Open House The Great Sex Experiment Season 1 Episode 6
Open House The Great Sex Experiment S1E06
Open House The Great Sex Experiment S1
#OpenHouseTheGreatSexExperiment
#OpenHouse
#TheGreatSexExperiment
#OpenHouseSeason3
#S3E3
#ShowMoviesTV
🎞 Please join
https://t.me/CinemaSeriesUSFilm
Open House The Great Sex Experiment S1E06
Open House The Great Sex Experiment S1
#OpenHouseTheGreatSexExperiment
#OpenHouse
#TheGreatSexExperiment
#OpenHouseSeason3
#S3E3
#ShowMoviesTV
🎞 Please join
https://t.me/CinemaSeriesUSFilm
Category
🎥
Short filmTranscript
00:00But is it possible to open up your relationship without harming it?
00:04It's a complete mystery, the whole thing. This is it. We don't know what to expect.
00:08These curious couples are about to find out.
00:11Oh, that is gorgeous.
00:13They're traveling to a unique retreat.
00:15Hello, you all right?
00:17Where, with the help of a specialist relationship therapist...
00:21Life is short. Why limit sex to just one person?
00:25..and a group of single, available and sexually liberated residents...
00:31It's just natural to have sex with multiple people.
00:36..they're about to discover if their sexual fantasies...
00:40Oh, jeez!
00:42..can become a reality.
00:44We like the idea of group sex.
00:47We were just wondering if you'd like to spend the night with us.
00:49..and whether or not they'll be able to break one of society's greatest taboos.
00:54I should have been thinking about the man that I love, and how he was zeal-in.
01:00..and have sex with other people.
01:03Oh, my God!
01:05Wow, I was not expecting that.
01:08This is the most up my comfort zone I've ever been.
01:11I'm nervous.
01:22Yeah.
01:23I've got butterflies.
01:24How are you feeling?
01:26Yeah, buzzing.
01:27Checking into the retreat are Ellie and Chaos, whose love affair began online.
01:32When I first saw Ellie, she was wearing these very small shorts...
01:36..and her bum was, like, kind of hanging out.
01:38Oi! Oi!
01:39It was a very hot day, so...
01:41You ready to have fun, Ellie?
01:42Yeah.
01:44Can't wait.
01:46Chaos was quick to take the relationship to the next level.
01:49I prepared this video.
01:51Will you be my girlfriend?
01:53And it went viral.
01:54I went bright red.
01:55I went literally the shade of a tomato,
01:57and all the comments were saying about how...
02:01Yeah.
02:02Sit!
02:03As a professional GB athlete,
02:06Chaos knows how to stay cool under pressure.
02:09I'm just a really chilled and laid-back person.
02:12I have complete trust in Ellie and what she does,
02:15so I have nothing to worry or be jealous of her.
02:18And being super fit helps him keep up in the bedroom.
02:22We do do it, like, well, every day.
02:25The chemistry is good.
02:27So we're quite adventurous.
02:29Top-notch.
02:31I would probably say that I have a very high, like, sex drive,
02:35and, yeah, it's hard to find someone that matches that.
02:38Now the couple want to find out
02:40if opening up their relationship,
02:42starting with a threesome,
02:44will help them keep the spark alive.
02:46I'd say the honeymoon period is over,
02:49but we're still very much so attracted to each other.
02:52I do think it's a bit naive to think
02:54that you can be with one person for your entire life.
02:57Can we see her?
02:59Yes.
03:00Oh, my God.
03:02How are you doing?
03:03Here to welcome them are hosts Jess and Tom,
03:06who are in a long-term open relationship themselves.
03:09How are you feeling?
03:10Very excited to see what's to come, yeah.
03:13Hello.
03:14Hello, everyone.
03:15Hi, everyone.
03:17Now, Kea.
03:18Nice to meet you.
03:19Nice to meet you.
03:20God, you look so good.
03:21Yeah.
03:21Intimacy therapist Dr. Laurie Beth
03:28wants to help the couple
03:29take their first steps into non-monogamy.
03:32Hey.
03:33Grab a chair.
03:34It's good to meet you, too.
03:35So why don't you tell me
03:36what has brought you here?
03:39We thought this would be the perfect opportunity
03:41to have a threesome.
03:42Yep.
03:43Seeing Ellie, for example,
03:45kiss another girl or anything like that,
03:47I'm attracted to that, so...
03:49I think that's Kea's ideal scenario.
03:50I mean, that's kind of every guy's dream,
03:53let's be honest, right?
03:55What do you think other people
03:56might bring to your relationship?
03:58I mean, more fun, I guess.
03:59Yeah, I guess.
04:00Yeah, okay.
04:00Yeah.
04:01More fun.
04:02Yeah.
04:03So where are you in your sexuality?
04:05I've always said I don't really label things
04:07and never consider myself as straight or bisexual.
04:10I've always had attraction to both sexes,
04:12so that's really how I feel.
04:15So opportunities are structured with that in mind?
04:18Yes, yeah.
04:19What is jealousy like for you?
04:22I've never been jealous in my life, really.
04:24I mean, I've nothing.
04:25I don't know how...
04:26Like, there's nothing that will make Kea's jealous,
04:28he says, so that's interesting.
04:30Not that I know of, anyway.
04:31Yeah, exactly.
04:33But nothing that comes to mind.
04:34What's jealousy like for you?
04:35Slightly a bit jealous.
04:37I mean, it would be strange not to be.
04:38I don't think that he would ever do anything
04:40behind my back,
04:42so I do fully trust him in that way.
04:44But I can be a little bit jealous.
04:46Okay, so before you date together,
04:50Ellie, I want you to go on a social alone.
04:54I want you to explore your bisexuality on your own first,
04:57without Kea's there,
04:59so you don't have to worry about jealousy.
05:01You'll have the opportunity to meet someone,
05:04spend the night with them,
05:05and lay the groundwork for a threesome.
05:07Yeah, that sounds good to me.
05:09Cool.
05:10It's hard to predict how someone will react
05:12seeing their partner give
05:14or receive pleasure from another.
