IPS Officer Urges Women To Be Courageous

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She was credited with exposing Godmen Asaram and Narayan Sai and even received death threats, but Shobha Bhutada is urging women to be brave.   Special thanks to Dr V R Godhania College of Engineering And Technology, Porbandar

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00:00Education is not about degree.

00:03If education doesn't teach you how to live,

00:08then your one crore package is useless.

00:11I have seen such experiences in my SP career

00:17that super specialist doctor ladies I have seen in Surat city,

00:22I can't mention the names,

00:24they come to me and they are victims of domestic violence.

00:30They are victims of domestic violence.

00:33Education is not only about your knowledge!

00:35Education is about your attitude towards life.

00:38If you have learning habits without feedback

00:42then you can't have a successful life.

00:46You cannot have a successful life,

00:48if you just had a good education then?

00:55Ladies, I want to talk to you, education is not about degree, education is not about information,

01:14it is not about placement, it is not about employment, it is not about package.

01:21It can be all these things to some extent, but education is beyond this.

01:25If education does not teach you how to live, then your one crore package is also useless.

01:35I have seen such experiences in my SP career, that super specialist doctor ladies I have

01:43seen in Surat city, I can't mention the names, they come to me and they are victims of domestic

01:50violence.

01:51In her house, her husband beats her, her monthly income is 35 lakhs, no ladies, there is no

01:59need to clap, listen to me, you have 35 lakhs, you are financially independent, yet you don't

02:07have the courage to leave the person who beats you every day, then what is the use of education?

02:15In Maharashtra, if you are using the internet, there is a woman called Sindhu Tai Sapkal,

02:21she is in the fourth class, fourth class in Gujarati, that is why she is not married.

02:27Her husband threw her out when she was pregnant, I don't know how to say it in Gujarati,

02:33in Marathi it is called gotha, in that she was thrown out, there she got delivered,

02:40she was broken by a stone, from there she got out, today in Maharashtra, more than 1000

02:49children are taken care of by this woman.

02:52I have given two examples for this, that if you get financial independence from education

02:57and you don't have the courage to leave the person, then there is no use of education.

03:01And if you don't have education and you have the courage, then 10 ways will open up,

03:05and we need such examples all over the world.

03:09So I am not saying that education is useless, degree is the basic thing of it.

03:13How many mothers have the courage to go to the police station and file a complaint

03:19even if their husband doesn't throw them out?

03:22It is important.

03:24People know that out of 100, 10, 20, 25 women go to the police station if they are raped.

03:30The rest endure it, and that is why these people have no fear of the law.

03:36So all the women who are here today, I request all of you to teach us from childhood that

03:41tolerance is the form of a woman, don't listen to this thing at all.

03:47It is okay to a certain level, to take care of your family, not to fight over small things,

03:53you understood something, the other person understood something, that is okay.

03:57But when your existence itself becomes a question mark, if you start enduring there too,

04:02then it becomes a bad quality, not a good quality.

04:06Dr. Babasaheb Ambedkar has said somewhere that the one who endures,

04:10is more guilty than the one who does injustice.

04:13Because you don't endure alone, if you endure, then if a child is watching you,

04:19then he too will learn the same.

04:20Maybe this is the right way.

04:21One message I would like to give you is,

04:25until you don't love your own self, until you don't find your life important,

04:32until then you will not be able to love another person.

04:36And this love will happen only when you have the courage,

04:39when you are ready to fight to live your life the way you want to live it.

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