全新升级《聊点心事》来了✨
本期邀请了人气网红夫妻Jasmine和阿旺来分享【结婚这件事】，听听看他们对婚姻有很么见解吧～
本期邀请了人气网红夫妻Jasmine和阿旺来分享【结婚这件事】，听听看他们对婚姻有很么见解吧～
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00:00I was scared of him, because we were talking about a lot, but I didn't talk about it.
00:06I didn't want to see him.
00:07Then I saw him, and I saw him, and I saw him.
00:11Then I saw him, and I saw him.
00:14Then I was like, you're a young child?
00:17How can I do this?
00:19You know, you know, it's not possible.
00:22But you really love him.
00:23Do you want to be together?
00:25Is the process more important?
00:26Or is the process more important?
00:27I think the process is more important.
00:29The process will change the result.
00:31The process will change the result.
00:32Really, it will change the result.
00:39Let the world have a open source.
00:40Let the story have a open source.
00:42I'm B-B-B and I'm Lio Xiu Wei.
00:44We're shocked!
00:47We're back again!
00:48I had a big impression of her.
00:50I liked it.
00:51I talked with the creator of the company.
00:53What should we do?
00:56What do you do?
00:59We're thinking about 2unkin.
01:00We'll move on.
01:01Some 2unkin.
01:02It's a new relationship.
01:03Change the legend.
01:04I do see a new relationship.
01:05This time, we're going to talk about your story.
01:07Let us hear your story.
01:08Let us know about your story.
01:09We'll be aware.
01:10We will talk about your story.
01:11I will ask the guest with the guest.
01:14This topic is related to love.
01:15So, we have to talk about love and marriage.
01:17There are a lot of people who like to talk about love
01:19But it won't be suitable for婚
01:22This is what I've been doing recently
01:24So we'll ask our guest guest
01:27Jasmine and Awang
01:28Let's talk about today's topic
01:30I'm Awang
01:31I'm Jasmine
01:32We're a wife
01:34We're a wife
01:35We're a wife
01:36We're a wife
01:37We're a wife
01:39We're a six-year-old
01:40I'm a six-year-old
01:41I'm a six-year-old
01:42She's a six-year-old
01:44She's a six-year-old
01:45And you're a one-year-old
01:46That's a popular one
01:47ows you
01:49No
01:50们只要聊得就是跟战爱和结婚有关
01:53这两个你们都经历过了
01:54人家们就非常有仪式感
01:57准备了
01:58我们听众的故事
02:00让你们打给
02:00哦 全部都是听众的投稿
02:02我们只选异名
02:03来是你呢
02:04我们自己聊他的故事
02:05我和前男友谈了快五年
02:08从大学到初社会
02:10我们一直说以後要结婚
02:12也见过双方的父母
02:13I thought we were just going to have a couple of months
02:16But last year, she suddenly said
02:19I didn't prepare for it
02:21Then we just split up
02:23She understood her
02:24But in that time, I was really崩溃
02:27The most frightened of me is
02:28She was very loving me
02:30She didn't come out
02:31But she said that we don't like to marry
02:34I still don't know if she really doesn't love me
02:38Or she's afraid of婚姻
02:40I want to remind you
02:41Do you agree with me?
02:43Do you agree with me?
02:45Do you agree with me?
02:47I just heard from my friend that I heard a similar story
02:51But it was a girl who said we don't like to marry
02:55But the girl is having a new love
02:59And she was also in a lot of years
03:01It was about around 67 years
03:03But why did she suddenly have a new love?
