Open House The Great Sex Experiment Season 1 Episode 6
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00:00It's a complete mystery, the whole thing. This is it. We don't know what to expect.
00:03These curious couples are about to find out.
00:06Oh, that is gorgeous.
00:08They're traveling to a unique retreat.
00:10Hello, you all right?
00:12Where, with the help of a specialist relationship therapist...
00:16Life is short. Why limit sex to just one person?
00:21And a group of single, available, and sexually liberated residents...
00:26It's just natural to have sex with multiple people.
00:31They're about to discover if their sexual fantasies...
00:35Oh, jeez!
00:37...can become a reality.
00:39We like the idea of group sex.
00:42We were just wondering if you'd like to spend the night with us.
00:44...and whether or not they'll be able to break one of society's greatest taboos...
00:49I should have been thinking about the man that I love and how he was feeling.
00:54...and have sex with other people.
00:58Oh, my God!
01:00Wow, I was not expecting that.
01:03Wow.
01:04This is the most up my comfort zone I've ever been.
01:15I'm nervous.
01:17Yeah.
01:18I've got butterflies.
01:19How are you feeling?
01:21Yeah, buzzing.
01:21Checking into the retreat are Ellie and Chaos, whose love affair began online.
01:27When I first saw Ellie, she was wearing these very small shorts and her bum was, like, kind of hanging out.
01:33Oi! Oi!
01:34It was a very hot day, so...
01:36You ready to have fun, Ellie?
01:37Yeah.
01:39Can't wait.
01:40Chaos was quick to take the relationship to the next level.
01:44I prepared this video.
01:46Will you be my girlfriend?
01:48And it went viral.
01:49I went bright red, literally the shade of a tomato, and all the comments were saying about how...
01:55Tomatoes.
01:56Yeah.
01:57Sit!
01:58As a professional GB athlete, Chaos knows how to stay cool under pressure.
02:04I'm just a really chilled and laid-back person.
02:07I have complete trust in Ellie and what she does, so I have nothing to worry or be jealous of her.
02:13And being super fit helps him keep up in the bedroom.
02:17We do do it, like, well, every day.
02:20The chemistry is good, so we're quite adventurous.
02:24Top notch.
02:24I would probably say that I have a very high, like, sex drive, and, yeah, it's hard to find someone that matches that.
02:33Now the couple want to find out if opening up their relationship, starting with a threesome, will help them keep the spark alive.
02:41I'd say the honeymoon period is over, but we're still very much so attracted to each other.
02:47I do think it's a bit naive to think that you can be with one person for your entire life.
02:52Can we see her?
02:54Yes.
02:55Oh, my God.
02:57How are you doing?
02:58Here to welcome them are hosts Jess and Tom, who are in a long-term open relationship themselves.
03:04How are you feeling?
03:06Very excited to see what's to come, yeah.
03:09Hello.
03:09Hello, everyone.
03:10Hi, everyone.
03:12Now, Kea.
03:13Nice to meet you.
03:14Nice to meet you.
03:15God, you look so good.
03:16Yeah.
03:17Intimacy therapist Dr. Laurie Beth wants to help the couple take their first steps into non-monogamy.
03:27Hey, grab a chair.
03:29It's good to meet you, too.
03:30So why don't you tell me what has brought you here?
03:34We thought this would be the perfect opportunity to have a threesome.
03:37Yep.
03:38Seeing Ellie, for example, kiss another girl or anything like that, I'm attracted to that, so...
03:44I think that's Kea's ideal scenario.
03:45I mean, that's kind of every guy's dream, let's be honest, right?
03:50What do you think other people might bring to your relationship?
03:53I mean, more fun, I guess.
03:54Yeah, I guess.
03:55Yeah, okay.
03:55More fun.
03:56Yeah, it's fun.
03:57Yeah.
03:58So where are you in your sexuality?
04:00I've always said I don't really label things.
04:02I never consider myself as straight or bisexual.
04:05I've always had attraction to both sexes, so that's really how I feel.
04:10So opportunities are structured with that in mind?
04:13Yes, yeah.
04:14What is jealousy like for you?
04:17I've never been jealous in my life, really.
04:19I mean, I've nothing.
04:20I don't know how...
04:21Like, there's nothing that will make Kea's jealous, he says, so that's interesting.
04:25Not that I know of, anyway.
04:26Yeah, exactly.
04:27Thank you, but nothing that comes to mind.
04:29What's jealousy like for you?
04:31Slightly a bit jealous.
04:32I mean, it would be strange not to be.
04:33I don't think that he would ever do anything behind my back, so I do fully trust him in
04:38that way, but I can be a little bit jealous.
04:42Okay, so before you date together, Ellie, I want you to go on a social alone.
04:48I want you to explore your bisexuality on your own first, without Kea's there, so you
04:54don't have to worry about jealousy.
04:56You'll have the opportunity to meet someone, spend the night with them, and lay the groundwork
05:01for a threesome.
05:02Yeah, that sounds good to me.
05:04Cool.
05:05It's hard to predict how someone will react seeing their partner give or receive pleasure
05:10from another.
05:11She's not actually sure she might get jealous seeing him with another woman.
