00:00 I just want to be happy with who I am so that whenever that person comes into my life, I
00:05 can just have them add on to me instead of being this insecure, you know, person that
00:12 I normally used to be.
00:14 Selena Gomez opening up about her single girl era.
00:17 I'm picking out this dress, trying on these shoes, 'cause I'll be single soon, I'll be
00:25 single soon.
00:26 It's basically my way of saying it's totally okay being on your own.
00:30 The single soon singer also revealing her standards in the dating department.
00:35 I'm not ashamed to say I actually require X, Y, and Z for you to be with me.
00:40 Oh yeah, oh my goodness.
00:42 It all went down on Sirius XM where Sel was promoting her new breakup anthem.
00:47 'Cause I'll be single soon, I'll be single soon.
00:52 Now that she's in her 30s, Selena says she's embracing her single status.
00:56 I think everybody goes through the phase of, oh, it'd be nice to like have someone, and
01:01 I get that, but you know, I'm just enjoying where I'm at.
01:06 Prime example?
01:07 Well, we remember seeing a video a while back where you were yelling at some soccer player
01:11 that you were single.
01:13 I'm single!
01:16 I'm just a little high maintenance.
01:19 Yeah, remember when Selena tried to shoot her shot like this?
01:21 But I love you so much!
01:25 Not one of them gave a damn.
01:27 What?
01:28 Yeah, Sel's got an update on what happened next.
01:31 Anything?
01:32 No, they didn't hear me.
01:34 They didn't really care, so I was just like, alright.
01:38 That's the first thing I thought of when we heard you were releasing the song Single Soon.
01:41 I said, oh look, she's still celebrating being single.
01:44 That's great.
01:45 It's basically my way of saying it's totally okay being on your own and it's fun.
01:50 I only know how to be myself, and when I combat it with all of who I am, it always trumps
01:56 everything.
01:57 And the older she gets, the more Selena knows what she wants.
02:01 In Single Soon, you say you're high maintenance.
02:05 Yes.
02:06 I know I'm a little high maintenance, but I'm worth a try.
02:10 Are you?
02:11 I have standards.
02:12 And I think I live in a world right now where boys confuse standards with high maintenance.
02:18 I mean, you gotta be cool, man.
02:20 Not cool in the sense that people think you're cool.
02:22 You just gotta be nice and like, please make me laugh and also just be good to my family
02:28 and people around you.
02:29 The bar's been lifted pretty high.
02:31 It seems like Selena's doing just fine where she's at today.
02:34 Last month as Sel celebrated her 31st birthday, a source told ET she's doing great and feeling
02:40 very level-headed and grounded.
02:42 She has done her best to eliminate any toxicity that previously existed in her life.
02:47 She keeps her circle close and feels loved and supported.
02:50 I'm at that age where I feel like that's what matters, is making sure I'm healthy and people
02:55 are happy that I love.
02:56 Yeah, and we're so here for Selena living her best life, single or otherwise.
03:01 I'm picking out this dress, trying on these shoes.
03:05 'Cause I'll be single soon, I'll be single soon.
03:10 Yeah, I'll be single.
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