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90 Day Fiancé_ Brandan and Mary’s Wedding SWARMED by BEETLES
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00:00 (gentle music)
00:02 - She's got this beautiful dress on,
00:07 makeup done, hair did.
00:10 - Nails done, everything did.
00:12 Sorry, I couldn't help myself.
00:14 ♪ Are you fancy, huh ♪
00:15 ♪ Are you fancy, huh ♪
00:17 - Brandon and Mary get married, despite their doubts.
00:21 - I promise you that you would never have to worry
00:23 about me abandoning you.
00:26 I love you more than anything.
00:27 - And it was a nice ceremony.
00:29 Until it started raining beetles.
00:33 - I'm looking over and there's like this fog rolling in.
00:37 - Oh my gosh.
00:39 - And I realized that's not a fog, that's a lot of bugs.
00:45 - Y'all, I have never seen anything like this in my life.
00:49 What does it mean?
00:51 Is it a bad omen?
00:52 Is it a good omen?
00:53 This looks bad.
00:54 - There's hundreds of bugs everywhere.
00:58 Over here.
01:00 - Jeez.
01:01 - Plus, Danielle kicks the 90 Day crew out of her house
01:05 after Johan leaves her and tries to take their dog with him.
01:08 - I want everyone out of my house now.
01:11 I want everyone out of my house now.
01:13 I want everyone out of my house now.
01:14 All of you get out.
01:16 Get out.
01:17 - Woo, let's get into it.
01:19 Hey 90 Day fans fam, it's Malicia.
01:24 For those who celebrate, you know,
01:26 it is Thanksgiving week.
01:28 I wish you the best time with your loved ones.
01:31 If you're hanging out solo or working,
01:34 make sure you at least enjoy some good food, okay?
01:37 Before we get into Mary and Brandon saying I do,
01:40 let's talk about Johan saying I do.
01:42 ♪ I don't wanna do this anymore ♪
01:45 - Finally.
01:47 - My husband wants to leave me
01:48 at the happiest time of the year.
01:49 - Yeah.
01:50 Let's rewind and get into how this latest argument
01:53 started last episode.
01:55 - We started a toy drive online
01:57 where people from the US were able to buy gifts
01:59 from a wishlist and we would pay for the shipping costs.
02:02 - While wrapping gifts for the kids in the neighborhood,
02:05 Danielle asked Johan for the money
02:07 he's supposed to contribute to the house each month.
02:10 Why she chose to ask him while they're trying
02:12 to spread Christmas joy, your guess is as good as mine.
02:16 It was an argument waiting to happen.
02:18 (speaking in foreign language)
02:22 (speaking in foreign language)
02:26 - Okay, so we're all clear,
02:34 75,000 Dominican pesos is about 1,319 US dollars
02:39 and 26 cents to be exact.
02:43 I Googled it.
02:44 That's a lot of money for a man who barely has a job.
02:47 Last time we checked, he was collecting debt from people.
02:50 In this moment, it's like she's asking him
02:53 for something she knows he doesn't have.
02:56 And what's unfortunate is that it doesn't even seem
02:58 like Johan is out here trying to get it.
03:01 Yes, I understand that opportunities
03:04 in his environment are limited.
03:06 It's hard out there, but he's not even trying
03:09 to make it work with Danielle.
03:10 He's making it more clear every week
03:13 that he just wants to be taken care of.
03:16 (speaking in foreign language)
03:21 (speaking in foreign language)
03:23 - Welcome to adulthood, Johan.
03:25 You have to pay for stuff.
03:27 And in many cases, stuff you don't wanna pay for.
03:30 Yes, it's a blessing to be able to afford things.
03:34 But if we could have those same things
03:36 and not have to pay for them,
03:38 I think most of us would choose the latter.
03:40 ♪ Dalton ain't easy ♪
03:43 - Say that again.
03:44 (speaking in foreign language)
03:49 (speaking in foreign language)
03:53 - He looks tired.
04:04 And Danielle should be drained too.
