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00:00I read a great research.

00:02Wow!

00:03I thought I should share it with you.

00:05Please.

00:05Of course, sir.

00:06It's a research by Harvard University.

00:09It's a research that took 80 years to do.

00:13Oh!

00:14You studied it overnight.

00:16Mr. Salim, it's like this.

00:17Some people work for the sake of humanity

00:20and they take 80 years.

00:21And then humanity takes advantage of it.

00:23This research was very interesting.

00:25Okay.

00:26In 1938,

00:29Harvard University thought

00:32that they should take a sample of students,

00:34male and female students,

00:36from Harvard University.

00:37They take a sample of children

00:40and observe their entire life

00:43until they leave this world.

00:46And we will hide their identity.

00:48We won't tell them, of course.

00:50And their consent was included in this.

00:53So they took a sample.

00:55Then another study started parallel to that.

00:59They took a sample of children from Boston,

01:02where there was a lot of poverty.

01:05They took children from those areas

01:06and started studying their lives.

01:08And they decided to study their entire life.

01:12Wow!

01:13Now, when 80 or 100 years have passed

01:16and these people have also left this world,

01:18then we will sit and do research

01:21to see what you do in your childhood

01:24and what results you get.

01:26Hmm.

01:26What results do you get

01:28when you make decisions in your youth?

01:30And from that, we came to know

01:33that smoking is injurious to your health.

01:36Absolutely.

01:37We came to know

01:39that people who do this,

01:41they get this.

01:42You say, if you eat this, you get this.

01:44Yes.

01:45So, this research was very useful.

01:48And we came to know the root cause of many diseases.

01:52So, the root cause that we came to know

01:55is a habit

01:57that smoking is not a bad thing.

02:00In fact, it is such a thing

02:02that happens with most people.

02:04And they don't know

02:05why they have this heart disease.

02:08In old age,

02:09why did my brain stop working?

02:12Why do I make wrong decisions?

02:15Why did these psychotic issues start with me?

02:18Why are all these things happening?

02:19So, the reason that came out,

02:22the real cause that came out behind it,

02:25was loneliness.

02:26But, Mr. Haroon, loneliness is very important for a person.

02:30Yes.

02:31The loneliness that you are talking about

02:33is that loneliness

02:34that you spend those moments with yourself

02:37at your own will.

02:38Wow.

02:39You take your time out

02:40to spend good time with yourself.

02:42I am talking about that loneliness

02:44that you feel lonely even when you are among people.

02:47Like in this show, Mr. Danish feels very lonely.

02:51Creative people always feel lonely among people.

02:54I have never understood this.

02:58Why do creative people

03:00put their sorrows, pain, worries,

03:03helplessness, helplessness,

03:05sorrows, pain,

03:06why do they put all these things first?

03:09Why do they feel

03:10that a happy person cannot be creative?

03:14Although, the world's most expensive commodity in arts

03:16is comedy.

03:18Yes.

03:18And our comedians also have a habit of saying

03:22that life is full of sorrows.

03:23But sorrows are in everyone's life.

03:24That is not true.

03:25The truth is that the loneliness that I am talking about

03:27or the loneliness that this study is talking about

03:30is self-inflicted.

03:32Yes.

03:33Absolutely.

03:34It is self-inflicted.

03:36How is it self-inflicted?

03:39If you decide

03:43that from now on,

03:45if there is a person below six feet,

03:47I will not be friends with him,

03:49then your options will be limited.

03:51Limited.

03:51You will say that if the skin color is like this,

03:53then I will be friends with him or I will not be friends with him.

03:55It will be more limited.

03:57It will be limited.

03:57As you keep eliminating insects in people,

04:01your options will be limited.

04:04As you keep looking at people's bad habits,

04:08that this person has this bad habit, that person has that bad habit,

04:10then you will become lonely.

04:12Exactly.

04:13Mr. Arun, everyone's reason can be different, right?

04:15Not to socialize,

04:17or to overcome loneliness.

04:19If there is any superiority in the complex,

04:21then there is some inferiority in the complex.

04:23You are absolutely right.

04:25Those who have a superiority complex,

04:27may Allah protect them, forgive them.

04:29They have been forbidden from it.

04:31If a person is good at looking, speaking,

04:34or has a sharp mind,

04:35then when he feels that it is because of him,

04:38that it is because of him,

04:40that is called arrogance.

04:41If a person says that he is very beautiful,

04:43then it is because of him that he is beautiful.

04:45That is called arrogance.

04:46If he knows that yes, I exist,

04:49but it is Allah's special favor on me,

04:51then arrogance doesn't exist, it ends.

04:53And many people have an inferiority complex,

04:55and it shouldn't exist.

04:56Now, when we talk about racism,

04:59I sometimes feel that in racism,

05:01some people who are being racist,

05:04they assume that they are better than me.