05:15It can be fine one minute, and absolutely not fine the next.
05:20We're going to go away and have socials, so mine's tonight.
05:25That's what's got my nerves going, but I guess I'm excited as well.
05:29Give me a heart.
05:32We're going to throw ourselves into it, I think.
05:37Give it 100%, see what it's about.
05:39Yeah, and have fun with it.
05:40The couple have only just arrived at the retreat, and one of them has already made a big impression
05:48on the residents.
05:49When Ellie came in, yeah, she was so confident, I was just like, I didn't even care about the
05:55guy, I was just looking at her like, she said, oh, she looked classy as well.
05:57Very.
05:58She is bisexual.
05:59Oh, she is bisexual.
06:00Yeah.
06:00Oh, okay, cool.
06:01And he's straight.
06:02There's a lot of girls that are okay with getting with a girl, but wouldn't want the guy to have
06:06sex with her?
06:07Girl, yeah.
06:08So they'll be having fun, and he can just watch?
06:10Watch.
06:10Yeah.
06:14Are you scared?
06:16A little bit.
06:16Next to check into this exclusive retreat are couple Helen and Steve from Dorset.
06:23My first impression of Steve, I thought he was Jack the Lad.
06:28Remember, you sent me a picture of a bed at a hotel, a four-poster bed, saying, are we
06:33going to hang out?
06:34I thought, who does this man think he is?
06:37She had a lovely smile, but it was her arse.
06:39She had a very nice bum.
06:42I didn't fall in love with him.
06:44He irritated me.
06:45He would contact me about three times a year on Facebook.
06:49All right, babe, when we're going to get married then?
06:52And then my house burned down, and he offered to help.
06:56And I don't know.
06:57I kind of really fancied him with his brush, painted my walls.
07:00And now she drives a Range Rover Sport.
07:02What a life.
07:03I mean.
07:04Well, Kusty, you couldn't go wrong meeting me, babe, could you?
07:07Wow.
07:08Oh, look at the river.
07:09Look at the size of that lake as well, look.
07:11Don't have too many drinks, Steve.
07:12You'll be skinny dipping in there.
07:13Damn right I will.
07:14The couple have been together for four years and have a one-year-old child.
07:20My daughter is my baby girl.
07:22My pride and joy.
07:24And she make anyone broody?
07:26Broody, does that mean horny?
07:27No.
07:29He's funny with words.
07:30He doesn't get them all.
07:31Helen and Steve have no complaints between the sheets.
07:35I'd rate Steve 9 out of 10 in the bedroom.
07:40This tongue is better than anything you get at Ann Summers.
07:43Ann Summers has got nothing on my tongue.
07:46That's fair.
07:47It's true, don't it?
07:47Yeah, that's fair.
07:48Oh, my gosh.
07:50The size of that.
07:52Steve and Helen are here to explore if being in an open relationship with other people can make them stronger as a couple.
08:00Here we are.
08:01Let's go.
08:02It's an opportunity to discover what we both really, truly want.
08:06I think this will make a huge difference to our relationship.
08:11Wow, pretty, isn't it?
08:12I'm excited about going on this journey.
08:14It's definitely an eye-opener.
08:15Hey, guys.
08:19It's nice to meet you.
08:21I'm going to give you a hug.
08:22How you doing, mate?
08:23You all right?
08:24Yeah, really good, mate.
08:25Smart hat, that, isn't it?
08:26Nice to meet you, Jess.
08:27Welcome to the house.
08:30Take you on a tour around the place, yeah?
08:32Yeah, I'd do it this way.
08:33Oh, yeah, you all right?
08:34Good, thank you.
08:35Nice to meet you.
08:40This is Steve.
08:41He's got thrown in the deep end.
08:43Obviously, with letting them, it's quite hard.
08:45Yeah, I might feel a little bit uneasy,
08:47him going on a date with someone else.
08:49So, yeah, cross that bridge when I come into it.
08:58You've got to get me some sexy outfit.
09:01Ellie and Chaos are hoping to bring another woman
09:03into their relationship.
09:05But before they date as a couple...
09:07I mean, I'm no fashion expert, but...
09:10I think it goes.
09:12Dr. Laurie wants Ellie to explore her bisexuality
09:16without having to manage her jealousy,
09:19so she's going on a solo social.
09:21Being a little bitch right now.
09:23You need to have it a little bit up.
09:25No, like, point.
09:26Yeah, like that.
09:26Oh.
09:28And that's better.
09:29I love staring at a palette.
09:30If she makes a connection with someone,
09:34she'll have the opportunity to invite them
09:36to spend the night with her.
09:37It is amazing that I'm finally kind of getting to explore this
09:42when I'm in a relationship with Chaos.
09:44It's going to be a great experience.
09:45Yeah.
09:46Sexy, yes.
09:48I think she's going to enjoy herself,
09:50and I look forward to hearing all the gossip about it.
09:53Yeah, you look good.
09:55Looking good as well.
09:56Does it look good?
09:57Yeah.
09:58I'm excited to get to know new people and have fun.
10:01I'm taking it as it comes,
10:02so we'll have to wait and see what is in store.
10:05Have fun.
10:06What?
