00:00Welcome to Fasto with Boy Abuela.
00:22Merry Christmas to all of our Facebook and YouTube followers and listeners of DZEBB.
00:29Welcome to the program.
00:30Nalawa sa mga bituin ng asawa ng asawa ko, ang ating makakasama ngayong hapon, naitay
00:37ka po so please welcome Jasmine Curtis-Smith and Raver Crew.
00:43Hello beautiful boy.
00:45Hello.
00:46Hello.
00:47Please, please.
00:49Merry Christmas.
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00:52Yes.
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01:19Merry Christmas.
01:20Merry Christmas.
01:21Yes.
01:22You know, as a child, as a teenager, what is the most memorable celebration you've had?
01:37For me, it's one that I will never forget, Tito Boy.
01:40I had a Christmas when I was a kid, I was 8 years old.
01:43It was also here in the Philippines before we moved back to Australia.
01:46And I just remember that I really wanted to have a make-up kit just like Ate.
01:51Then Mama gave me a make-up kit.
01:54The one that has butterflies on the sides.
01:57And I just felt like a dream come true.
02:00And that's what I was proud of to my classmates and friends.
02:04And I don't know, just that feeling that my wish was granted for that Christmas.
02:09And for me, it's like a mini Anne.
02:12I just, I love that feeling when I was 8 years old.
02:15And what's good about that is that you don't forget that feeling.
02:18And then you associate that with, you know, love, Christmas, my sister, my mom.
02:24Yes.
02:25It's nice, right?
02:26Yes.
02:27How about you, Regor?
02:28For me, it's probably the last time I told my mom that Merry Christmas and Happy Christmas.
02:35Because every Christmas or any celebration, of course, I really miss her.
02:43That's right.
02:44Sometimes, the connection that we have to somebody we love so much is pain.
02:53Let's separate this from Christmas.
02:57Regor, this is December 2024, right?
03:03How are you and Julie's family?
03:07It's very happy, uncle.
03:10Everything is okay.
03:13I really get along with her mom and dad.
03:19Actually, we just came from Australia.
03:23Her dad is with her in Australia.
03:27I'm very happy that I became a part of their family.
03:33Me too.
03:34I'm really smiling.
03:35It's nice, right?
03:36It's nice.
03:37It's nice to feel.
03:38Everything happens in God's good time.
03:40Yes.
03:41It's just nice.
03:42I'm sure Julian is just as happy.
03:45Super, super, uncle.
03:46How is your relationship with Jeff's family?
03:48Very good, uncle.
03:49Right?
03:50Especially with his siblings.
03:51I'm very grateful because they really treat me like I'm a sibling or an in-law.
03:57When it comes to Aunt Denny, the mom of Jeff, she's really inclusive.
04:02She always asks me if I'm with Jeff.
04:05They're a big family compared to ours.
04:08We're just a few.
04:10Uncle, it feels different when you join a bigger family.
04:14It's nice to think that you have a family that's with you during Christmas.
04:18I'm just really so glad that you both are very happy.
04:22Yes.
04:23Right?
04:24I'm a fan of her.
04:25I love her.
04:26Me too.
04:27It radiates.
04:28Their love for each other radiates.
04:29And what a girl.
04:30Yes.
04:31What a girl.
04:32Amazing.
04:33Full package, actually.
04:34We're both fans.
04:35Right?
04:36Thank you, Lord.
04:40I know in one of our conversations, you started to talk about marriage.
04:45It's Christmas.
04:47Did you talk about it?
04:50Uncle, I want to answer that.
04:52It's hard, right?
04:53But in a long-term relationship, Jasmine should be the one...
04:58Why?
04:59Why me?
05:00Are you and Jeff talking about it?
05:02I mean, it's always...
05:04I'm lying to you, Uncle.
05:06Me too.
05:07Really?
05:08Of course.
05:09And my answer is always the same.
05:11It's definitely in our plans down the road.
05:14But nobody should pressure you.
05:15Yes.
05:16No one.
05:17Not even people like us who ask you these questions.
05:19Yes, yes.
05:20Because sometimes, you do ask questions not for us, but for them.
05:23Yes, yes, yes.
05:24Correct, Uncle.
05:25But for the two of us, I always say that Julie is the one I will marry.
