#RemajaPodcast “Rasa Lebih Selamat Jadi Pengkid..” bersama ADYYDGAF (1)
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00:00 Hi and Assalamualaikum to all who are listening to Remaja Podcast
00:05 We haven't been in the air for a long time
00:08 And today we're doing a comeback because there's something special
00:11 Before that, let me introduce myself first
00:14 I'm Faiz, the editor of Maja Remaja
00:16 And next to me
00:17 I'm Surya
00:18 Yes, and we have one or one very special guest
00:22 Very special guest today
00:23 Yes, why is that?
00:24 Why do you think it's special?
00:25 Because actually, if you want to know, recently we have a viral case
00:30 Where the case of the execution involving the executioner
00:33 But we don't want to touch on that topic
00:36 But we want to get to know more about this issue
00:39 So today we're with a very famous and very special person
00:43 Who is it?
00:45 Eddy
00:46 Eddy?
00:47 Just one name?
00:48 Just one name, but the full name is called Adriana
00:52 Adriana binti Hazari
00:56 So the short name is Eddy or Eddyway
01:02 So we can call you Eddy
01:03 Yes, sure
01:04 As we know, many people on TikTok have been following Eddy
01:09 Because his content is casual, minimal, not too try hard
01:13 But people like to see Eddy's character and personality
01:16 Why do you think people on TikTok like you?
01:18 Famous
01:19 I think I'm famous mostly because people are confused about my personality
01:24 Okay
01:25 Okay, about the issue
01:26 Okay, it's about the issue
01:29 Actually, Eddy, we don't really want to touch on the case
01:32 But when the case happened, the whole of Malaysia talked about it
01:36 Especially on social media
01:38 Even in front of the newspaper, the faces were still there
01:43 And because of the case, many people labeled it negatively
01:49 About the nickname "Pengkit"
01:53 As we know from Eddy's image now
01:56 Eddy also received criticism when people called him "Pengkit"
02:00 I want to ask first, are you comfortable when people call you "Pengkit"?
02:05 It depends, for example, like now
02:09 We're in a professional workplace
02:14 And you need to use the term, then it's fine
02:18 But then if you're a stranger, and people call you "Pengkit" from afar
02:22 Who is this?
02:23 So I like to call him "Pengkit"
02:25 It's okay if it's a family member or a friend
02:28 But it's not comfortable to hear that it's a stranger
02:34 But isn't it negative for you? Isn't it embarrassing?
02:39 It's not embarrassing, it's just rude
02:43 We have a name, why do we have to use that kind of term?
02:46 Like you don't call me "Lelaki"
02:49 You don't call me "Lady Peropon"
02:51 It's rude for half of the people, not everyone can accept that
02:56 So for you, do you feel it when people call you "Pengkit"?
02:59 Like...
03:01 Eh?
03:03 Relax, it's okay
03:05 It's not a problem, I can see the situation
03:08 But besides "Pengkit", people sometimes use the term "Tomboy"
03:14 I think the term "Tomboy" is more soft
03:18 Like more polite, more softer
03:21 Compared to "Pengkit"
03:23 It's not comfortable to hear that "Tomboy" is okay
03:27 That's why I mostly introduce myself as "Tomboy"
03:31 I don't want to use the term "Pengkit" in my videos
03:36 We want to go back to your childhood
03:40 What kind of person were you?
03:42 As an "Adriana"
03:44 "Adriana" from when you were young?
03:46 Let's go back to that "Adriana"
03:48 No, even though I was in school
03:53 My personality is still the same
03:55 The only difference is my hairstyle
03:59 I was a "Sukan"
04:02 I played soccer, volleyball, basketball, sports, and foot volleyball
04:06 When I came back, I played skateboard
04:08 And I also did some gym
04:10 So I was active
04:12 And then
04:14 After I graduated, I started to sleep more
04:16 So I gained some weight after that
04:20 So you were also a sports person?
04:22 I was mostly an athlete
04:24 I was a bit naughty
04:26 I was active in sports because I didn't want to go to the gym
04:30 What kind of sports did you like?
04:32 Sports that I liked?
04:34 Sports that I liked?
04:36 I don't know, I was in all kinds of sports
04:38 I liked sports
04:40 But my favorite was skateboarding
04:42 I was in a competition
04:44 I won twice for girls skateboarding
04:50 I was really interested in that
04:52 But I didn't have time to go to the gym
04:54 So I had to stop all of that
04:56 So you were a naughty girl since you were a kid?