05:16She's not actually sure she might get jealous
05:18seeing him with another woman.
05:20It can be fine one minute
05:21and absolutely not fine the next.
05:25We're gonna go away and have socials.
05:28So mine's tonight.
05:29That's what's got my nerves going,
05:31but I guess I'm excited as well.
05:33Give me a heart.
05:39We're gonna throw ourselves into it, I think.
05:42Give it 100%, see what it's about.
05:44Yeah, and have fun with it.
05:47The couple have only just arrived at the retreat,
05:50and one of them has already made a big impression
05:53on the residents.
05:55When Ellie came in, yeah,
05:57she was so confident, I was just like,
05:59I didn't even care about the car.
06:00I was just looking at her like this.
06:01That's why I said she looked classy as well.
06:02Very.
06:03She is bisexual.
06:04Oh, she is bisexual.
06:05Yeah.
06:05Oh, okay, cool.
06:06And he's straight.
06:07There's a lot of girls that are okay
06:09with getting with a girl,
06:10but wouldn't want the guy to have sex with her.
06:12Girl, yeah.
06:13So they'll be having fun,
06:14and he can just watch.
06:15Watch.
06:15Yeah.
06:19Are you scared?
06:21A little bit.
06:21Next to check into this exclusive retreat are couple Helen and Steve from Dorset.
06:28My first impression of Steve, I thought he was Jack the Lad.
06:32Remember you sent me a picture of a bed at a hotel, a four poster bed saying, are we going to hang out?
06:38I thought, who's this man think he is?
06:42She had a lovely smile, but it was her ass.
06:44She had a very nice bum.
06:45I didn't fall in love with him.
06:49He irritated me.
06:50He would contact me about three times a year on Facebook.
06:54All right, babe, when are we going to get married then?
06:57And then my house burnt down, and he offered to help.
07:01And I don't know, I kind of really fancied him with his brush, painting my walls.
07:05And now she drives a Range Rover Sport.
07:07What a life.
07:08That's what I mean.
07:09Well, Kusty, you couldn't go wrong meeting me, babe, could you?
07:12Wow.
07:13Oh, look at the river.
07:14Look at the size of that lake as well, look.
07:16Don't have too many drinks, Steve.
07:17You'd be skinny dipping in there.
07:18Damn right I will.
07:20The couple have been together for four years and have a one-year-old child.
07:25My daughter is my baby girl.
07:27My pride and joy.
07:29And she'd make anyone broody?
07:31Broody, does that mean horny?
07:32No.
07:34He's funny with words.
07:35He doesn't get them all.
07:37Helen and Steve have no complaints between the sheets.
07:40I'd rate Steve 9 out of 10 in the bedroom.
07:45This tongue is better than anything you get at Ann Summers.
07:48Ann Summers has got nothing on my tongue.
07:51That's fair.
07:52It's true, don't it?
07:52Yeah, that's fair.
07:54Oh, my gosh, the size of that.
07:57Steve and Helen are here to explore if being in an open relationship with other people can make them stronger as a couple.
08:05Here we are.
08:06Let's go.
08:07It's an opportunity to discover what we both really, truly want.
08:11I think this will make a huge difference to our relationship.
08:16Wow, pretty, isn't it?
08:17I'm excited about going on this journey.
08:19It's definitely an eye-opener.
08:20Hey, guys.
08:24It's nice to meet you.
08:26I'm going to give you a hug.
08:27How you doing, mate?
08:28You all right?
08:29Yeah, really good, mate.
08:30Smart hat, that, isn't it?
08:31Nice to meet you, Jess.
08:32Welcome to the house.
08:35Take you on a tour around the place, yeah?
08:37Yeah, I do.
08:37You want to do this way?
08:38Oh, yeah, you all right?
08:39Good, thank you.
08:40Nice to meet you.
08:41There's a sting.
08:46Yeah.
08:47He's got thrown in the deep end.
08:48Obviously, with letting them, it's quite hard.
08:50Yeah, I might feel a little bit uneasy, him going on a date with someone else.
08:54So, yeah, cross that bridge when I come into that.
09:03You've got to get me some sexy outfit.
09:05Ellie and Chaos are hoping to bring another woman into their relationship.
09:09But before they date as a couple...
09:12I mean, I'm no fashion expert, but I think it goes.
09:17Dr. Laurie wants Ellie to explore her bisexuality without having to manage her jealousy.
09:24So she's going on a solo social.
09:26I'm being a little bitch right now.
09:28You need to have it a little bit up.
09:30And they're like, yeah, like that.
09:32I love staring at a palette.
09:36If she makes a connection with someone,
09:38she'll have the opportunity to invite them to spend the night with her.
09:42It is amazing that I'm finally kind of getting to explore this
09:47when I'm in a relationship with Chaos.
09:49It's going to be a great experience.
09:50Yeah.
09:51Sexy, yes.
09:53I think she's going to enjoy herself.
09:55And I look forward to hearing all the gossip about it.
09:58Yeah, you look good.
10:00But I'm looking good as well.
10:01Does it look good?
10:02Yeah.
10:03I'm excited to get to know new people and have fun.
10:06I'm taking it as it comes, so we'll have to wait and see what is in store.
10:10Have fun.
10:11What?
10:12No.
10:13See you tomorrow.
10:14I'll see you tomorrow.
10:15Love you too.
10:16I'll see you tomorrow.
10:46I don't know what to expect.
10:48I really don't know.
10:49It would be nice to find out their expectations as well.
10:52I don't know whether they'd find me attractive.
10:56Do you have a relationship with that girl?
10:57No.
10:58Have any of you?
10:59No.
11:00No.
11:00I have.
11:02Yeah.
11:03How was that?
11:05Chaos is quite comfortable for me to get with a girl
11:07because he obviously finds that attracted to him.
11:11Hi, ladies.
11:12But he doesn't find it with men, so he wouldn't want me to do that.
11:16What are you?
11:17Sagittarius.
11:17Okay.
11:18I'm Cancer.
11:19Okay, yeah.
11:20So.
11:20Chaos is a Leo.
11:22Oh, really?
