- 6/24/2025
Olivia Attwood’s Bad Boyfriends - Season 1 ep 11
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00:00Previously do you think you're ready for marriage the boys got a thorough grilling from each other's girlfriends?
00:06I'm trying to make sure that you're not here to play a game to win a competition stuff at the end of the day
00:10I feel like you just need to focus on your relationship
00:16I then set them the task of shopping for the perfect gift
00:23Baby I don't wear silver
00:26Wow, that's a really nice time. Oh, I was really shitty, mate
00:30And now as one couple reach breaking points obviously doesn't matter how I feel
00:35He's gonna learn the hard way unfortunately, and that'll be by losing you the whole team made me look like a prick
00:40Who's calling you a prick?
00:43Who will make it to the final tonight there will be an elimination and who is going home?
00:51the boy I'm voting for
00:53is
01:03Jordan yeah
01:06You've been wait so we appreciate us. Oh my god
01:11What the hell?
01:12What is happening?
01:13What the hell?
01:14What is happening?
01:15What the hell?
01:16What the hell?
01:17What the hell?
01:18What the hell?
01:19Bailey, I hope you have not done that
01:21Do you like it?
01:22It's quite big, Jordy
01:25What the hell?
01:26What the hell?
01:27What the hell?
01:28What the hell?
01:29That's a really random place to get a tattoo
01:32No, but I know I've got my pants down this is very random but when when I go down on one knee and we get the picture for my boss I'll just have a Jordania there and I'll have my ring in my hand
01:39So is it nice or not?
01:40You don't look very
01:41No, it is nice
01:42No, it is nice
01:43Jordy looks stunned, what do you think?
01:44I was just like what was going on?
01:46Like I literally thought like he was gonna lick it and wipe it off and it was gonna come off I didn't for one minute think that was a real tattoo
01:58You don't look very happy
02:00I think they're in shock
02:01Well this is on my body for the rest of my life
02:03You've explained it in a very jokey way
02:05She's been asking for a long time for a tattoo, she did ask me to get it on the wrist but I wanted to get it into a place where she can actually see it
02:11Her reaction, it wasn't the best for me
02:14I've just tried to be romantic and it's not bat fired on me, so
02:18I feel a little bit sad for Sam because he did try
02:22I love it, I think it's in a really nice place and it's her full name
02:25She wasn't impressed
02:29Bailey, do you want to drop your trousers?
02:32No, I don't actually
02:33I've actually got it just there
02:39I'm so glad you didn't get it on your leg
02:41That is cute
02:43Bit soon
02:44That's really cute
02:45Yeah, obviously
02:46It's not air conditioning
02:48It's obviously your initials
02:50Yeah, you like it?
02:51Yeah
02:52Right, perfect
02:53Bailey getting my initials on his wrist
02:56I can't even tell you how that makes me feel
02:59I never thought he would do that in a million years
03:02And I feel so much more confident that we are going to have a really good life together
03:08Aw
03:13Ryan, please God, don't make me just run out of this house and cry
03:18So
03:21Originally I said to Saf that when I get back I want to get 80-20 tatted on me
03:27But I'm not going to be making any more jokes about 80-20
03:32Okay
03:33So the tattoo I got is kind of thinking into the future
03:37And I know that you've always said that you can't wait to become Sophia Baker
03:43So I got your initials
03:46And I want to put our date when we get married right underneath that
03:49LAUGHTER
03:54I'm going to cry
03:57I don't know if you're laughing or crying
03:59I'm crying
04:00It's funny
04:02Did you actually?
04:03Yeah
04:04I was going to ask
04:06Can I touch it to make sure it's real?
04:08It's real, yeah
04:11It's actually real
04:12It's real
04:13When me and Ryan met
04:14And I introduced him to all my friends and family
04:16It's like my future husband
04:17Just as a joke
04:18And it turns out he is my future husband
04:21I've got a ring
04:22And now I have a tattoo
04:23So I'm so happy
04:26You're happy with it?
04:27Yeah
04:34Oh Ryan, you really have me worried there
04:36I'm not going to lie
04:37My ass was sweating
04:38I was like
04:39Please God, this dick has not gone
04:40I've got 80-20 tattooed on him
04:43That's lovely
04:44Which boy did the best?
04:46I think Bailey did well
04:47Because
04:50He basically got everything that I asked Sam for
04:53What did you ask Sam for?
