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00:04We are so excited to bring you an all new Red Table Talk series
00:08With the iconic queen, Gloria Estefan
00:11Salud
00:12Everything is special about Red Table Talk, the Estefans
00:15We're Latinas, baby
00:16Three different women, three different generations
00:19Three different opinions
00:20We are so honest
00:25Bienvenidos a nuestra casa en Miami
00:26Welcome
00:27This is my niece, Lily
00:29She is Estefan
00:31Lily is a beloved Latina TV star
00:34A devoted mother of two
00:37And she is fabulous
00:39I hope we do it right
00:40Yeah, you will do it right
00:42Who's the biggest drama queen?
00:45I was born with a drama, honey
00:47This is my daughter, Emily
00:50And she is Estefresh
00:52She is a gifted musician
00:54She's outspoken and a powerful voice of her generation
00:58When I lay down the law, zip it
01:02And I am
01:04Esther Fierce
01:05I'm Gloria Estefan, I'm a performer
01:09I've been married 42 years
01:12I'm the mother of two
01:13I have one grandson, five dogs
01:15And I am a survivor
01:18Thank you, I love you
01:20I promise you will love, love, love this new series
01:23Red Table, Red Table, Red Table
01:31On the series premiere of Red Table Talk, the Estefans
01:34Well, girls, we have never spoken about it publicly
01:38A paparazzi caught my husband
01:41With another woman
01:43And they're asking $200,000
01:46You never saw the pictures
01:48I saw the pictures
01:49She was humiliated
01:51Who's the woman?
01:52You're the last person to know
01:54She couldn't have emotionally talked about this before
01:56I really thought I had a perfect life, guys
01:58You did, Flaca
01:59I think something's going on with my daughter
02:01You kept it inside for a year
02:03You broke my heart
02:14Okay, one, two, three
02:17Three
02:19We did it
02:20Yay!
02:22Everybody's been asking us
02:24Are you going to be as honest
02:25As real
02:26As Jada, Gammy, and Willow
02:28You have to be
02:30Absolutely
02:31Yeah
02:31It would be a disservice not to
02:33For our first Red Table, we are starting with something extremely personal
02:37A few years ago, Lily went through a very painful divorce from her husband of 25 years
02:43It was a scandal that made international headlines
02:46And we have never spoken about it publicly
02:49She couldn't have emotionally talked about this before
02:52No
02:52There's no way
02:53There's no way
02:54Because she was raw
02:55My life stopped in 17
02:58Totally changed
03:00Totally changed
03:01Three years after a blind date
03:04Lily married the man of her dreams
03:05Businessman Lorenzo Luazes
03:07In a beautiful family wedding in 1992
03:10They had two gorgeous children
03:13Lorenzo Jr. and Lina
03:15Lily believed she was living a fairytale life
03:20Actually 2017 was supposed to be a great year for me
03:23I was a very accomplished woman in my career
03:26My 30th anniversary in Univision
03:29My husband who protects me
03:31He was a very accomplished guy
03:33I had two beautiful kids
03:34And I was celebrating my 25th wedding anniversary
03:39I really thought I had a perfect life guys
03:42You did Flaga
03:43We all thought that it was a great marriage
03:46I was so wrong
03:48We all were
03:49And I didn't see it until that moment
03:53Wow
03:53We celebrated our 25th anniversary
03:56And we were there
03:57And two weeks later
04:01We get a hurricane in Miami
04:03When Category 5 Hurricane Irma hit Florida
04:06We had to take emergency cover for 48 hours
04:10In our music studio
04:11We call the bunker
04:13There's only been one hurricane
04:15In recorded history
04:17In the Atlantic
04:17That has been stronger
04:19This was a weekend
04:20And Monday
04:22We come out of the bunker
04:24Hurricane is gone
04:25I'm supposed to work right away
04:26I remember standing in the parking lot
04:30Of your studios
04:32Full of people moving out
04:35What you're saying after the storm?
04:37Yes
04:37And my husband
04:39He says I have to talk to you
04:40I have to tell you something
04:41And I go what?
04:43Hurry up
04:43I have a live show at 4
04:44And he says
04:46A paparazzi
04:48Caught me with another woman
04:52And they're asking $200,000
04:55For the pictures
04:57I go what?
04:59And right away I go
05:01You a paparazzi
05:03Why would a paparazzi follow you?
05:05Who's the woman?