03:06She said she didn't like to marry
03:08She said they don't like to marry
03:10She said that she had a new love
03:12She said that she had a new love
03:14If you have a new love
03:16She would love to marry
03:17But you know that she can't be able
03:18She can't be able to marry
03:20She would love to marry
03:21At least I would like to tell her
03:23We don't like to marry
03:25We don't like to marry
03:26We don't like to marry
03:27She would love to marry
03:28She would love to marry
03:29She would love to marry
03:30But if she had a new love
03:31She would love to marry
03:33She would love to marry
03:35If she would love to marry
03:37If I was a girl
03:39If I was a girl
03:41I would like to marry
03:42She would love to marry
03:43She would love to marry
03:45She would love to marry
03:47She would love to marry
03:49There are 5 years of time in your head
03:51And then you suddenly say
03:54I haven't prepared for you
03:55I don't want to get married
03:57And then you have to split
03:59So what I think is
04:01Do you feel like you are using me
04:03Or do you want me to do it
04:05Or do you want me to do it
04:06Or do you want me to do it
04:08So if I was a girl
04:10I think this is a good thing
04:12Maybe it's a good thing
04:14At least I haven't
04:16With this person
04:18If it's a person's pattern
04:20I think it's a good thing
04:22I think it's a good thing
04:24I think it's all to be together
04:25I think it's all to be together
04:27I think it's all to be together
04:29Especially for us
04:30You mentioned it
04:31What year?
04:32The 6th year
04:33The 6th year
04:34The 6th year
04:36From my biggest meeting
04:38Until now
04:39We were far from about the 6th year
04:41You had a long meeting
04:43How long after that?
04:446th year
04:45Not 6th year
04:47No, no, no.
04:49The 6th year, the 6th year.
04:50The 19th year.
04:51We have a year.
04:52We have a year.
04:53We have a year.
04:54We have a few months.
04:55About six months.
04:58That's about.
04:59The six months I split up.
05:00I'll happen more.
05:01Because I was a guy with my wife,
05:02I was a guy with my wife.
05:03I have a family and I have everything.
05:04I have a family and I have a family here.
05:06Then I have a family.
05:08I have a family and I have a family with her.
05:10What kind of thing you want to do with her?
05:14I think it's a good thing.
05:16It's a good thing.
05:17I don't know, but I'm sure I'm sure it's a good time for me to take care of you.
05:24I can understand that when we were not in the same time, you thought you lost something.
05:33It will allow you to know that you didn't have me.
05:36When I was normal with you, I was able to do something.
05:41I was like, I don't know what to do.
05:43I don't know what to do.
05:46I don't know what to do.
05:49I don't know what to do.
05:51I don't know what to do.
05:53It's a good time.
05:55We don't know what to do.
05:57We don't know what to do.
05:59Or is to thank.
06:01Or is to thank.
06:02I think that people really need to know that.
06:06They need to know that they are not in the best.
06:10It's to see the best that they have.
06:15And you also want to appreciate that.
06:17And you also want to see them.
06:21I don't know what to do.
06:24I don't know what to do.
06:26I don't know what to do.
06:28I don't know what to do.
06:31I don't know what to do.
06:33I don't know what to do.
06:36I don't know what to do.
06:38I don't know what to do.
06:40Because it's because there are baby.
06:42Just not so much.
06:43But if you don't know what to do.
06:44You will not know what to do?
06:46I don't know what to do.
06:47I don't know what to do.
06:48I think we need to have more time to get more.
06:51Because we need to do things too much.
06:53It's not too much.
06:54We are now in this kind of situation.
06:56We have a lot of people who haven't seen.
06:59And it's a very serious thing.
07:02For example,
07:03you can get a couple of them.
07:05Do you know how many people can come back to you?
07:08Okay.
07:09Because I've got a lot of information,
07:10I've always asked me how I can get a couple of them.
07:13They have a lot of people who want to come back to you.
07:14They have a lot of people who want to come back to you.
07:17But if you don't want to come back to you,
07:18it's another kind of relationship.
07:20We have them all in their own time.
07:23Then we have to follow something that's more of the issue.
07:26It's more of a responsibility,
07:29They are taking support from you.
07:30It's a pretty hard.
07:32If we don't have a lot of people.
07:34We don't want to talk about them.
07:36We have had an impact on them,
07:39so we would be able to deal with them in the third phase.
07:43So we have to talk about them.
07:44We want to find something more,
07:46we need to interact.
07:47We need to know more within them.
07:48So we don't have a lot of people.
07:49We don't like them.
07:49We liked them.
07:52That's when we started talking,
07:54so we were going to start learning.
07:57Then we were going to work together.
07:59He's also very stro цент.
08:00I'm strong.
08:02I've seen it all about the two,
08:03and I just see what we are doing here.
08:06I had to feel like a kid.
08:08I was just like,
08:09I'm just like,
08:10so I'm not feeling that I'm really thinking,
08:11but when it was very bad.
