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💍 Married at First Sight Australia Season 12 Episode 31 brings intense emotions, shocking confrontations, and life-changing decisions! As the couples face the final stages of their experiment, tensions rise, secrets are revealed, and the most dramatic moments yet unfold. You won’t want to miss this explosive episode of #MAFSAU!
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00:00:00Previously...
00:00:02Intimacy is lacking.
00:00:04I think maybe it's because I'm not attractive enough
00:00:06that he doesn't want to do those things.
00:00:08Beth revealed her insecurities at the last commitment ceremony.
00:00:12Genuinely believe it's an emotional connection thing.
00:00:14I really want to have, like, battle souls in the 20s
00:00:17before moving back into the intimate side of things.
00:00:19And Dave vowed to win back Jamie's trust.
00:00:23I'm still here, and I do care about her.
00:00:25I have to figure out how to get out of my own head at the moment
00:00:28and start thinking more about Jamie.
00:00:29Then...
00:00:30Welcome to my humble abode!
00:00:32Homestays gave our couples a sample of married life
00:00:36after the experiment.
00:00:38Your shoes are not allowed on my beard.
00:00:40Jackie's hosting skills saw tensions rise.
00:00:43Your beard isn't very manly.
00:00:45Jackie is the most difficult person I've ever tried to date.
00:00:49It's a beard, Jackie!
00:00:51If you don't know by now if you could fall in love with her,
00:00:53I don't think you ever know.
00:00:54I don't want to just give up, either.
00:00:56And Jamie's sister delivered unfiltered feedback.
00:01:00How can you see a future of someone
00:01:01you don't have a love connection with?
00:01:03That's grim.
00:01:06Tonight...
00:01:07Welcome!
00:01:08Thank you!
00:01:09I'm home!
00:01:11Homestays continue.
00:01:12Just because the experiment comes to an end
00:01:14doesn't mean we come to an end.
00:01:16And some couples continue to deepen their connection.
00:01:19Here's a key to my apartment.
00:01:20Oh!
00:01:21That's so cute!
00:01:22Thank you!
00:01:23As Geoff unlocks his future with Ree.
00:01:27Jamie, this is my dad.
00:01:28Finally me!
00:01:29I know!
00:01:30Dave introduces Jamie to the most important person in his life.
00:01:34I was wrapped.
00:01:35Just finally meet Jamie and she's wonderful.
00:01:37He's very happy.
00:01:39You can tell.
00:01:40I care so much for Beth.
00:01:41I care about my dog.
00:01:43But it's not all smooth sailing
00:01:45as TJ comes face to face with Beth's family.
00:01:49If it all ended abruptly tomorrow,
00:01:51is my daughter going to get heartbroken?
00:01:55Um...
00:01:56And...
00:01:57Alright, welcome.
00:01:59Ryan's house...
00:02:01Ryan's rules.
00:02:03It really reminds me of the elderly.
00:02:05Jackie's eye-opening experience...
00:02:08My answer...
00:02:09You're not...
00:02:10You're talking over me.
00:02:11Well, you've done that to me last time.
00:02:12Stop being rude.
00:02:13How does it feel?
00:02:14...sees emotions reach breaking point.
00:02:17My behaviour, it's not okay.
00:02:19That's not true.
00:02:20I'm gonna tell you exactly how I feel.
00:02:21I think he's been absolutely jeeped of this experiment
00:02:23by being put with you.
00:02:36All around Australia,
00:02:38couples are immersing themselves
00:02:40in the final stages of the experiment
00:02:43with homestays.
00:02:44Now I'm gonna throw you in.
00:02:45No!
00:02:50In Perth,
00:02:52Karina and Paul
00:02:53are soaking in the bliss of married life.
00:02:58Being out and about in Perth with Karina,
00:03:00it feels amazing.
00:03:06Our relationship is probably the best it's ever been.
00:03:15The homestays has been beautiful.
00:03:18It's been a really great time having Paul here with my family.
00:03:22Like, I just embraced it
00:03:24and I just let everything come my way
00:03:28and I can't wait for when we're outside of this experiment
00:03:32and when we're back in Perth
00:03:33and doing things together.
00:03:36My heart's radiating really positive energy.
00:03:39I'm feeling really good.
00:03:44The homestays have always been an essential part
00:03:46of the Married at First Sight experiment.
00:03:49Here we are!
00:03:50Oh my God.
00:03:51As our couples get a taste
00:03:52for their partner's natural environment,
00:03:55questions will arise.
00:03:56This is their chance to get those answers
00:04:01before they head to final vows.
00:04:06While some homestays are well underway,
00:04:09others are just getting started.
00:04:12Feels so weird being home.
00:04:13Arriving in Melbourne,
00:04:15Ri and Geoff are hoping to take their relationship
00:04:18to the next level...
00:04:19Any of this look familiar?
00:04:21Again.
00:04:22Back to where it all began.
00:04:26Are you going muscles?
00:04:28It's heavy.
00:04:29This isn't the first time I've been here.
00:04:33I stayed at Geoff's when we dated last year.
00:04:36On the wedding day when I walked down the aisle
00:04:38and saw Geoff.
00:04:39Oh my God.
00:04:42Hi Ri.
00:04:44Hi Geoff.
00:04:47I remember thinking to myself,
00:04:49this isn't going to work
00:04:50because we've dated in the past
00:04:52and it did fizzle out.
00:04:56The more we are together,
00:04:57the more potential I see in us.
00:05:00The experiment has progressed our relationship so much
00:05:03because we had to really open up.
00:05:06That's good.
00:05:08I came here to find my forever person
00:05:10and I wholeheartedly hope that it's Geoff.
00:05:19Welcome.
00:05:21Again.
00:05:22Again.
00:05:24Feels like I was here yesterday.
00:05:28I actually think I've never been in here in daylight.
00:05:31Ever.
00:05:33Oh, too funny.
00:05:35Homestays is an important week for us.
00:05:37It'll give us a real insight
00:05:38into what life is going to be like post-experiment.
00:05:44We're in a great spot in our relationship
00:05:45so I'm excited for it.
00:05:48Hopefully she has a good time
00:05:49and we have some fun.
00:05:52When you walked out that last time,
00:05:53imagine thinking that you were going to be here
00:05:55married to me one year later.
00:05:57I would never have imagined it.
00:05:58Oh no.
00:05:59It is crazy.
00:06:01Yeah, definitely.
00:06:02Being back at Geoff's house,
00:06:04it is very weird, very surreal.
00:06:08But look, it feels really, really good.
00:06:10I feel very grateful to see like how far we've come.
00:06:14It was meant to be, Geoffy.
00:06:15Meant to be.
00:06:16So nice having you here.
00:06:17Mm-hmm.
00:06:18So nice having you here.