04:07 She's been trying to force Johan
04:09 into becoming a man that he's just not.
04:13 And I understand, it's easy to fall in love with potential.
04:17 But the reality is, he doesn't meet her standards.
04:21 He doesn't even want to meet her standards.
04:24 (speaking in foreign language)
04:28 - Fast forward to this week's episode,
04:30 Danielle and Johan put the drama aside for a moment
04:34 to go deliver the gifts to the kids in the neighborhood.
04:37 - My first Christmas living in Dominican Republic
04:39 has turned out to be the worst Christmas of my life.
04:42 (children laughing)
04:47 - Here we go, here, that's for you, baby.
04:49 I'm trying to hold this together for the kids,
04:51 but this is really, really hard to do.
04:53 (speaking in foreign language)
04:58 - You know, Danielle's costume made me realize
05:02 how much we don't appreciate the elves.
05:05 More than likely, she did all the hard work
05:08 putting this toy drive together,
05:10 yet the kids are like, "Santa!"
05:13 (speaking in foreign language)
05:16 If it wasn't for the elf, the toy wouldn't exist.
05:20 These two get back in the car,
05:22 and after being on a little high
05:24 from seeing the kids so happy,
05:26 (speaking in foreign language)
05:30 they start to talk about their relationship,
05:32 and these two turn into the grumpiest Santa
05:35 and elf I've ever seen.
05:37 (speaking in foreign language)
05:40 Johan tells Danielle that he wants to take off
05:43 his Santa costume before he goes to his mom's.
05:46 So they return to the apartment,
05:48 Johan changes, and he starts to pack his clothes.
05:51 Oof, that's when it gets real petty.
05:53 (speaking in foreign language)
05:57 What are you gonna do with his clothes, Danielle?
06:01 Just let him take them.
06:03 (speaking in foreign language)
06:14 Why is she buying him so many clothes?
06:17 That money could have been going to the rent,
06:19 or it could have been for things in the house.
06:21 Johan's closet is looking pretty full
06:24 for him not to have any money.
06:25 Once again, it's giving spoiled teenage son.
06:29 (speaking in foreign language)
06:33 Danielle lets the clothes go,
06:41 but then she tells him not to take the hangers.
06:44 (speaking in foreign language)
06:48 He wants to call somebody else selfish and cheap,
06:55 but it's looking like he married Danielle just to use her,
06:59 and he's admitted to not wanting to pay any bills.
07:02 Okay.
07:05 Aside from that, I will say it's clear
07:08 that Danielle doesn't want him to leave.
07:10 First it's the clothes, then it's the hangers,
07:14 and now it's the don't dare take all those Yankee hats.
07:17 Johan.
07:18 No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
07:23 Those are mine, no.
07:24 You're not leaving with them.
07:25 No, enough, enough.
07:27 Girl, just let him go.
07:29 (speaking in foreign language)
07:33 You're not going anywhere with my dog or my hat.
07:38 You're not going anywhere.
07:42 You're not going anywhere with my dog.
07:43 No, no, no, no, no, you're not going anywhere with my dog.
07:48 Johan.
07:49 - What? - Poor dog.
07:50 He's caught in the middle of his parents' drama and toxicity
07:53 just like a child would be.
07:55 I wonder what something like this affect him.
07:58 Y'all know dogs can become emotionally traumatized too.
08:01 - Johan. - Go ahead and put
08:02 your dog on the phone.
08:03 - Johan, no.
08:04 Give me the dog, give me the dog.
08:07 You're not human.
08:09 I want everyone out of my hostel.
08:11 I want everyone out of my house now.
08:13 I want everyone out of my house now.
08:15 All of you, get out.
08:16 Get out.
08:17 - All she had to say was, "I don't want you to leave."
08:23 But it became about the clothes,
08:25 then the hangers, then the hats.
08:27 I can understand the dog now.
08:29 That was sad.
08:30 Luckily, he didn't take Gizmo
08:32 because she's going to need that unconditional love tonight.
08:36 And next week, it finally looks like she's officially tired
08:41 of this relationship.