05:06He's like
05:08No one important
05:10Because I thought it was
05:11Got to be a public figure
05:12Why would they follow him?
05:14No one important
05:16And I
05:17Stay quiet
05:19And he says
05:20We're not paying the money
05:23I'm like no
05:24We're not paying the money
05:26But I need more information
05:28And he tells me
05:29You didn't say anything to him?
05:30You didn't want to hit him?
05:31You didn't want to shake him?
05:33Of course you want to kill him
05:35And you're like
05:37I've always contained myself
05:39Knowing that I'm a public figure
05:41Everyone around me
05:43And I can't even like
05:45Scream at him
05:46Talk
05:47Say anything
05:48My kids are in the car
05:49Mom
05:49I'm home
05:50You know
05:50It's one of those moments
05:53That
05:54You're like
05:56Okay stay quiet
05:57Stay quiet
05:58From my end of the story
06:00The night before
06:02Lorenzo asked me to go for a walk
06:04And we took the dogs for a walk
06:07And he says
06:08I have to tell you something
06:10And I go
06:11What happened?
06:13I thought maybe he
06:14Was sick
06:15Or something was going
06:16I don't know what I thought
06:18You knew that it was something
06:18I knew something was happening
06:20That wasn't right
06:22So
06:22He tells me
06:23The situation
06:25Oh my God Lorenzo
06:27Like
06:28What are you going to do?
06:30He started going off on
06:32The fact that he felt
06:33That he wasn't the center
06:35Of your life
06:37That
06:39The kids came first
06:41And the dogs came first
06:43And I said to him
06:45Lorenzo
06:45You do realize
06:46That once you have kids
06:48The kids have to come first
06:50And
06:51Lily's career
06:52He goes
06:53Yeah but men
06:54We need to feel like
06:55We're
06:56Like
06:57Being taken care of
06:59And I said
06:59Okay hold on
07:00Hold on
07:01I was upset
07:02You've been like
07:03Like my daughter
07:04Yes
07:05I asked him if he was in love
07:06With the woman
07:07And he said no
07:08I said
07:10You need to tell Lily
07:12Before she goes to work tomorrow
07:13Because he told me
07:14That everyone at work
07:16Already knew
07:17That's when I went like
07:19Cuckoo
07:20Oh my God
07:21This is major
07:22He tells me
07:23Univision knows
07:25Pictures were taken to Univision
07:26More than a week
07:28More than a week before
07:28Lily's husband
07:29Told her the bombshell news
07:31The paparazzi
07:32Visited every major
07:33Entertainment magazine
07:34And TV show
07:35Their first stop
07:37Univision
07:38Where Lily has worked
07:40For over three decades
07:42For ten days
07:44Everyone at Univision
07:45Knew
07:45That Lily's husband
07:46Was cheating
07:47Except her
07:50When I find out
07:52That
07:53The paparazzi
07:55Had caught him
07:56With another woman
07:57And the pictures
07:58Were taken
07:59To my job
08:01To my colleagues
08:03To the producers
08:04Of my show
08:05To Univision
08:07My second home
08:09For thirty years
08:11Decades
08:12I'm going like
08:13How come I don't know anything
08:15And I was flipping out
08:16Because you start going like
08:17You were in the dark
08:19So imagine
08:20Right from the beginning
08:22I just felt so humiliated
08:25Privately
08:27And then publicly
08:29My boss
08:30Mariela
08:31First of all
08:31She says
08:32I can't buy these pictures
08:33This is the husband
08:34Of my talent
08:35I can't buy these pictures
08:37And the paparazzi said
08:38No problem
08:39I have a bunch of places
08:41That I can go
08:41And sell the pictures
08:42And then she tells me
08:44You just found out
08:45Today
08:46You're the last person
08:48To know
08:48I go
08:49Yes
08:50Flaka
08:50You know what
08:51Totally blinded
08:51I'd like to bring in
08:53Emilio
08:53My husband
08:54Her uncle
08:55Emily's dad
08:57Who was actually
08:58The first
08:59To find out
09:00That all of this
09:01Was going on
09:02Oh my god
09:02My poor uncle
09:03He loves you so much
09:05My husband Emilio
09:07Is Lily's uncle
09:07And in many ways