04:58 You were active?
05:00 Yes, but now I look like that because I have money to buy clothes
05:06 How did you dress up when you were in school?
05:12 Were you still wearing a skirt?
05:14 I was still wearing a skirt and a t-shirt
05:16 It was normal
05:18 But I looked different because of my hair
05:22 Oh, you had long hair before?
05:26 Yes, my hair was really long
05:28 How old were you when you had long hair?
05:32 I was 5 years old when I had long hair
05:36 I cut it short
05:38 Can we throwback a bit to that moment?
05:42 What made you decide to cut your hair and change your image?
05:46 For me, I think it was more about safety
05:51 Because there was this one time
05:55 I was walking from the LRT to my house
05:59 It was about 10 minutes away
06:03 And then, while I was walking
06:07 This one guy got on his scooter
06:09 He was wearing a helmet
06:11 We could see his face
06:13 He stopped
06:15 I was like, "What's wrong with this guy?
06:17 It was peak hour, 8 o'clock, everyone was going home
06:21 He stopped
06:23 And guess what?
06:25 He tried to steal my dress
06:30 And then he left
06:32 I was like, "Oh, okay"
06:34 So I was thinking
06:36 In a public place?
06:38 Yes, on the side of the road
06:40 I was thinking
06:42 I had this one thought
06:44 Is it because I'm wearing a helmet?
06:47 Or what?
06:49 And then after that
06:51 I changed my image
06:55 I never had any sexual harassment after that
06:59 Because I feel more safe
07:02 By looking like this
07:04 Compared to that
07:06 I understand
07:08 Because when you mentioned about long hair
07:12 It's a place where you can scroll
07:14 You have TikTok and Instagram
07:16 You're famous, so you should know who he is
07:18 There's this one post
07:20 I think it was an international post
07:22 You were wearing a hijab
07:25 Like a shawl
07:27 It was a woman
07:30 A woman with a cute scarf
07:33 It was sweet
07:35 So I could imagine
07:37 When that happened
07:39 For me
07:41 People will take advantage of that image
07:45 Even though my mom didn't know about it
07:48 I didn't tell her
07:51 Because I think if I told her
07:53 She would be more overprotective
07:56 So we didn't want to worry her
07:58 So we were like, "It's okay, I'll just keep it to myself"
08:01 How did your family react when you changed your image?
08:06 My mom is not an open-minded person
08:10 But she's quite open-minded
08:13 She didn't force me to wear long hair
08:18 Or wear a hijab
08:21 She didn't force me to do certain things
08:23 Because she said, "It's normal for kids to grow up"
08:25 So let them explore themselves
08:29 She never made it an issue
08:31 But she did say a few things to my mom
08:34 Like, "You look like a man"
08:39 "Try to look more feminine"
08:43 "Let people see you as a woman"
08:45 "It's okay, you look smart with short hair"
08:49 "But let people see you as a woman"
08:51 That's all my mom said
08:54 But if it's an event that requires you to wear a hijab
08:59 Like a party or a wedding
09:04 I'll wear a hijab
09:05 So there's no problem with wearing any kind of clothes
09:09 But the image of you with short hair is the only thing that's being exposed
09:13 Can I ask you something?
09:15 How many siblings do you have?
09:17 I only have two
09:19 I first, and then my brother
09:22 He's currently studying in Johor
09:26 He's 18
09:27 We've been separated for 7 years
09:29 When he changed his image, did he have any comments from your brother?
09:34 My brother was open about it
09:37 He didn't care if I dressed up or befriended anyone
09:42 He never took it personally
09:44 And then, because I'm not that strict with my brother
09:48 Like, we're mostly open
09:50 So for me, if he did something, he would inform me
09:55 He's comfortable telling me
09:57 Instead of you stopping him from doing something
10:00 Like, "You can't do this, you can't do that"
10:02 He'll feel uncomfortable telling me what he wants to say
10:06 So when he tells me, we know what he's doing
10:09 Instead of him hiding behind us
10:12 It's more dangerous that way
10:14 At least when he tells me, we can give him advice
10:17 So they understand that your reason for changing your image
10:21 Doesn't mean anything to the family members?
10:26 It's just...
10:28 It's just...
10:30 My mom's friends sometimes
10:33 They want to say hi
10:34 "Hey, where are you from?"
10:35 "I'm a guy"
10:36 I'm like, "No, I'm a girl"
10:38 They're like, "Oh, really? Sorry"
10:40 My mom's like, "You're wearing this?"
