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90 Day Fiancé Season 12 Episode 7
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00:00:01Previously on 90 Day Fiance...
00:00:05Sweetie!
00:00:09It has been eight long months, but I am so excited. I'm finally here with my baby.
00:00:17God is still gonna figure out a way for us. Yeah.
00:00:22It's gonna be tough, man.
00:00:24Our parents, they're wealthy. I always felt like I wasn't good enough.
00:00:28Honestly, with you, like, I'm coming for nothing.
00:00:31I just be here a couple of days, and it started to be very hard to find my place.
00:00:37I'm getting irritated. You're just always sitting around, like, on your phone.
00:00:41I just feel like I have, like, another kid.
00:00:47I'm happy to spend a bit of money, but I think if we did that, you would have an aneurysm.
00:00:53You said you are the house husband. You have all the time in the world, so...
00:00:56Figure out how to get cheap furniture, then.
00:01:00It's a small f***ing expense. I don't want to fight over it.
00:01:04I'm not trying to be an asshole.
00:01:06Then stop being an asshole.
00:01:08I think you need to have a long, hard think about whether marriage is the right thing for you.
00:01:16You said last night you didn't have sex with this woman.
00:01:19Some stuff I don't even remember doing. I just hear about it later. I mean, like...
00:01:23Of course you're cheating on me!
00:01:26I can't tell if I can continue this wedding.
00:01:33If you don't want to take me seriously, then just stop talking to me, alright?
00:01:37If you start spraying this stuff again, I'm gonna leave.
00:01:41You can stay here. I'm gonna go somewhere else.
00:01:45Disgusting if I wear perfumes, like, what am I doing here? Like, I don't need all this s***.
00:01:53I'm like the government. Me and taxes? We're here forever.
00:01:57I want to make boundary because our culture, our country, we don't have ex-boyfriend, two friends.
00:02:08Don't call my fiancé, never.
00:02:11Get the f*** off my tailgate.
00:02:15Motherf***er.
00:02:17Get your f*** and go.
00:02:19I need him out of my house.
00:02:22You can't get in the house anyway if you don't even have your pins.
00:02:24I'm not talking with you. Shut your mouth.
00:02:25I'm not talking with you.
00:02:26I'm not gonna shut my mouth.
00:02:27You don't understand!
00:02:28That's not how you treat women in America, mother f***er!
00:02:32You wanna f***ing get in my face?
00:02:35He's going home.
00:02:55So, um, let's just, like, go over. Remember, I want you to, like, be yourself, but be, like, the family
00:03:02approving Edward. Do you know what I mean?
00:03:06Don't be like, Bob! And give him, like, a big hug.
00:03:09I'm not allowed to hug your mother in doing this.
00:03:11No, don't call her mommy. Don't hug, don't pick her up. Don't pick anybody up.
00:03:17Don't eat your attention by your lonely boy. I like it.
00:03:21You can play it cool, but don't pretend you're trying to find a book.
00:03:26Looks good?
00:03:27Yeah.
00:03:27Happy?
00:03:28Yeah. Are you?
00:03:30No. I hate that that thing is in tinfoil, but I don't have anything else to put it in.
00:03:35Listen, it's your parents. It's okay. This is not a big deal.
00:03:39It is to me.
00:03:40Oh, my God.
00:03:43I met the parents before in the DR, but we don't have the opportunity to be, like, one of 100%.
00:03:50You know, the boys are younger, they're on vacation, vacation moon, and we basically put all the attention with the
00:03:57boys.
00:03:57I talk with them a little bit, but they can make you feel that you are nothing.
00:04:03Maybe it's not on purpose, but maybe because they are rich, and they have all the different mentalities.
00:04:10And I get intimidated with people, because I know that I'm smart, and I know that I'm a good person,
00:04:16you know?
00:04:17I think also, like, a guest, come with me. We'll, um, welcome our guests together.
00:04:31Oh, my God.
00:04:34I haven't seen you in a few days. I miss you.
00:04:36I miss you, too.
00:04:37Hi.
00:04:38Hey, Bob.
00:04:38Hi.
00:04:39Hi.
00:04:42Good to see you.
00:04:43How are you doing? Good?
00:04:44Welcome aboard.
00:04:45How's everything?
00:04:46Should be better.
00:04:47Could be worse.
00:04:48Let's go.
00:04:51This meeting is making me really nervous, because although my family is really nice,
00:04:57Edward isn't necessarily the type of guy that they would normally choose for me.
00:05:02I miss, I have a snow.
00:05:04Uh-oh.
00:05:05More guests coming with me to welcome our next session.
00:05:09But it's not just my parents coming today.
00:05:11In true Italian-American fashion, we have...
00:05:14Hi!
00:05:15My aunt and uncle.
00:05:17Hello, my love.
00:05:18And my cousin and her boyfriend.
00:05:20Hi, cuz.
00:05:21How are you?
00:05:22How are you?
00:05:23Hi, Pete.
00:05:24Hi, Elmo.
00:05:25Bienvenido!
00:05:26I know that my family has very high expectations of Edward.
00:05:30They have seen me struggle a lot through my life, especially in relationships.
00:05:34And they want things easy for me.
00:05:36And a lot of them feel that this isn't the easiest choice that I could have made.
00:05:41So we're not gonna have, like, a sit-down dinner.
00:05:42It's more like mingling, getting to know Edward.
00:05:45So the food's out.
00:05:46It's Italian.
00:05:46Italian.
00:05:47Well, Italian's good.
00:05:48Yeah.
00:05:49Looks great.
00:05:49Thank you, Marissa.
00:05:50Everybody's Italian?
00:05:51Thanks, over here.
00:05:52We're Italian.
00:05:53We're Italian.
00:05:53We're Italian.
00:05:54Italian.
00:05:55Bob's not Italian.
00:05:56Bob's Dominican.
00:05:58Irish.
00:05:59Irish.
00:06:01Maybe.
00:06:02From another mother, Bob.
00:06:03I don't know.
00:06:05Bob knows a lot about baseball, too.
00:06:08Marissa have a lot of expectations.
00:06:10It's very high.
00:06:12She wants everything perfect because of these people.
00:06:14It's very important for her.
00:06:16That start to make a little bit pressure on me, and I feel a little bit nervous about, like,
00:06:20oh, my God, like, everything needs to be, like, good because if it's not, you gotta be upset.
00:06:27So, Edward, how big of a family are you from?
00:06:29Well, with my mother, we are three.
00:06:31Mm-hmm.
00:06:32And, like, um, with my, um, my dad, I don't know.
00:06:37A lot.
00:06:42Being so close with your brother, it was probably an easier transition to step in with Derek and Cole.
00:06:47Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:06:48100%.
00:06:49So, we were so tired last night.
00:06:51We just kind of, like, collapsed on bed, and we were just, like, looking at something on his phone, and
00:06:54I had my head on it.
00:06:55And Cole, like, came running into the room and, like, jumped on Edward and, like, put his head on the
00:06:59other side.
00:07:00And it was so cute.
00:07:01It was like, oh, he really feels comfortable with him.
00:07:03Honestly, like...
00:07:04You know, it's a great opportunity for you to stand so I can sit.
00:07:06Oh.
00:07:07My feet are starting to hurt.
00:07:09My heels.
00:07:10No, no, it's okay, it's okay.
00:07:11Oh, thank you.
00:07:12Please.
00:07:13Well, I'm excited for you.
00:07:15I'm excited that you're here.
00:07:18But it's not always gonna be smooth sailing.
00:07:23Their world is changing.
00:07:24They don't know it yet.
00:07:25Oh, they're all excited.
00:07:26Edward's here, oh, boy.
00:07:27But it's not gonna be smooth sailing all the way.
00:07:31And, honestly, I worry because I don't know you.
00:07:34No, I understand.
00:07:38When Marissa came to me with her situation and the fact that she loves Edward and that they wanted to
00:07:45be together and get married, ultimately, I was not on board at all.
00:07:50There's an age difference.
00:07:51There's a cultural difference.
00:07:52He doesn't know what he'll do here yet to make a living.
00:07:56There are a lot of red flags.
00:07:57And unless you're oblivious, you understand that there are.
00:08:03I made that very clear to him.
00:08:06Edward, talk is cheap, and we see.
00:08:08We see what you're made of.
00:08:15I'll be your opponent if you let me take all your pieces apart.
00:08:25I try as possible as you can to be very patient with her.
00:08:29What's wrong?
00:08:44What happened that I missed in the car? Can you tell me?
00:08:46I swear.
00:08:48I'm not doing something.
00:08:50She was crying.
00:08:52She was crying.
00:08:53She say, I'm tired.
00:08:54I frustrated.
00:08:55From what?
00:08:56I told her, you have everything.
00:08:58You don't need something.
00:09:00I need conversation.
00:09:01Conversation for what?
00:09:02I told her, okay.
00:09:03I'm listening.
00:09:04No.
00:09:05Blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:09:06You see?
00:09:12I am, like, just shocked.
