00:00Hey guys, it's me, Annabella Rose, back on Karma TV, expert dating coach from KarmaLifestyles.com.
00:06Now today, I'm out on the streets asking today's question, which is, what do girls not tell
00:12you about sex?
00:13Now, sex is an interesting topic.
00:15A lot of people are shy and a little bit self-conscious, so are unable to openly communicate maybe
00:20what they want, what they need, and maybe they're scared to tell you a certain thing.
00:24Now I'm going to get to the bottom of what it is that they won't tell you and why.
00:29And hey, maybe give you some hints to make you an expert partner in bed.
00:37What won't you tell a guy about sex?
00:42Forcible enjoyment.
00:43Mystery tattoo.
00:44Probably that they're doing a shit job.
00:46It's not big enough.
00:52If I wasn't enjoying a certain position of how he did it or something, I'd probably tell
00:56him, but I'd probably be very open about how he made me feel.
01:01Do you think it depends on the length of time that you are with a guy of how open you are?
01:06Absolutely not.
01:07You let him know then and there what you want and how you feel.
01:11I think it depends on the guy, but I'm pretty chill about this whole thing, you know?
01:16I like this. She's open. So are you just willing to just tell a guy how you feel?
01:20Yeah, because obviously if something happens with this guy, it means there's a connection
01:24at first, and I feel confident with the guy.
01:26I have a daughter.
01:27You wouldn't tell them that you have a daughter?
01:29Yeah, while sex.
01:30Let's say, is there an element of sex that you're shy about?
01:33No, definitely not.
01:34I think you just have to feel it, be with it, go for it.
01:37Do you think communication is good?
01:39Absolutely, the more the better.
01:41Would you tell a guy what you want?
01:42Sometimes when he's in the right spot, then I would encourage him to carry on in that
01:49position, you know?
01:50Absolutely.
01:51You're not shy about any sort of topic?
01:53I wouldn't say so, but I don't know, throw something at me, then we'll see.
01:57Is there anything that you'd be shy about?
01:59I think people tend to be shy about girls' vaginas, and talking about it, the smell,
02:06the look, and it's just like, hey, it's there.
02:08Yeah, first of all, you need to like it.
02:12Absolutely, because sometimes...
02:14Yes, they like, but not particularly.
02:17I mean, I'm from Italy, so I prefer something very...
02:21Would you ever be shy about a subject about sex?
02:24Would you direct a guy, would you be like, do this, do that?
02:27Life is short.
02:28Exactly, life is short.
02:30I have to waste my time.
02:32Is there anything that you're shy about in the subject of sex?
02:35Are you like super open, communicative?
02:37Depends how many drinks I have.
02:39It depends on the guy.
02:40Is it someone I'm dating, or is it just like, you know, not so important, like bread with
02:46benefits, or one I said, you need to be more specific.
02:50How they look, if you...
02:52If they look bad.
02:53If they look bad, yeah.
02:54Always be polite, yeah.
02:55So, what do you think people are most self-conscious about in the bedroom?
02:59What are people shy to say?
03:01Yeah, I think people are shy to be noisy.
03:03Yeah, I think people get mega too, like too nervous about, yeah.
03:07I probably wouldn't tell him that I'm gay if I was with a guy.
03:11Now, are you the type of person that would just tell the other person, your partner,
03:15what you want?
03:16Yeah, pretty much.
03:17I'm very straightforward, I always have been.
03:19I mean, I think that if you want to actually get satisfaction, especially being a female,
03:24you have to sort of have a little bit of direction.
03:27You need to speak, like talk through it, figure out what feels right.
03:30Do you think a lot of people are scared to do that?
03:33Oh yeah, definitely.
03:34I've got so many friends who've like, even after being with their boyfriends for years,
03:37will not say what they want.
03:39Do you think that a lot of people are shy when it comes to talking about sex?
03:44Yes, absolutely.
03:45Why do you think people are so shy?
03:48It's something personal, by culture you don't share with other people, it's like a taboo.
03:54Anything.
03:55I will tell everything to a guy about sex.
03:57Is there anything that you're shy about?
03:59No.
04:00I think I would tell everything, but not directly, you know.
04:04So do you think that you're confident enough to communicate with a guy?
04:08Yeah, I think that kind of throws me because I just tell them straight out everything.
04:12I like that.
04:13I literally, I just tell them everything, so there's literally nothing that I wouldn't say.
04:16But you're bad?
04:17Okay.
04:18Would you give a guy directions?
04:19No.
04:20It depends.
04:21If it's a boyfriend, maybe.
04:22Slightly, but not massively.
04:24What do you think makes a good partner in the bedroom?
04:26Just someone that like, loves you.
04:28I don't know, it's just nice to know that they actually love you.
04:30Okay.
04:31Yeah, definitely.
04:32If he waits for me?
04:34Yes.
04:35Just her being her.
04:36I think a connection is really important.
04:38I think you need to be able to feel and read the other person.
04:42I think that's really important.
04:43It's better to don't go directly to the point, if it's not like a situation that is very,
04:49very hot.
04:50It's better, obviously, to go to the preliminary, remember all the parts of the body.
04:57Like you said, open communication.
04:59Really lovely and nice.
05:00Yeah?
05:01Yeah.
05:02First of all, it's someone who you're comfortable with, not just physically, but emotionally
05:06and emotional connection is everything.
05:09Loving.
05:10You've got to be loving.
05:12You can't just be like, throw you around like a rag doll.
05:14Right?
05:15Yeah.
05:16Give as much as take.
05:17Not being explicit, but you know, trying to work both ways, so to speak.
05:22Work both ways, two-way street.
05:24Not being lazy.
05:25Someone who will f*** you till you scream.
05:27Not to be selfish.
05:28To think about the other is very important.
05:31Yeah, not being selfish is definitely a key.
05:34I would also say, someone who's willing to compromise.
05:37First of all, personality and flexibility.
05:40That in order to understand the other, be open to listen to the other.
05:45Confidence and respect.
05:47After the communication, he doesn't respect the things you say or something like this.
05:52You're not going to have a good time.
05:54Well, confidence.
05:55Someone that's very attentive.
05:56Do you think communication is important when it comes to sex?
05:59Yeah, of course it is.
06:00I feel like sometimes you just don't, you'd rather not say anything.
06:04Communication is key, yeah.
06:06Absolutely.
06:07100%.
06:08Yeah, definitely.
06:09Otherwise, how do you know what your partner wants?
06:12Of course it is.
06:13Consent comes from communication, so it has to be a very, very big part of the whole experience, doesn't it?
06:18Yes.
06:19Yeah, very important.
06:20Absolutely.
06:21Communication is key.
06:22Yes, because if you don't have good communication, you cannot have a good time in the bed.
06:27It is crucial, yes.
06:28So there you have it, guys.
06:29The answer to today's question, which is what women won't tell you about sex.
06:35Now, actually, it was quite surprising, and it surprised me.
06:38A lot of people are very open and communicative when it comes to sex.
06:41And there isn't a certain thing that they won't tell you.
06:44I think a lot of girls in the beginning can be quite shy, maybe about their body issues,
06:48about their weight, about the way that they look.
06:51And that is something that they won't openly communicate.
06:53And they kind of expect you to guess that on your own.
06:56But when you have been with a girl, they seem to be extremely confident in telling you what to do,
07:01how to do it, and you to them, making sure that you become the perfect sexual partner.
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