00:06:25On the other side of Melbourne, Dave is alone in his apartment,
00:06:29getting ready for a serious talk with Jamie.
00:06:32Homestays has proved challenging for the couple after the last commitment ceremony left their relationship at a crossroads.
00:06:45I mean, I'd freaked out a little bit.
00:06:46I'm not there yet.
00:06:47And it's scary for me.
00:06:48Since arriving in Melbourne, the pair have been living in separate apartments.
00:06:58I wish, like, I could just go back to the staff for like a minute.
00:07:05Like, it was just like, I just had the best time.
00:07:08Like, we really did.
00:07:09And a testy lunch with Jamie's sister yesterday only filled Jamie's doubts about the strength of Dave's feelings towards her.
00:07:18Because he's literally shown up like 20% and you're like, love.
00:07:22I don't think I can handle watching you in another relationship where you're struggling like that.
00:07:26I can't watch that again.
00:07:28As their relationship hangs in the balance...
00:07:31See you, buddy.
00:07:32I'll see you soon.
00:07:33In your bed.
00:07:34In your bed.
00:07:35Jamie has asked Dave to meet her at a local pub to discuss where they stand.
00:07:43I do have real feelings for Dave.
00:07:46But my sister gave me some home truths.
00:07:49And now I'm just like, maybe this isn't going to work.
00:07:52Do I, you know, remove myself before I get hurt more?
00:07:57So today, I'm looking for like any kind of reassurance of Dave.
00:08:02Like, I need him to like, not put more doubts into my head.
00:08:05How's your day?
00:08:08I feel like I was just a bit, like, all over the place.
00:08:13I feel like this whole, like, experiment throwing me through a bit of a loop.
00:08:22You know, I don't really want to experience more hurt or sadness.
00:08:31And so I think it's a bit, like, almost unsafe to have feelings right now.
00:08:40I definitely don't want to hurt you.
00:08:43And I definitely want to work on these things.
00:08:46You're definitely trying to put effort in.
00:08:48But like that, that desire and that want to be with me, I just don't necessarily know if that's there.
00:08:58You know, I do care about you and you are an amazing person.
00:09:06And it does hurt, hurt my heart.
00:09:09So, like, what do you need me to do?
00:09:11I just want to see, like, some sort of fight.
00:09:18You know?
00:09:20You are potentially losing me.
00:09:26And I don't feel like you care too much.
00:09:35The feelings are there.
00:09:37And I've dropped the ball.
00:09:38And I'm sorry for that.
00:09:40That won't happen again.
00:09:41I've seen you on the couch last week and I've seen how hurt you were.
00:09:48That's not how I want this to go.
00:09:51I don't want to hurt you at all.
00:09:54Because I care about you.
00:09:56It took me a while to realise those emotions.
00:10:00And I know that I'm going to have to put the effort in.
00:10:02I want to work on expressing the emotional, romantic side.
00:10:07When I do have concerns and when I do think there's no way forward,
00:10:11like, I wish in those moments, you know, you'd be my rock in that situation.
00:10:16I am willing to do all that and I'm willing to try.
00:10:19I think I need to be more open and get back to showing you that I do care.
00:10:28Like, that's why I'm here.
00:10:29I want to be a better person.
00:10:30I want to be a better partner.
00:10:32Do you reckon you can do that one?
00:10:37You're worth doing that for.
00:10:41Are you still going to romance me?
00:10:42Mm.
00:10:43Do you have nice surprises?
00:10:46Yeah.
00:10:53The conversation Dave and I had has reassured me.
00:10:56Like, he's really trying to show that he's here to stay.
00:11:00And you've got to be honest about how you're feeling.
00:11:04Yeah.
00:11:05I don't want to have to ask or harass you if you need to tell me.
00:11:08We're looking a lot brighter again.
00:11:11Okay.
00:11:13Yeah.
00:11:14I feel better after that conversation.
00:11:16Same.
00:11:17I know I have let Jamie down, but I have feelings for her.
00:11:21And then, you know, this is not the spot to give up.
00:11:24The hardest decision is to fight and that's what we want to do.
00:11:27And I want to move forward.
00:11:28You always go for the arse.
00:11:33You have a great arse, that's why.
00:11:37In Sydney, Jackie and Ryan are embarking on the one and a half hour drive from Jackie's place in the seaside sanctuary of Manly to Ryan's house in the suburbs of South West Sydney.
00:11:58Turn right here.
00:11:59Um, yes.
00:12:00I'm a little bit concerned about the whole juxtaposition of Manly versus South West.
00:12:08See you later Manly.
00:12:09Being at Jackie's place only seemed to intensify the couple's differences.
00:12:15Your beard isn't very manly.
00:12:16My beard?
00:12:17It's not very manly.
00:12:18See?
00:12:19And tonight I'm going to shave it off.
00:12:20See, I can laugh at that.
00:12:21If you do, then just be prepared for an immediate divorce.
00:12:22What's wrong with clean shaming?
00:12:23There's nothing wrong with it.
00:12:24But you threatening to shave a man's beard is dangerous ground.
00:12:25There's something as simple as a beard.
00:12:26Is that kind of conversation with you about anything?
00:12:27Because your brain is so small.
00:12:28My brain is small?
00:12:29Yeah.
00:12:30Oh my lord.
00:12:31I can't conversate with you.
00:12:32You're so condescending and pretentious and judgmental.
00:12:36And now it's time for Ryan to take charge of the home's house.
00:12:41Yeah.
00:12:42Yeah.
00:12:43Oh my lord.
00:12:44You're so condescending and pretentious and judgmental.
00:12:49And now it's time for Ryan to take charge of the home's house.
00:12:54He's in charge of the home stay in his suburban slice of paradise.
00:12:59I want to make sure that Jackie sees me in my most natural environment.
00:13:03I'm going to show her the best of what I've made for myself.
00:13:07You have to go straight, it says.
00:13:09Yeah, it says A4.
00:13:11I did work very hard to get this place, and it's not absolutely massive,
00:13:15but as a solo homeowner in Sydney, like, I'm really proud of it.
00:13:18Jackie can be a little bit judgmental.
00:13:20She's got very high standards.
00:13:23If she's not accepting of it, this relationship can't progress.
00:13:27This is the ultimate test for me.
00:13:29Whoa!
00:13:30Oh, man.
00:13:32I'm expecting to get to know Ryan a bit more, like, the real Ryan in his home environment.
00:13:37I'm definitely excited to see some of Ryan's stuff.
00:13:39Like, I want to appreciate him more as a person.
00:13:42This is your place?
00:13:43This is mine here.
00:13:48Someone is greeting us.
00:13:49Raya!
00:13:50Oh!
00:13:51Oh, my God!
00:13:52Oh!