00:09:16I am shocked, too.
00:09:17I feel like went south fast.
00:09:20It went south very fast.
00:09:22This is not Egypt.
00:09:24This is not a Muslim country.
00:09:26You do not treat women like that here.
00:09:28Mother .
00:09:31I don't like the way he speaks to her.
00:09:35And that makes me worried for what is going on behind closed doors.
00:09:39How is he treating her then?
00:09:40Because if he has the nerve to treat her like that,
00:09:43today, here and now, he's not going to treat her well at all.
00:09:54I don't know what the future holds for them, but it doesn't look good.
00:09:58It doesn't look like this wedding is going to happen.
00:10:01It's really sad.
00:10:02I'm really upset.
00:10:04Like, Debbie doesn't deserve that kind of heartache to happen to her,
00:10:09but it's better for it to happen now.
00:10:12You just want to sit right here?
00:10:13Yeah, this is perfect.
00:10:18What's your plan right now?
00:10:20Go home.
00:10:21What do you mean by go home?
00:10:22Go to my country.
00:10:25I don't need something new.
00:10:35Good evening.
00:10:36Good evening.
00:10:54So, what is it?
00:10:56God, I don't know how to put this into words.
00:10:59It's a bad day.
00:11:03This evening, I just had like a mini meltdown.
00:11:08Instead of him offering compassion and love or concern,
00:11:13what I got was, what do you have to be crying for?
00:11:19I left my family.
00:11:20I left my work.
00:11:22I left everything.
00:11:24Just completely dismissed anything that I was feeling at all.
00:11:30It's always the same thing.
00:11:33If I'm not comfortable, I'm going home.
00:11:36It depends on you.
00:11:38When you're in a relationship and you love somebody,
00:11:42you don't throw that in their face every two days.
00:11:51I was very surprised, you know.
00:11:54She make a big mistake with me.
00:11:55When they question my virginity.
00:11:59You can that slut in Egypt, but you can't be compassionate with me?
00:12:04Go, go, go.
00:12:06She pushed me too far.
00:12:08Because she sees some photos with some girls in Egypt.
00:12:12Of course, I told her, shut your mouth.
00:12:17And after that, I will not deal with her at all.
00:12:22It's finished.
00:12:23It's over.
00:12:30It's finished.
00:12:31It's over.
00:12:31Already, I start to check the flight tickets.
00:12:36But I don't know.
00:12:40I can't find flight.
00:12:43Tomorrow, inshallah, I will try it.
00:12:46Because it's late now.
00:12:48And I will go home.
00:12:52I'm not going to be taking being called a bitch.
00:12:56I'm not going to take him screaming at my friends.
00:13:00If he wants to go home, pack his bags and go.
00:13:07I can't be with her after all these things.
00:13:11Over.
00:13:13Over, over, over.
00:13:22How are you feeling?
00:13:23I mean, you feel better?
00:13:24Are you still upset with me, or?
00:13:26We talked.
00:13:27She told me already the truth about you and her.
00:13:33And we still have brother.
00:13:35We need to fix this.
00:13:39What's next on your priority list?
00:13:41Well, it is my birthday party.
00:13:43And what are we going to do?
00:13:44We're going to a bar with friends.
00:13:46Nice.
00:13:48One of my friends, Ryan, is in town.
00:13:51So I also invited him.
00:13:52Me and Ryan made out a couple of times.
00:13:55There's something to tell you.
00:13:56What?
00:13:57Am I going to like it?
00:14:04You may run for a long time.
00:14:08Run on for a long time.
00:14:11Run on for a long time.
00:14:15Good night, Annabelle.
00:14:16Bye-bye.
00:14:22Hi, hi, nons.
00:14:25Where's my pop-pop bed?
00:14:26Oh, buy me home?
00:14:27Yes, I'm home.
00:14:30Well, how did it go?
00:14:31Go tell the long-toned liar
00:14:35And tell that midnight rider
00:14:40How are you feeling?
00:14:41I mean, you feel better?
00:14:42Are you still upset with me, or?
00:14:50Yeah, I'm feeling good.
00:14:51I'm feeling better.
00:14:52Feel better?
00:14:53Mm-hmm.
00:14:54So did you and Angie talk, or?
00:15:05You understand now there was nothing going on, right?
00:15:09Yeah.
00:15:10But we still have problem because, Nicole, you need to fix this.
00:15:15Oh, if, you know, if we run into her, it comes down to it.
00:15:18If she pops up, I'll definitely take care of it.
00:15:22So does that mean you're good?
00:15:24You forgive me?
00:15:27Yeah.
00:15:28You take my apology now?
00:15:29Yeah.
00:15:30Well, thank you, mate.
00:15:31I'm glad you're feeling better and everything like that.
00:15:35I love you.
00:15:35Mm-hmm.
00:15:38Mm-hmm.
00:15:40I forgive you, Shay, but you up.
00:15:44I came here for you.
00:15:46And I sacrificed everything from Philippines.
00:15:50So you need to be your best behavior now.
00:15:55I'm here gonna be a wife.
00:15:57I'm gonna definitely work on it, babe.
00:15:59I'm not kidding.
00:16:01This is my role shape.
00:16:03If you do disrespect me again, I'm done.
00:16:07I'm leaving.
00:16:08Nothing like that's gonna happen.
00:16:10And, I mean, you don't have to worry.
00:16:12You're the boss, baby.
00:16:13Yes, I am the boss.
00:16:15I am.
00:16:16Yeah, you're the boss.
00:16:17Yes, I am the boss.
00:16:18All right.
00:16:19That's good.
00:16:21You had a good time, though.
00:16:22I'm glad.
00:16:23Yeah.
00:16:24Allison and Angie told me that you're a good guy.
00:16:28I'm gonna forgive you.
00:16:30Well, thank you, babe.
00:16:31I'm good.
00:16:32I appreciate that.
00:16:32That's what I was hoping for.
00:16:36Hey, it's football night tonight.
00:16:39And, you know, some buddies will be out.
00:16:42And we can go watch a game.
00:16:44And, you know, we can get some dinner.
00:16:45I can drink a couple beers.
00:16:47And you can hang out and meet some new people.
00:16:50No, I gotta stay at home.
00:16:52I'm so tired.
00:16:53I mean, we can just go tonight and stay home tomorrow.
00:16:58No.
00:17:00You're not drinking beer tonight.
00:17:02You're gonna drink herbal tea with me tonight.
00:17:05Mmm.
00:17:06And we're doing yoga together.
00:17:09Yoga?
00:17:10Yeah.
00:17:11I've never done yoga, babe.
00:17:13We're gonna do it.
00:17:14If you want me to be happy, we're gonna do it together.
00:17:19You can sit here.
00:17:20You're gonna wait me.
00:17:20I'm gonna make herbal tea for us.
00:17:23Get on the floor?
00:17:23Yes.
00:17:26You know, Shay, you've gained a lot of weight since you're visiting me in the Philippines.
00:17:32I know, babe.
00:17:33I mean, when I'm not with you, I'm hanging out with the guys and, you know, drinking beer.
00:17:40You need to lose weight so you have a better sex with me every day.
00:17:44I'm always on top.
00:17:46And I do all the work.
00:17:49That's not from losing weight.
00:17:50That's because that's why I like it.
00:17:55Here's the tea.
00:17:56Oh.
00:17:56Mmm.
00:17:58How's the taste?
00:17:59Good.
00:18:00Good?
00:18:00Yeah.
00:18:03Mm-hmm.
00:18:05You like?
00:18:06Yeah, it's kind of spicy tasting.
00:18:07So we gotta sit on the floor and then do yoga.
00:18:11You take your shoes off, too, or just me?
00:18:13No, no, just you, because I feel cold.
00:18:16Oh, if I get down, I might not get back up.
00:18:20Okay, so what is this about, babe?
00:18:26I want you to do this.
00:18:28Like this.
00:18:29Like that.
00:18:31My hands together?
00:18:32Yeah.
00:18:36Hard to breathe.
00:18:39You think this is hard?
00:18:40Wait until I teach you Zumba.
00:18:44You're gonna exhale, inhale.
00:18:46Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:18:47Oh.
00:18:49Oh, my gosh.
00:18:50Oh.
00:18:52Oh, babe.
00:18:53I'm too old for this.
00:18:55Oh, you're not too old.
00:18:58Just pray, babe.
00:18:59I pray for you that you never cheat anymore.
00:19:02I'm kind of praying.
00:19:03I wish I had a beer in the football game, but...
00:19:06Oh.
00:19:08Annabelle's gave up everything to beer with me, and, you know, I may have to change things in my life,
00:19:13like beer, parties, women.
00:19:17Um, you know, I'm gonna have to give up things. I understand that. I mean, it's a two-way street.
00:19:22You know, I love you's too much, and I'm glad that you forgive me. I feel a lot better.
00:19:29Shut up. I'm meditating.
00:19:30Oh.
