13:16So I don't care.
01:13:17This is beyond, like, my brain is on the floor right now.
01:13:22This is so absolutely absurd.
01:13:24Stupid.
01:13:25I have more assets than her.
01:13:27Yeah, so protect her.
01:13:28So then why are you putting that on her?
01:13:30If you have more assets,
01:13:31then you should be grateful that she's doing this
01:13:33because it's protecting you.
01:13:34Because you keep yours, she keeps hers.
01:13:35It's protecting you.
01:13:36I don't want the prenup.
01:13:37She wants prenup.
01:13:38Then you should be grateful for it.
01:13:39If you have more assets,
01:13:40it protects you more than it protects her.
01:13:42I don't care my assets.
01:13:43Okay, then why are you putting implications on her
01:13:45that if she gains weight...
01:13:46He's saying that he's...
01:13:48This is a vindictive...
01:13:49That's what you're saying.
01:13:50You're just being vindictive.
01:13:51It's not a business transaction.
01:13:52You want to marry her because you love her.
01:13:54You see a future with her
01:13:55and you see forever with her.
01:13:56Like, that's it.
01:13:59It shouldn't matter what comes with you.
01:14:01Even if she gained 20 pounds.
01:14:02Whether she wants to share her finances with you,
01:14:04whether you want to share her finances with you,
01:14:06that's all what matters.
01:14:08Because I'm getting...
01:14:09Why are you going to go?
01:14:10We're here together.
01:14:11Leave me room, please.
01:14:13I have to stay in a conversation.
01:14:14Please don't die.
01:14:15Please don't die.
01:14:16It's their relationship.
01:14:17I don't want to...
01:14:19understand me.
01:14:24I don't care what they think.
01:14:26How can I request such a thing?
01:14:28How can she request prenup to me?
01:14:30That's the same thing.
01:14:31I mean, it's really, I mean, disrespectful.
01:14:34It's so disrespectful.
01:14:37You okay?
01:14:39Is there anything else that you need to say
01:14:44that you haven't said?
01:14:47Are you bisexual?
01:14:48Are you serious?
01:14:49I'm sorry.
01:14:50But this is the very last time, I'm telling you.
01:14:52I don't understand what's happening.
01:14:57I feel like I made a mistake all in here.
01:15:03That's too late.
01:15:13Thank you so much.
01:15:15Thank you so much.
01:15:16Thank you so much.
01:15:17Thank you so much.
01:15:18See you.
01:15:35Are you ready for the wedding?
01:15:39I think I am.
01:15:40But we need to talk about some stuff.
01:15:43Still?
01:15:46Yeah.
01:15:47Should we talk about it now or wait?
01:15:49We shouldn't wait.
01:15:50Till when?
01:15:51Five minutes before the wedding?
01:15:55If you have anything to say,
01:15:56you should say it with your chest out.
01:16:01I'm still thinking about the conversations with Saeed.
01:16:04I'm not opening up to her because I'm afraid.
01:16:08And I'm just like, I can't live like this.
01:16:11I think tonight is my last chance to ask that one question again.
01:16:18Are you bisexual?
01:16:20We're here.
01:16:34It's so cute.
01:16:36You first.
01:16:37Are you sure?
01:16:38Yes.
01:16:40Maybe ring the thing.
01:16:42I'll stand behind you.
01:16:43I'll stand behind you.
01:16:46Hello.
01:16:47Welcome to Ross Mansion.
01:16:48I'm Gerry.
01:16:49Thank you so much.
01:16:50Maddie.
01:16:51So it's the night before the wedding,
01:16:52and Maddie and I are getting to check in to the Ross Mansion,
01:16:55which is a historical, beautiful place in downtown Hattiesburg.
01:17:00So this is Ross Mansion.
01:17:01This is where you all will be staying tonight.
01:17:04It was built in 1903 by the Ross family.
01:17:06It's so pretty.
01:17:09I booked the room in the mansion instead of staying at my house
01:17:11because I thought it would be nice to get away from, like,
01:17:14the ordinary day of our life.
01:17:17Is this real?
01:17:18Yeah.
01:17:19Actually, this is probably from the 20s.
01:17:21I just thought it would be a nice thing to do for us to have time together alone.
01:17:26All right.
01:17:27So this is the Peacock Chamber where you will be spending your time.
01:17:32Yay.
01:17:36Oh, cute.
01:17:39It's really amazing.
01:17:40Oh, my God.
01:17:44Well, I will leave you to it.
01:17:46All right.
01:17:47Everything is so real here.
01:17:52Like, the bad.
01:17:54Okay.
01:17:56It's too late.
01:17:57We can look tomorrow.
01:17:58For what? For history?
01:17:59We can look tomorrow.
01:18:01It's too late for history lessons.
01:18:06Oh.
01:18:07Oh, wait.
01:18:08I have noticed that you have not been talking a whole lot.