00:13:53I bought someone new.
00:13:56I've never had anyone live at this place with me, and now I'm bringing a wife here.
00:14:01It's a massive deal, inviting Jackie into my world.
00:14:04I want to see what she really feels about this little place that I built for myself,
00:14:08because I absolutely love it.
00:14:10All right.
00:14:11Welcome.
00:14:12Welcome.
00:14:13And home.
00:14:14Home.
00:14:15Welcome home!
00:14:16That's funny.
00:14:17I think she's going to be great here.
00:14:20Okay.
00:14:21Come in.
00:14:22Come in.
00:14:23Yeah.
00:14:24Let me stick these lights on.
00:14:25Wow.
00:14:26So this is the lounge room.
00:14:29No flowers yet.
00:14:31Come on through.
00:14:36This is the main area.
00:14:38That's a 250-year-old Edo period katana.
00:14:45As you can tell, I'm pretty passionate about this type of stuff.
00:14:50Got the vision board over there.
00:14:57So, yeah, so this room, this is basically Ryan's room.
00:15:10So, for example, if you look over here, that's when I did the massive tour.
00:15:13It's got a symbol from every country.
00:15:16So that stein is from Germany.
00:15:19It was eye-opening to see his home.
00:15:22There's an Eiffel Tower, a sword from the Tower of London.
00:15:25I just think he's been alone here for seven years.
00:15:30And maybe he isn't even aware of how lonely he is.
00:15:34It really reminds me of the elderly.
00:15:36Because a lot of elderly live in homes where they've been alone for seven, ten, fifteen years.
00:15:43This is a 70-year-old kimono.
00:15:46It was so sweet of him to be so confident and so happy to bring me in.
00:15:52It's not quite hoarding.
00:15:53It's just like memories.
00:15:55I just feel bad for Ryan.
00:15:59I just feel bad for Ryan.
00:16:11Mum and Dad.
00:16:12Oh!
00:16:13I just can't be carried by the handle.
00:16:14Yeah.
00:16:15Not the easiest thing.
00:16:16You got it?
00:16:17Beth and TJ are returning to their home city of Brisbane.
00:16:20And the weather hasn't dampened Beth's buoyant mood as she brings her first ever partner
00:16:26to her family home.
00:16:28Muscle, Mummy!
00:16:29There you go.
00:16:30It feels so weird being back in Brisbane.
00:16:36This is a really big deal for me.
00:16:37She'll be taking a guy to my home, meeting my family.
00:16:41Because my family, my friends have never seen me in a relationship.
00:16:45Is that a sign?
00:16:49I'm home!
00:16:50Oh my goodness!
00:16:52Who knows?
00:16:53Hello!
00:16:54Hello!
00:16:55How are you?
00:16:57How are you?
00:16:58How are you?
00:16:59How are you?
00:17:00How are you?
00:17:01How are you?
00:17:02How are you?
00:17:03I love you!
00:17:04It's weird.
00:17:05I feel like it's been so long back then.
00:17:06I feel like it was yesterday that I saw you at the wedding.
00:17:08I know.
00:17:09How was that B though?
00:17:10Living like so closely.
00:17:11Yeah, I mean you met at the wedding.
00:17:12Best first time at home.
00:17:13Yeah.
00:17:14Wow.
00:17:15Yeah, it's been very light and easy.
00:17:18Should we get settled?
00:17:19Yeah, show me around.
00:17:20Show you around?
00:17:21What's going on?
00:17:22As Beth and TJ settle into Beth's room.
00:17:25This?
00:17:26A little room?
00:17:28Their comfort levels together are at an all-time high.
00:17:32You put yourself away first and then I'll see what's left.
00:17:34Okay.
00:17:35A stark contrast to the last commitment ceremony where the couple's lack of intimacy came into
00:17:42focus.
00:17:43Why would you say, TJ, that sexual intimacy and like physical intimacy hasn't progressed
00:17:47for you too?
00:17:48I genuinely believe it's an emotional connection thing.
00:17:51I want to focus on building that connection.
00:17:54I really want to have like little souls into 20 before moving back into the intimate side
00:17:59of things.
00:18:01But since then, the pair have made a significant step forward in their relationship.
00:18:07We went on a date and then that night we were intimate again, which was awesome.
00:18:12I don't really quite know why I've got so much stuff to be honest.
00:18:15He initiated it.
00:18:16He said this whole time he needs more of a connection to sleep with me so I hope that
00:18:20means that he does have an emotional connection to me because otherwise I guess it wouldn't
00:18:23make sense for him to initiate that.
00:18:26Yeah, it felt good.
00:18:27The commitment ceremony made me realise that I was disregarding Beth's requirements or
00:18:33what she wants from an intimate relationship so we went out, had a beautiful day, had a
00:18:37few drinks and came back and it felt like the right time to do it.
00:18:42But that's not something that will be happening in the family household right now.
00:18:47No.
00:18:48We are going to be like sardines tonight in that bed.
00:18:51It's not very big is it?
00:18:53Mmm.
00:18:58In Melbourne, after promising to show more effort in their relationship, Dave is seeking
00:19:05to connect with his wife and is joining Jamie in the familiar surrounds of her own home.
00:19:12I feel like homestays has been a bit of an eye opener.
00:19:14You know, the hard conversations, we're good at having them.
00:19:16I just want to sort of step up and show exactly how I feel and just be a partner who can express
00:19:22and build your partner up in the areas that they need.
00:19:25Hey.
00:19:26Come here.
00:19:27Let me in.
00:19:28Jamie always talks about her apartment and where she lives.
00:19:31It makes her super happy.
00:19:32So I thought it would make her a bit more comfortable if I was to move in here.
00:19:36I just want to be able to get back to where we were.
00:19:41We've had such a good run for such a long time.
00:19:43It's important that we get back on track.
00:19:50And they say we're like the strong couple.
00:19:53Come on.
00:19:54Let's go.
00:19:55I know how much I care about her and I don't want to lose her.
00:19:58And with the help of his wingman.
00:20:00It's going to be okay, Wolfie.
00:20:02It's going to be okay.
00:20:04Dave is hoping his stay at Jamie's will take them back to the glory days of their relationship.
00:20:11Hey.
00:20:12Hello.
00:20:13Hey you sexy mix.
00:20:14I brought you a present.
00:20:16His name is Wolfie and he can be Ra Ra's brother.
00:20:18And this is an emotional support puppy for me while I'm here.
00:20:23I brought you dogs too.
00:20:24Let the dogs out.
00:20:25Hang on.
00:20:26Oh that was sweet.
00:20:27This is nice.