00:19:32Y'all do anything to keep her from wanting to go home, back to the Philippines, and, you know, make
00:19:37her feel happy.
00:19:40Oh, you're gonna... I don't know if I can get up, baby.
00:19:42Oh.
00:19:43Mm.
00:19:44Oh, my God.
00:19:46Ada, help me up.
00:19:49Oh, Lord.
00:19:52I keep to what I know, but it's not far behind.
00:19:58I'm trying not to care, but it's all I have to show.
00:20:04This is like a way for now, and I'll take it in my stride.
00:20:10So this is a chair from Bella, isn't it?
00:20:13Yeah.
00:20:14It's comfortable.
00:20:16This feels pretty good.
00:20:18Glad you have a desk.
00:20:19Yeah.
00:20:20I like it.
00:20:30You okay?
00:20:31Just setting up a house, or a space, or an apartment with someone, is out of my comfort zone.
00:20:40I don't like living with people.
00:20:45That's okay.
00:20:46I'll just hop on back to the United Kingdom.
00:20:48This has been lovely.
00:20:51Living with Josh is harder than I thought it would be, because he's really frustrated about the lack of furniture,
00:20:55and I'm frustrated with him at the lack of patience.
00:20:59So the last few days have been really tough.
00:21:03We're not seeing eye to eye, but we also aren't communicating well, so I don't really know how to get
00:21:08past this.
00:21:10I think, if anything, we can take comfort that it's just a short thing.
00:21:15Once you've got everything a bit more stable, that bit will be over, and we can just lean into living
00:21:21life, you know?
00:21:22Yeah.
00:21:23I just want to, like, not obsess about each detail of the apartment, as we are making progress every day
00:21:29to make it better.
00:21:31Yeah.
00:21:32Yeah, okay, understood.
00:21:33I feel like we're in a much better place than we were yesterday or the day before.
00:21:37I think we're in a worse place.
00:21:40Can you try and just recognize that I know it's stressful for you living apartments and all of this.
00:21:45Like, I've literally just left my country and I'm setting up, and I feel like you're just a bit dismissive
00:21:49over it sometimes.
00:21:51When I basically moved to the UK and Europe for a year, I didn't find that such a big deal.
00:21:57So it's hard for me to empathize with you moving countries.
00:22:01You went on holiday with a suitcase, and I have no choice. I cannot leave for, like, over a year.
00:22:08I can't work.
00:22:09It's a massive difference.
00:22:11Being an immigrant in the US at the moment is a pretty fragile position to be in, and I feel
00:22:17like that really weighs on me.
00:22:18Okay.
00:22:23I guess, like, if I were in your position, I might feel less stressed out.
00:22:30Sometimes I think that you can say something and it can come across as hurtful.
00:22:34I think sometimes he just reads into things, though.
00:22:38That's a big cultural difference. Like, I think in the UK, I think that you do read into things.
00:22:46And I feel like I'm putting a lot of effort into understanding American ways of being, and I feel like
00:22:53you could try and understand that element of Britishness.
00:22:57We're in America.
00:23:03What's next on your priority list?
00:23:05Well, it is my birthday party, so I was hoping we could focus on that.
00:23:09Well, I don't know what the plans are, so what are we going to do?
00:23:13We're going to a bar with friends.
00:23:16Nice!
00:23:17Yeah.
00:23:19We're going to a bar tonight for my birthday party, and I invited some friends.
00:23:25Also, one of my friends, Ryan, is in town for, like, a work thing, so I also invited him.
00:23:31And I'm realizing that I should not have invited him.
00:23:38Well, I'm pumped.
00:23:39I'm glad you're pumped, too.
00:23:42Super pumped.
00:23:46I met Ryan at a run club in Chicago a couple years ago when I was running the marathon, and
00:23:52we recently ran the Berlin Marathon together and went on, like, a Europe road trip.
00:23:58I had a lot of fun with Ryan, but a little bit too much fun. That was kind of my
00:24:03chaotic era.
00:24:06Me and Ryan made out a couple of times, but nothing further than that.
00:24:11Was Josh there?
00:24:13Josh was there, like, at, like, two out of four of the times.
00:24:21I think that's also why I've been being a bit pissy today, because, um, I hate keeping secrets.
00:24:38Oh, hey.
00:24:40I'm looking forward to this evening.
00:24:41Oh, me too.
00:24:42Yeah?
00:24:43Uh, let's sit down and chat.
00:24:48I think there's a chance that when Josh finds out that Ryan's coming to the birthday party, he won't show
00:24:52up.
00:24:52Because he said he's never going 20 feet, within 20 feet of Ryan ever again.
00:24:58There's nothing to tell you.
00:25:00What?
00:25:01Are you going to like it?
00:25:03No, you're not going to like it.
00:25:11I mean, I don't think I can completely cut him out of my life.
00:25:16If you love me, you can listen to me.
00:25:18I'm listening to you right now.
00:25:20I'm just telling you that's not going to happen.
00:25:22I want you to figure your out with each other, because we're all going to be in each other's lives.
00:25:28He's going to be around.
00:25:31Honestly, if he has such a problem with my American culture, then maybe he should have been with a Turkish
00:25:37one.
00:25:49Okay.
00:25:50So hike means walk, right?
00:25:53Yeah, it's a little walk.
00:25:55And you are wearing jeans for a walk.
00:26:08Bebe, I wish at least one day you could be a gentleman and open the door for me. Just one
00:26:16day.
00:26:17If opening the door means that you don't want to drive, then I'll open the door for you.
00:26:22No, I want to drive.
00:26:24No.
00:26:27This morning, when Thomas glued my perfume that he's allergic to, I was so frustrated.
00:26:34Why I cannot drive?
00:26:36You know, I don't think it's a good day.
00:26:39We hang out with other people.
00:26:41Other people wear perfume.
00:26:43He never say anything I never see.
00:26:45And with me, oh, he started to be super allergic.
00:26:49So I think it's a way of control.
00:26:51I really hate that.
00:26:53I refuse that.
00:26:57I don't feel good right now.
00:26:58Why?
00:26:59I don't know. My nose is running.
00:27:01Like, I'm allergic to something.
00:27:02You think it's my perfume that I wear this morning?
00:27:05Like, this isn't normal for me.
00:27:06I don't normally feel like this.
00:27:08My mouth isn't normally itchy.
00:27:10I don't have my sinuses usually running.
00:27:12Like, my nose is running.
00:27:13I have to, like, keep blowing it.
00:27:15I can't handle it with you.
00:27:19This double personality suddenly change.
00:27:25I'm, like, fighting to, like, progress through the day.
00:27:29Like, can you just give me a break?
00:27:30It's not a double personality.
00:27:31Is there something that I can...
00:27:32I'm trying to have fun.
00:27:33I'm trying to do this.
00:27:34But I'm having a hard time, like, being fully here.
00:27:37Just, like, go easy.
00:27:38Where do you wanna be?
00:27:40I don't know.
00:27:42I mean, let's just go for a hike and enjoy nature.
00:27:48Paula is aware of my allergies,
00:27:51but I would never go as far to say that she understands my allergies.
00:27:56She feels like it's a personal attack against her.
00:27:58It's a real difficult conflict that we have yet to figure out between us.
00:28:06Honestly, I think gluing the perfume shut was the best thing I could have done.
00:28:10But I recognize it's her second day here.
00:28:13And I'll be honest, I feel bad that she's upset about it.
00:28:17Hey, I'm sorry for bringing the stuff in the car, okay?
00:28:19Like, it's just tough.
00:28:20But I love you.
00:28:22I'm happy to be here with you.
00:28:24I never knew that in only two days we would have this much of a problem.
00:28:30Perfume, meat, you are freaking out.
00:28:34It's just hard for me to be myself when I'm feeling, like, so bad.
00:28:38When the perfume comes out in the apartment, like, my nose is running.
00:28:43My sinuses are all congested.
00:28:45My mouth is itchy.
00:28:46It's like I can't focus on anything else but, like, my whole entire face area.
00:28:50It's, like, inflamed.
00:28:52I mean, I know that it is very hard for you.
00:28:55But it's hard for me to accept.
00:28:59You are putting our relationship down.
00:29:02You are fighting with me.
00:29:04You are not being gentlemen.
00:29:07It's, uh...
00:29:08Sometimes it's just, it gets hard, and I don't know how to voice what I'm going through.
00:29:12And I'm sorry that, like, I'm the one that you're matched up with.
00:29:18I'm so different from you.
00:29:21We're gonna find a middle way, you know, from you and I.
00:29:25My life is not easy at all.
00:29:27But in my relationship, that would not be different.
00:29:31You are from another country.
00:29:34You speak another language.
00:29:35You have another preference that is 100% opposite than mine.
00:29:41Which is hard to do.
00:29:43But I love you.
00:29:47I wanna make our relationship work.
00:29:50I just don't wanna be treated like...
00:29:53You know?
00:29:54Because you must treat me bad.
00:29:56I'm sorry.
00:29:57I'm sorry for what I did.
