00:00I was reading a book which is Truth About Apology and I went through a quotation which says fight the
00:06right ones and only the right ones and ignore the small conflicts. So it made me wonder that how can
00:12we recognize that these conflicts are small ones and we can actually surrender ourselves in front of our ego so
00:20that we can actually safeguard our relationship that actually matters.
00:24You know, for that you must know what you really want. Any trouble that you accept for that which is
00:34really important is great. And even the smallest trouble that you accept for something trivial is a wastage.
00:49How to decide what is really important? For that you have to know your present condition. Right? If I am
00:55someone captivated by fear, then what is really important for me? Freedom from fear. Right?
01:03So what is really important is a subjective thing. It depends on you. Nobody else can tell it. You have
01:12to know where your current problems lie.
01:17But most of us are so busy. At the surface of life, we do not even know our deep diseases.
01:26And often it happens. Inwardly, you may be troubled or sick. But because the symptoms are hidden, so you remain
01:38confident that all is alright.
01:39You have to get into your own life. You have to get into your own life, thoughts, feelings, actions, decisions,
01:46and see what holds you back. And freedom from what holds you back is the most important. That is what
01:54is most important. And then you can accept whatever price you have to pay for that most important thing.
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