00:20:30here you go oh that was sweet this is nice come this is going to be very fun
00:20:39it's just cool oh how could that view very nice you could have made i need to show jamie that i
00:20:47care and show jamie that she does matter and i want to make her feel wanted and needed so
00:20:53yeah it's clear as day i know what i need to do knuckle down and make her feel the way she deserves
00:20:57i'm gonna see the size of this bed am i gonna fit on it oh yeah you're fine you've got about this
00:21:08much room my pillow goes you're exceptionally large i'll be right i feel like dave's really
00:21:22trying to give it a fair go and he's like really trying to show up you know there was a lot of
00:21:28cuddling and embraces and i think yeah he does really care for me and we just like being in
00:21:34each other's space like that i know it's weird my worlds are colliding right now dogs me in the bed
00:21:41at once yeah i love these pants thank you in southwest sydney jackie is getting acquainted with her
00:21:54surrounds at ryan's place and while ryan is out shopping she has taken it upon herself to correct
00:22:01his organizational strategy with fresh energy i thought that ryan could do with some things done
00:22:10around the house for my standard of living like i just like the place to be a little bit cleaner and
00:22:15tidier ryan hasn't even done his laundry for two and a half months and i'm just thinking this is like
00:22:21not good i think ryan could do with moving his flat screen back into the office so that he can work in
00:22:27the office and he could also move his sword he should have it on display but it doesn't need to
00:22:35be on the dining room table it's like the um the lion the witch in the wardrobe the sword table it's
00:22:40literally a sword table daddy's home i knew that wouldn't stay blank for long can we open
00:22:51the window thing all right yeah let's open the blinds for sure oh it's another thing i'm gonna have
00:22:58to replace add it to add it to the list by the way ryan you should probably have the blinds open in
00:23:06this place while you're away i usually keep them closed just in case anyone pokes around the backyard
00:23:12and sees like the sword the tv maybe that's a good reason to put the sword away in the the office
00:23:22there's no room in there at the moment
00:23:28all right to do list clean wash fabrics and sheets yep standard move office back into office
00:23:37i don't think you understand what's involved with that hey no read the next one i do pack stuff away
00:23:45into box genius genius stuff there pat fray and let her inside during day just stand out there you're
00:23:54basically isolating someone for the whole day look she's just jackie jackie she knows the routine she
00:24:00gets walked she gets to cuddle at night she gets bones from the butcher don't don't feel bad for her
00:24:05and mow lawns obviously haven't been around to do that so uh yeah i might even show you how to start the old mower
00:24:14no i didn't come here mow your lawns
00:24:19hey if you wanted me to consider moving to manly you got to consider this lifestyle as well have an
00:24:23open mind you know i haven't very open mind clearly no that's a that's an instructional mind
00:24:31no it's open to how to improve how to make it work
00:24:34you know what at this point i don't feel like jackie's 100 accepting of me my lifestyle and the
00:24:44home i've decided to build in my own way i would never walk into your house and try and change
00:24:50anything hey we've been butting heads back and forth and that does drain you i'm still here i'm still
00:24:56keeping open and optimistic but if she's gonna keep trying to change who i am it's really hard to see that
00:25:02future coming up where's the big man a heartwarming visit for jamie and dave finally brings life
00:25:14changing news i didn't even expect to hear anything like that no no but for beth homestays may spell
00:25:22heartbreak if you were to tell me i have to decide yes or no right now that it has to be a no because
00:25:28i'm not completely comfortable with yet as homestays continue you're basically part of the family now
00:25:40our couples are becoming more intimate with each other this is a good view from here you're welcome
00:25:48and each other's loved ones is he gonna like sniff me yeah but like can we have it more control
00:25:55in perth afina and adrian are setting up for a beachside picnic
00:26:14which one is double-sided or what no it's this side oh what are you doing
00:26:18what are you doing earlier in the week adrian clashed with afina's twin sister cleo
00:26:28me and fee look at life as a book we both read i'm looking at you as a chapter in her life i just
00:26:34don't see you as the ending yeah i mean it's obviously frustrating i still think she should
00:26:42give me apology but at the same time i'm a twin as well so can't blame clear for protecting her
00:26:51but whatever i mean we can move on i'm mad i really know what to expect in her but it's amazing
00:26:58honestly i like it the beach is amazing the sun has been shining the whole time you know i've had a
00:27:04great time we had that i've spent time with your mom not so much a sister no i'm actually glad we got
00:27:13to see her before the end anyway my mom really likes you of course she does no she does she does
00:27:24it does feel somewhat sad like knowing that we're coming up to the end of this experiment
00:27:28it's just because the experiment comes to an end it doesn't mean we come to an end
00:27:35like let's see how we are outside this and go from there
00:27:40and do long distance for a time you just keep going from here do you know what i'm saying
00:27:48the longer adria and i spend together we do get closer tell me we do have massive hurdles it's
00:27:55because perth is my home it's my soil mine and my son's life is here and then adrian's you know
00:28:03sydney's his home but within this experiment we're definitely in the strongest place we've been
00:28:11so i'm hopeful yeah of course i enjoyed my time here i've had a great experience i wouldn't take
00:28:17it back i wouldn't have done it with anyone else and um yeah the blessing that you walk down that aisle
00:28:25i do see her in my future
00:28:29there's no point of worrying about all the negatives and all the things that could go wrong and
00:28:33live in different states you know if it's meant to be or truly be and that's just how i see it
00:28:37i should have worried swimmers wouldn't have mind seeing you naked again skinny dip
00:28:54in brisbane beth's best friend darcy
00:28:59is joining beth and tj for an english roast dinner with her family this is the longest we've been apart
00:29:06yeah 11 years i just really want to see her like super happy speaking to her and stuff tj does make
00:29:13her really happy and she can be herself around him super goofy it all sounds like there's such a good
00:29:19match cheers guys thanks for um thanks for having us over cheers good to see you all again yeah post ready
00:29:27we love it bringing tj into my space he's just meshed so well with my family
00:29:33it's beautiful guys you guys have nailed this it just feels so normal and so relaxed
00:29:40it's like he's been around us all for years because we came into the experiment so late
00:29:45we were kind of put through this like fast-track environment and obviously the challenges that
00:29:49we did were so deep and so heavy that i think i would finish them we kind of did just want to
00:29:55switch it off because it was so emotional and triggering
00:29:58do you feel pressure from other couples to be at the level where they are now i definitely felt
00:30:03it 100 yeah it's emotionally overwhelming but we do have such a great time together like we're just
00:30:11always laughing we're always taking the piss out of each other yeah can i ask what you like about that
00:30:15yeah um i like how she makes me feel when i'm around beth i feel like smiling i feel like laughing
00:30:24feel like having a good time all the moments that we are spending together are so light-hearted
00:30:28can i just ask obviously we know beth's in it for the right reasons i'm just wanting to find out