05:29Same here.
05:30Of course.
05:31Same here.
05:32Everything happens in God's good time.
05:34Yes, yes.
05:35We're just actors who follow God's will.
05:40Yes, correct.
05:42And you're blessed.
05:44My husband and I have been married for a year now.
05:46I remember sometime January, right?
05:49January of 2024.
05:53Yes, Uncle.
05:54So, in January of 2025, one year.
05:58Wow.
05:59Congratulations.
06:01What are you doing right?
06:02What is it about my husband and I that the people are focusing on?
06:06Just in your opinion.
06:07Great combination of working dynamic and ethics of all the people involved, Uncle Boy.
06:14Because sometimes, even if you bring in the best,
06:18if the chemistry of the whole team is not there, it won't work.
06:24So, I think from the director to the actors to our writers,
06:28we were able to get the audience that they were looking for at that time slot.
06:35And it worked because we also believed in the material.
06:39And in each other.
06:40I think that's also a big part of a working set.
06:46When our energy is at the same level,
06:51and there's trust in each other's performance.
06:55It's unbelievable, Uncle Boy.
06:58It translates to the people, Uncle Boy.
07:00Every one of us in the set,
07:03we really give our 100% in every work that we need.
07:09And of course, we want to commend Director Reese.
07:14She has the magic when it comes to projects like this.
07:19It's different.
07:20It's really different.
07:21Let's do a scene.
07:22I want to join.
07:23Because this is just improv.
07:25For example, we meet here in this living room.
07:29Because you want to tell her that she's not your first wife.
07:34It's not Lizelle, but it's me.
07:38Let's do it.
07:395, 4, 3, 2, action!
07:43Christy, the coffee shop is nice, right?
07:47Yes, who is he?
07:51You noticed right away?
07:53Yes, my eyes are fast.
07:56Christy, it's hard because I don't know how to say this.
08:00It's Christmas, but...
08:04The woman you see in front of you,
08:08she's my first wife before you.
08:13And that's why I'm here with you.
08:15Because I miss her so much.
08:18What?
08:20Why is that?
08:21Let's go.
08:22Thank you, Jordan.
08:23Jordan?
08:25What's her name?
08:27Amelia.
08:28Amelia?
08:29Why is there an Amelia in our lives?
08:32Christy, shut up.
08:34I am the first wife.
08:36First wife?
08:37I am.
08:39That's not what I meant.
08:40Tell me why we're here.
08:42Why did we meet here?
08:43Because we want you to know that you stopped the illusion that you're the first.
08:49No.
08:50I'm the first?
08:51No, Christy.
08:52So I'm the first?
08:53Jordan?
08:54Shut up!
08:59The lapel fell off.
09:01And because of that, we have to do a fast talk.
09:04Alright!
09:09It's Christmas.
09:10Let's have fun.
09:12Jasmine.
09:13Rose or Jasmine?
09:15Jasmine.
09:16Jollobs or Sushad?
09:17Jollobs!
09:18Plantita or Spoiler Tita?
09:20Spoiler Tita.
09:22Salosa or Banidosa?
09:23Salosa.
09:24Dinner date or movie date?
09:26Dinner date.
09:27Kissing or cuddling?
09:28Cuddling.
09:30Strong willed or strong sex appeal?
09:33Strong willed.
09:34Raver, sexy dance or sexy talk?
09:38Sexy dance.
09:39In love or in demand?
09:41In love.
09:42Matinik or Maharot?
09:45Maharot.
09:46Julie.
09:47Yes!
09:48That's right.
09:49Clingy boyfriend or spoiled boyfriend?
09:51Clingy boyfriend.
09:52Kiss on the foot or kiss on the hand?
09:56Kiss on the foot.
09:58Staring or tight hug?
10:01Tight hug.
10:03Julie Ver or forever?
10:07Julie Ver forever.
10:10For both of you.
10:11Guilty or not guilty?
10:12There's a jealous artist.
10:14Not guilty.
10:17Guilty.
10:19It's different.
10:20There's a jealous artist.
10:23Not guilty.
10:25There's a dating fan.
10:27Not guilty.
10:29The partner's parents are jealous.
10:34Not guilty.
10:36The girlfriend's friend is crazy.
10:39Guilty.
