This is the moment a millionaire who built a controversial 'man cave' in his garden was caught on camera tearing down a fence in an ongoing row with neighbours. Graham Wildin, 62, was filmed by a woman who lives next door pulling the fence - and throwing a flower TUB at her. Wildin caused outrage when he built a massive extension without planning permission and has been given until July to tear it down. The 10,000sq/ft leisure centre, including a two-lane bowling alley, a 16 seat cinema, squash courts, private casino and bar, defied planning rules.