08:15I haven't seen him yet,
08:17I haven't seen him from her.
08:18I think that's the point of view of the child
08:24because she is a girl's job
08:27so she can get to the job
08:31it is a lot more than I am
08:33I may be like three months
08:35one of the big jobs
08:37and other things are some small stories
08:39My job is not much
08:41so I will not have to do the job
08:44so it will be in your hands
08:46it will be in my hands
08:47I would like to take care of the things
08:49because my time is more comfortable
08:51but I didn't see it
08:53so that's the point of time
08:55I have a lot of time
08:57but I don't have to worry about it
08:59but I don't have to worry about it
09:01I don't have to worry about it
09:03That's when you feel like
09:05is your love?
09:07It's not good
09:09because when I was married
09:11I was your husband
09:13I want to protect your mind
09:15I have to worry about it
09:17I'm not a bad at all
09:19I have to understand
09:21the idea of the young man with the young man
09:23has been unable to
09:25women still don't want to be able to
09:27do it
09:28even if he needs to be able to be able to be able to go
09:30but they also don't want to do it
09:32I think the idea of the young man
09:34is that I'm a man
09:35but if he comes back
09:36I can't be able to be able to
09:38so I don't need to be able to
09:39be able to be able to
09:41be able to be able to
09:42so many people
09:43they will be thinking a lot
09:45very far
09:45so we as a young man
09:48will not have any of them
09:50what they would think
09:51maybe they would think
09:53they would think of
09:53they would think of
09:55but we would think of
09:57he would think of
09:58what we do
09:59we would think of
10:01this is my mind
10:05that time I was thinking
10:06there is no way to
10:09to go
10:09to go
10:10so I just said
10:12If you don't find your own problems, then you will start
10:21怨天、怨地、怨别人, what is their problem.
10:25You two from the body, in the relationship between the two people,
10:28you know that you want to be a family.
10:31Do you have to be able to do that?
10:34I am able to do that.
10:35I am able to do that, but I need time.
10:39I need time.
10:40Because I don't have to do that.
10:43I mean, I don't have to do that in my own mind,
10:46so I don't have to do that in my own mind.
10:48But I can do that for all the time.
10:50But it's not that he needs to do that.
10:53He can do that, so he can get my kids.
10:55And he is also her, he is he.
10:56He is for me for the child, but I am for the child.
11:01So you have a lot of things.
11:04No, you are not for the child, but for the child.
11:07And then for the child to me.
11:09You don't know why you're doing that.
11:11But I think there's been many things that happened.
11:17I have a conclusion.
11:20I don't know why.
11:23I think we should be happy.
11:26I think we should be happy.
11:29We should be happy, but we can feel it.
11:33We should be talking about the two people.
11:35we are not talking to them about the way to talk to them.
11:37But we are not talking about the family.
11:39We are talking about the family.
11:41So, I think we are related to the relationship between the two.
11:43You can continue to put in a relationship with the kids,
11:45and have a child's relationship with the kids.
11:47And the things that we are most敏感.
11:49So, we are talking about the relationship between the two kids.
11:51I think that the relationship between the two kids...
11:53If you talk about the relationship between the two kids,
11:55and you can do it so far?
11:57This is a lot of sex with all the children.
11:59I think the women are not really concerned about the relationship.
12:01I will say, I will give them a bit more care.
12:03But I don't want to know it
12:05I don't want to know it
12:07So I just want to know it
12:09So I want to know it
12:11I will need it to have it
12:13You can buy it
12:15We don't need to have it
12:17But you need to have it
12:19You need to have it
12:21To protect it
12:23Because many people
12:25are not able to
12:27take care of it
12:29Maybe they should
12:31I want to take care of it
12:33I want to take care of it
12:35If I didn't have it
12:37You can do it
12:39Do you think that the other person
12:41is just talking about love
12:43You have to be talking about
12:45We are thinking
12:47I feel like
12:49Yes
12:51That's not like
12:53We are just like
12:55We are just like
12:57We are looking for
12:59We are thinking
13:01It's not like
13:03There is no one
13:05can take care of it
13:07That is why we
13:08will do a分手
13:09Because I asked her
13:10There is no
13:11she has to be
13:12She said that
13:13And then that
13:14She was like
13:15she said that
13:16I can't
13:19She was like
13:20just have a bunch of people who can't win
13:21And then I came back to see something different
13:24It was something he'd never saw
13:26And that I would see that it was a guy who'd see it
13:29He's like the guy who's right
13:31I think he's a couple of two sides
13:33There's one thing that you know
13:35You know, you know, you can't even know the person
13:36But you really love the person
13:38Because the process is more important?