10:43 "I'm embarrassed, my friends"
10:45 They're like, "You're so shy because you're Argentinian"
10:48 "You're misgendered"
10:50 That's all
10:51 Have you ever felt that way?
10:53 No, I think...
10:55 At first, maybe
10:57 But then, along the way, I find it funny
11:00 They label you like that
11:05 They're like, "Oh, your daughter has two guys"
11:08 "No, my mom"
11:09 "This is my daughter"
11:11 My mom was like that
11:12 She's okay with it
11:14 She doesn't want to feel anything
11:17 She's okay with it
11:18 I'm sure when you were in school, you had a lot of friends
11:22 Once you finished SPM, you need an image
11:24 What were your friends' opinions?
11:26 Some were willing to leave you
11:28 Some were friends
11:29 Some were friends with you
11:30 Some were shocked
11:32 Both men and women, we want to know
11:35 What was the situation like?
11:37 I rarely have male friends
11:40 Because I don't feel comfortable having male friends
11:44 Some of them, maybe not all
11:46 But some of them, like...
11:48 Not being sensitive
11:49 For example, I dress like this
11:51 You're talking nonsense
11:52 For example, I say, "I have a stomachache"
11:57 For example, a standard female
11:59 And then they're like, "Oh, you're a girl"
12:02 "I thought you were a guy"
12:04 You're very early with that
12:06 So I don't feel comfortable having male friends
12:09 I can count on my fingers how many male friends I have
12:12 Mostly female
12:13 If I'm with a guy, I'm like, "You're a girl, I'm a girl"
12:16 So I don't have that
12:18 I'm very sensitive
12:20 What about female friends?
12:23 One of my female friends
12:26 She broke up with her boyfriend
12:29 Because she was like...
12:31 I exposed her, I cut her hair
12:34 And then she was like...
12:35 She couldn't accept it
12:37 So I don't mind
12:38 If you want to be friends, be friends
12:40 If you don't want to be friends, don't be friends
12:42 Do you feel sad when people judge you from a physical point of view
12:48 But the value of the friendship that has been built for years
12:51 It's like that, it's gone
12:53 So I feel it too
12:56 Because we're quite close
12:57 Because we play together a little
12:59 But then along the way
13:02 I don't really mind
13:04 We'll lose people along the way
13:08 Your life
13:09 So I don't care
13:11 I don't mind thinking about it for a long time
13:14 What for?
13:15 And people don't want to accept it
13:17 Just leave it
13:18 Okay
13:19 So now the world of social media, right?
13:21 The digital world
13:22 And we know that you are very active on social media
13:26 Now when there is a job from the client
13:29 And also some have to do reviews and so on
13:31 I want to ask a little
13:32 When with image sometimes
13:34 There are companies that ask for this kind of image
13:40 And fortunately, Adik, you are a freelance social media influencer
13:44 So not related to any company policy
13:48 But from your client's side
13:51 Is there anything they see as a built image?
13:55 It's okay, it's not my business
13:57 Mostly clients who come to me to promote their products
14:03 Mostly I think they must see their products
14:07 They will look for an influencer that suits their product
14:11 So there has never been an issue with me
14:13 You have to wear this, you have to wear this
14:16 So they look for me
14:18 You have to accept the way I am
14:20 You can't change
14:21 But I've got a product
14:24 Wow, cosmetic
14:26 Mostly
14:28 They tend to promote lip tint and eyeliner
14:32 Okay
14:33 So if the product is already in the eyeliner
14:36 I'll use it
14:38 To promote the product
14:40 It depends, but mostly I won't take skincare products
14:42 Because I don't have skincare
14:44 But you look flawless
14:46 Some people say if you don't take care of it, it's beautiful
14:50 I wash my face with an airpipe
14:54 I take care of it too much
14:57 I don't have skincare
15:00 I wash my face, I wake up in the morning
15:02 I wash my face, I wash my face with water
15:04 I brush my teeth, I take a shower
15:06 That's all?
15:07 That's all
15:08 But if it's like your standard, whitehead, blackhead
15:10 Sometimes once, two months, three months
15:13 Maybe I can scrub
15:15 That's the only thing
15:17 If I think about it, I'll use it
15:20 If I don't think about it, I won't use it
15:23 In the future, for example
15:25 If I join a company
15:28 And they put a policy like that
15:30 Are you willing to change your image for work?