00:29:58I'm sorry for what I said.
00:29:59And I wanna be better.
00:30:07Thanks.
00:30:11Sorry to make you feel bad, okay?
00:30:14It's okay.
00:30:15I don't wanna make you feel bad.
00:30:18He's very sensitive, right?
00:30:20Yeah, that's very true.
00:30:22I'm an emotional wreck.
00:30:23That's, that's for sure.
00:30:26Yeah, that's true.
00:30:27It was hard for me.
00:30:29Only two days.
00:30:29I could barely make it.
00:30:31Yes.
00:30:32Only two days and you wanna send your fiance back to Brazil.
00:30:37The one thing that can break Thomas and I apart
00:30:40is he don't found me in a middle way.
00:30:44I'm not here for vacation.
00:30:46I'm, I'm here to build a family.
00:30:47We were talking about having kids in future.
00:30:50But we need to found a middle way to meet.
00:30:53Is it possible?
00:30:56I'll try.
00:30:57What?
00:30:57I'll try.
00:31:01Let's go.
00:31:04Can I hold my hand?
00:31:06Yes.
00:31:07I'm lost.
00:31:19Up, up, up.
00:31:20Up, no.
00:31:21Come on.
00:31:22Come, come, come here.
00:31:23Come here.
00:31:23Come on, Opal.
00:31:25Good girl.
00:31:28Yeah, you know, I, I was drunk last night.
00:31:31They are very lucky.
00:31:32They, they sleep with us.
00:31:35You cuddled.
00:31:35You cuddled with Opal.
00:31:36No.
00:31:37You did.
00:31:37I saw it.
00:31:38No.
00:31:39You did.
00:31:40All right, guys.
00:31:42Let's go.
00:31:44You're good.
00:31:45I've got to go.
00:31:49I'm not sure.
00:31:50No.
00:31:53Baby.
00:31:55Yes?
00:31:56Where is oil something?
00:31:58Oh, I'm coming, I'm coming.
00:32:01in the american spirit rosh got white girl wasted like he wanted to what does it mean white girl
00:32:10wasted okay what does it mean say white girl wasted white coat wasting
00:32:18it means like white girls they get really really drunk they're like ah i didn't know
00:32:26huh bieber bieber bieber justin bieber what is this
00:32:34after hangout hangover hangover yeah i need turkish breakfast breakfast yeah i will make
00:32:42meraman my butthole's gonna be hating me later this is good when you eat hot after toilet yeah no
00:32:51your bowel hot cry pain do you understand no i don't
00:33:04here here's your coffee thank you so much you're welcome
00:33:12i felt like last night was fun what did you think do you think you have did you have fun
00:33:16last night yes
00:33:17i mean they did all of that for you you know it was very nice of them but you know
00:33:26brandy is that well i need to i want i really didn't talk about it last night
00:33:32i don't want to be you friends my fiance i say this and he's he didn't listen to me and
00:33:43it's he's very i see he's very angry last night i speak brandy like he don't speak he's he's has
00:33:56something here and he say i'm brandy get on off my truck oh god i say what i'm brandy what
00:34:07is your
00:34:08problem like what i i don't understand just i say yes okay you know if someone came up to me
00:34:14was like
00:34:15don't speak to my fiance i'd be like bitch bye go on with yourself like if he say this like
00:34:22this i will
00:34:23learn the punching oh yeah who are you bitch i mean i don't think i can completely cut him out
00:34:33of my
00:34:34life oh my god
00:34:38i want you to figure your out with each other because we're all going to be in each other's lives
00:34:46like rin mikayla's husband yeah you know that is his best friend yeah so if you say you don't want
00:34:54him around then that means i can't spend time with mikayla that's not going to happen like i'm going to
00:34:59hang out with my best friend he's going to be around if you love me you can listen to me
00:35:07i'm listening to
00:35:08you right now i'm just telling you you're trying to start that doesn't need to be started i don't
00:35:14care no you are pissing me off good because i'm over good
00:35:23i'm totally fine with him being the man of the house and acting like the man of the house
00:35:28but it's not just some little culture adjustment i mean i'm not going to let him come in and just
00:35:35change everything about my life that i've been living these past couple of years like
00:35:39these people have been a part of my life whether he likes it or not and honestly if he has
00:35:45such a
00:35:46problem with my american culture then maybe he should have been with a turkish one
00:35:53change this face please i just want this to be over with i don't want to see your face right
00:36:00now
00:36:00just turn turn your back
00:36:09asia so when you get married to my brother how many kids do you intend to have two
00:36:16these two kids you are talking about it's unacceptable you've raised him he's grown let him go i think i
00:36:37prefer four
00:36:37mama look around this is nigeria africa look at that man standing there in the car
00:36:45what enough room in the car you say he gonna get there one way or another
00:36:50those guys you see standing on the bus that's your job they are called bus conductors you see this guy
00:36:57they can't conduct no bus there
00:37:10maybe you look so beautiful do i sweetie you look so fine like a model yeah
00:37:18it's been eight long months i've set my eyes on this beautiful
00:37:23damn cell sitting close to me we had already promised each other that we would do every five
00:37:27to six months and the only reason we beat it this time was because the case was moving so fast
00:37:32we
00:37:33might just be waiting another month or two and then you'll be in the u.s it wasn't easy because
00:37:37sometimes i want to talk to her in person i'm gonna take her out i want to spoil her but
00:37:42i do things
00:37:42i'll just make her smile because i know the kind of things she like
00:37:51i can't wait to get uh to your parents who are we gonna see next where mama we'll see them
00:37:56soon
00:37:56as we get back to the home house son we are almost there so they put on a sweater for
00:38:03my family so you can cover up
00:38:05your body i'll put it on when i get out the car
00:38:12baby when i saw your outfit i'm like there we go again am i supposed to start lecturing you and
00:38:17tutoring you how to present yourself to my parents this is my thing with him it's like
00:38:23sexy sexy sexy i want to see sexy the family they want you to be all the way covered up
00:38:29so it's like a balancing act like how can i be comfortable how can i be cute and how can
00:38:35i be
00:38:35conservative like all at the same time and then be in this heat baby put on your jackets when am
00:38:41i
00:38:41crossing the line i have no idea because you got him saying be sexy 24 7. with me not with
00:38:48my parents
00:38:53what's your step mama mommy daddy
00:39:03oh look at y'all thank you you're so pretty mommy
00:39:15you're welcome you're welcome you're welcome happy to see you happy to see you like you
00:39:22yeah me too well you you can come here come okay come tell your father and then oh on this
00:39:28trip we
00:39:29rented an apartment for the whole family to come together as one and get to know each other and get
00:39:34comfortable with each other i've met the parents but this will be the first time we will be staying
00:39:39such a long time together so you know how you can do your best for a short period of time
00:39:46but as time
00:39:47go on they'll be probably nitpicking me and trying to see you know who i am how i am and
00:39:51stuff like
00:39:51that so hopefully i can i can do good for a longer period of time this is a cola just
00:39:59officially welcome
00:40:00your people okay we eat this thing it will give us life in abundance
00:40:12oh it's sweet it's kind of flashy it's medicinal just swallow it right it's no invite it's with him it's
00:40:18hard
00:40:23oh that's spicy
00:40:27oh god
00:40:31y'all eat this for taste or just for blessing
00:40:33for blessing and then it's medicinal okay you've been in tudec hot i mean i am very honored that he
00:40:43went out his way to welcome me but he could have just gave me a hug mama let me show
00:40:51you your room
00:40:51so you can freshen up you and isha oh thank you mommy thank you daddy you're welcome
00:40:57master being the first son is the most important lesson in our life so what i have in mind for
00:41:06my
00:41:06son is that he must attract a good wife oh my goodness all these snails i am worried though because
00:41:15people say that love is blind hair when you love someone you you you behave as a fool i feel
00:41:24like that
00:41:25is what is going on now oh it's bright in here very very bright i love it you love it
00:41:33yes it's a lot of
00:41:35room i need this closet at my house baby don't worry you i'll i already look all the shoes and
00:41:41purses
00:41:42in the world yeah this is the kind of household dude that's nice i love freestanding tubs too you love
00:41:46your temporary home i'm telling you i was kidding with my parents the other day i told them i was
00:41:52going to stay here stay well sweetie this room oh baby i know they had a milk down they started
00:41:58preaching
00:41:59what'd they say well you can't stay here you know you're married to isha blah blah blah blah blah blah
00:42:04is she right for real yes sweetie you mean i can't stay here
00:42:15sweetie no we're not married since you don't want me to be in your room you don't have no
00:42:18business coming to my room if you want to meet with me downstairs sweetie i love your jokes that's
00:42:24so sweet i love i mean yes yes i'm serious but sweetie on another note but you think everything
00:42:28went well yeah yeah it did your parents look beautiful thank you what else do they have
00:42:35planned the dinner and that's it the kids you're gonna meet them blaze i see oh sweetie no you already
00:42:42know i don't want everybody not busy on this trip i'll be staying with maxwell's parents and his
00:42:52sisters and blaze is literally maxwell's private investigator you know she just dig dig dig dig