04:54I asked you to get a tattoo there
04:55And for a promise ring
04:56But yeah
04:58I got you a promise bracelet
04:59I've just explained to you
05:00I know, it's fine
05:01George's comments were not the best
05:03Erm
05:04Yeah
05:05I was kind of lost for words a little bit
05:07Because it did upset me
05:08Look
05:09Gift giving can be tricky business
05:11This does feel quite similar to
05:13Most of my family Christmases
05:15So I feel right at home
05:16In this awkwardness
05:18There is one more thing
05:23Tonight
05:25There will be
05:26An elimination
05:31Me and Lily are just having a public spot
05:34Couldn't have been a worse timing
05:36One more bad boyfriend
05:38Is going home
05:41And so
05:42Is their girlfriend
05:44I'm looking at everyone
05:45Literally like
05:46Oh shit
05:48This is a competition
05:49To be the most improved boyfriend
05:52And now
05:53You must decide
05:54Who is the least improved
05:56Me and Ryan have had so many ups and downs
05:58I hope we are not going to be an easy target
06:01Who has not been putting in the work
06:04And which boyfriend
06:07Should go
06:10And girls
06:11The decision is entirely yours
06:14Before you choose
06:16Boys
06:17Will you please tell us
06:18Why you think you deserve to stay
06:21Why do you think you have improved more
06:23Than the other boyfriends
06:25In no particular order
06:26Bailey
06:31So I believe
06:32I should still be here
06:33Because
06:35I'm just trying to be more thoughtful
06:36With everything I do
06:38Like you're on my arm now
06:39So you're not going anywhere
06:45Ryan
06:50I think
06:51The gifts that I've got you tonight
06:52Is kind of
06:53The proof in the pudding
06:54Of how much I've listened to you
06:56And how much I've taken on board
06:57Everything you've said
06:59So hopefully we can continue this process
07:05Sam
07:08So I believe I should stay
07:11I still believe I've got things to work on
07:13But we had a chat the other day
07:15And I think you trust me now
07:16Which is something I've always wanted to
07:17That was the main thing for me
07:18Because you can't have a relationship without trust
07:20Without trust
07:21The romance side I did think
07:22I did try today
07:24Erm
07:25Maybe it didn't come across the best
07:26Maybe
07:27All I can say is that I love you
07:28And thank you for bringing me here
07:30Love you
07:31Love you
07:33Victor
07:37I've learned that
07:38I should think a little bit more
07:39Of my emotional side
07:41I believe that this experience
07:42Has really changed me
07:43And you've always been my soul mate
07:45I was always going to marry you
07:47For me the big winners out there
07:49Not here
07:50And yeah
07:51I love you
07:52Love you too
07:53Where you been?
07:57Where you been?
08:01Right now I'm not feeling like
08:04Saying I should deserve to stay
08:06Speaking and talking has never been my strong point
08:08When it's about how I feel
08:10Instead of saying why I should stay
08:11I'm going to say that I learned a lot here
08:14I have improved a lot
08:17Hopefully I can continue that
08:18I'm just going to try and not self-sabotage myself in doing so
08:21That's all I need to say
08:27Okay girls
08:28You've heard what all the boyfriends have to say
08:35Anya
08:36Stand up and give your reasons
08:43The reason I'm choosing this boy
08:45Is because
08:46I haven't seen much improvement
08:48In the way he deals with situations
08:51He's a little immature and needs to do some growing up
08:54So
08:56The boy I am voting for is Ruben
09:01Anya voted for me
09:02But
09:03Her reasons were bullshit to me
09:06Maria
09:09One thing was about trust
09:11And obviously communication
09:12And I don't think that trust can improve further while being in this project
09:22So the boy I'm voting for is Sam
09:25I don't think Maria is Sam's biggest fan anyway
09:28So I'm not really surprised
09:30Sophia
09:31The person I'm choosing is Victor
09:34I feel like whenever we speak
09:37I'm not getting a genuine reaction
09:41You mentioned that you was always going to marry Maria
09:44But she's clearly brought you here because you said you wasn't going to marry her
09:47So it's like I'm a bit confused that was you always going to marry her or was you not interested in getting married?
09:53So I'm sorry but I've chosen you
09:58I wasn't really surprised about hearing my name
10:00They all have that mindset and that opinion of us that we're lying about everything and everything is fake
10:05So I wasn't actually surprised at all
10:07So Sam, Ruben and Victor all have one vote each
10:12Jordi
10:14At this point I already know that Jordi's going to pick her so I'm literally just looking at Victor like smiling saying like yeah it's us
10:23I haven't seen much improvement
10:27I don't think being here is going to benefit this couple in any way
10:34So the person that I am voting for is Victor
10:40Okay Victor if you receive one more vote you'll be going home tonight
10:46Lily
10:52So the boy I'm voting for is
11:10Lily
11:11Lily
11:12I'm voting this boy because
11:14He's here for a huge commitment
11:17And I just feel like this is not the place to make the decision
11:22And I hope it does happen
11:25So the boy I'm voting for is
11:30Victor
11:35It's all right, it's all right, it's all good
11:36It is what it is. I believe that I've shown exactly who I am
11:42I've been honest when people ask me about my relationship and my intentions. I think I'm just a little bit misunderstood
11:48Victor
11:50You received three votes
11:52Which means the girlfriends have decided you are the least improved
11:56Thank you everybody for this amazing experience. Thank you to Olivia. Thank you for the opportunity and
12:01Yeah, it really really worked really helped us and yeah, thank you again
12:05How have you seen Victor improve over the last few weeks?