15:35 Depends on the payment
15:38 No one works for free
15:40 I understand
15:41 If the payment is worth it
15:44 To change your image, then why not
15:47 If the payment is normal
15:50 You don't have to change your personality
15:52 You're not being yourself
15:54 You're not comfortable working
15:56 So I'd rather not
15:59 Because it will affect your mental health
16:02 Along the way
16:03 That's right
16:04 We'll stop for a moment
16:06 To share a segment with you
16:09 Actually we've asked people out there
16:11 About the term whitehead
16:13 What's their opinion?
16:14 What's their first impression?
16:16 Let's hear first
16:17 What's the public opinion about whitehead?
16:20 My opinion about whitehead
16:22 Because I have a lot of whitehead acquaintances
16:25 For me, they're like women
16:28 Who dress like men
16:30 So for me, it's not up to us
16:32 To judge them
16:34 How they dress, how they act
16:36 For me, what's important is their heart
16:39 I think whitehead is a community
16:42 Of people with identity disorders
16:46 They don't know if they're white or not
16:49 That's what I think
16:51 I don't want to comment too much
16:54 Because I'm afraid
16:55 This is a sensitive topic
16:57 I think it's wrong
17:00 And I hope they go back to their original philosophy
17:05 To dress, to act
17:08 More towards women
17:10 To me, whitehead is one of the ways
17:15 For people to express their personalities
17:19 Meaning not all women are feminine women
17:25 But the other way is mostly tomboy
17:29 But whitehead is not just a man
17:35 But they're even like girls
17:38 I'm assuming that's what whitehead means
17:41 I don't support it
17:45 But I keep it
17:47 I can be a bit open-minded about this thing
17:51 Because we don't know what they've been through
17:54 To become like this
17:56 I just hope the best for them
17:59 We heard what people have to say about whitehead
18:04 Some were surprised when we asked
18:07 Some were like, that's a normal thing nowadays
18:10 People come with different kinds of images
18:13 We're more inclusive
18:15 Especially in Malaysia, we're more open-minded
18:17 And images are secondary
18:20 What's important is the heart
18:22 The heart is more important than the appearance
18:24 Really?
18:25 Like you, did you have any whitehead friends like Eddy?
18:30 I had a lot of whitehead friends
18:32 Because you studied broadcasting
18:34 I studied theater
18:36 So I'm used to it
18:38 For me, it's a normal thing
18:40 But I want to ask Eddy
18:43 Have you ever felt uncomfortable with the title?
18:47 Uncomfortable?
18:49 No
18:50 I don't have any problem with the title
18:53 Because it's normal
18:56 We're the ones who dress like that
18:58 So we need to face the consequences
19:00 So there's no problem
19:02 Like what you said, some of their opinions
19:05 Are a bit cynical
19:08 And a bit indecisive
19:10 They said, you're a woman
19:12 Why do you want to change your image?
19:15 Or people say, you're a fitra
19:18 Have you ever felt angry or sad when you heard that?
19:25 At first, I didn't feel sad
19:28 But along the way, I got a lot of comments like that
19:31 It's too much, like people said
19:33 It's normal
19:35 So mostly, if I got that kind of comment
19:39 Or people said that to me
19:41 I'll talk to them
19:42 Mostly, they'll comment on my videos
19:44 So I'll talk to them
19:46 It's not wrong to criticize
19:49 But it's better if you criticize me
19:52 Either face to face or personally
19:55 So what's the point of criticizing in public?
19:58 So for me, if you criticize me personally
20:02 Or face to face
20:04 I can accept it
20:05 It's not that I can't accept it
20:08 But the way you express your criticism
20:11 It's also right
20:12 Not everyone can accept it
20:14 If you criticize harshly
20:15 So I'll say it like that
20:17 To my followers or people who want to criticize me
20:22 In public
20:23 If I'm friends with you
20:25 I can talk to you, I can hang out with you
20:27 It means you're one of the lucky ones
20:29 Because I can accept you
20:33 Sometimes, I get DMs from men
20:36 Like, "Hi, I want to meet you"
20:38 And I was like
20:39 Are you blind?
20:42 There are many beautiful women
20:44 Why do you want to meet me?
20:47 Maybe because they're interested in other people
20:51 Their taste
20:53 What they see is what's interesting to them
20:56 But that's our mindset
20:59 Don't you want a more feminine, beautiful, more hijab?
21:06 Why do you want to be with me?