00:42:59until they find something so that's what i'm worried about with her all right sweetie let me go
00:43:06freshen up okay okay sorry she will question me to death hey mom well done what's up for the dinner
00:43:16daddy daddy how are you doing fine nice you're welcome oh nice to see you today is the first time
00:43:23i'm meeting asia face to face and i should know her intentions for my brother i am very protective of
00:43:30maxwell we value first son so much we don't joke with our first sons anything that will try to take
00:43:36him away from the family we fight against it by all means
00:43:48i'm just so sorry that i put you and laura in that situation he acted like a clown saying shut
00:43:56your mouth
00:43:56woman is completely unacceptable it's not acceptable behavior i don't think it would
00:44:01be right to even give him another chance honestly mito is not showing me that he loves me that presents
00:44:08real consequences relationship ending consequences
00:44:32you're in too deep
00:44:41this is a huge mess and i don't have any idea
00:44:49what do you do next
00:44:52yesterday was just i don't know he just got in a mood and i just had this moment where i
00:45:02remembered
00:45:04being married before and feeling so alone i'm not gonna walk alone again i'm not gonna do that again
00:45:20i just want to talk to you about what happened
00:45:26how are you feeling today how are you feeling today so so in this moment if i had the ticket
00:45:31i would go back to you
00:45:39i have no idea if mido has booked a flight or not to return home
00:45:45is that scary i don't
00:45:50i'm just so shocked that i'm not sure how to feel about anything
00:46:00i've gotten a few are you okay texts from astra this morning and so we're gonna meet up later on
00:46:07so we
00:46:07can have a conversation about what happened last night
00:46:11i definitely need more time before i speak with mido because it's just too explosive at this moment
00:46:18i'm embarrassed about this situation so badly it's not even funny i'm expecting astral to say run
00:46:46it's good to see you good to see you too it's bad enough when he talks to me like that
00:46:52but not my friends
00:46:54no way it's absolutely heart-wrenching to watch your fiance be a monster in front of your friends
00:47:00i'm devastated i've never seen anything go south that fast in my life it was so frustrating because
00:47:10like the entire like haunted house like he barely even looked at me it broke my heart honestly like
00:47:17for you the way he was acting it was like he thought he was there for a job audition with
00:47:23the haunted
00:47:23house rather than there on a date with you and that was really really heartbreaking to see
00:47:31he got thank you oh wow thank you that's beautiful
00:47:37i would not accept that type of behavior from anyone so i think she cannot brush this under the rug
00:47:46i just i'm over here like get this guy out of here send him home
00:47:52i have to say like no matter what culture you're from saying shut your mouth woman is completely
00:47:58unacceptable it's not acceptable behavior and he tried to intimidate me he was really close to me and
00:48:05you could see like a lot of pent-up anger like his neck was his veins were bulging in his
00:48:11raging it's
00:48:12just raging it was super immature like you're over 40 years old sir grow the up
00:48:21he acted like a clown i want you to calm down i know i'm i really want just like worried
00:48:28for you
00:48:29because i don't be worried i if i was in your position i would be quite honestly like devastated
00:48:34if he's saying that type of stuff to you in front of people then how is he treating you when
00:48:40nobody
00:48:41else is around he's been wonderful some days we've had some of the greatest days there is just not always
00:48:48every day is a great day i understand that but not having a great day shouldn't always result in
00:48:55a complete toddler yeah ask meltdown yeah it was bad do you feel like mido really loves you
00:49:07i don't know to right now i don't know he doesn't seem genuine yeah have you ever felt like maybe
00:49:16he's
00:49:16just using you to get famous or anything he says he came here for me did he really though
00:49:25that's what he says yeah his intentions are honestly very questionable at this point the way he acted
00:49:33behaved treated her like his mido using debbie it kind of seems like he is like it seems like he's
00:49:40acting i don't know if it's for her or if it's for the chance to be in the movies on
00:49:46tv
00:49:49i don't think you can marry this guy w like i honestly don't think you should or could or would
00:49:54like he showed his ass and i don't think he can come back from it i don't think it would
00:50:00be right
00:50:00to even give him another chance honestly he's gonna have to apologize he's gonna have to make some
00:50:05apologies what happens if he doesn't do that though then there's nothing to talk about
00:50:14i'm getting really strange vibes from this guy debbie
00:50:19i am so angry with him because mido is not showing me that he loves me he is not showing
00:50:27me that he cares about me i don't know what he's doing here that presents real consequences
00:50:36relationship ending consequences
00:50:40i'm gonna be very honest with you i have no idea what to do i respect you you're an adult
00:50:45you're
00:50:45gonna make your own decisions but like you should probably send him packing asap
00:50:50girl like get him out my daughter is beautiful and very lovable yeah what is it about my daughter
00:51:05that is so special to you i am super anxious my parents approval means the world to me
00:51:11i want respect i want more weight the only person that i found with all these things was her
00:51:19he sounded a little macho when he said i love respect and loyalty you know that's not what i would
00:51:25have led with
00:51:35so
00:51:36there's something to tell you
00:51:38um
00:51:42you're pregnant yes no
00:51:58Okay.
00:52:00I invited someone you don't like to my birthday party.
00:52:04Okay.
00:52:05On the list of people I don't like, who is it?
00:52:12Um.
00:52:16I invited Brian.
00:52:22That's a little weird.
00:52:23I know.
00:52:24I should have told you earlier.
00:52:28He told me he was here and I was like, come to my birthday.
00:52:31But then I didn't really think very hard about if that would be like a good thing to do.
00:52:37I just kind of got excited and invited him instead of thinking it through with you.
00:52:43So.
00:52:45It puts me in a position because I can't promise I'm not going to be a bit of a dick,
00:52:51but it's your birthday.
00:52:53Oh, the topic that never stops giving, Ryan.
00:52:59I met Ryan in Germany when Katie was doing the Berlin marathon.
00:53:03We all went out to a bar and they were both drunken and I saw that they'd shared a kiss.
00:53:10I wasn't happy with that and Katie was going on to travel with them for two weeks after I'd gone
00:53:18back to the UK.
00:53:19So I got a conversation with Katie and say, this needs to stop or you need to admit that this
00:53:25relationship isn't what you're looking for.
00:53:28Katie was apologetic whilst letting it happen over that trip.
00:53:33And the two weeks while she was away, I was just expecting every text to be an admission of something
00:53:39else stupid that had happened.
00:53:41From what Katie said, they didn't sleep together and I don't want to be living in a relationship where I'm
00:53:47second guessing things.
00:53:49So I'm choosing to take her at her word.
00:53:53I don't know, I just, I'm sick of this, you know.
00:53:59What can I do to make you feel comfortable at this party?
00:54:02You know my feelings about him, I don't trust him.
00:54:05I just don't want anything to go horribly wrong.
00:54:11The thing is, you must know by now what's good behaviour and what's not good behaviour.
00:54:17Like, do I want you to end up having a dozen shots and making out with Ryan or the next
00:54:23guy that you lay your eyes on?
00:54:25Probably not.
00:54:26I don't want you to feel uncomfortable.
00:54:29I want you guys to be able to coexist.
00:54:32I mean, I think what I want is an explanation from him as to his motives and why he thinks
00:54:38that his behaviour was acceptable.
00:54:42Honestly, like, if it were up to me, Ryan would just off and go about his life.
00:54:47And I think that him even being invited is bull****.
00:54:52I think Katie may be taking advantage of me being nice about things, which feels a bit rotten.
00:55:02I don't know what Katie wants to happen with this situation, but she can play games and see how that
00:55:13works out.
00:55:14I don't think it's a good idea.
00:55:17I really want to be a good partner and be a better partner.
00:55:21But yeah, sometimes I just love seeking thrills and excitement.
00:55:28I mean, what do you want?
00:55:29Because sometimes the way you talk about it makes me feel like I'm like a ball and chain.
00:55:33Just kind of like weighting you down and you just want to live a party girl lifestyle.
00:55:40I want you to be able to enjoy your party.
00:55:43But this bull****, like, making out with people, I didn't stand up for it.
00:55:46It's not that relationship that I'm wanting.
00:55:50You know?
00:55:52Yeah.
00:56:04Yeah.
00:56:04I worry because I don't know you.
00:56:06I know my daughter.
00:56:07Yeah.
00:56:08And my daughter's a good person with a beautiful heart.
00:56:11I know that everybody here is concerned.
00:56:13I just like her for papers or things like this, you know?
00:56:17I just want to have the opportunity to show you, you know, I give you proof that it's
00:56:21not my decision, you know?
00:56:23Edward, talk is cheap and we see.
00:56:25We see what you're made of.
00:56:35All right.
00:56:36Well, this was some good.
00:56:37I think that maybe we'll, like, take some of the heat off the group setting and, like,
00:56:42you know, relax, mingle.
