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Why is it that some people always seem to find luck and success, while others remain stuck in failure and constant complaining? The answer doesn't lie in their circumstances, but in 10 core differences in their mindset. Based on the book 'The 10 Distinctions Between Winners and Losers' by Keith Cameron Smith, this podcast episode is an in-depth analysis of behavioral psychology to help you identify the 'victim mentality' traps holding you back. We’ll walk through each step of the ladder—from taking total responsibility and the art of listening to the power of focus and belief. This isn't just theory; it’s a detailed roadmap for you to rewire your brain and start a brand new chapter of your life
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00:00The difference between living paycheck to paycheck and building a billion-dollar legacy
00:03isn't the money in your bank, but the number of years in your vision. Audio crackles to life.
00:11The host's voice is warm, resonant, paced like a late-night radio DJ or a philosopher sitting by
00:17a fire. There is no rush. Just a steady stream of high-value ideas. Welcome back. I'm glad you're
00:26here. Put the phone down, turn off the notifications, and just be with me for a while.
00:32Today, we are going to do something different. We are going to perform an autopsy on success.
00:39We are going to take a scalpel to the mindset of the wealthy and separate it,
00:43layer by layer, from the mindset of the middle class and the poor.
00:47I've been spending a lot of time recently with the work of Keith Cameron Smith.
00:52And if you don't know Keith, you need to understand that this isn't a guy who just
00:56theorizes from an ivory tower. He's a guy who built it, lost it, learned it, and rebuilt it.
01:03He wrote a specific text, created in a burst of inspiration over just seven days,
01:09that was originally meant as a legacy letter to his children. He wanted to leave them a blueprint.
01:15He felt a spiritual responsibility, a destiny even, to say,
01:20Here is what works. Here is what fails. Don't guess.
01:25And that brings us to the core of our conversation today. We are going to walk through the distinctions
01:31he laid out. And I want you to listen to this not just as financial advice, but as a diagnostic
01:37test for your own brain. Where do you sit on this spectrum? Because, as Keith says,
01:43where you start is not where you have to end. Let's start with the foundation. The absolute
01:49bedrock. It's about time. If you want to know how much money someone has, or more importantly,
01:56how much money they will have, ask them what they are thinking about. Not what they are thinking
02:01about, but when they are thinking about. Smith breaks this down into five classes of thinking,
02:07and it is terrifyingly accurate. At the bottom, you have the very poor. What is their time horizon?
02:15Day to day. Sometimes hour to hour. It is purely survival. How do I eat today? How do I get
02:23through
02:24this shift? It is a state of high stress and zero forward visibility. Then you have the poor.
02:30They've graduated to week to week thinking. The classic. Paycheck to paycheck. Cycle.
02:37Their mental energy is consumed by the friction of Friday. If I can just make it to Friday,
02:43I get paid, I can breathe for two days, and then the anxiety starts again on Sunday night.
02:50Then comes the middle class. This is where most people get stuck. They think month to month.
02:56Why? Because that is how the system is designed. The mortgage is due monthly. The car note is due
03:04monthly. The credit card bill is due monthly. The middle class seeks comfort. They want a nice house
03:11and a nice car, and they structure their entire mental capacity around maintaining those monthly
03:16payments. They aren't trying to survive. They are trying to be comfortable. But then,
03:22then you cross the threshold into the rich. The rich think year to year. They aren't worried about
03:29this month's mortgage. They have reserves for that. They are looking at annual tax cycles,
03:34asset appreciation, and business trends over the next 12 months. They seek freedom, not comfort.
03:41And finally, the very rich. These are the decade-to-decade thinkers. They are planting trees
03:48they might never sit under. They are structuring estate trusts, generational wealth transfers,
03:54and 20-year business visions. Why does this matter? Why am I harping on this?
04:00Because patience is an asset. Haste is a liability. The poor and middle class want it now.
04:08They buy the TV on credit now because they want the comfort now. The rich practice delayed gratification.
04:15They are willing to live like others won't today, so they can live like others can tomorrow.
04:20It's the ability to suffer a little bit in the present for a massive payoff in the future.
04:26If you are constantly putting out fires today, you cannot build a house for tomorrow.
04:31You have to extend your time horizon.
04:34Now, let's move to the second layer.
04:36If time is the canvas, words are the paint.
04:40Smith has this brilliant distinction, the rich talk about ideas.
04:43The poor talk about gossip. It sounds harsh, right? But audit your last five conversations.
