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Divorce Rate Increase in India : సంసార నావను దరికి చేర్చాలన్నా కుటుంబమనే బండి సజావుగా ముందుకు నడవాలన్నా భార్యాభర్తల మధ్య సఖ్యత ముఖ్యం. పిల్లల భవిష్యత్తుకు కూడా ఇది కీలకమే. అయితే ఇటీవల విడాకుల కేసులు పెరిగిపోతున్నాయి. కర్ణుడి చావుకు సవాలక్ష కారణాలన్నట్లు ఈ విషయంలో కారణాలు అనేకం కనిపిస్తున్నాయి. మారుతున్న సామాజిక, ఆర్థిక పరిస్థితులు, చిన్న కుటుంబాలు పెరిగిపోవటం, సామాజిక మాధ్యమాలు వీటిలో ప్రముఖపాత్ర పోషిస్తున్నాయి. పెద్దలు కుదిర్చిన వివాహాలే కాదు. ప్రేమ పెళ్లిళ్లు కూడా పెటాకులు అవుతుండటం భార్యభర్తల సంబంధానికి తీవ్ర విఘాతంగా మారింది.

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00:00The world has a lot of names for the Indian marriage system.

00:08In such a country, the number of people taking divorce is increasing day by day.

00:14In a way, the current divorce trend is running.

00:18For some reason, the number of people climbing the steps of the court is increasing.

00:24There are also many people who have studied in them.

00:27There are many reasons for separation.

00:35There is a reason for disagreement between the two.

00:38As the number of people increases, there is a way to fight later.

00:43In the process of not being able to get along, the number of fights increases.

00:47Police cases and courts end with divorce.

00:51When the husband and wife are working, there are fights over family responsibilities.

00:59Work culture, software jobs, computer work, social media addictions.

01:07These are also the reasons for separation.

01:14In some cases, even to eat and rest, they communicate through social media.

01:24We can understand the weakness of our marriage system.

01:31The phone system also creates gaps in the marriage system.

01:36By spending more time on social media and Instagram, the marriage system does not increase.

01:42Social media, TV, websites, etc. are being stolen.

01:46At least 2,000 to 3,000 cases have been filed.

01:49There are more educated people in them.

01:51There are more educated people than illiterate people.

01:54Separation due to ego, taking divorce, applying for divorce, all this is happening.

02:02What the government has done is,

02:05There are more cases like this.

02:07Judges are facing problems.

02:09If the case is settled according to the women's position,

02:15The government has set up this system with good intentions.

02:19In the past, there was a family system.

02:21Marriages were held by the elders.

02:23Over time, there have been changes in this situation.

02:26There are small families in the place of large families.

02:29In those days, if there were any differences between the husband and wife,

02:32The house would be very big.

02:34The elders would sit on both sides and create a gap between them.

02:40If the husband and wife are employees, there are differences in the distribution of responsibilities.

02:45Some people are working with computers and cell phones and are moving away from the family life.

02:51Smoking has increased.

02:53Alcohol consumption has increased.

02:55Sugar patients are also increasing.

02:58In the case of youngsters, the amount of sugar is increasing.

03:01Even a small child is getting sugar at the age of 20.

03:03So, those who have a lot of sugar and those who smoke alcohol,

03:07What happens to them is,

03:09The sperm count is decreasing.

03:11There are differences on the husband's side and on the wife's side.

03:16Coming to atmosphere conditions,

03:19The atmosphere is highly polluted.

03:22There is a diet pattern.

03:24There are artificial diets.

03:26There are many mixes.

03:28There are many types of mixes in hotels.

03:31Because of that diet, the sperm count is decreasing.

03:36There are opportunities for all this.

03:38Only when there is mutual love between the husband and wife in the marriage,

03:42The marriage will go on smoothly.

03:44Suspicions, arguments, arguments,

03:47Due to the pressure of the marriage, the bond is broken.

03:50In this process, some women are subjected to domestic violence.

03:54Without being able to bear the pain,

03:56The victims are taken to the police,

03:58Or to the Saki One Stop Center,

04:00Which is in the Sisu Sankshyam Sekha.

04:03In these cases, under the Domestic Violence Prevention Act,

04:06The victims are accepted,

04:08The husband sends notices to his family members,

04:10And calls for inquiry.

04:12After being subjected to the Domestic Violence Prevention Act,

04:15The husband and wife are given counselling.

04:18After being counselled twice,

04:20Some people agree and stay together.

04:23If they do not agree,

04:25The case is filed at the police station,

04:27And is taken to court.

04:29In the cases that come to court,

04:31The husband and wife talk to each other,

04:33Do counselling,

04:34And try to reach an agreement.

04:36Some people agree.

04:38The cases are filed against those who agree,

04:40And sent to the courts.

04:43The Saki One Stop Center says,

04:45Families can stay together,

04:47And take care of their children.

05:13My mother-in-law does not do any work.

05:15My mother-in-law has to live separately.

05:17I do not live with my husband.

05:19We have to live separately.

05:21Because of that,

05:23They harass me,

05:25And ask for dowry.

05:27In a month,

05:2920 to 30 cases are filed.

05:31Most of them are young people.

05:33It can be financial freedom,

05:35Jobs,

05:37Social media,

05:39And many other reasons,

05:41For a husband and wife to separate.

06:09When there is no marriage,

06:11When there is no physical intimacy,

06:13When there is a lack of intimacy,

06:15And when you are alone,

06:17Even if you live together,

06:19There is no life.

06:21As a result,

06:23The bond breaks.

06:39Some people have studied,

06:41That they were not allowed to watch movies,

06:43And that they were not allowed to log.

06:45Because of that,

06:47Issues are raised.

06:49Some people say,

06:51That it is a family,

06:53But it is a small family.

06:55It is like a nuclear family.

06:57Many things have happened.

06:59Misunderstandings are increasing.

07:01Who should get married?

07:03When should they get married?

07:05Should they get married or not?

07:07Should they get married or not?

07:09These are personal issues.

07:11In our country,

07:13Marriage is very important.

07:15Even though there are laws,

07:17Divorces are not allowed.

07:19In all religions in the country,

07:21The importance of marriage is not reduced.

07:23But marriages are changing.

07:25Inter-religious marriages are taking place.

07:27In the same way,

07:29Divorces are increasing.

07:31There may be many reasons,

07:33For a couple to separate.

07:35According to the law of India,

07:37A husband or a wife

07:39Has the right to cancel their marriage.

07:41In this law,

07:43Section 13,

07:45Divorces can be taken for any reason.

07:47Showing relationships to others,

07:49As a reason,

07:51Cruelty,

07:53Husband and wife not taking care of each other,

07:55Husband or wife losing their mind,

07:57Husband or wife

07:59Changing to another religion,

08:01One in the couple,

08:03Divorces can be taken for any reason.

08:05Husband or wife

08:07Not seen for 7 years,

08:09Husband or wife

08:11As a dead person,

08:13Divorces can be taken for any reason.

08:15Divorces can be taken for any reason.

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08:19Divorces can be taken for any reason.

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