11:23My ex was a Leo.
11:25Oh.
11:25Yeah, so, like, I'm picking the same ones as well.
11:29Aries and Leos, they're, like, the ones I've always been, like, romantically involved with.
11:33So big.
11:35Yeah.
11:35Yeah, like, literally no other signs.
11:37Me being Aries, in case.
11:39I know.
11:40It's the best of you.
11:42How long have you two been together for?
11:44A year.
11:45Oh, okay.
11:45Like, we were dating before that.
11:48Oh, okay.
11:48And we were pretty much exclusive when we were dating, so it's been more than a year.
11:51Yeah, a bit efficient.
11:52Yeah.
11:52A year.
11:53Yeah.
11:54Well, our anniversary is on the 27th of this month.
11:56Oh, okay.
11:57So, see.
11:58Do you have any people coming up to him?
11:59Uh, no, not yet.
12:00A threesome.
12:01Yeah!
12:02A threesome!
12:02Don't!
12:03That's what he wanted for his birthday.
12:04Oh, my God!
12:05Of course he did.
12:06Great.
12:06So you're available on the 27th?
12:08Yeah.
12:09Oh, you know.
12:09You should have had it before.
12:12Cheers, Libby.
12:14Cheers.
12:14To help Ellie get comfortable with non-monogamy, the residents have arranged a game of spin
12:20the bottle.
12:21That's you.
12:22That is a homeset you, girl.
12:24Whee!
12:26Kissing someone else while in a committed relationship is a first for Ellie.
12:32I'm nervous because I feel like it's all eyes on me, so that makes me very nervous.
12:40Hey.
12:41Oh, let's go on, let's go.
12:43Literally.
12:43It's easy because we're sat next to each other.
12:45Exactly.
12:47Whee!
12:48Hey!
12:48Yes!
12:49Yes, ladies.
12:51That's really cute.
12:52Yeah, you've got very nice lips.
12:54Oh, thank you.
12:55Yeah.
12:56For me, kissing the girls, there's no feelings involved.
12:59Hey!
13:00Hey!
13:01It's just a game.
13:03Like, just have fun with it.
13:04Game over.
13:12Ellie's decided she would like to spend time alone with one of the residents.
13:16With girls, it's harder to choose.
13:19They're all so lovely.
13:20And I didn't get to kiss Gracie.
13:23And obviously, she's, like, so pretty.
13:25And I chose Gracie.
13:27Yay!
13:27Woo!
13:28Woo!
13:28You're so amazing!
13:29Yay!
13:30For Ellie, the date is an opportunity to lay the groundwork for a threesome before boyfriend
13:38Chaos gets involved.
13:39Her vibe is great.
13:41Like, she seems really fun.
13:43I do fancy Ellie, yeah.
13:44She is really, really sweet.
13:46She's definitely my type.
13:47So, yeah, I think me and Ellie got on really, really well.
13:50And the girls could see it as well.
13:52So, that's also a good sign.
13:55It definitely makes me nervous, but I just take it step by step.
13:59And, you know, if you're comfortable with it, then just have fun with it.
14:14Ellie is on a date without Chaos before the couple trial opening up their relationship together.
14:22Would you like to even do the honors?
14:23Yeah, you first, darling.
14:26Oh, adorable.
14:27This is cute.
14:28This is literally, like, glamping.
14:30It is, isn't it?
14:31And she's invited Grace to spend some one-on-one time with her.
14:34I'm going to take my heels off.
14:36Please, get comfortable.
14:38Cheers.
14:39Chin-chin.
14:39This is obviously my first time on a date with a girl, so that is really exciting.
14:45And, like, I can't wait to explore that side of my sexuality.
14:49I guess you're, like, open to getting to, like, know me and, I mean, Chaos as well.
14:54Yeah.
14:55You'd be happy to, like, have a relationship with someone who's in a relationship or be involved
15:00in their relationship.
15:01Like, yeah, either way.
15:02Like, because it would be me coming to, like, your two's relationship.
15:06Yeah.
15:07Whatever works best for you two.
15:10While Ellie and Grace get to know each other more intimately, Chaos is keeping himself busy.
15:16I would like to think she's having a good time.
15:21And I'll find out tomorrow.
15:24I feel a little good, just work out, just tie myself out.
15:28But the only thing is there's loads of wasps in here and bugs are a big no-no for me.
15:35Oh, fucking spiders.
15:37So I don't know how I'm going to sleep tonight in this room knowing there's two wasps flying around.
15:41Back in the yurt, the girls have found a game to play.
15:48Shall we try these dices out?
15:49Yeah, you want to?
15:53OK, so you're my lover.
15:55OK, cool.
15:56So you've got to lick me.
15:58Where do you want to...
15:58Are you having me to lick you?
16:00Are you having me to lick you?
16:01OK, I'll just let you be surprised.
16:04Oh, my goodness.
16:11That was nice.
16:12That was nice.
16:12And that's actually, like, one of my spots.
16:14So I was like, ah!
16:16Like inside.
16:17OK, cool.
16:18No.
16:19I threw myself into it and, like, tried to see whether I could develop, like, a deeper connection.
16:25OK, my turn.
16:28Massage.
16:29Oh, my God, yes!
16:30Wow!
16:31You've got very, very, very soft skin.
16:35Yeah, it's very nice.
16:37It's so good.
16:40Amazing!
16:41Well, clearly it was just kiss my boobs, so feel free to kiss my boobs.
16:47Yeah, well, I'll give a little...
16:49Loved it.
16:53Yeah?
16:54Yeah.
16:54Before I turn the light off, do you want to have a little kiss?
17:04It feels like, you know, it would have been so much tonight.
17:09It was quite a new experience, so maybe, I don't know, maybe I was just a bit nervous.
17:13It's kind of hard for me when I already have an emotional connection with someone else in a relationship.
17:19Committed couple Helen and Steve have come to the retreat to explore opening up their relationship to other sexual partners.
17:36Hey, guys.
17:37Hello.
17:38Come on in and sit down.
17:39Dr. Laurie is on hand to help the couple brave their first few steps into non-monogamy.