10:07No.
10:08See you tomorrow.
10:09I'll see you tomorrow.
10:10Love you too.
10:11Love you.
10:17Tonight, Ellie has a chance to socialise
10:20at a party where all the guests share a belief
10:22in the benefits of non-monogamy.
10:24Hi.
10:26Hello.
10:27You OK?
10:28Good.
10:28Nice to see you again.
10:29Nice to see you too.
10:31Host Jess is on hand to make sure things run smoothly.
10:35I wanted to introduce you to Ellie.
10:37So have you been having a good day?
10:39Yeah.
10:40So, I mean, we were throwing the d-pad.
10:41I don't know what to expect.
10:43I really don't know.
10:44It would be nice to find out their expectations as well.
10:47I don't know whether they'd find me attractive.
10:50Do you have a relationship with that girl?
10:52No. Have you been with you?
10:54No.
10:55No.
10:55I have.
10:57Yeah.
10:58How was that?
11:00Chaos is quite comfortable for me to get with a girl
11:02because he obviously finds that attracted to him.
11:06Hi, ladies.
11:07He doesn't find it with men, so he wouldn't want me to do that.
11:11What are you?
11:12Sagittarius.
11:12OK.
11:13Yeah, I'm cancer.
11:14OK, yeah.
11:15So, Chaos is a Leo.
11:17Oh, really?
11:18My ex was a Leo.
11:20Oh.
11:20Yeah, so...
11:21We're picking the same ones as well.
11:24Aries and Leos, they're like the ones
11:25that I've always been, like, romantically involved with.
11:28So big.
11:29So big.
11:30Yeah.
11:30Yeah, like, literally know what other signs put them.
11:32Me being Aries, in case.
11:34I know, it's beautiful.
11:35I'm the best of you.
11:37How long have you two been together for?
11:39A year.
11:40Oh, we don't...
11:41Like, we were dating before that.
11:43Oh, OK.
11:43And we were pretty much exclusive when we were dating,
11:45so it's been more than a year.
11:46Yeah, a bit efficient.
11:47Yeah, a year.
11:48Yeah.
11:49Well, our anniversary is on the 27th of this month.
11:51Oh, OK.
11:52So, see.
11:53Do you have any of your cute?
11:54Uh, no, not yet.
11:55A threesome.
11:56Yeah, a threesome.
11:57Don't, that's what he wanted for his birthday.
11:59Oh, of course he wanted.
12:01Great, so you're available on the 27th.
12:03Yeah.
12:07Cheers, ladies.
12:09Cheers.
12:09To help Ellie get comfortable with non-monogamy,
12:13the residents have arranged a game of spin the bottle.
12:16That's you.
12:17That is a homesick you, girl.
12:19Whee!
12:21Kissing someone else while in a committed relationship
12:24is a first for Ellie.
12:27I'm nervous, because I feel like it's all eyes on me,
12:29so that makes me very nervous.
12:35Hey.
12:36Oh, let's go on, let's go.
12:38Literally.
12:38It's easy, because we're sat next to each other.
12:40Oh, exactly.
12:42Whee!
12:42Hey.
12:43Yes.
12:43Yes, ladies.
12:46That was really cute.
12:47Yeah, you've got very nice lips.
12:49Oh, thank you.
12:50Yeah.
12:51For me, kissing the girls, there's no feelings involved.
12:54Hey!
12:55Hey!
12:55Get them good.
12:57It's just a game.
12:58It's just a game.
12:58Like, just have fun with it.
13:02Ooh.
13:02Ooh.
13:03Oh.
13:03Oh.
13:04Hey.
13:05Hey.
13:06Game over.
13:07Ellie's decided she would like to spend time alone
13:10with one of the residents.
13:11With girls, it's harder to choose.
13:14They're all so lovely.
13:15And I didn't get to kiss Gracie.
13:18And obviously, she's, like, so pretty.
13:20And I chose Gracie.
13:22Yay!
13:22Woo!
13:23Woo!
13:23Don't make me laugh!
13:25Yay!
13:26Yay!
13:26Woo!
13:26Woo!
13:27For Ellie, the date is an opportunity to lay the groundwork
13:30for a threesome before boyfriend Chaos gets involved.
13:34Her vibe is great.
13:36Like, she seems really fun.
13:38I do fancy Ellie, yeah.
13:39She is really, really sweet.
13:41She's definitely my type.
13:42So, yeah, I think me and Ellie got on really, really well.
13:45And the girls could see it as well, so that's also a good sign.
13:50It definitely makes me nervous, but I just take it step by step.
13:54And, you know, if you're comfortable with it,
13:57then just have fun with it.
14:00Ellie is on a date without Chaos before the couple trial
14:14opening up their relationship together.
14:17Would you like to do the honors?
14:18Yeah, you first, darling.
14:21Oh, adorable, this is cute.
14:23This is literally like glamping.
14:25It is, isn't it?
14:26And she's invited Grace to spend some one-on-one time with her.
14:30I'm going to take my heels off.
14:31Please, get comfortable.
14:32Cheers.
14:33Chin chin.
14:35This is obviously my first time on a date with a girl,
14:38so that is really exciting.
