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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Hunt for Love.
00:00:04Oh my gosh, it's so nice.
00:00:06I'm here at this gorgeous beach resort
00:00:10to try and make a connection with a man that
00:00:13has the whole package with a package.
00:00:18Oh, it's hot out here.
00:00:21Hi.
00:00:22I think we've met before.
00:00:23Do we need before?
00:00:24Maybe.
00:00:25Maybe a little bit.
00:00:27I was in Turkey for like a month with Usman,
00:00:31but after the trip, I wasn't sure how he felt about me.
00:00:34I'm like, could this be fate bringing us back together?
00:00:36Cheers guys to a really good night.
00:00:38Yes.
00:00:40I was kind of like, okay,
00:00:40there's going to be other 90 day people.
00:00:43But I had zero clue who the hell was going to be here.
00:00:47Oh.
00:00:49Oh my gosh.
00:00:50You gotta be kidding me, man.
00:00:53Jennifer is my ex-girlfriend.
00:00:55Out of all the people, why is she here?
00:01:00Every single time someone sees me in a bikini
00:01:02and they see my ass, they're like,
00:01:03holy , you have a huge ass.
00:01:05Let me see.
00:01:06Do you want a kiss?
00:01:07And I'm saying that.
00:01:08I'm trying not to like go too crazy on the first interaction,
00:01:12but like, damn.
00:01:13That is a very nice ass.
00:01:18You know, that's my ex-ass here, right?
00:01:22Why'd y'all break up?
00:01:23The truth.
00:01:24She's a golden .
00:01:26He feels so entitled to talk about me with everybody.
00:01:31But you better watch out because I know a couple of secrets
00:01:35he wouldn't like anybody to know about.
00:01:41We're going to do some speed dating while in a hot tub.
00:01:44Have you been married before?
00:01:47I have a day.
00:01:47I have a thousand thoughts running through my head
00:01:52because right before I came to the resort,
00:01:55I was hanging out with my friend Ashley.
00:01:57One thing led to another, and Ashley kisses me.
00:02:01Gosh, where's a dating coach when you need one?
00:02:03I really, I liked it, but at the same time,
00:02:09I was so overwhelmed at what it all meant.
00:02:12Does this mean that I'm a lesbian?
00:02:33It was eventually you.
00:02:34Yeah.
00:02:57Yeah.
00:02:59Welcome, everyone, to your very first workshop here at this retreat, Flirting 101.
00:03:17We all know that flirting is hard, right?
00:03:19What works for you one time might not work another time.
00:03:22I signed up for the flirting workshop just because I actually don't know how to flirt.
00:03:26It would feel so unnatural for me to come up to a guy and say, like, hey, sugar, how you doing?
00:03:33Like, no.
00:03:35Last night at the masquerade, I met Pornstache, and that guy caught my eyes, but he's not here today.
00:03:43So I want to challenge myself to, like, open myself up a little more to people that I wouldn't usually date and give them a chance.
00:03:50I would love to see a show of hands who thinks that they might need a little guidance in their flirting game.
00:03:58Hi, everyone.
00:03:59How about this guy?
00:04:00Let's be honest.
00:04:03Oh, my God.
00:04:04I'm so, like, awkward and embarrassed, like, flirting so easy.
00:04:07I'm just like, like, smile and nod.
00:04:09What do you think could change that?
00:04:10What do you think could shift that for you?
00:04:13Alcohol.
00:04:13I hate this flirting workshop already.
00:04:19Usually my go-to opener is, like, hey, buy me a drink.
00:04:24That's flirting?
00:04:25Yeah.
00:04:29All right.
00:04:30We're going to practice that with you today.
00:04:31We're going to break down your game and give you some feedback on what's working for you and what's not.
00:04:38So I'm going to choose two of you at random.
00:04:40I'm not trying to set you up, okay?
00:04:42So don't get scared.
00:04:44So I am going to go with Usman.
00:04:49Come have a seat, please.
00:04:54And...
00:04:54Cassidy!
00:04:57Cassidy!
00:05:00Turn on that southern charm, girl.
00:05:02I'm such a laugher.
00:05:04Okay, sorry.
00:05:05You got this, girl.
00:05:06Are you here by yourself?
00:05:07Actually, I wasn't here by myself because that city was waiting for you.
00:05:10It was for me?
00:05:11Oh, perfect!
00:05:12Yeah, see what that's in there.
00:05:13Perfect!
00:05:14Perfect!
00:05:15You were waiting for me.
00:05:16Yeah.
00:05:17I do not know what's going on between Usman and I right now.
00:05:20I'm waiting for him to make a move, show me he's interested.
00:05:23So watching Usman flirting was another moment.
00:05:27This sucks.
00:05:28What's your name?
00:05:30My name is Usman, but they're called me Soulja Boy.
00:05:33Soulja Boy?
00:05:34Yeah.
00:05:35Okay.
00:05:36Not the American rapper.
00:05:37Not the rapper.
00:05:38The Nigerian singer, so yeah.
00:05:39Gotcha.
00:05:40You look beautiful, I must say.
00:05:42You look good, too.
00:05:43What do you like to sing?
00:05:44I mean, all my song is all about love.
00:05:46Love?
00:05:47I preach about love.
00:05:48Love?
00:05:49Beautiful women.
00:05:50You want to sing one for me?
00:05:52I mean, you want to?
00:05:53Yeah!
00:05:54Like right now?
00:05:55Yeah.
00:05:56Ah, okay.
00:05:58Make up one about me.
00:06:00On the spot.
00:06:01On the spot?
00:06:02Yeah.
00:06:03What's your name?
00:06:04Cassidy.
00:06:08I love you, I love you, I love you.
00:06:10You love me?
00:06:11I love you, my baby Cassidy.
00:06:14I love you, I love you, I love you.
00:06:17I love you, my baby Cassidy.
00:06:20I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you.
00:06:23I love you, I love you Cassidy, I love you.
00:06:26Usman's song is a banger.
00:06:28I swear, when he started singing that, I was like,
00:06:30all right, there's no way he's not getting this girl.
00:06:32I'm being super sarcastic.
00:06:34There ain't no way that's impressing anyone.
00:06:39This song sucks.
00:06:40I love you, I love you, I love you, okay, great.
00:06:43I don't think anyone would be impressed by his lyrics, let me tell you.
00:06:47I had to listen to the guy I like sing that he loves another girl.
00:06:51And he's like, Cassidy, I love you, I love you.
00:06:54I'm like, you don't even say you like her or you're cute.
00:06:57Just straight, I love you.
00:06:59If this is Usman's idea about how he falls in love,
00:07:02I'm worried about how he approaches sex.
00:07:04If he's just like, hi, I'm Usman, can I stick it in you?
00:07:09I'm sorry, I'm not gonna give you like, vases like that.
00:07:11Well, once you get to know me more, you can add in the later stuff.
00:07:14Yeah, I mean, I mean, why not?
00:07:16Okay, cool.
00:07:17This was fun.
00:07:18Okay, guys, sorry to interrupt you.
00:07:21Usman, great job.
00:07:22You were engaging, you were definitely making eye contact.
00:07:25You're very, very charming.
00:07:26However, where you fell down a little bit
00:07:28is that you didn't ask Cassidy enough about her, right?
00:07:31So you could have asked her, what are you into?
00:07:33What kind of music do you listen to?
00:07:34Keeping that conversation and that energy there,
00:07:36especially on your first encounter,
00:07:38that's when the true connections happen.
00:07:40But both of you did a fantastic job.
00:07:42Good job.
00:07:45You guys can have a seat.
00:07:47Good job.
00:07:59Welcome to the party, gentlemen.
00:08:00What's going on?
00:08:01Come on in.
00:08:02Feel free to pick a hot tub of your choosing.
00:08:05Hey, how you doing?
00:08:06Hi.
00:08:07Come on this side.
00:08:09I really wanted the speed dating to go well,
00:08:14but my head's not in it.
00:08:16I feel like I'm coming across a little bit awkward,
00:08:19but it's probably because I can't stop thinking about
00:08:24what happened before I came here
00:08:26between me and my friend Ashley.
00:08:28It's complicated.
00:08:29I don't know.
00:08:30Like, I've never dated a woman before.
00:08:34I grew up in an environment where I never considered dating
00:08:39the same sex or even saw it as an option.
00:08:42How are you?
00:08:43I'm doing very well.
00:08:44I'm doing very well.
00:08:45A little bit better than home.
00:08:47I'm still attracted to men.
00:08:50I am still attracted to men.
00:08:53And I don't know if kissing Ashley was a one-time thing.
00:08:57It's hard for me to put a label on something
00:09:00that I don't even understand right now about myself.
00:09:03So coming here and meeting so many different kinds of people
00:09:07seems like the best way to find out what's right for me.
00:09:10Your two minutes starts now.
00:09:17You know, I think I want to know more about Chantal.
00:09:20Tell me about you.
00:09:21It's very important for me to have fulfillment in life.
00:09:24You know, I'm doing my dream job right now.
00:09:26What's your dream job?
00:09:27Botox and filler, aesthetic.
00:09:30That's my dream job?
00:09:31Yeah, it's my dream job.
00:09:33I love everything beauty.
00:09:35I don't know a ton about, like, the Botox
00:09:37and, like, that kind of stuff.
00:09:38Well, raise your eyebrows.
00:09:39Okay.
00:09:40And then, uh, frown.
00:09:41Make an angry face.
00:09:42So...
00:09:43And then, um, smile real big.
00:09:45Okay.
00:09:46Yeah, so, okay.
00:09:47So, you could use...
00:09:48Oh, you're going to give me a repeat.
00:09:49That's a theory.
00:09:50Well, it's all relative to what a person wants.
00:09:55So, if you want to wear your wrinkles, fine.
00:09:57You're telling me I have wrinkles right now?
00:09:59What are you telling me?
00:10:01You got one, but you're very handsome.
00:10:03Oh, thanks.
00:10:04Yeah, you're very handsome.
00:10:05Show.
00:10:06He's so cute.
00:10:08I could just melt.
00:10:10He's tall, got beautiful eyes.
00:10:13I love the accent.
00:10:15I think there could be something there with Joe.
00:10:17If I'm honest, he could use a little Botox,
00:10:20but it feels good that I could make a connection here.
00:10:23I don't want to go to sleep.
00:10:24Wake up alone tomorrow.
00:10:25Just want to stay inside the heat in the light of your room.
00:10:39Now, Courtney, you are going to approach Chad as he sits here at this lovely table dining.
00:10:44Oh, my God.
00:10:45Yes, Chad.
00:10:46Yes, Chad.
00:10:47Can I be the one sitting at the table?
00:10:50Oh, yes.
00:10:51I have to go approach Chad.
00:10:53Oh, my God.
00:10:54Like, this is my worst nightmare.
00:10:56Like, why?
00:10:57I never approach guys.
00:10:58Like, I don't know.
00:10:59You got this, Courtney.
00:11:00I'm, like, shaking.
00:11:01I like your red shirt.
00:11:03Hey, I'm Chad.
00:11:04What's your name?
00:11:05Hi.
00:11:06Can I offer me to sit with you?
00:11:07Yes.
00:11:08Or do I have to ask?
00:11:09I don't know if I've ever approached guys.