12:09Girl?
12:11This guy, he was never as sweet as you see him now
12:16He was never that sensitive before
12:19It's an incredibly hard vote at this stage in the project
12:22And I've thoroughly enjoyed getting to know both of you over the last few weeks
12:27Maria, what would you like to say to the boyfriends?
12:31Boys, treat these girls well, okay?
12:34They're bloody queens
12:36And I'm excited, I can't wait to get back into this normal life with you
12:40I love you so much
12:42Victor, the girls have decided that you are the least improved boyfriend
12:46It's time to leave the project
12:48It's time to leave the project
12:52I'm still holding on to everything that's dead and gone
12:56I love you
12:58I don't wanna say goodbye
13:00It's got that few
13:02Awesome, nice meeting you all
13:04Yeah, you too
13:06Thank you so much for being part of it, guys
13:10Bye, guys
13:12Bye, guys
13:13I feel like being here has actually worked for you and I'm excited to see where our future goes
13:25Because now I know that our future is leading to, you know
13:32Emotional rollercoaster, wasn't it?
13:34Yep, it was
13:36Do you think the right couple went?
13:38Yeah
13:40Personally, Ruben, you're my brother
13:42And I love you, bro
13:44But I feel like you really dodged the bullet tonight, bro
13:51And I feel like you seriously, seriously, seriously need to, like, honestly focus on that, your communication
13:57You need to now show everybody, especially the girls, why you're still here, bro
14:02I don't need to prove nothing to nobody but myself and Lily
14:05If they see that, they see that, and that's also a good thing for her confidence
14:09But didn't throw my toys out of the pram
14:12I just said I didn't really like that and it didn't make me feel good
14:15So I actually think the comments about communication could really go to hell
14:19Ruben's really let himself down tonight, that is not the reaction I was expecting
14:22I was actually trying to help him out and give him a little bit of a moment to redeem himself
14:29But yeah, he just, I think he just dug himself a hole and he just kept digging
14:33That's not really what we've wanted to hear, to be honest
14:36Lily, how do you feel about all of this?
14:38Do you feel that Ruben communicated to you correctly?
14:40Not really
14:43I don't know
14:45No, you're struggling
14:51I don't even cry like this, but
14:55It's just the way he takes things
14:58I feel like it's way too deep
15:00Sometimes even the smallest little things
15:03He can take it
15:05Super deep
15:06This has been a really heavy night, just go easy on each other please
15:16And tomorrow is going to be another big day
15:19Alright guys, try and get some rest and I'll see you tomorrow
15:22See you later
15:23Bye guys
15:29You alright?
15:31I think this is when I just don't have to call it, it quits me
15:33Hmm?
15:35This is just the one I love as well
15:37I'm just going to sit there for a minute
15:38Because obviously it doesn't fuck a matter how I feel
15:49What the actual fuck?
15:52Did you watch that?
15:54I'm so tall
15:56It's like your first fucking comment?
15:58Did you not watch that?
15:59That was crazy
16:00Girls were banging on border
16:04Of course you wanted to do
16:05No, they weren't
16:06Lily said a comment
16:07The way she said it, it was quite bad
16:08She said I wear silver, baby
16:10I wear gold
16:11She didn't say it like that
16:12Don't you think it's an overreaction from him?
16:13Yeah, it is a bit of an overreaction, Mark
16:15It was a bit harsh
16:17I need to go in, but I can't feel my fucking fate genuinely
16:22I'm in agony
16:24It's just his pride
16:26He doesn't like, wanna put his pride aside and be like, do you know what, I'm sorry I don't like it
16:30Yeah
16:32And saying your comments can go to hell, it's just not helping
16:35I just feel overwhelmed and just emotions are all over the place
16:42He needs to fucking change
16:44Do you know what I mean?
16:45Yeah
16:46And he's gonna learn the hard way, unfortunately, and that'll be by losing you
16:49Yeah
16:50Ruben really needs to step it up
16:52I 100% understand why Lily got upset
16:55She just wants Ruben to listen to her
16:57Instead of arguing back to her
16:58Because his ego was a little bit bruised
17:00He was embarrassed in front of the boys
17:02And because he's childish
17:04It wasn't that deep
17:05She just says she doesn't wear silver
17:07Yeah, I just wanted to speak to her because
17:10Yeah
17:11I feel really bad about the reaction
17:12I feel like it came across completely wrong
17:14I don't feel bad
17:15I don't want you to feel bad
17:16Honestly, I was in that much shock
17:19I feel like I gave the worst reaction
17:22And I feel absolutely terrible about it
17:25Like, sometimes I just can't help
17:27Like, things that are going on in my head
17:29Like, really shows on my face
17:30And I don't mean it
17:32It wasn't anything to do with the gifts or the tattoos
17:34I was actually really happy with them
17:36I just probably went about it a bit jokey
17:38Because I was just a bit nervous
17:40I love you when you're jokey
17:42You know I do
17:43We laugh together all the time
17:44But I think in that situation
17:46It was more of a serious, like, moving
17:49You're romantic
17:50You're a romantic, yeah
17:51But I'm still there, I'm still working on things
17:53Yeah
17:54That's all I can do
17:56Love you
17:57Love you
18:02What did you think?
