A girl Approached her mother after her mother gave her up for 20years. when her mother saw her she told her to a therapists inatead of excepting her. She rejected her right on the spot. what kind of a mother is she? The bond between a mother and child is to be one of the strongest and most enduring relationships in human existence. However, what happens when a mother rejects her own flesh and blood after years of separation? This was the heartbreaking reality for a young woman who approached her mother after being given up for adoption twenty years ago, only to be met with cold rejection and a suggestion to seek therapy instead of acceptance.