13:39Is the process more important?
13:40Or is it the result?
13:41Because you're going to be able to feel worse
13:43Does it feel like the process more or less?
13:45Or is it feel good?
13:45Or is it feel the process more or more?
13:47I think the process is more important
13:49So you will still be with it in a way?
13:50Because the process will change the result.
13:51The process will change the result.
13:53Really, because of our experience is like this.
13:56It's because I want to see people many times.
13:59Yes, but it's still not.
14:02Yes, it's not.
14:04It's because once again, you see the change change.
14:07This is what I hear from you today.
14:12Like I said, when I read it on the website, I feel very nervous.
14:17I feel like I have no idea.
14:20But I don't think he can change the result.
14:23Look at you in this process,
14:25you have to continue to see and share with you.
14:27If you have a relationship, the result will go wrong.
14:30That's another one.
14:32Because now there are many people who are born.
14:34If you have a couple of years,
14:37your parents, your friends, your friends, your family.
14:40If you have a relationship with you, you have a relationship with you.
14:43If you突然遇到 a good situation,
14:46he is very rich, he is very rich, he is very safe.
14:50He loves you, but you are not very loving him.
14:53He is a good relationship with you.
14:54You can consider him a good relationship.
14:56I think that your feeling is important.
14:58That person is just as good as he loves you.
15:01But if you don't love him, it's hard to go to the side.
15:05You can go to the side of the side.
15:06You can go to the side of the side.
15:08You can go to the side of the side.
15:09If I was a young man, he is very rich,
15:11that woman is very rich.
15:12I don't want to do this with him.
15:15But he is a good relationship with him.
15:16Because many people say that you first look at him,
15:19you can't like this person.
15:20But he will always always love you.
15:22He will always love you.
15:24This one I will do.
15:25He is a kind of like,
15:26he is always trying to love for him.
15:28Because my family is a love family.
15:31So I was from小 to大,
15:32I was a young man of a young man.
15:36He is different?
15:37He is different.
15:38He is different, he is different.
15:40I am the same with him.
15:42He is different.
15:43I don't know if you heard of the second family.
15:45The second family is different.
15:47He is different.
15:50He is different.
15:51He are more angry.
15:53He is more angry.
15:55He is more angry.
15:56But we also love him.
15:58He has been very good at the end.
16:00The first one, whether it's a man or a woman,
16:03it's always very good for you.
16:04Because it's the first one.
16:05The second one,
16:06it's always a good idea.
16:08It's a good idea.
16:11It's a good idea.
16:13So the second one,
16:14it's always a good idea.
16:17It's not a good idea.
16:18I'm like,
16:19I'm in my family.
16:21It's not a good idea.
16:22It's not a good idea.
16:23But I think Jasmine's feelings are better.
16:25Because you're from one person,
16:27you're from one person,
16:28you're from one person,
16:30you're from one person,
16:31what's the biggest idea?
16:33I'm afraid I'm just a mother.
16:35I'm all used to be a mother.
16:36But I think I was a little bit of a mother.
16:38I didn't get a little bit of a mother.
16:41So that's the time that was my mother.
16:43So that's the time I didn't understand
16:45who told me to be a mother.
16:47I was just a mother.
16:49I was like a mother.
16:50And I want to do a kind of behavior
16:52for the child to see.
16:53So that's the time I would do
16:55a family attitude,
16:56a family attitude would be better.
16:57so that's the time I would do it.
16:59So that's the time I would do it.
17:00So that's the time I would do it.
17:02Because I thought
17:03I was like,
17:04I'm talking about this person.
17:05And then there were children.
17:06And then there were children
17:07I thought,
17:08actually Jasmine,
17:09I don't even know how to talk about it.
17:10Yeah.
17:11Why do you talk about it?
17:12It's a little bit.