08:42 - I've learned some things over the course of the last week
08:45 and I don't want anything to do with Johan.
08:48 I have been wearing rose colored glasses this entire time.
08:52 I think that the Johan that I was seeing
08:54 and was believing was there was never actually in front of me.
08:57 - What did he do now?
08:58 I can't wait to find out.
09:01 All right, let's get into Brandon and Mary.
09:04 At the beginning of the episode,
09:05 it's the morning of their wedding day.
09:07 Mary seems to be in a good mood.
09:10 Even though last night,
09:11 she was questioning if she even wanted to marry Brandon,
09:14 following an argument they had
09:16 because he's been so focused on his video game.
09:19 - After our fight, there's definitely some awkwardness,
09:23 some tension between me and Mary.
09:25 You got everything?
09:27 Need help with anything?
09:29 - I'm just gonna call Lola.
09:30 - Last night, when Mary and my mom got back from church,
09:36 it was very tense and we just went straight to bed.
09:40 - Mary leaves the house with her grandmother
09:42 to go get ready for the ceremony.
09:44 And she admits as she's heading to her wedding
09:47 that she still has doubts.
09:50 - Even though Brandon's mom really helps me
09:52 to understand how much I love him,
09:55 I feel like I'm not ready to marry him
09:58 'cause he still didn't reassure me
10:01 that I can trust him to be man enough to be a father
10:05 and my future husband.
10:08 (speaking in foreign language)
10:12 - Knowing what we know now about them Beatles,
10:14 those words take on a new meaning.
10:16 But in this moment, Mary tells her grandmother
10:18 her wedding is going to be sad
10:20 because her grandfather won't be in attendance.
10:23 He's working.
10:25 At least, that's what was said.
10:28 Back at the house, Brandon and his mom are getting dressed
10:31 and she cuts straight to the chase with him.
10:34 - You're getting married and it is for life.
10:38 You're gonna be a father.
10:40 This is it.
10:40 You know, man up.
10:43 - While she tells him to man up,
10:45 she also tells him she believes he can do it,
10:49 which seems to be exactly what Brandon needs to hear.
10:53 - I know you have the ability to do this.
10:57 I have seen you do things for her, with her,
11:01 because of her at the age of 23
11:03 than any of the men I ever dated
11:06 all the way up into their 40s.
11:08 It's just gonna take some effort on your part.
11:11 - Thank you.
11:14 That means a lot.
11:16 - Sometimes you just need to hear someone say,
11:19 I believe in you and mean it,
11:22 especially a parent that can do wonders for your confidence.
11:27 Fast forward to the wedding.
11:29 Oh yeah, by the way, the mayor is marrying them,
11:32 which took Brandon by surprise.
11:35 - Honestly, I don't know who I was expecting,
11:36 but definitely not the mayor.
11:38 - Well, maybe if you got off those video games, Brandon.
11:42 I'm just kidding.
11:44 Actually, no, I'm not.
11:46 - I know that our love is real,
11:51 so I'm gonna marry him.
11:53 - The ceremony starts and Mary looks beautiful
11:56 as she walks down the aisle.
11:58 - She's got this beautiful dress on,
12:00 makeup done, hair did.
12:03 I'm just like, wow.
12:05 Like, this is such a beautiful woman right here.
12:09 Am I really getting married to her?
12:17 - Yes, you are, for better or for worse.
12:20 They exchange bows as Mary tears up
12:23 and Brandon looks onto her with so much pride.
12:26 - And I promise you that you will never have to worry
12:30 about me abandoning you.
12:33 I see my future with you.
12:35 I love you more than anything.
12:36 - I just want you to know that I love you so much
12:41 and I know that we're fighting a lot.
12:44 - Whoever this lady is right here,
12:46 she is so happy for them.
12:48 She has such a sweet smile.
12:50 - I love you so much.
12:52 I know that we're fighting a lot,
12:54 but I want to spend my life,
12:56 my whole life with you forever.