14:40And, like, I can't wait to explore that side of my sexuality.
14:43I guess you're, like, open to getting to, like, know me
14:47and, I mean, Chaos as well.
14:49Yeah.
14:50You'd be happy to, like, have a relationship with someone
14:52who's in a relationship or be involved in their relationship.
14:56Yeah, either way.
14:57Yeah.
14:58Like, because it would be me coming to, like, your two's relationship.
15:01Yeah.
15:02Whatever works best for you two.
15:04While Ellie and Grace get to know each other more intimately,
15:09Chaos is keeping himself busy.
15:12I would like to think she's having a good time.
15:16And I'll find out tomorrow.
15:20I feel a little good just to work out.
15:21I'll just tie myself out.
15:22But the only thing is there's loads of wasps in here.
15:26And bugs are a big no-no for me.
15:29Oh, fucking spiders.
15:32So I don't know how I'm going to sleep tonight in this room
15:34knowing there's two wasps flying around.
15:39Back in the yurt, the girls have found a game to play.
15:43Shall we try these dices out?
15:44Yeah, you want to?
15:48OK, so you're my lover.
15:50OK, cool.
15:51So you've got to lick me.
15:53Where do you want to...?
15:53Are you having me to lick?
15:55For me to lick you.
15:56OK, I'll just let it be a surprise.
16:06That was nice.
16:07And that's actually, like, one of my spots.
16:09So I was like, ahhh!
16:11Like, inside.
16:12OK, cool.
16:13You can't go wrong with it.
16:15I threw myself into it and, like, tried to see
16:17whether I could develop, like, a deeper connection.
16:19OK, my turn.
16:23Massage.
16:24Oh, my God, yes!
16:26Yeah!
16:28You've got very, very, very soft skin.
16:30Yeah, it's very nice.
16:32Oh, this is so good.
16:36Amazing!
16:36Well, clearly it was just kiss my boobs.
16:38So feel free.
16:40Boob kiss, kiss my boobs.
16:42Yeah, well, I'll give a little...
16:47Loved it.
16:48Yeah?
16:49Yeah.
16:53Before I turn the light off, do you want to have a little kiss?
16:58Yeah?
16:59I just feel like, you know, it would have been so much tonight.
17:04It was quite a new experience, so maybe, I don't know, maybe I was just a bit nervous.
17:08It's kind of hard for me when I already have an emotional connection with someone else in a relationship.
17:14Committed couple Helen and Steve have come to the retreat to explore opening up their relationship to other sexual partners.
17:31Hey, guys.
17:32Hello.
17:33Come on in and sit down.
17:34Dr. Laurie is on hand to help the couple brave their first few steps into non-monogamy.
17:39So, what brought you here now?
17:44I want to date other people, have a connection with someone.
17:48You're the driving force.
17:49Would that be a fair thing to say?
17:51Would you say me?
17:52Yeah, definitely.
17:53On this experience, I've pushed this a little bit more because I want Steve to recognize things that are important in a relationship.
18:02Because there's a lot of things that we don't do together.
18:05What's the romance like in your relationship?
18:08Steve's very, very busy all the time.
18:10You know, I'm a busy person, too.
18:13We don't have a massive amount of time for each other.
18:16If romantic is nice, I could write you a list.
18:19I'm always nice to her like that.
18:20I'm just that sort of guy.
18:22Isn't it? That's not romantic, though, is it?
18:23Romance is whining and donning someone and taking them out.
18:26We've not been for a date yet.
18:27I'd check you on the back of my jet ski.
18:29Steve, do you have any ideas of things that you would like to do?
18:32I don't think I could just meet someone and just jump into a bed with them.
18:36I think they'd have to get to know the people more.
18:38Consensual non-monogamy takes lots of different forms.
18:41This gives you the opportunity to see how different things feel and to challenge some
18:45of your boundaries that come from monogamy.
18:47We've got quite a good relationship with sort of, you know, we don't have the insecurities,
18:53either.
18:54You love me, don't you?
18:55Of course, babe.
18:56Oh, there you go.
18:57I see.
18:58Well, that was a pretty quick response.
18:59So tonight, you're each going to go on a social, spending the nights separately.
19:06Then, you're each going to have the opportunity to choose somebody to spend one-to-one time
19:11with.
19:12You don't have to do anything, but I'm encouraging you to push out the boat a little bit.
19:17Yeah, lovely.
19:18Come on then, Steve.
19:19Nice to meet you.
19:20See you later on.
19:21You too.
19:22This is a really interesting couple.
19:28I suspect that there's an emotional void in Helen that is really driving this whole
19:33thing, but I'm not sure that meeting and potentially having sex with other people is going to fill
19:39that void.
19:40I'm really curious to see how they do on their socials.
19:44That's so nice, isn't it?
19:45Yeah.
19:46So nice.
19:47So where do you find yourself at with this?
19:53I don't know.
19:54I think...
19:56It's very hard, Steve, isn't it?
19:59Yeah.
20:00I am looking forward to my social.
20:02It's a good bunch of people.
20:03It'd be good to get out and enjoy the company and see where it takes us.
20:06I just plan to have some fun.
