‘Baylen Out Loud’_ Baylen Dupree & Collin Dooley SHOCK Parents w_ A Big Life Decision

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00:00I thought, here we are on a bike ride losing my kid to a boyfriend in an apartment.

00:07She's really just come out of her shell with really asserting independence.

00:13Not too long ago, we had to physically administer Baylen's medicine.

00:17Here's your medicine.

00:18Take it.

00:19Let's see it.

00:20Like a little kid.

00:21I need Callen to understand that this is a challenge.

00:25In this week's episode of Baylen Out Loud, fans got to see how Baylen overcame her severe

00:29tick attack.

00:30The incident happened during tick con in Dallas, Texas, and her mom, Julie, called it the worst

00:34tick attack her daughter's ever had.

00:38This is by far the worst tick attack that Baylen has had to my memory as far as I can

00:44remember.

00:45And I don't know what to do because I'm numb and I'm walking through the motions with her.

00:50Yep, breathe.

00:51More ice.

00:52We got it.

00:53More ice.

00:54We got it.

00:55We got it.

00:56My heart is breaking for her.

00:57If we can kind of snap out of it and be okay rather quickly, I don't know what we're going

01:01to do for her.

01:02Nope, you're okay.

01:03It's a lot.

01:04But it's the perfect place to have it, though.

01:05Literally.

01:06It's the perfect place to have it, though, because we got you, girl.

01:07You're okay.

01:08During a confessional, Baylen talked about how she was feeling during the moment.

01:18It's so intense and it's so painful.

01:22You feel powerless, like you are in no control.

01:26You can want to control it, but it's not going to end out the way you like it.

01:32Three days later, Baylen was back at her home in West Virginia and got to relax with her

01:35family and boyfriend Colin at a nearby creek.

01:38But as they were enjoying family time, her parents, Julie and Alan, talked about the

01:42scary incident and how it could impact Baylen being independent.

01:46I'm more concerned that if she has one of those tick attacks to that extent, and neither

01:52of us are there.

01:53I know.

01:54Being a parent to-

01:56It's a lot, though, when you say, to what level do I push her forward and to what extent

02:01do I hold her back and coddle her and give her more life-adulting skills?

02:07Like there's this balance to it.

02:10It's a huge struggle to let Baylen go.

02:14We encourage her to seek her independence, but at the same time, we really just want

02:18to coddle her and shield her from the world.

02:22That moment also worried Colin, who was concerned about Baylen being independent.

02:26What happens if you're living on your own and you have that severe of a tick attack

02:31and no one's here to help you?

02:32Well, not every tick attack is me banging my head off the floor.

02:35But this one was.

02:37There's concerns there, obviously.

02:39What if you can't get to your bed?

02:40What if you're just laying on the hardwood floor?

02:44It's any concerns that as me, as a boyfriend who loves you, is concerned about, you know?

02:54She wants to have her own life and independence.

02:58That's all Baylen wants.

03:01But what I feel when Baylen's having a severe tick attack is I want to be able to help her

03:06in whatever way that I can.

03:08But Baylen assured him that there are things she can do to hopefully prevent that from

03:12happening again.

03:13I know that you're worried about my tick attacks and them happening when no one's there.

03:19But really, in reality, anything can happen at any time.

03:23With the tick attack, I know that I was over-stimulated.

03:26I know I was too tired.

03:28I know I didn't eat enough.

03:29I know I didn't exercise.

03:31There's certain things that I know I didn't do.

03:34To hear how severe Baylen's tick attack was at that conference makes me pretty upset.

03:40It's kind of hard to support Baylen living on her own.

03:45In the end, Collin was able to move past that and ask Baylen a big question.

03:50So my roommate is moving out.

03:52He got his relocation orders.

03:55I've asked around, I've been asking people if they need a roommate, but I don't really

04:01have any luck coming with that.

04:04So I was just thinking, what if we live together?

04:11Seriously?

04:12Yeah.

04:13Okay.

04:14Um.

04:15Well, yes.

04:16Obviously, I want to.

04:17This is so exciting.

04:18Like, what the heck?

04:19Yeah.

04:20During a confessional, Collin explained why he wants to move in with Baylen.

04:30After that tick attack that she had, it's really made me start thinking about how I

04:36can be there to support her once she does move out and how I want to be there to help

04:40her as much as I can.

04:43But telling Collin's parents made them both nervous.

04:46My parents are very conservative and religious.

04:50They have very strong beliefs, like you shouldn't live together before marriage.

04:56I mean, I think we both know what they're going to say.

04:59Me and Collin sleep in separate beds at his parents' house.

05:04Due to their beliefs, they are very conservative.

05:15I know that they won't support it.

05:17I know that it's not something that they support, but I also think it's something that we should

05:23bring up to our parents and you ask your parents and we can ask my parents.

05:32When it was time for Baylen to tell her family, it came to them as a shock.

05:37Having Baylen say that she wanted to move in with Collin has me feeling like I'm the

05:45one that got knocked off the bike.

05:48I feel like ambushed by the news.

05:50I know that this is the trajectory of their relationship, but I'm not ready for it.

05:56I think obviously there's a shock factor with us because we're like, okay, all of a sudden

06:00you're just going to move in.

06:01I think there's a lot to think about though.

06:04You don't even have an apartment yet.

06:06No, I know I don't have an apartment yet, but I mean, I'm going to get one.

06:12I got it.

06:13We got to start looking.

06:14I got to, I got to start looking.

06:15She is not easy to live with.

06:17There's a lot all day every day, but you want her to live a normal life just like everybody

06:22else and I don't think Collin's ready to help her.

06:27It's very complicated.

06:30You're pissed?

06:31No.

06:32You don't like Collin?

06:33No.

06:34He's so protective.

06:35You don't like Collin?

06:36No, I'm concerned.

06:37Oh, for who?

06:38For everybody.

06:39No.

06:40For everybody.

06:41We're going to have some questions other than standing out in this hot sun and talking

06:44about it.

06:45Right?

06:47Obviously.

06:48With like finances.

06:49Your dad's face.

06:50Your dad's back to the face.

06:51Yeah.

06:52Then right before they went to tell Collin's parents, Bailyn was feeling a little nervous.

06:56I'm very nervous because we're sitting here reading the Bible and then little do we know

06:59we're holding the secret about how me and Collin are going to be living together and

07:03trying to hold tics in because again, religion.

07:08It's like a, like a tsunami of thoughts going through my head as I'm sitting on the couch

07:15and I'm trying to run away from them, trying to run away from the 10,000 thoughts that

07:20are coming at me.

07:21And the next day, Bailyn let it slip that they were moving in together.

07:26We're in the process of trying to move into, oh, so who's, who's we?

07:33With what?

07:34Oh no.

07:35I've already f***ed up.

07:36I've already f***ed up.

07:37Oh my God.

07:38I can't believe I just said we.

07:41Oh, I just met like me and like, um, like, um.

07:54We're going to have to wait until next week to see just exactly how that whole situation

07:58unfolded.

07:59We came down here to kind of talk to you about something important.

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