21:08 I had a friend
21:11 She's still my girlfriend
21:13 She has a short hair
21:15 Maybe a little longer than you
21:17 But she's a good-looking and active woman
21:20 The reason why my friend chose her
21:22 Is because she's nervous when a woman is too feminine
21:26 She doesn't know what to do
21:28 When a woman is quite similar to her character
21:33 She feels like a friend
21:35 She feels more comfortable
21:38 But she's more comfortable to interact
21:40 I understand
21:41 If a man says he wants you
21:44 And that's the reason
21:46 Do you feel like you should give him a chance?
21:48 I don't think I'm going forward into a dating life
21:56 Or a marriage life
21:59 Because for me
22:01 My focus now
22:02 Is to build my wealth
22:06 I want to have my own house
22:08 My own car
22:09 Financially stable
22:10 My family
22:11 Settle all of that
22:13 And when I reach that goal
22:15 Maybe I can look for a guy
22:20 But for now
22:22 I want to stabilize my financial status
22:26 Because there are many cases
22:29 My friend got married after SPM
22:32 My dad was a housewife
22:34 My husband cheated on me
22:36 We got divorced
22:37 My dad got married
22:39 There are many cases like that
22:43 So when you have to live in that condition
22:46 You're left with nothing
22:48 You're done
22:49 You don't have a child
22:51 So you're done
22:53 So now you want to
22:55 You want to focus on yourself first
22:57 So now I want to focus on my wealth
23:00 At least if I don't have a prayer
23:02 But if I have to live in the future
23:04 I don't have a house
23:05 I have something to move forward
23:08 Do you understand?
23:09 You mentioned love
23:11 Love
23:14 What's love?
23:16 I want to ask
23:18 Everyone has their own personal taste
23:21 What do you look for in yourself?
23:25 Oh my god
23:27 For me
23:28 I'm more into personality
23:31 Looks come second
23:33 Whether you're handsome or not
23:35 It depends on how you look at it
23:39 Our eyes are different from others
23:42 So I'm more into personality
23:44 If you vibe with me
23:46 If we match or whatsoever
23:48 Then maybe I can move forward
23:51 Do you need to be young for personality?
23:54 Like an introvert or extrovert?
23:57 Oh my god
23:58 Specific
24:00 I'm not sure
24:03 Because when we
24:05 Like someone, we like them
24:06 We like them
24:07 When we talk, we know
24:09 I like her vibe
24:11 I like the way she talks
24:13 So to be specific
24:15 Introvert or extrovert
24:17 You're a shy person
24:19 Or whatever
24:20 It's a bit difficult to say
24:23 If we like it, we like it
24:25 We talked to Edis before we started recording
24:29 She said
24:31 She has never had a long-term relationship
24:34 Everything is like
24:36 Short
24:37 Like a passing rain
24:39 Just passing by
24:42 Why?
24:43 Maybe you
24:45 Is there a reason?
24:47 Maybe you're not ready yet?
24:52 It's been a while
24:53 So my last relationship
24:56 With a guy
24:57 Was during high school
24:59 It was a standard relationship
25:01 They called it
25:02 So
25:04 Regarding that
25:06 He's more
25:09 The guy is
25:11 He's more into
25:13 Sexual things
25:15 So
25:17 I'm not comfortable
25:19 Or either
25:21 I'm comfortable with him
25:23 With those things
25:24 So that's why
25:25 One of the things
25:26 The key is that we break up
25:28 He's a schoolboy
25:29 He's a high schooler
25:30 It's nothing
25:31 It's a story
25:32 It's like
25:33 It happened
25:34 Around the same time
25:36 With the case
25:37 That was removed
25:39 Right?
25:40 It was after school
25:42 Do you think that traumatized you
25:44 In a certain way?
25:46 For example
25:47 Maybe the problem is
25:49 Believing in someone?
25:51 I don't think I have a problem
25:53 With that
25:54 It's just
25:55 I'm not comfortable
25:57 Not comfortable
25:59 Everytime we hang out
26:01 To talk about that
26:02 Everytime we hang out
26:03 To talk about that
26:04 So
26:05 That's why I don't have many male friends
26:08 But mostly the ones I meet
26:10 Are mostly like that
26:11 So I haven't met a guy
26:12 Who hasn't talked about that yet
26:14 Do you understand?
26:15 Okay
26:16 Do you understand?
26:17 Okay
26:18 Let's move forward
26:19 To the future
26:20 Because this is a digital world
26:22 Right?
26:23 She has a lot of followers
26:24 On social media
26:25 On digital world
26:26 Right?
26:27 If
26:28 You were not able to meet someone
26:30 Using apps
26:31 Would you be willing?