20:08But Steve is considering the potential risks.
20:12I wouldn't mind being game and experimenting and that.
20:15Would you let me go and bang...
20:17Sorry.
20:18Sleep with one...
20:19Would you let me go and sleep with one of these women?
20:21Just to go on a trial, just to see what it's like.
20:23It's not a laughing matter, really.
20:25It's okay, Steve.
20:26This is very serious decisions, Ellie.
20:27All right.
20:28Put the whip down.
20:29Last night, Ellie went on her first ever date with a girl.
20:40Hello.
20:41Hello, stranger.
20:42While boyfriend, Chaos, spent the night alone.
20:46Yeah, I think Gracie's really attractive.
20:48She has, like, such a nice smile and, like, her skin is so good.
20:51I love her freckles, her hair, everything.
20:54But it's not that, like, I really want to rip your clothes off kind of thing.
20:58I was, like, nervous to see my own boyfriend.
21:01Are they new?
21:02Are they new?
21:03No, they're Gracie's.
21:08So, tell me about the price.
21:09What was your...
21:10No, what did you do?
21:11No, I'll tell you...
21:12You tell yours.
21:13Well, we played Spin the Bottle.
21:16Yeah.
21:17So I kissed Kelsey and Chanel.
21:20When Ellie told me that she was kissing multiple girls doing Spin the Bottle,
21:24I thought that was quite hot, to be honest.
21:25I mean, who wouldn't?
21:27I think that's, for me, that's a turn-on.
21:29So I've got, yeah, I'm all for that.
21:32Then Gracie and we went to a yurt.
21:36I ended up licking her neck.
21:37I mean, she licked my neck.
21:40And I, like, kissed her boob.
21:42So you had quite a fun night, then.
21:44Tonight, the couple will have the chance to invite someone on a date together
21:49in the hope of having a threesome for the first time.
21:52I just don't know how much I feel about you doing and kissing people.
21:55Well, you know it's gonna, that something like that is gonna happen.
21:59You don't know.
22:00Yeah, but you obviously don't have to.
22:05No, but...
22:06I'm gonna be nervous and maybe, maybe jealous, I don't know.
22:09For me, him kissing girls, that's definitely tiptoeing on, like, boundaries.
22:14Helen and Steve are getting ready for separate socials.
22:28Got chicken legs at a minute.
22:29Dr. Laurie wants them to try and make a connection with someone
22:32and then invite them to spend some time together alone on a date.
22:36My expectations are to have fun and go on dates with a couple of people.
22:42It will be nice.
22:43The social will be an opportunity for Helen to experience romance,
22:47something she thinks her relationship lacks.
22:50Remember Christmas Eve?
22:52I wanted us to wear Christmas pyjamas
22:54and watch a movie together and you were at the pub.
22:56Yeah.
22:57It's Christmas, innit? It's when you go out at Christmas, innit?
22:59No, family time.
23:00Family time.
23:01I'm out of here.
23:03Oh, have fun.
23:04Love you.
23:06One more.
23:15The retreat's sexually liberated residents are ready to welcome the couple.
23:20Sorry, thank you.
23:21Hello.
23:22I'm good, thank you.
23:24Nice to see you.
23:25You look stunning.
23:26I'm pretty scared.
23:29Steve.
23:30How you doing? Tell me, you all right?
23:31How you doing, man?
23:32How you doing?
23:33How you doing?
23:34Enjoy.
23:35Have a nice evening.
23:36What's happening, girls?
23:37So what brings you here, then?
23:38Experience, innit?
23:39Yeah.
23:40I've used to it.
23:41I've used to it.
23:42I've used to it.
23:43I've used to it.
23:44I've used to it.
23:45I've never done anything like this before.
23:46I just mean, like I can open a relationship.
23:47Never.
23:48I've never went on dates or anything like that with anyone else.
23:51I've had like a threesome or anything.
23:52No.
23:53No.
23:54No.
23:55Ready to spice things up later?
23:56You're like, yeah, let's go in.
23:57See how the boat goes, innit?
23:58Yeah.
23:59See how the boat goes. Yeah, not used to dating etiquette. Steve takes a novel approach to flirting
24:07What's your ideal date night then the emerald farmer in front of the telly in it
24:19It's quite hard, I'm not really a person to talk in depth about sexual life like that
24:23I like a book more privacy
24:25I don't like to boast about things that I've done or boast about things that I'd like to do
24:29So are you like into anything kinky then I used to be very bad, but what do you mean very bad?
24:35I used to be a lazy entertainer
24:47What's the typical type of person you're doing they go for I've never been all for the big sort of hench guys
24:53Kind of everyone muscles and that at her social you see all right because you've got definition
24:58How much do you weigh?
25:00I'm 14. Helen is wasting no time getting to know the residents
25:04That's muscle then, isn't it?
25:06Yeah, because you've got like a 30 inch waist, don't you?
25:09Yeah, 32, 32
25:10Yeah, yeah
25:12And how tall are you?
25:13I'm 6'1
25:14And obviously you work out
25:16You don't do that lifting your breakfast spoon in the morning, do you?
25:18I love it
25:19Do you know what I mean?