09:08Her second father
09:09A few days before
09:11We all headed
09:12To the bunker
09:12He received
09:13An alarming phone call
09:15And was the first
09:16In the family
09:16To hear the shocking news
09:19Photos of Lily's husband
09:20With another woman
09:21Were being shopped around
09:23By the paparazzi
09:25Hey
09:26What a handsome man
09:27Hey
09:29All my favorite girls
09:30In the whole world
09:31All my favorite girls
09:33You're the one
09:34That got the call from
09:35We wish this
09:36Never could have happened
09:37The lawyer
09:38From the Univision
09:39Called me
09:39They said
09:39Listen
09:40It's a paparazzi
09:40Want to sell you
09:41The pictures
09:41That call to me
09:42Was like the biggest surprise
09:43Because I saw
09:44Everything was going fine
09:45I called Lorenzo
09:46He was not aware
09:47Somebody was following
09:48And taking pictures
09:49I said
09:50Number one
09:51Lorenzo
09:51I'm going to tell you
09:52They got you
09:53They have many pictures
09:54And I don't know
09:54How you're going to
09:55Handle that
09:55I said
09:56I don't want to
09:57Take Gloria now
09:57I don't want to
09:58Tell Lily
09:59I don't want to
10:00Talk about it
10:00That's not my
10:01Position
10:01This is your gig
10:03You have to deal
10:03With that thing
10:04I said
10:04They're going to
10:05Ask you for a lot
10:05Of money
10:05He said
10:07Let me handle it
10:09And he said
10:09I don't think
10:10I'm going to pay
10:10The big problem
10:11Here comes
10:12I advise him
10:13You play
10:14You pay
10:14I'm sorry
10:14The only thing
10:15You have to think
10:16Here is about
10:16Your kids
10:17And I said
10:17And you need to
10:18Talk to Gloria
10:18Before you talk
10:19To Lily
10:20To see she
10:20Give you any
10:20Kind of advice
10:21And never saw
10:22Him back
10:23So it's like
10:24Somebody died
10:24Well for me guys
10:26For me
10:27I get the news
10:28Then right at
10:31The parking lot
10:32There we talked
10:33And he came up
10:35With the idea
10:36Lily why don't
10:37You come out
10:38Publicly
10:39Like get ahead
10:40Of the paparazzi
10:41And say that
10:42They're trying
10:43To blackmail us
10:44Lorenzo said that
10:45Get ahead of
10:46The paparazzi
10:47Yeah he told me that
10:48Yes
10:48He told me to
10:49So of course
10:50I said fine
10:52We're not paying
10:52The money
10:53I'm going to
10:54Follow your advice
10:54When I sit
10:55With my boss
10:56And the lawyers
10:57I defended him
10:59For hours
11:00He wants it
11:02To be like this
11:02So if I'm
11:03Coming up public
11:05This is what
11:05I'm doing
11:06United front
11:07I was like
11:08I'm protecting
11:10My family
11:11And no one
11:11Is going
11:12With my husband
11:13And my kids
11:15I went like this
11:17And I'm like
11:18This is a one time
11:19Thing
11:19They followed him
11:21We'll find out
11:22Who's the paparazzi
11:23Why this happened
11:24Lily and Lorenzo
11:25Made a pact
11:25They would get ahead
11:27Of the paparazzi
11:28And go public
11:29With the story
11:29That they were
11:30Being blackmailed
11:32When everyone leaves
11:33I stay with my boss
11:35And that's when
11:36I freak
11:37Because she tells me
11:40I have to tell you
11:41That the paparazzi
11:43Left here
11:46His number for you
11:47And he has a lot
11:48Of information
11:51And that's when
11:52I realize
11:53Whoa
11:53This is not a
11:55One time thing
11:55I go home
11:57And I realize
11:58Oh my god
11:59The paparazzi
12:00Has had the pictures
12:01For 11 days
12:03They're coming out
12:04Any minute
12:05And right away
12:06I go
12:06My kids
12:07They can wake up
12:08Tomorrow morning
12:09And have the pictures
12:11All over
12:13Social media
12:14So
12:14Was Lorenzo
12:15In the house?
12:15Yes
12:16He was in the room
12:16With me
12:17I called the kids
12:18And I said
12:18Which I don't know
12:20If it was a mistake
12:20I should have maybe
12:21Let him explain
12:23The kids
12:24What happened
12:25He didn't tell them?
12:26You told them?