00:11:10Like, I don't know.
00:11:12You got this, Courtney.
00:11:13I'm, like, shaking.
00:11:16I like your red shirt.
00:11:19Hey, I'm Chad.
00:11:28What's your name?
00:11:29Can I offer me to sit with you?
00:11:31Yes.
00:11:32I have to ask.
00:11:33Okay.
00:11:39So, where are you from?
00:11:40Atlanta.
00:11:41What about you?
00:11:42Orlando.
00:11:43Orlando?
00:11:51You go to school there?
00:11:52I went to school in Illinois.
00:11:54Yeah.
00:11:55What did you go to school for?
00:11:57Oh, finance.
00:11:58What did you study?
00:11:59Football.
00:12:00Oh, nice.
00:12:03I mean, I think we're all insecure a little bit.
00:12:06There's definitely anxiety I have when meeting new people, and especially the ladies.
00:12:10So, watching Courtney fumble and get nervous about role-playing is so sweet.
00:12:14We kind of have that in common, honestly.
00:12:16She seems very genuine.
00:12:19I know.
00:12:20This is so awkward.
00:12:21So, what are you drinking?
00:12:22A strawberry margarita?
00:12:24See?
00:12:25Yep.
00:12:26Oh, my God.
00:12:27Double.
00:12:31Okay, this flirting exercise is horrible, embarrassing.
00:12:34I never want to show my face at this resort again.
00:12:37I'm just sitting there like, okay, this is so awkward.
00:12:40Like, I want to curl up and bawl in the sand and, like, cry and bury myself.
00:12:46Okay, guys.
00:12:47Thank you so much.
00:12:48I would love to hear from all of you what you observed.
00:12:50Give them some feedback on what you saw go down.
00:12:52Very...
00:12:53I feel like...
00:12:54Sorry, go ahead.
00:12:55Go ahead, go ahead.
00:12:56I was going to say very interviewish.
00:12:58Chat, it felt a little bit forced, and I could see where the pauses were that you were trying to think of the next thing to say.
00:13:03And, Courtney, don't take it so seriously.
00:13:05You guys didn't do a lot of laughing.
00:13:07Yeah.
00:13:08Okay?
00:13:09When Courtney and Chad are having the role-play, it's not really that romantic.
00:13:16It's not cute.
00:13:17But at the end of the day, I wanted to end ugly because I wanted to end good with me.
00:13:21All right, you guys can have a seat.
00:13:24Good job, guys.
00:13:25Good job.
00:13:26Good.
00:13:27Good job.
00:13:28At the stop, boy, you were kind of sweet.
00:13:29Thinking as a meet, doing shots at the party.
00:13:32But you're stressed out, taking over me.
00:13:34Playing no rules, don't charge to me.
00:13:37Ladies, welcome to the party.
00:13:39Come on in.
00:13:43So, hot tub speed dating sounds fun except for the hot tub part.
00:13:48I'm not super comfortable, like, in a bathing suit with my shirt off in front of strangers.
00:13:54It's super awkward.
00:13:56Really freaking awkward.
00:13:57And now it looks like I'm going to be sitting in a hot tub with Jen, and this is what I've been dreading the entire day.
00:14:03How are you doing?
00:14:04How are you doing?
00:14:05Hello.
00:14:06How are you enjoying?
00:14:07Jennifer, nice to meet you.
00:14:08Chosen, chosen.
00:14:09Awesome.
00:14:10Yeah.
00:14:11You're really hard to meet.
00:14:12You're really hard to meet.
00:14:13I get that a lot.
00:14:14I'm Southern.
00:14:15I'm slow, man.
00:14:16Like, I'm really slow.
00:14:17I'm old, too.
00:14:18Cool, yeah.
00:14:19I'm 41.
00:14:20I was just dating a 65-year-old back at holiday.
00:14:24Yeah.
00:14:25So, why are you looking behind?
00:14:27I'm looking for what's looking for me.
00:14:30Oh, so anything?
00:14:31Not necessarily.
00:14:32Any.
00:14:33I'm the only old guy here, and also I'm the only guy here with an exterior.
00:14:38You know what?
00:14:39This is, like, your time.
00:14:40You know, I think it's going to be good for you guys to sit and have a talk whenever that happens.
00:14:43Y'all do?
00:14:44I think they'll do that, yeah.
00:14:45I don't.
00:14:47All right, ladies and gents.
00:14:49Our two minutes has come to an end.
00:14:51Oh, he was nice.
00:14:52Yeah.
00:14:53I'm fine.
00:14:54We are.
00:14:55Bye-bye, darling.
00:14:56Thank you, darling.
00:14:57Thank you, darling.
00:14:58Thank you, darling.
00:14:59Thank you, darling.
00:15:00Thank you, darling.
00:15:01Thank you, darling.
00:15:02Thank you, darling.
00:15:03Thank you, darling.
00:15:04Thank you, darling.
00:15:05Thank you, darling.
00:15:06Oh.
00:15:07You really have to do this?
00:15:08Oh.
00:15:09Why should I endure this situation with a guy that has been just spreading bad rumors about
00:15:18me?
00:15:19For him to say that I am a gold digger, it's so wrong.
00:15:22When he actually didn't give me anything.
00:15:25And I think that that is the way that men can try to feel better with themselves trying
00:15:31to shame women.
00:15:32It's so disrespectful.
00:15:33I don't even want to look at him.
00:15:34Oh, my .
00:15:35Oh.
00:15:36You almost killed me.
00:15:40Is this really necessary?
00:15:41That's only two minutes, so, like, I'm sure this will be over quick enough.
00:15:55I mean, there's an empty one.
00:15:56You can just jump in.
00:15:57I mean, it's just insane, right?
00:15:58Like, I came here to do something I've never done, trying to find a partner, and I've got
00:16:10a friend of mine now with literally the only ex that I'm not on cordial terms with.
00:16:17Honestly, Jen being here is making me think about going home real fast.
00:16:23But, you know, I try my best to be a good person.
00:16:27And, you know, I deserve to be happy like anybody else.
00:16:31And the only way I'm ever going to find somebody to share that with is to put myself out there.
00:16:35I don't really have any will towards you or trying to be nice and like you're not.
00:16:42Papa, did you remember the things that you have said?
00:16:48I think that your version of history is different than mine.
00:16:51Like, it's not like you were an angel to me.
00:16:53You're like, we both say some bad things.
00:16:54Look, stop.
00:16:59You're, like, taking little fights that's giving the impression to the other girls that I'm, like,
00:17:04just horrible, dude.
00:17:05I don't think that they're not important.
00:17:07I'm just saying that you're right.
00:17:09Well, but again, that's what...
00:17:10I'm talking the truth is not of mine.
00:17:12I don't, I think you're right, but I don't, I don't think that what you're saying is 100% true.
00:17:18Tim attacks like a woman.
00:17:20He likes to gossip and, like, bring rumors.
00:17:23You cannot be talking negative and saying bad things about me
00:17:27and then expect that I'm going to be nice in a hot tub with you.
00:17:30I'm sorry for it.
00:17:42实line, sounds wonderful.
00:17:45Shuntel and Usman, they, kind of, had, like, a conflict before we even went to the room.
00:17:47Yeah, I never talked to her.
00:17:50I never talked to her.
00:17:52So why would she call me a scammer?
00:17:54Because she's a woman.
00:17:55I cannot punch her.
00:17:56So why are you going to say that?
00:17:56I cannot punch her.
00:17:58The newsman said if you were a guy, he would have hit you.
00:18:02I take Brazilian jiu-jitsu.
00:18:04I bet.
00:18:16You guys ready for the next couple?
00:18:18So ready.
00:18:19Yeah.
00:18:19Okay.
00:18:20Lexi, I'm going to invite you.
00:18:22Can I have a seat, please?
00:18:23Okay.
00:18:24Go, Lexi.
00:18:27And...
00:18:28Colt.
00:18:28Oh.
00:18:29I'm going to ask you to come up and introduce yourself to Lexi.
00:18:32See what feels natural.
00:18:34Let's see how it goes.
00:18:35Okay.
00:18:36Come on, Lexi.
00:18:37Girl.
00:18:38You got this, Colt.
00:18:40I mean, some would say I have game.
00:18:42I think I have at least some game.
00:18:44Maybe half of the game of something.
00:18:46I don't know.
00:18:47Hello.
00:18:48Hi.
00:18:49I do have some magnetism here, but I think everyone will tell you how they want to be treated.
00:18:59You just have to listen and just kind of go with the flow.
00:19:03Oh, you have very interesting piercings and all of that.
00:19:07Really?
00:19:08Yeah.
00:19:08Yeah?
00:19:09Why do you think they're interesting?
00:19:10I guess I'm just not really familiar with that.
00:19:12I don't have any piercings myself.
00:19:13You don't have any piercings?
00:19:14Did you ever want to get piercings?
00:19:15I did, yeah.
00:19:16We should take a seat so we can talk about it.
00:19:18I would love to talk about it.
00:19:19Yeah.
00:19:21So are you into that type of stuff?
00:19:23I see you tattooed as well.
00:19:25Into what type of stuff?
00:19:26Oh, like piercings and stuff.
00:19:29You know, like a nose or like a nipple or something.
00:19:32Yeah.
00:19:35Is your body like a canvas pretty much?
00:19:39Accessorizing yourself?
00:19:39I mean, let's draw that back.
00:19:41Yeah?
00:19:41Yeah.
00:19:42T on that, bro.
00:19:44Oh, my God.
00:19:47I don't even want to look.
00:19:48Don't ever say that to nobody.
00:19:50Okay.
00:19:51Don't talk about my body.
00:19:52That's a lot.
00:19:54That's so awkward.
00:19:57Yeah, hold on.
00:19:58Wait.
00:20:02I'm so sorry.
00:20:03I'm not trying to laugh you out.
00:20:06Woo.
00:20:07I feel bad for Colt.
00:20:08Like, that's embarrassing.
00:20:10Like, he's getting laughed at in his face.
00:20:13But at the same time, I think my role play was a lot worse.
00:20:16So I'm giving Colt a pass on that one.
00:20:19I feel like you could have stopped at, like, you like the piercings.
00:20:22Oh, sure.
00:20:22Don't talk about my body the first time you see me.
00:20:24Sure.
00:20:25Yeah?
00:20:25Yeah.
00:20:26All right.
00:20:26All right.
00:20:28Let's reset that.
00:20:29Okay.
00:20:30Okay.
00:20:31So why are you here today?
00:20:32What brings you here?
00:20:32Oh, well, the weather's beautiful, you know, by the beach.
00:20:35I love coming here.
00:20:36Yeah?
00:20:37I love to travel.
00:20:37You love to travel.
00:20:38Oh, super.
00:20:39Are you solo traveling when you do it?
00:20:41Oh, yeah.
00:20:41You meet people?
00:20:41Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:20:42Oh, me too.
00:20:42I love to solo travel, yeah.
00:20:44Okay.
00:20:44Because otherwise, you're on another person's schedule.
00:20:47Yeah.
00:20:47You're going to bring in conflicts.
00:20:48You can't do your own thing.
00:20:50I'm on vacation, man.
00:20:51All right, guys.
00:20:53Fantastic job.