25:20These guys are great
25:21Everyone's chatting, everything's flowing
25:23It made me feel like I can be myself, so I'd like to know where it kind of goes from here
25:27You've got a lot of banner right now
25:29That's how it goes on
25:30I don't
25:31I'm shy as they come
25:33I feel like Helen's rolled out
25:35And me and her were clicking
25:36We're having a bit of banter
25:37I'd definitely like to take her out
25:39Just to show her that it can happen
25:41There's more things out there
25:43Hello, hello
25:45How are you?
25:46Phenomenal
25:47Thank you
25:48You know, I got some eyelashes on, so it's all good
25:50Fresh, yeah
25:51Yeah, you know
25:52Where are you from again, sir?
25:53Dorset, Somerset
25:54Like, so southwest-y, yeah
25:56What do you do for a job?
25:57I just set up a barista coffee business called the Screamin' Bean
26:00What was on your mind when you thought of Screamin' Bean?
26:03My sister said you cannot call it that because it is just disgusting
26:08Yeah, thank you
26:09Like a clitoris, it's a bean
26:10It's clicky there, isn't it?
26:11I just don't know how you didn't see that Screamin' Bean
26:14Architect Josh has taken a shine to Helen
26:17You sound like an experienced lady
26:19Hello
26:20What do you want?
26:21Oh!
26:22Commitment and time
26:23Commitment and time
26:26Helen's a lovely lady
26:27I love talking to her
26:28She just seems like an absolute, genuine person
26:31That you'd want to be around
26:33I think with tattoos
26:34People go, oh, watch your tattoo, Helen
26:36And it just looks like a little eff
26:37Where are your tattoos?
26:38Where are your tattoos?
26:39Well
26:40You can't really see it
26:41It's in there
26:42I'll see it later
26:43Another time
26:44See it later
26:45Later
26:46Later
26:47And Helen has also made a connection with Josh
26:50I liked the way that Josh asked me what it was that I wanted
26:55Because that I feel is important
26:57And the fact that he'd done that showed that he values the other person's sort of needs
27:03So, that one was a bit of a winner for me
27:12On the other side of the retreat, Steve is loosening up
27:15He's decided to give the female residents a taste of his ladies' entertainment
27:30I won't fight, okay?
27:31I won't fight, okay?
27:32Okay, okay
27:33Now lay down
27:34Lay down
27:35Lay down
27:40The striptease dance vibe
27:42I'm not gonna lie, I thought there was a dick in my mouth at one point
27:45Yeah, that's some way to meet someone anyway
27:47Just balls straight in the mouth
27:48He's a really fun character
27:50You can take your mask off now, are you ready?
27:52Oh, wow!
27:53Where are you going?
27:54Where are you going?
27:55Where are you going?
27:56Where are you going?
27:57Where are you going?
27:58Yeah, no, you're not
27:59You're not shy at all
28:00LosDipper
28:01Don't fight
28:02Don't sacrifice
28:03Don't fight
28:05come on
28:16Oh!
28:17Oh!
28:18Oh!
28:19Oh!
28:20Oh!
28:21Oh!
28:22I think my striptease went down really well with the girls
28:27They were very excited
28:28excited there was a very large amount of screaming it's nice to make someone smile
28:32as the social winds down helen is getting closer to resident josh there's something that you said
28:50today which made me think yeah that's a really i want to know i'm interested in you you're a
28:56lovely uh a lovely person to talk to yeah full of energy and a hell of a lot of fun that's for sure
29:00and she's invited him to go on a romantic date for me it's an emotional connection with someone
29:09that i can get on with someone that actually wants to listen and that's the reasons why i've picked
29:13him should we go yeah bye bye helen picked me uh it was a nice surprise she had the picker of the
29:22guys and she brought a lot of laughter out of me and um i think she's just a great person and i
29:27just would love just to get to know her a little bit more post-strip partner steve also wants to
29:33spend some one-on-one time with one of the residents jess yeah i told you to come and have a little bit
29:41about i know yeah oh yeah we'll have fun yeah we're gonna have some fun i'm really looking forward
29:46to go and spend some quality time with jess she's one sort of person very very weird to be in this
29:52situation to go off with a different woman whilst my wife knows i will enjoy it
29:57we're gonna have some fun definitely and yeah we'll just see where the where the night goes yeah
30:06committed couple helen and steve are dating people outside of their relationship for the
30:24very first time after you oh lovely i'm a little bit cute i'll tell you jackie if you'd like but i
30:33think you're cold so i'm not going to take it oh bless you helen is being romanced by josh from west
30:38london jackie glass of wine first uh yes please yeah i'm excited to spend time with josh he just seemed
30:45really kind of relaxed chilled and genuine and i kind of like that me and you are gonna have a
30:50fantastic yeah look cheers to this thank you for picking me after you jess it's cute in here to be
30:58fair while steve is having a one-to-one with jess from belfast locking the door securing it
31:04jess is a very nice bubbly girl oh i think she's on the same wavelength as i am to see how things occur
31:14how things progress steve struggled with flirting earlier but being alone with jess seems to bring
31:21out his playful side so you live in glasgow then yeah no ireland how fast yeah the island's not a
31:29different country is it it is is it yeah no it's a little thing just above england is it no i like
31:35the accent me i like it the scholars accent or the irish accent irish do you think i have an irish accent
31:40yeah would you like another drink gently yeah i'll take a top up what a top up i'll take a top up
31:45top up the day is going really well jess is quite a bubbly person and quite a good laugh to be around
31:51she's definitely got a bit of banner and maybe we could see what progresses helen says she hasn't been
31:58on a single date with steve in their whole four-year relationship when i started working on building
