00:00We made this for him right after we were matched in, like, November 2019, and so it's got a little.
00:10We have in action!
00:25The thing that bothers me the most is that China won't give us a clear answer.
00:29Because right now, you're just leaving a bunch of families like myself and all these other families that have been waiting for five years wondering.
00:35Until we get an absolute no, we're going to keep trying to get him.
00:46International adoption is always, like, the last resort for a child.
00:49But the problem is, as far as we know, our son, as well as many or all of the 300 children
00:55that have been waiting have all been available for domestic adoption.
00:58Because children, like both of our sons, their files were flagged for, like, special medical needs, things like that.
01:05The likelihood of them being adopted domestically is probably quite low.
01:09Overall, our biggest concern is, obviously, the longer the time goes, like, the worst possibly.
01:28You know, he's in pain, maybe there's some lifelong disability because he didn't get surgery when he was four.
01:35The time he was four.