26:34 Or have you ever used apps
26:36 To try to find love?
26:38 I'm just kidding
26:39 Who doesn't have a Tinder?
26:40 You've done it before
26:41 You've done it before, right?
26:45 Bumble
26:46 Everyone has tried it
26:47 Everyone has tried it
26:48 But mostly
26:49 If you
26:50 You're already used to dating apps
26:53 If you're using Tinder
26:55 People will be like
26:56 Tinder is for dating
26:58 Nothing serious
26:59 Nothing serious
27:00 So like
27:01 For dating
27:02 You just want to find a friend
27:03 Or whatsoever
27:04 That's fine
27:05 To find a partner
27:06 Is hard
27:08 To find a guy
27:10 But do you know
27:11 People who get married
27:12 Using social media?
27:13 Yes
27:14 Maybe that's their
27:15 Their fortune
27:17 Not our fortune
27:18 Not our fortune
27:19 We maybe
27:21 Either way
27:22 We have high hopes
27:23 To get a partner on social media
27:24 But we never
27:25 Get it
27:27 What else?
27:28 Have you ever
27:30 Met a catfish guy?
27:31 He's not like that
27:32 Like in real life
27:33 Oh I've never
27:34 I've never met a catfish guy
27:36 The guy who said I'm a catfish
27:38 What do you mean?
27:40 What
27:41 What do you want to say
27:42 To them when they meet you?
27:43 They're like
27:45 They're like
27:46 You're the one on Tiktok
27:49 I always get
27:50 That kind of question
27:51 You're the one on Tiktok
27:53 Most people will say no
27:54 If I meet him in public
27:56 I'll deny
27:57 On purpose
27:58 Because I like to see his reaction
27:59 Okay
28:00 What about his face?
28:01 His face is like
28:02 Oh no
28:03 No
28:04 They're like
28:05 No
28:06 I talk to you
28:07 You
28:08 I follow you
28:09 I'm so mad
28:10 I open my phone
28:11 Oh no
28:12 You
28:13 I like to see his reaction
28:14 So on Tinder
28:16 On dating apps
28:17 If they say you're on Tiktok
28:19 Most people will deny
28:22 On purpose
28:24 Because they like me
28:25 And then
28:26 At the end
28:28 They're like
28:29 I admit
28:30 I'm on Tiktok
28:31 And then
28:33 They say
28:34 But I'm weird
28:36 Weird about what?
28:37 I'm weird
28:38 When people like you
28:39 Play on these apps
28:40 I'm like
28:42 Why?
28:43 What's weird?
28:44 People like you
28:45 If you click
28:46 They'll come right away
28:47 I'm like
28:48 What?
28:49 No problem
28:50 I'm not a judo
28:51 They're like
28:52 People like you
28:53 If you click
28:54 They'll come right away
28:55 I'm like
28:56 Yeah
28:57 They're weird
28:58 I don't know
28:59 We have to choose
29:00 Right?
29:01 We want to be long
29:02 Right
29:03 What's up?
29:04 Retired?
29:05 Yeah
29:06 Retired
29:07 Where's your boyfriend?
29:08 Eh?
29:09 Where is he?
29:11 I don't know
29:12 He's probably at the studio
29:13 Hi
29:16 Hi
29:17 So I'm not going out?
29:18 Eh?
29:19 You're not going out?
29:20 Who's your boyfriend?
29:21 My boyfriend
29:22 My boyfriend
29:23 My ex-boyfriend
29:24 Oh
29:25 I'm sorry
29:26 I'm sorry
29:27 It's okay
29:29 He's at the office
29:30 But what's your full name?
29:34 Adrian
29:36 Oh, Adriana
29:37 Girlfriend?
29:39 Yeah
29:40 Why are you so rude?
29:44 Huh?
29:46 But I know you
29:48 No
29:50 You're always
29:51 Judging people from the outside
29:53 No, I'm just asking
29:54 I'm just asking
29:55 I'm sorry
29:56 Sorry, Adriana
29:57 I said Adriana
29:58 Yeah
29:59 Sorry, Adriana
30:00 It's okay
30:01 I'm a good judge
30:02 No
30:03 Welcome
30:05 What's going on?