18:03Just the way you reacted to that wasn't nice
18:05And I just
18:07Said I didn't like it
18:08It didn't make me feel good
18:10And then I tried to just continue and go past it
18:13We could even discuss it
18:14Or talk about it later
18:16But you just had to keep bringing it
18:17And keep trying to go back
18:18But it didn't take two seconds to look and see
18:20It wasn't even silver
18:21Did you even know it wasn't?
18:22Did you?
18:23Of course I knew it was gold
18:24I bought it and asked for it in gold
18:25I literally went around saying you only wear gold
18:27Babe, I don't know if it's the way it's lighting all the things
18:30Babe, you didn't give it a second look, did you?
18:32Okay, but you even said I know
18:34But it was the nicest one I could find
18:36No
18:37You said you don't like silver
18:38I was like, I know
18:39And I don't know you don't like silver
18:40He could've just said, babe, it's not silver, it's gold
18:43It looked silver
18:45Regardless of anything, I'm gonna wear the necklace
18:47It's not a big issue
18:48Listen, it's not even about the necklace
18:50It's the way you took it
18:52I took it
18:53Woman, I didn't storm off
18:55I didn't act childish
18:57It's not about you
18:58I'm trying to speak, woman
18:59So it's okay for him to be vocal about how he feels
19:05But it's not okay for me to be vocal about how I feel about the gift
19:10I mean, that's what we were supposed to do anyways
19:14I'm down
19:15And now it's all about you and how I make you feel
19:17Look, I'm the prick now
19:19Who's calling you a prick?
19:21That whole thing made me look like a prick
19:23Why are you so worried how it made you look like?
19:26Because that's how I feel
19:27You want me to tell you how I feel?
19:28I'm telling you how I feel
19:29This is the situation we have every time
19:32Do you know what?
19:34The way you take things
19:36I'm here being told to communicate
19:38And be vulnerable
19:40And be open about how I'm feeling
19:41And not balling things up
19:42And every time I do, I get scalded for it
19:44So yeah, it just feels like you never really win
19:47I'm more upset that you're upset
19:50You're not upset that I'm upset, babe
19:53Excuse me?
19:54You seem more pissed off because you feel embarrassed
19:57No, I'm trying to communicate because I'm upset
20:00And if you think I don't care that you're upset
20:02Then what's the fucking point of all of this?
20:03If you think I sat there and get joy out seeing you crying
20:05Then there's no fucking point
20:07It's fucking stupid, man
20:09I don't care now
20:11Yeah, I'm walking away again
20:13Because you know what?
20:14It's the same shit every single time
20:15We just can't seem to understand each other
20:17We're just heartbreak
20:19Because that was one of the biggest things that
20:22We saw in each other and loved about each other
20:25I wouldn't be reacting like this if I didn't care
20:27The way he walked off was just disrespectful
20:33There's a lot of work that we need to do in our relationship
20:39Sick and tired of this again
20:42Why does the sun gone shining?
20:49Why does the sea rush to shore?
20:56Don't they know it's the end of the world
21:03Cause you don't love me anymore
21:09Or now
21:10Why do the birds go insane
21:13Sleep and I, I still woke up very upset and annoyed
21:17I'm not at myself, I'm not at Lily
21:19And right now that tension between us is soul destroying
21:24Don't they know it's the end of the world
21:30Even though I was toying between Richter and Ruben
21:32On who was the least improved boyfriend
21:34Yeah
21:35I literally, like, decided on the spot
21:38Do you still agree on your decision?
21:40I do agree on my decision
21:42But I didn't like Ruben's response
21:45Lily was so upset
21:47I feel a bit sorry for her to be fair
21:49Yeah, she just feels like
21:51They're basically just going round and round in circles
21:53And she feels like he's never going to change
21:55How do you think Ruben's going to be feeling this morning?
21:58He needs to put his pride aside
22:00100%
22:01And, yeah, put Lily first
22:03I don't know when he's going to learn
22:06And that's the problem
22:08Is he ever going to learn?
22:21After last night
22:22I thought I'd treat the final four couple to some alone time
22:25And send them all on a well-deserved date
22:28Ain't no better day for love
22:30No pretending we're asleep
22:32Our body language says it all
22:34No, we don't need to sleep
22:37Just tell me underneath the sheet
22:40Oh, I'm pretty
22:42Ain't no better day for love
22:46I'll put it at this
22:47It's beautiful
22:48Just like you
22:50Thank you
22:51Last time me and Ryan went on a date
22:53He wanted to throw his Chinese in my face
22:55So hopefully this date goes a lot better
22:57Better
22:58I'm so happy right now
22:59So
23:00Love you
23:01Love you too, baby
23:02I feel like we're in a really good space
23:04We are
23:05Mm-hmm
23:06I wasn't expecting some of the downs at the beginning
23:09But we've moved on
23:11Yeah
23:12I feel like
23:13The more and more we go through this process
23:15And the more that I'm improving
23:18I'm starting to understand the deeper levels
23:22As to why you brought me here
23:24Yeah
23:25It's been in a particular mindset
23:28Just thinking that flirting was just a personality trait
23:32And, you know, not being able to read a room
23:35And...