13:00 - Mary, do you take Brandon
13:04 to be your lawful wedded husband?
13:06 - I do.
13:08 - Brandon, do you take Mary
13:13 to be your lawful wedding wife?
13:16 - I do.
13:19 - After the ceremony,
13:20 Mary says something to Brandon that is a bit concerning,
13:25 but we are going to keep it moving
13:26 because it is their special day.
13:30 - I feel so happy because here in the Philippines,
13:33 there's no divorce and he doesn't have a way to leave me.
13:37 - I would never leave you for anything in this world.
13:42 - It sounds cute now,
13:44 but just because you can't get a divorce
13:46 doesn't mean he won't leave.
13:48 And it definitely doesn't mean you won't be miserable.
13:51 But I'm hoping to Brandon's mom's point,
13:54 they work on their issues individually,
13:57 like Mary and her fear of abandonment,
13:59 so they can become a healthier couple.
14:01 - Am I doing it right?
14:04 - Everything was just absolutely stunning.
14:09 I came here with a chip on my shoulder towards Mary.
14:16 And in the course of being here,
14:19 my perception has changed.
14:22 And the willingness that she has
14:25 to making this marriage with my son a success
14:29 means more to me than anything in the world.
14:32 - His mom, she's a real one.
14:35 I like her.
14:36 Okay, the reception begins
14:38 and you start to hear Brandon, Mary, and his mom
14:42 complain about the bugs.
14:44 - There's a lot of bugs.
14:45 - Bugs are trying to get on you.
14:46 - These bugs are insane, they're everywhere.
14:50 - But it's an outdoor wedding.
14:52 There's food, there are lights.
14:54 Of course you can expect bugs.
14:56 But what comes next is like something out of a movie.
15:00 - I'm looking over and there's like this fog rolling in.
15:04 - Oh my gosh.
15:07 - And I realized that's not a fog, that's a lot of bugs.
15:13 - Ooh, if I was at that wedding,
15:16 I would have embarrassed myself.
15:18 - Everyone's freaking out over the bugs.
15:19 - Miss Lady isn't smiling anymore.
15:22 - What are these things?
15:24 (speaking in foreign language)
15:28 - There's hundreds of bugs everywhere.
15:30 Holy (beep) it's getting worse, it's not getting better.
15:37 This is, this is insane.
15:39 You okay, baby?
15:42 Over here.
15:43 - Ooh, nope, couldn't be me.
15:46 I would have been running until there was no bug in sight.
15:50 Does anybody know what this is?
15:52 Is this typical in the Philippines?
15:54 There's always somebody who knows random stuff
15:57 like this in the comments, speak up.
15:59 My initial thought was,
16:01 are the ancestors trying to say something?
16:03 Because it doesn't look like they're happy.
16:05 But then I Googled, what does a scarab beetle symbolize?
16:10 Yes, I am that person who will look deep into things.
16:13 And according to Google in Egypt,
16:16 the scarab beetles were important symbols
16:19 of rebirth and renewal, as well as good luck and fortune.
16:24 So it might look like a bad omen,
16:27 but in actuality, it might be a good one.
16:29 Or it could be nothing and the bugs were just hungry
16:32 and they flew toward the light.
16:33 Time will tell.
16:34 Speaking of time, next week,
16:36 Brandon's mom has a panic attack
16:38 because the beetles wouldn't go away.
16:40 They said, this is our party now.
16:43 - We got swarmed by millions of bugs.
16:47 My mom's having like a panic attack.
16:49 This is getting worse and worse and worse.
16:53 Look at me. - Oh, they're all over you.
16:55 - Holy (beep)
16:56 - That is crazy.
16:58 All right, 90 day fans fam.
17:02 Thanks for hanging with me.
17:04 Next week, there will not be a recap
17:06 because of Thanksgiving,
17:07 but I'll be back the following week
17:09 with all you need to know.
17:10 All right, make sure you stick with ET
17:12 because we are covering it all.
17:14 I will see you next time.
17:15 (upbeat music)
17:17 (upbeat music)
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