30:06 Let's go
30:07 You're embarrassing me
30:08 I'll give you a gift
30:09 I'll give you a gift
30:10 I was surprised too
30:12 When I saw that
30:13 You're playing the actor
30:15 Yeah
30:16 He's an actor
30:17 He's not an actual actor
30:19 He's just an actor
30:20 Adi
30:22 Tell me about your feelings
30:23 Actually, Adi
30:24 Actually
30:25 We just had a case
30:27 A case involving
30:29 Someone who was accused of being a pancake
30:33 When you read the headline
30:35 On social media
30:36 Or in the newspaper
30:38 What was your first impression?
30:40 My first impression was
30:42 I don't care
30:44 I think this abuse
30:45 They don't know the gender
30:47 Even for a girl
30:49 They have their own identity
30:52 But then
30:54 Doing that to a boy
30:55 It's not a
30:56 People say
30:57 Fair fight
30:58 Because a boy
31:00 A boy can't think of anything
31:02 Crying and all
31:03 If you're the type
31:04 Who can't
31:05 With kids
31:06 You
31:07 Don't have kids
31:08 Yes
31:09 Don't have kids
31:10 Or give the kids to
31:11 Somebody who really wants kids
31:14 And all
31:15 And then
31:16 That became hot
31:17 Because
31:18 His
31:19 Sexuality
31:20 His image
31:21 So when I saw it
31:23 I thought I liked it
31:24 Like
31:25 You're embarrassing me
31:26 Embarrassing us
31:29 Like you're embarrassing
31:31 Whatever
31:32 So
31:33 Either way
31:34 It's not the right thing
31:36 Because it's bad
31:38 The way he treats the kids
31:39 It's so bad
31:40 So bad
31:41 Global
31:42 We as adults
31:43 Can't face it
31:44 It's like
31:45 It hurts
31:46 You know
31:48 So like
31:49 Whatever he does
31:50 It doesn't matter
31:51 If you're a boy
31:52 Or a girl
31:53 Or a soft guy
31:54 Or whatever
31:55 This kind of thing
31:57 Is not the thing
31:58 And maybe
31:59 You can
32:00 Send your boy
32:01 To another place
32:02 Or a temple
32:03 Or a mosque
32:04 Or whatever
32:05 To show off
32:06 Your
32:07 But
32:08 It hurts
32:09 The feeling
32:10 Doesn't
32:11 Know the image
32:12 Actually
32:13 When we're human
32:14 It doesn't matter
32:15 What image we have
32:16 But when
32:17 You're a human
32:18 With a real feeling
32:19 You won't do
32:20 Things like that
32:21 You won't do things like that
32:22 Like
32:23 When people
32:24 See the kiss
32:25 They label
32:26 The kiss as
32:27 A bad thing
32:28 It's not
32:29 Human
32:30 And so on
32:31 Do you feel angry
32:32 When that kind of thing
32:33 Is labelled as
32:34 A bad thing
32:35 A bad thing
32:36 A bad thing
32:37 How do I say this
32:38 I don't really mind
32:39 What people think
32:40 Because
32:41 Everyone has
32:42 Their own opinion
32:43 If you want to
32:44 Label that way
32:45 Then
32:46 Just label that way
32:47 But as long as
32:48 I have people
32:49 Who are close to me
32:50 My friends
32:51 My family
32:52 Who know
32:53 How I am
32:54 And most of my
32:55 Close followers
32:56 On Tiktok
32:57 Know
32:58 What kind of person
32:59 I am
33:00 Outgoing
33:01 And I
33:02 Don't have that
33:03 Side
33:04 In which
33:05 I'm a bad person
33:06 Or a bad person
33:07 I don't have that
33:08 I don't have that
33:09 Because the way
33:10 You hear me talk
33:11 I'm like
33:12 Okay
33:13 So I don't have
33:14 That kind of side
33:15 But then
33:16 If
33:17 Because of
33:18 That kind of thing
33:19 You want
33:20 To get your own society
33:21 You want to label
33:22 Then it's fine
33:23 It's standard
33:24 Like
33:25 This guy is a cheater
33:26 But it's all the same
33:27 It's all the same
33:28 Generalization
33:29 It's all the same
33:30 You're all the same
33:31 But if a girl does something
33:32 People say
33:33 You're all the same
33:34 This girl
33:35 Is a cheater
33:36 Whatsoever
33:37 So it's all the same
33:38 There's nothing
33:39 It's the thing
33:40 Everyone has their own opinion
33:41 Everyone
33:42 That's right
33:43 But we want to center here
33:44 That
33:45 That feeling
33:46 Is not