23:36I felt like you thought it was like
23:37I'm just flirting
23:38I'm not actually doing anything
23:39It's not bad
23:40Yeah
23:41And do you know what?
23:42I kept saying
23:43I trust him, I trust him, I trust him
23:44But when we had the conversation the other day
23:46And you said that you think I've got trust issues
23:48Maybe I do
23:50And I feel like being here has helped me realise that
23:54Yeah
23:55And that's something that we've been battling with
23:57So the fact that she admitted to me that she has trust issues
24:01Meant the world
24:02Libra has really helped us
24:04Yeah
24:05Even with how it started with the whole Brotopia thing
24:08In that moment they built up our egos
24:11And then made us strip our egos back
24:13And really like start from
24:15Like humbled
24:16Yeah, humbled us
24:17Me personally, I needed that
24:18And I think you can really see how much difference it's made
24:22Yeah, you're a man now
24:24Especially it's like we're going to go for a lot
24:26Like we're going to start IVF once we're back
24:29We're going to plan a wedding
24:31That's not going to be easy
24:32So I feel like this was the perfect time
24:34Yeah
24:35For us to strengthen our relationship
24:37100%
24:38Do you feel ready for that?
24:39For a little baby?
24:40100%
24:41Should we cheers to...
24:43Cheers to forever
24:44Forever
24:49I'm going to drink so after cheers
24:50Yeah
24:52I never really take Anya on dates at home as it is
24:56Since I've been here I've learnt I need to make more effort
24:59By me being a lot more romantic
25:01So I feel like this is my chance to really impress Anya
25:05This has actually been like a life changing experience for us
25:07It has
25:08It's my last chance
25:10So cheers to that
25:12Cheers
25:15How do you feel like I've changed compared to the person I was
25:18Obviously when I first walked in
25:19I felt like you wanted maybe different things to me
25:22We were arguing a lot when we were bickering
25:25But yeah going forward my mindset is just completely different
25:28And I really do like to see a future with you now
25:30I feel like this is the happiest we've ever been
25:32Yeah, you're like more chilled
25:35Because it's all come out now
25:37Yeah
25:38Relieved really
25:39We've literally spent how many nights with each other
25:43We haven't really argued
25:44No, normally you're like I need some space
25:46Yeah I'm like you're doing me adding, leave me alone
25:49We'll go back, we will be going on dates
25:51Go back to the beginning
25:55Obviously I know it's a bit too soon
25:57I mean I've spoken about it before
25:58But obviously I feel like kids will be at some point soon
26:04Hopefully one day
26:05Yeah
26:06And then you'll have a little one of me running around
26:08And you'll be like what the fuck have I done
26:09God
26:10You're more broody than me
26:12The date with Bailey was so nice
26:14We both opened up a lot
26:16And we've spoken about how much we have planned for the future
26:21I'd like to see you actually show emotion
26:23I'm really happy where we're going
26:25Me too
26:26And I feel like we could even win this whole thing as well
26:30Steady on
26:31Are you going to give me a kiss?
26:39Yeah, so I feel like we really need to talk
26:41If you want to talk about this process, what we learned, what we didn't learn
26:45I did learn a lot
26:47And I also learned that every time I try to do better
26:49Every time I try to change in some kind of way
26:50It gets thrown back in my fucking face
26:52I try to improve, try to do whatever the fuck it is
26:54For your sake
26:55For my sake?
26:56Of course for your sake
26:57I'm trying to be a better boyfriend for you
27:00I know exactly what you're doing
27:02You know what I'm doing?
27:03Yeah
27:04What am I doing?
