00:00If you feel burdened by somebody's expectations, can there be love?
00:05In fact, inwardly you will hate that person.
00:10Externally you might still carry their expectations, but inwardly there would be hate.
00:15And sometimes that hatred then explodes as marital discord, physical abuse, even honor killing.
00:27Don't burden anybody with expectations.
00:33Nor should you carry anybody's expectations.
00:36Love is not about fulfilling each other's desires.
00:41No, that is not love.
00:45You live as per my desire and I'll act as per yours. No, that's not love.
00:55Love is freedom.
00:56If you really are a well-wisher, you'll want the other to fly free, not clip their wings.
01:04Not say, Oh, I have a great golden cage for you.
01:09Please be seated.