32:03sites so i was scared to go up and do chimneys you said you worked in building sites what do you
32:09so small talk over dinner is providing welcome attention
32:14i used to just like sort out concrete blocks so they're like 80 to 100 kg
32:19fucking hell are you joking no i got told that i'd chat people to death but you know
32:26i love it you've got a lot to say josh was actually really gentle and quite intensive i kind of like that
32:33that he actually wanted to listen to me it it was just nice
32:40i used to be a david beckin person yeah yeah yeah i used to dress up i can i can see that to be
32:44fair i can see that you're definitely not victoria i'm not victoria definitely not what do you mean
32:50you're not an insult no i think i take that as a massive compliment a compliment but listen you've
32:56got a bit of physique yeah yeah that victoria's got bones you like curves then yeah i like i like
33:03something a bit bit a bit of something are you more of like a boobs guy or like a bum guy an arse guy
33:09sorry a bum guy a bottom a bottom guy a bottom person from what i've understood of you so far i
33:17feel like you need support i feel like you need people around you that will boost you up i've never
33:22had that there wouldn't be nothing nicer than the fact that someone actually believing in me and guiding
33:29me do you give me i love everything you subscribe to i think you can tell that i'm having a fantastic
33:35time are you yeah i feel like i can't comment on the situation you can't comment on the situation
33:42no no i'm enjoying myself of course i am good i've been on a date for a long time
33:49tonight has been like a real eye-opener for me it was about getting to know someone because
33:55that's something i feel is missing from my relationship at the minute so i've really enjoyed
34:00my time back in his yurt do you get whipped all the time do you like all that whip shit it depends
34:11who you're right and despite turning the conversation kinky i could do more with my tongue than what
34:17most people do with the whole of their body yeah definitely yeah yeah million percent million
34:22percent i'm going to island with you you're coming back with me yeah i'm going to meet you
34:26that's fine yeah come on then i'll come there that's right steve's decided to call it a night
34:34did you have fun with me yeah yeah i really had a great time jesse's a very nice girl
34:40if i was 21 i think and i come on to an experience like this i think i'd be well
34:45gained for doing it all but we've been together for four years and that's something i don't want to lose
34:52after a night experiencing their first ever taste of non-monogamy
35:09dr laurie wants to help the couple reflect on their dates okay so let's start with the early part of
35:17the evening how was that fun it was all right i picked my date yeah we shared a couple of drinks
35:25together mm-hmm yeah we clicked we got on really well and yeah he's a nice guy i went on a date with
35:31a girl called jess mm-hmm i did a little show for the ladies whilst we was in there on the actual thing
35:36yesterday so i took her with me just to get to know a bit more you enjoyed the time oh it was a lovely
35:42time with her very lovely girl very very nice person now that you've both had romantic dates with
35:47other people how do you feel about open relationships the whole idea of this experience
35:52really was to sort of better our relationship i do always feel that he lives life in the fast lane
36:00and sometimes that you know not all my needs are met i do agree what she's saying and i do work a
36:06substantial amount of time um but has made me realize now i do need to spend a lot more time with helen
36:11and be more there for her because i'm not usually that's good which to me is a good thing about coming
36:16on to here and it's made me realize i don't think i could be in an open relationship
36:19you could just handle my heart i really don't it's not unusual you know often couples think they're
36:26ready and then they have to go away and work on themselves and their relationships it's taught us
36:30to sort of uh work on our relationship definitely it's been a definitely an eye-opener 100% an eye-opener
36:37yeah thank you for throwing yourselves into it and i wish you all the best thank you very much
36:44have fun we will nice to meet you you too take care bye love
36:53this was a really interesting couple helen was really not getting enough attention from him she's
36:59not getting the romance from him that she wants and she was hoping that non-monogamy was a solution to
37:04that i am happy that they feel that they learned something in this process and they felt that they
37:09had something positive to take away after you definitely feel happy we're leaving but in in
37:15a good way i spent some more quality time definitely is a big thing i definitely definitely haven't spent
37:19enough time with her and he's learned yeah this is this has opened my eyes to see that i didn't expect
37:24steve just to openly say that he really wishes that he could spend more time with me we've bettered our
37:32relationship yeah yeah i think we have better that relationship it did make me well up a little
37:36bit actually you know because it made me feel that i've i've got a lot of what i wanted to from this experience
37:46tonight ellie and chaos are going on a social together hey you look gorgeous
38:06and based on their preference only women are invited to the party i really like your tattoos
38:12oh thank you do you have a tattoo yourself um yeah i've got a few random ones to be honest if
38:18anything was going to happen in our relationship it would be together so it's good to experience
38:23this with ellie and this is the ideal scenario for me so i'm happy i love to what's your favorite tattoo
38:30that you have i'd say my favorite one is this one here because my granddad's from barbados and he
38:36passed away so i think he's enjoying himself yeah talking to the girls and he wouldn't they're
38:42looking for someone to invite on a date and potentially have a threesome with i just want