00:30:35whether you're in it for the right reasons i i think i've been pretty transparent with how i feel
00:30:41about beth throughout this entire experiment
00:30:43um we did share with each other like i've always felt very used by men before like once they've got
00:30:51what they wanted they just kind of up and leave yeah but from the start i wanted to make a point
00:30:55that i really want something deeper than just that yeah and i just really wanted to make sure that we
00:31:00could try and build something outside of that before yeah i don't know tj but listening to some of the
00:31:07stuff that he's set up i'm like wow this seems really rehearsed and like very scripted i love
00:31:15how she interacts with you the fact that you guys like end every phone call saying i love you
00:31:21like it's hard to say whether or not he's just saying the right things
00:31:27the friendship side of things between beth and i is the the friendship that we've built too like i
00:31:31see beth friendship and the connection that we have is super super strong um friendship using the
00:31:38word friendship quite a lot like i would say relationship not like friendship i'm not gonna
00:31:47lie that word's been used a lot to describe your marriage but at what point do you stop being friends
00:31:53yeah correct it's it's hard because we do get along so well but i also want that to transition
00:32:01and translate to like a romantic relationship as well too you're running out of time now so are you
00:32:07both committed to focusing on that in the time you have left yeah of course i am
00:32:13going to ask if it all ended abruptly tomorrow is my daughter going to get heartbroken um
00:32:27it's just we don't know what's on the horizon like i i care so much for that um so i care about my dog
00:32:43like i can say like yeah i care about this person okay but like i know straight away whether or not
00:33:12like i want to initiate something a little bit further absolutely i i think i've been pretty
00:33:18transparent with how i feel about beth throughout this entire experiment and there's i don't think
00:33:22there's anything that either one of us could say right now that'd be a blind side to how we're both
00:33:26feeling i i see beth in my life for a long time in what aspect that is is what aspect that is is what
00:33:34we're navigating through i guess at the moment as well too yeah i guess from from that perspective yeah
00:33:39i don't know it's just it's hard to sort of say right now yeah
00:33:46on that note angie do you want to go for a little chat sure love
00:33:55i'm not gonna lie listening to his responses it just feels very rehearsed like put on a brave face
00:34:02say what they're thinking they want to hear to be honest that's the vibe that i'm getting
00:34:10it is worrying me that we're not on the same page because i think it's just something that i've just
00:34:16let slide because i don't want to believe it but yeah i don't know it's starting to all really sink in
00:34:22now i think so at the last commitment ceremony beth revealed painful doubts about the relationship
00:34:32i think i told myself from the get-go that maybe i wouldn't be good enough for tj
00:34:41and then because the intimacy is lacking i instantly blame myself and think maybe it's
00:34:46because i'm not attractive enough that he doesn't want to do those things it's hard because it's
00:34:55like he says one thing but then he makes me feel a different way like before we left tj initiated sex
00:35:03with me again and that hadn't happened since honey moon he says you know i wouldn't be touching you
00:35:08i wouldn't want to be kissing you and cuddling you if i wasn't attracted to you but it's like
00:35:11oh you're attracted to me now
00:35:26in southwest sydney jackie and ryan are out walking ryan's dog freya this is a new spot for her
00:35:35one of the things i said in my vows was i cannot wait to take my wife on a walk in the sun with
00:35:40freya my dog and just asking the simplicity of it i love these forest spots and so does she i
00:35:47rescued adopted and like sheltered freya and brought her personality out into the loving dog that you
00:35:53see here at one point she was scared didn't trust the outside world and whatnot can i take her it's
00:36:01gonna pull pretty hard because there's so many smells here sit sit good girl good girl all right so
00:36:10go through that loop with your hand i'll be fine like that no it's too much lead why because she
00:36:15she might want to wander off into okay make sure she's not walking you it's okay don't pull don't
00:36:24pull she's got to know that you're the boss if she knows i'm the boss no she doesn't but this is her
00:36:29walk time she's allowed to enjoy it she's the other girl in my life and she's in control right now
00:36:35she's heavy look her tail's wagging now there's nothing wrong with letting the dog take the leave
00:36:43for her no this jackie this is my dog all right and you're going to listen to me because i know
00:36:50her back to front i know her nature i know what she tries to get away with all right so if you could
00:36:54just respect that that'd be great this is not what i wanted for our first walk
00:36:59tell me how to manage my pet is just it's a no-no
00:37:07again it's just an example of her not accepting something about me or something about my life
00:37:12and yeah i'm just i'm just fed up with it
00:37:16i'm serious as well like when you came into my house i knew you appreciated certain aspects of it
00:37:21but it always feels like the critical side of you comes out when you're addressing me talking about
00:37:26the constructive the constructive side i thought that because you've been alone for seven years
00:37:32you might appreciate some tips all right i'll take my baby back now oh she can't help herself
00:37:44like this is my life i want to see if you're here to fit into it not here to change it to suit your ideas
00:37:56i want to see if you're here to fit into it not here to fit into it not here to fit into it
00:38:03in brisbane beth and tj are meeting two of tj's closest friends for lunch
00:38:11stunning isn't it yeah but after dinner with family and friends last night
00:38:18beth is left questioning how truthful her husband is being in their relationship
00:38:23how are you feeling yeah good i'm feeling lots of different things right now
00:38:28last night i've got my best friend telling me that he thinks well everything that tj's saying is
00:38:33bullshit basically
00:38:38hi how are you good to see you always good good to see you i do want to get to the bottom of it
00:38:47i'm all ears today so obviously we heard it from my family yesterday today it's tj's friend's turn
00:38:52to yeah give me a bit of insight you saw your parents yeah we've been with best friends for the past
00:38:58last night you've seen that yeah yeah how's that it was nice it was nice my parents were amazing they
00:39:03made you feel really comfortable so it was fun he did get a bit of a roasting oh yeah just from my
00:39:08best friend he had some questions and but other than that he was good just from your best friend
00:39:12did you think everybody else did yeah i was good really it was fire questions they all had questions i
00:39:19guess about what our relationship looks like and what we've done to strengthen it or what we haven't
00:39:25done to strengthen it as well too thank you mate um so when you say you're strengthening where were
00:39:32like the weaknesses that affected you guys and give me an example what's an example points within our
00:39:37relationship we definitely have that connection that emotional connection that romantic stimulation but
00:39:41for me it's inconsistent right yeah i feel like sometimes there's this weird like distance between
00:39:47us and then some days it's great for me like i wouldn't be sat here if i didn't want to try and make it
00:39:54work and because we are kind of running out of time and experiment it is a bit of a worry that we
00:39:58might not get there all right i think what we're trying to work out at the moment is that is our
00:40:04connection going to flourish into a relationship right right so there's obviously something that's