17:44So, what brought you here now?
17:49I want to date other people, have a connection with someone.
17:53You're the driving force. Would that be a fair thing to say?
17:56Would you say me?
17:57Yeah, definitely.
17:58On this experience, I've pushed this a little bit more because I want Steve to recognize things that are important in a relationship.
18:07Because there's a lot of things that we don't do together.
18:10What's the romance like in your relationship?
18:13Steve's very, very busy.
18:14All the time.
18:15You know, I'm a busy person too.
18:18We don't have a massive amount of time for each other.
18:21If romantic is nice, I could write you a list.
18:24I'm always nice to her like that.
18:25I'm just that sort of guy.
18:27Isn't it?
18:27That's not romantic.
18:28Romance is whining and dying someone and taking them out.
18:31We've not been for a date yet.
18:32I'd check you on the back of my jet ski.
18:34Steve, do you have any ideas of things that you would like to do?
18:37I don't think I could just meet someone and just jump into a bedroom.
18:41I think they'd have to get to know the people more.
18:43Consensual non-monogamy takes lots of different forms.
18:46This gives you the opportunity to see how different things feel and to challenge some of your boundaries that come from monogamy.
18:53We've got quite a good relationship with sort of, you know, we don't have the insecurities or anything.
18:59You love me, don't you?
19:01Of course, babe.
19:01Oh, there you go.
19:02Well, that was a pretty quick response.
19:04So tonight, you're each going to go on a social, spending the nights separately.
19:12Then you're each going to have the opportunity to choose somebody to spend one-to-one time with.
19:17You don't have to do anything, but I'm encouraging you to push out the boat a little bit.
19:22Yeah, lovely.
19:24Come on then, Steve.
19:26Nice to meet you.
19:27See you later on.
19:27You too.
19:31This is a really interesting couple.
19:34I suspect that there's an emotional void in Helen that is really driving this whole thing.
19:39But I'm not sure that meeting and potentially having sex with other people is going to fill that void.
19:46I'm really curious to see how they do on their socials.
19:50That's so nice, isn't it?
19:52Yeah.
19:52Oh, so nice.
19:55So where do you find yourself at with this?
19:59I don't know.
20:00I think, I don't know.
20:02It's very hard, Steve, isn't it?
20:05Yeah.
20:06I am looking forward to my social.
20:07It's a good bunch of people.
20:09It'd be good to get out and enjoy the company and see where it takes us.
20:12I just plan to have some fun.
20:14But Steve is considering the potential risks.
20:18I wouldn't mind being game and experimenting and that.
20:21Would you let me go and bang, sorry, sleep with one?
20:24Would you let me go and sleep with one of these women?
20:26Just to go on a trial, just to see what I was like.
20:29It's not a laughing matter, this really.
20:31This is very serious decisions, Helen.
20:33All right, put the whip down.
20:37Last night, Ellie went on her first ever date with a girl.
20:47Hello.
20:47Hello, stranger.
20:49While boyfriend Chaos spent the night alone.
20:52Yeah, I think Gracie's really attractive.
20:54She has, like, such a nice smile.
20:55And, like, her skin is so good.
20:57I love her freckles, her hair, everything.
21:00But it's not that I really want to rip your clothes off kind of thing.
21:04I was, like, nervous to see my own boyfriend.
21:07I like your smile.
21:07Are they new?
21:08No, they're Gracie's.
21:13So, tell me about the night.
21:15What was your night?
21:15What did you do?
21:16No, I'll tell you.
21:17You tell yours.
21:19Well, we played Spin the Bowl.
21:22Yeah.
21:22So, I kissed Kelsey and Chanel.
21:25When Ellie told me that she was kissing multiple girls doing Spin the Bottle, I thought that was quite hot, to be honest.
21:31I mean, who wouldn't?
21:32I think that's, for me, that's a turn on.
21:35So, I've got, yeah, I'm all for that.
21:37Then, Gracie.
21:39And we went to a yurt.
21:42I ended up licking her neck.
21:43I mean, she licked my neck.
21:44And I, like, kissed her boob.
21:48You say you had quite a fun night, then.
21:50Tonight, the couple will have the chance to invite someone on a date together, in the hope of having a threesome for the first time.
21:58I just don't know how much I feel about you going and kissing people.
22:02Well, you know it's going to, something like that is going to happen, you don't know.
22:06Yeah, but, obviously, you don't have to.
22:10No, but...
22:11I'm going to be nervous and maybe, maybe jealous, I don't know.
22:15For me, him kissing girls, that's definitely tiptoeing on my boundaries.
22:30Helen and Steve are getting ready for separate socials.
22:34Got chicken legs at a minute.
22:35Dr. Laurie wants them to try and make a connection with someone,
22:38and then invite them to spend some time together, alone, on a date.
22:43My expectations are to have fun and go on dates with a couple of people.
22:48It will be nice.
22:49The social will be an opportunity for Helen to experience romance,
22:54something she thinks her relationship lacks.
22:57Remember Christmas Eve?
22:58I wanted us to wear Christmas pyjamas and watch a movie together when you were at the pub.
23:03Yeah.
23:04Christmas, innit, is when you go out, Christmas, innit?
23:05No, family time.
23:06Family time.
23:08I'm out of here.
23:09Oh, have fun.
23:11Love you.
23:12I'm off.
23:12The retreat's sexually liberated residents are ready to welcome the couple.
23:26Sorry, thank you.
23:27Hello.
23:29I'm good, thank you.
23:30Nice to see you.
23:31You look stunning.
23:31Thank you, man.
23:32Look, I swear.
23:34Steve, how you doing, Tom?
23:36Are you all right?
23:36How you doing, man?
23:37You get many parties like this, do you?
23:38No, it's not.
23:39No, absolutely not.
23:40Hello.
23:43How you doing, you all right?
23:44How you doing?
23:44How you doing?
23:44You doing all right?
23:45Enjoy.
23:46Have a nice evening.
23:47I'll catch you later, Steve.
23:48What's happening, girls?
23:49So what brings you here, then?
