00:00What about the boys?
00:07The boys?
00:08I mean, the boys of our lives.
00:10The boys, I mean, boyfriends, crushes.
00:14In school, for example.
00:16Until college, I was forbidden.
00:18I was forbidden to have a boyfriend.
00:20But of course, when I was in college,
00:22my head was hard, I was a bit far away,
00:24I had a boyfriend, and...
00:26But you hid it.
00:27But I hid it, yes.
00:29Okay.
00:30How did you...
00:31How did you make your mom fall in love with you?
00:35Because I can imagine,
00:36I can imagine that kind of a life, right?
00:38I was in a condo when I was in college.
00:40That's why I was more...
00:42Sorry, mommy.
00:43She's watching this.
00:44Sure.
00:45But of course, I hid it from her.
00:47No, it's not because you're not grateful
00:48for all the things that your mom did.
00:50No.
00:51It's just a story,
00:52because the outcome is beautiful.
00:55And I do believe I'm strong-minded.
00:57And it's all because of
00:58the values.
00:59How did it happen?
01:00It's all because of the values
01:01that they instilled in me.
01:03Like my dad.
01:04He's like...
01:05My dad thinks that you should be the leader.
01:07You should be like this.
01:08You shouldn't be the one influencing your friends.
01:10You should be the one influencing your friends.
01:12That's his mindset.
01:13So I grew up...
01:14Sometimes, the cons,
01:16I grew up feeling like
01:18I'm not doing...
01:19Like I need to prove more.
01:21That's also the downside of it, maybe.
01:24I get you.
01:25Because I'm restless.
01:27Did you have enough pain and failure
01:30to prepare yourself for life?
01:32Because it's so protective, right?
01:34Yes.
01:35I don't want my son to be jealous.
01:36I don't want my son to cry.
01:37I don't want my son to be hurt.
01:39And by doing so,
01:40we know, or we knew that
01:42they were coming from a space of love.
01:44But your experience was reduced.
01:46It wasn't reduced.
01:47I mean, it's a question.
01:48Didn't your experience reduce
01:50that you didn't really know
01:52what to do
01:54if you're about to cry or get hurt?
01:57Yes.
01:58Well,
02:00like when I did Starstruck,
02:02I wasn't that expressive.
02:04I wasn't...
02:05Actually, I just learned in our industry
02:08that you have to be vulnerable.
02:10You have to show emotions.
02:12That's all.
02:13That's all I appreciated.
02:14Because growing up,
02:15I just...
02:16I couldn't.
02:17It's like...
02:18I was raised to be strong.
02:22Whatever happens,
02:23you have to fight.
02:24Yes.
02:25You can't show weakness.
02:26Yes.
02:27And I'm very grateful
02:28because I like how I grew up.
02:31I like me.
02:33I like my values.
02:35I like my principles.
02:37And all of that came from my parents.
02:39And you were able to pivot.
02:40You said that
02:42Starstruck was also a turning point.
02:44Yes.
02:45Right?
02:46But let me go back.
02:47Because you mentioned Starstruck.
02:49When you look back,
02:51what was the conversation between you and mom?
02:53Did she like the idea
02:54that you were coming into a business
02:56that was so public and,
02:59in quotes,
03:00dangerous?
03:02They were all surprised.
03:03But they didn't...
03:05They didn't force me to do it.
03:09No.
03:10They supported me.
03:22I love you.
03:23I love you too.
03:51I love you too.
04:22Hey!
04:26Hey!
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