00:40:09lacking between us for me to say yes i want to have a relationship with this person
00:40:13that was really hard to hear i'm in the situation that i've dreaded the most
00:40:26that i have feelings for my partner and he possibly doesn't have them for me
00:40:31i mean i'll be back soon okay no problemo
00:40:33oh so what would you have to do between now and the end of the experiment for you to be
00:40:42feel different for you to feel different yeah it's hard you can't write down on the list if you
00:40:47do these things right now we're going to be perfect i can't see how it would just snap in
00:40:52two weeks and change completely and you know her parents wanted an answer last last night if
00:40:58the experiment ends tomorrow is my daughter gonna have her heart broken so as it stands what how do
00:41:04you feel if you were to tell me i have to decide yes or no right now then it has to be a no because
00:41:13i'm not completely comfortable in here yeah
00:41:17in melbourne re and jeff are enjoying their final day of homestays together but before they leave
00:41:32jeff has one last surprise for re one that might just unlock a new door for both of them homestays
00:41:40for me has given me more reassurance about our relationship and i think we've got a great future
00:41:46together i love every minute of every day with re and once we come out of the experiment i don't
00:41:51want that to stop i want to spend as much time with re as possible i feel like with homestays i've
00:41:57gotten everything out of it that i wanted to get out of it yeah for me it feels like life outside of
00:42:02the experiment is just going to get better yeah i totally agree and i'm proud of us that we got this
00:42:07far yeah and considering our circumstances like what the hell it's a pretty cool story well it's an
00:42:14amazing story i'm looking forward to coming back here yeah and like starting the next chapter of
00:42:19our life me too in saying that oh here is a key to my apartment oh that's so cute thank you so come
00:42:33over whenever thank you that's so cute the fact that jeff gave me a key does make me feel really good
00:42:39after our wedding day i really wasn't sure what was going to happen but um look where we are i'm
00:42:48very happy with how it's all turned out i'm happy too if things keep going how they're going i'm
00:42:54definitely falling for re yeah i feel really good about her and our relationship and i do hope she is
00:43:01the one for me in the outer suburbs of melbourne jamie and dave are at dave's stepsisters house
00:43:15this is your sister's house yeah oh so dave finally understands the need to demonstrate his commitment
00:43:22to jamie and now he is about to introduce her to the most important person in his life yeah i'm excited
00:43:30about to see my dad the first time in a while um yeah this is weeks in the making of coming to this
00:43:40point where i can introduce jamie to someone you know special to me like i wish my dad was um well
00:43:46enough to come to the wedding he'd um just started chemo for the fourth time how you going yeah
00:43:54he's got no voice well i wish you could be here i love you both very much
00:44:08it's hard when you see your parents like that
00:44:16seeing dad over the last four years it sort of does take a lot out of me
00:44:20because you take it all on board so this visit hopefully is a bit different
00:44:28yeah i got some news about him yesterday but i haven't spoken to him yet so it'll be good to see
00:44:34him and introducing him to jamie it's a massive thing for me it's really nice that we have this
00:44:41opportunity i'm i'm grateful for it oh hello how are you guys hi you remember jamie so good to see you
00:44:52again greeting them is dave's stepsister cara where's the big man followed by step mum karen
00:45:00hi hi she's a little wobbler too like you and dad howard
00:45:08finally mate you can call him howie or howard hey hey hey hey brother how you going
00:45:12i'm going well mate how was it seeing dave after he's been away oh i was very excited this morning
00:45:20yeah i've missed him yeah what have you been up to
00:45:24he's being married and i know he's been a bit upset being so far away from home
00:45:36that's why you you really don't say a lot because you know it's going to affect other people so
00:45:42you thought i'd just keep it to yourself but yeah
00:45:48so tell me obviously like i've been saying to jamie it's been so negative over four years
00:45:52yeah yeah and then now we get this news yeah like what does that mean though like there was three
00:45:58tumors
00:46:02two tumors have shrunk significantly shrunk and the third gym is gone
00:46:11another four doses should hopefully clean it up yep and something's finally working yeah
00:46:19i didn't even expect to hear anything like that no no me either
00:46:26finally good news after all this time i'm so glad that my dad's turned the corner
00:46:32you know he's been on my on my mind since day one like i have been in two places at once
00:46:38it's been difficult
00:46:38i've seen him with a bit more pep in his step i guess yeah i'm super super happy a bit emotional
00:46:47but i'm happy but jamie's made it easy as well like she understands and she doesn't put pressure on
00:46:54those areas at all it was super important for to meet you for me when we've shared such a unique
00:47:00experience and it's been a really good one too that's good yeah you know she's absolutely amazing
00:47:07strangle someone for your song that's how i think i've been like a bulldog and you're so little about
00:47:14i'm the youngest and i think i'm the shortest but i'm the scariest i was wrapped just finally meet jamie
00:47:20and she's wonderful he's very happy you can tell yeah makes you feel good you've got a very nice lady
00:47:30there yes very nice
00:47:35it was really good to meet the rest of day's family the fact that dave introduced me to his dad
00:47:42it just really shows he is trying to turn it around she looks after me i'm actually ready to
00:47:50go back to sydney now i feel optimistic and hopeful about the future with dave
00:47:58thanks for taking the time as well to to do this because i know it's not easy
00:48:01well it's easy is it thanks don't make him cry he misses you yeah i miss him too
00:48:09they really really like jamie yeah and it's nice to reflect on the bond that we have built
00:48:17to share that with my parents and my sister it was really sweet
00:48:24they could see i'm happy so i think yeah it plays a big part
00:48:29i love you love you too look good easy lovely to meet you jamie
00:48:33coming up two sets of paperwork saying he's like no you're trying to talk over me trying to shut
00:48:43me up no i'm going to tell you exactly how i feel with support in ryan's corner i think he's been
00:48:49absolutely gypped on this experiment by being put with you will his marriage finally reach breaking
00:48:54point
00:49:06having now moved into tj's house on the other side of brisbane beth has been left questioning his true
00:49:13feelings with the week coming to an end and uncertainty surrounding their relationship
00:49:19beth wants some direct answers from tj at the end of the day i don't want to walk away from this
00:49:25experiment not putting my heart on the line hello
00:49:29how are you feeling um well great
00:49:43how did you um how do you think lunch went
00:49:46one of the guys they said do you see this progressing on the outside is that something
00:49:50that you be interested in something along them lines but i just feel like you couldn't really
00:49:55say yes or no so i think that's taken me back a little bit yeah yeah i don't know i think i've
00:50:04been pretty transparent with how i'm feeling
00:50:11i'm liking the emotional romantic thing and in order for me to have a relationship that's what i
00:50:15want yeah people when we're having connection issues i was the first one to say that we're having i'm
00:50:19not getting that connection that i want to be honest another thing that's confused me is you said
00:50:26that you needed a more of an emotional connection to be intimate you we wrote stay at the last
00:50:32commitment ceremony a few days later that you then sleep with me again which then makes me think
