00:00Long before you enter the relationship you already know it's not that you come
00:05across a person and then you slowly evolve your understanding of what the
00:10relationship is like all kinds of diversities of relationships are to be
00:15force-fitted into boxes carrying some ancient names father mother brother
00:22sister friend husband wife something and these are just so very few boxes and all
00:29relationships between all sentient beings are to be somehow forcibly fit into one
00:38of these boxes and the boxes imply duties right mother daughter if the
00:43relationship belongs to that box it is carved in stone what the relationship
00:48must be like husband wife man woman long before you enter the relationship you
00:53already know what the form the structure not just the architecture even the
00:59essence of that relationship should be like that's duty there you go is very
01:04happy don't tell me to figure anything out because I am anyway blind just give
01:08me a groove and a walking stick now I don't have to decide anything the groove
01:13will carry me and the walking stick will make me feel as if I am carving out a way
01:19of my own