27:05You're trying to spin this whole thing as if you're here for me
27:09I stayed because I fucked up
27:12Oh, for fuck's sake
27:14It just feels like miscommunication is huge in our relationship
27:24Look, any comments that you didn't like that I made throughout the project, I apologize
27:30There's no doubt we have a connection
27:32But we're both hot-headed, we're both stubborn
27:34And we just clash way too much
27:37Accept your apology, but I just
27:39I still just don't feel like you understand where I'm coming from with certain things
27:43And this is a constant problem
27:45I know, I feel the same with you
27:46I just don't feel understood, I don't feel hurt either
27:49I hate when you say stuff like that because I'm like, I'm not even allowed to feel what I feel
27:53It's just
27:54You are
27:55I tell you I don't understand, I get you to explain it to me
27:59I just don't feel like you do the same
28:01So, whatever, process, progress, whatever the fuck this thing is
28:04I also highlight all the other fucking problems that we have
28:07I'm just tired of it
28:09I'm just tired
28:10It was the perfect kind of situation to just talk everything out
28:14But, I just feel like he's fed up and he doesn't want to hear it
28:19Just need a sec, fuck this
28:29I was pissed that he walked out
28:32We just don't seem to be getting on
28:34And I don't want him to feel like down and exhausted and constantly drained
28:40I don't want him to be in the relationship if he feels that way
28:50Cheers
28:51Cheers to
28:52Our future
28:53New beginnings and better boyfriend
28:55Yeah
28:56Better boyfriend
28:58Yeah, better boyfriend
29:00And the other boys
29:01All those things that I brought you here for
29:05Have now been resolved
29:06And it's like such a nice feeling
29:08It's like a massive weight's just been lifted
29:11I feel like I'm getting emotional now
29:14I feel like because you've improved
29:16Like I've also improved
29:18And I've been able to like drop those walls that I had up
29:21You always said to me
29:22You can't have a full me
29:23If you don't change your ways
29:25Yeah
29:26I feel like I was very much a closed book
29:28And I wasn't giving you much about the future
29:30But I feel like since being here
29:32We're in the best place that we've literally ever been in
29:35And it makes me like excited for the future
29:37And I've never felt excitement for our future before
29:41And it means the world to me
29:43Every day I wake up here
29:45It's a new day
29:46And I'm like blessed to be here
29:47Because each day I'm
29:49Improving
29:50I'm improving, yeah
29:51And gaining on my relationship
29:52And making you smile every day is a bonus for me
29:55That's cute
29:56I never thought I'd get to this place with Jordy
29:58Didn't think we'd overcome all our issues
30:00But because we're putting tests
30:02And we can't run or hide anywhere
30:03We've just had to own up to mistakes
30:05And I've started solving the problems in the relationship
30:08Little cracks we had started mending
30:10And we're in a really good place
30:13I do want to take things to the next step
30:15As in proposing to you
30:16Because now I feel like you are on the same page
30:18And he'll say yeah as well
30:20So
30:21We've got a good future ahead of us
30:22And yeah, I'm excited
30:24I've actually got a question that I wanted to ask you
30:29Okay
30:31Oh God, I feel all emotional now
30:34I was actually wondering
30:35If you wanted to like
30:36Try for a baby when we got home
30:38Seriously?
30:39Yeah
30:40Oh God, that is like...
30:42God
30:43How do you feel about that?
30:44Looking all over the moon
30:46Buzzing
30:47Do you?
30:48Yeah, that's what I wanted with you
30:49Is it?
30:50Yeah, it gets me emotional
30:51Oh, don't cry
30:52Don't make me cry
30:53Don't get me emotional
30:54Because that's what I wanted
30:55Oh God
30:56Oh God
30:58Oh God
30:59Love you
31:04Like, I know I brought him here
31:05To try and make him a better boyfriend
31:07But
31:09I had no idea
31:10That this would actually improve all the things
31:12That I've been asking for for so long
31:15Best date we've ever had, innit?
31:16Yeah
31:17How was your date?
31:18So bad
31:19Yeah, really good
31:20How was yours?
31:21Didn't go as I expected
31:22He walked off
31:23Again?
31:24Yeah, not in a bad way
31:25But he was just like, I just need a minute
31:27Does he want you to chase him every time he walks off?
31:29Because he's always constantly walking off?
31:30I tried talking to him, he was just not having it
31:31Yeah, I apologise for my part anyways
31:32Yeah, I apologise for my part anyways
31:33I wouldn't have even said sorry, so well done
31:34No
31:35I don't feel like you've done anything wrong too
31:36He didn't have anything to apologise
31:37I just want you to be happy at the end of the day
31:38Yeah
31:39I just want you to be happy at the end of the day
31:40Me too
31:41Yeah
31:42The constant issue they keep having, he just doesn't face the issues head on and he sort
31:44of walks away from the situation, so I just feel really sorry for Lily because she deserved
32:13But anyways, enough of bad news. Tell me about your day.
32:17We spoke about, obviously, the highs and the lows that we've had
32:20and what we've learnt from this experience.
32:23And I feel like it's left us in, like, such a strong place
32:26for when we go back home and we have to deal with, obviously, the IVF
32:29and planning a wedding. I feel like we're so much stronger now.
32:32Yay! I'm happy.
32:33My date was probably one of the best dates I've actually ever been on.
32:36It was really nice to actually sit down and, like, speak about how we're feeling
32:40and, like, where we want to go in the future.
32:42And, yeah, we've decided that when we get home, we're going to try for a baby.
32:47Oh! Oh, my God, congratulations.
32:50Yeah.
32:51That's huge. Imagine if you guys get pregnant at the same time.
32:54We can have a joint baby shower.
32:56We'll be on our baby moons together.
32:59So everyone's getting pregnant.
33:01Well, Bailey never really used to want it.