12:27It was me
12:28Oh my gosh
12:28I got home
12:29With all this information
12:30That's quite the job
12:31Nervous
12:32Freaking out
12:33So I sit with them
12:35And I tell them
12:36This happens a lot
12:37In marriages
12:38That have been together
12:39For a long time
12:41And
12:42I think the only thing
12:44That happens to your father
12:45Is that
12:46He's married to a public figure
12:48That's why
12:49A paparazzi
12:50Has done this to him
12:52Has done this to us
12:55There are a lot of men
12:56That you guys know
12:58That have
12:59Been unfaithful
13:02And they take it back
13:03And you go through
13:05Therapy
13:05Whatever
13:06And you keep on going
13:07Right
13:08So right away
13:09I try to excuse
13:11Him
13:12In front of the kids
13:13And at some point
13:15I finish the conversation
13:17And I look at him
13:19And I'm like
13:20You broke my heart
13:22And I stormed
13:24Out of the room
13:26And what did he do?
13:27Did he leave?
13:28And he left
13:29And he never came back
13:30After that?
13:31No
13:31So that was the last time
13:33He was in the house?
13:33Yes
13:34After I defended him
13:36For hours
13:37In front of my boss
13:38And the lawyers
13:40And I can say
13:41That I got divorced
13:42And never ever
13:43Ever
13:43Had a conversation
13:44With him
13:45Which I think
13:46Is the hardest thing
13:48Because
13:48No closure
13:49Yeah
13:49And I would just say
13:51God
13:52Help you
13:53Help me
13:56Help me
13:57I know Flaca
13:58My mind was going crazy
14:00The worst moment
14:02Of my life
14:02And didn't even
14:04Get a call from him
14:05For me
14:06That was the moment
14:08Because he was
14:09Totally out of character
14:10I'm like
14:11This is not the guy
14:12That I know
14:12Yeah
14:12Who is this?
14:14Who's this?
14:15He was with us
14:16He
14:17A lion
14:18And for me
14:20Loring
14:20Has been
14:21One of my favorite people
14:22In the world
14:23I love him
14:24Yes
14:24I don't like him
14:25Too much right now
14:26Or not him
14:27I don't like
14:29Some of the actions
14:30But
14:30You don't stop
14:32Loving somebody
14:33Just because
14:34Especially somebody
14:35That's been in our lives
14:36Over 25 years
14:37The family is also
14:39Going through this divorce
14:40We have relationships
14:42With him
14:42It's been so hard
14:44I haven't talked to him
14:46In two years
14:46We don't communicate
14:47He communicates to me
14:49Through the kids
14:50F him for leaving you
14:52Like that how he did
14:52That mother
14:53Should be at the table
14:54Sorry
14:54Exactly
14:55I started seeing you
14:58Start to break down
14:59And a few times
15:01You know
15:03You
15:03You know
15:05You said
15:05I can't go on
15:07I can't go to work
15:08I can't do this
15:09And I would say to you
15:10Flaca
15:12Breathe
15:13You cannot let him
15:14Take away the one thing
15:16That is you
15:17And that is going to
15:18Get you through this
15:19And is going to get
15:20Your family through this
15:21I remember
15:22You took off
15:24In your car
15:24In your pajamas
15:26And just started driving
15:28We were all on the phone
15:29Trying to find you
15:30We were holding our breaths
15:32I was like
15:33Something feels wrong
15:35I had no idea
15:35What was going on
15:36But I'm like
15:36Something feels wrong
15:37That night
15:38I got a call from Lina
15:40At like 2.45 in the morning
15:42Hysterically wondering
15:43Where you were
15:44Everybody was looking for you
15:45That point
15:46That point came for me
15:48I had no electricity
15:50Because the hurricane
15:51My house was a disaster
15:52I was falling apart
15:53So I'm supposed to sleep
15:55At my mother-in-law's house
15:58She has
15:59Which I don't know why
16:00I had never noticed
16:02She had the
16:03Laura Ashley set
16:06Dating
16:08The first one that I had
16:09When we got married
16:10And the two
16:12Night tables
16:13With the lamps
16:15And I go into the room
16:17And I'm like
16:19Oh boy
16:20Oh my God
16:21I'm sleeping
16:22This is the same room
16:24That I had
16:25When we got married
16:26It became real
16:27It became so real to me
16:30That I got out of the room
16:32Got in my car
16:33That's when I break down
16:37And I start driving
16:38Driving
16:39And I would cry
16:40Cry, cry, cry
16:41Cry
16:42I ended up
16:44In Orlando
16:45Yeah
16:45When I realized
16:47At 4 o'clock in the morning
16:49Oh my gosh
16:50Oh my
16:51What the heck am I?