05:07Let's say, if someone is calling you black,

05:10then you call him white.

05:11Why do you assume that black is bad?

05:14Okay, such a beautiful sentence,

05:17there is another reason for being lonely.

05:20Gulzar Sahab has summarized it in a sentence.

05:22What a beautiful sentence it is.

05:24In life, we have options,

05:28but we deliberately choose such options

05:33in which we can depend on ourselves.

05:36Oh!

05:37What is their sentence?

05:39That sentence is,

05:41happiness is like a flower.

05:44Oh!

05:45Happiness is like a flower.

05:48Sadness is like a candle.

05:50Sadness is like a candle.

05:52Wow, sir.

05:53Sir, I remember this.

05:54When you light a flower, it dies.

05:58Yes.

05:58But a candle keeps on burning slowly.

06:03The day you change it,

06:07keep sadness like a flower,

06:10and light happiness like a candle,

06:14then you can come out of that loneliness.

06:17Because a good, happy,

06:20happy person,

06:22why are you unhappy in life?

06:27Did something go wrong?

06:28Did you regret it?

06:30You have to decide how much you regret it.

06:33But Haroon Sahab, there is an antithesis to what Gulzar Sahab said.

06:37What is that?

06:37Why is happiness and sadness burning a person?

06:41The candle is burning and so is the flower.

06:44The reason is that time moves in one direction.

06:48Wow.

06:48It doesn't want to come back.

06:50When the candle is burning, it can't become a candle again.

06:53When the flower is burning,

06:55the candle is burning and time is passing.

06:56How will you light happiness like a candle?

07:00It's a question, right?

07:01Yes, exactly.

07:01How do you swap these two things?

07:04It's a question.

07:05A man has given an answer to this.

07:08That man was on a ship.

07:11The ship was flown by an American government in 2009.

07:15As soon as it took off, there were birds in its engine.

07:19A film has been made on this, Sully.

07:22Sully was the pilot of the ship that was flying it.

07:25There was a passenger on that ship, his name was Rick Elias.

07:28Rick Elias.

07:29He was sitting next to the window

07:31and he could see that the engine was on fire.

07:33Wow.

07:34Imagine, you all sit on a ship.

07:36You are sitting on the ship and the engine is on fire.

07:40The engine stops for a while.

07:42The entire ship is in a state of turbulence.

07:46Suddenly, the pilot says,

07:49brace for impact.

07:51That means, get ready for a crash.

07:53Wow.

07:54And during that time, what that man went through,

07:59what he thought,

08:00he has described it in a very beautiful way.

08:04He says, I knew I was going to die.

08:07We were about to crash.

08:08The ship was going down and there was no sound.

08:11Because the engines were shut.

08:13The ship was silent.

08:15People were silent.

08:16People started to whisper.

08:18Yes.

08:20He says, the first thing that came to my mind

08:23was that there were so many joys in my life

08:29that I thought that one day I would celebrate this joy.

08:33Wow.

08:33But I postponed it.

08:35Whether it was tomorrow or the day after.

08:37Wow.

08:38Let me give you an example.

08:39His biggest regret was this.

08:41What are those joys?

08:43You bought a very beautiful bouquet from the market.

08:47Yes, sir.

08:47You kept it at home.

08:49You put it on the side and said,

08:52it will look beautiful here.

08:54It will look beautiful when you sit and look at it.

08:58Wow.

08:58You will enjoy it.

08:59Yes.

09:00When you won't be there.

09:01You paint the walls of the house.

09:04Yes.

09:04Make it green or white.

09:06Yes.

09:06It will look beautiful.

09:08You make a garden at home and put flowers in it.

09:10It will look beautiful when you sit here.

09:13Yes.

09:14It is in my mind.

09:15You will sit here.

09:16You will do it.

09:19Your biggest regret before dying would be

09:23that all the joys that you have postponed

09:25which are all around you.

09:26Yes.

09:27Your children, your family.

09:29The research of Harvard University says

09:33that don't let yourself be alone.

09:36How will you not be alone

09:38when your loved ones, your children, your parents,

09:41your friends, your siblings.

09:43The joys that you had to celebrate.

09:45Yes.

09:45You will spend time with them.

09:48And the joys that you have postponed

09:51that you will enjoy it again.

09:53But the simple meaning of this is

09:55that if you buy a suit from the market

09:57then don't save it for some occasion.

09:59Wear it at that time.

10:00Wear it at that time.

10:01Yes.

10:02But he is going to wear it at the event.

10:04No.

10:04He can't wear it at home.

10:05That's the thing.

10:06When you are leaving the world

10:07then you will be remembering that suit.

10:12We will take a short break now.

10:14We will meet again after the break.

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