10:41The ex is stalked on IG.
10:45Not guilty.
10:47You're guilty?
10:48Huh?
10:49You're guilty.
10:50You didn't answer.
10:51I have non-showbiz.
10:52Yes, it's been a long time.
10:54Guilty.
10:55The hangover.
10:57Guilty.
10:581 to 10, how jealous are you?
11:017.
11:027?
11:03Depends.
11:04Sometimes 10.
11:061 to 10, how good are you?
11:08Where?
11:09Just.
11:129.
11:139?
11:149 and a half.
11:15You're competitive.
11:161 to 10, how rich are you?
11:2110 in love.
11:22Rich in love.
11:255, low-key.
11:271 to 10, how ready are you to get married?
11:3210.
11:34Lights on or lights off?
11:35Off.
11:36Lights on.
11:38Happiness or chocolates?
11:39Happiness.
11:42Best time for happiness?
11:44Everyday.
11:46One word to describe your love life.
11:48What is this?
11:51Fairy tale.
11:52Fairy tale.
11:53Alive.
11:55Alive.
11:57That's beautiful.
12:00Now, we will talk about cheating.
12:04My husband's wife is about cheating.
12:07What is your opinion when it comes to cheating?
12:11The answer is,
12:12when we come back with Fast Talk with Boya.
12:25Back to the show with Christy and Jordan.
12:30Jasmine and River.
12:31Let's talk about cheating.
12:32What is cheating for you?
12:35What constitutes cheating?
12:39Emotional or physical investment in another person.
12:46Okay.
12:48Emotional and personal investment.
12:50Or physical, Tito Boy.
12:51Or physical.
12:53In another person.
12:54Outside of your relationship.
12:55Okay, I get that.
12:57River, what is cheating for you?
13:00Or maybe, Tito Boy,
13:01when you're not that contented with what you have.
13:06You look for someone else.
13:08And then,
13:09you don't have the heart to confess to your current partner.
13:15And then,
13:16you end up cheating.
13:19You said there are two levels.
13:21First, when you're not happy,
13:22you're not contented with your partner.
13:25You look for someone else to fulfill your desire.
13:28Second,
13:29when you're broken,
13:31you don't have the courage to accept your mistake.
13:36That's a bit difficult, right?
13:38For me, Tito Boy means
13:40that you're not yet committed to give everything,
13:47or invest everything,
13:49to the person you already chose.
13:51So, you still have that amount
13:55that you can give to someone else.
13:57Or that's where you should invest
13:59in the person you already chose.
14:00Even if it's just boyfriend status.
14:03If you're going to go there,
14:05that's where you should invest
14:07your time to talk,
14:09all of your problems.
14:12Of course, you're not going to make the relationship heavier.
14:15But, you know,
14:16the person you have the safe space with,
14:19you can't look for that with someone else
14:22if you're already doing that with your current partner.
14:26What do a lot of people say?
14:29What went wrong with your relationship?
14:31In a lot of interviews that I do,
14:33I always ask,
14:34what happened?
14:35Because I gave everything.
14:37I didn't learn how to live.
14:40Does that make sense?
14:41Yes, yes, yes.
14:42It does?
14:43Yes, Tito Boy.
14:44I think to match it to what I said,
14:47when you gave everything,
14:49and you didn't live for yourself,
14:51that's what you should do.
14:53But you're giving to someone else.
14:55So, that means you can't sit with yourself,
14:59with what you're feeling,
15:01what you're lacking,
15:02what you need to fill the void in yourself,
15:05because you're looking for someone else
15:07to fill that void in you.
15:09Someone else to return that investment to you,
15:12instead of you investing in yourself.
15:15River, you.
15:16You're giving everything.
15:18Are you living?
15:19I'm giving everything, Tito Boy.
15:21It's different for me when I'm in love with everything.
15:24So, really...
15:26Even if you get hurt afterwards,
15:28no matter what happens,
15:29you're giving everything.
15:30That's the beauty of it.
15:32You learn from that,
15:34when that happens.
15:36But for me,
15:38it's hard for me to teach myself
15:41that I need to live like that.
15:43My love for someone is complete.
15:46So, for me,
15:47it's not just about the commitment,
15:52the relationship.
