00:09rape is happening all over the place husband raping a woman is not something new if you say
00:14oh my god how could a husband do that you are reinforcing the belief that husbands do not do
00:19this but the husbands do this all the time not that there are rapes and no rapes there are socially
00:25prohibited rapes and socially sanctioned rapes if the woman knows that she will be homeless
00:30shelterless and moneyless if she refuses consent the consent will come the woman herself might not
00:37know where the consent is coming from the consent is coming from her fear very few instances of sex
00:43copulation involve no rape very few instances we cannot have data on this but my hunch is that
00:49less than 10 percent cases of sex do not involve rape otherwise sex is just rape it requires a
00:56fundamental shift in consciousness to see that the husband is not the body the wife is not the body
01:02and the body is not something that is to be controlled by the society the body is to be
01:07controlled by consciousness that which you really are
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