17:13It's a little bit.
17:14It's a little bit.
17:15It's a little bit.
17:16It's a little bit.
17:17And then there were a lot of people.
17:18When I was a kid,
17:19I had a lot of people.
17:20So you had been talking about the relationship
17:23and the relationship
17:24about the relationship
17:25and the relationship
17:26was the 7th or 8th.
17:27I was the 7th or 8th.
17:29It was a little bit short,
17:30or some were very harsh.
17:31I was very harsh.
17:32I was a little bit short.
17:33I was really harsh.
17:34Oh, you really?
17:35I was a little bit.
17:36I was very long.
17:37I got a lot of time.
17:38And my friends are just throwing me to see what happened.
17:42I don't know anything like that.
17:44I'm not a cat.
17:46I'm also having a bad situation.
17:49I have a bad situation with the people.
17:51I have a lot of trouble in my life.
17:52I have a lot of trouble in my life.
17:55When we are like, what do we do,
17:56we still have to work with them?
17:58Do you know them?
18:00It's like you know.
18:02We still feel like we are still in love with them.
18:04Because I and I are like that.
18:07as I grew up in the same time,
18:09I just saw that her pattern is like that.
18:11So then I started out without it,
18:12but I started to not, I was like I got out.
18:14I was going to always pull that car,
18:16I don't want to get annoyed.
18:17So I won't let athrow next,
18:20I would be scared.
18:22I was already told he was going to move up the next time,
18:26because of his kids,
18:27so he started to be dead.
18:29I still don't compromise.
18:29I am also tired of being dead.
18:31I'm not totally kidding.
18:33So now I really hate to look at it.
18:35I will ask you, I have been doing it lately?
18:38No, I haven't seen it yet.
18:39You guys are looking very sweet now.
18:41No, I don't know.
18:42I don't know what I'm talking about today.
18:44I'm going to use the kind of fear to face you.
18:50He's very scared.
18:51I'm scared.
18:53You're because I'm scared.
18:54Yes, I'm so scared.
18:57So many times, I don't want to say that.
19:00He doesn't understand how to say that.
19:02I'm scared to say that I'm talking about my mind.
19:05It's a kind of a harm.
19:07I don't want to say that I want to say that.
19:08So I want to say that I don't want to say anything.
19:11So it's now become a violent.
19:13Jasmine's just going to say that.
19:15She'll just say that.
19:16So I found the better things.
19:19I'm scared to say that.
19:21And I'm going to say that.
19:22I'm going to say that.
19:24So it's like that.
19:26This is your point of view.
19:28I'll give you a suggestion.
19:30It's not bad.
19:32So we're now looking for a good idea.
19:37We're going to learn how to do a good deal.
19:38We're going to learn how to do a good deal.
19:42You have a good deal.
19:44What kind of deal will happen in a good deal?
19:47It's not bad.
19:49It's not bad.
19:51It's bad.
19:52It's bad.
19:53I think it's quite a lot, because there's a lot of people who are going to be together,
20:00and then they're going to bring them together, and they're going to keep them together.
20:07This is really important, because we are in this industry,
20:11we also have their own direction, and we also have their own direction.
20:15So it's not just saying that we have a couple of things,
20:18but we all need to do it.
20:21this is the only thing we need to do is one pencil,
20:23but it can't be done for many things.
20:26It's not a simple thing, you don't have to be split just straight away,
20:29you still have to take a lot more laws,
20:31you still have to put it together,
20:33you still have to do whatever different things.