00:56:43Drink, drink, drink, drink, eat some more food.
00:56:45Drink, drink, drink some more food.
00:56:46I like that, Pete.
00:56:47And then, um...
00:56:49Maybe we can head outside.
00:56:51Yeah.
00:56:52You want to come with us?
00:56:53Yeah, why not?
00:56:56Okay.
00:56:56It's not a good feeling that Marissa family question if I'm good enough for her.
00:57:02Because Michael even tried to give me, like, alert about, like, oh, this family can be like
00:57:07this, you know?
00:57:08So if they try to do the same thing like Michael's because they're rich, money, class, and all
00:57:16these things, this is a problem.
00:57:18So, um, it's nice to actually be out here in a smaller setting where we can talk.
00:57:22Oh, so nice.
00:57:23I mean, Marissa, as you know, I mean, very smart, very successful, and I don't think
00:57:27she would have taken this chance and this gamble if she didn't believe it was going to
00:57:34work out and introduce you to her kids and bring you into her home that now has to become
00:57:39your home.
00:57:40Yeah, like, he's the first person that I ever introduced to the kids, like, in person.
00:57:44You know, nobody's ever met them before.
00:57:45So it had to be, like, a special person in order for me to even allow that to happen.
00:57:49Right.
00:57:53So, we're all happy you're here.
00:57:55I don't know you well enough not to like you, but what I know of you, I do like.
00:58:01However, people come here from another country.
00:58:04They want to come to America because America's a wonderful place.
00:58:08Honestly, I sacrifice all these things, friends and family, to move here.
00:58:13I understand, like, America is a wonderful country, but I was okay in mine, you know?
00:58:20I appreciate that, but my daughter is beautiful and very lovable.
00:58:25Yeah.
00:58:25And has a heart of gold.
00:58:26She's the most amazing person that I was living in my life, you know?
00:58:29That's my next question.
00:58:31What is it about my daughter that is so special to you?
00:58:55I don't like people lying to me.
00:58:56I hate that feelings, you know?
00:58:59And the only person that I found with all these things was her.
00:59:05And that made me understand, like, that's my person.
00:59:11I am super anxious.
00:59:14My parents' approval means the world to me.
00:59:16But, you know, he sounded a little macho when he said, I love respect and loyalty.
00:59:24You know, that's not what I would have led with.
00:59:25He's leaving the parts out that are truly meaningful to me, which is that he loves the type of person
00:59:31that I am, and he loves my heart and the caring nature that I have.
00:59:36And now, I don't know if they're going to really appreciate what I see in him.
00:59:41What I worry about is, so far your relationship has been in the tropics, in lovely hotels, and everything is
00:59:49done for you.
00:59:50But reality is a whole different ballgame.
00:59:53I think these 90 days, and unfortunately 90 days is never enough, but these are the cards you're given.
00:59:59And these 90 days, you're going to learn a whole lot more about each other than you've ever known before.
01:00:05So maybe having these 90 days are a good thing, you know?
01:00:09I appreciate that you say these things, you know?
01:00:11The only thing that I can promise you is that I'm going to do everything in my hands.
01:00:15And that's all you can do.
01:00:18She believes that this is the man that she wants to spend the rest of her life with.
01:00:22And I think all we could do now is say, let's see.
01:00:26You know, let's see where we go from here.
01:00:29My daughter is an extremely strong woman.
01:00:33I raised her that way.
01:00:34And if she leaves him, he'll survive.
01:00:36Because relationships begin and relationships end.
01:00:39And that may very well happen to them.
01:00:41Oh, well.
01:00:42There you go.
01:00:44I just think there are a lot of challenges.
01:00:46I know my daughter loves you very much, and I believe you love her.
01:00:49I hope it works.
01:00:50I pray it works.
01:00:52And if it doesn't, let's hope that God is with you and that God's will is done.
01:01:02What is that?
01:01:04Are you kidding me?
01:01:05I invested $250 to buy this rock.
01:01:09This is a bad investment.
01:01:11Paula loves to just waste money.
01:01:13But if Paula wants any sort of independence in her new country, she really needs a credit card.
01:01:18I'm trusting you, right?
01:01:20But I am absolutely terrified.
01:01:23I want you to start life differently in the U.S.
01:01:26If I die, it doesn't matter if I have $1 billion in a bank account.
01:01:51You are supporting this with a bag.
01:01:55It doesn't make any sense.
01:01:56If I push this bag away, this will fall.
01:02:01My God.
01:02:11Ten minutes in this position, Thomas.
01:02:13Look at your head.
01:02:14You are red.
01:02:16I'm stretching my legs.
01:02:18Nobody kiss me.
01:02:21You really want to kiss you?
01:02:22Yes.
01:02:23Nobody give me a kiss.
01:02:26I'll kiss you.
01:02:29Silly, come on.
01:02:31Later.
01:02:32All right, here.
01:02:32Grab my hands.
01:02:36Just pull.
01:02:38Oh, my God.
01:02:39Thomas, be careful.
01:02:41I need you to bring me some hangers.
01:02:44There's a couple of white ones.
01:02:46Those are the ones you get from dry cleaning when they give you your shirts back.
01:02:50Can you give me some of yours?
01:02:52Because you don't wear all these T-shirts.
01:02:55Give me more.
01:02:57Maybe 20.
01:02:58Yeah, but these are good hangers.
01:02:59I was thinking about if we can go to the store.
01:03:03I want a mini furniture with drawers, you know?
01:03:07Yeah, we call that a dresser.
01:03:08I'm not sure where you want to even put a dresser.
01:03:11I know, but we need to find a fast solution because I have so much stuff.
01:03:16Look at this.
01:03:16This is only one bag.
01:03:18I need to hang.
01:03:19I would rather give you the closet than get a dresser.
01:03:22Even if you give me the closet, it doesn't make any sense.
01:03:25Only hang stuff.
01:03:27I think hanging your stuff might be a little bit better because it won't.
01:03:29I can hang panties.
01:03:31I can hang socks.
01:03:34This is not enough.
01:03:35Thomas never lived with another woman, so he have no experience at all.
01:03:40I'm the first one.
01:03:42And I need to educate this little baby how to live together because he have no idea.
01:03:49I cleaned out this bucket.
01:03:50You can put, like, socks and stuff in there.
01:03:54How many?
01:03:55Well, this is huge.
01:03:56You can fit a bunch of stuff in there.
01:03:58It's like a good little drawer.
01:03:59I appreciate this, but this is not enough.
01:04:03I don't came here to play any game with you.
01:04:06I just wanted the normal, regular life that I have in Brazil.
01:04:09And that includes closet and drawers.
01:04:12I mean, you got one suitcase?
01:04:14I'm sure your socks and...
01:04:16Yeah, but stop to offer me this.
01:04:18Like, this doesn't fit anything.
01:04:20Okay, well, when it's full up to the top, I'll agree that it won't fit anything else.
01:04:25But right now, it's empty.
01:04:27What is that?
01:04:29Are you kidding me?
01:04:31Look, hold it, hold it.
01:04:33This is a black tourmaline.
01:04:35This is a cleaner.
01:04:36You got scammed.
01:04:37And you need this because you have so much bad energy.
01:04:41This will help you.
01:04:42We'll clean the atmosphere here.
01:04:46If she's trying to start her life new in the U.S., why is a rock the first thing she
01:04:50needs to bring with you?
01:04:51Newsflash, we got plenty of rocks here.
01:04:54Paula's been playing a very dangerous game ever since I met her.
01:04:57She loves to just waste money.
01:04:59And the more that we get closer, the more I feel like she's starting to waste my money.
01:05:04Did you spend money on this?
01:05:06Of course they don't give us...
01:05:07How much does this cost?
01:05:08I invested $250 to buy this rock, but this is an instrument that will give us return.
01:05:16Try to be a magical being at least one time because I'm doing all the work by myself, all the
01:05:22manifestation by my own.
01:05:23If you want memorabilia, why not just find a cheaper stone?
01:05:27There's free rocks all over the place.
01:05:29I'm looking for the baby one.
01:05:31There's a second one like this?
01:05:32A baby, yes.
01:05:34This doesn't mean anything.
01:05:35This is a bad investment.
01:05:38I was spending thousands of dollars on real things, and then you're spending money on silly stuff.
01:05:43You still have your rollerblades, right?
01:05:44And I never say that your rollerblades is a bad investment.
01:05:48This can get me somewhere.
01:05:49This can get me somewhere.
01:05:50That saves gas.
01:05:51This doesn't save anything.
01:05:54This is all my manifestation.
01:05:56This is all the hard work that I'm doing.
01:05:59I show you a totally new world.
01:06:02When I met you, do you remember how many foods you ate?
01:06:05You only ate rice, banana, and meat.
01:06:09You was dry like a grape.
01:06:12You was like this, suck.
01:06:15But say thank you at least.
01:06:18You are crazy to throw my rocks away as you did with my perfume.
01:06:24If you want to lose one teeth, you're going to mess with my rocks, okay?