04:52What were they about? There is a hierarchy here.
04:55Small people talk about other people.
04:58Did you hear what she did? Can you believe he wore that?
05:02It's gossip. It's criticism.
05:05It is negative energy that creates absolutely zero value.
05:09Average people talk about events.
05:11Did you see the game last night?
05:14Did you see the news?
05:16Did you hear about the election?
05:18Great people, wealthy people, talk about ideas.
05:23Concepts.
05:24Solutions.
05:25What if we tried this?
05:27How does that business model work?
05:30I have an idea for a new service.
05:33Here is the irony that Smith points out,
05:35and it hits you like a punch in the gut.
05:37The rich own the things that the poor talk about.
05:40Think about it.
05:42The poor and middle class spend their time talking about sports teams, movie stars, and car models.
05:48Who owns the sports teams?
05:51Who produces the movies?
05:53Who builds the car companies?
05:55The rich.
05:56The rich create the events that the masses consume.
06:00If you want to change your tax bracket, you have to change your conversation.
06:05Words are the rudder of your life.
06:07If you are constantly complaining, which Smith calls, self-cursing, you are steering your ship into the rocks.
06:15If you say,
06:16I can't afford it.
06:18Your brain stops working.
06:20It accepts defeat.
06:21If you ask,
06:23How can I afford it?
06:25Your brain starts working on a solution.
06:28It shifts from a period to a question mark.
06:31That is the power of language.
06:33And this bleeds into how we handle change.
06:36This is distinction number eight.
06:39The poor are conservative.
06:41I don't mean politically.
06:43I mean they want to conserve the status quo.
06:46They fear change.
06:48Change represents a threat to their survival or their comfort.
06:52So they stay in jobs they hate, relationships that are toxic, and cities that are dying because the known hell
06:59is better than the unknown heaven.
07:03The rich are progressive.
07:04They embrace change.
07:06They realize that you cannot grow without change.
07:10Every time the economy shifts or technology changes, the rich see it as an opportunity to create new value.
07:17While the poor see it as a reason to panic.
07:20So, we've covered time, talk, and change.
07:24Now, I want to take you deeper into the internal psychology.
07:28We need to talk about risk, failure, and the fear of looking stupid.
07:33This is from the second chunk of Smith's wisdom, and it is arguably the most important emotional hurdle you will
07:39face.
07:39The poor play not to lose.
07:42The rich play to win.
07:44Imagine a soccer team.
07:45If the goalie and all ten players stand in the goal box and just block shots, they might not lose
07:51ten to zero.
07:53They might hold it to a zero to zero draw.
07:56But they can never, ever win.
07:58You cannot score a goal if you are defending your own net.
08:02Most people manage their money like that goalie.
08:05They are terrified of losing a dollar.
08:08They keep it in a savings account losing value to inflation because they are
08:12playing not to lose.
08:14The rich understand that you have to put the ball in play.
08:18You have to risk the ball to score the goal.
08:20But what happens if you miss?
08:23What happens if you fail?
08:25This is the fork in the road.
08:27The poor see failure as a stop sign.
08:29I tried to start a business once.
08:32It didn't work.
08:34Therefore, I am not a business person.
08:37They attach the failure to their identity.
08:39The rich see failure as a teacher.
08:42It's just data.
08:44I tried to start a business.
08:46It failed because I didn't understand marketing.
08:49Okay, I need to learn marketing, and then I'll try again.
08:54Smith talks about the fear of rejection.
08:57We are social animals.
08:59We want to be liked.
09:01But here is the cold, hard truth he delivers.
09:04The desire for success must be stronger than the desire to be liked.
09:09He gives us the one-third rule.
09:11No matter what you do, one-third of people will love it, one-third will hate it, and one-third
09:17won't care.
09:18If you cure cancer, someone will be mad you put oncologists out of business.
09:23You cannot please everyone.
09:25Wealthy people accept this.
09:27They don't need the approval of the masses.
09:29They need the respect of their peers and the results of their efforts.
09:33There was a study done on people over ninety years old.
09:37They asked them,
09:38If you could live your life over, what would you do differently?
09:42The number one answer?
09:44I would take more risks.
09:46The gap between I should have and I did is the grand canyon of regret.
09:52Don't die on the
09:53I should have
09:55side.
09:56But how do you take risks intelligently?
09:59You don't just gamble.
10:01You educate yourself.
10:03This leads us to the concept of lifelong learning.