00:20:56Yes, girl.
00:20:57Colt, what did you see happen?
00:20:59I feel like my start was a little rushed.
00:21:01Yeah.
00:21:01Right?
00:21:02I got a little nervous.
00:21:03I'm in front of a pretty girl, you know, obviously.
00:21:05You got it, though.
00:21:06You got it, too.
00:21:07I believe in you.
00:21:07I believe in you.
00:21:08Thank you, Tom.
00:21:09Good job, guys.
00:21:12I like Lexi's energy a lot.
00:21:15I feel like Lexi and I have some kind of connection.
00:21:17All right, thank you.
00:21:19Great job.
00:21:19That was great.
00:21:20But I'm not sure where that will go.
00:21:24Is there someone you would have rather?
00:21:26Oh, yeah.
00:21:26Like a favorite?
00:21:28I actually kind of like Courtney.
00:21:31She's very sweet.
00:21:32She's actually a pretty interesting woman.
00:21:34I was kind of hoping I'd get to flirt with her a little bit.
00:21:38Yeah, I don't know.
00:21:40But, huh.
00:21:41Okay, Carlo, have a seat, please.
00:21:50And, Tiffany, you are up.
00:21:52Let's see what you got.
00:21:53Good luck, Tiffany.
00:21:54Ready?
00:21:54Let's go.
00:21:55All right.
00:21:56So, I never do this, but my name is Tiffany.
00:22:00Oh, hi.
00:22:01I saw you, and I think you're really handsome.
00:22:03Is anyone sitting here?
00:22:04No, take a seat.
00:22:05Nice to meet you.
00:22:05I'm Carlo.
00:22:06Carlo.
00:22:07Carlo, actually, I spoke to him very briefly yesterday.
00:22:11I didn't get a feel for, like, who he is.
00:22:15So, I'm a little nervous.
00:22:17Oh, don't be nervous.
00:22:18I don't usually come up to guys, but you're very cute.
00:22:20That takes a lot of confidence.
00:22:21You have a beautiful eye.
00:22:23You have pretty eyes, too.
00:22:24When I walked up to him, and he first made eye contact with me,
00:22:29immediately, I just felt, and then I felt safe to approach him.
00:22:35He's a handsome guy.
00:22:37He's cute.
00:22:39Where are you from?
00:22:41Born and raised in Jersey.
00:22:42No way.
00:22:43Me, too.
00:22:43No, what part of Jersey?
00:22:45Red Bank.
00:22:45Are you south or north?
00:22:46It's, like, central.
00:22:47Okay, and what's your background?
00:22:49Well, I'm Italian and Irish.
00:22:52Okay.
00:22:52Are you Italian?
00:22:52I love Italian and Irish boys.
00:22:54So, I'm Colombian and Cuban, but born in the U.S.
00:22:59So, mom's Cuban, dad's Colombian.
00:23:01All right.
00:23:01Well, bienvenidos.
00:23:02Oh, okay.
00:23:03Check.
00:23:06Colombian, Cuban, crazy and crazy.
00:23:07Are you okay with that?
00:23:08Very cool.
00:23:09Very cool.
00:23:09Irish, Italian is a little crazy, too.
00:23:11So.
00:23:11Are you?
00:23:12Yeah.
00:23:12I can't tell.
00:23:13You seem very sweet.
00:23:15Well, you may tell soon.
00:23:16All right, guys.
00:23:19Good job.
00:23:20All right.
00:23:21Yay.
00:23:22So, did you guys feel the connection here?
00:23:25Yeah.
00:23:25That was good.
00:23:26What would it take to get the number or to the first date?
00:23:32Ask her.
00:23:32I think, well, hey, we have a lot in common.
00:23:35Why don't we continue this on a night out?
00:23:39Was that you actually asking Tiffany out on a date?
00:23:45Yeah.
00:23:46I mean, I would definitely take you out on a date if you're up for it, Tiffany.
00:23:51Yeah.
00:23:51I'm done.
00:23:52Do it, then.
00:23:54There we go.
00:23:54Good job, guys.
00:23:56I was going to say, I felt like I was interrupting.
00:23:58That was the best place.
00:23:58I did.
00:23:59I felt like I was interrupting.
00:24:00I just seemed like a lot of a lot.
00:24:01I don't want a job.
00:24:03When Carlo asked me out, I was like, yay.
00:24:06Like, oh, my God.
00:24:07I was excited because I was like, I didn't expect it.
00:24:11I definitely still have my eye on Rocky, but Carlo's tall.
00:24:14He's got a nice body.
00:24:16I want to date around and keep my options open.
00:24:18I want to see who works best for me, and that's what I'm going to do.
00:24:21I think what you guys all learned today, that if you just let go and allow the connection
00:24:26to feel organic, flirting doesn't have to be that serious.
00:24:30And now that you guys have all gained some more flirting skills, I want you to go out tonight
00:24:35and apply them.
00:24:37Mingle, meet each other, use your body language, and most importantly, have fun.
00:24:42I'm just not a natural flirt, because I just felt so nervous and awkward, and yeah, it
00:24:51was not good.
00:24:54I think I learned a lot of helpful tips and tricks today watching the other people go.
00:24:59I was just in my head too much.
00:25:01Good job, guys.
00:25:03I think if I could do it again, I would have taken tequila shots before I showed up to this.
00:25:09Yeah.
00:25:09Oh, how late are we going to be caught tonight?
00:25:12Yeah, we did a drink now.
00:25:13I want to know.
00:25:14We earned it.
00:25:15I don't know.
00:25:15I think I learned it.
00:25:15I do everything for me now.
00:25:19Spirit feeling free now.
00:25:20In the know it, on my way to close the dream house.
00:25:24You can't ease your teeth off.
00:25:25And you want to leave though.
00:25:27Had to go in deep down and make it back to me now.
00:25:30Everything all right over here?
00:25:43The longest two minutes of this.
00:25:44It's the longest two hours.
00:25:46It seems like a mutual readiness to be done.
00:25:49I'm now like, you're good.
00:25:52Yeah, because I mean, obviously I don't know.
00:25:55Yeah, you're all this zombie to go hang out at the beach.
00:25:58Okay.
00:25:58Let her have her space.
00:25:59It seems like that's the solution.
00:26:00That's super sweet of you.
00:26:03That's what I aim for, Jennifer.
00:26:04It's being sweet all the time.
00:26:07I'm so glad that's okay.
00:26:17I'm so happy that Tim got the hint and left the bathtub.
00:26:22He wants to tell me what to say or not to say about him.
00:26:25Like it's his business.
00:26:26I don't know how the next three weirds are going to be, but Tim definitely needs to stay
00:26:31in his lane and leave me alone.
00:26:33I love you.
00:26:36I love it.
00:26:37I got you.
00:26:38I got you.
00:26:38I got you.
00:26:38I got you.
00:26:39I got you.
00:26:39I got you.
00:26:40I got you.
00:26:40Hey.
00:26:41Hey.
00:26:41Hey.
00:26:42Hey.
00:26:42How was it?
00:26:43Hey.
00:26:44You look so off.
00:26:46What happened?
00:26:48Well, I'm over here because we, me and Jennifer didn't want to sit in a hot tub with each
00:26:53other and I was like, I'm going to go down to the beach now, y'all.
00:26:56That was very uncomfortable.
00:26:57And I'm hoping that this tension goes away because it's kind of like bombing out my trip.
00:27:04Jennifer has already made Tim feel uncomfortable here.
00:27:08I'm not going to let her cut my friend down in front of me.
00:27:12I will always have Tim's back because I'm like super protective of my friends.
00:27:19And if you cross them, watch your back.
00:27:32Gentlemen, welcome back to the party.
00:27:34Pick a tub.
00:27:36Get yourself settled.
00:27:37You guys already know the drill.
00:27:44Elise and I, we kissed.
00:27:47It was a good kiss.
00:27:48And I did want to see her butt.
00:27:51But, I mean, it's only day two.
00:27:54So I would hope that the other women here don't, like, assume that I'm locked in with
00:27:58Elise.
00:28:00I mean, I got to see where her head's at.
00:28:02I'm still kind of watching to see who she is.
00:28:05How are you?
00:28:06Yeah, how are you doing?
00:28:07How are you doing, like, the stuff you're doing?
00:28:10What do you mean?
00:28:11Like, this thing was two minutes of your show.
00:28:13I don't know.
00:28:14I'm worried about it.
00:28:15I mean, more comfortable talking.
00:28:16One-on-one.
00:28:17I mean, like, you're excited.
00:28:18I mean, like, you're just a glad to have fun.
00:28:20I heard you guys were talking about me.
00:28:22I'm a boss.
00:28:23Thanks.
00:28:24Who told you that?
00:28:25Yeah.
00:28:25Yeah.
00:28:26Yeah.
00:28:26Yeah.
00:28:26And as soon as you went to my office, I thought I would keep bringing it up.
00:28:30I would just touch it up.
00:28:32And I'm like, too, too, too, too, too, too, too.
00:28:34Oh, wait.
00:28:35Don't talk too much about it.
00:28:36We'll leave it alone.
00:28:37All right.
00:28:38So much.
00:28:38Don't you like one more round?
00:28:39Yeah.
00:28:40Yes.
00:28:40Thanks.
00:28:41You made the one that's most full.
00:28:42What?
00:28:43That one, yeah.
00:28:44That's the one.
00:28:45And I'm going for you, lady?
00:28:47I thought you were getting it for me.
00:28:48I thought you were being on this one.
00:28:49I just gave it to you.
00:28:50All right, I gave it back.
00:28:51OK.
00:28:52Here you go.
00:28:53All I can't be glad.
00:28:54We can have the most full one.
00:28:55I wanted to make you happy.
00:29:00I don't know.
00:29:01There's this deep connection that we have that I've definitely not experienced
00:29:04with anyone else here at the retreat.
00:29:06But, like, not knowing where his head's at is kind of making me a little nervous for him.
00:29:10You know, we had some fun last night.
00:29:12Obviously, some alcohol was involved.
00:29:14And we ended up talking the rest of the night.
00:29:17And then, this morning, I called him and we talked a little bit.
00:29:20Now, I kind of want to see what he feels.
00:29:22How do you choose?
00:29:23Yeah.
00:29:24I'm choosing to, um, this process and see where it goes and to making connections.
00:29:33That brings a question.
00:29:35Have you made connections today with anybody else?
00:29:38I don't care.
00:29:39I don't care.
00:29:40I don't care.
00:29:41I don't care.
00:29:42I don't care.
00:29:43I don't care.
00:29:44Obviously, I'm happy you're here with me today.
00:29:45I would be, like, if you weren't here, I'd probably be.
00:29:48You'd be thinking about me.
00:29:49Probably.
00:29:50And not so just the one meeting other people.
00:29:53I'm good.
00:29:54I'm good.
00:29:55100%.
00:29:56Like, I'm either, like, 100% or zero.
00:29:58I'm not really in between.
00:30:00And she's tripping.
00:30:04She's tripping like, this doesn't make any sense.
00:30:08We've only known each other for two damn days.
00:30:10And I thought we were having fun.
00:30:13But she's just jumping in head first.
00:30:16This is bad.
00:30:17Hey.
00:30:18Hi.