20:36You still have to do it all,
20:39so you only have to do it a little bit,
20:43because a lot of people say that it's just a paper,
20:46but that paper is done for the long term,
20:48if you've never allowed to grow a child,
20:50I think I have no need to pass them into the place
20:53This era
20:54You'd like to speak speak speak
20:55And to pass that time
20:58Okay, if we think the other person is really
21:01is to go to the end
21:02You could really say that
21:03That you can even keep up with the money
21:05If you want to buy a house
21:07If you want to get together
21:08You can also give up with the money
21:10Some people would think
21:11Oh, they would be like
21:12For me just like that
21:13That is a book
21:14No part of this book
21:15Yes
21:17Never have to be open
21:19但是又在一起很久了 但是你簽了你就要想哦
21:21萬一你有一天發生什麼事情了
21:25或者是他發生什麼事情了 財產都變共同了啦
21:27這個也是慘了 他發生什麼事情你就要負責了哦
21:30那一張紙哦已經 對
21:33所以還是真的是蠻懊惱的
21:35好像我自己經歷的事情就是我跟我的前面在一起六年了嘛
21:40其實在要分手的時候
21:43也是糾結了很久 我們也是談了 為什麼不得
21:45畢竟很多年了嘛
21:47但是我覺得有好的一點是哦
21:49因為在一起很多年 你了解彼此哦
21:53在分開的時候哦 真的可以
21:55比較可以做到和平分開
21:57因為你知道你們兩個沒有想要往下一個階段去哦
22:00為什麼我們就祝福彼此
22:02我們各自可以去過各自的生活
22:04之後轉了一圈 看了外面的風景之後
22:07覺得沒有適合的人
22:09有可能彼此才是對方最重要的來源
22:12就是那時候我們分開那一段期間就是這樣子哦
22:15這很重要
22:15我也覺得很對的是你們都對你們自己負責任了
22:19當下如果沒有要的話
22:21這樣為什麼還要繼續在一起
22:23不是講說哦 我在一起六年了
22:25不要這樣容易什麼
22:26你問你自己先
22:28可是我覺得年齡也是有分別的
22:29好像如果你在二十出頭的時候哦
22:31你會覺得哎呀 無所謂 你還可以
22:34當你要三十出頭你會覺得
22:35喂不行了耶
22:36好像不對哦
22:37你的思想突然間會變不一樣
22:40不是你變了
22:41是你好像漸漸的你的人生裡面
22:43或者是你的歲月的那個 time zone到了
22:47你應該要走進下一個階段的
22:49我個人啊我是表明
22:50我是很respect你們的決定
22:52因為
22:54因為講著你們都
22:55你們都對你們自己負責任
22:56這個舉動在我看來
22:58就是我會respect的一個
23:01一個東西
23:02他就是我們都必須要
23:04為我們自己的靈魂負責任
23:06其實我收到最多的DM是
23:08他們講不可惜嗎
23:10那麼多年了
23:10要怎樣走出來
23:12我其實有想了很久
23:15我要怎麼reply他們
23:16可是我不懂我該怎麼回覆
23:18因為有時候他已經不是在於
23:21可惜不可惜的事情了
23:23有可能是經歷過很多深思熟慮之後
23:26你才會做這個決定
23:28對
23:28你由他如果是不是快樂的
23:31不是完全快樂
23:33然後還要更多的是很多的煩惱的一些
23:35阻止到自己前進的話
23:37這樣我覺得沒有會更好
23:39我跟你講
23:41我最討厭的東西就是雨露
23:43他總會啦
23:45在就是可能比較down的時候
23:48去看那種雨露剛好的
23:51這種雨露啊真是
23:53我們男人都會杜絕這種雨露
23:57因為給女生看到
23:59剛好是恰到好處的出現
24:02然後就share了
24:04我就share給你們看
24:05各種方法
24:06我就share就share了
24:07我應該朝下的時候
24:08我這樣雨露就出來了
24:09超煩的
24:10哎呦我真的是頭痛這個東西
24:11但也是好
24:12至少現在也不會成為我們的問題
24:15但是他的存在真的蠻煩的
24:17我相信有絕大多數的人啊
24:20都是被雨露這個東西有被煩過的
24:23可是他有時候蠻好的
24:24他可以讓我去懂得要怎樣表達
24:29我想要表達的這個東西
24:31對 有可能自己講不出來
24:32雨露就真的幫我們表達到最正確的
24:35我們的想法
24:37而且有時候真的是這樣的
24:38就是你不想要跟對方直接講
24:40雨露幫我說話啦
24:42對
24:43我覺得女神都會這樣
24:44你就共識去Story
24:45你就覺得她看得到的
24:46對
24:47可是我覺得你們真的蠻小可愛的
24:49好像在我今天跟你們聊之前
24:51其實我對婚姻以前是抱著很憧憬的
24:54之後就漸漸的變成一種恐懼的感覺
24:57就會很害怕承擔
24:58漸漸的你想了很多很多
25:00就會變成 哇 婚姻好可怕喔
25:04我要為我的孩子著想什麼等等的
25:06原生家庭其實講真的是影響蠻大的
25:10因為對我來講這邊我是影響真的很大
25:12可是我不想要走回去我父母走過的路
25:15雖然講我也是第一次當父母
25:17所以我想要創造一個真正可以讓孩子幸福的
25:20一條新的路
25:23我就會把我自己改變掉
25:25我不要再把這個原生家庭去鎖著
25:29對 對
25:30所以就讓我自己去製造一個新的家庭出來
25:33如果好像像我這種啦
25:34對婚姻有恐懼的啦
25:35你們會給什麼advice
25:37我相信在聽節目或在看節目的
25:39他們應該也是會覺得
25:41不然就不要結婚啦