23:50Experience, innit?
23:51Yeah.
23:52I've never done anything like this before.
23:54I just mean, like, like, an open relationship.
23:56No, never.
23:57You know, I went on dates or anything like that with anyone else, or I had, like, a threesome
24:00or anything?
24:00No.
24:01No.
24:01No.
24:02Ready to spice things up later?
24:03You're like, yeah, let's just go in.
24:05See how the boat goes, innit?
24:05Yeah.
24:06Not used to dating etiquette, Steve takes a novel approach to flirting.
24:13What's your ideal date night, then?
24:14Bit Emmerdale Farmer in front of the telly, innit?
24:17I was joking, I was joking.
24:19I'd be straight out there.
24:21Put that on a date night, you're joking.
24:24It's quite hard.
24:25I'm not really a person to talk into depth about sexual life like that.
24:28I like a bit more privacy.
24:30I don't like to boast about things that I've done or boast about things that I'd like to
24:34do.
24:35So are you, like, into anything kinky, then?
24:37I used to be very bad.
24:39What do you mean, very bad?
24:40I used to be a ladies' entertainer.
24:43No!
24:44Oh, wait, like a magic mic!
24:45You're a magic mic!
24:46Yeah.
24:47Did I see a move that you used to do?
24:49I might show you one of those.
24:50Oh, come on!
24:52What's your use?
24:52What's the typical type of person you do when they go for?
24:55I've never been all for the big sort of hench guys, kind of, all the muscles and that.
25:00At her social...
25:01You two are right, because you've got definitions.
25:04How much do you weigh?
25:05I'm 14.
25:06Helen is wasting no time getting to know the residents.
25:09That's muscle, then, innit?
25:10That's muscle.
25:11Yeah, because you've got, like, a 30-inch waist, don't you, or 28?
25:14Yeah, 32, 32.
25:15Yeah, yeah.
25:16Yeah.
25:17And how tall are you?
25:18I'm 6'1".
25:19And obviously you work out.
25:21You don't do that.
25:21Lifting your breakfast spoon in the morning, do you?
25:24I love it.
25:24Do you know what I mean?
25:25These guys are great.
25:26Everyone's chatting, everything's flowing.
25:28It made me feel like I can be myself, so I'd like to know where it kind of goes from here.
25:32You've got a lot of banner right now, but as I come to one of my big water.
25:36I don't.
25:37I'm shy as they come.
25:38I feel like Helen's rolled out, and me and her were clicking, we were having a bit of banter.
25:43I'd definitely like to take her out just to show her that it can happen.
25:46Like, you can, there's more things out there.
25:49Hello, hello.
25:50How are you?
25:51You look phenomenal.
25:52You know, I got some eyelashes on, so it's all good.
25:55Fresh.
25:55Yeah.
25:55Yeah, you know.
25:56Where are you from again, sir?
25:58Dorset, Somerset.
25:59Like, so southwest-y, yeah.
26:01What do you do for a job?
26:02I just set up a barista coffee business called the Screamin' Bean.
26:05What was on your mind when you thought of Screamin' Bean?
26:08My sister said you cannot call it that because it is just disgusting.
26:13Yeah, thank you.
26:14Like a clitoris.
26:14It's a bean.
26:15It's clicky there, isn't it?
26:16I just don't know how you didn't see that, Screamin' Bean.
26:19Architect Josh has taken a shine to Helen.
26:22You sound like an experienced lady.
26:24What do you want?
26:27Commitment and time.
26:28Commitment and time.
26:31Helen's a lovely lady.
26:32I love talking to her.
26:33She just seems like an absolute genuine person that, um, just, you'd want to be around.
26:38I think with tattoos, like, people go, oh, what's your tattoo, Helen?
26:41And it just looks like a little F.
26:42Where are your tattoos?
26:43Where are your tattoos?
26:44Well, you can't really see it.
26:46It's in there.
26:47Oh, see it later.
26:49Another time in the film.
26:50See it later?
26:50Later.
26:51Yeah.
26:52And Helen has also made a connection with Josh.
26:56I liked the way that Josh asked me what it was that I wanted because that, I feel,
27:02it was important and the fact that he'd done that showed that he values the other person's
27:07sort of needs.
27:08So, uh, that one was a bit of a winner for me.
27:11On the other side of the retreat, Steve is loosening up.
27:21Wow.
27:22Will you stand up?
27:23I stand up.
27:25You're lucky.
27:26Ready?
27:27Yeah, I'm ready.
27:28Yeah.
27:29Ready?
27:29OK.
27:30He's decided to give the female residents a taste of his ladies' entertainment.
27:35I won't bite it, OK?
27:38OK, OK.
27:39Now lay down.
27:40Lay down?
27:41Lay down.
27:42Woo!
27:42Woo!
27:43Woo!
27:43Woo!
27:43Woo!
27:44Woo!
27:45Woo!
27:46The striptease dance vibe, um, I'm not gonna lie, I thought there was a dick in my
27:50mouth at one point.
27:50Woo!
27:51Yeah, that's some way to meet someone anyway, just balls straight in the mouth.
27:54Um, he's a really fun character.
27:56Woo!
27:57You can take your mask off now, are you ready?
27:59Oh, man!
28:00That was so fun!
28:01That was fun!
28:02You're not shy of me, kid.
28:03Yeah, you know, you're not.
28:04You're not shy of me, kid.
28:05You're not shy of me.
28:06I'm not shy of me.
28:08Woo!
28:09Woo!
28:10Woo!
28:11Woo!
28:12Woo!
28:13Woo!
28:14Woo!
28:15Woo!
28:16Woo!
28:17Woo!
28:18Woo!
28:19Woo!
28:20Woo!
28:21Woo!
28:22Woo!
28:23Woo!
28:24Woo!
28:25Woo!
28:26Woo!
28:27Woo!
28:28Woo!
28:29I think my striptease went down really well with the girls.
28:32They were very excited.
28:33There was a very large amount of screaming.
28:35It's nice to make someone smile.
28:37Woo!
28:38Woo!
28:39Woo!
28:40Woo!