00:30:19Oh, you look so cute.
00:30:20Oh, thank you.
00:30:21Oh, I hope he's as cool as he was earlier today.
00:30:25So, fingers crossed it doesn't suck.
00:30:28Cheers first.
00:30:29Okay.
00:30:30Salud.
00:30:31Tomamos.
00:30:32I'm actually shocked.
00:30:33Oh, that's sexy.
00:30:55Oh, hi.
00:30:56Hi.
00:30:57How are you?
00:30:58How are you?
00:30:59Very good.
00:31:00What drinks do you have available?
00:31:02I have a margarita, mezcalita.
00:31:06Margarita.
00:31:07Margarita?
00:31:08Por favor.
00:31:09After the Flirting 101, I got a text from Carlo.
00:31:12And it says, hey, I wasn't kidding about that date.
00:31:15Do you want to meet up and have a drink?
00:31:18But in my mind, I'm like, oh, no.
00:31:20I hope he's as cool as he was earlier today.
00:31:23So, fingers crossed it doesn't suck.
00:31:27Okay.
00:31:38Hey.
00:31:39Hi.
00:31:40Oh, you look so cute.
00:31:41Oh, thank you.
00:31:42Yeah.
00:31:43Yeah, you're totally dressed up, and I feel a little underdressed, but...
00:31:46Oh, you look good.
00:31:47You look great.
00:31:48All right, what are you drinking?
00:31:49A margarita.
00:31:50Margarita?
00:31:51Okay.
00:31:52Getting on these chairs is not easy.
00:31:53No, it's not.
00:31:54It's not.
00:31:55And you're tall, so...
00:31:56Well, thanks.
00:31:57Thanks.
00:31:58How tall are you?
00:31:595'6".
00:32:005'6".
00:32:016'1".
00:32:02Oh, I like that.
00:32:03Yeah, thank you.
00:32:04Same thing.
00:32:05Margarita, please.
00:32:06Yeah.
00:32:07The flirting workshop went really, really well.
00:32:09I was happy that Tiffany and I got paired together.
00:32:12Basically, we were the best flirts.
00:32:14I'm attracted to Tiffany because she's like a real person.
00:32:18She's really cute.
00:32:19I really like her eyes, and I think she's feeling my eyes as well.
00:32:23So, I'm just excited to see what comes of it.
00:32:26Yeah, I feel really nervous.
00:32:27Yeah.
00:32:28I'm like...
00:32:29I don't like date a lot.
00:32:30So, like...
00:32:31Okay.
00:32:32This is weird for me.
00:32:33Do you go on a lot of dates or no?
00:32:34Um...
00:32:35I do.
00:32:36I have my...
00:32:37I have my waves of going on dates and kind of just being like, I'm done with dates.
00:32:43Why?
00:32:44Like, if you go on a few bad dates, it's exhausting.
00:32:46It's time consuming.
00:32:48I want to hear a bad date story.
00:32:50A bad date story?
00:32:52You need to.
00:32:53Come on.
00:32:54I feel like that's...
00:32:55I'll just tell a brief story.
00:32:56I went out with another girl...
00:32:57Yeah?
00:32:58...from Jersey, and I thought, like, we were clicking based on that.
00:33:01Yeah.
00:33:02And I get there, and I hear her voice.
00:33:05And it's, like, the actress from White Lotus.
00:33:09Wait!
00:33:10Jennifer Coolidge.
00:33:11It's Jennifer Coolidge's voice.
00:33:12No!
00:33:13In, like, hot girl's body.
00:33:15And I'm just, like, I feel so shallow right now, but I just, like, am instantly turned off.
00:33:20Oh, so that was a turn off for you.
00:33:21Instantly turned off.
00:33:22That was it for me.
00:33:23So, when you're on the dating apps, and you're, like, you know, scrolling through, trying
00:33:28to find your person, what do you go for, really?
00:33:30Okay, what's your type?
00:33:31Um, so I do, like I said, I like exotic.
00:33:35Like, bilingual is really nice.
00:33:36Okay.
00:33:37Like, a little, uh, you said Cuban and Colombian, right?
00:33:39Mm-hmm.
00:33:40So that's a good mix for me.
00:33:41Okay.
00:33:42You're just describing me, Pablo.
00:33:44That's it.
00:33:45That's it.
00:33:46I'm actually learning to speak Spanish.
00:33:47Okay.
00:33:48So, that's what's nice.
00:33:49I'll teach you.
00:33:50Be a teacher.
00:33:51Uh, yeah, I'm learning.
00:33:52I'm very teachable.
00:33:53Yeah?
00:33:54Yeah.
00:33:55Behave yourself.
00:33:56Yeah.
00:33:57Spit some game to me in Spanish.
00:34:01Well, cheers first.
00:34:02Okay.
00:34:03Salud.
00:34:04Salud.
00:34:05Okay, that's a good one.
00:34:06I'm actually shocked.
00:34:07Mm-hmm.
00:34:08I thought you'd be like, hola, come on.
00:34:09Stop.
00:34:10No, no.
00:34:11Hold on.
00:34:12You, like, know Spanish.
00:34:13Yes.
00:34:14Carlos is not generally my type.
00:34:15He kind of looks dorky, but he's sweet.
00:34:16He seems sweet.
00:34:17And there is something sexy about him.
00:34:18He's tall.
00:34:19He's got a nice body.
00:34:20He starts speaking Spanish.
00:34:21And I was like, oh, that's sexy.
00:34:23This guy's smart.
00:34:24He knows a whole other language fluently.
00:34:26So, I feel like he's, like, top contender right now.
00:34:42And I'm actually really excited about it.
00:34:47All right, it is time to wrap up your speed date, close up shop, and gentlemen, you're
00:35:09going to rotate to the next hot tub, so say your goodbyes however you see fit, and then
00:35:14move on to the next young lady.
00:35:17Even though we have a compatibility, I may have jumped the gun making out with Elise.
00:35:23I feel like I need to dial it back a little bit, and now Jen is on my mind.
00:35:30I mean, from the moment I saw Jen at the party, I've been interested, and I mean, since breakfast
00:35:34this morning, I've been waiting for a chance to talk to her one-on-one.
00:35:37Like Usman said, she is hot, man.
00:35:41She's hot.
00:35:42She is.
00:35:43I've got two minutes to shoot my shot with the hottest girl at this retreat.
00:35:53The pressure's on.
00:35:59I mean, I didn't expect that when we walked into the room yesterday.
00:36:06I started to acknowledge what I've been like.
00:36:09What the **** up?
00:36:10You had your mask on though, but I don't look like a beautiful woman.
00:36:18Definitely Rob feels so much better than having Tim in hot tub.
00:36:22The first glimpse that I had from him, it was like, oh no, he's a player.
00:36:27Because he was making out with Elise the first night.
00:36:30I see a little bit of arrogance, but maybe it's just a lot of confidence, which is sexy.
00:36:34Rob and Jen are like super close, and then not knowing where Rob's head's at is kind of
00:36:50making me a little nervous.
00:36:52I think Jen needs to stop flirting around with every single man, because I don't like competition,
00:36:56and no one competes against me.
00:36:58If I want something, I get it.
00:37:00I'm looking very thin, very early, but I love to do adventure, and I just want to see the
00:37:10world.
00:37:11Like, I would do it, like, if I go to the Everest, like, to Manchester.
00:37:15Oh my God.
00:37:16This way.
00:37:17I would love sleep.
00:37:19Like, I would make it out there, and then I'll put it there, yeah.
00:37:23Yeah?
00:37:24Have you made love in any amazing places?
00:37:26Have you?
00:37:27You have.
00:37:29I don't know.
00:37:30I don't know.
00:37:31That sounded a yes to me.
00:37:32.
00:37:35Damn.
00:37:36She's telling me all the right things.
00:37:38What are you trying to do to me?
00:37:39Like, you sure are you trying to, like, you're in my head, aren't you?
00:37:42Like, you can't be that girl.
00:37:43Like, that girl doesn't exist?
00:37:45What are you talking about?
00:37:46That's what I've been looking for.
00:37:48So now I have a goal at first.
00:37:52Jen is the only speed date where I'm like, I don't want to get out of this hot tub.
00:37:58I just want to see what this is.
00:38:01And if Jen is interested in me, that I might want to put more interest in Jen and distance
00:38:07myself from Elise.
00:38:08I'm hoping Elise picks up that, you know, I do want to take it slower with her.
00:38:13I had a good time for you.
00:38:14I had a good time for you.
00:38:15I had a good time for you.
00:38:17Okay.
00:38:18Fuck.
00:38:25What do we do now?
00:38:26I'm going to eat.
00:38:27I'm so hungry.
00:38:28I'm tired.
00:38:29I want to go home.
00:38:30Are you coming?
00:38:32I'm kind of stuck in the middle between these guys that I'm interested in.
00:38:37So what does that imply?
00:38:38Woo!
00:38:55I thought I'd be more drunk in Mexico.
00:38:57Hey!
00:38:58Hey!
00:38:59Hey!
00:39:00We're about to take shots, y'all.
00:39:01We're about to take shots.
00:39:02Yeah.
00:39:03We need two more.
00:39:04All right.
00:39:05Add two more to the situation.
00:39:06Two more.
00:39:07Hi.
00:39:08Good to see you.
00:39:09How are you?
00:39:10Good to see you again.
00:39:11Hey, brother.
00:39:12What's up?
00:39:13I've never taken tequila before in my life, so.
00:39:14How does it taste?
00:39:15Is it sugar, bitter, or salt?
00:39:16It's going to be better.
00:39:17It's going to be salty.
00:39:18It's a little stingy, but it's going to be good.
00:39:19You'll be fine.
00:39:20Okay.
00:39:21Courtney and Usman showed up together at the bar, and I'm not surprised at all.
00:39:24Although they want to keep saying that they've never done anything, I'm like, you guys haven't
00:39:29hooked up, and there's nothing there, I call bull .
00:39:32I think Courtney's not going to hold that secret for long.
00:39:35I'm just going to sit back and sip my tea.
00:39:41Cheers to your first shot.
00:39:44Ready?
00:39:45Go.
00:39:46Get it.
00:39:47Three, two, one, go.
00:39:48Take the lime.
00:39:49Take the lime.
00:39:50Don't throw it.
00:39:51Mm-hmm.
00:39:52Chew on the lime.
00:39:55Okay.
00:39:56Are you okay?
00:39:57Are you okay?
00:39:58Yeah, I'm good.
00:39:59Yeah.
00:40:00See, it's not that bad.
00:40:01Yeah.
00:40:02You got this.
00:40:03Tequila.
00:40:04Tastes so bitter.
00:40:05Um, I don't know.
00:40:09It didn't do me anything yet.
00:40:11Maybe it has to go with the process.
00:40:13I hope it's not going to make me go so wild and crazy.
00:40:16Just watch out.
00:40:19Congratulations.
00:40:20Congratulations.
00:40:21Woo!
00:40:22That's coming.
00:40:23Yay!
00:40:24I got it.
00:40:27Oh, God.
00:40:28That was so cute.
00:40:37Ladies and gents.
00:40:38Hi.
00:40:39How are you?
00:40:40All right, let's hang out over here.
00:40:41I got some things to chat with you about.
