La convivencia con mi hija es desastrosa

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Angélica no habla con su hija hace seis meses.

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00:00Well, I live with a 40-year-old daughter, who is already 3 years old.

00:11And it turns out that the coexistence has been disastrous.

00:17Let's see, first I want to ask you why your daughter, 3 years ago, went to live with you.

00:23Because at some point, I suppose, she became independent.

00:26Precisely.

00:28I see. And what happened?

00:30She lost her job, she retired because she didn't want to be independent.

00:36And she came here to my house.

00:39Did she come alone or with children?

00:41What?

00:42Did she come alone or with children?

00:44With children, yes.

00:45Already?

00:46Yes.

00:48And how is the coexistence? Because I imagine that, in addition to having your son close, it can be wonderful for a grandmother.

00:54Exactly, but it's not like that.

00:57The horrible psychological mistreatment.

01:01Words that I hope die quickly.

01:05From her to you?

01:06They are insults.

01:08From your daughter to you?

01:10Angelica, what Gianfranco asks is a psychological mistreatment from your daughter to you?

01:16Exactly, yes. What I never thought I would have lived.

01:21With my height, too.

01:25Now, Angelica, have you always had a bad relationship?

01:29Or is that triggered in the last three years?

01:32Because the truth is that it is difficult to understand and put yourself in that situation that your daughter tells you,

01:37I hope you die later.

01:39Is that to stay with your house? Do you have more children?

01:42Yes, I have more children.

01:46But at what point do you reach this limit of a bad relationship? What happened there?

01:54What happened is that she, well, I think it's with the couple, because I had an opportunity.

02:06I wanted to sell her, I mean, I wanted to sell the house.

02:11To her?

02:12To her, yes.

02:13Already?

02:14Yes.

02:15And because of this, because of her actions, because I was ready for all the fight, ready for her to stay with the house.

02:30And there came a time when I no longer had respect.

02:33I said, I'm not going to sell you the house for this reason.

02:36And that's when it started, right?

02:38And that's when everything went wrong.

02:39Now, I imagine that day to day is ...

02:42I imagine that day to day is a hell, Angelica.

02:45It's a hell, yes.

02:47You don't talk, you don't share, or do you?

02:49No, no, no, no.

02:51We don't talk, we don't eat at the table, no.

02:55Now, if you don't talk to your daughter, how long have you not spoken to each other?

02:59How long have you not had a good relationship?

03:02Like six months.

03:04Even when we met.

03:06Hey, Priscila, and the children? Because she lives with children too, it seems to me.

03:10Angelica?

03:11Exactly, yes.

03:13And how do they live on a day-to-day basis, having a grandmother and a mother fighting?

03:19The children, well, she also takes care of them.

03:27She gets along with the children.

03:30Of course, she gets the children involved.

03:32Obviously, I love the children, I love them.

03:36But it's not enough for her.

03:39She says, no, I never ...

03:41I don't love them.

03:43I mean, I don't love the children.

03:45Hey, isn't there a possibility that she will leave your house and live somewhere else?

03:51Is she working?

03:52Yes, she is working.

03:54What situation is she in?

03:55She doesn't want to move.

03:57Now, of course, as I was saying, I am not leaving this house because this house also belongs to all of us.

04:07And you have other children too.

04:09Of course.

04:10It was a moment that my husband projected eight years ago.

04:18And there, well, you can say, I don't know.

04:22But in my blindness or ignorance, I signed the document.

04:28I didn't have to have signed it.

04:31To have left my children in heritage.

04:35Already?

04:36Already.

04:39Right?

04:40Let's see, give me a second.

04:42Because maybe in that, there is no turning back.

04:44Dr. Bolsillo, can you explain that to us?

04:46Yes.

04:47Look, it is always important to advise yourself well in the review of which documents were signed,

04:51in what context they are made, and how they are written before reaching a conclusion.

04:56Of course.

04:58The effective position is the effective position.

05:01Of course, the effective position is made when the person dies.

05:05In this case, for example, if it was of the angelic husband, this effective position is made,

05:09which in the end distributes the goods among what are known as the causants or the heirs,

05:17which are, let's say, the spouse and the children, and there is a legal distribution.

05:22And that is already done.

05:23So she wouldn't have the right to take her daughter out of the house either.

05:26One thing is the effective position of who is going to do the goods.

05:31For example, if we are talking about a house, there is a percentage that is for the spouse,

05:35for the angelic, and another percentage that is for the children.

05:37Which is less.

05:38Of course.

05:39And there is a percentage that the person who died has to leave a little more to help him,

05:43to the child who needs more, or to the child who supported them in the DG, etc., etc.

05:48But that does not give him the right to make an abuse of the house, let's say.

05:54What gives you the right is the property, but the angelic daughter has the same right

05:59that the other children have to occupy the same house.

06:01So it is a problem that is completely different, let's say.

06:04Here what is being talked about is who the property is, which would already be part of the inheritance,

06:08but the other is a situation that you have to find a way to solve it,

06:11because evidently the coexistence is unsustainable.

06:14It is unsustainable.

06:15Angelica, look, I would like to ask you, what would you say to your daughter,

06:19with whom you have not spoken for six months, they live in the same house,

06:23without anger, without anger, because finally let's talk about it from the best possible judgment.

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