Dealing with a break up and trying to get back with your ex at the same time is no easy thing to do but there are benefits.
For example if in trying to get your ex to take renewed interest in you you freshen up your image and restore your "yummy" factor this can only bode well for the future regardless of the eventual get your ex back outcome.
So while it's emotionally stressful there's something to be said for dealing with a break up and getting back with your ex at the same time.