00:40:44Oh, no.
00:40:45Some good.
00:40:46Some not so great.
00:40:47Oh, no.
00:40:48We're all learning here.
00:40:49That's the whole point, right?
00:40:50All right.
00:40:51Sure.
00:40:52Some of you look excited.
00:40:53Some of you look terrified.
00:40:54So, this will be fun.
00:40:56So, the first thing is, I'll tell you the lowest four rated folks based on these scorecards.
00:41:04And I want to preface this by saying, this doesn't mean that you aren't worthy of being here or anything like that.
00:41:11It's just, you know, objective scoring.
00:41:13So, if you are in this bottom four, this is about growth.
00:41:17And you have an opportunity to finding the person that you're meant to be here for by the end of this.
00:41:23Okay?
00:41:24So, those bottom four people are...
00:41:27Chantal.
00:41:28Nikki.
00:41:29Tim.
00:41:30And Jennifer.
00:41:31On me?
00:41:32Yes.
00:41:33Like, I don't think that's fair.
00:41:34Who made this?
00:41:35Who came out with those results?
00:41:36It's insane.
00:41:37Now we're gonna talk about some specifics.
00:41:38This is just to have a conversation, get some feedback, and we'll move on and have some fun.
00:42:02Okay.
00:42:03Chantal.
00:42:04in that bottom four realm, but also looking at some of your scores, you also rated others
00:42:09pretty low. There may have been like awkwardness. Sure. Um, with my interactions with other people.
00:42:18It's, it's a tricky situation because we're trying to accelerate a process that usually
00:42:22happens over six months to a year. It really hurts. I don't feel like I deserve such a low score.
00:42:32Maybe I'm, maybe I'm delusional. I really did bad in the hot tub. Let's, let's be honest,
00:42:38but I'm still curious about what Joe thought of me though. Hopefully he didn't rank me too low.
00:42:45He is a little younger, but I could teach him a few things.
00:42:52Rob, here's what I wanted to ask a question about. You rated the six dates that you had as threes.
00:42:57I, I rated all the dates the same. To me, it was like every date is us sitting in a,
00:43:05in a hot tub for two minutes. So it all just felt like the same date over and over and over and over.
00:43:09So I just kind of rated them all the same. I'm trying to kind of make the least understand that
00:43:14I'm just trying to keep my options open without hurting anyone's feelings. And at the same time,
00:43:19nobody got a different number. So nobody was, nobody gained favor or lost favor
00:43:25because I can't be acting like I'm just going to jump right in to trying to get at Jen.
00:43:30I don't want to look like that flaky guy who just like, one day I'm all over this girl. The next day,
00:43:36just like, it's nothing. I'm all over that girl. Like, let me put a little pause on where's Rob at?
00:43:42I guess I'm confused because I don't even understand. I guess I'm lost.
00:43:47About what? What you asked Rob.
00:43:50So what Rob was kind of saying was that every date was exactly the same. It's cookie cutter. You get in,
00:43:55you talk to people for two minutes. Yep. Does that make you feel any kind of way to be described as
00:44:01like, you're the same as everybody else you talk to? I feel like when I feel it, I feel it. Yeah.
00:44:06I don't know if I like. Okay. That's fair. I don't know. Maybe I need to work a little harder. I don't know.
00:44:11It was the same date six times. So everybody got the same number. I don't understand.
00:44:18Okay. Who wants to go next? Just kidding. We can keep moving forward. But a little bit of homework.
00:44:25Think about the person that you feel like you have the biggest connection with here tonight.
00:44:29And within the next day or so, I just want you to take that vulnerable step.
00:44:33Doesn't mean that you have to fall in love tomorrow. It just means I'd like to get some coffee with you
00:44:39one-on-one. I'd like to go on a date with you. Take a deep breath. Let yourself be yourself.
00:44:43You can't go back and change today. But here we are. So it's been a lovely day of getting to know
00:44:50each other on a deeper level. Why don't we grab our things? And we'll hit the rope. Sound good to you?
00:44:55Sounds great. All right. Thank you. Absolutely.
00:44:58Rob was just so disrespectful to me.
00:45:04My entire night last night was with him between us kissing and making me feel special and then
00:45:11giving me a score as just another girl. You know.
00:45:18Rob messed with the wrong woman.
00:45:20Rob. Yeah. So after, after kissing me last night and you were trying to get me to go you last night.
00:45:33Yo, this chick is crazy. She might be a nutcase.
00:45:37You just want to put your
00:45:38I think it's so attractive that you speak like
00:45:58go around it. Have you ever since it's hard for him to get out of the country. Have you ever thought
00:46:02about going to Nigeria? I want to go. Would you be open to that?
00:46:05Yeah, he invited me. I would love that. Oh, you've already talked about that? Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Let's see. I mean I possibly
00:46:10be like that. But I'm like how many secret
00:46:12whites does he have in Nigeria that I'm going to have to make? Sounds like trust might be an issue here
00:46:16after you've heard that song. I don't know. No, you have nothing to do about it. We're getting another drink.
00:46:20We're getting a Long Island. Hi. Hey. How are you doing? Good. How are you?
00:46:24Pretty good. Oh, the happy couple.
00:46:29What's your poison choice?
00:46:32Tequila. Tequila? Yeah.
00:46:34Okay. You don't want to do a shot of tequila or something?
00:46:36Just a shot, but we can do another one. Okay. Yeah, no, no, no, because you missed the shot.
00:46:39So we can do another shot. Okay.
00:46:40Right now, I feel super awkward around Lexi.
00:46:44Said some things that kind of made her upset or triggered at the Flurry Workshop.
00:46:48I feel more comfortable talking to women online.
00:46:51It's definitely nice to have a buffer when you're communicating with somebody.
00:46:54Time delay, texting, you can think about it.
00:46:56You know, have a tea, whatever.
00:46:58Take a and come back to it, you know.
00:47:00But, you know, in this real-time scenario here, time is not an option.
00:47:04I feel like Lexi and I have no romantic interest in each other, but really, this could be an opportunity to improve my skills talking to women in person.
00:47:14I'm going to use a bathroom.
00:47:14That's right.
00:47:15I'll be right back.
00:47:15Okay.
00:47:16I heard something about people going back to her room. What happened with that?
00:47:20Yeah, so last night, like, maybe six of us went back to the room and we went back to Tiffany's room last night.
00:47:26Oh, come over, come over.
00:47:27Yeah.
00:47:28So, yeah, it got heated in her room last night.
00:47:31Like, I felt like Chantel and Usman, they kind of had, like, a conflict before we even went to the room.
00:47:36And she told me, like, be careful.
00:47:37He could see her.
00:47:38And then he got, like, a little butthurt about that.
00:47:39Yeah, but even though I heard about that, she said, oh, be careful, I still want to like it.
00:47:43That was the main reason why I called her attention yesterday.
00:47:46I was like, hey, what's up?
00:47:47Yeah.
00:47:47You know, I want to hear the reason why she have that perception about me.
00:47:50Yeah.
00:47:50Because I never talked to her, so why would she call me a scammer?
00:47:54I've had a fight last night with Chantel.
00:47:57I am still feeling so hungry over it.
00:47:59Chantel opened her mouth and said to Courtney in Istanbul that she should be careful with me.
00:48:03I'm a scammer.
00:48:04And I feel like she owe me an apology because why would you call me a scammer for no reason?
00:48:08That's not fair.
00:48:09But, like, I don't say that because she's a woman.
00:48:11I cannot punch her, so why are you going to say that?
00:48:13I don't want to punch her.
00:48:14Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
00:48:15Like, if it's a man, then what I'm trying to say is that she's a female.
00:48:19What I'm trying to say is that.
00:48:23Hey.
00:48:24Oh, hello.
00:48:24Hey.
00:48:25Hey.
00:48:26Hey.
00:48:26Welcome back.
00:48:28Where were you guys at?
00:48:30Hey.
00:48:30I couldn't even tell you, like, on a beach or something.
00:48:32The whole time.
00:48:34I haven't seen you the whole time.
00:48:35Hey, guys.
00:48:36How you doing?
00:48:37How you doing, bro?
00:48:37I met you.
00:48:38Call Rob.
00:48:39Rob, I've been hearing your name all day.
00:48:41I'm like, who's wrong?
00:48:42Really?
00:48:42Yeah.
00:48:42In your guys' thing or just amongst you guys?
00:48:45I did.
00:48:46I guess Cole and Jen hit it off at the masquerade ball, but I ain't worried about Cole.
00:48:52Like, there's different versions of a good-looking guy.
00:48:55There's me.
00:48:57And then there's the good-looking guy that looks like Jack Sparrow before bed.
00:49:02Or lost at sea look.
00:49:04I don't know.
00:49:05It's like an odd choice.
00:49:07Did you guys have a good day?
00:49:09Yeah, it was all right.
00:49:10I mean, it was a...
00:49:11Where were you at last night?
00:49:12I was in my womb last night.
00:49:15How was your day?
00:49:16Good.
00:49:16How was your day?
00:49:18Good.
00:49:19How was your day?
00:49:20Good.
00:49:20Good.
00:49:21It's so loud.
00:49:22It is.
00:49:23Oh, great.
00:49:23It's so hot here.
00:49:25After the speed dating activity, I feel attracted, like physically attracted to Rob.
00:49:34He has, like, this sexual magnetism, but now it is super nice to see Cole tonight.
00:49:42I see that he's a little nervous around me, and that is super cute.
00:49:46These two men are very attractive, but they're very different from each other, like two different flavors of ice cream.
00:49:53Now I have to choose which one I want to taste.
00:49:56Do you have a big family?
00:49:58Yeah, I do.
00:49:59You want to tell me a little bit about that?
00:50:00But I am a single child, actually.
00:50:02A single Toma?
00:50:04Kid.
00:50:05You have a single kid?
00:50:06Yeah.
00:50:07How old is your kid?
00:50:08He's seven years old.
00:50:09It's my dog.
00:50:10It's a girl.
00:50:11That's true.
00:50:12I love you.
00:50:13Well, I'm happy that you told me that.
00:50:14She's a beautiful girl.
00:50:16I have no doubt that's true, looking at mom, too.
00:50:19Does that make you nervous to tell people that?
00:50:22Um, it's something that has to be put on the table.
00:50:27It's very important.
00:50:28Somehow, and at some point, I think it's important.
00:50:33Being a mom changes everything when it comes to dating.
00:50:36You have to be sure that you're thinking not just about yourself, but what is best for the future as a possible future family.
00:50:44So it's a lot of pressure.
00:50:46Cole seems to not freak out about the fact that I am a single mother.
00:50:50And that is actually a super, super positive sign that I may be able to build a relationship with him.
00:50:57I feel the same way.
00:50:58I think from the very start when I saw you last night, the eye contact and the mask, there was a spark there for me, and I'm happy to hear that maybe that was the same for you.
00:51:15Jen's no doubt a powerful, sexy woman.
00:51:19Um, I am a little, a little nervous to talk to her just because the previous night when we met, um, it was a little awkward just given the fact that we had the masks on and it was hard to hear and I wasn't used to her accent.
00:51:29So I kept having to say, like, what, what, what are you saying?
00:51:31Please repeat yourself.