01:06:28He wants to control every little thing that I do.
01:06:31Like money only worth while I'm alive.
01:06:35If I die, doesn't matter if I have $1 billion in a bank account.
01:06:40That was the first time that I really put our relationship in a point like, would I get
01:06:47married with this guy?
01:06:49He's so stupid and so aggressive.
01:06:53I told the government, I said, hey, I will sponsor this girl financially, all right?
01:06:58But I want to sponsor you.
01:06:59I don't want to sponsor your tiny stuff or your rocks.
01:07:01And I'm just worried that when I give you a credit card that you're going to go too far with
01:07:05it.
01:07:05Put yourself in my shoes.
01:07:07Okay, I understand you.
01:07:08I want to be more conscient with money, but I just want to understand that some specific stuff that I
01:07:14bought is just a symbol of my manifestations.
01:07:18Look, look, look, here's your credit card.
01:07:20This is your credit card with your name on it.
01:07:23I pay the bills for this.
01:07:24I need you to help me survive so that we're in this together.
01:07:30I'll take care.
01:07:31So if you spend a lot of money, I'll have to pay for it.
01:07:34We live in a cashless society.
01:07:36If Paula doesn't have a credit card, I am actually concerned about letting her roam free in the U.S.
01:07:42Like, I just felt like, hey, if Paula wants any sort of independence in her new country, she really needs
01:07:48a credit card.
01:07:50But at the same time, like, I am absolutely terrified about what she's going to do with it.
01:07:55I'm trusting you, right?
01:07:57Can I buy a car?
01:07:58No.
01:08:00Paula fluctuates in and out of credit card debt.
01:08:03I mean, I didn't tell her this, but that credit card has a $25,000 spending limit.
01:08:08Like, I didn't know how to get it any lower.
01:08:09So, like, if she accidentally makes a mistake, she could do some pretty bad damages.
01:08:15I want you to start life differently in the U.S.
01:08:18I want you to say, hey, listen, I want to be more reserved.
01:08:21I want to be more careful with my spending in the U.S.
01:08:23I swear to God, in Brazil, when I want something that I need, money is thrown up from nowhere.
01:08:30It's just magic.
01:08:31That doesn't make any sense.
01:08:33I'm terrified right now.
01:08:39She wants to change my hairline.
01:08:41She wants to change my eyeballs.
01:08:42I suppose.
01:08:44What if he likes the way he is?
01:08:45He doesn't know what he likes until he sees it.
01:08:48You can't tell me he doesn't know what he likes until he sees it.
01:08:50He's a man.
01:08:52I do not accept it.
01:08:54I do not.
01:08:56Go with hairpaws, so...
01:09:17Max was being a little bit more reserved.
01:09:20You know, maybe he's been a little bit chilled because his parents are here.
01:09:23And I know they're very opinionated when it comes to them selecting spouses.
01:09:27But at the end of the day, he knows that God brought us together.
01:09:30You know, so I feel like he just has to stand on faith, knowing that everything is going to be
01:09:34okay in the end.
01:09:48Hey, hey!
01:09:50Mommy and Daddy.
01:09:51Hey, Blaise.
01:09:53Oh, Blaise!
01:09:58Nice to meet you.
01:10:00Okay, let me see my twin.
01:10:01They say, we look alike, though, Blaise.
01:10:03We look alike!
01:10:05Let me greet them up.
01:10:06Oh, my God!
01:10:08You look so pretty!
01:10:11I am so excited to have Aisha and the mom in the house.
01:10:14My sisters and my parents together.
01:10:16I'm worried about meeting Blaise because Blaise is nosy.
01:10:20Hey, literally, let me tell you, she has went through my entire Facebook profile.
01:10:27Facebook came out around 2009.
01:10:31She went through every single picture of mine.
01:10:37And then told Maxwell that she did it.
01:10:39Like, I would be so ashamed.
01:10:40Like, even if I had done that, I don't think I would let anybody know.
01:10:44Welcome, Mom.
01:10:45How was your trip?
01:10:46Oh, it was okay.
01:10:48She tried to sleep the best she could, Blaise.
01:10:51Tried the food.
01:10:52Mom, please wash your hands.
01:10:54Rinse your hands in it, Mom.
01:10:55Just rinse your hands in it.
01:10:56You wash your hands like this.
01:10:58You make your hands clean because you're going to be eating with your hands today.
01:11:02She has washed hands.
01:11:03So you roll it up like this.
01:11:05You dip it in your soup.
01:11:06Take that from vegetables, you know.
01:11:09And you don't chew it.
01:11:10You swallow it.
01:11:11That's why they call it swallow.
01:11:12You roll it up.
01:11:13With your hands.
01:11:17How come I can't chew this?
01:11:19You want to chew it.
01:11:22Okay.
01:11:24What are you still chewing?
01:11:27Let's be honest.
01:11:28Do you like Nigerian food?
01:11:31No, I don't like Nigerian food.
01:11:33The meat is really tough.
01:11:35If they could get it tender, it would be a little better.
01:11:37My wife will teach Asia how to make this meal.
01:11:40Look, let's teach me and Maxwell.
01:11:43No.
01:11:43No, no.
01:11:44Man doesn't enter the kitchen.
01:11:46Man don't enter the kitchen yet?
01:11:47No.
01:11:48Woman owns the kitchen.
01:11:51Oh, okay.
01:11:52You can cook, right?
01:11:53Yeah.
01:11:54I can cook enough.
01:11:56Asia, so when you get married to my brother, how many kids do you intend to have?
01:12:03One, two.
01:12:06Why do you want two?
01:12:07What's your reason?
01:12:09It's an expensive place.
01:12:10To have kids in America is very expensive.
01:12:12These two kids you are talking about is unacceptable.
01:12:24I think I prefer four.
01:12:27Dad, we're going to have what God planned for us to have.
01:12:30How about that?
01:12:36The two children.
01:12:37Are you, are you willing to accept it?
01:12:38No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
01:12:41I do not accept it.
01:12:44I do not.
01:12:46Maybe Maxwell talked to her or maybe she realized her mistake.
01:12:54In Nigeria, what we think about the U.S., we see them as people that are not submissive.
01:12:59Because here in Nigeria, it's expected of you that you must be submissive to that man.
01:13:05I feel like if I have an opinion, just because I'm a woman doesn't mean that Maxwell's not going to
01:13:10listen to me.
01:13:12He listens because he knows that I respect him and he knows that I have his best interest at heart.
01:13:17Like, there's a lot of stuff I tell him to do that he probably don't want to do.
01:13:21But when he sees, like, the benefits of it, then he's like, oh, well, that wasn't so bad.
01:13:26Like, this chemical field, I think it did good.
01:13:28You sure did.
01:13:29I showed them the chemical field.
01:13:30I think, Messi, come closer that you see this.
01:13:32Come to this side.
01:13:36So this was day one.
01:13:41This is day four.
01:13:42So it's already clearing up a little bit.
01:13:44This is serious.
01:13:46Wow.
01:13:47What if he likes the way he is and you are still trying to?
01:13:50He doesn't know what he likes until he sees it.
01:13:52You can't tell me he doesn't know what he likes until he is a man.
01:13:55She wants to change my hairline.
01:13:57She wants to change my eyeballs.
01:13:59Eyeballs!
01:14:01Really?
01:14:02Let me tell you, Blaise, he's been letting the sun damage the white part of his eyes.
01:14:08But here in Nigeria, that white part of our eyes is not usually white.
01:14:12It's not that it's not white.
01:14:13What he's been doing is going out in the sun.
01:14:17And after so much sun damage, as a protector, a special coating of skin rolls over the pupil where people
01:14:24see.
01:14:25And so he has it on the whites.
01:14:26That's what I'm saying, that we Nigerians, that white part is not usually white.
01:14:30Look at mine.
01:14:36Honestly, that's what I'm thinking.
01:14:38Like, are you okay?
01:14:39The eye is a delicate part of the body.
01:14:41It should be his decision.
01:14:43He should be the one saying, I want to get this done.
01:14:45Not someone suggesting it for him.
01:14:49Like, are you going to change everything about Maxwell?
01:14:51No, no, no, no, no.
01:14:52We're good.
01:14:56I know I'm right.
01:14:58And I know we're going to do it.
01:14:59And we're going to continue to do it.
01:15:00And so he's going to have to let them go.
01:15:03Like, you've raised him.
01:15:04He's grown.
01:15:06Let him go.
01:15:15Hello.
01:15:16Hello.
01:15:17This is my friend, Ryan.
01:15:19I like your outfit.
01:15:20I'm not going to be shied away from my fiance's party because some boy from the Midwest decides to turn
01:15:26up.
01:15:27Why are you here?
01:15:29Katie and I have had conversations about what she really wants with her life.
01:15:34There's a reason that this keeps happening, right?
01:15:36Katie, I don't know.
01:15:38Do you know more what you want with your life?
01:15:44Such a bad girl living in a mad world, working it endlessly.