16:53I was in pajamas
16:54And I had gone
16:57I guess
16:58Blank
16:58Yeah
16:59You needed to escape
17:00You loyal to that man
17:02For every moment
17:04He's going through hell
17:05And back
17:05And you're there
17:06You support
17:07You build
17:08You love
17:09And then at the end
17:10You're like
17:11So why did
17:12Did they eliminate
17:14My position
17:14I said why
17:15They fired you
17:17I didn't get a raise
17:17They fired me
17:19I'm so proud of you
17:19Because you handled
17:20This situation
17:21So an example
17:23For women
17:23All over the world
17:24The way you handle
17:25Your kids
17:26You never talk
17:27Bad about him
17:28Being a professional
17:29Woman
17:29Famous person
17:30To be in television
17:31For many years
17:32That takes a lot
17:34Of courage
17:34To do that
17:34In class
17:35You can break my heart
17:36But you cannot
17:37Take my soul
17:38Yes
17:40That's how I felt
17:41I'm like
17:41Dude
17:42You know that
17:42I love you
17:43You know that
17:44I wish the best
17:46For you
17:46And I'm a witness
17:47To that
17:47Because he's the
17:48Father of my kids
17:49And he gave me
17:50The two most
17:51Beautiful things
17:51That I have
17:52You never saw
17:53The pictures
17:53I never saw
17:54The pictures
17:55Okay
17:55At the beginning
17:56We said we're not
17:57Buying the pictures
17:58At some point
17:58I don't know
17:59Why he decided
18:00He was buying the pictures
18:01I think I know why
18:03I saw the pictures
18:05I think he decided
18:06For the kids
18:07I think he did not
18:08Want his kids
18:10To see that
18:11The pictures
18:11And I think
18:12It was the right
18:13You know
18:14Choice
18:15You play
18:15You pay
18:16Yeah
18:16Like that said
18:17So when we were
18:18Going to do the show
18:19You hadn't
18:20Said anything
18:21To your kids
18:22About being a part
18:23Of this
18:23Because you were
18:24Trying to protect them
18:24Yes
18:25And I asked you
18:27I think you need
18:28To ask Lina
18:29She's 18
18:30She's an adult
18:31And I think
18:32She might have
18:32Some things to say
18:33And she told you
18:34That she wanted
18:35To be here for you
18:36She's like I have some
18:37Things to say
18:37Like all children
18:39Involved in a divorce
18:40This has been
18:40Very traumatic
18:41For Lily's two kids
18:42Her beautiful daughter
18:44Lina
18:44Is here
18:45There we go
18:46There she is
18:47The baby
18:48The baby
18:49The baby
18:50She's a woman
18:51Listen before I leave
18:52I just want to tell you
18:53Something
18:53That I'm so proud of you
18:54How you handled things
18:56And I hope you
18:56Be a role model
18:57For many many women
18:59In the world
18:59That go to this
19:00Kind of the tough times
19:01And you have to come too
19:02So I'm very proud of you
19:04Yes
19:05We love you dad
19:06Bye
19:07Are you proud of me too?
19:08No
19:08I love you babe
19:09Thank you
19:09Bye
19:11Welcome
19:12To the red table
19:13I'm glad that I told
19:14Your mom to ask you
19:15Because I know that she
19:16Has only through all of this
19:19Wanted to protect you
19:20Yeah
19:20And unfortunately
19:22Life is not about that
19:24Yeah
19:25Learning how to deal
19:27Because life is always
19:28Going to throw us
19:28A lot of difficulties
19:30Yeah
19:30When did you have an inkling
19:32That something was happening?
19:34It was probably about
19:36A year and a half
19:37Before everything happened
19:39You were traveling
19:40I was supposed to stay
19:41At the house with my dad
19:42And he was getting ready
19:45To go somewhere
19:45And I was like
19:46Oh where are you going?
19:48And he was like
19:49Oh I'm going to eat
19:49With some friends
19:50And I was like
19:51Oh okay
19:52What friends?
19:53And he was like
19:54You don't know them
19:55And right away
19:56I was like
19:56That's kind of weird
19:57Because I know
19:58All of his friends
19:59Right
19:59I was like
20:00Okay but which restaurant?