00:51:32Um, when I came to the retreat, I was open-minded to the idea that somebody might have a kid.
00:51:37So when, uh, Jen said that she had a kid, this isn't a deal breaker for me.
00:51:41I think I'd be a good father.
00:51:42I'd love to give it a shot.
00:51:44And I'm super excited to see where it goes from here.
00:51:48Okay, my biggest, one of my biggest things that I want to do is, like, go a renaissance fair.
00:51:53To a renaissance fair? Anyone?
00:51:54Anyone.
00:51:55I've been to, like, at least two.
00:51:57I've been to any.
00:51:58They're great. You can throw axes.
00:51:59Hi.
00:52:00How was your day?
00:52:02It's out of, like, you're like, oh, my God.
00:52:04It's, like, right away.
00:52:06Anyone you like?
00:52:07No.
00:52:08I remember that you said that last night.
00:52:11I think I was laughing, Rob.
00:52:12Huh?
00:52:13Rob.
00:52:14See, ours was fun until, but we had to, like, rate everybody.
00:52:17Rob.
00:52:18Yeah.
00:52:19Why did you say that our date was the same as everyone else's?
00:52:22You just, I knew you didn't get it.
00:52:24Everybody got the same thing.
00:52:25Okay.
00:52:26So after calling the US names.
00:52:27You guys are dating each other.
00:52:28Wait, wait, wait.
00:52:29We didn't have to date each other.
00:52:30You guys are dating the date?
00:52:31Yeah, but I didn't really like that particular question.
00:52:33Okay, but Rob, I don't really care what you like.
00:52:35Okay.
00:52:36So after kissing me last night, calling me on the phone for an hour and a half, and you're
00:52:41trying to get me to go you last night on the phone.
00:52:44You're upset because I gave every girl the same number on one particular.
00:52:48Okay, but we kissed last night.
00:52:50You're here for the wrong reasons.
00:52:54You're telling me to go you last night.
00:52:56I did not say that.
00:52:57Yeah, you did.
00:52:58You told me to come to your place.
00:52:59No, I didn't.
00:53:00I said you could hang out.
00:53:01No, no, no, no, no.
00:53:02You told me to come to your place.
00:53:03Pull up the receipt then.
00:53:04Did I not just say I want to hang out?
00:53:05Show me, show me.
00:53:06Yeah, show the receipts.
00:53:07Show the receipts then.
00:53:09Elise is a model for Miami, and you're going to give her three?
00:53:12Are you kidding me?
00:53:13Like his game.
00:53:14Like I could help him with his flirting.
00:53:16Elise is throwing herself at you, like showing her ass, making out with you.
00:53:20And he still managed to this up?
00:53:22How?
00:53:23How did this conversation start?
00:53:25She's like, sorry, something happened.
00:53:28She's mad that I rated everybody the same.
00:53:30So she's pissed off at me.
00:53:32But I think that's ridiculous.
00:53:33Really?
00:53:34So why did, why were you?
00:53:35Because you're refusing to understand my perspective and why I rated everybody the same.
00:53:39You should rank her number one.
00:53:46I was going to give Elise the benefit of the doubt.
00:53:49I mean, at least for now, it's only been a couple of days.
00:53:51But after acting like this, I mean, I'm like certain that this girl is not somebody that
00:53:58I could be with.
00:53:59Like that is the biggest, the biggest red flag for me.
00:54:03The absolute biggest worst thing that you could do if you think that I'm going to be
00:54:07interested in you is accuse me of what I haven't done in front of people that don't know.
00:54:11You see where she's saying, though.
00:54:13No, I see her being childish.
00:54:14How would you feel if she ranked all the equal?
00:54:18Oh, but you guys have like...
00:54:19I don't know.
00:54:20I don't know.
00:54:21I don't know.
00:54:22Why?
00:54:23Because I'm not a f***ing emotional person that can't get why.
00:54:24You just want to put your d*** at me.
00:54:25You want to take me behind doors and f*** me so no one thinks you're a dog.
00:54:27Okay.
00:54:28You're an asshole.
00:54:29I don't know anything.
00:54:30You're here for the wrong intentions.
00:54:31You hurt me.
00:54:32It's rude.
00:54:33Let's just stop this altercation right here.
00:54:34You make me feel like a no one works.
00:54:35I have a feeling that you're going to do this.
00:54:36No, I'm going to hear this.
00:54:37But it's fine.
00:54:38But it's fine.
00:54:39No, it's fine.
00:54:40I think that we should.
00:54:41I was trying to learn that.
00:54:42No, you're good.
00:54:43It's fine.
00:54:44In 24 hours, we've gone from we're vibing, we have a connection, but because I ranked
00:55:12her a three, she is now yelling at me in my face, just yelling at me.
00:55:17And I'm just like, yo, this chick is crazy.
00:55:20She might be a nutcase.
00:55:23Look at these time calls.
00:55:25Face times me.
00:55:261043 AM.
00:55:27Calls me at 2 AM.
00:55:29Incoming call for an hour and 20 minutes.
00:55:31Wow.
00:55:32But I'm just another girl, right?
00:55:34On the ranking board.
00:55:35Jesus Christ.
00:55:37I don't know why.
00:55:39I was like, yes, we talked on the phone.
00:55:44Yes.
00:55:45I told her like, yeah, we should probably not be baking out on the first day.
00:55:48And it is a bad look.
00:55:49And let's not do that.
00:55:50And let's kind of like slow it down.
00:55:51And now she's saying, you want to behind closed doors.
00:55:53You want to hide me.
00:55:54Like I broke her heart because I put up three for everybody.
00:55:58Because you didn't have sex with her.
00:55:59Probably.
00:56:00I don't know.
00:56:01Which is fine.
00:56:02And that's not going to make me into the dog who wanted to when I didn't want to .
00:56:05Elise is upset because Rob didn't sleep with her.
00:56:07She wanted to get and Rob didn't her.
00:56:11She wanted her.
00:56:12She wanted her.
00:56:13She wanted her cheeks clapped and is let down because Rob didn't do it.
00:56:30I think.
00:56:32Yeah, I was just not expecting this.
00:56:37Maybe take it as a red flag.
00:56:39Oh, I'm definitely not interested anymore.
00:56:41I could not talk to somebody like that.
00:56:44It's only the second day.
00:56:45So right.
00:56:46I'm glad that this is what happened on the second day because this is way too excessive.
00:56:51I think I'm going to go to bed.
00:56:53All right.
00:56:54Sweet dreaming.
00:56:55Claire, you're not going to say bye to her.
00:57:02No, I'm not going to talk to her ever again.
00:57:04Why?
00:57:05Bye.
00:57:06Because that was insanity.
00:57:08Why can't I not have drama?
00:57:13I didn't even do anything.
00:57:16I just got here, man.
00:57:18I don't even know.
00:57:22I'm tired of being taken advantage of.
00:57:24I feel like when I start liking a guy a little bit, he does this to me.
00:57:29After all this time that he's tried to talk to me and make me feel special as just another girl.
00:57:35You know, I know that was fake.
00:57:39Sometimes I speak quickly and I should think probably before I speak and I get ahead of myself.
00:57:46But I'm a real lovable human with a big heart that's just really scared of getting hurt.
00:57:53And it just happened.
00:57:56They get mad because you don't want to them.
00:57:59And then they start, you know, blah, blah, blah, speaking all this nonsense.
00:58:02Happens all the time.
00:58:03Because, like, if that's what she wanted, she really just tanked it and shot herself in the foot.
00:58:07Like, that is never going to happen.
00:58:09Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:58:10Why would you do that if that's what you want?
00:58:12I was not envious of you during that, bro.
00:58:15My day was the worst one.
00:58:17I think, like, out of everybody.
00:58:18No, it wasn't.
00:58:19No connection.
00:58:20No, because I felt, like, so awkward.
00:58:22Just, like, anxiety.
00:58:23You do well.
00:58:24You do well.
00:58:25Yeah, but...
00:58:26I feel like I did the worst.
00:58:27I really don't know if I am good at flirting or I'm not.
00:58:30But I am honestly better than Courtney.
00:58:33Because at the flirting one-on-one, she was crashing.
00:58:37Oh, my God.
00:58:39So I'm just trying to be that gentleman.
00:58:41Because I like Courtney.
00:58:42And I don't want her to feel bad about it.
00:58:44I'm really surprised, Rob, that you got into something.
00:58:47Because I really thought it would have been Chantel and Usman.
00:58:50Yeah.
00:58:51Right?
00:58:52Because he said if you were a guy, he would have hit you.
00:58:55Damn.
00:58:56Yeah.
00:58:57Calling him a scammer.
00:58:59Yeah, calling him a scammer and all that .
00:59:01We're talking about .
00:59:02I take Brazilian jiu-jitsu.
00:59:04I bet, yeah.
00:59:05Oh, she's ready to choke the mother out.
00:59:06Yeah, I wouldn't want to mess with you.
00:59:08I understand where Usman's coming from,
00:59:10being offended or hurt by what someone's saying.
00:59:13But he escalated too far.
00:59:15And it goes to show you that you're just going to be an asshole for no reason.
00:59:20And I'm hoping Courtney realizes that because I don't want that flower to blossom.
00:59:25I'm trying to throw as much interference in there as I can.
00:59:29I mean, it's all about deflating.
00:59:32They say if you don't know how to flee.
00:59:36Can I interrupt for a little bit?
00:59:38I want to talk to you, Usman.
00:59:39Okay.
00:59:40Because I heard that you said something behind my back that wasn't very nice.
00:59:43Actually, it was very aggressive.
00:59:46You told people that you would want to punch me?
00:59:51If you're a man, I will.
00:59:52If I was a man.
00:59:53Yeah, but you're a woman, so I can't.
00:59:54I would never touch a woman in my life.
00:59:56I would never do.
00:59:57Why would you say that?
00:59:58Why would you say something to her about me in allegation that you don't know?
01:00:02Because I felt like they were true.
01:00:05How is it true?
01:00:06I'm very protective of my friends, and I wouldn't want anything bad to happen to them.
01:00:11You act so childish.
01:00:13I don't know.
01:00:14Me?
01:00:15Childish?
01:00:16No.
01:00:17Never.
01:00:18No, you did.
01:00:23You're going to punch me in the face or like, what's up?
01:00:27You guys are not fighting.
01:00:29Do you want to fight me?
01:00:30No, I don't want to.
01:00:31Please, I don't want to fight you.
01:00:33Do you want to fight me?
01:00:34No.
01:00:35He's not.
01:00:36He's not. Come on.
01:00:37All right, I got to go to bed.
01:00:38Yeah, go to bed.
01:00:39You okay?
01:00:40I'm done.
01:00:41Tired.
01:00:42I'm fine.
01:00:43I don't like you.
01:00:46This is some bull .
01:00:48I tried to own up to my misunderstanding and some man says that they wanted to punch me in the face.
01:01:03I didn't come here for this.
01:01:04I have every right to believe he's a scammer.
01:01:05He did target older American women.
01:01:10I've never been so disrespected by a man in my life.
01:01:11Usman better check himself or he's going to be in for a world of hurt.
01:01:13How, how?
01:01:14How, how?
01:01:15How, how?
01:01:16How, how?