25:42一個人也很好
25:43你要能接受挑戰
25:45真的
25:46這真的
25:47因為婚姻
25:48你步入婚姻這段路程
25:50你讓他們更怕喔
25:52沒有
25:53就是因為你平時也是會有很多的挑戰的嘛
25:56其實婚姻它也是有自己的挑戰的
25:58比如講你雙方的磨合
26:00像我剛才講的錢的東西
26:01你這些東西你沒有先討論
26:03你後面就會後續很多的問題出現
26:05你一定要先講好你們的共同
26:07你們的三觀是怎麼樣
26:09然後你們對未來
26:10對孩子
26:11對家庭的要求是什麼
26:12你們才去步入那個婚姻
26:14如果你們在這個時候
26:16三觀已經不合了的話
26:17已經沒有辦法同個思想的話啦
26:20我就覺得不太適合
26:22男生咧
26:23站在男生的角度
26:24建議單身的去CHGPT問一下
26:27婚姻需要注意的思想是什麼
26:30男生會想要結婚的時間點在什麼
26:33這個我蠻好奇
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28:00I don't want to put a child as a person,
28:03not to say,
28:04not to,
28:05not to,
28:06not to,
28:07not to,
28:07not to.
28:08His children's point of view is very long.
28:13To respect them,
28:15to listen to their voice.
28:16I respect you,
28:17I think you've lost your child after
28:19your entire process process.
28:20I'm quite fast.
28:23For the child,
28:24it's more difficult to go out.
28:27That's when I just pull him out.
28:28I just pull him out.
28:29I just pull him out.
28:31I don't want to pull him out.
28:32I was,
28:33I was,
28:33I was very hard to go out.
28:34That's when I experienced it.
28:35I experienced it,
28:36I was one of my own.
28:37I was very little to share my status.
28:40I was very little to share my status.
28:42We're both different.
28:43I was always to go out.
28:45He was always to go out.
28:46But I was,
28:47I was always to go out.
28:48I was always to go out.
28:50I was a chance to get out.
28:52I realized that I was able to understand
28:54some about the pain of my pain.
28:57I was really
28:58when I saw the pain of my pain,
29:02I felt that
29:03the baby would not like me.
29:06He would also like me.
29:08He would also like me.
29:10He would also like me.
29:12We're both happy.
29:13he was not good.
29:16He was happy.
29:18Actually,
29:18he actually was in a scene
29:19when he was doing a action action.
29:20I was shocked.
29:22Because we were both in a conversation.
29:23But we still didn't tell him.
29:24So I was抱着 the baby.
29:25She went to the room and closed the door.
29:27She looked at me.
29:29She went to the bed.
29:30She went to the bed.
29:31She went to the bed.
29:32She went to my dad.
29:32She went to the bed.
29:32She went to the bed.
29:34Then I was just抱着 the baby.
29:35She went to my dad.
29:36Then I thought, you're a 1-year-old child
29:40How can you do this kind of action?
29:41I don't know, I don't know, I don't know
29:46Do you feel like you're going to have a relationship with your child?
29:52And when you talk about it, all of a sudden
29:54It's just normal, we've had a lot of people
29:56We've had a lot of experience with them
29:59I still don't like to talk with them
30:02Because I feel like if you're good, why do you talk about it?
30:06There are people who are allowed to be able to get out.
30:10But what we must know is that
30:12to fight not to let us think that we're not going to be like a marriage.