38:46to get in the pool have you been in the pool at all yeah it's a pool party why are we not all in the
38:52pool talking exactly i love i like go on my back when i do that as well they go back and all anyone to
38:59see the boobs just wearing like just two pairs of tits just like gliding and it looks like chaos has
39:08made a connection with precious we should get in the hot tub is what we need to have you been in the
39:13hot tub saving these two spaces i mean precious is an attractive woman i would say physical attraction
39:22was yeah it was definitely there so ladies uh our lovely couple have made a decision on who they'd
39:28like to spend the night with precious what attracted me to precious is that she was just
39:38we had stuff in common and she was just easy to talk to and she's been an open relationship before
39:43so i think ellie will definitely feel a little bit of jealousy as that's just her layers okay i think if
39:51everything goes well we have a good you know couple of drinks have dinner the chemistry is there who knows
39:56what could happen no we've never done a joint date so you know that's going to be in itself something
40:01new obviously she's lovely so that's might maybe where like jealousy might come in
40:18ellie and chaos came to the retreat to see if they could open their relationship to another woman
40:23and tonight they are on a date with precious oh you've got a neck tattoo oh i didn't what do your
40:32tattoos have any meaning um it just means i'm a gift to be fair really fair enough i mean precious gift
40:39you know it's just it's just that yeah i'm excited a little bit nervous because i have no idea what to
40:47expect and obviously it's going to be a bit intimidating at first i'd say the best case
40:52scenario is that ellie's comfortable to bring precious into our relationship you're a boob man
41:00aren't you i i think you like bums but i think you like big boobs eagles i mean i like you like both
41:06i would go bum over boobs oh yeah yeah i think the emotions were just running high with me because i got
41:12the feeling that she wanted us to dive in and try more but the wobble came from just me not wanting
41:20to do anything precious who's been in multiple open relationships is worried ellie might not be
41:27entirely comfortable with the situation so when a girl kisses you know yeah do you go oh yeah well
41:35that's never hasn't happened no so so if i kissed him you would get upset i don't know oh you see
41:42if you asked me yeah you'd be like i don't care exactly so like i don't know exactly so then that
41:48makes me think like i might then you know then you aren't i think i overthink it why are you so
41:53reserved about i was scared about it i don't know i feel like i feel like i'd get jealous yeah
41:59you're stunning and you seem like you've got your confidence yeah right the person who ever kisses your
42:04boyfriend it's not going to take him away he's yours she's still insecure about sharing her
42:12boyfriend her partner with somebody else and she's concerned that he will then get more attached to the
42:20other person okay well i'm gonna pop i'm gonna go i think it's hard to imagine you know your partner
42:26getting with someone on a sexual level i i don't know what it is i feel insecure like i know ellie was
42:32upset but obviously this is a hard thing to do because we are emotionally invested in each other we
42:38love each other last night ellie and chaos's date ended prematurely hey you all right yeah you're
42:53comfortable now dr laurie wants to help the couple work through what happened how was last night um
43:01um i wasn't like comfortable with doing like things with other people i guess right my insecurities
43:10and jealousies yeah it was a difficult thing to go through if you had to put a name to those
43:16insecurities what what are they like how would you describe them um like not feeling good enough
43:26in general or or with him no like myself and yourself so when you look at the world that's how
43:33you feel yeah so have you compared yourself to other people yeah definitely yeah and yet
43:41you're a gorgeous woman right and he clearly adores you correct yeah well i'm yeah and i'm seeing that as
43:51well so what's come out of this is that considering opening up and considering non-monogamy has brought
43:57up your feelings of of not being good enough yeah you know it's not it's not a jealousy i don't know um
44:06it's hard to explain but you're not describing jealousy what you're saying is that you end up feeling
44:10uncomfortable because you don't feel good enough and the fear then is i'll be replaced and so
44:17coming here has highlighted that yeah so you can actually go away and work on that particular bit
44:23you know non-monogamy is like difficult you're not yet ready to open up you're just not there yeah
44:29you've got work to do on your own and as a couple to be in a place where you will be able to open up
44:35and feel strong enough in the relationship it's been wonderful to have you here as our guests i've
44:41really enjoyed meeting you thank you it's been so good meeting you as well i think you'll do fine thank
44:46you very much cheers we're all very good at hiding our vulnerabilities and it's only when things are
44:54out of our control or out of our comfort zone that these vulnerabilities surface it's really hard to
45:01know if non-monogamy will work for you or not until you try it we thought we would test like dip our toes
45:10in the waters and see what we think of it but speaking about it and then doing it is a completely
45:15different thing we're so happy that we did it really i think that it's something great that like
45:20everyone if they could like have a go you all right with that yep all good you got that yes
45:28yes there you go this process has definitely brought us closer as a couple
45:42if you're a curious couple are single and are interested in being part of the next open house
46:06for this experiment visit channel 4's website tech park page