01:01:17How, how?
01:01:18How, how?
01:01:19How, how?
01:01:20How, how?
01:01:21How, how?
01:01:22You guys are still doing.
01:01:23I'm not suggesting it's the whole world to it because I'm upset you guys are not too
01:01:24too old.
01:01:25I'm sorry.
01:01:26How, what's wrong?
01:01:27It's the whole world to it.
01:01:28He did target older American women.
01:01:29He did target older American women.
01:01:30I've never been so disrespected by a man in my life.
01:01:33Usman better check himself or he's going to be in for a world of hurt.
01:01:38How?
01:01:40How?
01:01:43I feel like you're gonna kill the mood if you guys don't make up the rest of the
01:01:51because it's like, I'm not trying to deal with this.
01:01:54Like, I want to be having fun.
01:01:55Like, you guys are killing my back.
01:01:57Yo, but the thing is that I'm just not thinking anything
01:01:59that has to do with coming easy.
01:02:00We don't think that about yourself.
01:02:02Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:02:02I mean, I don't, I didn't say you, you know,
01:02:05like, but a lot of people think that,
01:02:07and that's fighting.
01:02:08It doesn't matter.
01:02:10It doesn't matter.
01:02:12This is bull .
01:02:13I feel like Chantelle is kind of like trying
01:02:15to ruin the whole trip for me on finding someone.
01:02:20I'm dipping, too, man.
01:02:22You want to go, too?
01:02:23Yeah, I'm going to go back to the room.
01:02:24OK.
01:02:25You have a good news.
01:02:27But, I mean, I'm just having my time to shoot my shot,
01:02:30and then Courtney is right here,
01:02:32and then you keep on saying all these negative things about me.
01:02:35It's not my fault that Chantelle picked the wrong guy.
01:02:39Maybe he's still out because of green card.
01:02:42She should be smarter than that.
01:02:45Good night.
01:02:46Good night.
01:02:47Good night.
01:02:48All right, bro.
01:02:49Good night.
01:02:50Hey, ma'am.
01:02:51What's up?
01:02:52What a night.
01:02:53Yeah.
01:02:54It's hot.
01:02:55You just need to just let it all go.
01:03:02But you're here being, like, negative now, see.
01:03:05I'm going to be negative to you?
01:03:06OK, I'm sorry.
01:03:07You're like, yeah, you're fighting with my friend.
01:03:09I want you guys to all be cool.
01:03:11I want to have a great vibe and get along.
01:03:12OK, I'm sorry.
01:03:18This is not a situation I want to be in.
01:03:20Like, I'm kind of stuck in the middle between my friend and a guy that I'm interested in.
01:03:25Usman's mad.
01:03:27Chantelle's mad.
01:03:28And Chantelle's terrified when she gets mad.
01:03:31I don't want to be caught in the crossfires because I don't want to go to Mexican jail.
01:03:36Good night, guys.
01:03:41Buenas noches.
01:03:43Bonita.
01:03:46Good night, Jennifer.
01:03:47Good night.
01:03:49I think he's here.
01:03:50Yeah.
01:03:51Hey, Jennifer.
01:03:52Mind if I walk you home?
01:03:54Can I come in?
01:03:55Yeah, sure.
01:03:56Where do you live?
01:03:58I think it's this one.
01:04:00I'm trying to figure out.
01:04:01Okay.
01:04:02It's a maze out here.
01:04:04Cole is the hottest pilot I've ever seen.
01:04:07And he's already, like, locked in on Jen and just following her around like a little puppy.
01:04:12But at the same time, I'm curious how genuine and sincere he is because most pilots, you know, have girlfriends in every city.
01:04:21I need to feel him out a little bit before I judge him.
01:04:25This time of night, you've got to be careful.
01:04:27So big.
01:04:29Yeah, of course.
01:04:30I'm just safe from these Mexican raccoons.
01:04:33You're too cute, though.
01:04:37It's very clear that I'm going to have a lot of competition when it comes to dating Jennifer.
01:04:42I'm not the type of guy to give up easily.
01:04:44I'm not afraid to fight for what I want out of this.
01:04:47Jen is like a Greek goddess, and that's the one I'm all in on.
01:04:51Is this where you're staying?
01:04:52Yeah, this is my place.
01:04:54Okay.
01:04:55Yeah, so thank you.
01:04:56Let's get you inside.
01:04:57Yeah, of course.
01:04:58I'm so happy that we had the opportunity to get a little on time and talk about things other than...
01:05:03You're a great job.
01:05:04I like it.
01:05:06I appreciate it.
01:05:08All night.
01:05:09Of course.
01:05:10I'll hopefully see you tomorrow.
01:05:11I won't.
01:05:12All right.
01:05:13Bye.
01:05:14Yeah.
01:05:15Bye.
01:05:16Bye.
01:05:17Bye.
01:05:18Bye.
01:05:19Bye.
01:05:20Bye.
01:05:21Bye.
01:05:22Bye.
01:05:23It makes me really happy to hear Col's feelings and thoughts, shower speed, because I really
01:05:29like him.
01:05:32Rob and I definitely had a good night to be dating.
01:05:36But I have to say, my favorite is God.
01:05:39I love how we are talking.
01:05:41Also, like, it's very sweet of them
01:05:43to take me to my door and say good night
01:05:46and protect me from the Mexican raccoons.
01:05:52All right.
01:05:53You guys have a good night.
01:05:54All right, cool.
01:05:57Love is in the air.
01:05:59They had the best date of all of us, though.
01:06:01They did, they did.
01:06:02So I'm happy for the...
01:06:03Well, what do we do now?
01:06:05I'm going to eat.
01:06:06I'm so hungry.
01:06:07I'm tired, I'm going to go home.
01:06:08I just want to go to my room and just go to bed straight.
01:06:10OK.
01:06:11Are you coming?
01:06:15You said you want to go to bed straight.
01:06:17Yeah, but...
01:06:18So what does that imply?
01:06:21Maybe you should dial it down a little bit
01:06:23and be more subtle about things.
01:06:24I don't know.
01:06:25I'm just trying to enjoy Courtney's company,
01:06:27get to know her.
01:06:28And if he's trying to take her away
01:06:30and keep her all to herself, well, good luck, Usman.
01:06:35I think it's kind of feeling like this Jen and Rob thing.
01:06:39Any time you talk about Jen,
01:06:40the only thing I remember is what she told us yesterday.
01:06:42What?
01:06:43So you know, like,
01:06:44it's not something that I actually should tell you?
01:06:45No, tell me.
01:06:46I think if people are coming to tell me a rumor,
01:06:48they want it to get out.
01:06:49Are you kidding me?
01:06:51Are you kidding me?
01:06:52Are you kidding me?
01:06:52No, tell me.
01:06:53I think if people are coming to tell me a rumor,
01:06:55they want it to get out.
01:07:08I'm tired.
01:07:09I want to go home.
01:07:10I just want to go to my room and just go to bed straight.
01:07:11OK.
01:07:12Are you coming?
01:07:16You said you want to go to bed straight.
01:07:18So what does that imply?
01:07:19No, you didn't get the point.
01:07:20I have my laptop.
01:07:21We can watch a movie.
01:07:22That's like 1 o'clock, dude.
01:07:25I'm fine.
01:07:26I'm just going to go to my room and eat and go to bed.
01:07:28I know.
01:07:29I'm tired.
01:07:30I'm tired as .
01:07:31That's fine.
01:07:33I feel like me and Courtney already have the connection.
01:07:38And I'm kind of trying to see what will happen tonight.
01:07:41And the cold has been so weird.
01:07:44It's so annoying.
01:07:45I don't feel treating him from cold.
01:07:48But I start to think, like, what's going on here?
01:07:52So what did you think?
01:07:54I think the night was good.
01:07:55It was eventful.
01:07:56There was a lot going on.
01:07:57My favorite part was our date.
01:07:59Yeah.
01:08:00It's a great date.
01:08:02I felt very attracted to Tiffany and, like, everything that she was giving off.
01:08:07And I'm just excited to see what comes of it.
01:08:09I think there may be a kiss in the future if things keep progressing this way.
01:08:14This is you here?
01:08:15Yeah.
01:08:16All right, cool.
01:08:17Right here.
01:08:18Cool.
01:08:19That was so much fun.
01:08:20Aw, I had so much fun.
01:08:21It's a great first date.
01:08:22Aw, thank you.
01:08:23Aw.
01:08:24Sweet dreams.
01:08:25Thank you for being so respectful and so easy to talk to.
01:08:28I really, really enjoyed myself, honestly, genuinely.
01:08:31Same.
01:08:32And I hope to keep getting the night more.
01:08:34Okay.
01:08:35Yeah?
01:08:36We will, yeah.
01:08:37Good night.
01:08:38Good night.
01:08:39All right.
01:08:40All right, bye.
01:08:41I'm on one more on one.
01:08:43Yeah.
01:08:44I'm on one more.
01:08:45I'm on one more.
01:08:46I'm on two more.
01:08:47Increasingly.
01:08:48He's so cute.
01:08:49I want to learn more about him before I can say that I like him, like him.
01:08:52But do I get excited around him and happy around him?
01:08:53Yes.
01:08:54I feel like, I don't know.
01:08:55I like him, like him, but do I get excited around him and happy around him?
01:08:59Yes.
01:09:00I feel like, I don't know, it's always nice to know that someone's like into you.
01:09:04I'm going to change.
01:09:25What a weird, bizarre ending to the night.
01:09:37I was not expecting that.
01:09:40I think it was pretty insane.
01:09:45I mean, we just got here.
01:09:46I just met this girl and I'm really caught off guard.
01:09:49I don't know why I'm defending myself against a girl that I just met.
01:09:52Hopefully today or tomorrow is a better day and we can forget all about tonight because, I don't know, I need some sleep alone for sure.
01:10:22It's day three.
01:10:29We did a hot tub speed dating yesterday and that did not go so well because, you know, I'm sure that everybody has realized that my ex is here.
01:10:40So far, I don't think there's any girl that is, like, super into me.
01:10:54And I get, I'm like a very acquired taste, but I'm really hoping that things turn around and, you know, maybe I can, you know, connect with somebody because so far, I don't know, it just feels like, like, people aren't getting my vibe.
01:11:08And I'm not feeling down, but I'm, I'm starting to get a little worried.
01:11:20Oh my God.
01:11:21This way, this way, this way, this way.
01:11:22So we're going to hide from the rain.
01:11:24Yeah.
01:11:25I've had a fight last night with Chantel.
01:11:27I'm worried that I f*** up with Courtney and I'm scared that I'm going to lose her for another guy.
01:11:35Woo!
01:11:36So I asked Courtney to meet me this morning and then I'm trying to see what I can get from Courtney if she would say yes to me.
01:11:45Yesterday, we were having some argument and misunderstanding with Chantel because I feel like when I was trying to explain myself over there, nobody understand me.
01:11:54And everybody was like, ah, I'm tired of this guy.
01:11:56Yeah, you're being annoying after that.
01:11:58Despite that you are her close friend, you still, you know, like, being, you on her side, you are still at the same time on my side.
01:12:06Yeah.
01:12:06I do appreciate that.
01:12:06I feel like a love from you.
01:12:08I feel like you're showing me love.