01:15:54Is this it?
01:15:55Yeah.
01:15:55It looks like it.
01:15:56Nice.
01:15:56Hello.
01:15:58Hello.
01:16:00Yay, I'm excited for my birthday.
01:16:02Yes.
01:16:0428.
01:16:0527.
01:16:0627.
01:16:08It's a bit embarrassing.
01:16:21I'm excited.
01:16:22Hopefully, people can make it.
01:16:24I'm trying to confirm with people
01:16:26who's coming.
01:16:27Have you heard from Ryan then?
01:16:30I haven't talked to him on the phone or anything, but we texted.
01:16:33He said, let's have a roll, no tequila shots.
01:16:36And I said, oh, well, yes.
01:16:38And he said, we'll have a ton of fun without them anyways.
01:16:40And then we were talking about maybe going on a run this weekend, but he didn't really say anything.
01:16:47Why do you want to be friends with him, given the amount of drama that is around this situation?
01:16:52He's just fun.
01:16:53And when we're not making poor choices, I think he's like a fun person and he's like a good friend.
01:16:59Like, it'd be like if I was crying in the middle of the night, he might answer.
01:17:04Toxic as f***.
01:17:07I think there's a big kind of have your cake and eat it thing with Ryan.
01:17:12In my mind, like, our relationship is the thing to account for.
01:17:16And if something threatens it in some way, it has to be removed.
01:17:22I don't know.
01:17:23I really like him as a friend.
01:17:25And I really want to be friends with him.
01:17:28How would you feel if I was partying around with other women and...
01:17:35I'd probably be hurt and jealous.
01:17:39And, like, why are you friends with that girl still?
01:17:43I don't want to sound like a hypocrite because, like, we're not in that situation.
01:17:47Even to say that, it sounds dumb.
01:17:52I'd love it if you guys could chat and, like, I don't know.
01:17:56You don't have to be friends with anyone you don't want to be friends with.
01:17:59I mean, what I'm looking for is, like, responsibility.
01:18:02If I'm to, like, take responsibility for being a dip f***.
01:18:06How about we have a competition?
01:18:07Whoever kisses the most people tonight wins.
01:18:09Are you trying to, like, get me to break up with you?
01:18:12Yeah.
01:18:13What?
01:18:13I'll stop.
01:18:19I said, all right.
01:18:24I don't need nobody's help.
01:18:29I'm just like everyone else.
01:18:33I've got problems.
01:18:34I don't need nobody's help.
01:18:39Joshu, I'm having a boost.
01:18:40Can you take this forever?
01:18:42More than hell?
01:18:43Nothing.
01:18:43Hey, girl.
01:18:44Hey.
01:18:45How you doing?
01:18:46I'm stressed out.
01:18:47We're going to be fine.
01:18:48Hello.
01:18:49Hello.
01:18:50Hey.
01:18:50It's nice to see you.
01:18:51Hey.
01:18:52Good to see you, too, buddy.
01:18:53Good.
01:18:54Yeah.
01:18:54Do I have a drink?
01:18:55It's all right.
01:18:56I'm sure.
01:18:56Wait, Josh, do you have my phone secure in your pocket?
01:18:58Yeah, do you want it?
01:18:59Will you lose it?
01:19:00I'm sorry.
01:19:00No.
01:19:00Can you not lose it? Do you promise?
01:19:02Yeah, I got it.
01:19:03Plenty of pockets.
01:19:04So stressed out.
01:19:07Yeah, me too.
01:19:09I am nervous.
01:19:11The last communication between them.
01:19:13Josh sent him a really,
01:19:15see you never, you're a horrible human being text.
01:19:19Nice to see you guys.
01:19:21Happy birthday.
01:19:22Happy birthday.
01:19:23The text was just saying, like,
01:19:25I'm aware of what's been going on.
01:19:28And you're bad.
01:19:28And, you know, it's, you're in the wrong.
01:19:33I don't have space for you in my life.
01:19:36That was their last interaction, not a positive one.
01:19:38Yeah.
01:19:40Is that number one?
01:19:41Yeah.
01:19:42All right.
01:19:42Plus a little bit of tequila.
01:19:44Okay, so number two.
01:19:46I need more alcohol.
01:19:48Do you feel like you made the right choice
01:19:50to come back to America?
01:19:52Maybe.
01:19:53Maybe.
01:19:54I miss London, kind of.
01:19:56Like, it's a good time.
01:20:01No, no, no, no.
01:20:03It's going to be awkward.
01:20:06Hey, nice to see you.
01:20:08Hello.
01:20:09Hi.
01:20:11It's my friend Ryan.
01:20:13Hi.
01:20:14Nice to meet you.
01:20:15How did that date?
01:20:15Um, she showed up by my run club one time
01:20:18and then pre-appreciated me at the
01:20:19during the Berlin Marathon.
01:20:21Nice.
01:20:23Well, this is for you.
01:20:24Oh, thank you.
01:20:25I'm so excited.
01:20:27It's really heavy, actually.
01:20:30Katie is my, uh, whirlwind friend.
01:20:35She is always fun to hang around with
01:20:38and creates the most interesting opportunities
01:20:41and situations.
01:20:45I'm dying.
01:20:46You're dying?
01:20:47This is a lot.
01:20:49The last time I saw Josh was, uh, in Oktoberfest.
01:20:54I would say Katie and I got a little bit too drunk
01:20:58and did some things that were inappropriate
01:21:01and, um, things are not left in the best place.
01:21:08I like your outfit.
01:21:10I like yours, too.
01:21:14So, how is tonight going for you?
01:21:16I mean, it's quite fun, but Katie is a bit of a wild card.
01:21:20When did you figure that one out?
01:21:22Oh, day two, three, four.
01:21:25Do you think Josh calmed you down at all?
01:21:27Did he calm me down?
01:21:28Sometimes.
01:21:29But I feel like every time I think I'm calm, I'm not calm.
01:21:33I'm just going crazy.
01:21:35Yeah.
01:21:35Isn't that what's great about her, though?
01:21:39Do you think you could settle down or do you still, like,
01:21:42do you still crave the party life?
01:21:44Do you still crave being crazy?
01:21:45I crave the party life.
01:21:46She's got a good heart.
01:21:48She's just unpredictable.
01:21:52I'm conflicted because on one side I want to, um, kind of say my piece
01:21:57and, uh, kind of get my points across,
01:22:00but doing so means, uh, thinking back to that drama.
01:22:05I'm going to get Josh so we can chat outside and have a chat.
01:22:09Bye.
01:22:12Hey, can we have a chat outside?
01:22:14Yeah.
01:22:14Okay, let's go outside.
01:22:15Turn around.
01:22:20But I'm not going to be shied away from my fiance's party
01:22:23because some boy from, what, Chicago in the Midwest?
01:22:27Some boy from the Midwest decides to turn up.
01:22:39Why are you here?
01:22:42Um, it seemed like a fun time to hang out with a friend.
01:22:48And, uh, Katie and I have had quite a few conversations
01:22:52about what she really wants with her life.
01:23:02There's a reason that this keeps happening, right, Katie?
01:23:08I don't know.
01:23:09Do you know more what you want with your life?
01:23:13I think so.
01:23:16Like, they're going to be married.
01:23:24I don't know.
01:23:25Next time on 90 Day Fiancé.
01:23:28If we have some stubborn things that we need to take care of,
01:23:31we've got a little pulsating action going on.
01:23:35I don't want to be...
01:23:37I am sort of horny, like...
01:23:39Stop!
01:23:41We fight probably daily about being clean.
01:23:44$800 is a lot of money.
01:23:47I don't have money.
01:23:48I don't have a car.
01:23:50Watch that finger.
01:23:53Oh, my God, guys.
01:23:56You saw my apartment, like, instead of couch, we have a bed.
01:24:01Thomas and I, we are super disconnected.
01:24:03I don't want to leave, like, a refugee inside my own apartment.
01:24:09One day, I will be like, you know what?
01:24:14And go back to Brazil, really.
01:24:20These last few days have not been easy for me.
01:24:24You want to come from me all the time.
01:24:27You're going to be overwhelmed.
01:24:28Okay, Dad, I'm going to stop you.
01:24:30Because I'm trying to settle in and trying to figure out how the f*** I'm going to do
01:24:35everything that I do now and take on another person to care for in my life.
01:24:39If you take like that, this is not going to work, you know?
01:24:46He told me that he's with his friends, some old friends,
01:24:50but I didn't know that Nicole is there.
01:24:52Like, the last four years, like, y'all have been engaged,
01:24:55and they've also been hanging out.
01:24:58I love Shay, but he stubbed my back.
01:25:02I've heard him, like, tell her, like, he loves her.
01:25:06I can't marry this man.
01:25:12Katie.
01:25:13No, I'm being crazy, folks.
01:25:14You're being crazy.
01:25:16I thought we were past this, but clearly we're not.
01:25:19I am done with this bulls**t.
01:25:23I want to.
01:25:25This is bulls**t.
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