10:06The poor graduate from school and say,
10:08I'm done.
10:10No more books.
10:11No more tests.
10:13They see education as a chore that they finished.
10:16The rich see education as the fuel for their engine.
10:20Smith notes that if you walk into a millionaire's home, you will almost always find a library.
10:26If you walk into a poor person's home, you will find a big television.
10:31Keith shares his own story here.
10:33He spent over one hundred thousand dollars on seminars, books, and coaching.
10:38That sounds like a lot of money, right?
10:41But he views it as an investment, not an expense.
10:45He talks about a $25 book that gave him the courage to start.
10:49Then a $200 seminar that gave him a tactic to make $100,000.
10:55Then a $4,000 program that helped him make $200,000.
11:00The ROI on specialized knowledge is infinite.
11:04But here is a warning.
11:06Free advice is the most expensive advice in the world.
11:09If you take money advice from your broke brother-in-law, it will cost you a fortune.
11:14You have to pay for quality mentorship.
11:17Just like Tiger Woods has a swing coach, you need a wealth coach.
11:21You need to be around people who are playing the game at a higher level than you.
11:26Now, let's get into the mechanics.
11:29The nuts and bolts.
11:30We need to talk about the difference between wages and profits.
11:35This is the
11:36Phi Thuong Bat Pu
11:37Concept
11:38Without business slash trade, there is no wealth.
11:42If you work for a wage, an hourly rate or a salary, you are trading time for money.
11:48The problem is, you have a finite amount of time.
11:52You can only work 24 hours a day.
11:55Your income is capped by the clock.
11:57Profits, however, are scalable.
12:00Profit is the difference between what it costs to create something and what you sell it for.
12:05Keith's life story is a master class in this evolution.
12:09Listen to this progression.
12:11In elementary school, he didn't just mow lawns.
12:15He sold cinnamon toothpicks.
12:17He bought the oil for $10, dipped the toothpicks, and sold them for a $20 profit.
12:23He learned the mechanic of
12:25Buy low, add value, sell high.
12:28In middle school, he resold chewing gum.
12:31He turned his $3 lunch money into $7.
12:35$50 a day.
12:36In high school, while his friends were working for minimum wage, let's say $5 an hour, he was
12:43diving into golf course ponds to retrieve balls.
12:46He could make $50 in two hours.
12:49He realized that dirty, difficult work that others refused to do paid a premium.
12:54Then he moved to
12:56The Freon Trade
12:58He bought our 12 Freon for $180 and sold it for $210.
13:03One day, the price spiked, and he made $500 in a single day.
13:08But the real leap happened when he got a mentor.
13:12He wanted to be a pro golfer.
13:14His mentor told him,
13:16Keith, it'll take you six years to make money at golf.
13:20You need cash flow now.
13:22So, Keith opened a used furniture store.
13:25He went from making $20,000 a year to $50,000.
13:30Then he optimized.
13:32He realized futons were selling faster than bedroom sets.
13:35He switched his niche.
13:37He moved to a better location.
13:40He jumped to $100,000 a year.
13:43Eventually, he took those profits and moved into real estate,
13:47buying seven houses and hitting a net worth of $1 million.
13:51Do you see the trajectory?
13:54He never relied on a boss to give him a raise.
13:57He created his own raises by increasing his profits.
14:01Wages grow incrementally.
14:03Profits grow exponentially.
14:04And before we move to the final structural piece,
14:08we have to touch on the spirit of this.
14:11Generosity.
14:12You might think,
14:14I'll be generous when I'm rich.
14:16No.
14:17You become rich by being generous.
14:20It's the abundance mindset again.
14:22Keith tells a story about tipping.
14:25He's eating a $5 sandwich,
14:27served by a 19-year-old kid.
14:29He leaves a $5 tip.
14:31A 100% tip.
14:34Why?
14:35Because it made the kids day.
14:37And it made Keith feel like a king.
14:39It reinforced to his own subconscious.
14:42I have enough.
14:44I have more than enough.
14:46If you are stingy,
14:47you are telling the universe and your own brain.
14:50Resources are scarce.
14:51I have to hoard.
14:54That is a poverty signal.
14:56Generosity is a wealth signal.
14:59Okay, let's bring this home with the third chunk of wisdom.
15:03We need to talk about the financial engine
15:05and the trap of the salary.
15:07Smith argues that the middle class is trapped in a
15:10rat race.
15:12They wake up,
15:13go to work,
15:14pay bills,
15:15and repeat.