28:41Woo!
28:42Woo!
28:43Woo!
28:44Woo!
28:45Woo!
28:46Woo!
28:47As the social winds down, Helen is getting closer to resident Josh.
28:52There's something that you said today, which made me think, yeah, that's a really decent
28:57thing.
28:58I want to know.
28:59I'm interested in you.
29:00You're a lovely, uh, a lovely person to talk to.
29:02Yeah, full of energy.
29:03And a hell of a lot of fun, that's for sure.
29:05And she's invited him to go on a romantic date.
29:10For me, it's an emotional connection with someone that I can get on with, someone that
29:15actually wants to listen.
29:16And that's the reasons why I've picked him.
29:18Shall we go?
29:19Yeah.
29:20Afternoon.
29:21Bye.
29:22Bye-bye.
29:23Helen picked me.
29:24It was a nice surprise.
29:25She had the pick of the guys, and she brought a lot of laughter out of me.
29:29And, um, I think she's just a great person, and I just would love just to get to know
29:33her a little bit more.
29:35Post-strip, partner Steve also wants to spend some one-on-one time with one of the
29:41residents.
29:42Jess?
29:43Yeah?
29:44She told you to come and have a little bit of beer, doesn't her?
29:46Yeah?
29:47Oh, yeah, we'll have fun.
29:48Yeah, we'll just have some fun.
29:49I'm really looking forward to going and spending some quality time with Jess.
29:53She's one sort of person.
29:55Very, very weird to be in this situation, to go off with a different woman whilst my
30:00wife knows.
30:01I will enjoy it.
30:02Oh, my God.
30:03Jess!
30:04Jess!
30:05Jess!
30:06Jess!
30:07Jess!
30:08Jess!
30:09Jess!
30:10Jess!
30:11Jess!
30:12Jess!
30:13Jess!
30:14Jess!
30:15Jess!
30:16Jess!
30:17Jess!
30:18Jess!
30:19Jess!
30:20Jess!
30:21Jess!
30:22Jess!
30:23Jess!
30:24Committed couple Helen and Steve are dating people outside of their relationship for
30:28the very first time.
30:30After you.
30:31Oh, lovely.
30:33I'm a little bit cute.
30:35I'll take your jacket if you like, but I think you're cold, so I'm not going to take
30:38it.
30:39Oh, bless you.
30:40Helen is being romanced by Josh from West London.
30:43Would you like a glass of wine first?
30:44Er, yes, please.
30:45Yeah?
30:46I'm excited to spend time with Josh.
30:49He just seemed really kind of relaxed, chilled and genuine.
30:52And I kind of like that.
30:53Me and you are going to have a fantastic time.
30:55Yeah.
30:56Look, cheers to this.
30:57Thank you for picking me.
30:58After you, Jess.
31:00It's cute in here, to be fair.
31:03While Steve is having a one-to-one with Jess from Belfast.
31:07Locking the door.
31:08Securing it.
31:09Jess is a very nice, bubbly girl.
31:13Oh, fuck!
31:14Jesus Christ.
31:15I think she's on the same wavelength as I am to see how things occur and how things
31:20progress.
31:21Steve struggled with flirting earlier, but being alone with Jess seems to bring out his playful
31:27side.
31:28So you live in Glasgow then, yeah?
31:30No, Ireland.
31:31Ireland?
31:32Pelfast, yeah.
31:33Ireland's not a different country, is it?
31:34It is.
31:35Is it?
31:36Yeah.
31:37England, isn't it?
31:38No!
31:39I like the accent, man.
31:40I like it.
31:41The Scottish accent or the Irish accent?
31:42Irish accent.
31:43Irish?
31:44Do you think I have an Irish accent?
31:45Yeah.
31:46Would you like another drink?
31:47Yeah, I'll take a tap up.
31:48What?
31:49A tap up?
31:50I'll take a tap up.
31:51A tap up.
31:52The date's going really well.
31:53Jess is quite a bubbly person and quite a good laugh to be around.
31:56She's definitely got a bit of banner and maybe we could see what progresses.
32:01Helen says she hasn't been on a single date with Steve in their whole four-year relationship.
32:06When I started working on building sites, I was scared to go up and do chimneys.
32:10You said you worked on building sites.
32:12What did you do?
32:13So small talk over dinner is providing welcome attention.
32:17I used to just like sort out concrete blocks.
32:21They're like 80 to 100 kg.
32:23Fucking hell.
32:24Are you joking?
32:25No.
32:26I got told that I'd chat people to death, but you know, it's not really a bad thing.
32:30I enjoy it.
32:31I love it.
32:32You've got a lot to say.
32:33Josh was actually really gentle and quite intensive.
32:36I kind of like that, that he actually wanted to listen to me.
32:40It was just nice.
32:42I used to be a David Beckham person.
32:46Yeah?
32:47Yeah.
32:48I used to dress up with David Beckham.
32:49I can see that to be fair.
32:50I can see that.
32:51You're definitely not Victoria.
32:52I'm not Victoria.
32:53You're definitely not.
32:54What do you mean?
32:55You're not that way.
32:56Not an insult.
32:57No, I take that as a fucking massive compliment.
32:59A compliment.
33:00Listen, you've got a bit of physique.
33:02Yeah.
33:03Yeah, that Victoria's got bones.
33:05Do you like curves then?
33:07Yeah, I like something a bit of...
33:09A bit of something.
33:10Are you more of like a boobs guy or like a bum guy?
33:12An arse.
33:13An arse guy?
33:14A bum guy?
33:15A bottom, a bottom.
33:16A bottom guy.
33:17A bottom person.
33:19From what I've understood of you so far, I feel like you need support.
33:22I feel like you need people around you that will boost you up.
33:25I feel like I've never had that.
33:28There wouldn't be nothing nicer than the fact that someone actually believing in me and guiding me.
33:34Do you give me?
33:35I love everything you subscribe to.
33:38I think you can tell that I'm having a fantastic time.
33:42Are you?
33:43Yeah.
33:44I feel like I can't comment on the situation.
33:46You can't comment on the situation?
33:47No.