33:04He'd always say, like, I want kids, but, like, not for now.
33:07And then, like, when we were on our date, he was like, I think I do want them now.
33:11So we've come a long way.
33:12The guy that walked in, he, like, completely changed.
33:15Oh, my God, I'm so happy for you girls.
33:18It's just a bit annoying because the girls mentioned it went very well.
33:22I feel like instead of improving, I almost feel like we're taking a few steps back.
33:30I feel like I couldn't have done any of this about you girls as well.
33:34I feel like we've all been such a big part of each other's journey.
33:37And we've all, like, we've really supported each other.
33:40Should we hug? Let's go.
33:41It's been a eight girls.
33:42And we're a girl.
33:43Girls, we're actually the final four.
33:45Oh, my God.
33:46Oh, my God.
33:47Oh, my God.
33:49Oh, my God.
33:53Do you like me like this?
33:55Do you like me like that?
34:00How are you feeling today, bro?
34:02Still a bit fucked off by everything, to be honest.
34:04Yeah.
34:05Personally, I didn't really want to chat to Ruben, but Ruben has been a good friend throughout this whole process.
34:12So I thought, let me try and give him the opportunity to explain himself and to understand what he was thinking.
34:18I feel like you said what you wanted to say, even though I majorly disagree with it.
34:23And I thought you speaking up and saying that in that moment was a bit of a kick in the dick from straight up.
34:30Bit of a wake up call, if I'm honest.
34:32So I was like, you know what, maybe this shit really is a competition.
34:36Bullshit moved to me.
34:38It seemed very gamey.
34:40Like, there's four of us now.
34:42Someone else is probably going to go.
34:43And that was, after I just had a bust up, it was kind of stick the nail in the coffin to make sure it was definitely me that was next and not him.
34:50I was just trying to help you.
34:52So I don't want you to think that I'm trying to, like, get any self gain from it.
34:58I was trying to give you a moment to kind of save yourself.
35:02Well, with all due respect, it just seems very convenient and seems very nice for the moment.
35:07We're at that stage now in this process where everybody's at each other's necks and everybody's looking for an advantage.
35:12I appreciate the words and that, and I hope they're genuine, but, like, fill me once, right, cool, but fill me twice, that's my fault.
35:20Well, bro, I wish you the best of luck, bro. You get me whether, I'm always going to be here if you need to talk.
35:27You get me, it's completely up to you, like, the bull's in your court, bro, so.
35:30I'm finished now. I'm no longer going to give Ruben advice because I don't appreciate the reactions.
35:38Yeah, I'll just let him get home with it now.
35:40I respect for what you've done in the past, but I'm not even going to be talking to Lily, so I really doubt I'll be telling you to talk to you.
35:46That's just how I'll stand on it.
35:48So the friendship writing is done. I didn't like the way he handled things.
35:53A few days prior, this is somebody who threatened to dash Chinese food in his fiancé's face, so I'm taking a step back.
36:07I'm trying to get these couples to communicate, which, obviously, you can't have a healthy relationship without communication.
36:15Like, Reuben and Lily, I feel, unfortunately, that I think that he has a bit of a fragile ego.
36:24He kind of, he gets upset too quickly and then she shuts him down and there's not enough space for them to communicate.
36:32So they just keep doing this same dance that goes round and round and round in circles.
36:36So I really want to try and help them break that.
36:40How are you going to manage it?
36:41How I always do, I just mediate.
36:44And I've also got them a gift that I know will bring them closer together.
36:48PHONE RINGS
36:50That was the door. I'll get it.
36:52Someone's at the door. Someone's at the door.
36:54Someone's at the door. Someone's at the door.
36:56Someone's at the door? Someone ordered something, or...?
37:03She's on her hands and knees at the minute.
37:05Oh, God.
37:07Oh, my God.
37:08What have we got?
37:09It's four bags.
37:10Come on, sir.
37:11It's given. I've just used Ryan's credit card.
37:14Guys, we have presents.
37:18What is it?
37:19Guys, we have presents.
37:20What is it?
37:21Come down.
37:22Come, come, come.
37:23Can we have a note?
37:24What does the note read it out?
37:26Oh.
37:27Hi, guys.
37:28I thought it was time I gave you all a present,
37:30especially after last night.
37:32This is all about bringing you back together.
37:34Enjoy.
37:35Love, Olivia.
37:36Aw.
37:37What is it?
37:38Lilz, when have a look?
37:39Come on, come on, come on.
37:41Can we have a look?
37:42Can we have a look?
37:43Can we have a look?
37:44Christmas Day.
37:45What the fuck?
37:46It's like onesies or something like that.
37:48Oh, my God.
37:49Yes!
37:50I've been wanting one of these for time.
37:52These are sick.
37:54No, it's two.
37:55Yeah, so you both get in it.
37:56Oh, my God.
37:57We are sleeping.
38:00Do we share that one?
38:01Yeah, babe.
38:02Oh, do we?