20:02I wanted to have
20:03Some idea of what was going on
20:05Because I was going to be
20:05Staying home alone
20:06And I felt safer that way
20:09Just knowing where he was
20:10I was 14
20:11I never liked being home alone
20:13At night
20:13Ever since I was a kid
20:14I was always terrified
20:16So I started calling my dad
20:18And he wasn't responding
20:19And then he finally responded
20:20And I just heard
20:21Really loud music
20:22And he was like
20:23I can't hear you
20:24I'll text you
20:25And he just hung up
20:26And then I was like
20:27Can you please come home?
20:28I just don't feel safe
20:30So he got home
20:31And I was
20:32I got really upset
20:33Because I was like
20:34I called you 20 times
20:35I could have been getting kidnapped
20:36You could have been a robin
20:38I was at home by myself
20:39Anything could have been happening
20:41You were who was supposed
20:42To be taking care of me
20:43And he was like
20:44This is why I hate being here
20:46The second I walk in
20:48I'm always getting punished
20:49Or someone's getting mad
20:50At me for something
20:51Victim card
20:51So then he was like
20:53No, I'm leaving again
20:55And then he left
20:57And I was at home by myself
20:58He got picked off
20:59And left you there?
21:00Yeah, so then
21:00I texted one of my
21:01Really close friends
21:02I think something's
21:03Going on with my dad
21:04I think he's seeing someone else
21:05Because this is just weird
21:07At this point
21:08Exactly
21:08Did you ever think about
21:10Telling your mom?
21:11Did that even ever
21:12Cross your mind?
21:13No
21:13Because I just felt like
21:15If it wasn't true
21:17First it would have hurt him
21:19To be thinking that
21:20His daughter's accusing him
21:22Of something like that
21:23So I was like
21:24I don't want to start something
21:25And it not be true
21:26And then it just be
21:27A bunch of attention
21:27So you kept it inside
21:28For a year
21:29Yeah
21:30And I didn't want to tell
21:31My brother either
21:32Because he was probably
21:33Going to be thinking
21:35That I'm crazy
21:35But I didn't feel like
21:37There was anyone
21:37That I could tell
21:38That it wouldn't affect them too
21:40So you kind of went
21:41From 14 to 30
21:42Exactly
21:44Imagine my reaction
21:46As a mother
21:47When after everything
21:49That I was going through
21:50We tried to start
21:50Family therapy
21:51And they would tell me
21:53Things like that
21:54And I would be like
21:55Where was I?
21:58What happened?
21:59What happened in
22:01All this time?
22:03It's hard
22:04Em, I know
22:05It's hard
22:05Because I'm thinking
22:07Everything that we're
22:08Going through
22:09And I was also blinded
22:12When you eventually
22:14Found out that you were right
22:15Obviously that's devastation
22:17That's horrible
22:18But did you feel
22:19Like kind of like
22:20Okay, at least I'm not crazy
22:22Yeah, I remember vividly
22:23That night
22:24When they told us
22:26I just remember seeing
22:27My brother's face
22:27And he was like
22:28I was just like
22:29Okay, I was right
22:31I felt like it wasn't
22:32New news to me
22:33Because I saw it coming
22:35Did you think
22:36He was going to leave?
22:37No
22:37I just never saw
22:39Having divorced parents
22:41I never thought of it
22:42As a possibility
22:43Because all my friends
22:44Who had divorced parents
22:45It happened when
22:46They were really young
22:47Usually when you've
22:48Made it to a quarter century
22:49Like we did
22:51You're not thinking
23:04You're not thinking
23:07They'll figure it out
23:08My mom and dad getting divorced
23:09Exactly
23:09I was like
23:10There's just no way
23:11There's no divorce
23:12In our family
23:13Exactly
23:14I never
23:15Ever guys
23:16Expected
23:18To get a letter
23:19From a lawyer
23:20That he had filed
23:22For divorce