15:53My thinking is,
15:55when I'm in a relationship with someone,
15:57my girlfriend is someone,
15:58until I grow up.
16:00But River,
16:01you don't believe in second chances.
16:03For me, Tito Boy,
16:06not yet.
16:08I know that it's different
16:10when you're a family man,
16:13husband and wife.
16:14It's a different story with kids.
16:17But for now,
16:18Tito Boy,
16:19it's hard.
16:21It's hard to have a second chance.
16:23Because it's sacred for me.
16:27For me,
16:29it's important that we're honest.
16:33I can accept it if we're honest.
16:36It hurts,
16:37but at least we're honest.
16:39Processing.
16:40Yeah,
16:41that we can't do it
16:42or that we like someone else.
16:44It's better that way.
16:46At least,
16:47when you find out...
16:49Jessica?
16:52It's hard to have a second chance.
16:55It's hard, right?
16:56It's hard, Tito Boy.
16:57But I think...
17:01Because I grew up with parents
17:04that were separated,
17:05I always kind of hoped
17:07for a second chance for my parents.
17:09That's what I'm saying.
17:10It's different for me.
17:12Coming from the experience
17:13of mom and dad.
17:14Yes.
17:15So even...
17:16I mean,
17:17up to this day,
17:18even though I'm grown up
17:19and they're living their own lives
17:21with their own partners,
17:22there's still something left.
17:24So I feel...
17:25You're right, Tito Boy.
17:26You're right.
17:28But I don't know
17:29if as a girlfriend
17:31or as a wife,
17:33if this happened to me,
17:34I could process it.
17:37But I would like to try.
17:39I think I'm the type of person
17:40who would like to try
17:41a second chance.
17:42What would you like to say
17:45as your last words,
17:47final words to 2024?
17:50What would you like to say, Raver?
17:52Of course,
17:53thank you so much
17:54for all the learnings in 2024.
17:57And I'm ready for 2025.
18:00And I'm sure that in 2025,
18:03I'll still love Julian.
18:06Wow.
18:07Right?
18:09I really like him.
18:10Right?
18:11I'm really a fan of Julian.
18:12Jasmine, what about you?
18:13For me,
18:142024,
18:15thank you so much
18:17because
18:18throughout our show,
18:20you let us
18:22have a very successful job.
18:25And I learned a lot this year
18:29that I can apply again next year
18:32in business,
18:33in personal relationships,
18:35and in family.
18:37My family grew a lot this year.
18:39I'm so grateful.
18:41And I just hope
18:44that it will continue
18:45in our family.
18:46I really love my family
18:48and I hope it just keeps
18:50moving in the good direction.
18:53May the all happen.
18:55Invite everybody
18:56to Asawa ng Asawa Ko.
18:58Go, Jess.
18:59Guys, Kapuso,
19:01I hope you keep watching
19:02Asawa ng Asawa Ko.
19:04A lot more will happen.
19:06What will Shaira do?
19:08But Jordan and Christy,
19:10we will get our moment of happiness.
19:13Wait for us, Shaira.
19:15And a lot more
19:17will happen.
19:18Of course,
19:19because Leon is here too.
19:21Leon.
19:22He doesn't want to.
19:23But Jordan,
19:24let's fight.
19:25Yes, let's fight.
19:26So,
19:27keep watching us
19:29Mondays to Thursdays.
19:319.35pm
19:33after Widow's War.
19:35So,
19:36I hope you don't miss
19:38Asawa ng Asawa Ko.
19:39Asawa ng Asawa Ko
19:40with Jimmy Prahat.
19:42Because of that,
19:43a round of applause for you.
19:45Thank you so much.
19:47Thank you very much.
19:49Merry Christmas.
19:50Merry Christmas.
19:51Lai Tai Kapuso,
19:52Merry Christmas.
19:53Maraming salamat po
19:54sa inyong pagpapatuloy sa amin
19:56sa inyong mga tahanan
19:57araw-araw.
19:58Stay kind.
19:59Make your nana and tanae proud.
20:01And say thank you.
20:02And,
20:03well,
20:04watch Asawa ng Asawa Ko
20:06and do one good thing a day.
20:08And let's make this world
20:09a better place.
20:10Amen.
20:11Goodbye for now.
20:12God bless.
20:13Merry Christmas.
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