30:16We don't want to be like that,
30:18if we're not going to be like a marriage,
30:20we must be a marriage,
30:21we want to fight a marriage,
30:22we must be able to fight a marriage.
30:24Then we must know that we're going to fight a marriage,
30:28because we haven't talked about it,
30:30so we're going to stay the situation.
30:33So this time we should have done the work,
30:35So we need to talk about our emotions, we need to talk about our emotions
30:39So we need to know that our emotions are going to be able to deal with each other
30:46Maybe there's a lot of love in恋爱 when you really like all of them
30:50But when you get married, you will be able to do the same thing
30:54Yeah, it's weird
30:56Why can't you see these things in恋爱?
30:59It's hard to understand
31:02Because when you're in恋爱, you don't have to deal with these things
31:06But when you're in恋爱, you're in恋爱, you're in恋爱
31:09And you're going to be able to deal with each other
31:13If you give them a chance to come back to a year
31:16Do you think you want to go back to恋爱时期 or to get married?
31:21I think it's good
31:23I think it's good
31:25I think our experience can be written in a book
31:28It's like we can look back to that kind of feeling
31:32It's not a bad thing
31:34It's possible to make us grow
31:36And become a better person
31:38And become a better person
31:40Because there are some people, they may be able to do it
31:43And then we just don't have to do it
31:44And then we just don't have to do it
31:46But these are our experiences
31:48Only our experiences are our experiences
31:50And the experience can be done
31:53So I'll bring them together
31:54We'll bring them together
31:56I'll bring them together
31:56I'll bring them together
31:58And I'll bring them together
31:59And then I'll bring them together
32:00And then I'll bring them together
32:02I'll bring them together
32:03And now I'll bring them together
32:05I think I still want to keep my life in this age,
32:10because this age of me is what I love,
32:12and I love you, and you have a family.
32:15You can make a good life for you.
32:18So now this stage of me,
32:20is the most beautiful time,
32:22and is the most beautiful time.
32:23I can become now a part of the world,
32:27because I've been living in the past.
32:30Everything, the experience,
32:32I'm going to be able to build my mind.
32:37So if you want me to go back to before,
32:39then I will lose my mind-set,
32:44or attitude,
32:45or my mind-set.
32:49So I don't want to lose my mind.
32:51So I still want to keep my mind-set.
32:53The last question is that many people are experiencing.
32:56There is a lot of love.
32:59Do not make any sense.
33:04No!
33:05That's the last question.
33:07You want to know what you want.
33:10You want to understand what you want.
33:13Don't listen to your mind-set.
33:16Don't listen to your mind-set.
33:19You need to listen to your mind.
33:22If you want to go back to your mind-set,
33:26you're going to go back to your mind.
33:28It's not your family, it's your family, it's your family
33:32It's your other half
33:34It's your spirit
33:36When people are here to this world, you can experience it
33:40You don't want to be responsible for your opinion
33:44Why? Why?
33:46You want to live yourself
33:48You do what you want to do
33:50You want to love someone
33:52If you don't want to love anyone
33:54You just want to love yourself
33:56You want to love themselves
33:58You want to love people
34:00That's a good thing
34:02So, you can always stay willing to do your own
34:05I think in a certain time, we need to know your story
34:08Whether you want to love someone
34:10Yeah, you don't want to love someone
34:12If you want to love someone
34:14If you want to love someone
34:16If you don't mind, you don't want to love someone
34:18If you don't love someone
34:20Do not let your age
34:21For you
34:22I hope you have any problems you have already met.
34:26If you have any problems, you can also take a look at your experience.
34:31Don't say that you can't do it.
34:41You can share any stories with us.
34:44Please share a link to us.
34:46We can share a link to our next episode.
34:48We can share some stories.
34:49Bye bye.
34:50Bye.
34:51But there are women who have to find a group from there.
34:53I've heard about them.
34:55I've heard about them.
34:56My wife would be like.
34:57I would love to find a person.
34:58But there's a lot of women.
35:00The women who need to get a group.
35:01They can be all treated for their loved ones.
35:03That's not her opinion.
35:05It's her opinion.
35:07That's her opinion.
35:08She's the one who is alone.
35:09To help you.
35:12I love you.