00:00As a sports psychologist, I have helped hundreds of people overcome obstacles and deal with difficult
00:05barriers. It does not surprise me at all that 56% of people say they feel out of control in at
00:12least one area of their lives. I'm here today to give you some tips to help you feel a bit more
00:16in control, including with your finances. Understanding which part of your lives feel
00:26a little out of control is really helpful because then you can make a plan and then you can have a
00:32very specific process for how am I going to deal with this? How am I going to get more in control of
00:37it? It's really important to feel in control of our personal finances and our energy bills because
00:43when we don't, we can feel really overwhelmed. One of the things elite athletes do brilliantly
00:47is use data. They will use it to analyse their performances so they can work out where to make
00:52changes, how to be even better. Tools like smart meters give us accurate data. When we've got
00:58accurate data, we can make really good decisions about our future and what we want to be doing,
01:03where we want to be spending our money. Makes us feel so much more in control of what's going on at
01:08home. The two biggest obstacles that sports people like darts players might face when they're competing
01:13are going to be attention. How do they keep their attention in the right place at the right intensity
01:18for the right amount of time? If you're feeling under pressure, if there's high stakes, we want
01:23you to get task focused. So that's thinking about the one thing you can do in that moment that's
01:29going to help you perform really well. Often we'll turn that into something like a mantra. Eye on the
01:34board, head up, shoulders back. Something that's very specific that helps you focus on how to really do
01:40well in that moment. So I think the biggest tip that we can follow to stay calm under pressure
01:44is to control the controllables. Know what is in front of us. What are those stresses? What have
01:50we got coming up? That makes us feel in control. That makes us feel much calmer. Then we're able to
01:55tackle the things in front of us.
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