00:00People come in, and what they're going to ask me to do
00:04is help them change their partner.
00:06Hello.
00:06Hello.
00:07Ooh.
00:08What happened?
00:09You know what happened?
00:10He happened.
00:11But that's not the work of couples therapy.
00:15Who's feeling what?
00:17You are constantly projecting that I
00:19am the fault for everything.
00:20You're just projecting, projecting, projecting.
00:24You're not really wanting to actually hear each other out.
00:28I feel like I'm a ghost in the house.
00:31And I feel like I'm a robot.
00:32Why is it my job to have a method to convince him?
00:35You are unnerving.
00:37People can get very dug in.
00:40I can't stand it anymore.
00:41Sometimes it does require a real push, and they don't like it.
00:45Oh, it's just so hard to manage.
00:47Jesus Christ.
00:50I sleep with the boys, and he sleeps in my eldest son's room.
00:54And are you both happy with that?
00:56No.
00:58What she's saying, you're deep, you know?
01:00I'm like, right, that's why we're here.
01:01I have so much to say, but I'm trying not to.
01:05Your partner wants to make you happy.
01:07To me, that sounds like the most important thing here.
01:09I know that he loves me.
01:11I mean, that's for sure.
01:12He won't go.
01:13I'm very difficult to deal with.
01:15You asked me what work should you do.
01:18This is the work you should do.
01:20That's a lot.
01:21Good luck with us.
01:23Come back quickly.
01:23Everything is not okay.
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