23:23That was another
23:24Choking moment
23:25In my life
23:26Never thought
23:27We would get divorced
23:28Never thought
23:29I would mention
23:30The D word
23:31Impossible
23:34And would have done
23:35Anything
23:36To save my family
23:37Do you think
23:38If it weren't
23:39A relationship
23:40And it was like
23:41An isolated incident
23:42That you guys
23:43Would still be married
23:43Oh yes
23:45The day
23:46That divorce paper
23:49Became public
23:50I won
23:52A Daytime
23:53National
23:54Yes
23:55Emmy
23:56Yay
23:56I would like to
23:58Thank the academy
23:59Because
23:59I would like to
24:01Thank the academy
24:02Because my personal
24:03Life was the lowest
24:05It was such a
24:06Horrible day for me
24:08And in my professional
24:10Life
24:10Was such a high
24:12That you are like
24:14Because it's so
24:14Full circle moment
24:15God is talking to me
24:17Lena
24:18You've always been
24:19An amazing student
24:20Yes
24:20And when you went
24:22Through this
24:23I know it had to be rough
24:24Because of the public
24:26Nature of it
24:26So much so
24:27That you even decided
24:29To change schools
24:30Yeah
24:30I remember people
24:32Always saying
24:33They're like
24:33When kids go through
24:34Stuff like this
24:35They're a different person
24:37I was like
24:37There's no way
24:38That would never
24:39Happen to me
24:39I was a competitive
24:41Dancer
24:41I was always doing
24:43Super well in school
24:44Slowly I started
24:45Losing interest
24:46In everything
24:47My grades started
24:49Slipping
24:49I'd get to school
24:50I'd sleep
24:52I quit my school
24:53Dance team
24:54And I was just
24:55Coming up with excuses
24:56And my friends
24:57Probably depressed
24:57My friends were noticing
24:58And I didn't understand that
25:00Depression
25:00That's what happened to you
25:01It was depression
25:02I wouldn't really
25:03Talk about it either
25:04Maybe you didn't want
25:04To admit it to yourself
25:05Yeah
25:06I think I was in denial
25:08Getting out of bed
25:09In the morning
25:10Was so hard
25:11I remember
25:12Checking my attendance
25:13One day
25:13I had like
25:1440 absences
25:15I saw it
25:16Affecting my relationships
25:17I'd bottle it up
25:19And after a month
25:21I would explode
25:21But then I would
25:22Bottle it up again
25:23And I would explode
25:24At some point
25:25I felt
25:25I can't fight
25:26With her anymore
25:27We decided therapy
25:29Exactly
25:30She studied therapy
25:31Little by little
25:32But it was
25:33Long road to recovery
25:35Lina
25:35I was scared for you
25:37And I would talk
25:38To your mom
25:40And I would say
25:41To your mom
25:41Lily
25:42Lina is clinically depressed
25:44Yeah
25:45We need to find a way
25:46To get her to therapy
25:47You've always controlled
25:49Your environment
25:50And all of a sudden
25:51You couldn't control
25:53Your own emotions
25:54Listen
25:55This is a horrible process
25:56You were depressed too
25:57Flaga
25:58And through that depression
25:59Had to go on your show
26:00Every day
26:01And pretend like
26:02Nothing happened
26:02And everybody's
26:03Throwing in your face
26:04Oh well you talk about
26:06Everybody else's relationship
26:07That's what you get
26:08You know
26:09And it was also
26:10Really hard for me
26:11Because I didn't even
26:13Have the chance
26:13To tell my friends
26:14I just remember
26:15One day
26:16I woke up
26:17And my mom
26:19Had gone on the show
26:20That day
26:20And said the news
26:30And at that point
26:31I had gotten
26:33Two texts already
26:34Within half an hour
26:35After the show ended
26:36One of my best friends
26:37Was like
26:38Hey I know you didn't
26:39Tell us anything
26:39But if you need anything
26:41I'm here
26:42And then another one
26:42Texted me
26:43Oh my gosh
26:44Is this true?
26:45Lina how's your relationship
26:46With your dad now?