00:50:38maybe he's connecting more and then a few days after that we're now here and you're telling me that
00:50:44you don't see this progressing outside and that's really really confused me but you wanted to sleep
00:50:51together so i'm trying to look out for your needs too then can you understand where that comes from
00:50:56from my point of view is like we both said stay you've been saying this whole time that you needed
00:51:01more of a connection to sleep with me and then you sleep with me i'm gonna of course i'm gonna think
00:51:05okay great he feels more connected to me and then we come to homestays and this is now where we're
00:51:10out of course i'm feeling confused and hurt yeah well i mean i thought you know let's just give it a
00:51:18go let's try and just get past that and hopefully that we can develop something from there but i'm
00:51:23just not feeling that connection like we mentioned i'm just not feeling that connection
00:51:30if i had known he didn't see a future with me i would never have brought him to my home
00:51:36and i think what's sad is we've got almost two months in you've done the homestays we've got this
00:51:45far and there's not enough of you that thinks i don't want to cut ties with beth i think that's
00:51:52what hurts i don't want to cut ties with you i've never once said that i want to cut ties with you
00:51:57yeah but you as in like you don't see this progressing like after after this it's like i'm
00:52:02unsure i've been honest with that it's like he's just flipped a switch and it's game over it's such
00:52:10a shit feeling it's yeah it surprised me a little bit you know it always hurts to hear that the person
00:52:20you like doesn't feel the same i just genuinely didn't think we'd be yeah this far in doing homestays um
00:52:37it gave him to not feel anything
00:52:52in southwest sydney jackie and ryan are arriving at a local pub to meet some friends
00:52:59after a tense exchange walking ryan's dog jackie is ready for a reset
00:53:09i mean for me i'd like today to be as like enjoyable as possible yeah yeah hello hi hi guys hi
00:53:20first to arrive is jackie's friend jet i think we had like 10 seconds at the wedding i think yeah i can
00:53:27barely remember it it was a bit chaotic how have you been thanks for coming all the way i'm good
00:53:34yeah where'd you come from today oh manly i have to say i have no idea where i am
00:53:43is this your local oh it's one of them um yeah that's a great spot
00:53:47next to arrive are ryan's friends adam and carla all right where's everybody sitting i'm here i don't
00:53:58bite so who jackie met previously during family and friends week speaking of fall over how is your
00:54:07concussion after the wedding it would have been bad if you just kind of left it at that
00:54:12the reason why i was don't interrupt her don't interrupt agree agree to disagree
00:54:22they just want the best for me and yeah they're not afraid to say what's on their mind
00:54:26today i'm looking for clarity i'm hoping for something to come out of this which either
00:54:31you know relieves my fears or even like confirms them i don't know like i'm staying open at this
00:54:36point how is everyone yeah we're good yeah you look happy today which is good
00:54:42so did you go to your place yeah someone saw manly yeah how was that i had oysters and whatnot
00:54:49try to keep my face straight yeah like there was conversations how to like in terms of could i see
00:54:54myself living in manly she asked me that repeatedly and i still i don't have like the ultimate answer for
00:55:00it you know what was your perspective on seeing ryan's lifestyle just even like where he lives
00:55:06the the location well she had to google maps with it i looked at to see how long it would take him to
00:55:13get from my house to ryan's house two hours if i was to go there on the weekend that would be four
00:55:19hours what did you find being in his home and seeing how you know his lifestyle was you think
00:55:25that's something that you can see for your future i think for me it's hard because i really like the
00:55:31ocean i think honestly if if his house was located in manly i could totally see myself moving in and
00:55:39like living together what stops you from where his house is it reminds me of like new zealand which is
00:55:46kind of what i moved away from it's like too many sacrifices to give up in my mind the things that make
00:55:52me happy are like the ocean and running and like getting the ferry to work and my friends and going
00:55:58out and so it's just so many things that's the one concession and i'm like what would i replace but the
00:56:04question's got to go two ways yeah yeah from what i've gathered from jackie she's not willing to
00:56:10compromise about anything in the relationship honestly i didn't really hear anything positive
00:56:16from her about ryan so ryan told us that he's had if correct me if i'm wrong like a reflections
00:56:22week with some letter what had to be written between the both of you how did that go um don't
00:56:29get stressed the others told us details he just told us little things obviously we need to be filled
00:56:34in here but there were some things that were quite appalling to me that i heard so i'd like some kind of
00:56:38context in terms of how that came across yeah i think it was quite a long time ago so i can't remember
00:56:43exactly what i said but i'd love to hear what you were appalled about and then i can try and address it
00:57:01so ryan told us that he's had like a reflections week with some letter what had to be written between
00:57:06the both of you how did that go um don't get stressed the others told us details he just told
00:57:13us little things obviously we need to be filled in here but there were some things that were quite
00:57:17appalling to me that i heard so i'd like some kind of context in terms of how that came across
00:57:22yeah i think it was quite a long time ago so i can't remember exactly what i said i'm concerned
00:57:27you've built your sense of self on top of outdated beliefs about power and masculinity your extreme
00:57:33sense of masculine pride and fragile ego are difficult to deal with and come at my expense
00:57:38i'm concerned that you financially contribute less than i will because i'm not convinced that you
00:57:43have enough financial skills but i'd love to hear what you were appalled about and then i can try and
00:57:50address it just like a subtle subtle attached to his character and his financial capabilities and stuff
00:57:56like that what what was the point of his writing the letter how did you interpret that yeah so the
00:58:02letter task was to write a letter to your partner about the concerns you have about building a long
00:58:08lasting future with them and like how you go about basically living together forever and one of the
00:58:14concerns i had was brian's career path is unstable financially and i was like well is this kind of like
00:58:23i would be lent on as the primary like you know consistent financial source if brian's potentially
00:58:30going in and out the whole point of being in a relationship is that you need to compromise and
00:58:37you need to bring out the best in each other and there are going to be points in your don't don't look
00:58:40away from me when i'm talking to you all right there are points in your relationship where one needs
00:58:45to lean on the other in order for you both to bring out the best in each other so for that to be a
00:58:49concern is also like a red flag here on my end because i just think it's great that jackie was
00:58:55open about it yeah you're talking about open communication i'm not dismissing that at all
00:59:00it raised concerns for me because i work extremely hard no one's questioning that what i want to
00:59:05reflect on here is that i did work my absolute ass off to get that property and that was through
00:59:10having a stable and predictable career so i think you took that like a little bit too far
00:59:14i felt like the letter was mostly focusing on what he lacks i think the way i felt you responded to