33:48No?
33:49I'm enjoying myself.
33:50Of course I am.
33:51Good.
33:52I've been on a date for a long time.
33:54Tonight has been like a real eye-opener.
33:56For me, it was about getting to know someone because that's something I feel is missing from a relationship at the minute.
34:03So, yeah, I've really enjoyed my time.
34:11Back in his yurt.
34:13Do you get whipped all the time?
34:14Do you like all that whipped shit?
34:16It depends who you're whipped.
34:17And despite turning the conversation kinky...
34:20I could do more with my tongue than what most people do with the whole of their body.
34:23Yeah?
34:24Definitely, yeah.
34:25You think?
34:26Yeah, a million percent.
34:27A million percent.
34:28I'm going to Ireland with you.
34:29You're coming back with me?
34:30Yeah, I'm going to meet you there.
34:31Yeah, come on then.
34:32I'll come there.
34:33That's right.
34:34Steve's decided to call it a night.
34:38Did you have fun with me?
34:39Yeah, yeah.
34:40Good.
34:41Good.
34:42I really had a great time.
34:43Jessie's a very nice girl.
34:44If I was 21, I think, and I come on to an experience like this, I think I'd be well-gamed for doing it all.
34:50But we've been together for four years, and that's something I don't want to lose.
34:53After a night experiencing their first ever taste of non-monogamy, Dr. Laurie wants to help the couple reflect on their dates.
35:18Okay, so let's start with the early part of the evening.
35:22How was that?
35:24Fun.
35:25It was all right.
35:26I picked my date.
35:28Yeah, we shared a couple of drinks together.
35:30Mm-hmm.
35:31Yeah, we clicked.
35:32We got on really well.
35:33And yeah, he's a nice guy.
35:34I went on a date with a girl called Jess.
35:36Mm-hmm.
35:37I did a little show for the ladies while we were in there on the actual thing yesterday.
35:41So I took her with me just to get her to know her a bit more.
35:44You enjoyed the time?
35:45Oh, it was a lovely time with her.
35:47Very lovely girl.
35:48Very, very nice person.
35:49Now that you've both had romantic dates with other people, how do you feel about open relationships?
35:54The whole idea of this experience really was to sort of better our relationship.
36:00I do always feel that he lives life in the fast lane and sometimes that, you know, not all my needs are met.
36:07I do agree with what she's saying and I do work a substantial amount of time.
36:12But it has made me realize now that I do need to spend a lot more time with Helen and be more there for her.
36:17Because I'm not usually there.
36:18Oh, that's good.
36:19Which to me is a good thing about coming onto here.
36:21And it's made me realize I don't think I could be in an open relationship.
36:24No, you could just say no.
36:25Hand on my heart, I really don't.
36:26It's not unusual, you know, often couples think they're ready and then they have to go away and work on themselves and their relationships.
36:33It's taught us to sort of work on our relationship, definitely.
36:38It's been definitely an eye-opener, 100% an eye-opener.
36:43Yeah.
36:44Thank you for throwing yourselves into it and I wish you all the best.
36:47Thank you very much.
36:48Have fun.
36:49We will.
36:50Nice to meet you.
36:51You too.
36:52Take care.
36:53Bye, love.
36:54This was a really interesting couple.
37:00Helen was really not getting enough attention from him.
37:03She's not getting the romance from him that she wants.
37:05And she was hoping that non-monogamy was a solution to that.
37:09I am happy that they feel that they learned something in this process.
37:12And they felt that they had something positive to take away.
37:15After you.
37:16Definitely feel happy we're leaving.
37:18Yeah.
37:19But in a good way.
37:20Spend some more quality time definitely is a big thing.
37:22I definitely, definitely haven't spent enough time with her.
37:24And he's learned.
37:25Yeah.
37:26This has opened my eyes to see that.
37:28I didn't expect Steve just to openly say that he really wishes that he could spend more
37:35time with me.
37:36We've bettered our relationship maybe.
37:37Yeah, I think we have bettered our relationship.
37:39It did make me well up a little bit actually.
37:41You know, because it made me feel that I've got a lot of what I wanted to from this experience.
37:48Tonight, Ellie and KS are going on a social together.
38:04Hey, you look gorgeous.
38:05It's so good to see you.
38:07Yeah, I thought I'd like to see you.
38:09That would be amazing.
38:11And based on their preference, only women are invited to the party.
38:15I really like your tattoos.
38:17Oh, thank you.
38:18You have your tattoos yourself?
38:19Yeah, I've got a few random ones to be honest.
38:22If anything was going to happen in our relationship, it would be together.
38:26So it's good to experience this with Ellie.
38:29And this is the ideal scenario for me.
38:31So I'm happy.
38:32I love tattoos.
38:33What's your favourite tattoo that you have?
38:34I would say my favourite one is this one here.
38:38Because my granddad's from Barbados and he passed away, so...
38:41I think he's enjoying himself, yeah.
38:43Talking to the girls.
38:44He wouldn't.
38:45They're looking for someone to invite on a date
38:48and potentially have a threesome with.
38:50I just want to get in the pool.
38:52Have you been in the pool at all?
38:53I know!
38:54Yeah.
38:55Is it?
38:56It's a pool party.
38:57Why are we not all in the pool talking?
38:58Exactly.
38:59I like go on my back when I do that as well.
39:02Backstroke.
39:03And all anyone to see is the boobs.
39:05Just wearing like...
39:06Just two pairs of tits just like gliding.
39:10And it looks like chaos has made a connection with Precious.
39:15We should get in the hot tub is what we need to do.
39:17Have you been in the hot tub?
39:18I know!
39:19Save in these two spaces.
39:20I mean, Precious is an attractive woman.
39:24I would say physical attraction was...
39:27Yeah, it was definitely there.
39:29So, ladies, our lovely couple have made a decision
39:32on who they'd like to spend the night with.
39:33Precious!
39:34Hey!
39:35My girl!
39:38Woo!
39:39You, girl!
39:40What attracted me to Precious is that she was just...