01:12:09Like, I don't mean, like, love, love, but I'm saying that when everybody's trying to, like, pull back, you're still being there.
01:12:15So, you know, like, for me, I feel like, yeah.
01:12:17So I appreciate that.
01:12:18It's giving me, like, a growing life.
01:12:20But I don't know.
01:12:20I don't want to be, like, assuming.
01:12:23I would like to know if what I think is what it is.
01:12:26I mean, like, let's see where things go.
01:12:34What do you feel about all these guys?
01:12:40Right now, I'm not having anything romantic.
01:12:47No guys have taken me on dates.
01:12:48Nobody's done anything.
01:12:49Like, I'm just talking and getting to know everybody at this point.
01:12:52I want to ask you this question.
01:12:57What are we?
01:12:58So you're trying to DTR right now?
01:13:03What DTR means?
01:13:05To find the relationship.
01:13:06Oh, I mean, it's early, but I didn't know you before now.
01:13:11I know you know me before here, so I mean, we're in a different level compared to them.
01:13:18So what do you think?
01:13:21I don't think there's anybody who is beautiful more than you.
01:13:24Like, they are all below you.
01:13:25That's how I see you.
01:13:26You are more beautiful than anyone.
01:13:27You're sweet.
01:13:28Okay, I'm done or can I kiss you?
01:13:33You haven't even taken me on a date.
01:13:36You're kissing me something because I think I was showing so much effort on moving forward.
01:13:45So can I kiss you?
01:13:50My cheek.
01:13:52Cheek?
01:13:52Right now, Usman's my number one.
01:14:07He just needs to step up his game.
01:14:09He needs to do more than just talk.
01:14:11Talk is cheap.
01:14:13I think he's a smooth talker, and he may just want something physical.
01:14:17I don't want to just hook up.
01:14:18I want something more, and he needs to figure out if he feels the same.
01:14:23So, what's up with Rob and Jen, though?
01:14:25I was like, what the hell happened?
01:14:26Like, kind of feeling like this Jen and Rob thing.
01:14:29Yeah.
01:14:30But then it's like Jen and Cole, and I like Cole and Jen.
01:14:33Like, they were liking each other, too.
01:14:34So I'm like, what do you think?
01:14:37So, like, well, yesterday, anytime you talk about Jen, the only thing I remember is what she told us yesterday.
01:14:43Yeah.
01:14:44Yesterday, me, her, and Rob were sitting down over there having breakfast.
01:14:49You know, she was saying a lot about Tim.
01:14:53I was like, what?
01:14:54What?
01:14:55So, you know, like, it's not something that I actually should tell you?
01:14:58No, tell me.
01:15:00I cannot say that.
01:15:01Like, I don't know if I should say that.
01:15:06Tell me.
01:15:06Okay, okay, okay.
01:15:08You know she's his ex.
01:15:09Yeah.
01:15:09She said he don't want to torture her.
01:15:13Wait, she told you about this ex?
01:15:15Like, tell me what.
01:15:16But he traveled to her country.
01:15:17He made her day, but he refused to torture her.
01:15:20It's like, why?
01:15:21I don't.
01:15:21Why, though?
01:15:22Why?
01:15:22So, she was saying that he was ready to pay for somebody, like, because it's a male strippers,
01:15:29right?
01:15:29So, he was ready to pay for somebody to give her, like, lap dance.
01:15:35And he did it, and he watched it happen, and he liked it.
01:15:40No way.
01:15:41You know, Elise, the way that she's been coming at me, it's way too early for all this.
01:15:51I mean, yesterday, the tensions are probably high.
01:15:54Well, hopefully, she doesn't continue to come at me about anything.
01:15:58Elise, she's the wrecking ball of who knows what you're going to get.
01:16:03You're on.
01:16:11Conversation is an art in which very few excel.
01:16:16So, few know when to proceed and when to stop.
01:16:19I like that.
01:16:21Right now, I'm reading my book on etiquette.
01:16:25It's called Etiquette of Today.
01:16:27Looks like it was published in 1806 and 1896, something.
01:16:36Before the 1900s, at least.
01:16:39I don't know.
01:16:39There's some things in here, like, tip your hat when you meet a lady, you know?
01:16:43That makes sense, you know?
01:16:53So, he was ready to pay for somebody to give her, like, lap dance.
01:16:58And he did it, and he watched it happening, and he liked it.
01:17:03I wonder if he's a cuckold.
01:17:06What cuckold?
01:17:07It's like a guy that wants to watch their woman have sex with another guy, basically.
01:17:15You do that in the city?
01:17:16That's, like, something.
01:17:18We don't do that in Africa.
01:17:19I don't do that.
01:17:19I don't do that.
01:17:20Yeah, you shouldn't do that.
01:17:21Like, no, I'm not doing that, but that's something.
01:17:24It's like, if he's not wanting to sleep with her, but then he's paying other guys and, like,
01:17:28enjoying watching other guys be with her.
01:17:30Probably.
01:17:31It's just so weird, the whole story.
01:17:33Like, I just don't understand it.
01:17:34No.
01:17:39I'm not shocked that Tim is into some kinky stuff sexually.
01:17:44I wonder if they take the stripper back home, because I could see Jen, like, dominating both
01:17:49the men.
01:17:50I can't believe you waited 24 hours to come to me as a cuckold.
01:17:59Like, when you find out this s**t, you guys come, like, tell me.
01:18:01I didn't tell you anything.
01:18:03I did not tell you anything.
01:18:05Okay.
01:18:06That I came to the ocean?
01:18:08Mm-hmm.
01:18:08I'm sorry, but there's very little chance I'm going to keep this a secret.
01:18:14I think if people are coming to tell me a rumor, they want it to get out.
01:18:19Everybody here is gossiping, and this is some hot tea.
01:18:22Do you think I'm not going to share this?
01:18:23Also, Tim's a friend.
01:18:25I would want to know if people are talking to me behind my back.
01:18:27And then, honestly, I want to know if this rumor is true, so I'm going to go directly
01:18:32to the source.
01:18:36Man, it's starting to really rain out here.
01:18:38Yeah, you guys brought in the storm last night, then you're bringing it back today.
01:18:41That's not my fault.
01:18:42We need to fluff your energy.
01:18:43Have you guys seen that?
01:18:44Yeah, do that, let me see.
01:18:45Do that, do that, let me see.
01:18:47Oh, yeah, I receive it.
01:18:48I receive it.
01:18:49I receive it.
01:18:50Good energy, good energy.
01:18:51I receive it.
01:18:51I receive it.
01:18:52All right, help me out.
01:18:53I saw this.
01:18:54It's like fluffing your aura, they call it.
01:18:56Don't do too much, it's okay, it's okay, it's okay.
01:18:58He doesn't need it, it's okay.
01:18:59I'm kind of jealous, yeah.
01:19:01He's like, stop fluffing his aura.
01:19:03That's crazy.
01:19:04I appreciate her positive vibe, but I don't know if Courtney's ever heard the word fluffer
01:19:12before.
01:19:13I feel like that word is used in other ways that sounds kind of crazy for her to walk up
01:19:20to two guys and go, I'm going to fluff you guys.
01:19:23It sounds crazy.
01:19:26So, I fluffed your aura, do you feel better now?
01:19:30I guess so.
01:19:30I mean, this thing just started, so I'm going to try not to feel negative about it, but
01:19:35you know, Elise, the way that she's been coming at me, like, it's been so messy, it's way
01:19:41too early for all this.
01:19:42Yeah.
01:19:43It's just, it seems like another messy situation where I'm, I don't know, I don't know what
01:19:47to, what to do or what to think or where to go with it.
01:19:50I mean, yesterday the tensions are probably high.
01:19:53It's like a weird situation that somebody I like and you're watching him flirt with multiple
01:19:56like hot girls and do stuff.
01:19:58Like, I think I would be like...
01:20:00And, but at the same time, that, that reaction is way too extreme.
01:20:04Too much, yeah.
01:20:04So, I was interested all the way up until she blew up on me over here last night.
01:20:09Personality all about beauty, you know?
01:20:11Hey, especially if it's going to be like that.
01:20:13Well, hopefully she doesn't continue to try to, to, like, come at me about anything and hopefully
01:20:21she doesn't bad mouth me about, uh, to other people.
01:20:24I think you guys should go, well, yeah, she needs to talk to the dating coach.
01:20:28I think she needs to talk to the dating coach.
01:20:30I think she's got some really unhealthy dating habits.
01:20:33Yeah.
01:20:33I don't want to give her more ammo to, to attack me with.
01:20:36Like, clearly she is very unstable and ready to attack somebody that she barely knows over
01:20:41things that are trivial, like, oh, you talked to me on the phone this morning.
01:20:45As if I'm, like, wrong to do that.
01:20:48I came here to find love, like, to find a real connection with somebody that brings me peace.
01:20:53And it's like, on the second day, I got somebody yelling at me in my face.
01:20:56And it's like, that's, that's what my marriage was.
01:20:59And moving on from that, I don't want to waste my time again.
01:21:04I can't be with somebody like that.
01:21:06Somebody who doesn't, who just, like, turns on me.
01:21:08Elise, she's the wrecking ball of who knows what you're going to get.
01:21:12And she's very demanding and very, like, aggressive.
01:21:15I don't want extra drama for no reason.
01:21:19She's, she's going to figure it out one day that if she did like me, she shot herself in the foot.
01:21:24Hopefully, I can redeem myself with some of the other ladies here and we'll see what happens.
01:21:30Just, just take it easy, you know?
01:21:32Yeah.
01:21:38You're Rob.
01:21:40Hi.
01:21:47Next time on 90 Day Hunt for Love.
01:21:50Talk to me about the pillow.
01:21:52This pillow.
01:21:54Is that you?
01:21:55That is me.
01:21:55I love that you have that with you, knowing that you were going through a rough time.
01:22:00Learning 101 was a disaster, but I still got game when it comes to turning on the charm.
01:22:05Do you think you have the courage to ask me out tonight?
01:22:09Or Courtney?
01:22:13Let's go, party time!
01:22:18Rocky, Rocky, do your hands again!
01:22:23I love Margaritas.
01:22:28Yeah, I do too.
01:22:29Hey guys, how's it going?
01:22:31With Jen, I feel like there's definitely like a connection, like we're vibing.
01:22:35I like Jen a lot, but Cole's not letting anybody talk to Jen.
01:22:39Hopefully, he has good intentions, but yeah, it seems like it's pretty messy.
01:22:42What the f***?
01:22:47Even though I feel like I'm not in my league, I'm going to ask Mayow on a date.
01:22:51But I'm still keeping my eyes on Courtney.
01:22:55Do you have any dates planned?
01:22:57No, not yet.
01:23:00I heard that you paid for a stripper.
01:23:04Then you'd like to watch.
01:23:06For six years, I've been having to defend my sexuality.
01:23:10It's like low-hanging fruit.
01:23:11She knows that that's an easy way to upset me.
01:23:14What are you going around saying all this s*** about me to everybody that I like men?
01:23:19Everybody knows the truth!
01:23:20Because you're telling everybody stuff.
01:23:23You've been talking s*** about me too for the last seven years, and now it's my s*** turn!
01:23:28Throw the s*** up!