38:05I was not excited to get in the Tuesday with Ryan.
38:08It's hot.
38:09He smells.
38:10I can't be bothered.
38:11So you race.
38:12Three, two, one, go.
38:13Wait!
38:19What happens if one of us needs a wee?
38:21I need the personal, actually.
38:22Is that...?
38:25Now what?
38:26We cuddle.
38:27We puddle.
38:28There we go.
38:33Do you want to do this?
38:34Do you want to be one in this onesie?
38:36Yeah.
38:37This is literally the definition of, like, glued to my hip.
38:40Ruben and I aren't really on good terms.
38:43It's going to be a bit tense.
38:45Okay, can you just forget everything and we can move forward with things?
38:50I'll try, yeah.
38:51I feel like the last thing Lily wants is to be glued to my hip.
38:54Well, we'll give them a try.
38:56Where?
38:57I feel like I walk funny in this.
38:58Right, wait.
38:59One step.
39:00One step.
39:01One, two.
39:02Staff, you're not doing this properly.
39:03Why are you holding me there?
39:04I don't know because I'm scared.
39:05Ready?
39:06One, two, three.
39:07One, two, three.
39:08The vibe in the villa is really good right now, we're all having fun.
39:10But, I think we're probably the worst couple in the 2Z because you're just getting
39:11fun and you're just getting fun.
39:12What?
39:13What?
39:14What?
39:15What?
39:16What?
39:17What?
39:18What?
39:19What?
39:20What?
39:21What?
39:24What?
39:25What?
39:26What?
39:27What?
39:29What?
39:30What?
39:31What?
39:32What?
39:33What?
39:34What?
39:35What?
39:36because he just gets on my nerves when he's that close to me you mean your
39:55little Teletubbies guys you look so cute you love them a bit hot but I'm glad you
40:04got my gift Reuben and Lily how was your date they're not good
40:11right come on let's have a chat let's see if I can help in one hand it's good that
40:18we're having the deep dive but at this point we shouldn't really be having these
40:23kind of conversations we should be getting along by now it's worrying
40:30comfortable yeah as you can be yeah extremely so nice let's start of last
40:36night when Reuben has those big blowouts how does it affect you I feel like I
40:43just need to be quiet because I feel like anything I say could just set him off
40:47but that's because when I'm in those moods all you do is give out to me for things
40:51it was a bit of a tough reaction on my spot yeah just the feeling of standing up
40:56they're stupid I apologized for making you feel embarrassed I don't want you to
41:04stay quiet I want you to speak your mind that's not the problem but how we speak
41:07do you feel like he heightens the dramatics of it yes and then it makes it
41:12bigger and what you want in a long-term relationship is two people that are
41:15like emotionally resilient because you have to be able to bounce back from these
41:20arguments quicker I'm looking at two people today who both look so fucking
41:25drained there's no way to live no no for me to try to sort this thing out like for
41:31over a day is just draining going round and round and round in circles it just
41:37pretty much shows us that we have an issue in our relationship how can we stop
41:42this from going round and round that's all it does just goes round and round we're
41:48not we're not on the same level of like trust and security as we were before
41:51because I just don't feel like I fully I'm secure last night was a kicking
41:57especially for you Ruben the problem is it spills into hours and days life's
42:03fucking hard enough yeah I think it's more of just me hurting and wanting to be
42:09understood I know myself I've got a lot of personal issues when it comes to
42:13relationships that I probably I'm dealing with on the job it's tough because I
42:16actually see a lot of growth from being here and the time obviously I was stuck
42:21here has helped and obviously has highlighted probably stuff that we've
42:24definitely overlooked he doesn't help himself I think it's not fair that he's
42:30doing this to her I feel like this isn't just the end of the road of the
42:34process I feel like this is the end of the road of their relationship as well
42:37though hmm can I ask you a question that I wonder if you've asked yourselves
42:43over the last couple of weeks do you think you're right for each other
42:49like if you ask me do I think we're right together I'm always gonna say yes
42:52have you thought of a life without Ruben in it not yet but the thing is if he's
42:59feeling this way then I wouldn't make him stay yeah you're not happy I've
43:05literally have been where you guys are you know I mean like I know what is that
43:10the worst feeling in the world sure right guys I know you're both exhausted so I'm
43:15gonna leave you here to chat things over I want you to really think about if you
43:20can't get past this cycle how long you can sustain this definitely not long get
43:26some rest guys okay thank you so much good night hey guys hey hey all right how did that go
43:45well that's really sad I mean you guys know you live with them they're going
43:49through it big time and yeah I think they're just thinking about what the
43:56future looks like for them at the moment bye guys see you tomorrow
44:02I just feel like we're having this conversation with me just makes me feel
44:18like I'm not even certain if you want to be here or not it has to be a mutual
44:23decision no that doesn't actually because you don't want to be here then you don't
44:27have to be here to decide the winner we're gonna do things a little bit
44:45differently what a nice clean race I ain't gonna be playing this honest
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