39:42We had stuff in common and she was just easy to talk to
39:45and she's been in an open relationship before,
39:47so I think Ellie will definitely feel a little bit of jealousy
39:50as that's just her.
39:52Later!
39:53Let's go!
39:54I think if everything goes well,
39:56we have a good, you know, couple of drinks,
39:58have dinner, the chemistry's there.
40:00Who knows what could happen?
40:02No, we've never done a joint date,
40:03so, you know, that's gonna be in itself something new.
40:07Obviously, she's lovely,
40:08so that's maybe where, like, jealousy might come in.
40:11Ellie and Chaos came to the retreat
40:24to see if they could open their relationship
40:26to another woman.
40:28And tonight, they are on a date with Precious.
40:32Oh, you've got a neck tattoo.
40:35Oh, I didn't...
40:36What... Do your tattoos have any meaning?
40:38Erm, it just means I'm a gift, to be fair.
40:40Really? Fair enough.
40:42I mean, precious, gift, you know, it's just...
40:45It's just that.
40:46Yeah.
40:48I'm excited, a little bit nervous,
40:50cos I have no idea what to expect
40:52and, obviously, it's gonna be a bit intimidating at first.
40:55I'd say the best-case scenario is that Ellie's comfortable
40:58to bring Precious into our relationship.
41:03You're a boob man, aren't you?
41:05I...
41:06I think you like bums, but I think you like big boobs.
41:08Eagles.
41:09You like both.
41:10But if I choose, I would go bum over boobs.
41:12Oh, yeah.
41:13Yeah.
41:14I think the emotions were just running high with me,
41:16cos I got the feeling that she wanted us to dive in
41:19and try more, but the wobble came from just me
41:24not wanting to do anything.
41:27Precious, who's been in multiple open relationships,
41:30is worried Ellie might not be entirely comfortable with the situation.
41:34So, when a girl kisses, you know...
41:37Yeah.
41:38Do you go...
41:39Oh, yeah, well, that's never...
41:41That hasn't happened, no.
41:42So, if I kissed him, you would get upset?
41:44Yeah.
41:45I don't know.
41:46Oh, you see?
41:47Like, if you asked me...
41:48Yeah, you'd be like, I don't care.
41:49I would be like, dad again.
41:50Exactly.
41:51So, like, I don't know.
41:52So, you have to be sure.
41:53Exactly.
41:54So, then that makes me think, like, I might then, you know...
41:55Then you aren't.
41:56I think I overthink it.
41:58Why are you so reserved about it?
41:59I was scared about it.
42:00I don't know.
42:01Because I feel like...
42:02I feel like I'd get jealous.
42:03Do you think you'd get jealous?
42:04Yeah.
42:05You're stunning and you seem like you've got your confidence.
42:06Yeah.
42:07Right?
42:08The person who ever kisses your boyfriend is not going to take him away.
42:11He's yours.
42:13She's still insecure about sharing her boyfriend, her partner,
42:18with somebody else.
42:19And she's concerned that he will then get more attached to the other person.
42:25OK.
42:26Well, I'm going to pop.
42:27I'm going to go, I think.
42:28It's hard to imagine, you know, your partner getting someone on a sexual level.
42:33I don't know what it is.
42:34I feel insecure, like...
42:36I know that Ellie was upset, but, obviously, this is a hard thing to do
42:40because we are emotionally invested in each other.
42:43We love each other.
42:44Last night, Ellie and KS's date ended prematurely.
42:55Hey.
42:56Hey, you all right?
42:57Yeah.
42:58You're comfortable.
42:59Now, Dr. Laurie wants to help the couple work through what happened.
43:03How was last night?
43:04Um, I wasn't, like, comfortable with doing, like, things with other people, I guess.
43:12Right.
43:13My insecurities and jealousies, yeah, it was a difficult thing to go through.
43:18If you had to put a name to those insecurities, what are they?
43:23Like, how would you describe them?
43:26Um...
43:29Like, not feeling good enough.
43:31In general or with him?
43:33No, like, myself.
43:34In yourself.
43:35So when you look at the world, that's how you feel.
43:38Yeah.
43:39So have you compared yourself to other people?
43:42Yeah, definitely, yeah.
43:44And yet, you're a gorgeous woman, right?
43:49And he clearly adores you.
43:52Correct.
43:53Yeah, well, I'm, yeah, and I'm seeing that as well, so...
43:56What's come out of this is that considering opening up
43:59and considering non-monogamy has brought up your feelings of not being good enough.
44:04Yeah, you know, it's not, it's not a jealousy.
44:09I don't know, um, it's hard to explain, but...
44:12You're not describing jealousy.
44:13What you're saying is that you end up feeling uncomfortable because you don't feel good enough.
44:18And the fear then is, I'll be replaced.
44:21And so, coming here has highlighted that.
44:24Yeah.
44:25So you can actually go away and work on that particular bit.
44:28You know, non-monogamy is, like, difficult.
44:30Yeah.
44:31You're not yet ready to open up.
44:32You're just not there.
44:33Yeah.
44:34You've got work to do on your own.
44:36And as a couple, to be in a place where you will be able to open up
44:40and feel strong enough in the relationship.
44:43It's been wonderful to have you here as our guest.
44:45I've really enjoyed meeting you.
44:48It's been so good meeting you as well.
44:50I think you'll do fine.
44:51Thank you very much.
44:52Cheers.
44:53We're all very good at hiding our vulnerabilities.
44:57And it's only when things are out of our control or out of our comfort zone that these vulnerabilities surface.
45:06It's really hard to know if non-monogamy will work for you or not until you try it.
45:12We thought we would test, like, dip our toes in the waters and see what we think of it.
45:16But speaking about it and then doing it is a completely different thing.
45:21We're so happy that we did it, really.
45:22I think that it's something great that, like, everyone, if they could, like, have a go.
45:27You all right with that?
45:29Yep.
45:30All good.
45:31You got that?
45:32Yes.
45:33There we go.
45:34This process has definitely brought us closer as a couple.
45:59If you're a curious couple or single and are interested in being part of the next open house experiment,
46:11visit Channel 4's website Tech Park page.