33:47 Knowing gender
33:48 And knowing image
33:49 Right
33:50 We shouldn't
33:51 Generalize that
33:52 Because
33:53 That one issue
33:54 Became a hot topic
33:55 So we want to ask
33:56 We want to
33:57 Ask the future
33:58 Like
33:59 You
34:00 Have
34:01 Asked
34:02 I think
34:03 In your comments
34:04 Yes
34:05 Have you ever thought
34:06 Of using
34:07 More
34:08 Feminine
34:09 Long hair
34:10 Or
34:11 Everyone knows
34:12 You're famous
34:13 Because of this image
34:14 Right
34:15 Have you ever
34:16 Thought
34:17 Maybe when I'm 30
34:18 I want to change
34:19 Or something
34:20 For now
34:21 I don't think
34:22 That will happen
34:23 Because
34:24 That will happen
34:25 In the near future
34:26 But maybe in the future
34:27 Maybe
34:28 Just maybe
34:29 In the future
34:30 If I feel like
34:31 Being more feminine
34:32 There's someone
34:33 Who can accept me
34:34 The way I am
34:35 Why not
34:36 In the future
34:37 We'll see
34:38 If
34:39 I'm ready to be that way
34:40 I will be that way
34:41 No need
34:42 No need
34:43 No need for someone
34:44 To tell me
34:45 You know
34:46 It won't last long
34:47 If people keep telling you
34:48 It'll be like
34:49 I don't want it
34:50 I don't want it
34:51 I don't want it
34:52 Yeah
34:53 Let it come naturally
34:54 Yeah
34:55 Let us do it
34:56 Let us decide
34:57 To do it
34:58 Yeah
34:59 Just
35:00 Don't ask for too much
35:01 Ask people to pray
35:02 Pray for a good thing
35:03 That's all
35:04 Like
35:05 Have you ever seen
35:06 Like a celebrity image
35:07 Or an image
35:08 That you're interested in
35:09 Like an image
35:10 That you like
35:11 That person
35:12 He said
35:13 One day I want to be like him
35:14 No
35:15 You want to be yourself
35:16 No
35:17 I like myself
35:18 I love myself
35:19 Okay
35:21 Okay
35:22 In conclusion
35:23 We want to ask Adela
35:24 To those
35:26 Who always label
35:28 That and this
35:29 Various
35:31 More negative than positive
35:33 People say
35:34 Don't know what love is
35:35 But many don't know
35:36 But want to accuse all kinds
35:37 What do you want to say
35:39 To them there?
35:40 So
35:42 For me
35:43 You shouldn't judge people
35:45 By discover
35:46 We've heard
35:47 Don't judge a book by discover
35:49 So
35:50 For me
35:51 You
35:52 Maybe you have a perception
35:54 Look at people like this
35:55 Like
35:56 This person is a devil
35:57 This person
35:58 So
35:59 You don't need that kind of label
36:01 Because
36:02 For me
36:03 Each person has good things
36:05 Each person has bad things
36:07 So
36:08 For me
36:09 You better know that person
36:10 Know that person
36:12 Know that person
36:13 Then
36:14 After that
36:15 You want to judge or what
36:16 It's up to you
36:17 You feel like that person
36:18 Is like
36:19 You just pray for him
36:20 For him
36:21 For me
36:22 Pray for him
36:23 Instead of saying
36:24 Something that shouldn't be
36:25 Add more sin
36:26 What for?
36:27 Right?
36:28 Right
36:29 Okay
36:30 So we've reached the end of the segment
36:31 And podcast with Eddy today
36:32 Thank you so much Eddy
36:33 Because you're with us
36:34 Sharing your story
36:35 With us
36:36 And sharing your own opinion
36:38 And
36:40 Maybe Eddy
36:41 You have anything to say
36:42 At the end
36:43 Last words
36:44 Last words
36:45 I'm afraid
36:46 He'll say the last words
36:47 Last words
36:49 Last words
36:50 My last words
36:51 I don't care
36:54 How you are
36:55 Rich or poor
36:56 Or whatever
36:57 You
36:58 Dato or whatsoever
37:00 For me
37:02 Be nice to everyone
37:03 No harm
37:06 If you
37:07 Be nice to everyone
37:08 Even if you don't like that person
37:10 Just be a hypocrite
37:11 But
37:13 Be nice
37:14 For me
37:15 That's enough
37:16 Okay
37:18 With that
37:19 We'll meet again with Eddy
37:20 And maybe we'll listen to
37:21 The next podcast
37:22 With a different guest
37:23 See you guys soon
37:25 Bye
37:26 Okay, bye.
37:27 (swooshing)