00:59:21that was just in a very sensitive way as if like a nerve was hit and i think i think it triggered you
00:59:27to kind of overreact a little bit pointing the finger at ryan ryan ryan ryan more than dealing with
00:59:34what is really important for a relationship to actually work i did feel like it was uncalled for
00:59:39to say that i don't work as hard as you it sounds very much like not really acknowledging the hard
00:59:45work he has put in because you can't buy a house without being stable he's worked for himself what
00:59:51i want no no i'm not dismissing that you're you're absolutely out to whatever you want it feels like
00:59:56you're trying to diminish him as to like that's your projection no that's the one that's what i'm
01:00:01receiving for you that's what i'm receiving from you well i don't know where you're getting that from
01:00:05no because i did told him that that point about the career was i did feel quite demeaned by that
01:00:11i wanted just for her to give something back to the conversation that would help my friends
01:00:16understand why that she would write like a scathing letter why she would view my character in all these
01:00:22terrible ways let's talk about some good stuff for a little bit yeah everyone's getting hated a little
01:00:27bit hated yeah let's get a drink yeah all right all right see you soon okay
01:00:32that was a lot circus biggest question on the table are you happy are you okay
01:00:43happiness is why i came to this right because i'm not gonna lie i've been here i'm not happy
01:00:47bro like i've put so much work into this and taking accountability taking ownership and whatnot
01:00:52and like the letter was just like a stark example of like she's got a distorted view of me
01:00:57it's like the the criticisms of of me as a person it's the judgment it's the you know trying to
01:01:01change who i am and like how i raise my dog and all that kind of stuff it's not even a distorted view
01:01:07of you it's just a distorted view full stop with any man she's going to be with she's going to treat
01:01:12exactly the same i'm trying to i'm trying to be a nice and respectful in that but she's right on her eyes
01:01:17she's like dismissing y'all trying to dismiss her she's not being super nice i don't like it
01:01:26okay oh thank you so much cheers big news saying goes big nose yeah
01:01:36and thanks jet for coming all this way too a silent assassin over there hey
01:01:40how well you know jackie from the past um what how have you seen her last relationship play out
01:01:49because i do hear a lot about how they used to have never have a disagreement so i i had really
01:01:55healthy relationships where we don't disagree and fight and like honestly this drama and the
01:01:59fighting and the arguing is not what i like like i want to be in a peaceful environment no one likes if
01:02:04you're not arguing i feel like some healthy relationship that's not true what do you mean
01:02:09i argue sometimes i don't think you need to have arguments you can communicate your preferences
01:02:14and then negotiate well it's ryan getting defensive all the time you're quick to point the finger at
01:02:23him but you're not willing to take care of the relationship you're having a great time ripping on him
01:02:27i didn't come here to be to be lectured and have my character like and my identity torn apart in a
01:02:35letter and whatnot and it's it still does stick with me jackie honestly it does because i've never had
01:02:40anyone see me in that way before in my entire life maybe no one's communicated i just want to
01:02:44that's not true jackie because we've been in his life for a very long time everything that you tell us
01:02:50goes completely against the character we know as ryan i think you're overreacting because you can't say
01:02:56everything i tell you is against the character because you're saying everything jackie are you
01:03:02talking today today when i asked him about where that you're not you're talking over me you've
01:03:07done that to me last time how does it feel
01:03:18we've been in his life for a very long time everything that you tell us goes completely against
01:03:24the character we know is ryan i think you're overreacting because you can't say everything i
01:03:29tell you is against the character because you're talking today today when i asked him about where
01:03:37that you're not you're talking over me how does it feel what do you want from me i guess i guess the
01:03:45solution a conversation to help you get better i need to feel like in a relationship you want me to
01:03:51be silent i know no no i need to feel like someone you don't want me to voice my concerns that's what
01:03:56you want no no no no because issue in me voicing my concerns do you not do that to him
01:04:04you do express yourself in very very strong ways and if i don't agree with you almost immediately i am
01:04:10defensive or i'm deflecting i'm like i can't win in the in the conversation because i saw it last
01:04:14time we were sitting with these at the table it's because it's and then you call him a gas lighter
01:04:20because he's lying he is not a liar the one that's looking around for help from friends
01:04:25and that seems to be the lawyer and rolling your eyes at the table with your friends last time at the
01:04:30lunch was it was it was pretty horrible and i've addressed this with you before you were rolling
01:04:34your eyes and laughing every time he spoke because he's lying that doesn't lie yeah
01:04:41honestly that to me is that's behavior you're 29 you should not be rolling your eyes and laughing
01:04:46yeah well this man should not be yelling at me sorry jackie because regardless of the issues you
01:04:50have you should still respect your partner in front of no actually yelling it only takes one person to
01:04:55yell at the house talking to someone like and pulling them down takes one person too
01:04:59so you're just like throwing dirt on me but you're not even listening to anything i'm saying like
01:05:04if you wanted to have all you've done is throw dirt on him two sets of paperwork saying no you're
01:05:10trying to talk over me trying to shut me up i don't appreciate your tone you're being really rude
01:05:16and how much of a daddy is which is an absolute joke of a human being you've been you've been rude to
01:05:22him the whole time jackie we sat there and watched your behavior last time you were so
01:05:26experienced and so absolutely well then why did you come and visit us because somebody needs to stand
01:05:34up for him and your behavior it's not okay we spoke about how the the some testing i really don't come
01:05:42here to homestays to be yelled at
01:05:44you've been absolutely gypped on this experiment bro that's really rude to say
01:05:56i'll say it again i think he's been absolutely gypped of this experiment by being put with you
01:06:12i didn't sign up to this experiment to be yelled at when i'm like visiting my partner's hometown
01:06:25you should leave
01:06:36it's not the kind of behavior that should be tolerated
01:06:39it's a storm outside and there's about to be a storm inside
01:07:00it's the second last dinner party of the experiment
01:07:04tj what on earth do you have to say to that then and tj is at the center of the storm
01:07:11i feel like you've really switched i can't answer that right now has he been entirely honest with
01:07:16beth you'll be able to say yes i want to continue on the outside and get to know you and you couldn't
01:07:22answer it you gave me your house king which is a bit cute that's awesome some will celebrate their
01:07:28deeper bonds it's actually quite lovely to watch isn't it all reflecting on how well things are
01:07:33going it's beautiful but for ryan i'm sick of it jackie i'm just sick of it i've had a gutful mate
01:07:40wow wow he's reached his breaking point this is my house no that's not what happened i got yelled at
01:07:48i'm not going to sugarcoat things i'm not going to tolerate it anymore as he declares he wants out
01:07:53i can't i can't do this jackie why don't you want to be someone great oh but jackie's not taking no
01:08:02for an answer i don't lose people
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