26:47It's definitely still not
26:49Where I wish it would be
26:51Whenever I tell my friends
26:53The stories are like
26:54Oh my gosh
26:55He's such an ass
26:56And I'm like
26:58Okay
26:58I kind of get uncomfortable
27:00Because as much as
27:02I could be upset with him
27:03At the end of the day
27:04He's my dad
27:05And I'm always gonna love him
27:07No matter what
27:07Absolutely
27:08That love that I know exists
27:10And that I grew up seeing
27:12Between you and your father
27:13The way that your father
27:16Was with you
27:17Yeah
27:17And loves you
27:18I know still to this day
27:20Absolutely
27:20I think really
27:21That what it is
27:22Is when you can't face yourself
27:23What you just spoke about
27:24What we've been talking about now
27:25I bet that
27:26It would even break him down
27:28To see you where you are
27:30He's a grown man
27:31He's gotta do the work
27:32Exactly
27:32So if he wakes up tomorrow
27:34And he starts working on himself
27:35Then I'm sure we'd all be here
27:38To accept him
27:39100%
27:39And integrate our lives with him
27:41100%
27:42My message to him is
27:43I love you Lorenzo
27:44But man up and do the work
27:45So that we can
27:46You know
27:47Get with the program
27:47Because there's a lot
27:48He's your dad
27:49He's not going anywhere
27:50There's a lot that
27:51No matter what's going on
27:52Between you guys
27:53I still would
27:53I would have loved to have him
27:55At my graduation
27:56I would love to see him
27:57At my birthdays
27:58He was invited
27:59That's what I'm saying
28:00That's what I'm saying
28:00It's not us
28:01At that point
28:02Exactly
28:03Maybe he's not ready
28:05We have to mention
28:06My son Lorenzo
28:08Lorenzo's been a rock
28:09Through all of this
28:10By the way
28:11He and
28:11It's been
28:13So rough
28:14For him
28:15And he's also doing
28:16Amazing in school
28:17Doing his thing
28:18Very proud of Loring
28:19Yeah
28:19We love you Loring
28:21Yeah we love you Loring
28:22Hearing you speak
28:24Yes
28:24And like
28:25Hearing where you're coming from
28:26Like it's inspiring me
28:27Like I'm always proud
28:29And inspired by you
28:30But the way that
28:30You've taken this
28:32And done what it seems
28:33This with it
28:34You've grown
28:35Yeah you're talking
28:36In a way that really
28:37Is enlightening
28:38I think you've grown
28:39So proud
28:39Where you've caught up
28:40With your actual height
28:41Yeah I think
28:42Your soul is stretching out
28:44To fit those arms
28:46Lily
28:46You said when we started
28:48That you thought
28:48You had the perfect life
28:49I thought
28:50And no matter what the hell
28:52What I'm looking at right now
28:53Is two improved
28:54Strong
28:56Badass
28:57Women
28:57Exactly
28:58Okay guys
28:59But this is what I learned
29:01And I want to talk
29:01To divorced women
29:02I made a choice
29:04From the beginning
29:05To lead with love
29:07Because what happened
29:09Is for us
29:11For Lorenzo
29:12And for me
29:13And I decided
29:14To keep the best with me
29:15Not the worst
29:16Yes amen
29:17I didn't want to get a divorce
29:19And I pushed
29:20And pushed
29:20And pushed
29:21To get past
29:22Everything that was going on
29:23It didn't happen
29:25And one day
29:26I just woke up
29:27And said
29:27Okay Lily
29:28It's time
29:29To let go
29:32Respira
29:34Inspira
29:35Vive
29:36Y deja vivir
29:37There is one thing
29:38That I do
29:39Every night
29:41Before I go to sleep
29:42I pray
29:43For my kids
29:45To meet
29:46The guy
29:47That I married
29:48Because the guy
29:51That I married
29:53Is not
29:54The guy
29:55That I divorced
29:57And
29:58Not for me anymore
30:00But
30:01Them
30:05They deserve
30:07To meet
30:09That incredible guy
30:11That I married
30:14And I can't say
30:15Any more than that
30:19You know
30:23Don't cry
30:23You guys are going to be
30:25Just fine
30:27They will
30:27Love you
30:29I love you
30:30All right
30:32Here we are
30:34On the next
30:35Red Table Talk
30:36The Estefans
30:37I remember telling you
30:38Are you
30:39Gay
30:43You're Gloria Estefan
30:44You're a gay icon
30:46I really didn't want
30:47To let you down
30:49You said
30:50If you tell your grandma
30:51And she dies
30:52Her blood is on your hands
30:53You're remembering things
30:54In a different way
30:57I was suicidal
30:59I'm sorry
31:00That we didn't kick that
31:03And I hate to know
31:05That I was part of that hurt
31:06One second
31:08Chloe
31:09Our family friend
31:11Rosie O'Donnell
31:12Emily
31:12Do you forgive her
31:13For that
31:15And actress
31:16Michelle Rodriguez
31:17Reveals her truth
31:19She's openly bisexual
31:20I like boys
31:21I like girls
31:22I like both
31:23Welcome
31:29What was so beautiful about it
31:31Is just the familial
31:33Just everybody coming together
31:34During a difficult time
31:36Cause you know
31:36We can all take that low road
31:38Cause we'd really be wanting to
31:39Oh my god
31:40I could have gone like this
31:42I know
31:43We got to see the generational aspect
31:45We got to see everybody's personality
31:47We got to see everybody's point of view
31:48Like that
31:49What's dope
31:50Let's talk about it
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