00:00Trust yourself that you're meant for, and believe in yourself that you're meant for great things.
00:04Hi, Cosmo! I'm Belle Mariano, your cover star for this month.
00:08Welcome to another episode of Celeb Answers Fan Questions on Cosmo.
00:12Let's go!
00:17How do you know if it's worth it to save your friendship,
00:20or you're just feeling like you're just going to love your memories?
00:25Kung healthy pa yung connection yung pareho, of course, it's worth saving.
00:30But if it's doing the opposite for the both of you,
00:33I think it's best to let that person go for your mental health too, and your peace of mind.
00:39What do you do kapag feeling mong napag-iwanan ka na sa career
00:42kasi everyone around you ay parang sure na sure na sila sa buhay nila?
00:46I believe that we all have our timing.
00:50I mean, syempre mahirap yun.
00:52And syempre, there are times na magkakaroon ka talaga ng self-doubt.
00:57Pero, I think we should learn how to look past that,
01:01and just continue to believe that we have our own time to shine.
01:06Paano ba hindi maapektuhan masyado sa opinions ng ibang tao?
01:10Kasi isang bad or major judgmental lang na comment,
01:13minsan, siraan na agad yung araw ko.
01:15Madaling sabihin, pero mahirap gawin.
01:17Of course, talagang maapektuhan tayo minsan.
01:21Lalo na, di ba, kapag sa social media, hindi natin kilala yung tao.
01:25Andili tayong husgahan.
01:26Pero, tayo lang naman ang pinakamay kilala sa atin eh.
01:30Tayo lang naman ang mga kaubuo sa sarili natin eh.
01:33So, yung mga komentong yun, it shouldn't necessarily matter.
01:38I mean, yes, take what you want to take into heart, maybe for your growth.
01:43But, at the same time, don't depend who you are on these people
01:47that say unnecessary things about you.
01:51How do you move on from someone who keeps giving mixed signals?
01:55Mixed signals na nga, pero maasa ka pa rin na baka magbago siya.
01:58Siguro yung pagka-mixed signals niya, sign na yun for you to let go.
02:03Because I do believe in the saying that if it comes with confusion, it's not from God.
02:06So, that in itself is enough of a reason for you to just let go.
02:12I mean, if this person gives you mixed signals,
02:15I don't think this person is worth it of you.
02:17Worth it to have you in their life.
02:19Do you ever feel pressured to have everything figured out already?
02:23Kasi I'm in my 20s, pero feeling ko wala pa rin direction nyong life ko.
02:27Yes, I do feel pressured.
02:29I think I am in those years that I have to take things seriously,
02:33but at the same time, just take it day by day and enjoy life.
02:38I do believe that everything happens for a reason.
02:41Just take it easy on yourself, you know.
02:43Don't be scared.
02:44I know there's a lot of scary things in this world na tinatapat natin,
02:50but just continue to have faith and believe that everything happens for a reason.
02:55Trust yourself that you're meant for,
02:57and believe in yourself that you're meant for great things.
02:59What's a money lesson you wish you learned earlier,
03:02especially as someone na bigla naging working girl na talaga?
03:06Invest in something that's for long term.
03:09Make long term investments as early as you can.
03:12That's one advice to let it out from my mom, you know.
03:16Also, learn to differentiate your needs and your wants.
03:22Diba?
03:22Siyempre, minsan, nasa'tpapasobro tayo sa gasta sa wants natin,
03:26na namakakapusan tayo sa needs natin.
03:28So maybe just set a boundary for those two.
03:31Differentiate kung ano talagang mas kailangan ma-weigh things.
03:35And yeah, maybe that could be my advice.
03:38Make long term investments.
03:40What's your most recent long term investment aside from money?
03:44Oh, my business.
03:45I recently put up a business with my sister.
03:47It's named Tali.
03:48And I'm very, very proud of Tali, you know.
03:51It's a dream.
03:52A dream for my sister and I.
03:53How do you set boundaries with your family
03:56without feeling like you're so selfish after?
03:59I think this doesn't just necessarily go with your family, you know.
04:02Setting boundaries.
04:03I think setting boundaries,
04:05common misconception kasi ng mga tao,
04:07pag may boundaries, umiiwas ka agad.
04:09Or pag may boundaries, ayaw mo sa kanila agad.
04:11Pero hindi.
04:12Set a healthy boundary for your connection to be better.
04:16How do you deal with people na nandyan lang kapag okay ka,
04:19pero nawawala pag ikaw naman yung may pinagdadaanan?
04:23Parang pag ganun,
04:25di mo masasabi kung totoong kaibigan mong isang tao, diba?
04:28I believe that your true friend will be with you
04:31through your ups and downs.
04:33So it's sad na nandyan lang sila kapag okay ka.
04:37Hindi naman pwedeng ganun, diba?
04:39What would they feel naman if naging the other way around?
04:42So, maybe that's when you put the boundaries na
04:45with those type of, types of people.
04:48And that's it for today.
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