15:16They focus on increasing their salary.
15:18But a salary is a trap for two reasons.
15:211.
15:22Taxes.
15:23As your salary goes up,
15:25your tax bracket goes up.
15:27You are working harder,
15:28but the government is taking a bigger bite.
15:312.
15:32Dependence.
15:33If you have a high salary,
15:35you are terrified of losing that job.
15:37You become a slave to the employer.
15:40Remember the pilots after September 11th?
15:43Huge salaries,
15:44gone overnight.
15:45The rich focus on increasing assets.
15:48Now,
15:49we need to redefine some words here.
15:52You might think your house is an asset.
15:54Your car is an asset.
15:56Keith,
15:57borrowing a bit from the Kiyosaki school of thought,
16:00says,
16:00no.
16:01An asset is something that puts money in your pocket
16:04whether you work or not.
16:06It generates passive income.
16:08Stocks,
16:09bonds,
16:09real estate,
16:10a business that runs without you.
16:12A liability is something that takes money out of
16:15your pocket.
16:16Your mortgage,
16:18your car loan,
16:19your credit card debt.
16:20The rich play a different game with taxes, too.
16:23And this is critical.
16:25The poor and middle class follow this formula.
16:28Earn-pay taxes-spend what is left.
16:32The government gets paid first.
16:34The rich follow this formula.
16:37Earn-spend-pay taxes on what is left.
16:40They use corporations.
16:42They earn money,
16:43then they spend that money on business expenses,
16:46computers,
16:47cars,
16:47travel,
16:48dinners,
16:49all legitimate business costs.
16:51Then,
16:52they pay tax only on the net profit that remains.
16:55It is a completely different mathematical equation.
16:59So,
16:59what do you do?
17:01You're listening to this,
17:02and maybe you have a job.
17:04You have a salary.
17:06Do you quit tomorrow?
17:08No.
17:09That's foolish.
17:10That's short-term thinking.
17:12You use your salary to buy assets.
17:15You become a
17:16dual-class
17:17citizen for a while.
17:19You work your day job to survive,
17:21and you build your side business to get rich.
17:25Keith is a big proponent of network marketing or starting a small service business.
17:30Why?
17:31Because the barrier to entry is low.
17:34You don't need a million dollars to start.
17:37You need sweat equity.
17:39You need to learn how to sell.
17:41You need to learn how to handle rejection.
17:44It is a training ground.
17:46But here is the final,
17:47most dangerous trap.
17:49The
17:49Lifestyle Creep.
17:52When you start making that extra money from your side hustle,
17:55or you get that raise,
17:56what do you do?
17:58The middle class buys a bigger car.
18:00They move to a bigger house.
18:02They increase their expenses to match their income.
18:05They stay at zero.
18:07The rich have discipline.
18:09They do not increase their standard of living until their passive income,
18:13not their labor income,
18:15can pay for it.
18:16If you want the Porsche, fine.
18:18But don't buy it with your salary.
18:21Buy a rental property,
18:22and use the cash flow from the rental property to pay the lease on the Porsche.
18:27That is how the wealthy play the game.
18:30So, let's zoom out.
18:32Let's look at the whole picture we've painted today.
18:34It starts with responsibility.
18:37You have to accept that you are where you are because of the choices you've made.
18:41It moves to time.
18:43Stop looking at Friday.
18:45Start looking at the next decade.
18:47It changes your talk.
18:49Stop gossiping.
18:51Start discussing ideas.
18:52It requires courage.
18:55Stop fearing failure.
18:57Start using it as data.
18:58It demands education.
19:01Stop buying entertainment.
19:03Start buying knowledge.
19:04It shifts your income.
19:06Stop chasing a higher wage.
19:09Start chasing profits and assets.
19:11And finally, it ends in generosity.
19:14Because what is the point of having a full cup if you don't pour it into others?
19:19Keith Cameron Smith wrote this for his kids because he wanted them to have a legacy.
19:24But now you have the blueprint.
19:26The question is, are you going to just listen to this podcast,
19:30nod your head, and go back to playing video games?
19:34Or are you going to turn off this audio,
19:36sit down with a blank piece of paper,
19:38and design your next 10 years?
19:41The distinction isn't in the information.
19:44The information is right here.
19:46The distinction is in the execution.
19:48Think long term.
19:50Talk about ideas.
19:52Embrace change.
19:54And for God's sake, play to win.
19:56Thanks for listening.
19:58Go make something happen.