01:18:24Yeah.
01:18:25And you've just been kind of, like, quiet and reserved.
01:18:28Like, you don't want to say much because you don't want to hurt my feelings.
01:18:31I know.
01:18:33I wanted to talk to you about that.
01:18:37Before coming here, when we were talking over the phone and texting and stuff,
01:18:42it has never happened that I say something to you and you're, like, super mad at me.
01:18:47So back then, I could share my mind and talk about anything.
01:18:52So there's going to be problems and you have to work through them sometimes.
01:18:55Yeah.
01:18:56But not in an argument way.
01:18:58No.
01:18:59I'm not just walking around trying to get mad at you.
01:19:02Because that's how I feel.
01:19:07Okay.
01:19:08Well, I'm sorry that you feel that way.
01:19:11Mm-hmm.
01:19:13So is there anything else that you need to say that you haven't said?
01:19:16Mm-hmm.
01:19:23Say it.
01:19:28You know that I would love you no matter what.
01:19:32You know that, right?
01:19:34I just want you to know that.
01:19:36And then answer me.
01:19:39Are you bisexual?
01:19:44Serious?
01:19:45Are.
01:19:46But this is the very last time, I'm telling you.
01:19:59I'm too tired.
01:20:05I know it wasn't a good moment to ask these questions.
01:20:08I'm just tired.
01:20:10I've driven a long way and I can't think sometimes when I'm tired.
01:20:14And that's why I'm just saying it's not a good moment but we don't have any more time.
01:20:21I don't understand what's happening.
01:20:23Stevie is not giving me a solid answer and right now I'm just looking at the whole relationship and I feel like it's just falling apart and it's really hard to see that.
01:20:42I have sacrificed a lot.
01:20:43My family, my job, my life, everything I had in Iran and now I'm here and it's not worth it.
01:20:47I feel like I made a mistake going here.
01:20:48I feel like I made a mistake going here.
01:20:49I was too late.
01:20:50I was too late.
01:20:51I feel like I made a mistake going here.
01:20:52I was too late.
01:20:53I was too late.
01:20:54I was too late.
01:20:55I was too late.
01:20:56I was too late.
01:20:57I feel like I made a mistake going here.
01:21:03It's too late.
01:21:06I was just waiting for some time period.
01:21:07You know what I was like?
01:21:08I have something that learned in the last day.
01:21:11I was too late.
01:21:13That was too late.
01:21:31Next time on 90 Day Fiancé.
01:21:34You seem upset.
01:21:36I am.
01:21:37What happened?
01:21:38I screwed up big time.
01:21:41That's not good.
01:21:43I want to be that man that she knows
01:21:44that she can wake up to and rely on.
01:21:46I the bed.
01:21:49Yeah.
01:21:53I really want to make sure my language
01:22:00and my culture to be part of this family.
01:22:03I just can't say to your son's culture
01:22:05that you don't have time to learn.
01:22:07I don't know why we have to have this talk right now.
01:22:09We're getting married tomorrow.
01:22:10That's why we're having this conversation.
01:22:11So it's like a make or break.
01:22:13You learn Spanish or I don't marry you.
01:22:17Hello.
01:22:21Oh, my God.
01:22:22I'm done married.
01:22:27Me and I go.
01:22:31Sarper's missing.
01:22:33It's the day before our wedding.
01:22:34We're going to the wedding venue today
01:22:36and I have no idea where he is.
01:22:39This is like the fourth time I've called him.
01:22:41Him disappearing like this is terrifying for me.
01:22:43Oh, my God.
01:22:47Sarper.
01:22:49Where is he?
01:22:54I look for the blessing,
01:22:56but my aunt and my brother is religion.
01:23:00There is still no sign or even word from Aaliyah.
01:23:17Well, so far we're an hour late.
01:23:20Finally, I just said, like, no more.
01:23:22I'm done.
01:23:23Uh-oh, is he leaving?
01:23:25Oh, my God.
01:23:25Oh, my God.
01:23:25Oh, my God.
01:23:26Oh, my God.
01:23:26Oh, my God.
01:23:27Oh, my God.
01:23:27Oh, my God.
01:23:27Oh, my God.
01:23:28Oh, my God.
01:23:28Oh, my God.
01:23:29Oh, my God.
01:23:29Oh, my God.
01:23:30Oh, my God.
01:23:30Oh, my God.
01:23:31Oh, my God.
01:23:31Oh, my God.
01:23:31Oh, my God.
01:23:31Oh, my God.
01:23:31Oh, my God.
01:23:31Oh, my God.
01:23:31Oh, my God.
01:23:32Oh, my God.
01:23:33Oh, my God.
01:23:33Oh, my God.
01:23:33Oh, my God.
01:23:34Oh, my God.
01:23:35Oh, my God.
01:23:35Oh, my God.
01:23:36Oh, my God.
01:23:37Oh, my God.
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